This is Autistic Stimming

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

Комментарии • 209

  • @sari7545
    @sari7545 3 месяца назад +1197

    Oh, my little sweet pea. Her crying is so heart melting.

    • @luananana4679
      @luananana4679 3 месяца назад +37

      Oh Mikko please don't cry! You'll make me cry! 😭 I know you hate getting your hair done but look how pretty mommy did it and how pretty you look !😁😇🩷

    • @terrywhite698
      @terrywhite698 18 дней назад +1

      Yes it is😢

    • @terrywhite698
      @terrywhite698 18 дней назад

      👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽👸🏽❤

  • @ThatDivineDiva
    @ThatDivineDiva 3 месяца назад +783

    I just absolutely love how patient you are with her, and how you took out that one small section of hair to help her.

  • @localmenacetosociety
    @localmenacetosociety 2 месяца назад +426

    Thank you for quietly counting, from an autistic teen who wasnt given that love and understanding it is so heart warming to see someone understand how small details can be so important. Just counting with a soft voice helped her calm down enough to show you what she needed. You're doing great!

  • @RaayaAyad-fk2cu
    @RaayaAyad-fk2cu 3 месяца назад +165

    The way you knew exactly what to do to help her calm herself speaks volumes on how awesome of a mom you are to your children

  • @lindalewis7098
    @lindalewis7098 3 месяца назад +215

    Mikko is such a beautiful and precious child; and Mom you and dad are awesome. Your love for her will make a world of difference. The amount of dedication is awesome. I'm praying for Mikko's complete healing, and for the entire family. ❤

    • @TC-gx3qn
      @TC-gx3qn 3 месяца назад +5

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @Tooshortruth
      @Tooshortruth 2 месяца назад +6

      Mikko doesn’t need to heal, there’s nothing wrong with her.

    • @GavinAllan-bd5fp
      @GavinAllan-bd5fp 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@TooshortruthMy thoughts exactly ❤

  • @Beansproutts
    @Beansproutts 2 месяца назад +60

    You have such a gentle way with your daughter. It's so heartwarming to see, knowing how some of autistic friends were treated by their parents. I really appreciate your vids.

  • @anniehamblen5140
    @anniehamblen5140 Месяц назад +11

    Thank you for making sure she is being comfortable with doing hair and pulling out the one strand to help her. We all are sending love to you and mikko.

  • @GentleRambler62
    @GentleRambler62 2 месяца назад +21

    Just to hear cry breaks my heart..her mama is an angel

  • @bettyjolly4046
    @bettyjolly4046 3 месяца назад +27

    If that little piece of hair gives her that much comfort. I’d have one out on both side. Another style would to have them out at the side burn area. Unless she just feels comfortable with the ones up to. She is too adorable and has made such progress. Sending love and light to this beautiful family.

  • @MasterofVirology
    @MasterofVirology 3 месяца назад +23

    Mikko is so precious. You are such a great mom. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise

  • @tarawhite2329
    @tarawhite2329 9 дней назад

    The way she needed that hair twisting to help calm her. God bless this precious baby. She is surely blessed to have loving parents.

  • @camillesierra3169
    @camillesierra3169 3 месяца назад +13

    I love you Mikko God bless your family and you always it breaks my heart to see you like this but it's such a relief the way your mommy handles it with such love and care and a lot compassion🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @beadsbyrachel
    @beadsbyrachel 9 дней назад +1

    It makes my heart hurt to see that sweet baby cry. You’re doing an amazing job

  • @Juliannab3o
    @Juliannab3o 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for making these videos. Sometimes when I am feeling down I come back and watch your videos. Mikko is so cute. I love your families videos ❤❤❤❤

  • @debraanderson4277
    @debraanderson4277 3 месяца назад +62

    Mamma, you are a ROCK STAR! 🎉
    And she is such a beautiful baby girl. Much love, respect, and prayers for you. Your hard work might not feel rewarding day to day, but the work you are putting in now will yield invaluable results down the line. I have seen it over and over. It's so taxing - but keep on keeping on. You are doing great. She is worth it, and you are precious.

  • @natashamariano2790
    @natashamariano2790 3 месяца назад +23

    That is such a good mum ❤

  • @ruthharris7533
    @ruthharris7533 2 месяца назад +6

    Mom you are so patient kind understanding and loving here. Great job mom. U are helping her to feel safe.

  • @cherylbrown1939
    @cherylbrown1939 Месяц назад

    Mom, you are truly amazing 👏🏽 with her. I don't like to see Mikko cry because my heart hurts for her. Keep up the good work.

