@@tynikagrant6995 HE HAD THREE BABY MAMAS ALREADY WAS THE BIGGEST REDDEST ONE. He also cheated on her before marriage and children. She should’ve walked away THEN!
Yep I remember him cheating on her so much that first year they got together and she was an idiot and kept the child and married him. Him having all of those baby mamas was the main red flag!
@@SugaSuga008 Exactly. Men are so coddled: it's never their fault, that they cheated/abused/neglected/etc. And then, we act surprised, that they have zero impulse control. We hail literal toddlers as "leaders" of the community, no wonder said community is broken. 🙄🤦🏾♀️
I still remember how Rubi rose posted her bruises from when ddg hit her, posted texts of how ddg was cheating on Halle and then halle goes and tweets "the devil will not win today".. not saying halle deserves what she got... But when they show you who they are believe them ... And when you play stupid games you win stupid prizes ,🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ She was a willing participant to his mess
Let’s just be real. She thought she was better. Maybe she is better in terms of career choices, who can really say. But she felt as though she was better, & I would bet a MILLION dollars the main person telling her this was DDG! these dudes never fail to pit women against each other and it’s all for the fight to be over them! He was likely still telling Rubi rose whatever would work for her as well. This is how these dudes operate! If you aren’t a strong woman, if you need male validation to determine your worth- you will fall for it every single time. And you’ll be spending decades going through phone, catching him in lies, playing cat & Mouse games to prove fake points to each other, etc
A lot of women are like that. They call the ex bitter when all you be trying to do is tell them the person they are dealing with. And listen to whatever lies the men put in their ear
I remember Halle called us "obsessed" when it came to her pregnancy. Nah sis, we were confused as to why you let that man get you pregnant at the height of your career!
The way this type of comment would get a person dragged at one point for not minding their own business and showing anything other than unconditional support for those two like we're supposed to be happy she got knocked up by trash...
@@Rod-w1g We aren't? We are literally just seeing what people are putting out there. Very odd comment to make on someone saying celebs shouldn't share their business...
@Rod-w1g If I say people choose to make their relationships public how does that indicate I live vicariously through them? Quite honestly, I miss the days when we knew less about celebrities
DDG has a history of using women for content, and has finally admitted that on his own. Profiting from your relationship is not worth the turmoil it causes in real life.
DDG was steady calling Halle his wife but wouldn’t put a ring on it even after the baby. And every time her career reached a new height, he’d make a song or a statement that’d tear her back down.
he would call her “wifey” and when people would ask him why he didn’t marry halle before impregnating her, twitter would call people “nosey” and “messy”.
Men like that know exactly what they’re doing and are very tactical Let’s face it, marrying him wouldn’t exactly be the best option, but at least him offering marriage, would have shown his intentions were more serious and he was willing to build a foundation. But he wasn’t going to do any of that, therefore he didn’t deserve to be made a father, imo.
@@blackroyalness9780because this type of relationship resonates with a lot of people. men who impregnate women they hate and women allowing themselves to be stuck with a man through a child and that’s why they’re so defensive when people call out ddg and halle.
Your so right about the internet warning these women about the men they're choosing to date because there aren't rose tinted shades on the internet that cover the flaws of their partner, DDG was especially terrible to Halle when that Rubi Rose incident happened but instead of Halle opening her eyes and seeing we weren't hating but warning she bucked back and doubled down on DDG just to end up with a kid and stay attached to a man that was going out of his way to ruin Halle's shine during her Little Mermaid promo while he just breaks up with her on IG and goes on about his life like plssss, we want better for these girls than the girls want for themselves it seems :((
It's because they are young and naive. We were all naive at one point. Maybe not to the extent of them, but we all received advice that we did not take and it blew up in our faces. We are older, so we know better but these young bucks wanna learn from experience. Welp, here it is!
@@changes649 not gonna hold you, I always listened to the advice given to me cause if I could avoid a detrimental situation then imma move around it, my grandma always said a hard head made for a soft behind so whether it was family or friends I made sure to take any help to heart 😭😭 a lot of these people just hard headed and stubborn and think they know more so you gotta let em learn
I hate to compare it, but Halle was on the path to becoming a Zendeya and had to choose that fool. She had the looks and the voice and could quickly get prominent roles after Little Mermaid and Colour Purple. Like what was her management/PR team doing allowing her to be with DDG and not controlling his idiotic behaviour online as it affects her brand. I guess they don't get involved with her personal life, just acting and singing.
@757Princess I never said it wasn't. But there was a time when there was a level of mystery and we could only speculate and nothing was solidified until yearrrrsssss later and by then the tea was moldy and we already moved on. Nowadays we are inundated with every facet of their every move from every blogger, every tabloid, ever social media platform. The only people who have mastered the mystery is Jay Z and Bey which is why them skeletons is fighting out the closet not happening in real time every single day 😩
It's so frustrating to watch. Like why can't be date bm who are in the same league? They always choose the men who would never be with them if they roles were reversed
5:28 That’s why these “yasss Halle’s free” tweets are making me scratch my head cause halle is a grown woman who chose to play with that man knowing who he was and how he got down. She was a willing participant but people are trying so hard to separate her and act as though he had a wool pulled over her eye. I could never be in somebody’s close friends and see them talk about how their man did then and still lay with him, I could never watch a woman post screenshots of my man hitting her up in her dms cause we had an argument. Halle made her bed.
Understood but who hasn’t made a bad decision romantically at 20+ years old it’s just the difference is that she is in the public eye. It’s unfortunate that she had to learn this way, but people should give her grace because she still young. She made a mistake that most people have already made two times over. I hope she learns from this
It’s because she’s pretty with a soft voice, so some people are moved to coddle her. Meanwhile, I read her behaviour as egotistical, misguided and reckless. All of this mess was easily avoided, but it’s what she wanted, so that’s on her.
1st sentence is spot on. Most are fooled by the sweet voice but at the end of the day we really don't know these people in real life. She was attracted to him for a reason and clearly have some things in common with him.@@alkahinat4558
Halle brought her profile down deliberately deciding to become pregnant by DDG. She could have just dated him, and be careful to protect herself but she is not who we think she is and it’s ok. But let’s not be fooled by appearances. We don’t know these people and not all are earnest. Talent doesn’t equate decency and wisdom.
@@alkahinat4558 egotistical,misguided and reckless is literally the life of a person who is in their twenties. Hindsight is always 20/20. Being understanding doesnt mean coddle? How can i coddle person who I personally dont even know?
Cardi should have learned a lesson from how Offset treated his baby mommas, not to mention that he cheated on her before they married. Halle still had DDG's baby after he posted disrespectful stuff about her on social media and cheated on her. He was jealous of her being in that movie. Steve Harvey warned Keke Palmer to pick a man on her level, and she didn't listen.
Well in Keke's case dude was a jump off. He wasn't meant to stick around but they got lazy with contraception and she got pregnant. She only tried to make the relationship work because of the baby.
Cardi and Offset: Were cheating on both partners prior to them officially getting with each other. Was never going to last. DDG & Halle: Start of relationship was messy because Halle was friends with Rubi. DDG also childishly texted Rubi whenever him and Halle argued. Also was never going to last. Moral of the story: Relationships built on shaky foundations will always crumble. Give yourself enough time to know someone before having a baby. Lastly, stop airing personal problems out on the internet.
