Speaking of comfort things, your videos are that for me. You help me a lot despite the fact that I’m almost 40, it doesn’t matter cuz mentally I still feel like I’m in my 20s and listening to you just calms me down. Cleaning my room, the kitchen just anything I’m like I need some Melissa in the background. Thanks for letting us into your life and just for being you. I appreciate you girl.
Yes!! Ive been putting on her videos in the background while I’m working, and I end up watching it more than work. Truly love her videos ❤ excited to watch her channel grow.
I think you're the only youtuber that I can seat and listen to you talking for minutes without getting distracted. The topics that you brings up are always so interesting! Love your videos, from France. xo
Love you girl! I always think to myself if you did a podcast I would so listen to it… and i dont listen to anyones idk why.. love how fun,motivating, and responsible you are for us its soo contagious 🫶🏽
Love love LOVE your channel & your whole vibe🤍✨ your so calm & when you said you had to be alone to recharge after going out I felt that I thought I was weird & always wondered how people can always be around large groups every weekend because I just can’t lol so glad to know I’m not alone
I’ve been watching your videos all morning and you inspire me so much 🥺 I’ve been dealing with extreme anxiety the past month and i started going to counseling i cant leave the house without getting anxiety attacks and seeing you live your best life is so motivating to pull myself out of this 🫶🏻
I felt that part when you spoke about being drained when people start to vent to you about events that happen to them especially when its something so small
you got this girl! once you are consistent for 30 days it will be a natural habit and you will love life!I just had my baby 4 months ago and I'm ready to find myself again and Im so happy going to the gym is back in my routine
Ahhh yes! I’ve been rewatching your old videos🤗 I’ve been feeling down lately and every time I get ina funk I watch your videos and start feeling motivated to just get up and do something as small as get ready💓 glad you’re doing great!🤍🤍
I've always heard people say to get 7 to 8 hours of sleep, even 6 to 8 hours of sleep, BUT it was never enough for me, and I've always felt so bad and lazy because I needed more sleep LOL
Thank you for this video Mel I needed it… I’m literally going through the toughest time even getting up is so hard but the new year will be my year I feel it too I’m back on the grind and i won’t let myself get discouraged this year
OK MELISSA ON HER SPIRITUAL SHIT♥️ I love everything you said regarding that topic. I think if you delved more into spirituality/meditation and affirmation you’ll see major positive changes regarding your mental health and your goals will become your reality so fast. Love you !!
Melissaaa! Where is the top from on the second day ? The color looks so beautiful on you and I didn’t know you play piano! I love music I learned to play guitar growing up on my own with some help of my big brother and I learned piano by myself just play what sounds good together tbh I actually can’t read sheet music or non of that and I can’t get myself to learn it’s idk to much 😂like I’d like to think I’m good without it😂but I’d love to Hear you play ….gurl honestly like you make us Taurus relate so fkn much your personality and mentality when I hear you think out loud I’m like amazed cuz I would have literally said or done the same thing or think and feel the same in other words your so fkn relatable 😂I feel like this comment is to much but at the same time who fkn cares I already typed it sooo I’m posting it 😂❤ps I love your content gurl can’t wait to see you achieve your goals this year and be the best version of yourself ❤❤❤
Man I wanna a get some cooking recipes but don't know where to start cause shit cra I have everything I need but I probably work on breakfast thangs cause a boy need a good breakfast ,u ever eat farina or grits or how s your oatmeal ,what's your breakfast like can you do a pothang vlog a raw wake up
melissa pls pls pls read a good girls guide to murder by holly jackson!! it’s a 3 book series but you can read the first one by itself and it’s sooooo good!! im in love with it! you should read it and then mention it in one of your videos or do a reading vlog! or read the series for 24 hours!
