I had several 60+ year old men approach me on various non-dating socials saying that they would never date a woman over 40 (who is still two decades younger than them), because ''she is too old". When I said that they are too old for me, they were shocked, many told me that ''they will take care of me" as if live-in mail order bride is ok (I am not American) or that I am crazy because women are supposed to look for ''personality and stability" and not look. The psychosis is real ladies and fueled by the manosphere, it's not your fault.
Yeah if you really think about it when men are in their 60s they act like spoiled children they know there clock is ticking and sometimes younger women fill that void because they have more energy to care give for them. Even though for her it would be a nightmare because he couldn't give her kids and he wouldn't last very long during sex unless he bought supplements. Nobody prepares men for getting old so they think anyone beyond the age of 35 goes into some sort of soccer mom category. In reality women do mature faster than men but our skin is softer so some of us age slower then the average man. My ex told me that my tits got bigger too and some men are not used to a full set of tits.
If you’re in your 50s or older, and don’t have a hyperactive sex drive and/or need a 2nd income, there is absolutely no reason to have a male around to give you drama, disease and being their nurse with a purse. Don’t screw up your life.
I just blocked someone who told me that if I wasn’t going to reply to his attempt to make conversation that I should just unfollow him. So I did. (He said he felt very upset when I didn’t reply to him..) Ext thing I read, he is upset that I unfollowed him. I took a moment to let him know I don’t talk with people usually - and all I did was follow him back.!! No initiating the conversation at all!! He said he understood & then tried to engage in a conversation- and when I didn’t answer told me again how upset he gets. Totally ignored my no. It happened twice & I blocked and reported him.. Man without a clue. 😟😟😟
Yeah, I’m staying single. I don’t want their gambling debts, their sports addictions, their children or the children’s issues, the intrusive ex, the financial crises, the physical disabilities or illnesses, the second burner phone, the lack of retirement planning or ANY of it. At my age I just want to focus on finishing this thing called life on my own terms, and without any additional stress brought up by an immature partner. Maybe society is finally recognizing that marriage, monogamy, and relationships aren’t the end-all, be-all of life’s goals.
Same. I've been married twice. First was 14 years of unhappiness until I go the courage to divorce him (I was wife #2 of 3). My second, and soul mate, died 3 years ago after bone cancer and a slow decline down with chemo-related heart failure. We have one child who is 8. I don't trust any other man in my home around my child. Anyone my age will start to have health problems and I'll be a caregiver again within 10 years. Most likely they will have ex-wives and kids and baggage from that. If they don't, that's also a red flag. I'll be just fine on my own.
A lot of ppl suck lol. They haven't worked on their trauma; they don't really like/love/value themselves so they're seeking others out to validate them and give them self worth. A lot of wounded children in adult bodies that refuse to do any inner work. A lot of empty vessels demanding they be poured into.
That's the problem I'm having. I worked through trauma, done shadow work and am spiritually awakened. I can't do these mainstream wounded men. I don't watch the news, i don't sit in front of a TV, i am not political. I'm tired of toddlers in men's bodies
So true. I've found it hard to make friends or connections in my new city - both female and male. There simply aren't nice folk about - most of the available are aggressive, depressed etc
What astonishes me is that men - supposedly logical and problem solving humans - totally waste their own time pursuing women much younger looking who simply aren't interested in those old crocks.
Men our age are like parking places - all the good ones are taken and the only ones left are handicapped. I don't have the emotional energy for men. They are exhausting. I love being alone.
I like how she said or too far away. I've driven 4 hours for a first date before. Really made the effort. But I agree, after 50 years I'm done. Can't take women anymore either. I hate being alone, but better nobody than the wrong body.
Same here…Im 50. I’ve been living alone for 8 years and I get a mini panic attack even thinking about living with some man, but they will say that we are lying, they will say that we want a man, they will say we are lonely. They will not say this: That we put our peace and emotional and physical health over chancing it with some man. They never consider that. They never consider that we don’t have the time or energy to try or that we did try and that is why we no longer try. Men are quite weird. I’ve not met a normal man yet.
jacquelynn2051 Same. Alone and at peace for three years. Whenever I talk to men they seem to intentionally misunderstand you, even on simple things and I think, wow, I put up with that for years.
I had a guy ask me out to help him clean up his island. No one asks that unless he’s tighter than a bulls ass in fly time. I declined, and told him to pay someone to do that. I also wasn’t going to go to an island with someone I don’t know so I could end up on an episode of Dateline! 😮
I became a widow in my 60s. Why are the men in my age bracket full of nasty old white beards, baggy old clothes, crocs, and ratty pony tails? If a man is my age and looks decent, I'm sure he has a wife who will not let him out of the house looking like that. Step up your game men, but better bring your A game, because the women worth having won't take less. I look good, have my own teeth and a full head of hair, my own money, have my own home, and all my parts work. I can dance, and I can cook. I'm not a nurse with a purse.
I’ve said this to my (adult) son. He asked why I don’t want to date. I told him to look around at men my age. Are they wearing clean clothes? Do their clothes fit and show some pride in their appearance? Are they physically fit? Are they groomed (hair and face)? What condition are their teeth in? Do they have acceptable eating behaviors? My son now “GETS IT”. When we’re out together he’s astonished at the (poor) condition of men my age. We always have a good laugh (“Hey mom, there’s a stud muffin for you!”)
Y'all I went on a date a few years back with this fool who only wanted to talk about his ex and their daughter. How the lil girl started calling her Mom's new man Dad and how pissed he was about that. He didn't take the time to get to know me or ask me about myself and when it came time to order the waiter asked if I wanted to order Sushi he answered for me and said NO. We'll just have the hibachi. I was so stunned because I was thinking ninja, I can order my own food - you don't have to pay for it. After the date I shook his hand and told him to have a nice life 👋🏾😡🤬 He texted me after the date and asked "Why did you say have a nice life like we're not gonna see each other again?! I said hell no you need psychological help from your past situation with your ex and how that is affecting your life currently. I said you shouldn't date until you've resolved those issues and I blocked him. #BLOCKED #IDONTDOCRAZY
I got married when I was 67, he is 62. We met at the racquet club. My advice is to be active and meet people. FYI I asked god to help me.... and we met 2 months later and got married 2 years later. .
Ladies, the beautiful woman at 1:30 is showing you EXACTLY what you should do...get up, pay your half of the bill and keep it MOVING...I'm 54 and I have done that...even ditched them at a crowded park in the middle of a fall festival by saying I had to haul it to the ladies.
I don't agree. They learn nothing from that. You can be kind and TELL them the reason why you're leaving. That way, maybe, just maybe, you leave them a little less clueless for the next woman. Girls gotta help other girls!
Helping a man load lumber as a first date??!! I would have said, “for casual labor like that, I charge $150. an hour. How long do you think it’ll take? Does that work for you?”
I was dating a guy who pulled that on me. I went to see him and he had me doing part of his job. I was angry. He was getting paid for it, but did I get one cent!? I think he thought I was so into him that I wouldn't mind. SMH
I have a small farm and was looking for someone with similar interests. I was on Farmers Only for a while. Most of the guys on there were either city guys "thinking they would like the fresh air" - no mention of liking the hard work. Or they were old guys looking for a free ranch hand with benefits, preferably with long blonde hair, good figure, and 20 years their junior. As if. I was dumb enough to spend some time helping deliver and bottle feed calves for one guy, but when I asked him to help me fix a fence he would have liked to, but I lived a bit too far away... All this to say that I decided I like my own company just fine.
I Was Hoping By The Time I Reached My Forties, Men Would've Matured Enough For Me To Date Properly....Now I See They're Stuck With Their Arrested Development && I've Made Peace With It.