I think that’s why so many of us add our voices to the conversation when these public relationships start disintegrating into mess-it’s relatable, we’ve seen it before. That’s why we’re good at spotting the red flags. There’s a therapist I follow on here who uses public relationships to encourage her viewers to spot the red flags. And not just spot them, but apply that knowledge to our own lives But shout out to all the women who used to be a Halle, Keke or Cardi, congratulations on learning your lessons and keep doing the damn thing! ❤
Agreed sister. Many of us have had to learn and the journey has not been easy by any means. One of the hardest parts is learning to forgive yourself for things you knowingly did, participated in or allowed.
A lot of us have seen these same signs and red flags 🚩 in the relationships we have had in our lives. We can spot them out easily in others. We know how it’s going to end.
@@Strawberrythievess you can but Stan culture and really the current state of social media thrives off parasocial relationships. The more a celeb shares the more some people feel connected. I for one wish they’d all just hush.
The fact that DDG was the one to put out a statement and Halle didn’t is exactly why I can’t stand either of them. He STAYS putting their business out there and always has & I can’t stand it.
@@Aname87naw, he has PR…that’s who told him to release the statement. It wouldn’t make sense for her to write it when they pay public relations pros to stage their lives for them & release press statements for them…including writing what they post.
Yup. Everything every single thing he was giving attention to. I'm like your girlfriend is purposely not saying anything keep your mouth shut. Baby Halo's face. He revealed that, the fact that they were dating. He aint slick. I'm sure he planned that putting out live videos when she was walking around. And keep in mind , halle rarely puts out stuff on her own page. She chooses what she wants to put out there, obviously. For business reasons, like a project she's working on or a photo shoot of an event she's attending. For a good while the only time if people want to see if she was alive , they had to go on his stuff , but I don't follow him And I wasn't going to.🤷🏾♀️😒
Cause these men are using them for their fame… Black women need to start learning from black men, and start dating UP!!!!!!!!!!! Because if the fame was flipped, none of these women would be their man’s top pick… They wouldn’t even look at those women… Sad, but true!!!!
💯 been saying that !! But unfortunately Cardi would’ve still been Off - cheats pick because she isn’t black he dates mostly either very light skinned unambiguous black women or Latin women. All his women kinda look alike .
Oh she is determined to be like Monica. I just hope her career can remain a focal point because so far it is. Constantly picking dudes who are absolutely worthless, they get a baby- which is a tie in to her resources and go from there. I’m thinking at least Monica has a basketball player one time. Smh
Toss in Naomi Osaka and Cordae. It’s always irritating when ppl broadcast their relationship then get mad when it’s discussed. Also, I’m far from a traditionalist but why tie yourself to a man via pregnancy in the height/infancy of your career esp as a woman who’s more talented/history-making?
@@popnotesYT Displaying every (detailed) facet of one’s relationships online a la Cardi B or vlogger. Esp the toxic/problematic sides of that relationship.
These women also have to recognize their part in participating in the pain they endure. You gotta start seeing the flags and leaving. These men they’re dating aren’t good boyfriends because these men are insecure and don’t value women and then they use pregnancy as a way to control women.
And that’s a lot of them tho… no one wants to admit the toxicity of bm… even their preferences are dealing with it. But we can’t blame bm for being that way when no one holds them accountable and diverting blame… it’ll only get worse… watch.
I think a lot of times they assume that everybody is a hater. You can't hear the tone of somebody's voice through a comment. So a lot of times people will speculate the tone that you use because we can't hear it. I said all of this with an attitude in my tone and you can't even pick up on that.. Because of this when people are even trying to give them helpful feedback they think somebody being a hater and it's like nah sis. We just see what you don't.. it's fine to date these people but stop giving them kids. DDG literally was dismissive when someone said where they going to get married and he said it was too soon. But at the same time how is it too soon to get married but not too soon to have a baby.
deeper than that its cptsd. people of childhood trauma that effects how they move period. the comments dont matter. people are not logical. we are mostly feelings. folks are going to make decisions based off the models they have created from things they learn from when they are children. thats a fact
Every single time. That was my first thought. They disregard the internet and I'm not saying listen to all the noise but all of these men were CLOCKED hard, by black women especially. You don't see Russell Wilson getting dragged by women/black women online, you see men dragging him. There's a reason for that. I'm so mad because fr SO MANY PEOPLE TOLD THEM !! they want to say "get out of my relationship" as if they're not posting those red flags constantly for us to see!
I definitely see a change in women choosing themselves and I love that for us. I will also say though, regardless of a person's status in society, there are way too many people experiencing similar situations/outcomes for all of us to not know any better. Like you said, there are patterns. When are we actually going to start moving with purpose, leaving people who don't mean us any good where they are, and continue doing and being around people who truly care about us?
Well, this was Halle's first love, and she is still young, so I never thought it would last. He is extremely public, and I can't imagine being with anyone like that. Keke should NEVER have said a thing about her baby daddy and Cardi is 😬. Offset is not it...
I have been saying this. Celebrities tell us we don’t know them, and that we are assuming, but they literally share almost every aspect of their life, almost 24/7.
@@rucianapollard4057 thats a different situation. Beyonce is private which is why her career continues to thrive because she does not give into the parasocial relationships ppl make up like a DDG, Nicki minaj, etc….
they’re right, we don’t know them/their life-it’s much worse. They only show us the good parts and it’s still lookin like ish so imagine how bad it actually is 😆 😅
@@havesomedecorem4170 that's not true. Beyonce does 100 percent give into para social behaviors but y'all are forgetting why she is private. Interviewers were literally so malicious to her and so we're talk show host. It's out of trauma. Not because of smart business moves.
@@havesomedecorem4170 even then. You're still only seeing part of their life. We don't know all of it. Things add up to a relationship being over. Chores, cheating, family, time, priorities. We don't see all that. People talking about their kids but we don't know if the parenting dynamic was part of the break up. We don't know.
it’s a control tactic so they can stay in your house, legally know who you’re dating and where you are at all times for the next 10+ years…notice men already want to know all that stuff? this is how manipulative men secure that fr.
Or maybe it was Halle ... i feel the relationship was just supposed be seasonal. But accidentally got pregnant. And to protect the image, she stayed for a minute.
I'm very particular about what someone says, no matter the situation or anger or emotion....offset saying "I won, you're my baby mama" truly says alot, if Cardi goes back to him then wow....
This statement right here! He said the quiet part out loud. A lot of men really think this way. It's a form of control to them, an achievement to have a harem of baby mamas that they're forever attached to. i don't want to have kids for this reason right here.
@@tmajuru559 but no, I think Cardi knew what she was doing too, asides wanting a Happy family she actually always wanted 3kids from one father and she said this severally...so maybe after the third pregnancy & he still cheated she's leaving for good.
But like how do you know this? This is another part of para social relationships. Thinking we know these peoples relationships is insane. We don't know them. We don't know how they felt. The extent of the struggles they've had in their relationship.
I agree but that’s also bc in the black community no one is allowed healthy avenues to date. Black girls are told to not look at men and so when they do, of course, they have juvenile understanding of love and connection. Same with boys, they are not presumed innocence or boyhood and so go about dating aggressively as well. For them dating alot of women is a sign of masculinity.
I had a toxic ex that kept saying weird things and tried to act like I had to be there to hear it . I ghosted him and he stalks but still I stand on business not to entertain the energy cause my worth I would love to have some and show it .... I love me too much to keep letting men be my undoing . I want that for everyone
NOT TO MENTION THE PROBLEM OF THE CONTENT CREATORS COVERING THE BREAKUPS AND IMPLYING THE WOMEN THAT HAD CHILDREN ARE NOW CONSIDERED USED GOODS LIKE THATS NOT PROBLEMATIC THEY ACT LIKE THE WOMANS LIFE IS OVER BECAUSE THEY ARE NOW SINGLE WITH A CHILD
Lets not pretend that being a single mother responsible for a child is not going to affect your life differently then the men who regularly abandon entire families on a regular basis to great success. It sucks. A lot. And we need to start calling all these baby dadies with multiple children with different women the hos they are. There needs to be more consequences to the men who contantly create children without any care or responsibility. They nasty, very nasty. Stop f** with them ladies. You got a baby mama? Boy bye!
