Living in a Van | He Wouldn't STOP Knocking 👀 | Overnight Parking at a Hotel
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- Опубликовано: 7 мар 2023
- Come with me as I struggle to find parking at night while living in a van. It can be tough to navigate city streets and find a safe and legal spot, even with the best planning. And when you finally think you've found the perfect spot, the dreaded knock on the door can bring your peaceful night to an abrupt end. If you're a van dweller, you know all too well the stress and anxiety that comes with someone approaching your van at night. In this video, I'll give you a glimpse into my world and the challenges I face as a van dweller. Don't miss this real and honest view of van life.
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I always march right up to the hotel desk clerk, show them a picture of my vehicle (if they can’t see it from where they are), slap down a $5 bill, and politely ask if I can “pay for a spot to rest for a few hours?” They ALWAYS say yes, and thank me for being honest and straightforward and for respecting the fact that they are in the business of making money, not running a free Rest Stop. I suspect the desk clerk pockets the $5, but what do I care? I don’t get hassled. In the morning I stop by and thank them, and sometimes they give me coffee! Best wishes on your future attempts!
Thats what we said too. If it is only for one night , you will likely get a yes.
100% amen to this, they see a van and have no idea who is inside. Just parking and trying to dodge security on private property is way more sketchy than just going in and asking.
I was thinking the same thing. Honesty is so much easier than being sneaky.. Her attitude gives me anxiety.. So dishonest.. just tell the knocker
i used to be a night auditor at a hotel and i was always told by my manager to run off people sleeping in their vans. it pained me to do it because at that time i lived in my van and knew how much i hated hearing "knock". best i thing i can say is go to a walmart or some grocery store and part as far away from the entrances as u can. great way to not get spotted doing vanlife
That’s a good tip
Hard to believe you actually let down the window!🤦🏾♀️ Just because he was wearing a uniform means nothing. Be careful out there!
I got creeped out when I heard the knocking....I do agree with you...
You didn't hear the sound of a round being chambered?
She had a gun
@@miguel360kmc doesn't matter...criminals know hoe yo easily disarm people. If she had a gun, all she needed to do was to say so...or show it..but certainly not roll the window down. 🙄
@@denicebrookssings not sure where you're getting this impression of criminals from but there isn't some class that teaches criminals to disarm someone.
You have to think realistically what type of "criminal" is going to try and break into a van. Which would be junkies for the most part looking for a quick and easy score seeing a person male or female is enough to scare half of them away gun or no. Point is a master criminal isn't breaking into vans in a hotel parking lot.
And if they are a glass window up or down isn't going to make much of a difference is it?
@@miguel360kmc ok🤣🤣🤣
I read a nurse's comment in a similar video that hospital parking lots were very safe to park and sleep. They are monitored with security cameras. She said that families of people in the ER or hospital often take time to sleep out in their cars and therefore are not disturbed. Maybe everyone should add that to their potential list of places to sleep safely.
Maybe they shouldn’t!
Not to mention, you can always walk in and find a nice clean bathroom.
Hospitals charge parking. At least $3 an hour sometimes more.
Well I don't think it would be a nurse in UK saying that, where hospital parking is very expensive and my local hospital is known for vehicles being vandalised
Most definitely not safe at any hospital in my city
This has to be very unsettling to look for lodging every night. My anxiety would send me through the roof! Wishing you safety in your endeavors. 🤗
Yesssss I Totally Agrees...don't wont to keep hunting a spot to sleep...Soo scary 😳 👈🏾💯💯
Some people like me have no choice
Anxiety? What causes that? You need to exercise, that helps with a lot of physical and mental illness
You get used to it..the fear is real but it after awhile its nothing.
It would get exhausting having to think everyday where you were going to park that night. It's either out in the sticks or desert somewhere or pay for camp site for security and peace of mind. Sounds like you have to be constantly thinking, planning organizing, stocking up and moving on. You need to have a destination and your route, stops etc. worked out.
Please don't EVER open your window. Talk through the glass. (Even a uniform doesn't mean he works there.) Also, I have a red, steering wheel lock to deter anyone from even trying to break in overnight. (even in the day as a deterrant. They're looking for a quick steal.). I'm also armed, and hope you are too. Women on the road can't be too careful. ❤
The red locks, you hack saw through steering wheel slight bend and pull steering lock off its roughly 46 seconds to do by hand, if powered its 8 seconds.
@@OgglyGooglyu don’t even need to saw through those (club) steering wheel locks u can use antifreeze spray in the lock n it breaks in like 5 seconds.
Being armed can be good or terribly bad. There are no common gun laws and even having one in the van could get you imprisoned in some states. If you choose to be armed obtain a carry permit from a state with reciprocity with a large number of other state and know the law in every state you enter.
@@OgglyGoogly -Those few seconds gives you all the time you need to get up front, pull the slide back on your pewpew, put it to the back of his head, and say "Get out or die!"
@@mainemermaid6596 if you in the car a pick of the door you in before they even awake so no you dont have any seconds to react.
You can also release gas into the van while they asleep so no.
The idea of traveling is so seductive. The idea of driving all night to find a place to sleep, not so much. I have to admit that I'd be very scared to hear a knock, especially as a woman traveling alone. I'm going to keep up prayers for you and your well-being.
I was wondering about that.. maybe a camera like a ring type outside.. wouldn't be helpful without wifi or phone signal though 🤔
Research is important..when a woman is a Van Lifer..