Exactly because, why are these over 50 women still desperately looking for a man, i thought we realized that centering ourselves is the way to go, ugh, its not worth the stress, done done
These are the women that are actually older women i don't believe every older woman looks or thinks like this either they always show women that nobody would look twice at but if you compared them to older women that actually look good you would just see a lot of people stereotyping these women like they all suddenly turn into Karen's after 50. Just don't get married or have kids and you will start to develop an edge to you and only certain types of people will look at you and in some cases you won't even have to chase men they will back up and notice the age difference and be more respectful to you.
I'm 42 and married for 20 years...... my husband is a good man..... has his ways of course........ but even I still don't see myself at that age single wanting to be around men
Sad thing is that Women cant even be support systems for each other. Find some female friends and live your best lives. Golden girls gone wild. Have fun and big up sisters. You got this.
In my 20s I was constantly harrassed by men in their 50s and even considerably older, including one in his damned 70s! In my 30s I got harrassed by men who were my age-ish, men who KNEW that I was in a relationship including his own damn friends, (yet he stayed friends with them). In my 40s I was targeted by a younger guy who effectively turned me into his purse and mom while constantly berating me for being "old". In my 50s I got free and stayed single, and felt fairly peaceful. For the first time I wasn't being bothered by the old decrepit users who are all looking for a younger woman... though one ex from the past thought he could come back and have me as a FWB on the side, LOL, Nope. Finally got with my now husband in my late 50s. He is the same guy who was my first love as a teenager (and I his). 63 now and I'm very happy with a wonderful man who actually grew up! Only took 40 years apart for us to both be mature enough to make something good, and I consider myself lucky because he's one of the rare ones! Had he not reappeared in my life I would have stayed single and peaceful. Don't settle ladies, not even if age is creeping up and you feel lonely sometimes, it's really not worth the misery, disrespect, and stress they bring. Only do it if someone special who is worth it comes along. X
The amazing part about it (and I’m not using “amazing” in a complimentary way) is that the guy STILL didn’t understand when she told them that this isn’t working and they’re looking for different things.
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_LivingAh, he understood just fine ! Most men are not dumb ( we are the dominant species on Earth !), they just PRETEND to be dumb to avoid responsibility ! I've seen this many times ! In my family, we are all educated, my male relatives had good jobs, could speak multiple languages, could perform complicated math calculations, but pretended to be too dumb to do housework or anything they didn't want to do. When dating, I even met people who lied and faked about having Autism, ADHD, trouble hearing, etc to explain & excuse their bad behaviour. I got educated early on these illnesses and they couldn't fool me for long.
@@ryanellsworth7246Really? Do these women sound like they are into manipulation? Plus, for THOUSANDS of years, the ONLY power women had to control their own lives was by manipulation, and manipulation is only effective when it appeals to some deficit in one's sense of self. A man who is truly an adult, who knows himself, can't be manipulated. Ironically, I am "on the spectrum" and find lying and manipulation to be very difficult and exhausting so, mostly, I just don't do it. My ex, constantly accused me of trying to manipulate him, which pretty much left me dumbfounded. Well, I tried it a few times and he was happy as a clam. I finally told him that, it didn't do much good. He just went back to dating and relationships that failed when they inevitably reached the point of his emotional incompetence. Each time, the quality, or desirability of his partner went down. From single working woman to a divorced mom with two ADHD boys. I, of course predicted this even before he left me. My last prediction is that he will end up with a woman just like his much hated step-mother. From my daughter's reports, he's on his way!
It is very hard to find men who 1) can carry on a thoughtful conversation (instead of a monolog) 2) are self-aware, will admit when they are wrong and apologize
I’m 50 years old and living the wholesome existence of a spinster. 😁 I’ve got my two little dogs in bed with me right now, and I wouldn’t change a thing. Pets & Peace! 🙌🏻
Because NOT EVERYONE GOT MARRIED. Specially not everyone married before they were 20 like you did. So yeah. Some women would like to try to have a stable partner for once. Babaca
@@carlahaiduk1878 Bem dito! Well said! I'd still like to give it a go. But at 50 and ready to retire there's too much risk to do more than be good friends or partners.
Honestly, all these stories are Dating in General, not just over 50. 👈🏼So much so, I already stopped dating, & I'm not in my 50's yet. I feel so bad for girls Today; a date Today, even for a younger person is Still shiz like This🙄.
I am 57 and there is no reason to date a man now. I can look in the mirror and know I look good without validation from anyone else! That voice male guy can date his hand!!!!
One of the big problems is that men over 50 have baggage. Everyone does: Broken relationships = difficulty with trust. Children who are hurting. Trauma from your family of origin. Health issues. ... but older people have MORE. And older people who have never been married? Very likely there is a reason(s) for that. Most stable, loving, family-oriented emotionally and spiritually healthy men who want to be married already have. At 61, I am done giving my all to take care of others. Maybe it's selfish, but I want to take care of myself, do what I want. spend or keep my money as I want, come and go as I want...I am more than content with life as a single.
I don’t want to get in a man’s car on a first date either, so the dude asking the lady to ride in a car with him and loading lumbar was inappropriate for more than it just being a working date.
That was the thing fo me. We haven't met but you want me to get in a vehicle and ride 45 minutes away???? You don't have good boundaries and, apparently, you don't think I have good sense.
Yea, had a guy I know ask me out to watch football. This is how we bonded so it was no problem. The problem came when I walked in and the waitress was sitting at the table. She leaves and comes back to take our order. He proceeds to order 8 wings. The waitress looks at me and ask what I would like. He interrupted her and told her that we would be splitting the 8 wings. All the while bragging about having a pool built in his backyard. I literally thought I was getting punked.
I had something similar happen to me. He chose the expensive restaurant for the first date, I would have been ok with a restaurant for middle class ( which we both are). He ordered himself stake. Ok. The waitress asked me what I wanted. He cut in and ordered a salad for me. I replied, politely, that I wanted chicken breast with fries and a small salad, as a side dish. He tried to convince me otherwise but I didn't concede. I knew in my heart in that moment that it was hopeless, but I didn't want to make a scene. The waitress listened to me and brought our orders. He tried to make small talk but was visibly fuming. I ate my dish relishing every bite to spite him... 😁 He even had the audacity to comment on my weight ,but I laughed and said I am of normal weight ( true) while he is overweight ( also true) and he should have ordered the salad. The audacity ! He thought he would punish me by insisting to pay Dutch at the end, but I was expecting that and laughed again and paid only what I ate, not 50% of the whole bill. He was surprised I refused a second date ! Gee, I wonder why... 😂
The voicemail guy…all the reasons he gave for his attaction are superficial. All the reasons he says he’s a great are superficial. This is a guy in his 50s. These men cannot love
Honestly, most married women don't even want the man they've been with for decades. It feels more like a job than a relationship. My thoughts today were "Is this even still a marriage or just a bad habit"?
I recently realized that and am glad I got divorced over 20 years ago. The ex and I are still friends and we're happy with that. But living together still? oh no.
When I was young lots of older men try to approach me. It is disgusting - they should have looking for women of their age. Now I am over 50 and living my best life with my partner. And in any case I just quit dating - do not need to be a caretaker for old men.
Most men leave the one they promised to take care of in sickness and health, as soon as their 'life partner' can no longer change their big ole diapers. In the old days I'm sure they just left us at the side if the road to die of thirst if we got sick. If they just didn't club us. Rembember they lie at least twice as much as women do.
There are nice men in the world but they are committed at fairly young ages and they stay committed at least ten years at a time. Men that are long term single after thirty five or so don't want to be married. They've passed up at least two good opportunities to have a domestic family life.
