I actually argued a lot with my parents but there was a time when they were actually stronger and right and I was just trying to hide my weakness but eventually I realised that to improve I have to let go of somethings and some habits. I am working on myself and now I am not as lazy or worthless as I once was but not perfect. I always try to improve myself. The thing I want to convey is that even if you change or you are trying to change people have only a memory of you from which they judge you so there is no point if you talk about your journey instead you should just put 100% focus on the journey and the achievements will show the truth to the people. Don't let your precious time and energy be wasted on something you'd later regret or suffer a loss from.
I had a gf who used to provoke me by punting out only my bad side. I listened to her at first and realized if that has to be corrected. I accepted and committed that i won't repeat such bad behavior, but she keep on reminding me only how rude n bad I've been when everything is going well. Now I've understood that i was right about her argumentative nature. All i used to tell her to stay humble n polite if arguments escalate, but it always leads to fights and i felt really insecure, frustrated n angry. That's why i used to tell i don't want to live with you ( in anger only), but i used to say sorry at last and tried to tell her why i behaved the way i did and i don't want that to happen with me and i want to improve myself. It's been a year now and the things are still the same. Finally, I've decided to leave her so that i don't become cruel, frustrated and angry person. I believe in mutual understanding and respect, a polite n peaceful nature. Now, m just trying to forget her totally and this video has clearly helped me.
in my view, problem is not *we don't know who we really* 1. even if so, we are not trying to find who I am ? 2. problem is we think that we are something else which we are not really. 3. false identification of self needs validation to proof. 4. what is real it is does not need any validation.
i used to watch your video in other channel before one year and saw how much you were struggling to grow subscriber and cut to today after one year i again saw your videos and it felt so good to see how many susbcribers you have gained . keep growing brother
24:52 I loved your video, bhaiya. I relate to everything you said, especially when you mentioned how people try to provoke you. This happens to me often; I usually ignore it and give the silent treatment. However, sometimes it becomes overwhelming, and I end up arguing, relying on facts and truth. This approach usually deters 80% of people from continuing the argument, but the remaining 20%-the cunning ones-persist and even try to defame me, which drains my energy. My takeaway is that silence and consistent actions are the best responses.
I argue, and I’ll continue to do so in the future. However, I think I need to work on my timing and learn when to stop-essentially, figure out when I’m losing my sense of sanity. I’ve observed that when I argue, after a certain point, I start mirroring the behavior of the person I’m arguing with. If the other person has no valid points to challenge my argument, they often resort to personal attacks. This is the moment I should walk away. But many times, I’ve retaliated and attacked them personally as well. That’s something I think I shouldn’t do anymore because it makes me the very thing I’m fighting against. As Nietzsche said, "He who fights with monsters should see to it that he does not become a monster." I believe arguing can be helpful-it allows one to test their position and identify its flaws for improvement. Edit: I wrote the comment after watching a few minutes of the video, and now I realize you mentioned the very same concept as well. That's interesting!
Since a long time i have been trying to stop argue with anyone, especially with myself over literally insignificant and irrelevant things. The thing is I can now catch my inner impulse to argue, sometimes it gets unleashed but after a couple of seconds I hold its reins. What I observed is my inability to take a solid action which is why I believe is the reason for the inner conflict going on with myself. I do know what I should do, but still i dont do. But why?
This generation's fucked up attention span and the urge for instant gratification... Can't sit and listen to actual content without seeking some form of entertainment or "escape". And no I'm not in comments while watching the video.