Not true at all !, I just left high school 2 years ago and i just met new girlfriends and became a group and we clicked like sisters, and more genuine than the one i had in hs
Nah Melissa hearing talk about u being depressed cuz the weather 🥴 gives me the ick… meanwhile I’m over here being sad for an actual reason. My dog passed away on Christmas 🙃
When driving and someone else is driving stupid , i just let it GO !!! It's just not worth it. Anyway, those are the type of people who get into really REALLY bad auto accidents, because they're not mentally all there.
my new year hasn’t been going great, i got almost every single one of my top teeth removed and now i have to wait so long to get new teeth and i’m only 18 so ☺️👍🏼. I haven’t been able to eat anything cuz i don’t know how to eat food without teeth. I’m glad i still have most of my bottom teeth tho
She don't do "random" , that's clear enough, committing rather to applying a sense of order based upon a personal belief system where even momements of spontaneity seem contrived.
That's how I was I was sooo negative and I was literally your friend. I always felt like I had to defend myself and explain myself. Why idk ,I have no idea why I always tried to explain. And my husband that I'm with now ,is all you. He would tell me noooo one cares. Sadly! It took me sooo long tho. I read the bible and read of how God tells us to handle people.. Which low key it's all common sense. But I'll admit maybe I Just didn't have it haha. But now ,that I have changed my whole mentally girl. I can actually go places and for once not shit happens to me. And when stuff does ,I apologize still but with myself explaining haha. And ive never felt so satisfying tho. Not responding. If anything I do it alone if I do cuss people out or think of my own opinion of what I did.. I feel like it's a trauma thing maybe. I grew up with abusive dad and he mentally would abuse me so I always felt like this guard up to defend anything and anyone of anything.. If that makes sense. But ,it's ok to still get shit to an extent. Cause there's so many other ways to handle it. I feel.. God tells us too never add more fuel to the fire. Just either walk away and if u wanna solve it with someone. Come back to the person when your not in the heat of the moment. I love your videos.. ❤️
no sameeee! I'm ngl I was a lil offended for the friend cuz I'm definitely that friend. I can't speak for everyone but I'm with you on the trauma part. I've noticed if you grew up constantly having to explain or even defend yourself you will always be on defense mode until you heal which is what I'm working on right now. While I feel it's important to validate others and help them feel heard, in Melissa's situation, if you are around someone who is impacting your mental health in a negative way it's absolutely ok to distance yourself. I wish we could come to an understanding on both sides tho because on one hand no one wants to be around a negative nancy, but on the other hand people want support when life beatin they ass
@@iimezimouseii3024 Sadly yesss, this the new norm. Every one has a something. No matter how good life looks in front of you. The person you see happy or perfect in your eyes. Can be going through some dark things. Or even the mean people we run into. I always try to keep in mind.. That I'm not God I can't stand there and judge them and speak on my opinion. Again lol I sound like a broken record. Haha but I'm being honest I've learned so much from the bible.. i run to it on most days. But it basically teaches us to love your neighbors even your enemies. Cause reality his the only one to do the judging part. So when I run into someone being rude. I may cry it out or speak on it alone. But ,I tell myself I need to pray for them for whatever there going through. I'll be honest though I feel.like that is something so hsrd us humans do. We lose our patient's when someone throws jabs . Its like an instinct. But ,react is satisfying the Satan.. I hope and pray you overcome your journey of trauma. I reached to all my family "friends" for help. I got 0help. When I was 26 I walked in a church and I haven't stopped going. Weirdly my depression has been on a low. I still have it but it's. Tamable! Advice I can could give is. You won't lose out on it if you give it try friend... 😊 Find your peace ! &Love you ! Your strong '
Speaking of comfort things, your videos are that for me. You help me a lot despite the fact that I’m almost 40, it doesn’t matter cuz mentally I still feel like I’m in my 20s and listening to you just calms me down. Cleaning my room, the kitchen just anything I’m like I need some Melissa in the background. Thanks for letting us into your life and just for being you. I appreciate you girl.
I love that, thank you 🥹🫶🏼
I was just telling one of my friends that! When I see one posted, it gets my undivided attention and just soothes and motivated me! ✨💗
Yes!! Ive been putting on her videos in the background while I’m working, and I end up watching it more than work. Truly love her videos ❤ excited to watch her channel grow.