There are some you can find even later in life. In my case my father went to jail when I was 22 so I gave up dating to take care of my mom and younger siblings after finishing college. Since my dad was a sex predator, dating was a nightmare until he got out and I was old enough that girls no longer asked what my dad does for a living. I hated saying, "Time", "He makes license plates" or "He's a pedophile". I got engaged a few times in my 30s but one was prevented by her mom and sister who thought she could do better than a second class son of a ... The other wanted nothing to do with my messed up family and wanted me to run away with her but I was still trying to help my nephews to not be jaded by the family drama and would not leave. After 40 it's all been damaged manipulators and hot messes. At 50 I'm tired of trying to be the best man I can be only to be judged and abused. Even my own sister-in-law didn't trust me around my nieces for a few years because I am single and from a broken family. How good does a person have to be to make up for his parents poor choices? I'd love a chance at a real relationship, but good girls won't touch me and I refuse to settle for the broken ones.
@@ryanellsworth7246 my father is also what your dad is - and I would never associate with him as long as I live. It sounds like your parents are still together? Or you’re still interacting with your father? If either is true, sorry, that’s why you’re having dating issues. You’re not your dad but if your family still associates with him in any way, you’re not a safe person and it’s you guys, not the girls who won’t date you, who are broken. No one cares your dad is a pedo they care if you enable and diminish what he did and still have ties with him. Bro break ties with that toxic family and you still have enough time for a full life where you’re not taking care of responsibilities that weren’t supposed to be yours. If she was a real one I wish for your sake you had ran away with that girl you were dating when she asked. You could have adopted your nephew later.
Young guys, young guys, and more young guys. Seriously it's kinda hard not to fool with them because men my age are boring,weak back and kinda bitter. And even tho I know it's no future with me and a younger man (more then likely). I'd still rather.
@ellenicoletv4095 Shocking and sad!! Sis... so I picked my young lover up from work one night, and he was waiting outside smoking and chilling with his co-worker (an older black male). Sis, no contact with him, I just pulled up and my lover told him bye and got in the car. So I could tell by the way he was looking at me that obviously love bunny had been talking about me. I didn't care, lol men. How come love bunny come telling me old and bitter was telling him that older blackwomen ain't no good they be jealous and needy. And he said he told him well its quite the opposite. He's actually the possessive one and that he's never felt more loved and wanted. Wooooooow. They do that mess all the time because now they played out. Nobody wants an old man unless he has money, but an older woman we still have value on multiple levels. Especially blackwomen. Their soooo sad.
It’s a test. If she’s willing to do his bidding then he likely thinks she’s worthy of doing other things for him…she’s easy and willing to be his satellite.
I'm in Mississauga (I know it's not the same, but most of the men I've dated are from Toronto), and that definitely sounds like a Toronto man thing to say, lol 😆
That's why I switched teams after being married to a man for 27 yrs - been there, done that - plus women keep getting better as they age, in every way ;).
Were you always attracted romantically to the same gender? I have straight female friends who insist that they could never be romantically involved with another female.
@@screentake01 Yes, very Bi throughout school but there was never a question that I would marry a man. Thank gawd times are different now for the next generation!
Thank you! What I don’t like about these types of videos is it’s negative from the start, plus, and most of all, they are only talking about superficial attributes- when real love doesn’t have anything to do with this type of thing. I know when I fell in love it wasn’t anything to do with a guy looking like a sharp dresser or chiseled body or wealth. Those things are very nice while anyone has them, (let’s face it, as we get older the only thing that can grow sweeter is our bank accounts and assets) it has nothing to do with real love. Real love means adoring the person with the missing tooth, the financial struggles the family baggage. It happens. What I think what these types of videos mean to say is there’s a lot of men who have serious issues with themselves but this is also true for women of any age. Most all the well adjusted people (who wanted to marry) are in marriages already. (Most, not all) I can add too, that life isn’t linear and some people find their way out of issues that previously prevented them to be a good significant other for someone. So there is hope in that too.
I’m 48 and been contentedly single for 15 years. I’ve had a few dates and flirtations but it never went anywhere. One colleague would text me out of the blue about his bowel movements. Really. One single father I went on a date with wanted to get a commitment after that date and a couple of calls. I had a fitness instructor (single dad with full custody) who was just interested in seggs. One creepy colleague just slithers into my social media or art shows even after I block him everywhere. I may have to take serious action there. One guy from POF wanted to meet AT 10 FRIGGING PM!!!!! And when I said it was too late he gaslit me. “You seemed like you’d be fun.” I told him I was sure he’d find someone more compatible. Another POF guy was an ex con and got kicked out of his sister’s house and was a total mess. Yet another POF guy, who also happened to be a colleague, seemed great but ended up being an addict. And pew pew enthusiast. Yikes. And he voted for 45. YIKES.
Did you know that POF used to have certain profiles that would show up after 8 pm on the app for men? If a guy was unlucky enough to click one he would get a pron email sent to him with very graphic pictures. So hard to respectfully look at profiles after that. I had to stop and wait for my mind to get back in the right gear. POF is made by bad people. (And no, I don't mean us gun loving MAGA weirdos either.) ;p
I would never consider dating at all over forty or fifty. I would be enjoying my life with my girls travelling, spas, working out and eating good food. Why spoil it?
Haha, love the "oh no" song one - i dated a guy whose exes were all crazy, but from within the first 5-10 minutes, he made me feel uncomfortable, then started mocking me?! I wish i had got my bag and left, but i just didn't see how bad it could get and i didn't want to create drama, so i kept going for the whole planned evening. In future, i don't ever intend to do that again. And yes, i doubt his exes were crazy- more likely, they were insecure and he continually picked at them, destabilising them. Because that's what he tried to do to me!
Oh talk about the first date. Oh my gosh one of them. He was an old friend of mine too. He asked me to come over. His family was going to barbecue so I thought oh that's wonderful! It's a beautiful day. I go over there. He said when you get here can you just pick up some wine coolers? I'm thinking so sure. No worries. I'll pay you back. He said I'm not sure. No worries. I get there as families passing me bowls of barbecue sauce and bowls of chicken to put on the grill. I said what is this for and they said oh we kind of need help and I was like oh my gosh I really didn't come over here to be on nobody's grill. I have white pants on. And so I took the sauce and I did my best. Thank God I brought my daughter with me cuz I knew something might be up and if something was up I'll say oh I got to take my daughter home. So more and more family kept coming. They asked me to watch the grill. Cuz we need to make sure that's some good chicken I was like. Yeah you right? I'm going to make sure it's real good and when they all went in to talk I walked out the back gate with my daughter. We got in the car and left and I never came back again😂😂😂😅
Don't trust social media. It's all losers, propagandists and people venting their frustrations. As long as you are setting goals and working to be the best version of yourself you can be and just being true to yourself you always have a chance. In a broken world where everyone is unhealthy, remember, the cream always rises to the top.
No Sis, I truly believe there is a lid for every pot. If you want it then it is out there for you. I am happily single so I enjoy these videos, but don’t let them scare you. There is a lot of garbage out there, but you don’t need every man to be a good man, you only need your one good man, and he does exist.
Thank you so much for putting this video together. It is so nice to know I’m not alone. I will say I’d rather be alone. Would be with the wrong person though. I can’t say enough about having peace in my life.❤
So grateful for this reality at the moment. Been single from recent separation two years ago. Have been busy putting my life back together that I have had no time to think of romance. Recently my time has opened up…and ; I don’t do apps, I don’t do free emotional labour and have very little tolerance for men socialized in the patriarchy. the matchmaker is right; my standards are too high…thakfully my life is full as it’s and peaceful the idea of compromising for anyone is so boring now. It seems so small.