I am going to start watching ur videos although i am ur old subscriber....keep growing and i can assure u tht u will inspire many in future....GOD bless u
"रहिमन धागा प्रेम का, मत तोड़ो चटकाय। टूटे पे फिर ना जुड़े, जुड़े गाँठ पड़ जाय।।" ये दोहा अब्दुर्रहीम ख़ानख़ाना (रहीम) का है जो अकबर के दरबार के नौ रत्नों में से एक थें
First of all, Brother thank you so much for this video. This is really very amazing, informative and very perfectly explained. Most importantly very thank you for your hard work to bring such content to people
My takeway from this... while pursuing goal there are 3 stages...startinh stage,transition stage and finished stage...in the 1st two stages our knowledge seems high to us that's why we try to comvince change people or we are trying to prove ourselves by debating...which is harmful for us...cause we r in dunning kruger stage where our confidence is hugh but knowledge is low...so we have to keep quiet listen to all the critics analyze our point of view and DEBATING WITH OURSELVES....then after reaching the goal then also be quiet cause your action will speak to your enemies
Last time I argued with a friend, I know that she was not completely wrong but she was behaving like illiterate and wants to quiet me, and she was deliberately trying to avoid healthy debate because she knew that if she calmly responses my questions she was going to lose or in her mind she accepted that she was not worng, so I just got rude to her that day and after few second got calm then we both decide that we are not argue after this point but after agreing she avoid me for that day and I am avoiding since the day
I'm a student of law I'm trying hard to understand your words but still your words are going over my mind I don't know if I understand it or not.lot of love from Lahore Pakistan ❤❤❤
Mai Argument ko hmesha isliye avoid karta hu kyoki Argument me jeet ta wo nhi hai Jo ki right hota hai balki jeet ta wohi hai jo nonstop kachar kachar kar sake. Bhale hi illogical point ho lekin un points ko kachar kachar nonstop bolte rhe. Par kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki is se mujhe Log bhag kamzor samjege. Ki ye apna muh bahut jaldi band kar leta hai. Meri last Argument kab huyi Mai btata hu. Ek chaiwale ne meri bike se petrol chori kar liya mene fir us se argument ki wo Banda victim khelne lag gya aur illogical point rakhne lga fir bahut lambi argument ke baad mujhe samjh me aaya ki is aadami se argument karna bilkul sahi nhi hai kyoki ye Kabhi apni galati manega nhi, Mai chup ho gya. Fir is baat ko karib 6 month beet gya Mai bas ek din uske samne gya aur mene apne phone me uska photo liya aur bina kuchh bole wha se chla gya. Wo Banda confuse aur surprise ho gya fir usne mere baare me pta karne ki koshish ki ek ladke se mujh Tak message pahuchaya ki wo Rajinama karna chahta hai Sorry bolne ke liye ready hai
Nietschzes analysis of power is from the outside looking in. It is like a formula one racing fan describing areo dynamics and the inner workings of the engine to you. I am not saying he does not have some valid points, but that always needs to be kept in mind.
@official_baan and I don't feel shame in admitting whatever said in video applies to me because if I don't accept I can't change. recently I am learning philosophy, and I will change 😀
last time i argued was on 29 November with my room mate i didn't went their to argue i just went their to tell that what she told me it hurt me the way she come and tell me as a friendly way i also went but she took as offend or something she started me telling thing she should not have and i only saw a way to say sorry and get away with it because i don't have so much strength to fight with someone but i have a rule if someone hurt or disrespect me i don't turn back so i don't talk to her or keep any type of contact
The last time i had an argument was with my friends or so called friends we are on road with one scooty and one bike some random guy told me on road how am i driving but my friends said i am riding fine so we should go behind that guy a tell something to him. But i didn't do that Because it didn't matter to me if he said something or not But friends wanted to go behind him. They said you should not be scared so i said ok and a was silent what they said
Dear brother, on daily basis i put intlectual thoughts on my whats app story to seek validation from others. So now onwards I will put no status. Thanks
So , there was a team when my org members were protesting against Israel , just because Israel tried to defend itself from HAMAS from breaching through their country in counter to that my org members participated on protest burning Israel flags , criticizing Netanyahu , I had no problem with their belief but as a member of org you had a great influence on others what you do will influence others right now , you are spreading hatred towards a specific community so be careful with that , after that they replied bro you don't know what has been Palestine been going through , I was like really than why Hamas even bother attacking Israel if they were so concern about their people , he replied you haven't read Quran bro or haven't seen the children dying there , I was like yo did you just ignore what I tried to said after that I move on leaving eth topic behind .
Are you contradicting the whole point of this video when you ask to comment and share this video? Why should I comment on your video? I don’t want to argue with you. Also, why should I share it with my friends who like to argue? I mean I don’t want to start arguments with them by sending this video. I am not weak. Let me know what you think of this.
Hello brother try to filter your words because your content is really good but your words are so cheap.. and I could not believe you have insufficient word because you are scholar of philosophy❤
12:26 “You need to become a monster, a monster that’s under control” Thumbnail pr JP hai dosent mean it’s throwing rocks at him. Just using his face/ likability/ something he said.
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swetabh effect is unreal , all creators are using his thumbnail template its just so catchy
Inspiring (to be precise)
Even i can see almost all creaors are using swetabh style thumbnail
Even I observed this thing
Yeah maine abhi abhi observe Kiya , but it's cool 😎
I also thought it's shwetabh's video in my subscriptions but it was him lol
I actually argued a lot with my parents but there was a time when they were actually stronger and right and I was just trying to hide my weakness but eventually I realised that to improve I have to let go of somethings and some habits. I am working on myself and now I am not as lazy or worthless as I once was but not perfect. I always try to improve myself.
