I was a single mother of two boys for 8 years, and it was the hardest time of my life.. People dont realise how hard it is unless they have gone through it themselves...ALLAH azzawajal make it easy for all the single mothers as well as parents in general ameen 🤲🏼
Your a lovely person and a great mum, I'm a single mum to 5 boys, it's not easy , many times I've wanted to scream or cry my eyes out, but, in sha Allah , you get through it, my eldest is soon to be 20. Alhumdulillah, for all the hardship, I wouldn't change a thing, those boys are my world, they are the reason why I'm still here.
I used to watch your videos everyday after school in highschool, life got in the way but I'm in college and watching more of your videos again, I can't believe how much Liyana and Malik have grown up and your videos are still so great to watch ☺️
So true about the parenthood struggles. Even if you're not a single parent, it's rarely 50/50. Mothers usually take on most the load. I always call myself the married single parent because although my husband and I are together he works 16 hour days so I hardly see him and I run the household by myself. We have 2 kids aged 1 and 4 and I home educate so I feel like I'm never off the clock. As much as I love being a mother I get so overwhelmed by all the things that need to get done and knowing that no matter how much I'm struggling no one is coming to help it's all on me to get it done, be it housework the food shop or something for the kids there's just me, can be so hard to stay positive. I would love to have more kids but in reality I don't know how I would cope if there were more kids to care for. I know people say it gets easier as the kids grow and become independent but I think trying to survive to that point is the key....what's the point if you're mentally and physically broken by the time your kids are independent? You won't be able to enjoy it. So people need to stop comparing women of today to women of the past when times were completely different.
@shelkhatun4837 hang in there, sis...Allah will reward you for your efforts in sha Allah. May Allah give you the strength and energy to take care of your kids and your home. I'm trying to teach myself to be ok with my home to not be perfect all the time. I'm trying to just focus on a few key tasks, like making sure dinner is cooked and laundry is done. The rest of my day, I try to spend with my kids, and if time allows, I will do other cleaning bits. But I do struggle because I like things to be clean and tidy but I'm trying to accept the fact that that's not possible with 2 small kids who like to have all the toys out all of the time 😅....and I'm hoping one day I'll also figure out where I can have me time because although everyone tells me I should have me time....I haven't quite figured out how that's possible right now because who will be with the kids while I have me time?😅....may Allah make it easy for us all
@@MadeehaShamsi Just a tip for "me time". Try to do some tasks while your kids are awake and playing. When you put your kids to rest (siesta) in bed at the middle of day then you have your me time while they are sleeping/resting.
Zeinah someone may have suggested this to already but if you and your husband was inlove and all of a sudden you fell apart it could be evil eye or black magic. Xasad people dont like beautiful Happy couple. If you start reading surah al baqrah or ayatul kursi everyday you can defeat those obstacles. Life is beautiful with a partner xabibty. As long as your ex was not abusive and deceitful. Children need that love and support of both parent even apart.
Yep, also she made videos so much so about her and her husband. Portraying the beautiful picture perfect family, there were many!! How do I know that? Because It used to trigger me and I chose to stop watching her videos. I was divorced and in a lot of pain. I was happy for her but they used to trigger me when I was in bad place. I was so HAPPY for her but can you imagine?? There are people out there who might not be? A single utter it could lead evil eye. I understood that and stopped watching hers. Truly saddened for her. I don't know what happened but I will root for her. May Allah forgive us all and guide us to straight path.
@@princesssamiaa1548 I never really saw too many videos of her husband in face I thought he was camera shy which is a good quality to have. Thanks for The MAnY likes you guys. ❤️..I'm sorry about your divorce samia. Remember everything is either a lesson or a blessing. Sometimes there is a blessing in every lesson. Ask Allah to bless you with the marriage he desires for you. Inshallah Qayr.
It is not healthy for you or for her to speculate about her private life. If they split up, there was a strong reason and the interests of the children were considered. I’m sure she also doesn’t want to spread bad things about her ex husband on here either.