I think they still want to date because they're human and desire companionship. Although the bear sounds more enticing than all of these scenarios combined, these women want to believe in love I guess 😅
I know of a woman who found a good man. Her health is better because they garden, both remarried after 80 years old. If that can happen for her it sure can happen for me!
Very amusing video 😅 I've been single for 20 ish years - I'm 60 - and I've enjoyed my life a lot, I have amazing adult kids, adorable grandchildren, sisters friends & a job I like ... there's no way I'd tie myself down, and as a nurse I've looked after enough old men... I do believe once a guy is approaching 60 he is looking for a cook, cleaner and caretaker. I meet men like this at work in my role and they say this with no shame... why the heck would I want to do that for anyone? It's fine with my family ... but some old guy who's gonna likely have incontinence (& most old men do!) & need a woman to take care of him as he ages NO way !! I love my life too much
I am not in my 50's but I enjoyed this video, and I have decided to continue living alone with the cats. The cats don't lie, cheat and can't give me a std, it's a win-win situation.
Lol! Got into my last relationship at forty eight and ended it at fifty nine. Not looking, and if I never date again I won't be upset! Of course I don't know the future, but I'm not going to actively put myself out there that's for sure! 🖖
Yeah, I pretty much gave up on dating over 50 years old. The young guys wanted someone to support them, take care of them or just a one night try out. The older men or men my age are either icky or looking for much younger women than themselves. 64 now and other than when I have automobile problems where I'm going into battle with auto mechanics. Those moments that try any single woman's soul. I'm fine and dandy by myself.
I had several 60+ year old men approach me on various non-dating socials saying that they would never date a woman over 40 (who is still two decades younger than them), because ''she is too old". When I said that they are too old for me, they were shocked, many told me that ''they will take care of me" as if live-in mail order bride is ok (I am not American) or that I am crazy because women are supposed to look for ''personality and stability" and not look. The psychosis is real ladies and fueled by the manosphere, it's not your fault.
They are absolutely delusional
Yeah if you really think about it when men are in their 60s they act like spoiled children they know there clock is ticking and sometimes younger women fill that void because they have more energy to care give for them.
Even though for her it would be a nightmare because he couldn't give her kids and he wouldn't last very long during sex unless he bought supplements. Nobody prepares men for getting old so they think anyone beyond the age of 35 goes into some sort of soccer mom category. In reality women do mature faster than men but our skin is softer so some of us age slower then the average man.
My ex told me that my tits got bigger too and some men are not used to a full set of tits.
I'm sure they'll get just what they're looking for.....I think the term is gold-digger.
@@Rickettsia505But none of them have gold. 😂
I had a man 20 years older than me try and court me. I have absolutely no interest. It’s crazy how they think women would be interested in that.
Any guy who says “I’m a great catch” isn’t.
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That's not for HIM to decide! Just like a "niceguy" doesn't get to decide for himself that he's "nice"; that's for OTHERS to judge!
Toss him back lol
In the 70s, there was a song, " too many fish in the sea " .
Does that apply to women also? Just about every woman in this montage called herself a catch.
If he or she were a great catch, they would have been caught.
Watch out ladies! What men over 50 really want is a nursemaid/housekeeper (with bonuses....once in a while...LOL)! LOL!
All of them.
I look forward to living the golden girls life with my mom and daughter ❣️ oh and our cats 😂
Amen and purrrr
I am retired, and live with my grown niece, my cat and her dog. It's great.
Bingo! My old college friends and I are already planning our Golden Girls life. Big house near the beach with my lifelong friends? I can dig it!
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Good Sisters, cats, dogs and horses too!
If you’re in your 50s or older, and don’t have a hyperactive sex drive and/or need a 2nd income, there is absolutely no reason to have a male around to give you drama, disease and being their nurse with a purse. Don’t screw up your life.
And even if you do have a hyperactive sex drive, I bet you can please yourself better than any man ever could. 😂
Men usually cost more than they are worth
What about companionship and taking care of each other into the golden years?
@@yaakovina Women can live with their friends and have all that. Think "Golden Girls".
Can you imagine a virtual stranger giving you a creepy ultimatum over voicemail?!!! 🤬🖕🏽
CHILE.
That was wild. That guy was off his rockers, talk about narcissistic.
I just blocked someone who told me that if I wasn’t going to reply to his attempt to make conversation that I should just unfollow him. So I did. (He said he felt very upset when I didn’t reply to him..)
Ext thing I read, he is upset that I unfollowed him. I took a moment to let him know I don’t talk with people usually - and all I did was follow him back.!! No initiating the conversation at all!!
He said he understood & then tried to engage in a conversation- and when I didn’t answer told me again how upset he gets. Totally ignored my no.
It happened twice & I blocked and reported him.. Man without a clue. 😟😟😟
I've heard this voicemail several times on different accounts, it wasn't actually a message left for her, but another woman who had exposed it online
THAT was creepy. Bullet dodged (maybe literally).
Yeah, I’m staying single. I don’t want their gambling debts, their sports addictions, their children or the children’s issues, the intrusive ex, the financial crises, the physical disabilities or illnesses, the second burner phone, the lack of retirement planning or ANY of it. At my age I just want to focus on finishing this thing called life on my own terms, and without any additional stress brought up by an immature partner. Maybe society is finally recognizing that marriage, monogamy, and relationships aren’t the end-all, be-all of life’s goals.
Aaaaaaaaaameeennn!!
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Same. I've been married twice. First was 14 years of unhappiness until I go the courage to divorce him (I was wife #2 of 3). My second, and soul mate, died 3 years ago after bone cancer and a slow decline down with chemo-related heart failure. We have one child who is 8. I don't trust any other man in my home around my child. Anyone my age will start to have health problems and I'll be a caregiver again within 10 years. Most likely they will have ex-wives and kids and baggage from that. If they don't, that's also a red flag. I'll be just fine on my own.
A lot of ppl suck lol. They haven't worked on their trauma; they don't really like/love/value themselves so they're seeking others out to validate them and give them self worth. A lot of wounded children in adult bodies that refuse to do any inner work. A lot of empty vessels demanding they be poured into.
Absolutely. I have observed that as well.
That's the problem I'm having. I worked through trauma, done shadow work and am spiritually awakened. I can't do these mainstream wounded men. I don't watch the news, i don't sit in front of a TV, i am not political. I'm tired of toddlers in men's bodies
So true. I've found it hard to make friends or connections in my new city - both female and male. There simply aren't nice folk about - most of the available are aggressive, depressed etc
Oh yes. Explains MAGA. 😂
That voice-mail was WILD
That voice mail is about 10 years old. A young woman received that and released it online, and it instantly went viral.
I would def block his number 🚩🚩
That was abusive and threatening.
This voicemail is legit to a friend of a friend met this guy. I have the voicemail soundbite saved. It is originally from Toronto canada
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_LivingOmg! That was a real voice-mail? 😳 🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️
Single and sane… and loving it ❤❤❤
Right!
ladies just stop dating its over men are a waste of time
Not me, I'm a real catch!!! ;p
😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻Cats instead 😘
What astonishes me is that men - supposedly logical and problem solving humans - totally waste their own time pursuing women much younger looking who simply aren't interested in those old crocks.
Unlike wine, men don't get better with age. They depreciate.
like k-cars
@@kathleenmcconaha5608 Did K cars ever have any value in the first place?
Even if Mr. Perfect showed up at my door I’m not interested in dating, my life at 57 is so peaceful. I don’t miss men at all. 💅
Same here. I'm 58
As a 50 year old guy I totally agree. It's not worth the risk, headache and pain. It works both ways. Sad, but true.