If I don't see already know where I'm stopping for the night, I'll stop driving about 1 pm and look for a place.
@@huckleberrychris Another thought.. police in small towns are finally getting used to "Van-lifers" that have RUclips channels. I follow about 15 accounts of Van Lifer's, RV's Van's remodeled,car Lifer's. A ton of these individuals and families travel for work ". Any event..just be careful. Not all police will be nice ...to single women traveling across the country. They always think that people are engaging in something illegal. Stay safe ladies. 🥀📿🙏
No doubt this weirdo saw her earlier, knew there was awoman alone inside. No male would ever do this to snother male who could kick his face off. I would’’ve got out the bear spray and given him a big blast in the face. Then called the cops. Short of that I would’ve left!! Just drive the hell away.. This is crazy men harass men this way. It never stops. There is little accountability. This is what I fear most about this sort of living. Men follow me for miles and miles in my car as it is now. It’s ridiculous.
I work at a hotel... as a night auditor... off a main highway and we dont run tired people thats obviously traveling off site. We'd prefer people not to drive so tired they might crash. Plus most of the time travelers grab a 2-4 hour nap and theyre up and going for the day
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You guys are good people. Where I live the hotel folk will run you off.
Some hotels will have you towed if you park there just to eat at an Ihop or Dennys these days.
It doesn’t seem like much fun to have to look for a place to park every night and to have to move and to have to worry about who is knocking at your door. I felt stressed out just watching your video. It felt ver real!
I slept in my Honda Element for two months. At first it was somewhat adventurous but after awhile it definitely was not fun....but it's a have to do so.....if you are living in a vehicle
..there isn't a choice in the matter.
You need an outside camera!
@@arettadavis5935I wouldn't be able to sleep very well. I would sleep during the day and driving at night.
@@janepilkington9293 you cant. i was homeless and lived in car. scary. people will not leave you alone scared all the time.
As an expeditor, I would always find a Pilot, Flying J or a Love's Truck Stops to stay the night in every time. People park overnight in those places all the time and I never had an issue doing so. I was in my late fifties and what was real nice was I was able to use the restrooms and get showers at these places as well. They are a lot safer to stay in then Walmart or rest stops. Just thought I would let you know. Please be safe, young lady, and God bless!!!
Uhh Walmart is perfectly fine
@@lockandloadlikehell I was kicked outa several Walmart parking lots, but never once was I ever kicked out of truck stops as long as I didn't park in the back with the big rigs! Walmarts aren't always available for over night parking!
There's a Love's truck stop near my house. There are two girls in a van that have been living there for eight months and I keep telling them to just get a job there already 😁 This video girl passed a Buc-ees in Florence that would have worked.
@@TheCindlbergen That is a good suggestion for the gals that continue to stay at the same truck stop. I always felt safe sleeping at truck stops. My interactions with truckers was always pretty positive for the most part as long as I didn't park my Promaster Van in the back where they parked. Truckers can get a little testy when they ain't gotta a place to park for their bigger rigs! I never blamed them for that a bit either, because they only have some many hours a day they can be on the road and then they are forced to pull over by their trucking apps to rest for so many hours a day or they get huge fines. When I delivered busses and truck chassis's I had to follow trucking apps as well. It's a royal pain in the Bahama Bootie! I loved my expeditor job because I didn't have that hassle of following those trucking laws! My loads were smaller and so was my van! You would not believe how great it was not worrying about clearances, weigh stations, and some states require permits for commercial vehicles to travel through them! If you ever get into the truck driving lifestyle, I suggest an expeditor job! I miss doing it!
@@lockandloadlikehell Walmart is not fine. Some areas there is very high crime and robberies. The truck stops are a lot safer. Rest stops at night are high risk.
The best protection i ever had while sleeping in my van was Bulletz and Wolf my two German shepherds!! each of them curled up and slept on the two front seats,, If they heard anything they sat right up and no one ever messed with me or my van,I aylways slept great and felt very safe,.
I also travel with my 2 GSD's, I can tell you are as grateful to have your dogs as I am. Best protection ever!
I have 2 German shepards, this past summer we spent a whole month camping in the mountains ❤
That's why I have Dobermans. O e look and people walk the other way.
I miss sleeping in my van.😢
yea but then u were in a small space with two nasty ass dogs
The second you pulled in and I saw that car sitting there with the lights on I said, “Oh no, girl.” Lol I definitely never park where cars are just sitting. Never good news. 🤣🤣
You have given the public a bird's eye view of what truly a Vanlifer goes through.
come on its security guard, and its illegal to park without staying at hotel property, its was her fault not ask for permision, and the click bait picture in the video are like clickbait to make them like a thief or burgar knocking the door?????
Not really..
If security knocks in the middle of the night and you don't respond, will you wake up to find yourself being towed?
I had a couple of thugs climb on the roof of my motorhome once when I was parked in my hometown. It's disturbing that people have no respect for you and your own property.
Did you drive off with them on the roof? I would have!
I lived in my SUV in a big city for almost 5 months. A couple of truck stops, a casino, a mixed retail/college campus area with parking garages and parking along a creek.... but my favorite was the top floor of a hospital parking garage. I had my own little corner that I felt sooo comfortable at night! 🤗
Yes! Hospital parking lots, whether an open lot or in a parking garage, are very good for parking overnight. It's the nature of what they do there that means people arrive at all hours and can sometimes stay for days at a time.