Never the same energy for the men, and it’s probably because of how society doesn’t even place parenting responsibilities on men like that anyway. It’s always the woman. It’s always been the mother.
I suggest these women forgive themselves. That’s the hardest part of the journey. Focus on your children, but forgive yourself. When you forgive yourself- it allowed forgiveness of others as well. Don’t hold it in . Let it out. Understand that you did what you did at a moment in time because you believed in it. And MOVE FORWARD!
Another issue is everyone thinks they are the exception and learn like many of us they we are apart of the rule. Myself included 😢 a wise person learns from others mistakes.......
James earl Jones and more had contempt for BW, but most of his fans were BW. Sammy Davis Jr, Sidney and Harry are no different than Brian McKnight or Offset or kanye or alot of pookie and ray jays
I understand that celebrities deserve privacy, like everyone else, but I don't appreciate being gas-lit by people who are more famous than Barney and have their relationships plastered all over the interweb as if what we see them posting about their relationship is not what we actually see. I will never forget when D.D.G. referred to Halle as a *b.* in a song that was dissing her for her clout, and everyone's reaction of disbelief that anyone would call-'that'-out.
Yeah, but dude was also abusing her, so it probably would have been better if someone did know, so she didn't go a decade before realizing she needed to leave.
I don't know much about him, but he seems EXTREMELY jealous and like he doesn't like to see her happy or enjoying herself too much. You should never date a man like that. EVER.
I never cared for DDG and was shocked that she would have agreed to be in a relationship with him but I digress. She found out and even stayed while he publicly humiliated her. I hate to say she “deserved” how she was treated but she definitely didn’t have to be so nasty when the public tried to help her see through his facade. She gave very sheltered, very weak, very much first boyfriend ever in life
13:27 I said the exact same thing, I bet on everything that Halle was throw off by DDG’s post. I think DDG decided to do a breakup post to get ahead of the situation. At the end of the day, I hope Halle and her baby have a great life together and that Halle creates some strong boundaries surrounding her relationship with her BD 😒. Also, KOR, I appreciate you speaking plainly on this situation….I live for that 👏🏾
Some women think that if " he gets with me, he will not cheat on me", or " I can fix him". Sadly that doesn't happens. If it walks like a duck & sounds like a duck, it's a duck.🤔🤨🙄
Social media is NOT the problem! The real issue no one is discussing is now days women like men more then the men like them! Now days you have more women asking men out on dates and proposing then men asking! People keep trying to re-write the law of God… “A man who finds a wife has found a good thing!” Not to be too religious, but Men are supposed to seek a woman, court her, and marry her! Not the other way around! Cardi was trying to prove her love to a man who didn’t even like her, same with Halle, and KeKe! A older woman told me relationships only work when a man loves a woman more and I’m starting to believe that! Men today see women as just another option and the women are allowing it! If women had more morals, men would value them more! But there’s always a woman willing to open her legs for a man who doesn’t even deserve her! 🤷🏽♀️
Why do women have to correct THEIR behavior because men are acting indecent and diabolical? The problem is the men, has been the men, and will continue to be men in this particular issue! If a man wants to cheat he will cheat no matter how good and morally upright the woman is. Offset and DDG and them could have been with women who conduct themselves like saints and they STILL would've acted foolish because that is their character!!
People aren’t going to listen to strangers on the internet if they don’t listen to their own family members or friends. At the end of the day we are strangers. Our opinion will never matter to them cause we don’t know what’s really going on
We notice patterns, body language, and so much more than these celebrities think. I haven't been rocking with Halle ever since I realized she just flat out lied about being pregnant. It's a difference between being private and lying. And the lying thing was WEIRD
I must be out if the loop? When did she lie about being pregnant? I remember people talking about her being pregnant and her not explicitly saying yes?
@trackgrad08 That's true! That's why he has to have the mindset of wanting a wife before having kids. Plus, we have to start trusting our intuition and using discernment. 9 times out of 10, we see the red flags and doubts, but we ignore them.
@@cornbreadjack again. Those times weren't good either. People just made ish up to make people in the relationships (often the women) look like villains. Please y'all take the rose colored glasses off. Please. We say we hate drama farming but entertainment tonight was the og😭
I am glad you made this video. But not to shift blame onto the women (because straight men have a lot of internal work to do) but it does make me question their choices. These men have not hidden who they were. The red flags are glaringly obvious that even the general public can see it. It makes me question why do they stay? How is their self-esteem?
This video is off, these women need to take responsibility for their part. They're warned about those men and still they choose to stay with them. Keke Palmer choose to have a child with a stay at home boyfriend and is back posting photos with him. Cardi seems to just be clout chasing with offset.
I KEEP saying JO doesn't love Simone & I get dragged. I know what I see & I know what I feel. JO is from the same city as me & most men here black & white are OPPORTUNIST. The way he talked about her in that podcast I was embarrassed for her & she's just sitting to the side smiling. Girl bye. He talked about her like she wasn't even there cause @ first you didn't know she was there. She actually sat there & said, "In a few years they won't call him Simone Biles husband they'll see me & say there goes Jonathan Owens wife." Does she REALLY believe that...???🤦
@@squirrelsinmykoolaid That is very true. I've been fooled before and I have to be honest with myself about that but I know girls/women who are specifically attracted to bad boys. They go out of their way to date them for the thrill or hoping to be the one who changes them and then they're surprised when he acts exactly as a "bad boy" does.
With Halley and DDG I know the relationship is none of my business, but am i the only one who thinks that the breakup is very weird? like.What was it that crossed the line because he did a lot of stupid shit 😑 ( Even the sister got mad one time) On top of that Now that you have a whole CHILD you want to break up? I'm kind of mad that they're breaking up NOW while halo's in the picture. 😮💨
@WhoAuthorizedThis TOO predictable! The baby mama outcome?! I mean come on!😫😡🙄 my Dumb ass thought they were going at least gonna see this through a few more years like when Halo's maybe five or ten or something. I was really hoping Halle was smart enough to dump him before he was even conceived. 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Exactly this! Celebrities capitalize off of the internets interest in them and whatever they DECIDE to share but refuse to accept that not every comment / opinion is going to be complimentary and feed their ego. I always wonder- don't they have good friends / family around them to also warn them about these vile men they're getting with???? How is it that the internet are the only group who see them for who they are? Obvs taking into account their lifestyle / exposure etc
I don’t think many relationships can last when they become content for the public I think Beyoncé and JayZ , Rihanna and Rocky Hell even Oprah and Steadmon have been doing it correctly and I’m sure there’s some more but they come to mind right now because they show parts of their lives but not everything everyday all day
Did Beyonce create an album and multiple singles about Jay-Z’s infidelity? Suffering behind close doors and in public doesn’t make much of a difference
@@louenatnine51 unfortunately in this world we live in that does make a big difference though it changes the way people react and respond as a person who was with someone for 15+ years I can only imagine how much worse the bad times would have been if we were doing it PUBLICLY
@@louenatnine51 even the whole making up part of things have to be 10 times harder if it was made content for the whole world first! I can’t even imagine how that feels and I wouldn’t want to
@@aron.michael You know what, you make a good point. I guess it just bothers me that so many people, even those of celebrity status it seems, have support systems that can’t get through to them. But love is irrational and what not
None of those males liked or even loved their women. They were jealous of them, and didn't get any real notoriety until they were attached to the women. They stayed wanting to humble them and trapping them with babies. Sad.