The thing I want to convey is that even if you change or you are trying to change people have only a memory of you from which they judge you so there is no point if you talk about your journey instead you should just put 100% focus on the journey and the achievements will show the truth to the people. Don't let your precious time and energy be wasted on something you'd later regret or suffer a loss from.
I had a gf who used to provoke me by punting out only my bad side. I listened to her at first and realized if that has to be corrected. I accepted and committed that i won't repeat such bad behavior, but she keep on reminding me only how rude n bad I've been when everything is going well. Now I've understood that i was right about her argumentative nature. All i used to tell her to stay humble n polite if arguments escalate, but it always leads to fights and i felt really insecure, frustrated n angry. That's why i used to tell i don't want to live with you ( in anger only), but i used to say sorry at last and tried to tell her why i behaved the way i did and i don't want that to happen with me and i want to improve myself. It's been a year now and the things are still the same. Finally, I've decided to leave her so that i don't become cruel, frustrated and angry person. I believe in mutual understanding and respect, a polite n peaceful nature. Now, m just trying to forget her totally and this video has clearly helped me.
Tumhara gf narcissistic hai
Aisi choti videos kaadi pasand arahai hai mujhe.
19:47 David goggins also does self talk in tough times with his alter personality
Bro one of the amazing video ever ❤🎉
Thank you for the information.
This video means a lot to me thank you.
We argue because we don't know who we really are.
Right, mostly we argue when we are ourselves in doubt. But when we get clarity, there's no argument. Just commandments.
in my view, problem is not *we don't know who we really*
1. even if so, we are not trying to find who I am ?
2. problem is we think that we are something else which we are not really.
3. false identification of self needs validation to proof.
4. what is real it is does not need any validation.
Full gangsta thumbnails 😂
i used to watch your video in other channel before one year and saw how much you were struggling to grow subscriber and cut to today after one year i again saw your videos and it felt so good to see how many susbcribers you have gained . keep growing brother
Thanks bro in the poll I voted for this but the number of votes were least. I thought you would skip this topic but you made this video. Thanks bro.
17:00 correction
Jode te fir na jude,jude gath pad jaaye
24:52 I loved your video, bhaiya. I relate to everything you said, especially when you mentioned how people try to provoke you. This happens to me often; I usually ignore it and give the silent treatment. However, sometimes it becomes overwhelming, and I end up arguing, relying on facts and truth. This approach usually deters 80% of people from continuing the argument, but the remaining 20%-the cunning ones-persist and even try to defame me, which drains my energy. My takeaway is that silence and consistent actions are the best responses.
First ever short video I ever completed on your Channel 😅❤
I argue, and I’ll continue to do so in the future. However, I think I need to work on my timing and learn when to stop-essentially, figure out when I’m losing my sense of sanity.
I’ve observed that when I argue, after a certain point, I start mirroring the behavior of the person I’m arguing with. If the other person has no valid points to challenge my argument, they often resort to personal attacks. This is the moment I should walk away. But many times, I’ve retaliated and attacked them personally as well. That’s something I think I shouldn’t do anymore because it makes me the very thing I’m fighting against. As Nietzsche said, "He who fights with monsters should see to it that he does not become a monster."
I believe arguing can be helpful-it allows one to test their position and identify its flaws for improvement.
Edit: I wrote the comment after watching a few minutes of the video, and now I realize you mentioned the very same concept as well. That's interesting!
Since a long time i have been trying to stop argue with anyone, especially with myself over literally insignificant and irrelevant things. The thing is I can now catch my inner impulse to argue, sometimes it gets unleashed but after a couple of seconds I hold its reins. What I observed is my inability to take a solid action which is why I believe is the reason for the inner conflict going on with myself. I do know what I should do, but still i dont do. But why?
I think you should use motion graphics in your videos it will help you ❤
This generation's fucked up attention span and the urge for instant gratification... Can't sit and listen to actual content without seeking some form of entertainment or "escape". And no I'm not in comments while watching the video.
You are my special person thanks sir ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am going to start watching ur videos although i am ur old subscriber....keep growing and i can assure u tht u will inspire many in future....GOD bless u
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Brooooo your consistency is crazy
Speak only when words are more valuable than silence. ( Imam Ali as ) The tongue is like beast, if it let loose, it devours ( Imam Ali as )
Make a video on skepticism 🙌🏼
brotha buy one mic pop filter it will improve the audio quality more for sure btw love your videos keep making them
silent make anger people more anger
जो बहस करते हैं वो कमजोर हो या ना हों पर जो कमेन्ट me गालियां देते है वो कमजोर दीमाग के ज़रूर होते हैं
Thanks, bro. It was beneficial for me and please make a video on a white knight by Fyodor Dostoevsky
It's my first time watching your video and I'm new follower 💝
Bhai explore more dostoevsky about Human nature.