@@d.n.8919 What she said is very much valid and reasonable. Regardless of what may have truly happened, the evil eye is serious and people on the internet take it too lightly. Evil eye and black magic could change a persons whole life, it could bring in terminal illnesses and it was said in a saheeh/authentic hadith; It was narrated that ‘Ubaid bin Rifa’ah Az-Zuraqi said: “Asma’ said: ‘O Messenger of Allah! The children of Ja’far have been afflicted by the evil eye, shall I recite Ruqyah* for them?’ He said: ‘Yes, for if anything were to overtake the Divine decree it would be the evil eye.’” Reference : Sunan Ibn Majah 3510
Salaam Sisters, I don’t wish to comment but for some reason I feel like I need to. When I was growing up my parents and other parents did not have a village to help them. You would be surprised to know how difficult it was during the 70s, 80s and 90s. People were struggling a lot, living in cramped conditions, no money, no food to eat, no education, no washing machine, racism was much worst before in the U.K. There are some people who live alone not because of choice. They have to manage everything on their own. Just remember that God is looking after us all. You are intelligent, beautiful, young, you have children, a big house, garden, dishwasher, car and a job. Sometimes we focus too much on others and what we don’t have. The real blessings are with the people and things we already have . I am no life coach but try to master the art of being alone and doing things alone. We all need social interaction but it’s not worth chasing your whole life for it. Allow it to come to you. Make dua that the right people come to our lives who are good for our Deen/ Hereafter and not just for the duniya.
I understand about the co-parenting. It is rare for it to be a full 50/50. But, as my child grew older, I realized I am glad. The effort I put in blossomed into a beautiful person. Without this trial I wouldn't have had such a great reward.
MashaAllah, you are a really good mum for your children 🥹. The way you reward them for every good thing that they do is wonderful! I find the idea with these Islamic books really good.
You’re doing a great job sis, may Allah make things easy for you. Your children are adorable mashallah. It is a struggle, I’m also a single mum to a little girl mashallah. But I would choose this life every time, im now finally at peace.. it’s better to be single than in a toxic marriage which your children witness. Allah never gives us more than we can take. We are strong women, we can do this! If your trials are bringing you closer to Allah swt, then see them as a blessing 💕
I love the reflections you share! I always benefit from them so much. And the fact that they are not scripted make them even better 🤍 praying Allah swa always protects you and your lovely children
This was such a lovely video it was like catching up with a friend and was so comforting ❤thank you for being so real. You are a blessing MashaAllah sis xxx love ❤️
I’m not going to dare to presume I know how to co parent or single parent. But some things that have helped me keep my house going… 1. Freezer meal prep all the proteins. Once a month or twice a month, just get them all done 2. Cleaning schedule for small tasks throughout the week. That way it doesn’t pile up for your weekend. If this isn’t working, look into getting a cleaning service once or twice a month to give you a break 3. Evening routine to tidy the house before you go to bed every night. Pop in your air pops to a podcast and when it’s over, you’re done cleaning (whether you are actually done or not) because you also have to rest
Honestly! It's the hardest experience of my life hands down. Its an ugly feeling; to do everythjng alone in my case, very draining. Everyone's experience is different, I'm a lone parent no coparenting nothing. Just me!!! So I pray for anyone who goes through this.
Stay strong 💪 your doing an excellent job being a single parent isn't easy im on myself but at the end you will be awarded for it all❤ you're an amazing mom!!
The amount of gems dropped in these vids I had to put the vid on loop to relisten to the beautiful advices! May we get the ability to practice on it all and in turn be a means of sadaqah jariaah for you. ... The whole vibe of these Ramadan vlogs are so calm. Prefer it over the sky TV shows you promote!lol
Loved what you said towards end mashallah may allah reward you for the message. Allahs tribulations are needed in our life its either a blessing or a test for us and either way we learn from it. May allah make everyone's hardship easy out there and bring the best out of them during this ramadan ❤️
You are such a beautiful soul, doing absolutely great with raising your gorgeous children- I'm struggling with the fasts, the ones I have managed to keep, I've not had any energy & slept to get through them- you put me to shame!