Men our age are like parking places - all the good ones are taken and the only ones left are handicapped. I don't have the emotional energy for men. They are exhausting. I love being alone.
I like how she said or too far away. I've driven 4 hours for a first date before. Really made the effort. But I agree, after 50 years I'm done. Can't take women anymore either. I hate being alone, but better nobody than the wrong body.
😂😂😂😂High five!
They're looking for a nurse...or a purse
That load lumber date guy was likely married.
The audacity was strong on that one. 😂 Unbelievable
Yes, I think I remember the update to that story is that he was!!! 🤢😂🤦🏽♀️
@@carlahaiduk1878I’m not sure it was audacity. I think it was stupidity. There’s a reason a lot of older available men are available!
@@Khaegch-favh That's what I was thinking!
That's what i thought, too. Men who act dodgy like that usually are.
Stay single for your own sanity!!
I love being alone at 60.
Ditto…..at 70
Same here…Im 50. I’ve been living alone for 8 years and I get a mini panic attack even thinking about living with some man, but they will say that we are lying, they will say that we want a man, they will say we are lonely.
They will not say this: That we put our peace and emotional and physical health over chancing it with some man. They never consider that. They never consider that we don’t have the time or energy to try or that we did try and that is why we no longer try. Men are quite weird. I’ve not met a normal man yet.
jacquelynn2051 Same. Alone and at peace for three years. Whenever I talk to men they seem to intentionally misunderstand you, even on simple things and I think, wow, I put up with that for years.
This video reaffirms my decision to be 4B. I choose the bear.
I had a guy ask me out to help him clean up his island. No one asks that unless he’s tighter than a bulls ass in fly time. I declined, and told him to pay someone to do that. I also wasn’t going to go to an island with someone I don’t know so I could end up on an episode of Dateline! 😮
Wow. Trying to exploit a woman for free labor hauling lumber as a date is on another level of ridiculous!!
I had one who wanted to do laundry at the laundromat.
I became a widow in my 60s. Why are the men in my age bracket full of nasty old white beards, baggy old clothes, crocs, and ratty pony tails?
If a man is my age and looks decent, I'm sure he has a wife who will not let him out of the house looking like that. Step up your game men, but better bring your A game, because the women worth having won't take less.
I look good, have my own teeth and a full head of hair, my own money, have my own home, and all my parts work. I can dance, and I can cook. I'm not a nurse with a purse.
I would only add to beware of moochahics or homeless men - but I think you probably have that covered as well. 👍💎🇨🇦
I think my pineal gland calcified at 10 lol
I’ve said this to my (adult) son. He asked why I don’t want to date. I told him to look around at men my age. Are they wearing clean clothes? Do their clothes fit and show some pride in their appearance? Are they physically fit? Are they groomed (hair and face)? What condition are their teeth in? Do they have acceptable eating behaviors? My son now “GETS IT”. When we’re out together he’s astonished at the (poor) condition of men my age. We always have a good laugh (“Hey mom, there’s a stud muffin for you!”)
@@sfc5774 yes!
Y'all I went on a date a few years back with this fool who only wanted to talk about his ex and their daughter. How the lil girl started calling her Mom's new man Dad and how pissed he was about that. He didn't take the time to get to know me or ask me about myself and when it came time to order the waiter asked if I wanted to order Sushi he answered for me and said NO. We'll just have the hibachi. I was so stunned because I was thinking ninja, I can order my own food - you don't have to pay for it. After the date I shook his hand and told him to have a nice life 👋🏾😡🤬 He texted me after the date and asked "Why did you say have a nice life like we're not gonna see each other again?! I said hell no you need psychological help from your past situation with your ex and how that is affecting your life currently. I said you shouldn't date until you've resolved those issues and I blocked him. #BLOCKED #IDONTDOCRAZY
Did he really ask that woman to help him load lumber?!!! We are in the f*ckin twilight zone.
I got married when I was 67, he is 62. We met at the racquet club. My advice is to be active and meet people. FYI I asked god to help me.... and we met 2 months later and got married 2 years later.
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Ladies, the beautiful woman at 1:30 is showing you EXACTLY what you should do...get up, pay your half of the bill and keep it MOVING...I'm 54 and I have done that...even ditched them at a crowded park in the middle of a fall festival by saying I had to haul it to the ladies.
Exactly!!😊
I don't agree. They learn nothing from that. You can be kind and TELL them the reason why you're leaving. That way, maybe, just maybe, you leave them a little less clueless for the next woman. Girls gotta help other girls!
Helping a man load lumber as a first date??!! I would have said, “for casual labor like that, I charge $150. an hour. How long do you think it’ll take? Does that work for you?”
Can you imagine the audacity?
I was dating a guy who pulled that on me. I went to see him and he had me doing part of his job. I was angry. He was getting paid for it, but did I get one cent!? I think he thought I was so into him that I wouldn't mind. SMH
@@user-rabbitlvr222 It’s OK to say NO.
I have a small farm and was looking for someone with similar interests. I was on Farmers Only for a while. Most of the guys on there were either city guys "thinking they would like the fresh air" - no mention of liking the hard work. Or they were old guys looking for a free ranch hand with benefits, preferably with long blonde hair, good figure, and 20 years their junior. As if. I was dumb enough to spend some time helping deliver and bottle feed calves for one guy, but when I asked him to help me fix a fence he would have liked to, but I lived a bit too far away... All this to say that I decided I like my own company just fine.
I love that response. I can only imagine the expression on his face when he reacts!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🇨🇦
I am making some good honey treats for the bear. He will appreciate it.
lol 🐻
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Spot on!
Awww🐻🐻❄🧸❤🥰
I Was Hoping By The Time I Reached My Forties, Men Would've Matured Enough For Me To Date Properly....Now I See They're Stuck With Their Arrested Development && I've Made Peace With It.
@@HaughtyHedonist they hit the wall of intelligence around 17, unless they choose to evolve beyond it. Only a few do.
The good ones are not in the dating pool. The leftovers are.
@@dawnelder9046 For sure, reading the comments here reminds me why I don't even try dating.
Confused..... Are there really women over 50 who have not grasped that 🧔 just aren't worth the hassle yet ??? I learn something new everyday
Exactly because, why are these over 50 women still desperately looking for a man, i thought we realized that centering ourselves is the way to go, ugh, its not worth the stress, done done
These are the women that are actually older women i don't believe every older woman looks or thinks like this either they always show women that nobody would look twice at but if you compared them to older women that actually look good you would just see a lot of people stereotyping these women like they all suddenly turn into Karen's after 50. Just don't get married or have kids and you will start to develop an edge to you and only certain types of people will look at you and in some cases you won't even have to chase men they will back up and notice the age difference and be more respectful to you.
I'm 42 and married for 20 years...... my husband is a good man..... has his ways of course........ but even I still don't see myself at that age single wanting to be around men
I’m 58. I got the “don’t bother” memo about 10 years. 4B for life.
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Sad thing is that Women cant even be support systems for each other. Find some female friends and live your best lives. Golden girls gone wild. Have fun and big up sisters. You got this.
Give women some credit! Lots of women are doing the Golden Girls life and others plan to live that way. It seems like a lot of fun to me.