If everyone is saying the same thing about these men, it wasn’t coming from a place of being a hater … everyone can’t be wrong .. love these women but they were swimming in a sea of red flags and had no problem with it 🤷🏽♀️
Celebrities saw how social media was making "regular" people famous and they wanted in on the attention...even after we told them to stay away. Well, they wanted the attention and that attention is ripping their lives apart. When have you EVER seen Auntie Angela and Uncle Courtney telling us their business? Most people didn't even know Samuel Jackson was married to LaTanya Richardson, let alone married to her for 30 years! Because they keep their relationship off the internet. Love you Hailey but um, yeah🤷🏾♀️
Halle was one classy lady...man!!!! Halle was unavailable to us! All we knew was her voice music and acting.And we looooooved that Oh that girl was classy .....until she started tweeting all over Twitter talking BS protecting DDG. I was like huh so this was Halle😂
I’m not one to be obsessed with other people’s relationships and the few things I have learned about all of these relationships you mentioned was very toxic and sad. Celebs are humans but they seem to not learn as quickly as the general public despite all the resources they have at their disposal. It was also funny how on Instagram there was a following that kept saying that all the bitter black women are happy because of the break ups 🙄 actually a lot of BW are clapping because as a collective we are learning and aren’t putting up with the same old okey doke so the general public men are getting mad and feel like they must humble women as a whole
These girlies are not realising they are with messy guys until it's too late even though the audience can see through the red flags and warn them relentlessly
Insecure men shouldn’t be with confident, secure women until they have healed and gained self-confidence. Because if they don’t, they’re gonna disrespect that woman and do everything they can to tear that woman down. We see it a lot with the red pill men. They don’t want a woman who is confident, who’s sure of herself, knows what she wants, etc. They bash those women because they know if they were to approach a confident woman, she’s going to see them and all their BS. The red flag sensors are going to go off, and she’s going to run for the hills. She won’t give them the time of day. That’s also why they prefer younger women; younger women will see them and their trifling behavior and see it as charming or cute because THEY DON’T KNOW ANY BETTER.
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The red flags with Cardi and Offset was always there
Sure damn was. I said youn lay down with no man or woman who got hella co parents before you. Those are the red flags
What were they?
@@tynikagrant6995 HE HAD THREE BABY MAMAS ALREADY WAS THE BIGGEST REDDEST ONE. He also cheated on her before marriage and children. She should’ve walked away THEN!
Yep I remember him cheating on her so much that first year they got together and she was an idiot and kept the child and married him. Him having all of those baby mamas was the main red flag!
@@PrettyDope I didn't know he cheated on her before they married. Him having 3 BM is a red flag tho?
These men are indeed trash and they drag* their partners DOWN!
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Periodtttttt 🎯
Exactly but no one hold these ninjas accountable so they’ll continue to be 🗑️ while we tell women to go to therapy for choosing wrong lmao
@@SugaSuga008 Exactly. Men are so coddled: it's never their fault, that they cheated/abused/neglected/etc. And then, we act surprised, that they have zero impulse control. We hail literal toddlers as "leaders" of the community, no wonder said community is broken.
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period.
I still remember how Rubi rose posted her bruises from when ddg hit her, posted texts of how ddg was cheating on Halle and then halle goes and tweets "the devil will not win today".. not saying halle deserves what she got... But when they show you who they are believe them ... And when you play stupid games you win stupid prizes ,🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
She was a willing participant to his mess
Yes to everything said.
A willing participant - and a major troller. This relationship revealed much about her - concerning!
She thought she was different 🤣🤣
Let’s just be real. She thought she was better. Maybe she is better in terms of career choices, who can really say.
But she felt as though she was better, & I would bet a MILLION dollars the main person telling her this was DDG! these dudes never fail to pit women against each other and it’s all for the fight to be over them! He was likely still telling Rubi rose whatever would work for her as well. This is how these dudes operate! If you aren’t a strong woman, if you need male validation to determine your worth- you will fall for it every single time. And you’ll be spending decades going through phone, catching him in lies, playing cat & Mouse games to prove fake points to each other, etc
A lot of women are like that. They call the ex bitter when all you be trying to do is tell them the person they are dealing with. And listen to whatever lies the men put in their ear
I remember Halle called us "obsessed" when it came to her pregnancy. Nah sis, we were confused as to why you let that man get you pregnant at the height of your career!
The way this type of comment would get a person dragged at one point for not minding their own business and showing anything other than unconditional support for those two like we're supposed to be happy she got knocked up by trash...
Her boss..
Or why she was hiding it and denying when we obviously knew. Nobody really cared.
This is why y’all have to detach from certain celebrities they don’t really care about your support.. it’s fake
Zendaya and Tom Holland don't share their relationship. No celebrity has to. It's a choice that they're making.
Quit living vicariously through people you see on tv
@@ncpsbh1504 and yet people still speculate on them every time something happens.
@@Des17Sexactly! You can’t win!
@@Rod-w1g We aren't? We are literally just seeing what people are putting out there. Very odd comment to make on someone saying celebs shouldn't share their business...
@Rod-w1g If I say people choose to make their relationships public how does that indicate I live vicariously through them? Quite honestly, I miss the days when we knew less about celebrities
DDG has a history of using women for content, and has finally admitted that on his own. Profiting from your relationship is not worth the turmoil it causes in real life.
Now he's exploiting his son too....Halle should've listened and seen it coming😭
DDG was steady calling Halle his wife but wouldn’t put a ring on it even after the baby.
And every time her career reached a new height, he’d make a song or a statement that’d tear her back down.
Halle really messed up by becoming his baby momma
he would call her “wifey” and when people would ask him why he didn’t marry halle before impregnating her, twitter would call people “nosey” and “messy”.
Men like that know exactly what they’re doing and are very tactical
Let’s face it, marrying him wouldn’t exactly be the best option, but at least him offering marriage, would have shown his intentions were more serious and he was willing to build a foundation. But he wasn’t going to do any of that, therefore he didn’t deserve to be made a father, imo.
That's why I don't trust men that call their girlfriend "wife/wifey". I think it's a tactic to keep the women waiting.
This is why im 32 single no kids these ninjas are crazy
Good for you 👍
Preach 🙌🏾
I am in the same boat. We gotta pick wisely
@@Kayla-kd8ov I feel ya💯
Absolutely 💯
DDG hated Halle since she became the lil mermaid and I hate that she allowed him to impregnate her! 🥺
NO SERIOUSLY!
She couldve done better ive said that and everyone was calling me a hater
It's called birth control..protect ya bodies bw
@@blackroyalness9780i was called all sorts for not supporting this
@@blackroyalness9780because this type of relationship resonates with a lot of people. men who impregnate women they hate and women allowing themselves to be stuck with a man through a child and that’s why they’re so defensive when people call out ddg and halle.
Your so right about the internet warning these women about the men they're choosing to date because there aren't rose tinted shades on the internet that cover the flaws of their partner, DDG was especially terrible to Halle when that Rubi Rose incident happened but instead of Halle opening her eyes and seeing we weren't hating but warning she bucked back and doubled down on DDG just to end up with a kid and stay attached to a man that was going out of his way to ruin Halle's shine during her Little Mermaid promo while he just breaks up with her on IG and goes on about his life like plssss, we want better for these girls than the girls want for themselves it seems :((
It's because they are young and naive. We were all naive at one point. Maybe not to the extent of them, but we all received advice that we did not take and it blew up in our faces. We are older, so we know better but these young bucks wanna learn from experience. Welp, here it is!