May allah make it easier for you Inshallah. Its so sad how some ppl cant be kinder even in ramadan! Some of the comments! consider ppls dont always be out on the attack ppl. Yea Zeinah u are right it most certainly takes a village to raise kids that support is very important and having inlaws/ family around. Yes ppl back then faced their fair share of difficulties but still had family support around them. I remember growing up having aunts uncles around babysitting n helping out where needed. I for 1 have a 4 year old and 1 year old and nkt 1 day have i had anyone's supprt of keeping them for even an hour! Your doing a great job Zeinah keep it up and u spoke facts in your video
I’m in a normal relationship yet it feels like I have a man child. The only responsibility I don’t have is bills but everything else is 99% mine. That takes a huge toll on me every few months and I have a mental breakdown and I get so angry at why Allah has given me such a difficult partner. So yes I will say it, single parenting must be x1000 harder. May Allah help you everyday. I feel inshallah you will flourish more as life goes on x
@@aminaa7909 I already am, life's easier now even with a little struggle here and there, it's worth it for me. I'm not saying everyone should leave their marriage, but for some people it's the better option.
That 40 day break probably could be the answer to postnatal depression ppl can’t understand how much rest and time women need when they have had a baby but we don’t even get that time 😮
mashAllah, I love this Ramadan basket idea for the kids! inshAllah I'll do that next Ramadan, this year they got a calender. You are an absolute amazing Mom mashAllah! Never let anybody tell you otherwise!!!May Allah always help you and bless your family and give you peace, amin. ❤
So I can't do the East African traditional iftar food anymore I find it incredibly heavy so I do dates, some days sambusa and straigh dinner. I love our food but i find eating straigh dinner is better for me
Asalam Alaikum sister ❤I hope you are having a good month of Ramadan and your sweet children too ❤❤ I also wanted to ask do they go to an Islamic school? I’m from the south too and trying to find an Islamic school for my boy when he starts school next year! Asalam Alaikum ❤
So jealous that your family eats lamb. My husband doesn't, his family doesn't for Easter, and our toddler has no interest. I bought a single-serving package this week so I could eat it close to the holiday. Your food looks so heavenly!
Yeah, I'm with you on the psychopathic behavior and drinking cold water... My husband and son drink it cold while my daughter and I drink it room temp. And they are psychos. Lol, but loving the videos! I struggle as a married woman so I know you're being pulled in sooo many directions. You're doing an amazing job Mama.
I think the issue in today’s modern society is that most women are expected to work due to rising costs , two incomes have become necessary. However, men then as a result do not adjust and help their wives with shopping, caring for children and all other chores and resentment is built up. Sometimes I feel in my situation “Well stuff my husband I will get all the reward” but some days it really isn’t that easy having that mind set as I have been married 18 years ! May Allah swt make us stronger & help us all in our difficult situations - Ameen
Chicken Tinga is Mexican cuisine. I’m Mexican and Muslim Alhamdulillah but we don’t use packs for it? I think they have spices in there to make it easier on people
It’s not just single parents - plenty of joint parent families struggle if one of the parents work away/very long hours on top of managing school/home/work/other family responsibilities. Allah give those struggling sabr and strength. Ameen 🧡
What we plan we plan but what Allah plans Allah plans but Alhamduilah ur in a better place am still shock i can remember you was talking about third baby .... our lifes so unpredictable have trust in Allah...
Mashallah nice vlog ALHAMDUALLAH. May ALLAH send you more work your way may he give you you more success so you bring more vlogs for us AMEEN. May Allah give use so much barkart and happiness ameen. May Allah keep you strong in your marriage and make it work AMEEN. 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🇯🇴🇯🇴🇯🇴🇯🇴🇯🇴🇯🇴🇯🇴🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲💐💐💐💐🌹🌹🌹🌻🌻🌺🌺🌺🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍩🍩🍩🍩💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🍨🍨🍨🍨🍨🍧🍧🍧🍧🍧🍧🍧🍧
Evil eye does exist unfortunately which is why people are careful when posting family/babies online. You don’t know who could be intentionally or unintentionally giving you the evil eye and Allah does not have to protect you from it. That’s His discretion. It’s shocking because this is the 3rd “older” influencer I’ve seen this year who’s now divorced.
Salam sister your very beautiful MashaaAllah I would advice you go look for a good looking confident wealthy husband get a beautiful dowry problem solved re marry wait your 3 month of cycle be wise there's good men out there 😊 from Russia Moscow to New Zealand so many good Muslim men out there
I’m so happy for your advice. It’s so good when women come together. Unfortunately I’ve seen another video, where a lady said to the woman, who would marry her? I had to comment, because that comment came as from a fellow woman, not even a man. And try that was so sad. As people who believes in God, we should try empower people or support them especially with our words.