Dimitri from the street will STAY on the street. 😂😂😂😂
In my 20s I was constantly harrassed by men in their 50s and even considerably older, including one in his damned 70s! In my 30s I got harrassed by men who were my age-ish, men who KNEW that I was in a relationship including his own damn friends, (yet he stayed friends with them). In my 40s I was targeted by a younger guy who effectively turned me into his purse and mom while constantly berating me for being "old". In my 50s I got free and stayed single, and felt fairly peaceful. For the first time I wasn't being bothered by the old decrepit users who are all looking for a younger woman... though one ex from the past thought he could come back and have me as a FWB on the side, LOL, Nope. Finally got with my now husband in my late 50s. He is the same guy who was my first love as a teenager (and I his). 63 now and I'm very happy with a wonderful man who actually grew up! Only took 40 years apart for us to both be mature enough to make something good, and I consider myself lucky because he's one of the rare ones! Had he not reappeared in my life I would have stayed single and peaceful. Don't settle ladies, not even if age is creeping up and you feel lonely sometimes, it's really not worth the misery, disrespect, and stress they bring. Only do it if someone special who is worth it comes along. X
Omg the man who asked her to go load lumber with him 😂😂
The amazing part about it (and I’m not using “amazing” in a complimentary way) is that the guy STILL didn’t understand when she told them that this isn’t working and they’re looking for different things.
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living yep...lol...pure ignorance
Man be thinking that we really are attracted to lumberjacks but not like that😂
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_LivingAh, he understood just fine ! Most men are not dumb ( we are the dominant species on Earth !), they just PRETEND to be dumb to avoid responsibility ! I've seen this many times ! In my family, we are all educated, my male relatives had good jobs, could speak multiple languages, could perform complicated math calculations, but pretended to be too dumb to do housework or anything they didn't want to do. When dating, I even met people who lied and faked about having Autism, ADHD, trouble hearing, etc to explain & excuse their bad behaviour. I got educated early on these illnesses and they couldn't fool me for long.
@@CS-bu7lo too bad the term to describe what they do has been only coined recently: WEAPONIZED INCOMPENTENCE.
Yup they want the body of a 30 year old and the mind of a 50 year old.
Only the shallow ones. Most good guys don't mind the 50 yr old body, but the 50 years of learning how to manipulate us, no thank you.
@@ryanellsworth7246 Nicely said, I don't blame them for that, good to wise up about this.
@@ryanellsworth7246 Nicely said.
@@ryanellsworth7246Really? Do these women sound like they are into manipulation? Plus, for THOUSANDS of years, the ONLY power women had to control their own lives was by manipulation, and manipulation is only effective when it appeals to some deficit in one's sense of self. A man who is truly an adult, who knows himself, can't be manipulated. Ironically, I am "on the spectrum" and find lying and manipulation to be very difficult and exhausting so, mostly, I just don't do it. My ex, constantly accused me of trying to manipulate him, which pretty much left me dumbfounded. Well, I tried it a few times and he was happy as a clam. I finally told him that, it didn't do much good. He just went back to dating and relationships that failed when they inevitably reached the point of his emotional incompetence. Each time, the quality, or desirability of his partner went down. From single working woman to a divorced mom with two ADHD boys. I, of course predicted this even before he left me. My last prediction is that he will end up with a woman just like his much hated step-mother. From my daughter's reports, he's on his way!
I am 60. I gave up 10 years ago! I have teo dogs and I take care of all the stray cats, birds opossoms and racoons in the neighborhood. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ahh bless!
Nice. I love animals.
It is very hard to find men who 1) can carry on a thoughtful conversation (instead of a monolog) 2) are self-aware, will admit when they are wrong and apologize
I’m 50 years old and living the wholesome existence of a spinster. 😁
I’ve got my two little dogs in bed with me right now, and I wouldn’t change a thing.
Pets & Peace! 🙌🏻
Why would anyone date after 50? That’s a head scratcher for me. I was married for 21 years. Divorced at 41. Done with dating by 43. Single for life
Because NOT EVERYONE GOT MARRIED. Specially not everyone married before they were 20 like you did. So yeah. Some women would like to try to have a stable partner for once. Babaca
Why do you think you are going to have any different an experience than ALL the other women? Even with the data that proves you won’t?
@@carlahaiduk1878 Bem dito! Well said! I'd still like to give it a go. But at 50 and ready to retire there's too much risk to do more than be good friends or partners.
Yes... life is wonderful as an independent woman -agree
@@carlahaiduk1878 If you are too old to have babies the only reason a man would consider marrying you is for a nurse made or a paycheck.
Honestly, all these stories are Dating in General, not just over 50. 👈🏼So much so, I already stopped dating, & I'm not in my 50's yet. I feel so bad for girls Today; a date Today, even for a younger person is Still shiz like This🙄.
It does not get better as we age and it does not get better.
I am 57 and there is no reason to date a man now. I can look in the mirror and know I look good without validation from anyone else! That voice male guy can date his hand!!!!
One of the big problems is that men over 50 have baggage. Everyone does: Broken relationships = difficulty with trust. Children who are hurting. Trauma from your family of origin. Health issues. ... but older people have MORE. And older people who have never been married? Very likely there is a reason(s) for that. Most stable, loving, family-oriented emotionally and spiritually healthy men who want to be married already have. At 61, I am done giving my all to take care of others. Maybe it's selfish, but I want to take care of myself, do what I want. spend or keep my money as I want, come and go as I want...I am more than content with life as a single.
Ladies, I think the answer is to travel and meet men from other countries. Do your research and grab your passport.
I don’t want to get in a man’s car on a first date either, so the dude asking the lady to ride in a car with him and loading lumbar was inappropriate for more than it just being a working date.
That was the thing fo me. We haven't met but you want me to get in a vehicle and ride 45 minutes away???? You don't have good boundaries and, apparently, you don't think I have good sense.
I noticed that too. How hard is it to do a quick lunch to see if you are really interested?
Right! That's how women end up missing. 😬
Yea, had a guy I know ask me out to watch football. This is how we bonded so it was no problem. The problem came when I walked in and the waitress was sitting at the table. She leaves and comes back to take our order. He proceeds to order 8 wings. The waitress looks at me and ask what I would like. He interrupted her and told her that we would be splitting the 8 wings. All the while bragging about having a pool built in his backyard. I literally thought I was getting punked.
Omg I hope you left
I would have walked out
I had something similar happen to me. He chose the expensive restaurant for the first date, I would have been ok with a restaurant for middle class ( which we both are). He ordered himself stake. Ok. The waitress asked me what I wanted. He cut in and ordered a salad for me. I replied, politely, that I wanted chicken breast with fries and a small salad, as a side dish. He tried to convince me otherwise but I didn't concede. I knew in my heart in that moment that it was hopeless, but I didn't want to make a scene. The waitress listened to me and brought our orders. He tried to make small talk but was visibly fuming. I ate my dish relishing every bite to spite him... 😁 He even had the audacity to comment on my weight ,but I laughed and said I am of normal weight ( true) while he is overweight ( also true) and he should have ordered the salad. The audacity ! He thought he would punish me by insisting to pay Dutch at the end, but I was expecting that and laughed again and paid only what I ate, not 50% of the whole bill. He was surprised I refused a second date ! Gee, I wonder why... 😂
Good for you sis
@@CS-bu7lo you handled that w/so much class & grace. I don't know why so many men automatically think dignified women are pushovers. Welp, he FAAFO!
The voicemail guy…all the reasons he gave for his attaction are superficial. All the reasons he says he’s a great are superficial. This is a guy in his 50s. These men cannot love
He's a narcissistic sociopath. He actually said there was nothing wrong with him. He sounded a little sugary to me. Just sayin'.
A lot of these women don't look like they are in their 50s. Very youthful looking, glowing.
They don't realize being single has preserved them. I'm the same, and the loneliness sucks once in a while but the glo is so REAL 💅✨️ 😅
Same here. 50, but don't look close to it most days. Also single, never married, no kids - men said I wasn't what they wanted, so I went my own way.