@@livinginthenowand I just remembered a couple of other spots that I slept at... Cracker Barrel and Walmart. My "little corner of the world" was by far the absolute best because no foot traffic just randomly passed by me through the lot. ☺✌
How much did u pay for parking at the hospital? Mo in NJ
That's cool ! ... I'd think that would be comforting...❤✌
@@vickilssrb4405 I always think it's interesting to hear where people Park when in a city, because that is something I've not yet done after all these years. I stick to Forestry and I'm only dealing with animals for the most part .... I think I've only had a couple of situations where thugs approached my vehicle in the woods ... but when you live in Wisconsin, we handle things a little differently , ... pretty-much everyone is packing Firearms when you're in the wilderness, so there's not much fear.
The worst thing that I can recall happening to me was a black bear climbed on top of the hood of my Isuzu Trooper when I was sleeping in the back with my German Shepherd. That happened in the Oneida Forestry ..... he probably smells the dog food inside.
If you have a Planet Fitness membership they often don't mind you parking outside! (as long as its one of the 24 hour ones). It feels so great to get a workout, have a good night's sleep, wake up and take a shower, then head out. I have a school bus with bright paintings and two dogs that need bedtime walks so I'm not stealthy at all, but I've never gotten the knock at a gym so far. I always let them know I'm there and then pick a quiet spot in the back. I've also seen people parking at YMCA and Golds, even though those aren't 24 hours.
good info.
and memberships are only $10 a month
They need to make an app that shows where it’s safe to park, for people living in their cars!
iOverlander
There are several.
Ioverlander
Are you serious?
They have them they are called safe places to park to sleep
I lasted 7 days sleeping in my conversion in New Orleans. Found a decent route of 5 sleeping spots but the last two nights i was witness to a gun fight and the last night i was there a group of teenagers were busting up the car behind me right after i made dinner.. i prompted jumped in the front and drove away asap.. i left the city the following day.. going back to Arizona now to regroup myself and figure out where i want to go next.. be safe out there y'all and always trust your gut
🎵 "New Orleans, it's a wonderful town, but if you're by yourself, be out by sundown..."🎶
Welcome (sorry it’s been a year) but THIS is 1984 plus Idiocracy. Facts
As much as I love the idea of having my home with me wherever I go, It's the nighttime I don't think I could deal with.
Me too. I don't think I would ever get a good night's sleep.
I promise you it's not as scary as it seems. Especially when you are camping in regular camping areas and places that are designated for nomadic living. When I'm actually on the road I only go to truck stops and rest areas. Anything else you stand a chance of a knock at your door. I feel safer in my van than I did my home.
@@amyschaefer1140 Three years...solo female,75,Nomad...I have parked everywhere you can imagine...No problems,No issues
Generally on registering for a hotel room you have to give them your plate number, so they know your are a patron. I can see staying in a hotel lot could be risky. Stay safe out there.
Me too. With all the weird things going on in the world it's scary. There are too many creeps out there. But I hope she stays safe and secures the van.
You need a companion dog like a German Sheppard... That way, when you are asleep in your van, that dog will always be on guard.
The German Shepherds are loyal and will fight to the death to protect you.
@alirussell-hayward6279 It wouldn't matter.
If you walk them in the day or the night... To do their business or otherwise... They are a twenty four hour protector regardless where you are. A Cane Corso,German Shepard..., Any kind of dog like that. If I was single on the road that would be my companion and protector !!!
Why do you live in your van?
@juddloso will a glock ader4756
Yes!
VERY SCARY traveling alone, then to hear somebody knocking😳 Prayers for your safety.
I called the police station one evening in a familiar town I was visiting but was having trouble finding parking. They were so friendly and gave me a few places I could go.
That’s a great idea.
Thank you. TURNED OUT GREAT . GOT TO PARK RIGHT ON THE LAKE.
Same when I was in Wilmington NC
There we go ... 👍👍👍 excellent MaryAnn 👌
Sometimes the police will let you park right there
I’m not sure if you always just pull in. I would recommend backing in… that way if you ever need to exit quickly you are in a safer situation. Have you tried 24 hr stores, gyms and gas stations? Places where cameras are on you? That’s my recommendation for safety.
OK there are cameras but most don't have security guards 24 7. And calling cops sheesh they're never available or on time to help save you from real danger. Plus the constant noise no thanks.
Of all the Vanlife pages I belong too, this one was the most real I've seen. This shows the struggles that I haven't thought about while wanting to do this. Makes me think twice.
Thank you for watching and for your nice comment!
I could not live like this… I would never sleep😂… stay safe out there ❤
It's all part of the adventure
Being more organized will take away stressful situations. Always know exactly where you are going before you start the day.
At least pick some good spots and scope them out before you're exhausted. The aimlessness just shows she isn't thinking clearly.
100% this -
People said that truck stops are very safe, and places like cracker barrel have places to park your RV or Van
It depends where the truck stop is if it's safe.
Or people with social issues,or the Ted Cross out people up that have to be watched. Plus some hotels have drug dealers delivering drugs who pull up and wait for tenants to come out. Hotels are never a good idea to stealth in for these reasons
Come to the Cracker Barrel at Exit 80 on I 20 on Columbia. Very safe and I work there.