@TeenieBreenie same 😊for me. Thank you Melissa ❤ and I tell my daughters about you! They are 20 & 22 and remind me of you. Very Smart girls!
I feel the same way! I’m turning 30 and her videos bring me so much calmness and peace 😊❤
I think you're the only youtuber that I can seat and listen to you talking for minutes without getting distracted. The topics that you brings up are always so interesting! Love your videos, from France. xo
Thanks love 😌🫶🏼
I see a very matured version of Melissa in this video n I love it so much I love the new self awareness n just keep going 💓
Love you girl! I always think to myself if you did a podcast I would so listen to it… and i dont listen to anyones idk why.. love how fun,motivating, and responsible you are for us its soo contagious 🫶🏽
Love love LOVE your channel & your whole vibe🤍✨ your so calm & when you said you had to be alone to recharge after going out I felt that I thought I was weird & always wondered how people can always be around large groups every weekend because I just can’t lol so glad to know I’m not alone
I’ve been watching your videos all morning and you inspire me so much 🥺 I’ve been dealing with extreme anxiety the past month and i started going to counseling i cant leave the house without getting anxiety attacks and seeing you live your best life is so motivating to pull myself out of this 🫶🏻
definitely vlog when you go to mexico with your brother!❤️🇲🇽 It would be really fun to see where your family grew up!!❤️
I felt that part when you spoke about being drained when people start to vent to you about events that happen to them especially when its something so small
love your energy Melissa !! you are doing awesome keep up the great work
My Comfort Infleuncer ☺️❤️ 🧘🏻♀️
I Love ur videos as a fellow Taurus myself I relate so much to you ! 🤍keep bringing the long vlogs plz 🤗
you got this girl! once you are consistent for 30 days it will be a natural habit and you will love life!I just had my baby 4 months ago and I'm ready to find myself again and Im so happy going to the gym is back in my routine
Ahhh yes! I’ve been rewatching your old videos🤗 I’ve been feeling down lately and every time I get ina funk I watch your videos and start feeling motivated to just get up and do something as small as get ready💓 glad you’re doing great!🤍🤍
Love that 🥺🤍
"PRIORITIZING MYSELF FOR 2023'" IS MY ENERGY 🥰💁🏻♀️
I’ve literally been watching all your old vlogsssss lol! Hope you’re happy and healthy 💓
I've always heard people say to get 7 to 8 hours of sleep, even 6 to 8 hours of sleep, BUT it was never enough for me, and I've always felt so bad and lazy because I needed more sleep LOL
I spent my New Year watching home alone 2 cuddling with my dogs lol it was super chill.
I love these long videos Melissa!!❤❤
Happy New Years, Melissa❤❤
So happy to see the new upload notification 😍
I’m excited to see all the videos that are coming up this year 🫶🏼
You have a beautiful singing voice ✨😍
I honestly can keep all of your videos on replay. They’re so soothing! & you’re beautiful sis! 🤍
Girlll.. u have a great voice ❣️
Thank you for this video Mel
I needed it… I’m literally going through the toughest time even getting up is so hard but the new year will be my year I feel it too
I’m back on the grind and i won’t let myself get discouraged this year
Your so pretty and the books you picked looked interesting 😮. I definitely need to check those out.😊
been waiting for you to post 🫶🏼
I got the notification, but I have to watch it later cause I’m working. Gurl, I missed you! ☹️
Please post more frequently 😅
Honestly I see you living in New York City, you honestly could get big there it also fits your lifestyle and mindset
I love it ! I can’t wait for the next video you inspired me ✨
Gurrl I like your videos keep it up ♡ you're amazing!
OK MELISSA ON HER SPIRITUAL SHIT♥️ I love everything you said regarding that topic. I think if you delved more into spirituality/meditation and affirmation you’ll see major positive changes regarding your mental health and your goals will become your reality so fast. Love you !!
Yay I’m so happy it’s a long vlog! I can watch this while I do my morning cleaning 🧘♀️❤️❤️
Just found your channel and girl the voice is giving Billie eilish 😩❤️
Love this video 💕 just what I need for this week ! Also, reading that small part of the book made me want to get it !