@@changes649 not gonna hold you, I always listened to the advice given to me cause if I could avoid a detrimental situation then imma move around it, my grandma always said a hard head made for a soft behind so whether it was family or friends I made sure to take any help to heart 😭😭 a lot of these people just hard headed and stubborn and think they know more so you gotta let em learn
@@changes649 It’s just sad because the damage to a young woman’s life is often irreversible. 😕
I think Halle was already pregnant too so she had to make it work esp to save face in front of the nay sayers
@@keelhe893 yep.
I hate that for Halle, but unfortunately some people have to be experience things for themselves. I’d rather learn from other people’s mistakes
Amen!
she knew who he was before she got with him. she saw how he treated rubi rose and was a fan of his content before they linked up. halle is no victim.
@@hmm4553 many women think it can never be them, until it is them.
I think Halle was a victim of that mindset
I hate to compare it, but Halle was on the path to becoming a Zendeya and had to choose that fool. She had the looks and the voice and could quickly get prominent roles after Little Mermaid and Colour Purple. Like what was her management/PR team doing allowing her to be with DDG and not controlling his idiotic behaviour online as it affects her brand. I guess they don't get involved with her personal life, just acting and singing.
lol!!! 😂 !!! EXACTLY!!!!
I miss the days when we was all left out the celebrity relationship group chat😩
When were those days?! Celebrity relationships have always been hot gossip
@757Princess I never said it wasn't. But there was a time when there was a level of mystery and we could only speculate and nothing was solidified until yearrrrsssss later and by then the tea was moldy and we already moved on. Nowadays we are inundated with every facet of their every move from every blogger, every tabloid, ever social media platform. The only people who have mastered the mystery is Jay Z and Bey which is why them skeletons is fighting out the closet not happening in real time every single day 😩
CLOCK IT! there's no mystique anymore.
Well that was a Saturday treat for me! Let me head over to Patreon!!
@@Breelyn777 oop🤣😩
Halle, Keke, Naomi Osaka, Simone Biles could’ve had top tier men but chose to date/marry/ procreate down and it’s frankly sad.
The top tier black men marry white women, not black women 😒
Agreed. Fortunately they chose to ride or die with BM who unfortunately don't value BW. Long live black love despite celebrity drama.
It's so frustrating to watch. Like why can't be date bm who are in the same league? They always choose the men who would never be with them if they roles were reversed
Nicki Minaj
@@lizzyforevermore4Rihanna
5:28 That’s why these “yasss Halle’s free” tweets are making me scratch my head cause halle is a grown woman who chose to play with that man knowing who he was and how he got down. She was a willing participant but people are trying so hard to separate her and act as though he had a wool pulled over her eye. I could never be in somebody’s close friends and see them talk about how their man did then and still lay with him, I could never watch a woman post screenshots of my man hitting her up in her dms cause we had an argument. Halle made her bed.
Understood but who hasn’t made a bad decision romantically at 20+ years old it’s just the difference is that she is in the public eye. It’s unfortunate that she had to learn this way, but people should give her grace because she still young. She made a mistake that most people have already made two times over. I hope she learns from this
It’s because she’s pretty with a soft voice, so some people are moved to coddle her. Meanwhile, I read her behaviour as egotistical, misguided and reckless. All of this mess was easily avoided, but it’s what she wanted, so that’s on her.
1st sentence is spot on. Most are fooled by the sweet voice but at the end of the day we really don't know these people in real life. She was attracted to him for a reason and clearly have some things in common with him.@@alkahinat4558
Halle brought her profile down deliberately deciding to become pregnant by DDG. She could have just dated him, and be careful to protect herself but she is not who we think she is and it’s ok. But let’s not be fooled by appearances. We don’t know these people and not all are earnest. Talent doesn’t equate decency and wisdom.
@@alkahinat4558 egotistical,misguided and reckless is literally the life of a person who is in their twenties. Hindsight is always 20/20. Being understanding doesnt mean coddle? How can i coddle person who I personally dont even know?
Cardi should have learned a lesson from how Offset treated his baby mommas, not to mention that he cheated on her before they married. Halle still had DDG's baby after he posted disrespectful stuff about her on social media and cheated on her. He was jealous of her being in that movie. Steve Harvey warned Keke Palmer to pick a man on her level, and she didn't listen.
Well in Keke's case dude was a jump off. He wasn't meant to stick around but they got lazy with contraception and she got pregnant. She only tried to make the relationship work because of the baby.
Cardi and Offset: Were cheating on both partners prior to them officially getting with each other. Was never going to last.
DDG & Halle: Start of relationship was messy because Halle was friends with Rubi. DDG also childishly texted Rubi whenever him and Halle argued. Also was never going to last.
Moral of the story: Relationships built on shaky foundations will always crumble. Give yourself enough time to know someone before having a baby. Lastly, stop airing personal problems out on the internet.
Halle was friends with Rubi?
It's not just celebrities. I see it with friends, family, colleagues and acquaintances.
And my past self.
I think that’s why so many of us add our voices to the conversation when these public relationships start disintegrating into mess-it’s relatable, we’ve seen it before. That’s why we’re good at spotting the red flags. There’s a therapist I follow on here who uses public relationships to encourage her viewers to spot the red flags. And not just spot them, but apply that knowledge to our own lives
But shout out to all the women who used to be a Halle, Keke or Cardi, congratulations on learning your lessons and keep doing the damn thing! ❤
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Agreed sister. Many of us have had to learn and the journey has not been easy by any means.
One of the hardest parts is learning to forgive yourself for things you knowingly did, participated in or allowed.
And yet no one has talked about the toxicity of bm… bad enough we out number them so who are women choosing???
A lot of us have seen these same signs and red flags 🚩 in the relationships we have had in our lives. We can spot them out easily in others. We know how it’s going to end.
I wish it get bk to when celebrities kept they life private and u only see them in interview and award shows
Same but the demand is for them to be “relatable” so that has translated to over sharing unfortunately.
@@TheSomethingnew1 You can be relatable without using us as therapists 😭
@@Strawberrythievess you can but Stan culture and really the current state of social media thrives off parasocial relationships. The more a celeb shares the more some people feel connected. I for one wish they’d all just hush.
@@TheSomethingnew1 zsdr43
Agreed. I’m tired of the “relatability” crap. Just do your jobs and go.
The fact that DDG was the one to put out a statement and Halle didn’t is exactly why I can’t stand either of them. He STAYS putting their business out there and always has & I can’t stand it.
I personally think Halle wrote the statement.
@@Aname87naw, he has PR…that’s who told him to release the statement. It wouldn’t make sense for her to write it when they pay public relations pros to stage their lives for them & release press statements for them…including writing what they post.
Yup.
Everything every single thing he was giving attention to. I'm like your girlfriend is purposely not saying anything keep your mouth shut. Baby Halo's face. He revealed that, the fact that they were dating. He aint slick. I'm sure he planned that putting out live videos when she was walking around. And keep in mind , halle rarely puts out stuff on her own page. She chooses what she wants to put out there, obviously. For business reasons, like a project she's working on or a photo shoot of an event she's attending. For a good while the only time if people want to see if she was alive , they had to go on his stuff , but I don't follow him And I wasn't going to.🤷🏾♀️😒
Cause these men are using them for their fame… Black women need to start learning from black men, and start dating UP!!!!!!!!!!! Because if the fame was flipped, none of these women would be their man’s top pick… They wouldn’t even look at those women… Sad, but true!!!!