Hello from Algeria I love your videos Can I just say in Islam we shouldn't take divorce so liking so was just thinking like why and who wanted divorce it's so sad
I dont know how to put this put my personal view is nowadays too much is bn post online.amd also also divorce is becoming soo normal like rveryone sharing their jorney etc which is gd sometime but u nd to remember sometime u need to bear a bit of sabr (patience on ur relantionship dont just walk away make it work.as long he has not raise his hand on you or bein g abusive try m make it wrk for the poor kids sake.i underztand that zeinah story might b diferent which i dont kow.respect to u.good luck.
Salam sis mashaAllah I just found out about your video I watched your video sometime I love your video but that is something that I don’t understand why you show your arm n wear the hijab
I was a single mother of two boys for 8 years, and it was the hardest time of my life.. People dont realise how hard it is unless they have gone through it themselves...ALLAH azzawajal make it easy for all the single mothers as well as parents in general ameen 🤲🏼
Ameen
Ameen. I've been a single mum since my kids were 2 and 3.. It's such a struggle but Alhamdulillah for the good and the bad. 😊
Amin❤
Ameen
Ameen Allahumma Ameen 🕋🕋🤲🕋🕋
Your a lovely person and a great mum, I'm a single mum to 5 boys, it's not easy , many times I've wanted to scream or cry my eyes out, but, in sha Allah , you get through it, my eldest is soon to be 20. Alhumdulillah, for all the hardship, I wouldn't change a thing, those boys are my world, they are the reason why I'm still here.
God bless all mum's in the world.
I used to watch your videos everyday after school in highschool, life got in the way but I'm in college and watching more of your videos again, I can't believe how much Liyana and Malik have grown up and your videos are still so great to watch ☺️
So true about the parenthood struggles. Even if you're not a single parent, it's rarely 50/50. Mothers usually take on most the load. I always call myself the married single parent because although my husband and I are together he works 16 hour days so I hardly see him and I run the household by myself. We have 2 kids aged 1 and 4 and I home educate so I feel like I'm never off the clock. As much as I love being a mother I get so overwhelmed by all the things that need to get done and knowing that no matter how much I'm struggling no one is coming to help it's all on me to get it done, be it housework the food shop or something for the kids there's just me, can be so hard to stay positive. I would love to have more kids but in reality I don't know how I would cope if there were more kids to care for. I know people say it gets easier as the kids grow and become independent but I think trying to survive to that point is the key....what's the point if you're mentally and physically broken by the time your kids are independent? You won't be able to enjoy it. So people need to stop comparing women of today to women of the past when times were completely different.
Oh my goodness, this is exactly what I'm going through right now, this made me cry
@shelkhatun4837 hang in there, sis...Allah will reward you for your efforts in sha Allah. May Allah give you the strength and energy to take care of your kids and your home. I'm trying to teach myself to be ok with my home to not be perfect all the time. I'm trying to just focus on a few key tasks, like making sure dinner is cooked and laundry is done. The rest of my day, I try to spend with my kids, and if time allows, I will do other cleaning bits. But I do struggle because I like things to be clean and tidy but I'm trying to accept the fact that that's not possible with 2 small kids who like to have all the toys out all of the time 😅....and I'm hoping one day I'll also figure out where I can have me time because although everyone tells me I should have me time....I haven't quite figured out how that's possible right now because who will be with the kids while I have me time?😅....may Allah make it easy for us all
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SubhanAllah my whole life exctly
@@MadeehaShamsi Just a tip for "me time". Try to do some tasks while your kids are awake and playing. When you put your kids to rest (siesta) in bed at the middle of day then you have your me time while they are sleeping/resting.
Zeinah someone may have suggested this to already but if you and your husband was inlove and all of a sudden you fell apart it could be evil eye or black magic. Xasad people dont like beautiful Happy couple. If you start reading surah al baqrah or ayatul kursi everyday you can defeat those obstacles. Life is beautiful with a partner xabibty. As long as your ex was not abusive and deceitful. Children need that love and support of both parent even apart.