  • @neillmanning9969
    @neillmanning9969 3 месяца назад +3

    Bless her. You really are a wonderful mother. I have 2 boys who are on the spectrum and I have got a way to go as a parent so I understand how difficult it is but you my dear are absolutely smashing it. Love from London, England ❤

  • @lawanhedanegra
    @lawanhedanegra Месяц назад

    I love how calm you are with her, how you treat her... you are an example!!!! Respect🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻. Also your daughter is beautiful! I love her hair, very pretty☺️

  • @denisebyers7647
    @denisebyers7647 2 месяца назад +2

    You are a phenomenal mom. I don't know how you do it. ❤

  • @uspsdt6
    @uspsdt6 2 месяца назад +3

    Poor baby! She is so sweet and beautiful. Mom you have so much patience with her. Bless you all. 🙂

  • @GNT108
    @GNT108 27 дней назад

    You are a great person and a mum. More strength to you and your family ❤

  • @PotooBurd
    @PotooBurd 3 месяца назад +8

    I enjoy this so much! Amazing content, best wishes to you and your future projects! 🌻

  • @Robertoni7
    @Robertoni7 2 месяца назад +1

    Bless you both.

  • @paulapridy6804
    @paulapridy6804 3 месяца назад +12

    She breaks my grandma heart❤

  • @M23js
    @M23js 3 месяца назад +4

    I'ma say "what a genius thought, mama!"
    Grabbing hair that's past the hairline will reduce breakage! Thinking bout everything present and future! 💜🖤

  • @Serene80
    @Serene80 2 месяца назад +3

    Stimming was definitely the first indication my nephew was autistic. He's flapped his hands just about from birth...

  • @LivieYoutube
    @LivieYoutube 8 дней назад

    you handel her so well ive never seen somebody as patient as you

  • @JackieGray-i1j
    @JackieGray-i1j 2 месяца назад +1

    I appreciate you Precious but I love when Chris came in to soothe her

  • @TheRestOfUs123
    @TheRestOfUs123 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us. ❤ Mikko is darling, and it is such a privilege to have a chance to support you as she progresses. You are an incredible role model for all parents everywhere! 🥰

  • @marialebron5188
    @marialebron5188 2 месяца назад +1

    Awww sweet baby girl! She is beautiful God bless her.

  • @FactorCast
    @FactorCast 2 месяца назад +1

    You are an superhero. I have an adult son with autism, and I can remember the days. I salute you as an wonderful mother.

  • @melbasirianni
    @melbasirianni 2 месяца назад +1

    It hurts me so much to see her cry 😢 . Don't cry, swetheart, you have a very loving Mommy ❤

  • @tamtilicious
    @tamtilicious 2 месяца назад +1

    Both mom and the little princess are so pretty. Much love.

  • @piper7485
    @piper7485 2 месяца назад +1

    God bless this beautiful child ❤

  • @Catwoman1022
    @Catwoman1022 2 месяца назад +1

    She’s so pretty my heart just shrink looking at her crying

  • @daniellepaylor2840
    @daniellepaylor2840 2 месяца назад

    You inspired me and helped me come to terms with with some things. I love this. I need to practice patience my lil one seems to cry out of frustration not being able to communicate.

  • @d.haskins3840
    @d.haskins3840 3 месяца назад +1

    This is so good! ❤❤❤ I wish I had this when my son was little. Love you sweet Mikko

  • @Purplefrog03
    @Purplefrog03 2 месяца назад +5

    Im an autistic 21 year old studying to become a teacher and I still stim with my hair.

  • @SereneRDH
    @SereneRDH 3 месяца назад +1

    Precious you are truly a blessing❤

  • @alisongates4231
    @alisongates4231 День назад

    Omg I cant get over how calm you are with her

  • @joanneholden5475
    @joanneholden5475 3 месяца назад +1

    You are awesome momma you rock ❤❤ you know just what to do to calm sweet Angel down😊

  • @yvonnehamright5964
    @yvonnehamright5964 3 месяца назад +1

    Mom you’re the best. God bless you and your sweet little baby girl 🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️

  • @Introvert_club
    @Introvert_club 2 месяца назад +1

    Hello me (11,f) have a sister (6,f) who was diagnosed with ADNP and your videos are so inspiring , she is non verbal as well and is getting along very well with her speaking but also pull hair , hits , kicks , and pinches poeple when she is overwhelmed or stressed and she is not allowed to be with other children at school because of injuries if that unless they have parents permission and your kid and my sister are almost IDENTICAL in how they act and speak