05:50 I only be loud when someone try to disrespect me and, make a argument so big that they don't repeat it, or else I don't argue at all.
Hi sir, kindly make more of this kind of videos that solve real-life problems with philosophy
Wonderful video
I just stop talking when I feel like arguing.
"रहिमन धागा प्रेम का, मत तोड़ो चटकाय।
टूटे पे फिर ना जुड़े, जुड़े गाँठ पड़ जाय।।"
ये दोहा अब्दुर्रहीम ख़ानख़ाना (रहीम) का है जो अकबर के दरबार के नौ रत्नों में से एक थें
Yes, correction, thanks!
@DesiPhilosopher74 how to
Apply all knowledge in real life basically a effective method ya system
@@dhruvayadavjust watch the videos you'll figure out lately in your life ❤ philosophy develops in your brain slowly 😊
Shwetabh's Thumbnail?
Bhai I have watched all your videos till date you're a true legend bha mad respect for you brother ❤❤
First of all, Brother thank you so much for this video. This is really very amazing, informative and very perfectly explained. Most importantly very thank you for your hard work to bring such content to people
My takeway from this...
while pursuing goal there are 3 stages...startinh stage,transition stage and finished stage...in the 1st two stages our knowledge seems high to us that's why we try to comvince change people or we are trying to prove ourselves by debating...which is harmful for us...cause we r in dunning kruger stage where our confidence is hugh but knowledge is low...so we have to keep quiet listen to all the critics analyze our point of view and DEBATING WITH OURSELVES....then after reaching the goal then also be quiet cause your action will speak to your enemies
When I argued with some friend who tried to bully me I just fought
Last time I argued with a friend, I know that she was not completely wrong but she was behaving like illiterate and wants to quiet me, and she was deliberately trying to avoid healthy debate because she knew that if she calmly responses my questions she was going to lose or in her mind she accepted that she was not worng, so I just got rude to her that day and after few second got calm then we both decide that we are not argue after this point but after agreing she avoid me for that day and I am avoiding since the day
I'm a student of law I'm trying hard to understand your words but still your words are going over my mind I don't know if I understand it or not.lot of love from Lahore Pakistan ❤❤❤
Super bro I always love your work 👍
Nice talk.more about Nietzsche plz
great vedio effective vedio
Mai Argument ko hmesha isliye avoid karta hu kyoki Argument me jeet ta wo nhi hai Jo ki right hota hai balki jeet ta wohi hai jo nonstop kachar kachar kar sake. Bhale hi illogical point ho lekin un points ko kachar kachar nonstop bolte rhe. Par kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki is se mujhe Log bhag kamzor samjege. Ki ye apna muh bahut jaldi band kar leta hai. Meri last Argument kab huyi Mai btata hu. Ek chaiwale ne meri bike se petrol chori kar liya mene fir us se argument ki wo Banda victim khelne lag gya aur illogical point rakhne lga fir bahut lambi argument ke baad mujhe samjh me aaya ki is aadami se argument karna bilkul sahi nhi hai kyoki ye Kabhi apni galati manega nhi, Mai chup ho gya. Fir is baat ko karib 6 month beet gya Mai bas ek din uske samne gya aur mene apne phone me uska photo liya aur bina kuchh bole wha se chla gya. Wo Banda confuse aur surprise ho gya fir usne mere baare me pta karne ki koshish ki ek ladke se mujh Tak message pahuchaya ki wo Rajinama karna chahta hai Sorry bolne ke liye ready hai
Bhai dostoevsky k novels pr deep dive lao
Thank you ❤
Nietschzes analysis of power is from the outside looking in. It is like a formula one racing fan describing areo dynamics and the inner workings of the engine to you. I am not saying he does not have some valid points, but that always needs to be kept in mind.
Stoic beard 🗿
You're definitely gonna have millions subscribers in 2025❤❤
Hmm finding Sartre in you 13:58 ❤
Weak people argue because they don't have purpose in their lives
Max stirner pe banao ek bro ! Egoism , interesting philosophy hai
I am actually bully and you said in the video is truth, and i want to change
Means you are weak, change😊
@official_baan and I don't feel shame in admitting whatever said in video applies to me because if I don't accept I can't change. recently I am learning philosophy, and I will change 😀
@@suprcode2 Change is the only constant
@@official_baan 🙌
i was a bully too in school, can relate.