54 here...no kids❤no husband...it's called peace of mind❤❤@@nekk-ra7080
Because they are single and maybe childfree. The childfree over 40 videos always have radiant, vivacious ladies.
me at 33 actively planning to just be a cougar
Yup
At 41, I want to plan my retirement like Golden Girls... call home "Courgar Commune" or something sassy like that.
Honestly, most married women don't even want the man they've been with for decades. It feels more like a job than a relationship. My thoughts today were "Is this even still a marriage or just a bad habit"?
Amen!
I recently realized that and am glad I got divorced over 20 years ago. The ex and I are still friends and we're happy with that. But living together still? oh no.
Gross
When women are like "don't look at my man!" I always respond with "oh honey, no. You barely want him. No one else wants him"
Not the working date loading lumber 😂😂
Hell naw!!!😂😂😂😂😂
Hahahhahahaaaaaaa! Omg I’ve heard it all now!
What’s so sad some women would be desperate enough to do that.
He was probably married.
@@juanita_rocksteady2761 that was my first thought too.
When I was young lots of older men try to approach me. It is disgusting - they should have looking for women of their age. Now I am over 50 and living my best life with my partner. And in any case I just quit dating - do not need to be a caretaker for old men.
The worst one for me ..... Second date ...... Can we get closer because his wife no longer sleeps with him because she has cancer.
OMG. Disgusting.
Chile! The audacity! 😬😬😬😬
Yeah, i was not involved with them but not the first time i hear men cheating on their wives while they literally battle cancer. Gross
Most men leave the one they promised to take care of in sickness and health, as soon as their 'life partner' can no longer change their big ole diapers.
In the old days I'm sure they just left us at the side if the road to die of thirst if we got sick. If they just didn't club us.
Rembember they lie at least twice as much as women do.
So cliche 😢
There are nice men in the world but they are committed at fairly young ages and they stay committed at least ten years at a time. Men that are long term single after thirty five or so don't want to be married. They've passed up at least two good opportunities to have a domestic family life.
There are some you can find even later in life. In my case my father went to jail when I was 22 so I gave up dating to take care of my mom and younger siblings after finishing college. Since my dad was a sex predator, dating was a nightmare until he got out and I was old enough that girls no longer asked what my dad does for a living. I hated saying, "Time", "He makes license plates" or "He's a pedophile". I got engaged a few times in my 30s but one was prevented by her mom and sister who thought she could do better than a second class son of a ... The other wanted nothing to do with my messed up family and wanted me to run away with her but I was still trying to help my nephews to not be jaded by the family drama and would not leave. After 40 it's all been damaged manipulators and hot messes. At 50 I'm tired of trying to be the best man I can be only to be judged and abused. Even my own sister-in-law didn't trust me around my nieces for a few years because I am single and from a broken family. How good does a person have to be to make up for his parents poor choices? I'd love a chance at a real relationship, but good girls won't touch me and I refuse to settle for the broken ones.
@@ryanellsworth7246 my father is also what your dad is - and I would never associate with him as long as I live. It sounds like your parents are still together? Or you’re still interacting with your father? If either is true, sorry, that’s why you’re having dating issues. You’re not your dad but if your family still associates with him in any way, you’re not a safe person and it’s you guys, not the girls who won’t date you, who are broken. No one cares your dad is a pedo they care if you enable and diminish what he did and still have ties with him. Bro break ties with that toxic family and you still have enough time for a full life where you’re not taking care of responsibilities that weren’t supposed to be yours. If she was a real one I wish for your sake you had ran away with that girl you were dating when she asked. You could have adopted your nephew later.
The good men are all married, otherwise it’s a man who wants a mother.
That's what y'all are tho
Young guys, young guys, and more young guys. Seriously it's kinda hard not to fool with them because men my age are boring,weak back and kinda bitter. And even tho I know it's no future with me and a younger man (more then likely). I'd still rather.
Heavy on the bitter - omg!! It is shocking
@ellenicoletv4095 Shocking and sad!! Sis... so I picked my young lover up from work one night, and he was waiting outside smoking and chilling with his co-worker (an older black male). Sis, no contact with him, I just pulled up and my lover told him bye and got in the car. So I could tell by the way he was looking at me that obviously love bunny had been talking about me. I didn't care, lol men. How come love bunny come telling me old and bitter was telling him that older blackwomen ain't no good they be jealous and needy. And he said he told him well its quite the opposite. He's actually the possessive one and that he's never felt more loved and wanted. Wooooooow. They do that mess all the time because now they played out. Nobody wants an old man unless he has money, but an older woman we still have value on multiple levels. Especially blackwomen. Their soooo sad.
Who in their right mind would pay someone with a free lunch after making them load and unload lumber?!
😂😂I found this crasy. These men🙄😬!?
@@stephaniepetion6100 he was sexist to do that, I'm sure he wouldn't have offered a man lunch instead of money for that work.
@alexandergonzie1200 Agree 100%. It was insulting
@@JazmyneNicole-brand he probably thought his 🍆 was that good too, lol
It’s a test. If she’s willing to do his bidding then he likely thinks she’s worthy of doing other things for him…she’s easy and willing to be his satellite.
The Dimitri call, that actually was a friend of a friend in Toronto. I actually have the voicemail saved. It is not an urban legend, but for real
I'm in Mississauga (I know it's not the same, but most of the men I've dated are from Toronto), and that definitely sounds like a Toronto man thing to say, lol 😆
@@blackcoffy83 Yep, Dimitri sounds like a typical Toronto a-hole to me.
I would much rather have a friend group who I enjoyed every minute with, financial independence, to afford a nice apartment and a no worry lifestyle.
That's why I switched teams after being married to a man for 27 yrs - been there, done that - plus women keep getting better as they age, in every way ;).
Were you always attracted romantically to the same gender? I have straight female friends who insist that they could never be romantically involved with another female.
@@screentake01 Yes, very Bi throughout school but there was never a question that I would marry a man. Thank gawd times are different now for the next generation!
@@relaunchinglife Thank you for sharing.
The lady talking about the working date is smart. She will not let anyone take advantage of her
She should have cut the convo short.
I met my husband when he was 50, and I was 48...on line. He is a wonderful man. They exist.
Thank you!
What I don’t like about these types of videos is it’s negative from the start, plus, and most of all, they are only talking about superficial attributes- when real love doesn’t have anything to do with this type of thing. I know when I fell in love it wasn’t anything to do with a guy looking like a sharp dresser or chiseled body or wealth. Those things are very nice while anyone has them, (let’s face it, as we get older the only thing that can grow sweeter is our bank accounts and assets) it has nothing to do with real love. Real love means adoring the person with the missing tooth, the financial struggles the family baggage. It happens.
What I think what these types of videos mean to say is there’s a lot of men who have serious issues with themselves but this is also true for women of any age. Most all the well adjusted people (who wanted to marry) are in marriages already. (Most, not all)
I can add too, that life isn’t linear and some people find their way out of issues that previously prevented them to be a good significant other for someone. So there is hope in that too.
I’m 48 and been contentedly single for 15 years. I’ve had a few dates and flirtations but it never went anywhere.
One colleague would text me out of the blue about his bowel movements. Really.
One single father I went on a date with wanted to get a commitment after that date and a couple of calls.
I had a fitness instructor (single dad with full custody) who was just interested in seggs.
One creepy colleague just slithers into my social media or art shows even after I block him everywhere. I may have to take serious action there.
One guy from POF wanted to meet AT 10 FRIGGING PM!!!!! And when I said it was too late he gaslit me. “You seemed like you’d be fun.” I told him I was sure he’d find someone more compatible.