So true
Yep, also she made videos so much so about her and her husband. Portraying the beautiful picture perfect family, there were many!! How do I know that? Because It used to trigger me and I chose to stop watching her videos. I was divorced and in a lot of pain. I was happy for her but they used to trigger me when I was in bad place. I was so HAPPY for her but can you imagine??
There are people out there who might not be?
A single utter it could lead evil eye.
I understood that and stopped watching hers.
Truly saddened for her. I don't know what happened but I will root for her.
May Allah forgive us all and guide us to straight path.
@@princesssamiaa1548 I never really saw too many videos of her husband in face I thought he was camera shy which is a good quality to have. Thanks for The MAnY likes you guys. ❤️..I'm sorry about your divorce samia. Remember everything is either a lesson or a blessing. Sometimes there is a blessing in every lesson. Ask Allah to bless you with the marriage he desires for you. Inshallah Qayr.
It is not healthy for you or for her to speculate about her private life. If they split up, there was a strong reason and the interests of the children were considered. I’m sure she also doesn’t want to spread bad things about her ex husband on here either.
@@d.n.8919 What she said is very much valid and reasonable. Regardless of what may have truly happened, the evil eye is serious and people on the internet take it too lightly. Evil eye and black magic could change a persons whole life, it could bring in terminal illnesses and it was said in a saheeh/authentic hadith;
It was narrated that ‘Ubaid bin Rifa’ah Az-Zuraqi said:
“Asma’ said: ‘O Messenger of Allah! The children of Ja’far have been afflicted by the evil eye, shall I recite Ruqyah* for them?’ He said: ‘Yes, for if anything were to overtake the Divine decree it would be the evil eye.’”
Reference : Sunan Ibn Majah 3510
Salaam Sisters, I don’t wish to comment but for some reason I feel like I need to.
When I was growing up my parents and other parents did not have a village to help them.
You would be surprised to know how difficult it was during the 70s, 80s and 90s. People were struggling a lot, living in cramped conditions, no money, no food to eat, no education, no washing machine, racism was much worst before in the U.K.
There are some people who live alone not because of choice. They have to manage everything on their own. Just remember that God is looking after us all.
You are intelligent, beautiful, young, you have children, a big house, garden, dishwasher, car and a job.
Sometimes we focus too much on others and what we don’t have. The real blessings are with the people and things we already have .
I am no life coach but try to master the art of being alone and doing things alone. We all need social interaction but it’s not worth chasing your whole life for it. Allow it to come to you. Make dua that the right people come to our lives who are good for our Deen/ Hereafter and not just for the duniya.
Well said !
Beautifully put. Allahumabarik.
Love this ❤
Masha Allah ❤
It’s ur last paragraph. My 37 yr old unmarried sister always said this. She’s such a wise soul …it amazes me.
I understand about the co-parenting. It is rare for it to be a full 50/50. But, as my child grew older, I realized I am glad. The effort I put in blossomed into a beautiful person. Without this trial I wouldn't have had such a great reward.
Your absolutely right getting them to help is a skill your teaching them, we are raising them to be independent adults x
I like your videos, I am a single mother of two kids a boy and a girl and they are about the same ages as yours, stay strong you are doing so great
Watching you is so nostalgic.😭 I remember how i binged your videos years back.❤️
Liyana is cuute, Malik is the son that everyone prays for.
Allahuma barik!
Masha Allah, Allahumma barik laha/lahum.
30:45 yea true. People sort of use evil eye as a way to dodge accountability. Trials are not always a sign of punishment.
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MashaAllah, you are a really good mum for your children 🥹. The way you reward them for every good thing that they do is wonderful! I find the idea with these Islamic books really good.