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Yep unfortunately they wouldn’t
Now this real 💯
💯 been saying that !! But unfortunately Cardi would’ve still been Off - cheats pick because she isn’t black he dates mostly either very light skinned unambiguous black women or Latin women. All his women kinda look alike .
^Cardi is Black AND Latina. Not NON-Black. Her latin side is also part black. 🤦🏽♀️
… Just bc she’s light skinned doesn’t take away her blackness.
Same thing with Summer Walker… red flags all up and down with London….
Now 3 kids later lol
@@AlieshiaTVYeap then these woman play like what’s going on the red flags were there
Oh she is determined to be like Monica. I just hope her career can remain a focal point because so far it is.
Constantly picking dudes who are absolutely worthless, they get a baby- which is a tie in to her resources and go from there. I’m thinking at least Monica has a basketball player one time. Smh
They both from ATL
And yet no one sees the common denominator… of course it’ll be only on the women🙄😑
Toss in Naomi Osaka and Cordae.
It’s always irritating when ppl broadcast their relationship then get mad when it’s discussed.
Also, I’m far from a traditionalist but why tie yourself to a man via pregnancy in the height/infancy of your career esp as a woman who’s more talented/history-making?
She really jeopardized her career and its possible trajectory by having that baby and associating with that guy. Very sad.
100
Naomi looks like she hates the pressure of being her, so getting knocked up in her prime was a way out from her built up career
What does broadcasting one’s relationship entail?
@@popnotesYT Displaying every (detailed) facet of one’s relationships online a la Cardi B or vlogger. Esp the toxic/problematic sides of that relationship.
These women also have to recognize their part in participating in the pain they endure. You gotta start seeing the flags and leaving. These men they’re dating aren’t good boyfriends because these men are insecure and don’t value women and then they use pregnancy as a way to control women.
And that’s a lot of them tho… no one wants to admit the toxicity of bm… even their preferences are dealing with it. But we can’t blame bm for being that way when no one holds them accountable and diverting blame… it’ll only get worse… watch.
The red flags and bad signs were always there
I remember when The Little Mermaid was doing their press tour and DDG was no where to be found. I wonder who's decision that was.
That was all Disney.
Disney 😂😂😂
They got him up out of there! 💀🤣
Disney I see no pictures of him on the carpet only his family was seen💀💀💀💀 I was gagged fr
@@justniaa4734as they should 🤣
The wildest part about Ddg trolling during The Little Mermaid promo is it wasn't even funny. It was just disrespectful and rude.
I think a lot of times they assume that everybody is a hater. You can't hear the tone of somebody's voice through a comment. So a lot of times people will speculate the tone that you use because we can't hear it. I said all of this with an attitude in my tone and you can't even pick up on that.. Because of this when people are even trying to give them helpful feedback they think somebody being a hater and it's like nah sis. We just see what you don't.. it's fine to date these people but stop giving them kids. DDG literally was dismissive when someone said where they going to get married and he said it was too soon. But at the same time how is it too soon to get married but not too soon to have a baby.
deeper than that its cptsd. people of childhood trauma that effects how they move period. the comments dont matter. people are not logical. we are mostly feelings. folks are going to make decisions based off the models they have created from things they learn from when they are children. thats a fact
Yea we’re not bias lol we don’t know him so or usually attracted.
And this is exactly how it’s being taken regarding Simone biles and her husband. Smh
Every single time. That was my first thought. They disregard the internet and I'm not saying listen to all the noise but all of these men were CLOCKED hard, by black women especially. You don't see Russell Wilson getting dragged by women/black women online, you see men dragging him. There's a reason for that. I'm so mad because fr SO MANY PEOPLE TOLD THEM !! they want to say "get out of my relationship" as if they're not posting those red flags constantly for us to see!
Be careful even with him. Something is off. His first wife allegedly wanted to get away from him bad and she knew him since high school.
What kills me is the “we ask for you all to respect our privacy at this time”
😂😂😂😂
After putting it all out there, for the wholesome world to see from the very beginning 🙄😂
I knew he was a red flag when he said he was trying to sabbatoge her, and he was jealous.
I definitely see a change in women choosing themselves and I love that for us. I will also say though, regardless of a person's status in society, there are way too many people experiencing similar situations/outcomes for all of us to not know any better. Like you said, there are patterns. When are we actually going to start moving with purpose, leaving people who don't mean us any good where they are, and continue doing and being around people who truly care about us?
Well, this was Halle's first love, and she is still young, so I never thought it would last. He is extremely public, and I can't imagine being with anyone like that. Keke should NEVER have said a thing about her baby daddy and Cardi is 😬. Offset is not it...
I have been saying this. Celebrities tell us we don’t know them, and that we are assuming, but they literally share almost every aspect of their life, almost 24/7.
Beyonce doesn't do that, and y'all talk about her for being private
@@rucianapollard4057 thats a different situation. Beyonce is private which is why her career continues to thrive because she does not give into the parasocial relationships ppl make up like a DDG, Nicki minaj, etc….
they’re right, we don’t know them/their life-it’s much worse. They only show us the good parts and it’s still lookin like ish so imagine how bad it actually is 😆 😅
@@havesomedecorem4170 that's not true. Beyonce does 100 percent give into para social behaviors but y'all are forgetting why she is private. Interviewers were literally so malicious to her and so we're talk show host. It's out of trauma. Not because of smart business moves.
@@havesomedecorem4170 even then. You're still only seeing part of their life. We don't know all of it. Things add up to a relationship being over. Chores, cheating, family, time, priorities. We don't see all that. People talking about their kids but we don't know if the parenting dynamic was part of the break up. We don't know.
1:24 if DDG was gonna end it why tf he get her pregnant? Literally impregnated her and left her that’s crazy af
He's a dog! He's going to knock up some more young dummies
it’s a control tactic so they can stay in your house, legally know who you’re dating and where you are at all times for the next 10+ years…notice men already want to know all that stuff? this is how manipulative men secure that fr.
Or maybe it was Halle ... i feel the relationship was just supposed be seasonal. But accidentally got pregnant. And to protect the image, she stayed for a minute.
@@longevity2055 oh well we tried to tell her and she wouldn’t listen
‘Those males’ do it all the time 👀
I'm loving how quickly we ladies are removing our energy from these Goofballs.
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Please continue. 😊
Watch how a lot of women start opting out of relationships and watch how society blame it only on women… I’ll give it ten years
@@SugaSuga008 you’re late but nice try though
I'm very particular about what someone says, no matter the situation or anger or emotion....offset saying "I won, you're my baby mama" truly says alot, if Cardi goes back to him then wow....
I feel like she let him "win", somewhere between taking him back and letting his cheatin ass knock her up once, twice and finally thrice.
This statement right here! He said the quiet part out loud. A lot of men really think this way. It's a form of control to them, an achievement to have a harem of baby mamas that they're forever attached to. i don't want to have kids for this reason right here.
@@tmajuru559 but no, I think Cardi knew what she was doing too, asides wanting a Happy family she actually always wanted 3kids from one father and she said this severally...so maybe after the third pregnancy & he still cheated she's leaving for good.
@@lollll1293”He said the quiet part out loud”…whew you called it with that one!
Most of these celebrities don’t be in it for love, but for the look and status! These people don’t even know each other!
Exactly, they be together for less than a year then pop up pregnant. 🤷🏾♀️
@@denisewilliams2818...non celebrities are like that too though...that can happen to people in anyone.
But like how do you know this? This is another part of para social relationships. Thinking we know these peoples relationships is insane. We don't know them. We don't know how they felt. The extent of the struggles they've had in their relationship.
