Okay I have a lot of thoughts. First of all, I quite enjoyed the lighting in this video. It really worked - not too bright, not too dark. Secondly, I related so much to what you said about spouting nonsense when you’re nervous. I don’t know why but I sometimes get so nervous in social situations and I end up chattering non-stop. It’s so funny because I present as widely confident like in a party setting for example, and yet, if there’s a situation where I feel there’s individual pressure on me I freak the fuck out and get so nervous, and I up using my ability to talk about literally anything and everything to fill any possible awkward silence lmao. Third, it was so interesting to listen to your dating stories. Until now, I’ve never really realized how much pressure and expectations I place on myself which ultimately ends up impacting the date or the situation I’m in. I actually gained a lot of insight into my own behavior while also getting to learn about yours! Great video Ben!
You should do more storytime-like videos. Even if the story isn't crazy fascinating, it's interesting to hear what you've been up to, and quite relaxing.
Handshakes for LIFE!! Also not a hugger and I’ve definitely done the handshake when I wasnt down to hug and it’s worse when they ask for more and you’re like 💀.... But imo handshakes > hugs especially when meeting for the first time, hugs are too much surface area and I like the formal aspect of the handshake haha. Like there are specifics to a decent handshake and yes I will lowkey judge the handshake lol. Then if it’s a good date it will only upgrade, if it’s a bad one there will always be the trusty handshake baseline. It’s nice that someone else also sides with handshakes haha I’ve gotten flak about it
A handshake? 😂 damn if I ever went on a date with a guy who went in for handshake after noticing I wanted to hug, I would completely cut him off 😂 haha sorry I would just be offended 😂 but I understand that you don’t like hugs. Anyways you are young! Thought you were older
“Then we went back to her house... to play call of duty” Ben ain’t no simp😎😂
Wow, I never knew Ben was such a Chad with the ladies 😎😏
This was relaxing, comical, and wholesome. Thank you for sharing, my partner and I both hope you find love!
Ur stories are always great to listen to 😀
Thanks mate :)
Yes and I can't sleep because I keep paying attention 😂
Yep there really interesting but at the same time I know way to much about this blokes life
Okay I have a lot of thoughts. First of all, I quite enjoyed the lighting in this video. It really worked - not too bright, not too dark. Secondly, I related so much to what you said about spouting nonsense when you’re nervous. I don’t know why but I sometimes get so nervous in social situations and I end up chattering non-stop. It’s so funny because I present as widely confident like in a party setting for example, and yet, if there’s a situation where I feel there’s individual pressure on me I freak the fuck out and get so nervous, and I up using my ability to talk about literally anything and everything to fill any possible awkward silence lmao.
Third, it was so interesting to listen to your dating stories. Until now, I’ve never really realized how much pressure and expectations I place on myself which ultimately ends up impacting the date or the situation I’m in. I actually gained a lot of insight into my own behavior while also getting to learn about yours! Great video Ben!
Thanks Jenna!! Glad got something out of it other than chuckling at my cringe behaviour 😉😅
YESSSS i love don’t hug me i’m scared! solid shirt choice 😊🙌🏽
If I did ASMR it would be whispering the word 'tragedy' over and over😂
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You should do more storytime-like videos. Even if the story isn't crazy fascinating, it's interesting to hear what you've been up to, and quite relaxing.
I enjoyed listening to your stories, Ben. And best wishes on your future dates! 👍🏼
I'm taking a dump while watching this video ;P
no lie I've been watching Ben's videos the past 5 years and I have literally seen you on every video, fair play to you
You dropped this king 👑
Dingo ASMR A CROWN FOR THE KING IN THE THRONE
Thanks for sharing your life experiences, mate! Quite relaxing, indeed! Thank you!
Again I wish you would make a video putting us on to all the sling and terminologies of the UK that would be interesting...🤔
Such a great storyteller! I could listen to you all day
First date ideas with ASMR Gamer: shit on your girlfriend in COD
Handshakes for LIFE!! Also not a hugger and I’ve definitely done the handshake when I wasnt down to hug and it’s worse when they ask for more and you’re like 💀.... But imo handshakes > hugs especially when meeting for the first time, hugs are too much surface area and I like the formal aspect of the handshake haha. Like there are specifics to a decent handshake and yes I will lowkey judge the handshake lol. Then if it’s a good date it will only upgrade, if it’s a bad one there will always be the trusty handshake baseline. It’s nice that someone else also sides with handshakes haha I’ve gotten flak about it
That Train Station Scenario was hilarious 😂
Ben? More like Smooth Criminal mate 😭👏🏻
Shout out to your housemates for the intervention 😂
You’re the cutest 🥰🥰
*Me frantically trying to expand my 100 mile tinder radius* 😂 I actually had to put my head in my hands when you said about the hand shake 🤦🏽♀️😂
It’s a quality way to end a date and I won’t hear ltherwise
The ASMR Gamer hmmm debatable, yet comedic
The question is did Ben get some phone calls or text messages after this upload..🤣
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i just read extreme ownership and see that on ur shelf lmao
Epic video👍 idea love your stories 😂
Best line: “Ahhhhh, the Dutch.”
this will be fun
The gin and chicken goujon comment was just an absolute mood
Next stream? ;)
Handshake 🤣👍🏻
Love ur story telling series 🤗🤗
Ben you should try to make a video of you doing an American accent the entire time. Quite the challenge
gr8 as always ben :)
I am gonna say something weird. But your mustache calms me down
You are almost at 100K!!
Bruh you still add an 'R' to Americano lol
"For all you nosy people out there..."
Shit, how'd he know I'm watching?
How did I miss this one?
🤦♀️ the handshake 🤣
Your great as always . Sorry I have missed
some videos ❤️
Always good to see you, dw!!!!
Haha! Great video. Keep it up fella 😎
6:02 😂
Where are you actually from and where did you grow up and live now? Trying to put my finger on your accent 👍🏻
A handshake? 😂 damn if I ever went on a date with a guy who went in for handshake after noticing I wanted to hug, I would completely cut him off 😂 haha sorry I would just be offended 😂 but I understand that you don’t like hugs.
Anyways you are young! Thought you were older
Handshakes are a solid greeting/parting! 😅
Great vid mate, and a very interesting one 😏
Thanks mate!
Don’t hug me I’m scared, that s**t creeped the fuxk out of I swear my childhood took a turn for the worse after watching that!
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Are you considering a master's degree after your BA?
I’m not mate, starting the world of work in September :)
That Rodeo profile pic 🔥
The ASMR Gamer where do you work or what did you study in new here
Can't watch this at the min as I'm busy.. But I'll watch it later.... Just thought I'd let you know...
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Ok, cringeworthy moments, I hope 🤣🤣 jk
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