You’re doing a great job sis, may Allah make things easy for you. Your children are adorable mashallah. It is a struggle, I’m also a single mum to a little girl mashallah. But I would choose this life every time, im now finally at peace.. it’s better to be single than in a toxic marriage which your children witness. Allah never gives us more than we can take. We are strong women, we can do this! If your trials are bringing you closer to Allah swt, then see them as a blessing 💕
I love the reflections you share! I always benefit from them so much. And the fact that they are not scripted make them even better 🤍 praying Allah swa always protects you and your lovely children
This was such a lovely video it was like catching up with a friend and was so comforting ❤thank you for being so real. You are a blessing MashaAllah sis xxx love ❤️
I’m not going to dare to presume I know how to co parent or single parent. But some things that have helped me keep my house going…
1. Freezer meal prep all the proteins. Once a month or twice a month, just get them all done
2. Cleaning schedule for small tasks throughout the week. That way it doesn’t pile up for your weekend. If this isn’t working, look into getting a cleaning service once or twice a month to give you a break
3. Evening routine to tidy the house before you go to bed every night. Pop in your air pops to a podcast and when it’s over, you’re done cleaning (whether you are actually done or not) because you also have to rest
Lovely video Zeinah, what what you said about parenting/single parenting in this day and age is so true!
It's tough being a single mum, May Allah make it easy for you and reward you for all you do for your kids
Honestly! It's the hardest experience of my life hands down. Its an ugly feeling; to do everythjng alone in my case, very draining. Everyone's experience is different, I'm a lone parent no coparenting nothing. Just me!!! So I pray for anyone who goes through this.
@caramelqueen6943 I resonate with you may Allah help us
@@caramelqueen6943 Zeinah's kids go to their dad's at weekends, and probably helps out with bills, so different to your situation.
Stay strong 💪 your doing an excellent job being a single parent isn't easy im on myself but at the end you will be awarded for it all❤ you're an amazing mom!!
She’s not single. She has multiple videos with a man.
@@ObeyDaqSwaqqthey recently divorced
We need an updated skincare/ makeup routine because sis your skin is flawless mashallah ❤️❤️❤️ also what did you use on your lashes ??
The amount of gems dropped in these vids I had to put the vid on loop to relisten to the beautiful advices! May we get the ability to practice on it all and in turn be a means of sadaqah jariaah for you. ... The whole vibe of these Ramadan vlogs are so calm. Prefer it over the sky TV shows you promote!lol
You're such an amazing mum❤
Allah bless you and your children with good health and piety and taqwa aameen ya rabb
The basket you made is so cute allahumma barik! ❤
Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️
@@ZeinahNurA goddess walks among us
Loved what you said towards end mashallah may allah reward you for the message. Allahs tribulations are needed in our life its either a blessing or a test for us and either way we learn from it. May allah make everyone's hardship easy out there and bring the best out of them during this ramadan ❤️
Couldn’t have put it better myself & Ameen❤️
Your vlogs remind me of that song “ I think I like this little life” Masha’Allah, May Allah make it easy for us all❤🥹
Zeinah prepare your weekly iftar after you break your fast so you can cook and taste your food and most importantly you will have energy.
Sorry Zainah im one of those people who only drink really cold water 😂 most days i put ice in it too or freeze my bottle 😂 i cant drink room temp ❤
Me too! I cannot drink room temperature water. Someone suggested I drink warm water for gut health I almost threw up at the thought 😅
You are such a beautiful soul, doing absolutely great with raising your gorgeous children- I'm struggling with the fasts, the ones I have managed to keep, I've not had any energy & slept to get through them- you put me to shame!
Do not feel ashamed. You're not alone. Just do your best.
@@Toccup1 Thankyou 🤲🏽
May allah make it easier for you Inshallah.
Its so sad how some ppl cant be kinder even in ramadan! Some of the comments! consider ppls dont always be out on the attack ppl.
Yea Zeinah u are right it most certainly takes a village to raise kids that support is very important and having inlaws/ family around. Yes ppl back then faced their fair share of difficulties but still had family support around them. I remember growing up having aunts uncles around babysitting n helping out where needed.
I for 1 have a 4 year old and 1 year old and nkt 1 day have i had anyone's supprt of keeping them for even an hour!
Your doing a great job Zeinah keep it up and u spoke facts in your video
Liyana is adorable mashAllah ❤she looks just as pretty as you Allahumma barek 💖
Hi Zeinah can you tell me where did get the prayer cloth i really like the colour
Being a single parent ain’t easy May Allah make it easier on us amen 🙏🏾
Is she a single mom ? I am confused sometimes this youruber use certain title to get ppl to click.