Don't bring da innocent babies in
@@geewhizz7354 this‼️
I notice Alot of black women date and approach relationships like teenage girls. Their boy crazy way into their 50's. This needs to be discussed
I agree but that’s also bc in the black community no one is allowed healthy avenues to date. Black girls are told to not look at men and so when they do, of course, they have juvenile understanding of love and connection. Same with boys, they are not presumed innocence or boyhood and so go about dating aggressively as well. For them dating alot of women is a sign of masculinity.
Men are really disaapointing its saaad
I had a toxic ex that kept saying weird things and tried to act like I had to be there to hear it . I ghosted him and he stalks but still I stand on business not to entertain the energy cause my worth I would love to have some and show it .... I love me too much to keep letting men be my undoing . I want that for everyone
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Proud of you beautiful ❤
Proud of you for ghosting that trash
I would like to return to not knowing this much about celebrities. 🤦🏽♀️
I was going through KOR withdrawal!!! Happy to see you 🩷
The male ego is fragile?🤷♀️
F their ego. 😊
Yes to you both😂
I’d take it a step farther and say the BM ego 🤷🏾♀️
When halle dropped the MV for why I love you I knew it was gonna be something 😂😂
NOT TO MENTION THE PROBLEM OF THE CONTENT CREATORS COVERING THE BREAKUPS AND IMPLYING THE WOMEN THAT HAD CHILDREN ARE NOW CONSIDERED USED GOODS LIKE THATS NOT PROBLEMATIC THEY ACT LIKE THE WOMANS LIFE IS OVER BECAUSE THEY ARE NOW SINGLE WITH A CHILD
all caps lol no one is reading that my guy
it’s crazy cause Offset already has 5 kids from different women…but she’s used from being with you like SIR.
People say anything for clicks smh
Lets not pretend that being a single mother responsible for a child is not going to affect your life differently then the men who regularly abandon entire families on a regular basis to great success.
It sucks. A lot. And we need to start calling all these baby dadies with multiple children with different women the hos they are.
There needs to be more consequences to the men who contantly create children without any care or responsibility. They nasty, very nasty. Stop f** with them ladies.
You got a baby mama? Boy bye!
Never the same energy for the men, and it’s probably because of how society doesn’t even place parenting responsibilities on men like that anyway.
It’s always the woman. It’s always been the mother.
I suggest these women forgive themselves. That’s the hardest part of the journey. Focus on your children, but forgive yourself. When you forgive yourself- it allowed forgiveness of others as well.
Don’t hold it in . Let it out. Understand that you did what you did at a moment in time because you believed in it. And MOVE FORWARD!
Another issue is everyone thinks they are the exception and learn like many of us they we are apart of the rule. Myself included 😢 a wise person learns from others mistakes.......
This is exactly it. in Cardi's case, she thought she was better than his bm's because he married her but she ended up being treated the same.
James earl Jones and more had contempt for BW, but most of his fans were BW. Sammy Davis Jr, Sidney and Harry are no different than Brian McKnight or Offset or kanye or alot of pookie and ray jays
James earl jones was wealthy and lived to 90 years old avoiding Keisha.
I understand that celebrities deserve privacy, like everyone else, but I don't appreciate being gas-lit by people who are more famous than Barney and have their relationships plastered all over the interweb as if what we see them posting about their relationship is not what we actually see. I will never forget when D.D.G. referred to Halle as a *b.* in a song that was dissing her for her clout, and everyone's reaction of disbelief that anyone would call-'that'-out.
All of these situations were avoidable. This is getting old.
This was a really good video Justin. I got divorced earlier this year and you spoke to my experience
They need to be more like Janet. Married for almost a decade and no one knew 😅
Yeah, but dude was also abusing her, so it probably would have been better if someone did know, so she didn't go a decade before realizing she needed to leave.
@@BooDotBooexactly!!
Apparently Halle was celebrating something and ddg announced their breakup
Yeah she was celebrating her brothers birthday when DDG posted their breakup
I don't know much about him, but he seems EXTREMELY jealous and like he doesn't like to see her happy or enjoying herself too much. You should never date a man like that. EVER.
@@BooDotBoohe made a whole song taking digs at her about that Disney movie. The writings were always on the wall.
Not shocked
I never cared for DDG and was shocked that she would have agreed to be in a relationship with him but I digress. She found out and even stayed while he publicly humiliated her. I hate to say she “deserved” how she was treated but she definitely didn’t have to be so nasty when the public tried to help her see through his facade. She gave very sheltered, very weak, very much first boyfriend ever in life
13:27 I said the exact same thing, I bet on everything that Halle was throw off by DDG’s post. I think DDG decided to do a breakup post to get ahead of the situation. At the end of the day, I hope Halle and her baby have a great life together and that Halle creates some strong boundaries surrounding her relationship with her BD 😒. Also, KOR, I appreciate you speaking plainly on this situation….I live for that 👏🏾
Yess let’s talk about it Justin!
That’s why that 🥷 so upset ciara moved on tbh, he wanted to trap her 😂😂😂
what's crazy is that we can easily see the red flags so u can only imagine what happens behind closed doors
Some women think that if " he gets with me, he will not cheat on me", or " I can fix him". Sadly that doesn't happens. If it walks like a duck & sounds like a duck, it's a duck.🤔🤨🙄
Social media is NOT the problem! The real issue no one is discussing is now days women like men more then the men like them! Now days you have more women asking men out on dates and proposing then men asking! People keep trying to re-write the law of God… “A man who finds a wife has found a good thing!” Not to be too religious, but Men are supposed to seek a woman, court her, and marry her! Not the other way around! Cardi was trying to prove her love to a man who didn’t even like her, same with Halle, and KeKe! A older woman told me relationships only work when a man loves a woman more and I’m starting to believe that! Men today see women as just another option and the women are allowing it! If women had more morals, men would value them more! But there’s always a woman willing to open her legs for a man who doesn’t even deserve her! 🤷🏽♀️
That last sentence hit heavy and is soo true.
Spot on 💯
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Amen. ❤
Why do women have to correct THEIR behavior because men are acting indecent and diabolical? The problem is the men, has been the men, and will continue to be men in this particular issue! If a man wants to cheat he will cheat no matter how good and morally upright the woman is. Offset and DDG and them could have been with women who conduct themselves like saints and they STILL would've acted foolish because that is their character!!
People aren’t going to listen to strangers on the internet if they don’t listen to their own family members or friends. At the end of the day we are strangers. Our opinion will never matter to them cause we don’t know what’s really going on
We notice patterns, body language, and so much more than these celebrities think.
I haven't been rocking with Halle ever since I realized she just flat out lied about being pregnant.
It's a difference between being private and lying.
And the lying thing was WEIRD
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I must be out if the loop? When did she lie about being pregnant? I remember people talking about her being pregnant and her not explicitly saying yes?
I like how well spoken you did on this topic
LETS TALK ABOUT IT
Your opinion is spot on ... new subbie
This is an issue period. Most men are with you so he can have a child and to have power, control, and keep you tied down to him.
Having a child with a man doesn’t give him power over you, unless you let it.
They’ll swear that’s not the case though.
@trackgrad08 That's true! That's why he has to have the mindset of wanting a wife before having kids. Plus, we have to start trusting our intuition and using discernment. 9 times out of 10, we see the red flags and doubts, but we ignore them.
Keep up with the good content ✨
Tbh I personally would’ve never known DDG without Halle
You are spot on
You are completely right
Easy answer; look at the thumbnail. All of these women dated down…….next topic boo.
he’s asking why
@@samaraisnt that is why….