  • @tonicharles8749
    @tonicharles8749 3 месяца назад

    My heart broke while she was crying. You are a great mommy...❤

  • @benbolt8849
    @benbolt8849 2 месяца назад

    I found you today my son is autistic snd nonverbal too and i show your daughter to my wife and we are sure she is the sister of our son exactly the same :) god bless you and enjoy the stressless moments :)

  • @winstondonald3065
    @winstondonald3065 Месяц назад

    Poor child. She is so sweet

  • @minkafae
    @minkafae 2 месяца назад +1

    as an autistic teenager this is so beautiful and reassuring to see❤

  • @Kaygottics
    @Kaygottics 2 месяца назад

    Perfectly done. First thing I thought was... gonna have to pull a strand out, momma. ❤❤❤

  • @tatavida9383
    @tatavida9383 3 месяца назад +2

    Love you ma petite princesse tu est tellement extraordinaire et unique que dieu te bénisse et bénisse maman papa❤❤

  • @Dmarie0126
    @Dmarie0126 3 месяца назад

    You are an amazing mother with an amazing daughter. God bless your family.

  • @Crystalk2001
    @Crystalk2001 3 месяца назад

    You are a beautiful mom.
    I see pictures of myself when I was younger, I was always crying. My mother did not comfort me like you help your daughter.
    I guess crying is my stimming with other things as well. We now know, I cry when I have to transition from one thing to another.
    For me, I am not sad or angry it’s just confusing and overwhelming even though I know I am safe.
    I’m learning to accept that part of who I am.

  • @denisedale7
    @denisedale7 2 месяца назад

    I remember when my daughter, now 15, was just a bit younger than her. She was having a sensory melt down in the store. People began looking at me like, "Aren't you gonna do something?" I politely stepped out of line to console her as you did here. I love how you are so patient with her, and I know how it can become frustrated at times.. 😔 You seem to be a wonderful mother.🥰 May God continue to bless you all..

  • @poddylogo
    @poddylogo 2 месяца назад

    Gosh mom, you’re a queen. I’m dedicating my career to help children with all needs. You’re an amazing mother, it’s inspiring.

  • @bake2615
    @bake2615 2 месяца назад

    I’m sorry seeetheart. Your cry is a tear to the soul.. May the lord be with you hun😢

  • @StacyHernandez-s6b
    @StacyHernandez-s6b 3 месяца назад

    Your such an amazing Mom children are certainly our blessing! ❤

  • @andrewsaulnier821
    @andrewsaulnier821 2 месяца назад

    Bless you both tremendously. I know the love of an autistic, just becoming verbal now at 5 years old daughter.

  • @ambob808
    @ambob808 Месяц назад +1

    Love how you let a peice of hair down to play with

  • @TheCreativeAutistic37
    @TheCreativeAutistic37 3 месяца назад +3

    I have been through the same thing as this little one even as an adult i still find it hard to calm down 😢 but things will get better 🙏💪❤ sometimes holding my stuffed pokemon pikachu and rocking helps me ..maybe a stuffed animal will helpnher as well

  • @eshubabyy9880
    @eshubabyy9880 3 месяца назад +6

    I love you Mikko ❤ love from INDIA 🇳🇪

  • @creeei9305
    @creeei9305 2 месяца назад

    She’s so beautiful ❤

  • @TheJawn_G
    @TheJawn_G 2 месяца назад +1

    How wonderful ❤ and you still have her the strand of hair ❤❤❤❤

  • @shannensantonja8673
    @shannensantonja8673 2 месяца назад

    I love her! Ugh my heart ❤ I work with ppl with developmental disabilities and they have my heart! ❤️

  • @mommyof3_908
    @mommyof3_908 2 месяца назад

    The more I watch your videos, my 5yo son is so similar. Sending love ❤️

  • @amandakelly5906
    @amandakelly5906 2 месяца назад

    I love your videos you helped me become so much more aware as a parent of a child who's on the Spectrum and has pandas

  • @cleanup-y7z
    @cleanup-y7z 3 месяца назад +9

    People who were here know this is a repost

  • @sarahs1849
    @sarahs1849 3 месяца назад

    She is truly adorable 🥰 I hate to see her cry 😢 my little guy loves his thumb too!

  • @deborahfollowscornell9007
    @deborahfollowscornell9007 3 месяца назад +3

    precious little baby girl❤

  • @jesterb0mb89bruh6
    @jesterb0mb89bruh6 2 месяца назад

    My son likes playing with his hair in general but when he's upset I tend to hug him until he's ok your daughter is adorable

  • @helixmoore7636
    @helixmoore7636 2 месяца назад +1

    I wonder if she'd like a hammock? I found them very calming when I need to sleep

  • @nigerianblackamericancouple17
    @nigerianblackamericancouple17 2 месяца назад

    Good job mom , Its not easy ,but you are so strong...I definitely can relate my son is higher functioning Autistic,but I went through many of all symptoms with my son..