You might want to park right next door to one of those big commercial trucks, one of those that has traffic cones out. You’re not right in front of the hotel but out of sight. You might want to create a dummy antitheft indicator right next to your driver side door. It’s going to be a dummy antitheft lock and red led light. Just like some folks put out dummy cameras on their front porch’s. Make the security guard think that they’re going to have a car alarm start blasting off at 2 Am and waking everybody up.
Yeah I noticed as you drove in to the area there was two commercial vehicles parked there just before you got to the parking lot itself and out of sight of the hotel itself. That might be a good vehicle. Van camp in a converted commercial vehicle. I’ve seen several times where someone converted a box truck. From the outside you’ll never know someone is sleeping inside. They’re disguised that well you’ never guess that someone was asleep inside in apartment luxury. Most box trucks have a partition that closes the cab area off from rest of the truck. So if the lot security guards are looking at the truck they really can’t see anything. One other conversion they most likely wouldn’t mess with would be a vehicle that did an electrical repairs after a hurricane. You know the kind I’m talking about the kind that goes into other states to help local crews repair their electrical infrastructure.
The world we currently live in is unsafe FOR SURE for a woman alone. Please be careful out there🙏🏻
Why? And why for a woman? I have never felt unsafe, ever....
@BBare. It really depends on what area the person is in. I've been to places that were extremely safe walking around in the middle of the night by myself as a teen. Super quiet and peaceful places. Meanwhile, in my hometown, multiple women have nearly been kidnapped in broad daylight in the afternoon while out for a jog, and one of my friends was being stalked by 2 large men around a grocery store at night. Luckily, her male friend who drove her there and was waiting in the parking lot. She phoned him to come inside, and the 2 men backed off and left. My town is mainly one specific race, and the females here are highly desirable for human trafficking. Creeps even come here to lure kids into cars...It doesn't help that my race's rate for being kidnapped and unalived is higher because the police all over don't do anything or care. x') Even if we get physically attacked by strangers in the streets in other cities and towns, the cops are usually like, "Well, what did YOU DO to provoke them?" 🤦🏻♀️
@@BBare. You must be a military person or just know how to take care of yourself. Alot of women don't
Women are allways and where allways in history vulnerable. It will not change ever.
Humans, men and women, children, dogs, cats are vulnerabke, like any life form.
That means...be careful allways out there.
Allways trust your instinct, gut feeling, combined with your experience and intelligence, knowledge.
A fríen who was a ranger said she would put her hand on te bumper and knock. If she felt the van/car moving she knew someone was inside. If you hear the knock- don’t move!
It's getting more and more difficult to find places to sleep in a car or van, and there is a lot of weird people running around
Why you gotta talk about me?? Geez😒
I always find a place at least two hours before dark. I prefer to camp in the wilderness if possible and I avoid towns and cities at all costs. It's just too crazy out there. Outside cameras are a must with lighting and always be armed. You should have looked for a truck stop and parked with the truckers, there is always someone there and they are used to people parking. Good luck.
I would be much too nervous to travel alone and especially park and sleep in the van. It looks like great fun but there are too many dangerous people who need to be taken off the streets. I really enjoy this type of video.. I wish for you a safe and easy travel path. I hope you know Jesus and you talk to him every day.
Absolutely. 🙏🙏❤️
Have you ever parked overnight in hospital parking lots? I’ve heard it’s a good option from a van life former nurse.
ER patient lot works. Nobody wonders if the vehicle doesn't move for 10 hours.
They parol here too and usually they are paid lots.
Our hospitals charge for parking.
@@Clothed-with-His-Glory I’ve never had to pay at hospitals for parking but even if you do have to pay in a pinch because you can’t find a spot to safely park overnight, it would still be cheaper than paying for a camping site.
If you park in a hospital parking lot, please don't take spaces anywhere near the ER at any time of day. Go to an empty area of the lot to leave room for the people who are actually staying at the hospital or are seeking treatment. In larger urban areas, most hospitals charge a lot for parking, it isn't free parking, and also there are never enough spaces for those who actually need them to be with a patient in the hospital or at the ER. Maybe using a hospital parking spot in a smaller town or city, but please don't do it in an urban area. You can probably get away with it, but know you are hurting people.
Allison, get a remote start installed.
Carry bear spray
Also find a camera system for your van. One you can monitor from the back.
Also, if someone starts knocking. Don’t turn on any lights.
If you do want lights. Get some red lighting. Less noticeable from the outside.
Really good ideas
Very good tips! Thx!
Get a house.
I've carried hornet spray at the ready it's saved me from dangerous people , animals many times over my 71 year's . My niece drives a semi truck I suggested she carry hornet spray being a lady exspecially . She always wears work clothes ,boots , work jacket , jeans , yet still gets creeped out every ounce in awhile at a truck parking by the few creepy men in the world . I'm sure these types of people creep everyone out worse I think it's criminal to .
I wouldn't recommend using any spray on the security doing their jobs.
I'm a vanlifer and can relate to what you go through here. Although it only happened once, I was kicked out of a casino parking lot. I avoid hotels (last choice) and prefer Cracker Barrel. I like your van, I can't stand up in mine lol. Thanks for the good advice. Blessed and safe travels.