AGREED. Dating at your level and dating someone who actually wants you is important.
the way we could only know these people by watching entertainment tonight and shit like that. i miss it so much 😭😭😭
Yes!!!! I remember that!!! 😂
@@cornbreadjack again. Those times weren't good either. People just made ish up to make people in the relationships (often the women) look like villains. Please y'all take the rose colored glasses off. Please. We say we hate drama farming but entertainment tonight was the og😭
@@Des17S perhaps but i was a teen at the time and lived for it anyway 😭😂
@@cornbreadjack exactly. So you get that it is a lose lose situation.
I am glad you made this video. But not to shift blame onto the women (because straight men have a lot of internal work to do) but it does make me question their choices. These men have not hidden who they were. The red flags are glaringly obvious that even the general public can see it. It makes me question why do they stay? How is their self-esteem?
Once again, you kept it 💯, no lies!
This video is off, these women need to take responsibility for their part. They're warned about those men and still they choose to stay with them.
Keke Palmer choose to have a child with a stay at home boyfriend and is back posting photos with him. Cardi seems to just be clout chasing with offset.
Simone Biles is next the moment she claims her retirement year and final olympics, and I hate that for her!
After her baby. I pray I'm wrong.😢
I KEEP saying JO doesn't love Simone & I get dragged.
I know what I see & I know what I feel. JO is from the same city as me & most men here black & white are OPPORTUNIST.
The way he talked about her in that podcast I was embarrassed for her & she's just sitting to the side smiling. Girl bye.
He talked about her like she wasn't even there cause @ first you didn't know she was there.
She actually sat there & said, "In a few years they won't call him Simone Biles husband they'll see me & say there goes Jonathan Owens wife."
Does she REALLY believe that...???🤦
Leave Simone and her husband alone. Y’all are so weird.
@@lachannajonesbecause you are weird, you don’t know these people….
@@KAye633 I KNOW what I see...
When that marriage goes left I won't say I told ya so...
You're right, I don't know JO, but I know his type...
I've never understood the appeal of so called "bad boys". If you lay down with dogs...
Edited to remove the bit about me 😅
They start out being nice and sweet to folks at first and then show their true colors after they're deep in the relationship
@@squirrelsinmykoolaid That is very true. I've been fooled before and I have to be honest with myself about that but I know girls/women who are specifically attracted to bad boys. They go out of their way to date them for the thrill or hoping to be the one who changes them and then they're surprised when he acts exactly as a "bad boy" does.
@@squirrelsinmykoolaidright!!!!!
With Halley and DDG I know the relationship is none of my business, but am i the only one who thinks that the breakup is very weird? like.What was it that crossed the line because he did a lot of stupid shit 😑 ( Even the sister got mad one time) On top of that Now that you have a whole CHILD you want to break up? I'm kind of mad that they're breaking up NOW while halo's in the picture. 😮💨
It was a super predictable outcome though. Not at all surprising, that’s what’s crazy.
@WhoAuthorizedThis TOO predictable! The baby mama outcome?! I mean come on!😫😡🙄 my Dumb ass thought they were going at least gonna see this through a few more years like when Halo's maybe five or ten or something. I was really hoping Halle was smart enough to dump him before he was even conceived. 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Idk what would make you think Halle was smart when she’s never displayed that. I see what you’re saying though.
@Cydthevixxen 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ smh I know I know. 🙄😅 fr though harsh but I agree
Exactly this! Celebrities capitalize off of the internets interest in them and whatever they DECIDE to share but refuse to accept that not every comment / opinion is going to be complimentary and feed their ego. I always wonder- don't they have good friends / family around them to also warn them about these vile men they're getting with???? How is it that the internet are the only group who see them for who they are? Obvs taking into account their lifestyle / exposure etc
your videos 💯😌🔥 keep it up 😊
I don’t think many relationships can last when they become content for the public I think Beyoncé and JayZ , Rihanna and Rocky Hell even Oprah and Steadmon have been doing it correctly and I’m sure there’s some more but they come to mind right now because they show parts of their lives but not everything everyday all day
They do it correctly because they never publicly addressed the bs someone may have done lmaooo
Did Beyonce create an album and multiple singles about Jay-Z’s infidelity? Suffering behind close doors and in public doesn’t make much of a difference
@@louenatnine51 unfortunately in this world we live in that does make a big difference though it changes the way people react and respond as a person who was with someone for 15+ years I can only imagine how much worse the bad times would have been if we were doing it PUBLICLY
@@louenatnine51 even the whole making up part of things have to be 10 times harder if it was made content for the whole world first! I can’t even imagine how that feels and I wouldn’t want to
@@aron.michael You know what, you make a good point. I guess it just bothers me that so many people, even those of celebrity status it seems, have support systems that can’t get through to them. But love is irrational and what not
None of those males liked or even loved their women. They were jealous of them, and didn't get any real notoriety until they were attached to the women. They stayed wanting to humble them and trapping them with babies. Sad.
YEP and the perceived diminished value of a woman by making her a single mother
🎯🎯🎯
What happened to discretion. What happened to decency
If everyone is saying the same thing about these men, it wasn’t coming from a place of being a hater … everyone can’t be wrong .. love these women but they were swimming in a sea of red flags and had no problem with it 🤷🏽♀️
Celebrities saw how social media was making "regular" people famous and they wanted in on the attention...even after we told them to stay away. Well, they wanted the attention and that attention is ripping their lives apart. When have you EVER seen Auntie Angela and Uncle Courtney telling us their business? Most people didn't even know Samuel Jackson was married to LaTanya Richardson, let alone married to her for 30 years! Because they keep their relationship off the internet. Love you Hailey but um, yeah🤷🏾♀️
Halle was one classy lady...man!!!! Halle was unavailable to us! All we knew was her voice music and acting.And we looooooved that
Oh that girl was classy .....until she started tweeting all over Twitter talking BS protecting DDG. I was like huh so this was Halle😂
The men had a plan from the start & that was to use the ladies for $ & clout. What ❤ got to do with it. The End
The thing about that is, oftentimes when a woman leaves a man, she takes her magic with her.
Well that was a Saturday treat for me! Let me head over to Patreon!!
That's why I respect when celebrity couples stay off social media!!
Denzel Washington. Cillian Murphy.
If you have to chase him to love you it’s already a fail. 4b movement. And why do they need to tell us they splitting.
DDG was not going to marry Hallie. He is agreeing with Cam Newton fearful of divorce.
One of the best takes yet. Very fair.
You so right about only finding someone who looks good for the internet omg just speaking facts!
I’m not one to be obsessed with other people’s relationships and the few things I have learned about all of these relationships you mentioned was very toxic and sad. Celebs are humans but they seem to not learn as quickly as the general public despite all the resources they have at their disposal. It was also funny how on Instagram there was a following that kept saying that all the bitter black women are happy because of the break ups 🙄 actually a lot of BW are clapping because as a collective we are learning and aren’t putting up with the same old okey doke so the general public men are getting mad and feel like they must humble women as a whole
These girlies are not realising they are with messy guys until it's too late even though the audience can see through the red flags and warn them relentlessly
Love you Justin!
Insecure men shouldn’t be with confident, secure women until they have healed and gained self-confidence. Because if they don’t, they’re gonna disrespect that woman and do everything they can to tear that woman down. We see it a lot with the red pill men. They don’t want a woman who is confident, who’s sure of herself, knows what she wants, etc. They bash those women because they know if they were to approach a confident woman, she’s going to see them and all their BS. The red flag sensors are going to go off, and she’s going to run for the hills. She won’t give them the time of day. That’s also why they prefer younger women; younger women will see them and their trifling behavior and see it as charming or cute because THEY DON’T KNOW ANY BETTER.