Another POF guy was an ex con and got kicked out of his sister’s house and was a total mess.
Yet another POF guy, who also happened to be a colleague, seemed great but ended up being an addict. And pew pew enthusiast. Yikes. And he voted for 45. YIKES.
Did you know that POF used to have certain profiles that would show up after 8 pm on the app for men? If a guy was unlucky enough to click one he would get a pron email sent to him with very graphic pictures. So hard to respectfully look at profiles after that. I had to stop and wait for my mind to get back in the right gear. POF is made by bad people. (And no, I don't mean us gun loving MAGA weirdos either.) ;p
I was widowed at 55, have no interest in dating, and I’m watching this to reinforce my decision. 😆
Dating at 50 feels great for me. Im clear on my standards and boundaries now.
I would never consider dating at all over forty or fifty. I would be enjoying my life with my girls travelling, spas, working out and eating good food.
Why spoil it?
I’m 43 and gave up dating and hope for marriage last year. Now I’m planning a trip to Paris for my birthday.
Haha, love the "oh no" song one - i dated a guy whose exes were all crazy, but from within the first 5-10 minutes, he made me feel uncomfortable, then started mocking me?! I wish i had got my bag and left, but i just didn't see how bad it could get and i didn't want to create drama, so i kept going for the whole planned evening. In future, i don't ever intend to do that again.
And yes, i doubt his exes were crazy- more likely, they were insecure and he continually picked at them, destabilising them. Because that's what he tried to do to me!
Oh talk about the first date. Oh my gosh one of them. He was an old friend of mine too. He asked me to come over. His family was going to barbecue so I thought oh that's wonderful! It's a beautiful day. I go over there. He said when you get here can you just pick up some wine coolers? I'm thinking so sure. No worries. I'll pay you back. He said I'm not sure. No worries. I get there as families passing me bowls of barbecue sauce and bowls of chicken to put on the grill. I said what is this for and they said oh we kind of need help and I was like oh my gosh I really didn't come over here to be on nobody's grill. I have white pants on. And so I took the sauce and I did my best. Thank God I brought my daughter with me cuz I knew something might be up and if something was up I'll say oh I got to take my daughter home. So more and more family kept coming. They asked me to watch the grill. Cuz we need to make sure that's some good chicken I was like. Yeah you right? I'm going to make sure it's real good and when they all went in to talk I walked out the back gate with my daughter. We got in the car and left and I never came back again😂😂😂😅
Sheila you’re my hero! 😂
The "working date" had me laughing with tears. OMG murky indeed!
I love her. She is quite funny
I’m 47 and this is what I have to look forward to??🤦♀️
No, no. You can choose yourself and live a wonderful life.
Don't trust social media. It's all losers, propagandists and people venting their frustrations. As long as you are setting goals and working to be the best version of yourself you can be and just being true to yourself you always have a chance. In a broken world where everyone is unhealthy, remember, the cream always rises to the top.
No Sis, I truly believe there is a lid for every pot. If you want it then it is out there for you.
I am happily single so I enjoy these videos, but don’t let them scare you. There is a lot of garbage out there, but you don’t need every man to be a good man, you only need your one good man, and he does exist.
Thank you so much for putting this video together. It is so nice to know I’m not alone. I will say I’d rather be alone. Would be with the wrong person though. I can’t say enough about having peace in my life.❤
@2:25 Dimitri is going to have a body stuffed in a deep freezer somewhere. 😮
When she said she's a freaking delight i first read the caption as a freak in the daylight
Lol
That had my spider senses tingling. Sorry, she's a hard no for us guys.
I'm in my 40s I'm out of that scene. I'mma stay out. Smh.
After these videos I guess I’ve officially retired 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 ooo child glad I caught mine 17 years ago 🤦🏾♀️ cause this is sad asf
I went on a "singles" cruise once. It was all women and they had their friends with them, so I was still on my own.
Get off dating apps
Never been on one and never will😊
I’m sure it’s at least 50% women’s fault they are single.
Working date 🤣🤣🤣
LOL! Okay, the "working date" is funny af.
I was chuckling about it, and then she reminded us she's never even met him! 😂😂😂
Now that is a 48 hours or Missing or Buried in the Backyard show just waiting to happen!💅😲
So grateful for this reality at the moment. Been single from recent separation two years ago. Have been busy putting my life back together that I have had no time to think of romance. Recently my time has opened up…and ; I don’t do apps, I don’t do free emotional labour and have very little tolerance for men socialized in the patriarchy. the matchmaker is right; my standards are too high…thakfully my life is full as it’s and peaceful the idea of compromising for anyone is so boring now. It seems so small.
The First Lady, spot on.😂😂😂😂. Demitri has control issues.
“I’m ready to change teams” lmao
The pickings are just as bad there too
@@rainncorbin8291 You think you have it bad? Us guys can't switch teams either! Those guys are... I get your point. We both have it bad!
Reading these posts validated my decision to walk away from dating permanently. Thank you!
Give me the bear please, and all his friends, why are these over 50 women still trying to date😮
I think they still want to date because they're human and desire companionship. Although the bear sounds more enticing than all of these scenarios combined, these women want to believe in love I guess 😅
I know of a woman who found a good man. Her health is better because they garden, both remarried after 80 years old. If that can happen for her it sure can happen for me!
50 is not d€ad. Wtf!
@GB_008 ,I know and we have needs! Not dead!
@@GB_008 You’re the one who is equating not having a man to being dead. I’m 44, single and not dating, not looking. Am I as good as dead?
If you’re over 50 you should know that dating for love is a waste of time. Do it for fun and enjoy your peace.
Very amusing video 😅 I've been single for 20 ish years - I'm 60 - and I've enjoyed my life a lot, I have amazing adult kids, adorable grandchildren, sisters friends & a job I like ... there's no way I'd tie myself down, and as a nurse I've looked after enough old men... I do believe once a guy is approaching 60 he is looking for a cook, cleaner and caretaker. I meet men like this at work in my role and they say this with no shame... why the heck would I want to do that for anyone? It's fine with my family ... but some old guy who's gonna likely have incontinence (& most old men do!) & need a woman to take care of him as he ages
NO way !! I love my life too much
Chile! This was the best. Yep, it's quite accurate. Sad and funny! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
that's why I date 35yr olds get the bread and head and bounce
No thanks.
I quit babysitting at 16.
I am not in my 50's but I enjoyed this video, and I have decided to continue living alone with the cats. The cats don't lie, cheat and can't give me a std, it's a win-win situation.
I knew this would be fun to watch and I was right! 😄 I enjoyed the stories and comments. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I'm 60 and over dating. Actually, I haven't been on a date in about 7 years lol.
The background music was too loud sis, but great content! 😊
Noted
Lol! Got into my last relationship at forty eight and ended it at fifty nine.
Not looking, and if I never date again I won't be upset! Of course I don't know the future, but I'm not going to actively put myself out there that's for sure! 🖖
I am 37, I gave up in my late 20s and is a cat lady lol
She said, "a working date," and I was 🤣😂🤣😂!!!!
These are some of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen!
That voicemail OMG
Plus, you know he called again when she didn't respond and cussed her out and told her he was too good for her anyway
@@01denese 🎯
Yeah, I pretty much gave up on dating over 50 years old. The young guys wanted someone to support them, take care of them or just a one night try out. The older men or men my age are either icky or looking for much younger women than themselves. 64 now and other than when I have automobile problems where I'm going into battle with auto mechanics. Those moments that try any single woman's soul. I'm fine and dandy by myself.
I want to see a letter from a therapist and mental diagnoses before I go on a date nowadays. Too many crazy people out there!