Loving the sister hood support / vibes in the comments ❤
I’m in a normal relationship yet it feels like I have a man child. The only responsibility I don’t have is bills but everything else is 99% mine. That takes a huge toll on me every few months and I have a mental breakdown and I get so angry at why Allah has given me such a difficult partner. So yes I will say it, single parenting must be x1000 harder. May Allah help you everyday. I feel inshallah you will flourish more as life goes on x
Sometimes being in a marriage with a man child is worse than being a single mum. The only difficult thing is managing bills and finding childcare.
Chill out! See if you can pay the bills yourself then decide if you want be single
@@aminaa7909 I already am, life's easier now even with a little struggle here and there, it's worth it for me. I'm not saying everyone should leave their marriage, but for some people it's the better option.
@@aminaa7909 this person said they're in a normal relationship so the best thing to do would be to stay work through the problems.
You chose that partner
Stay strong ❤ you are doing so well xx
That 40 day break probably could be the answer to postnatal depression ppl can’t understand how much rest and time women need when they have had a baby but we don’t even get that time 😮
mashAllah, I love this Ramadan basket idea for the kids! inshAllah I'll do that next Ramadan, this year they got a calender.
You are an absolute amazing Mom mashAllah! Never let anybody tell you otherwise!!!May Allah always help you and bless your family and give you peace, amin. ❤
We have starters - vegetable soup/porridge/shurba
Somali /east african fried stuff
Mail meal - everyday lunch meals
Dessert - fruit salad / sweet vermecelli / sweetened plantain with coconut milk
The lilac hijab looked so good on you !
Love your Hijab style with earrings. Please do some tutorials
So I can't do the East African traditional iftar food anymore I find it incredibly heavy so I do dates, some days sambusa and straigh dinner. I love our food but i find eating straigh dinner is better for me
Where did you get your preyer gown from? Always love your videos ❤
Just started watching your videos this ramadan. You have a beautiful family
Ma sha Allah.
Can I ask where your prayer gown is from? Thank you ❤
Asalam Alaikum sister ❤I hope you are having a good month of Ramadan and your sweet children too ❤❤ I also wanted to ask do they go to an Islamic school? I’m from the south too and trying to find an Islamic school for my boy when he starts school next year! Asalam Alaikum ❤
Hey Zeinah, not sure if you have, but cant find the link you said you'd post to the shop where the quran journal was from. Thanks
You are an amazing mother masha Allah
Your children are adorable
So jealous that your family eats lamb. My husband doesn't, his family doesn't for Easter, and our toddler has no interest. I bought a single-serving package this week so I could eat it close to the holiday. Your food looks so heavenly!
Yeah, I'm with you on the psychopathic behavior and drinking cold water... My husband and son drink it cold while my daughter and I drink it room temp. And they are psychos. Lol, but loving the videos! I struggle as a married woman so I know you're being pulled in sooo many directions. You're doing an amazing job Mama.
You are so strong.Insallah you will be happy with your kids❤❤❤
Hunni some people are in marriages but feel like they are a single parent 😔
That is actually quite sad to hear, and I know of a few people in this situation. I pray Allah swt gives them the strength they need❤️
Yep defo know that feeling.
Yes indeed soo true 👍
Yeh I can definitely relate to that 😢
I think the issue in today’s modern society is that most women are expected to work due to rising costs , two incomes have become necessary. However, men then as a result do not adjust and help their wives with shopping, caring for children and all other chores and resentment is built up.
Sometimes I feel in my situation “Well stuff my husband I will get all the reward” but some days it really isn’t that easy having that mind set as I have been married 18 years ! May Allah swt make us stronger & help us all in our difficult situations - Ameen
What lip products do you wear 😍 like the one when you’re on the couch with your daughter. So beautiful.
Asalaamoalikum sister just wanted to tell u that saying Ramadan Mubarak is a major sin as I found out jazakallah khair 😊
We have fruit dates and after maghrib main meal
Which eye lash brand do you use ? They are so pretty mashaAllah
Sis Could u advise us on the type ibaadah u do during menstruation...
❤Hope you're well sis x
Aw thank you sis, hope you’re well too❤️❤️❤️
Chicken Tinga is Mexican cuisine. I’m Mexican and Muslim Alhamdulillah but we don’t use packs for it? I think they have spices in there to make it easier on people
I can’t wait for the tacos recipe since I saw your shorts.