Your hair always looks so beautiful!!❤️
What heat protectant do you use ?
Ok little Billie moment, loved that!
We love Billie 💅🏼
HI PRETTY HAPPY TUESDAY :)
got the notification 😊missed you girl ❤
LOVE YOU GIRLY!! Currently watching you from work! Starting tax season soon 😅
yayy my fav uploaded!!
Love your videos girly 🫶🏻
Happy 2023! 🐰
Goodness and lightness
Please a tutorial on the look you did on the day you wore that blue outfit. 😍
Euphoria vibes 🤍
Hey Melissa, where did you get the white cover up cardigan from!
Princess Polly! But there’s so many others also, look up ‘shrug sweaters’ (:
Yes please update us on the books 📚 😀
“We did it guys!! Well I did it, you guys just sat there and watched” AND DID! I didn’t see you around when it was time to take down my tree either 😂😂
Melissaaa! Where is the top from on the second day ? The color looks so beautiful on you and I didn’t know you play piano! I love music I learned to play guitar growing up on my own with some help of my big brother and I learned piano by myself just play what sounds good together tbh I actually can’t read sheet music or non of that and I can’t get myself to learn it’s idk to much 😂like I’d like to think I’m good without it😂but I’d love to Hear you play ….gurl honestly like you make us Taurus relate so fkn much your personality and mentality when I hear you think out loud I’m like amazed cuz I would have literally said or done the same thing or think and feel the same in other words your so fkn relatable 😂I feel like this comment is to much but at the same time who fkn cares I already typed it sooo I’m posting it 😂❤ps I love your content gurl can’t wait to see you achieve your goals this year and be the best version of yourself ❤❤❤
Ugh love this thank you 😂🤍 My top is from this online shop I found called Halibuy (:
@@melissaa_estrellaa Aww no Thankyou!!❤️
I really needed you to read that part of the book about assholes lol I needed to hear that
Glad I helped 😇🫶🏼
Man I wanna a get some cooking recipes but don't know where to start cause shit cra I have everything I need but I probably work on breakfast thangs cause a boy need a good breakfast ,u ever eat farina or grits or how s your oatmeal ,what's your breakfast like can you do a pothang vlog a raw wake up
I call mine the "shit drawer" LOL
melissa pls pls pls read a good girls guide to murder by holly jackson!! it’s a 3 book series but you can read the first one by itself and it’s sooooo good!! im in love with it! you should read it and then mention it in one of your videos or do a reading vlog! or read the series for 24 hours!
Since you mentioned listening to podcasts… when is the podcast with your brother coming back?!? 😢
vim correndo assistir ❤️ muito amor do Brasil 🇧🇷
Omg that blue shirt is so cute😭 where is it from??
the drums take so much technique and time to actually be skillful and sound clean so be ready for that 😭
hi where is your white little sweater thing from? 🙂
who is here in 2024? ❤💛💛🧡🧡❤️🩵🤍📭🪩🐯🥹🥹🥹🥹
How did you find your group of girl friends? I feel like if you don’t meet them in high school/college it’s impossible!
Not true at all !, I just left high school 2 years ago and i just met new girlfriends and became a group and we clicked like sisters, and more genuine than the one i had in hs
Where did you get your cough and what brand is it?
What’s the name of the book @ 21:53 ? Please ❤I love your videos
you are a badass - jen sincero
Girl if you enjoy a good thriller read Rock Paper Scissors by Alice Feeney. So goood!!
Nah Melissa hearing talk about u being depressed cuz the weather 🥴 gives me the ick… meanwhile I’m over here being sad for an actual reason. My dog passed away on Christmas 🙃
Wishing you a thriving year! Btw what is the name of the book you read?
If you find out pls lmk
@@arianarojas123 you are a badass - jen sincero
what foundation did you use?🥲
Maybelline Fit me dewy skin foundation 🫶🏼
What book did you quote @21:30
You are a badass by Jen Sincero (:
When driving and someone else is driving stupid , i just let it GO !!! It's just not worth it. Anyway, those are the type of people who get into really REALLY bad auto accidents, because they're not mentally all there.