  • @melissabrown-rose9183
    @melissabrown-rose9183 3 месяца назад

    Bless them both, Lord Jesus. Precious child.

  • @allisonmitchell7379
    @allisonmitchell7379 3 месяца назад

    I love this lil girl so much she is so precious and so sweet u can’t help but fall in love with her❤
    Mom you’re absolutely amazing!!

  • @angelaphelps1306
    @angelaphelps1306 3 месяца назад

    You're A Great Mom, Mikko is doing good ❤❤

  • @zassymauras4505
    @zassymauras4505 2 месяца назад

    She’s so Beautiful just like her mom’s heart 🫶🏽🙏🏽

  • @annettecarter6044
    @annettecarter6044 3 месяца назад

    It’s alright Mikko, you are still beautiful!!!

  • @Cairo125
    @Cairo125 2 месяца назад

    And this is why we need black women in our home black women r nurturing and they encourage us to do better we love you Mama

  • @darkchocolatedude
    @darkchocolatedude 2 месяца назад +1

    Sweet lil thang, great job mother❤

  • @Bestofanimals-k7o
    @Bestofanimals-k7o 11 дней назад

    She the most beautiful little girl ever

  • @StarseedUp
    @StarseedUp 2 месяца назад

    I no my mom had it rough especially in Trinidad 3o years ago. Just keep telling Mikko it’s gonna be ok and she’s helping make the world a better place followed by a million kisses ok. 😭

  • @M-fm4sj
    @M-fm4sj 3 месяца назад

    Poor baby she so adorable ❤

  • @justanadams9430
    @justanadams9430 Месяц назад

    Awww sweet baby. 😢😢😢😢😢😢 now she got me crying.

  • @debidrake4593
    @debidrake4593 2 месяца назад

    It's okay, sweetheart. 💗💖
    You look so beautiful, just like your Mommy. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lorenzocanto1612
    @lorenzocanto1612 3 месяца назад

    You are an awesome mom ❤

  • @jojo1216
    @jojo1216 2 месяца назад

    This reminds me of one of your first videos i found on Facebook. You were doing her hair, and trying it without the curl down in front. She was having none of that ❤

  • @janemurage8296
    @janemurage8296 2 месяца назад

    Lovely daughter to a 1 in billion Mummy.You are great mum

  • @torifrazier6930
    @torifrazier6930 2 месяца назад +1

    I use to suck my thumb and rub on something soft. I did until I was almost 30. Back then they didn't know about autism so I was just called odd because of my unusual behavior and lack of social skills.

  • @scw5935
    @scw5935 2 месяца назад +1

    To Mikko's Mom You are so wonderful!❤😊

  • @Lobaluna69
    @Lobaluna69 2 месяца назад

    Esto me parte el corazón, mi hija así lloraba y yo no vi , ni los pediatras, hasta ahora, que tiene 14 años, su autismo

  • @Jacqueline-d5i5z
    @Jacqueline-d5i5z 2 месяца назад

    She is soooo sweet!!!

  • @prudencemokoena6928
    @prudencemokoena6928 11 дней назад

    Awww she is so cute Mama 🥺❤️

  • @Miriam-1
    @Miriam-1 2 месяца назад

    My heart 💕 goes out to her.

  • @AudraRamos
    @AudraRamos 3 месяца назад +1

    Good job mom! With my daughter I had to wrap my arms and legs until she calmed down. She was 10 not this little.

  • @matissahall4967
    @matissahall4967 2 месяца назад

    Awww I hate to see her cry it just makes me so sad 😢😢😢

  • @ebonygammage4335
    @ebonygammage4335 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤ counting calms my son down to or taking him outside barefoot. I always say he needs to ground himself and get sunlight. I’m waiting to see what word he finds to communicate that back to me. Does she use any words? My son is 4.5 and he’s starting to say and repeat more and more things.

  • @sophi3705
    @sophi3705 2 месяца назад

    You’re such an awesome mom

  • @kats2600
    @kats2600 3 месяца назад

    the lil hair down in the front is her signature look 🥹

  • @Nothingtoseehere.1214
    @Nothingtoseehere.1214 22 дня назад

    I used to do both of those, and i still use my hair to calm down lol, and im not autistic i love how the world works❤

  • @danawaldon1586
    @danawaldon1586 3 месяца назад

    Your doing great mama, keep it up❤