Where is your cardigan from please its beautiful?
I need the salat gown where is it from
15:48 Aww Liyana peeked a bit, she got too excited🥰
AWESOME VLOG ZEINAH.....
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Why did you break up.. You seemed so happy... 😢
abayo wa ku jecelnahay video gada Allah ku xafido
May Allah male everything easy for you
We go for a walk every night, even when its freezing 🥶. I sleep sooo much better. Take a hot shower 🚿🧼🫧 & im out 😴
That was exactly me today with the weather 😅
Sis where is your prayer gown from?
Where's your prayer abaya and scarf from? Jzk
How far are your family?
Hi, where is your green abaya from?
It’s not just single parents -
plenty of joint parent families struggle if one of the parents work away/very long hours on top of managing school/home/work/other family responsibilities. Allah give those struggling sabr and strength. Ameen 🧡
Shani is Coca-Cola company. I’m so mad at them for acquiring every single local brand. In Moroccan they bought Hawaii, in Algeria Mirinda etc etc
JazakAllahu Khairan❤ for sharing these videos❤.. for keeping us company during Ramadan❤ ... 17:14 28/03 ❤❤❤
💯 agree with you ❤sis
Where is the jilbab from please does anyone know
لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّـهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا :'Allah burdens not anyone beyond his or her capacity.'
What we plan we plan but what Allah plans Allah plans but Alhamduilah ur in a better place am still shock i can remember you was talking about third baby .... our lifes so unpredictable have trust in Allah...
Hey do the books contain Arabic for the kids if so please put high up x
Mashallah nice vlog ALHAMDUALLAH. May ALLAH send you more work your way may he give you you more success so you bring more vlogs for us AMEEN.
May Allah give use so much barkart and happiness ameen.
May Allah keep you strong in your marriage and make it work AMEEN.
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Evil eye does exist unfortunately which is why people are careful when posting family/babies online. You don’t know who could be intentionally or unintentionally giving you the evil eye and Allah does not have to protect you from it. That’s His discretion. It’s shocking because this is the 3rd “older” influencer I’ve seen this year who’s now divorced.
May Allah make grant you ease. ❤ Ameen.
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh sister mashallah congratulations 🎉
Look into adrenal gland maintenance for great sleep and stress management; aswaghanda, liquorice root, lemon balm, ginseng...
“Pop out one kid after another” 😅😅
I was told when things are good u should be grateful to Allah swt of not then u should be worried.
Sending love you way ❤
❤your accent
Salam sister your very beautiful MashaaAllah I would advice you go look for a good looking confident wealthy husband get a beautiful dowry problem solved re marry wait your 3 month of cycle be wise there's good men out there 😊 from Russia Moscow to New Zealand so many good Muslim men out there
I’m so happy for your advice. It’s so good when women come together. Unfortunately I’ve seen another video, where a lady said to the woman, who would marry her? I had to comment, because that comment came as from a fellow woman, not even a man. And try that was so sad. As people who believes in God, we should try empower people or support them especially with our words.
Love Shani ! But we're not having it anymore, it's a boycotted item 😊
Nooo way!!!! I did not know that, thank you for making me aware sis❤️
I always watch yrvideo am from mauritius can i knowwhere is ur hubby plz
Hello from Algeria I love your videos
Can I just say in Islam we shouldn't take divorce so liking so was just thinking like why and who wanted divorce it's so sad
Love eating for iftar Birds Eye cod fishfingers with Colman’s tartare sauce its a must for me 😂
I dont know how to put this put my personal view is nowadays too much is bn post online.amd also also divorce is becoming soo normal like rveryone sharing their jorney etc which is gd sometime but u nd to remember sometime u need to bear a bit of sabr (patience on ur relantionship dont just walk away make it work.as long he has not raise his hand on you or bein g abusive try m make it wrk for the poor kids sake.i underztand that zeinah story might b diferent which i dont kow.respect to u.good luck.
You're amazing
Boo 👻 mummy 😂❤
chicken tinga is mexican!
Salam sis mashaAllah I just found out about your video I watched your video sometime I love your video but that is something that I don’t understand why you show your arm n wear the hijab
Why do you have to move house?