Oh my goh, that’s scary!! That happened to me when I was in my car parked in a car park in Scotland! A man kept saying he wanted to talk to me and I heard a woman whispering with him.. I said I was calling the police and they went away.. I was too scared to stay so I drove off and ended up staying in a hostel..
glad you are safe 🙏🏼💕
We park at hotels all the time ... just go in, tell them you're traveling and just need a safe place to park while you rest ... we've never been told no.
You've clearly never tried that in Florida.
@lanimccarthy2848 you're correct, we haven't ... do rest areas there
😞Knocking is @18:45
💡Find a 24 hr gym and park there - that works for me 100% of the time.
💡I’ve taken road trips all over the country and I know hotel lots are iffy a lot of the good ones have stealth security people in the lot - they see you before you ever see them. I usually plan to sleep overnight at Rest Stops, 24 hr gyms, neighborhood streets in safe areas, Cabela’s, and free parking garages / parking decks. I have always been creeped out at Cracker Barrel & Walmart lots. My spirit can’t seem to calm down or relax, not sure why so I don’t even try those locations anymore. 🤷🏻♀️
👍Safe travels. 💝
Don’t forget hospital parking lot
@@BrendaLee8 - 👍True for some cities. Again, you have to pay attention and see if they have security “knocking on doors”.
Great Idea, and if it's a national chain you can get a membership and have a place to shower .
@@topherbec7578 - 👍🤩Oh for sure, that’s what I meant…I should have said that to be clear. I definitely only park overnight at gyms that I have a membership to use. 💝
How about gas stations? I know you mentioned the gym, will anything 24 hrs work, Dunkin Mc ds?
This happened to me while just traveling in my truck. I pulled into a fast-food restaurant and got food and then pulled into a spot in what looked like a vacant hotel and was sitting there eating when a guy from inside the hotel comes to my window asking if I needed a room. Weird. Just leave people alone who are not bothering anyone or anything.
When you aren't a paying customer, you are trespassing. They can call the police and have you removed and cited for trespassing.
I had not committed an offense and there were no signs saying that only guests could park there. And I wasn't parked at the front of the building, I actually parked in a spot closest to the street. But here in lies the problem. Society has become so diligent with the "you can't do that" attitude, that they are making mountains out of mole hills. Let the innocent stuff go. I was literally there 10 minutes. I wasn't going to camp there.@@F_e_l_i_x_
Love your realistic videos where everything isn't staged, scripted, and perfect !
I stopped watching one of the channels as it was like one long advert for products, I much prefer as you say.
Is there any way you can put cameras on the outside of your van to see the surroundings or if anyone is out there knocking?
Yes there's RV and van cameras available to install
That is exactly what I was thinking 💭 too about cameras 📷
Hope you called the cops on the weird guy?
That's a perfect idea. Many 20-somethings always have outside cameras..on their van's and RV's. I follow a diverse group of accounts on RUclips.
Great idea
In the near future for your safety never let your window down. Talk to them through the closed window. And then just leave. You never know if they are who they say they are.
Absolutely never roll down your window or Open Your Door and always make sure you are locked inside -- with your keys and your phone near your side at all times.
How can you hear each other through the window then?
@@ms.pirate ....oops, I posted a comment reply that was meant for one of my own videos, that's why I deleted it, sorry about that ✌
@@ms.pirate you should be able to hear through a closed window . Unless you have a hearing problem.
This was so unnerving and extremely uncomfortable to watch. It gave major anxiety vibes! I felt SO bad not only for her but just simply watching it because no one deserves to live this way. My heart truly goes out to those who have to live this way and I commend you for doing what you’ve got to do and just making it👏🏼👏🏽👏🏾👏👏🏿👏🏻because I get that but if you do not HAVE to live this way, then I cannot possibly understand why anyone would want to subject themselves to this kind of torture each and every night. -At one point in time in my life this could have been me but it wasn’t, thank you God!
This is not a way people HAVE to live, it's how they CHOOSE to live. Not all nights are like this. It's only because she's parking in the city.
I will be doing this with me and my little girl because I cannot afford rent anymore. Not everyone is lucky enough to have choices
If you think that's toture, youve lived a very sheltered life
@@camiv5640nope- it was definitely HAVE to
You're projecting again.
@@lockandloadlikehellprojecting WHAT? LMFAO. Clearly your reading comprehension skills are severely lacking. They’re saying PLENTY of people CHOOSE this. PLENTY of people WANT to travel like this. PLENTY don’t. Get over yourself, seriously. They weren’t saying “wahhh wahhh you’re a victim you chose this”.
Wow i was on the edge of my seat. So glad you are ok and received rest.❤
The only way i would do full time is to stay in campgrounds. Trying to find a place to sleep every night would be extremely stressful to me. i wouldn't sleep well and would not be at peace. I need peace.
Hotels offer parking usually. You pay a small fee , they give you a sticker to put on your van. Be safe❤
The problem is--so many people are now living out of the vans--they are everywhere! I ran errands today, and saw a few van dwellers in both parking lots of the major stores. How do I know? It's a warm day, and they had their doors open you could see their beds and they were clearly living in them. The businesses are afraid of becoming "van cities" and keeping buyers or business away. It's going to get harder--because more and more people are having to live out of their vehicles as rents have gotten so high.
It’s cheaper than todays’ democratic State rent, I live in a Uber /Lyft/ door dash car. Sometimes people could smell my dirty drawls and dishes under the storage panels.
i just watched the nurse living in a van, everyday looking where to park. I rather pay for a small apartment , than living in the street or parking lot, but to each his own.