Where is your couch from?
Article (:
my new year hasn’t been going great, i got almost every single one of my top teeth removed and now i have to wait so long to get new teeth and i’m only 18 so ☺️👍🏼. I haven’t been able to eat anything cuz i don’t know how to eat food without teeth. I’m glad i still have most of my bottom teeth tho
She don't do "random" , that's clear enough, committing rather to applying a sense of order based upon a personal belief system where even momements of spontaneity seem contrived.
Omg where are your leggings from?!?
Set active (:
@@melissaa_estrellaa thank u love😊
What was the book u read from while doing ur make up 😭
You are a badass by Jen Sincero!
Where are your leggings from?💕
Set active 🤍
You could of gotten a swivel mounts and had it centered 😭
Did you get cheek filler ?
That's how I was I was sooo negative and I was literally your friend. I always felt like I had to defend myself and explain myself. Why idk ,I have no idea why I always tried to explain. And my husband that I'm with now ,is all you. He would tell me noooo one cares. Sadly! It took me sooo long tho. I read the bible and read of how God tells us to handle people.. Which low key it's all common sense. But I'll admit maybe I Just didn't have it haha. But now ,that I have changed my whole mentally girl. I can actually go places and for once not shit happens to me. And when stuff does ,I apologize still but with myself explaining haha. And ive never felt so satisfying tho. Not responding. If anything I do it alone if I do cuss people out or think of my own opinion of what I did.. I feel like it's a trauma thing maybe. I grew up with abusive dad and he mentally would abuse me so I always felt like this guard up to defend anything and anyone of anything.. If that makes sense. But ,it's ok to still get shit to an extent. Cause there's so many other ways to handle it. I feel.. God tells us too never add more fuel to the fire. Just either walk away and if u wanna solve it with someone. Come back to the person when your not in the heat of the moment. I love your videos.. ❤️
no sameeee! I'm ngl I was a lil offended for the friend cuz I'm definitely that friend. I can't speak for everyone but I'm with you on the trauma part. I've noticed if you grew up constantly having to explain or even defend yourself you will always be on defense mode until you heal which is what I'm working on right now. While I feel it's important to validate others and help them feel heard, in Melissa's situation, if you are around someone who is impacting your mental health in a negative way it's absolutely ok to distance yourself. I wish we could come to an understanding on both sides tho because on one hand no one wants to be around a negative nancy, but on the other hand people want support when life beatin they ass
@@iimezimouseii3024 Sadly yesss, this the new norm. Every one has a something. No matter how good life looks in front of you. The person you see happy or perfect in your eyes. Can be going through some dark things. Or even the mean people we run into. I always try to keep in mind.. That I'm not God I can't stand there and judge them and speak on my opinion. Again lol I sound like a broken record. Haha but I'm being honest I've learned so much from the bible.. i run to it on most days. But it basically teaches us to love your neighbors even your enemies. Cause reality his the only one to do the judging part. So when I run into someone being rude. I may cry it out or speak on it alone. But ,I tell myself I need to pray for them for whatever there going through. I'll be honest though I feel.like that is something so hsrd us humans do. We lose our patient's when someone throws jabs . Its like an instinct. But ,react is satisfying the Satan.. I hope and pray you overcome your journey of trauma. I reached to all my family "friends" for help. I got 0help. When I was 26 I walked in a church and I haven't stopped going. Weirdly my depression has been on a low. I still have it but it's. Tamable! Advice I can could give is. You won't lose out on it if you give it try friend... 😊 Find your peace ! &Love you ! Your strong '
where is ur cute lil shrug from?
Follow Jesus he is all we need
Allergies sucks 😐😂😆
I’m not a religious person but how come u believe in zodiac signs but not in religion.🤔 Now that doesn’t make sense to me.
9 hours of sleep?!? Damn I wish. I barely get 7🥲
Where is your couch from?
Article!
@@melissaa_estrellaa the reviews are bad on the couch do you recommend it ? Easy to clean with folex or no comfy ?