Trying to influence people by demeaning the audience is also kind of argumentative.
Plz make a video on nicomachean ethics by aristotle
strong stand and i am with you brother I not argue but more of debate with my closed one that knows me
last time i argued was on 29 November with my room mate i didn't went their to argue i just went their to tell that what she told me it hurt me the way she come and tell me as a friendly way i also went but she took as offend or something she started me telling thing she should not have and i only saw a way to say sorry and get away with it because i don't have so much strength to fight with someone but i have a rule if someone hurt or disrespect me i don't turn back so i don't talk to her or keep any type of contact
Philosophy ❣️
One Of Your Very first white board lecture popped on my screen 😂 from that day till now I have finished 80% videos of you
One video on superstations
Make long video brother 7 to 10 hr psychology philosophy sociology political science ke bhi video aane doo
please make video on leonardo di vinci 😊
Pleae provide english subtitle s
05:48 no argument since 2015 ig
This was a good lecturer..if you can brother pls make lecture on god complex..thanks 🎃
People live different lives so their mentality or perception is different so what is the point of arguing.
The last time i had an argument was with my friends or so called friends we are on road with one scooty and one bike some random guy told me on road how am i driving but my friends said i am riding fine so we should go behind that guy a tell something to him.
But i didn't do that Because it didn't matter to me if he said something or not
But friends wanted to go behind him.
They said you should not be scared so i said ok and a was silent what they said
godfather philosphy jisko ispe chaiye sigmaaaa londo like kro ❤
Swetabh effect is real.
Dear brother, on daily basis i put intlectual thoughts on my whats app story to seek validation from others. So now onwards I will put no status. Thanks
Bhai apne notes ke link do na, it'll be super helpful
I do argue with Frds family n dear ones but never feel strengthened.
Nietzsche Baba is my favourite philosopher.
Nice sir
Sir short videos vi uploade karo channel jaldi grow hoga
Bully person is restless so they bully other.
And nobody is immune to it whom we think weak shy if we give them money and power they become one
Video recommendation: How to get into philosophy
AAJ HI KIYA , I ALWAYS FEEL WEAK
Bro thinks he is Shwetabh Gangwar
Sir ek ultimate lecture Ludwig Wittgenstein pr bnaiye
Bro brought attack mode
So , there was a team when my org members were protesting against Israel , just because Israel tried to defend itself from HAMAS from breaching through their country in counter to that my org members participated on protest burning Israel flags , criticizing Netanyahu , I had no problem with their belief but as a member of org you had a great influence on others what you do will influence others right now , you are spreading hatred towards a specific community so be careful with that , after that they replied bro you don't know what has been Palestine been going through , I was like really than why Hamas even bother attacking Israel if they were so concern about their people , he replied you haven't read Quran bro or haven't seen the children dying there , I was like yo did you just ignore what I tried to said after that I move on leaving eth topic behind .
From 🇧🇩
Kangaladeshi 😂
💯🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️
I love Balaji tomato chips 😂😂
Bro you can learn from something called curious to great content
Bro the thumbnail is soo much like shwetab's (Gangster perspective) video. I thought it was his vid loll
Now recent day one guy treate with me very disrespect and bad words using voilence behaviour
Are you contradicting the whole point of this video when you ask to comment and share this video? Why should I comment on your video? I don’t want to argue with you. Also, why should I share it with my friends who like to argue? I mean I don’t want to start arguments with them by sending this video. I am not weak.
Let me know what you think of this.
Why don’t you talk about Indian philosophy?
Hello brother try to filter your words because your content is really good but your words are so cheap.. and I could not believe you have insufficient word because you are scholar of philosophy❤
Bhai please this is a request do add subtitles in english
This time I am not first because I was having clas 😢
Bhi george gurdjieff pe lecture le aao
fix the thumbnail
Bhai do you go to gym?
What did neitsche thought about death?
Jordan peterson seriously?
12:26 “You need to become a monster, a monster that’s under control” Thumbnail pr JP hai dosent mean it’s throwing rocks at him. Just using his face/ likability/ something he said.
Haa bhai kaafi pretentious hai vo
Vs Matt dellahunty dekhna uska. Smj ajayega
@@GutRegeneration yes Jordan peterson was describing Nietzsche without giving him credit
Jaakir Nayak ki photo kyon nahin lagai....😅.. Darshan padre ke bad vi andarse vahi ho kya...😅
ragg ragg me daudta h bhai, andar se kya, kaisi baate kr di...