Kinda feel like asking a hotel if you can sleep in their parking lot is like asking a restaurant if you can BBQ in their parking lot.
I agree. Kind of like a slap in the face. 😲
Yeah, I agree. When I stay at Cracker Barrell, I end up eating there at night and then again in the morning. It just seems right. I wouldn't think of staying at a motel unless I was checking in.
🤣 I’ve never thought of out that way, but you have a point. 😊
Wht about truck stops ?
I think you have a point there
Gotta tell you….I’d be FREAKED if someone kept knocking like that. 😳
My son used to work all night at a 7-11. If someone asked to park in the back, he would allow it and protect them.
I am at Nomad and the rule of thumb is find a place by three and in by five give or take I have used this practice it works for me. God bless you and hope to see you out there.
I lived in an RV for ten years. You get a sixth sense for where you can stay. I never in ten years stayed in a hotel parking lot. They're considered private property and a good way to get the dreaded middle of the night wake up, the police called on you or a ticket for trespassing. I always went to Walmart or truck stops. No problem in ten years! And please drive carefully while you're filming. You ran a red light.
The whole risk of having a knock in the middle of the night would raise my anxiety every night. It’s just more intense when it’s knocking on your car as opposed to your home I don’t know.
I would be terrified to try and live and travel in a van by myself. I admire you that you can do this. You are so much braver than I am. Prayers for your safe travels.
The hotel may have added security either because too many vehicle dwellers had been staying there... or because it’s a sketchy neighborhood and there have been robberies, causing the hotel to lose business. Honestly, I can’t imagine driving so long just to find a place to sleep, that’s pretty tough. Glad you found a spot and it was peaceful.
I lived in Columbia and know the area. The overall neighborhood of that hotel isn't bad, but there's an extended stay hotel just two doors down from it that could have an iffy traffic flow. So that might have influenced the hotel security situation. If she had just driven over the big intersection(next to the Denny's) she would have been at one of Columbia's largest hospitals and probably could have blended in with the vehicles there.
A lot of hotels in the South have security. I didn't know hotels in other places didn't.
Or that's just their level normal level of security and he saw her pull in and not get out. Could be as simple as that.
The weinermobile did have its catalytic converter stolen recently.
When I was driving trucks in the early 2000s I40 was the worst. One day it took more than 20 hours to find a parking space.
Its a good thing you answered otherwise the next knock you would have heard would be from a police officer and then a tow truck.
So glad you were able to find a spot to get some sleep. Stay safe 🙏
My first night out a nervous land owner in Idaho with a pistol called the county sheriff on me for trespassing. All ended well but this baptism by fire left me very cautious. Now I plan ahead, park before dark and try to have a couple backup places handy. Two years in and no more trouble. But I like your approach, too! Motel parking lots! Brilliant idea! Stay flexible!
My main reason why not upgrading to a van. Love that I can park my SUV anywhere and not be noticed.
I’m in over the road truck driver and my advice to you is not to park at Walmarts. Some of them will have your vehicle booted and it will cost you a tremendous amount of money to have that removed. You should try to find parking in outer suburbs, not in the downtown area and get yourself some trucking apps like flying J loves TA Petro you can usually park in the front lots of those for free and they’re well lit and the staff inside can see your vehicle and nobody will bother you
Yes, truck stops are the best
I’ve seen tons of videos where the people say Walmart allows overnight camping in their parking lots.
100% this, very good advice.
Girl you need cameras! No more peaking out 👀 Not only can you see everything, but you can record what’s happening 👍🏻Just my two cents 🙂 Thanks for sharing! Safe travels 🚞
Too stressful to live like this. I need an apartment and definitely a bedroom indoors. Stay Safe, your very sweet
Along with cameras, you need to get you red or green LED lights, you can see fine inside, but no one can see any lights on in the Van. Please stay safe❤
Oh my. I would have been in panic mode. You stayed so calm and handled the situation so well. I work at a Lowe's in NC. They allow truck drivers to park overnight so they may let vanlifers do the same. Maybe just another option. Stay safe out there
Cracker Barrel is a well known safe place to park. They are found in every city and are usually right beside exits.
@@GoAskAlice23 I was thinking about that! ... yes, if they allow this. But I would want other campers there as well.
@@gracierose3076 plenty of RVs are here now. All shapes and sizes.
Be careful.
I've done that
No problem.
Watching you look for safe parking makes me ever so grateful that I am no longer in my van. Blessings to you❤
My husband and I feel your pain. Lol. We stealth camp in our van and this night you had is sooo similar to some of ours. Sometimes we nail it quickly. Sometimes not. One night while in a hotel parking lot a man and woman had a huge lovers quarrel smack behind our van. A nice hotel. We could hear everything they said. I was sooo nervous. It continued on and on so my husband slowly climbed out of the bed to the drivers seat, started the engine and took off in one fell swoop, leaving them in shock no doubt 😮😂 Another night we had a policeman knock and kindly told us we couldn’t park where we were and directed us to Dennys.
I don't know if I could handle the daily stress of not knowing where I was parking for the night, if it was safe and if I would get the dreaded 'knock' !
@@catbee1452park at Walmart - problem solved
I’m buying my van this year. From watching your videos and others I know to ensure thicker glass, autu security bright lights, ect… I value my life and refuse to step out half assed
When I stayed in my car, I went to rest stops off the hwy or hospital parking lots...most are free...or Minute clinics...
You should park in a place where you can't be boxed in, you should always park where you can pull off if need be in a hurry
I admire your analytical skills in searching up a safe sleeping spot.
I tried minivan life for only 2 weeks but failed because when I'm tired, it's so frustrating to have to go to 3 or 4 or more places just trying to find a safe spot to sleep.
Your success and good attitude is a testament to your tenacity, but at the same time, it pisses me off that you should have to go through this.
With the growing need for people to choose van life, there should be accommodations made somehow to provide legal and safe parking.
Unfortunately, if the PTB cared, the need would not be growing.
😱😱 Even watching the video, after the knock my heart stopped, that was so scary, i could never travelbon my own, maybe only with a lion by my side 😬
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You cannot park on private property at a hotel unless you pay .... It's a law. The only places you can park are at rest stops and some stores like Walmart or grocery chains during their business hours or their security guards will boot you out
Interesting. I travel a fair deal and they always ask for type of car and license. I always assumed they monitored who parked there. I wouldn't have thought anyone could park overnight without being a guest.
Too stressful for me! By the time all the driving was done to find a place I think I'd of just got a room for the night and researched for the next night.
,and I would have so much adrenaline I wouldn't be able to sleep anyway
Karen, you little cutie! I bet you’re a strong woman… you can handle yourself, I know. Best of Luck in all your life, in all your journeys; may prosperity always seek you out.
I’m curious why you didn’t walk into Walmart and inquire about overnight parking, or ask the security guard that you mentioned was roaming around. Either of these options would have been much less effort than all of the driving and searching.
That was my thought as well....but, hey, to each their own
Most Walmarts let you stay in their parking lot
She called twice no answer. I would NEVER go in person either because that identifies you to potential criminals who overhear you asking. This is of particular concern to females traveling alone
@@BrendaLee8 Alot of Walmarts have actually stopped allowing overnight parking and have signs posted up.
@@MsPhillyG Was just going to mention the same. In fact, where I live, if a shopping center where a Walmart is located is found to be regularly permitting such overnight parking, the owners of said shopping center can and will be fined by local government. The property is not zoned for such use. Also, shopping centers are populated by many businesses/stores, the owners/managers of which have no authority to okay/authorize the use of the parking lot for such overnight camping.
That is what I'm afraid of uninvited intruder. Be safe. Park at 24-hour fitness. Used there shower if you're a member.
I was homeless and living in my car too. It is not so bad actually.
Industrial Parks are good for parking and sleeping. No one bothers you there
I work as a Security Officer for one of the major companies in the US. The most common reason for Security to be in a parking lot in a regular car is on a new acct. That car was either a company paid rental, or an officer's personal vehicle if the account is so new that a rental was not yet arranged. Most marked vehicles are actually owned by the security company. My guess is that hotel has had security in their lot for 6 months or less.
Lately. Crime is up everywhere. Gotta be careful
@@onemoreday1550 That's exactly what the security officer was doing. Making sure his post was safe.
Thank you for your kind, professional and informative response 👍
I e worked security for many years. A lot of officers monitor the parking lot in their personal vehicle due to the working just that property. Not worth having a company vehicle there if it’s not needed.
As a van lifer it might be cool to get into security work
What works for me (granted I am in Europe where there are treaties which protect free choice of dwelling and traffic laws which allow - and even demand - recuperative parking) is to kit the van out as a work van. You may have to choose wisely on what kind of work van you want to impersonate because obviously an electronics courrier is very popular with the burglars whereas the sewer unclogging professional will never see anybody wanting to have a snoop around the interior...
I impersonate as a plumber professional and I never get any knocks from fake popos or other bussy bodies in a uniform...
I like the "just got here and was using the bathroom" excuse...
See, the thing here in America, is that most parking lots (all those attached to businesses) are legally private property. So there can be no govt requirements to allow those not actively engaged in doing commerce with that business, and during normal business hours only, can a person even be on said property for any length of time. This touches upon our very common laws regarding Loitering and Trespass.
The business owner can agree to it, and that changes everything. But then there are the insurance providers who do not want to see something like that due to liability. And there are the officials from Code Enforcement who will come along and put a stop to it immediately.
Many people, myself included, are full time on the road, and I will try urban stealth anytime I need to, for sure. But I don't kid myself where I stand under the Law. And being uninformed or using vague rationalizations have no bearing whatsoever. "Woulda-Coulda-Shoulda" has no validity here. Personally, I'm not happy things are that way, but it is what it is. Business (most especially corporate entities) rule here in the US, even over the civil rights of the people. Sad, bad thing that.
Beyond all that, Columbia SC is a very high crime city. And generally, the entire state of SC is very forceful against parking overnight like that. Locals resort to violent behavior easily over it.
@@pattikelly8921 Europe has for the most part similar rules and regs but as long as you are on public land (the parking lot of any government entity, a open parking lot (unless posted or fitted with any form of barrier or gate - even if said barrier or gate is opened)
In europe for the most part, if normal traffic laws apply (which they do in all areas - even private land - which is publicly accessible - like a open lot and even an ungated private driveway) you should keep to the traffic code and as such can not drive when fatigued...
Wow. This is genius
@@koningbolo4700America has public lands too but it seems mostly in the west. I only know from videos though
Hospital parking lots are good and safe if you keep quiet
I would have a big dog with me if I was in a van alone. A shepherd or something.
No fair to the dog.
Sometimes you can ask LE - let them know you're traveling and waiting for a event - church or traveling to family - emergency or whatever. They can tell you sometimes where to park or not park temporarily.
I so much appreciate you sharing a real life scenario, and tips for finding spots in a new area. Happy travels!
I would hate being tired and having to look for a parking spot to sleep - I think that alone would be tiresome.
I have done it. It is exhausting. But all parts of the lifestyle are. You have to get up and find coffee or tea. Then you have to find or get to the showering place. Then you have to get to an eatery. It all takes so much energy and time, there is no way you could look for a job or likely hold one down. You save alot of money though. Rent is taxed. Expecially if you know enough people that you can sometimes have housesitting or pet sitting to break the monotony. It can be worth it.
At least he didn't ask " is Tamara home?" 😱😂 the random knocking is def jarring, i agree. Loved the video 😊
Thanks for sharing. ❤ I'd be terrified I think if someone knocked on the window. You are very brave. I hope you are still enjoying your van life. Love the set up.
Hear me out I'm a truck driver, for everyone that is part of the van life I don't care if have a partner or fur babies with you, down load trucker path. It will help yall out with the walmarts nation wide cause there some of the walmarts that will not let us park. But it might be the same for yall as well.
I've been traveling like you, for past 8 yrs. With crazy gas prices and cost of food, I am on now on a budget, Go to a truck stop, get a map of Loves, Flying Js, etc truck stops. Most 24/7 super center Walmarts allow parking, but ask security. I travel with a 80 lb German Shepard, Blue heeler, Rottweiler mix, I leave a window cracked open so he can smell and/or hear someone approaching my Motorhome. Happy travels dear
Ya a truck stop for sure
Security companies are cutting costs by having their guards use their own personal vehicles. Kudos to that guard for actually doing his job and not napping in his car.
I’d park at churches, grocery stores,hospitals, Dennys/Sherri’s restaurants etc… u can find a spot away from the foot traffic still.
Please keep safe sister!!
As a full time van lifer visiting here in Arizona, I've learned if Walmart has security roaming the parking lot, don't even attempt to stay overnight! Those buttcrack of dawn knocks suck!😆
Pay your own way. Walmart owes you nothing. Good grief.
@@imnitguy Walmart owes all of us.
I hate Walmart for multiple reasons
If he stays the night he is more likely to buy stuff there. Don’t they lock their workers in there?
@@imnitguylol ok lil fella whatever you say, killa
20 years ago as a teenager I moved out living out of my jeep Cherokee in Walmart parking lots for a couple of weeks. Was wondering if you have a reason for not overnighting at truck stops, or maybe you do stay in those sometimes. Enjoyed your video. Then totally understand a van sticks out much more than smaller vehicle in those parking lots. Pretty unsettling to have somebody going around banging on your sheet metal and then your window. At least it happened only a few minutes after you got there so you weren’t woken up.
The first thing I would have done was activate my alarm. If it's someone with bad intentions, they'll scamper off in a hurry. If it's security, they'll stick around.
Another gal who's been van living for six years, travelling across the US, has a map of all the free parking spaces she's been to, an interactive map with notes about each. Worth googling.
Only recently did I realize that truckers park overnight at our local Walmart. I saw a few campers, too. Just was not aware of it before.
I may be a man, but I'm a car camper too, former police officer, black belt in tae kwon do and hapkido, have a security licence and truck driver by profession... Am happy to help women feel safe and mitigate any safety threat.
Wow girl! I just made it (barely!!) through the KNOCK and am still amped up with you as if I were there! I have been there myself, and you managed to convey the precise heart stopping experience with all its nuances, the knocking on all three sides. Omgoodness I almost couldn’t stay with it! Really enjoy your realness 😊
I immediately went and double locked the front door to my house!!
Columbia South Carolina has Magnolia campground. It’s a must see. There is probably only 12 Rv/spots but the fresh eggs and the birds are so entertaining. Loved it. It’s a must see
Anybody can wear a security uniform pretending to be a guard! Rolling down that window was not smart or safe!
I think being honest, would be the best bet. Go in and ask if it’s ok. You might even get security protecting you for the night. Even if you drop a few dollars at the desk or to the security guards themselves.
Simplest thing I do is look for apartment complexes in cities in nice areas and park on the street (not their parking lot) when I don't want to get a hotel for the night or passing through. Google the website apartment (fill in the blank) and then filter by highest rent to find expensive apartment in good locations. Besides always having mace/pepper spray and something to protect yourself if against things that go bang.
What would have been an actual good place is that hotel where the Wienermobile was. Before you entered the hotel parking lot there were two large trucks parked behind cones. You could have parked next to them and people passing by would have thought your van is part of the crew (vehicle) entourage...
You are smart and you are likely successful. good thinking.
@@libbyhicks7549 Well successful... I f up some times like the next guy but when it comes to avoiding the knock I tend to be spot on...
I was thinking the same thing - or maybe along that little road right before where those vehicles were parked, it looked like it might have been a service or access road, not the hotel lot proper & less chance of getting hassled maybe.
@@djday7974 That road looked like the van would be too much of a tuck away...
Tuck aways need to be avoided unless you can get out of sign completely... The cone locale with the two trucks is best because the white van would not stand out at all...in fact it would look like it belonged there...