A week in my life living alone ♡ secret admirer, hiking, alone but not lonely

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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2024

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  • @valerieccccc1017
    @valerieccccc1017 Год назад +229

    Girl you can’t tell this secret admirer story plus a story of your dog hearing things at night. I got scared for you. I instantly tied the 2 together 😭 be safe girl.

    • @jen27ize
      @jen27ize Год назад +15

      I was thinking that the entire time 😭😭😭

    • @ariavargas
      @ariavargas Год назад +4

      OMG you’re right 🫢

  • @fabulousrobert6607
    @fabulousrobert6607 Год назад +114

    Consider getting video cameras for the inside of your home. This way you can see if anyone comes into your place when your not home or when you’re in your room asleep.
    I have Arlo so I can access to see the video in my place.
    Also consider getting a Defender security lock latch for the inside of your door for about $20 at Home Depot or Lowes. This will protect you for sure in case they kick in your door.
    Be safe 🧟‍♂️🧌 from the creeps

  • @jess1cka
    @jess1cka Год назад +16

    Your story gave me the chills. Please get cameras for the entrance and exit of your place so you get notified when someone walks up to your place. Im a single mom who lives alone and the whole ring system gave me peace of mind❤ i put sensors on every window and door so my alwarm goes off if they open. I also have a panic button in my bedroom and taser. Please be safe!

  • @kellywillbrb
    @kellywillbrb Год назад +25

    Your videos are honestly my peace

  • @skymontejo
    @skymontejo Год назад +17

    You inspire me that I can be alone, I’m always terrified to go on walks alone or live alone but this really inspired me that it is possible for a small beautiful young woman to do that… the world is so scary and I get so in my head about going out, thank you for helping me💞 I love this video

  • @brymarie8
    @brymarie8 9 месяцев назад +1

    Omg, I feel stupid lol I really initially thought you were playing that piano that well. I was like wow .. she’s gorgeous, talented .. what can’t she do? ❤️

  • @lilsussybaka7891
    @lilsussybaka7891 Год назад +20

    girl makes my day better every time she uploads , love you stay happy ❤

  • @sharonmares
    @sharonmares Год назад +15

    Girlyyy you should get a ring camera for ur place to see what those noises are!! Also i love you so much!!!!!!!!

  • @briterry4961
    @briterry4961 Год назад +9

    Girl quit playin and get some damn cameras!! Gave me such peace of mind knowing I can check it on my phone at anytime without physically checking lol and I hope you carry pepper spray. The accents had me dying and from what I heard they sounded good but I'm American so who knows lmao you gotta find out who that secret admirer is.. all I was thinking is he prolly watching you read it from his window 😭 Stay safe, sending protective energy and good vibes to you! ❤

  • @ervinslens
    @ervinslens Год назад +15

    Absolutely gorgeous vlog, shots and narration are so soothing and simply enjoyable!

  • @yulissaagreste470
    @yulissaagreste470 Год назад +8

    You always make me happy when you post! I love your vibes! God bless everyone ❤💛

  • @elii.mezaa502
    @elii.mezaa502 Год назад +1

    I live in Kent WA and I’ve always wanted to at least say hi🥹 you don’t know how much I admire you 🫶🏽 been here for so many years and I’m proud of how far you’ve come🥰

  • @michelle_nlmm
    @michelle_nlmm Год назад +5

    I missed you so much ❤ your videos are always a highlight of my day when i watch them ❤ my favorite person ever 🫶🏼

  • @mybeautifuldisaster3750
    @mybeautifuldisaster3750 Год назад

    you’re so pretty and ur energy is so calming❤❤❤ I hope u don’t hear sounds in the middle of the night anymore🥺 reminds me of the Netflix show Unbelievable

  • @marinafuller7521
    @marinafuller7521 Год назад

    god i just moved to seattle, love your videos! the struggle on how to do things alone i appreciate how well you navigate it! thank you for expressing yourself

  • @sydneypadgett4606
    @sydneypadgett4606 Год назад +5

    I literally was so invested this whole fricken video, and it kinda felt like I was on ft with my best friend ❤

  • @maggievivas4187
    @maggievivas4187 Год назад +4

    The scenery is beautiful!!! I’m from NYC so not a lot of nature unless you go upstate. You’re so Lucky. You and Harley look beautiful. Made me miss my baby Brownie (passed away 7 months ago) give Harley a bigggg hug for me

  • @kat7511
    @kat7511 Год назад +1

    You always brighten up my day
    Thank you for being you ☀️☀️☀️
    You’re like a ray of sunshine 💛

  • @lgomezmvhs
    @lgomezmvhs Год назад +1

    In my mind we are literally best friends! Love you Melissa 💜💜

  • @t.eagann_
    @t.eagann_ Год назад +2

    Literally my favorite person ever, you have no idea how much u brighten my day when u upload 🥺💖

  • @500daysofmel3
    @500daysofmel3 Год назад +1

    First off , You’re my absolute fav RUclipsr. I love watching your videos they bring so much peace and show that it’s okay to enjoy your company. I also love how genuine and honest you are. I was so weak when you said you get the ick so easily 😂 ,literally same. I get the ick all the time and sometimes I just ignore it and hope it goes away and then I get myself too deep into a relationship. I like how you were like immediately no. 😂

  • @valeriavazquez1868
    @valeriavazquez1868 Год назад +5

    LOVE LOVE YOUR VIDEOS GIRLY!!🥹💘 sending you the best vibes ever ✨🌞

  • @christinereider9704
    @christinereider9704 Год назад +6

    You’re so freaking cute ily & your Scottish accent 😂❤️ I feel like if we hung out it’d be a perfect mixture of endless laughter & chill moments

  • @flxwercxrpse1871
    @flxwercxrpse1871 Год назад +4

    You can get a walking tracking app when you go on hikes so that way it records your walk and if you get lost you can look where you walked and also download the trail map where you are walking. I love hiking but getting lost is a big fear of mine😂

  • @kakaycccc
    @kakaycccc Год назад

    This video reminds me that i can be happy alone.and I can do things on my own❤ love your videos so much it makes me relax on the day that i dont feel better, you are my happy pill 😘

  • @nicolecornelius1803
    @nicolecornelius1803 Год назад

    U r such an inspiration I love watching ur videos so much u won't believe how much ur videos help me get through personal things I've been going through and 4 that I say thank u 4 being the person that u r God bless ur soul❤

  • @nancyymwelu
    @nancyymwelu Год назад

    I Love love your vlogs Melissa. You give positive vibes and made me feel so much better about staying alone esp for someone with no friends. Thank you beautiful ❤

  • @Brenmape
    @Brenmape Год назад +2

    Yay !! Melissa i love your vlogs and channel. Thank u for posting 💗💗

  • @ssobomb
    @ssobomb Год назад +5

    You should invest in wifi cameras. They are cheap like $50 bucks, but as long as they are connected to your wifi, they will work. I caught the guy that was breaking into my car. Caught. I figure you could benefit from knowing if this guy is stalking yoir home life, or anyone/anything else. Like, you said, even if the dog cant do anything, the cameras cant either, but they provide you with security, precaution and time to get away from any type of danger.

  • @mia6089
    @mia6089 Год назад +7

    Get some kind of an alarm system chica ❤ that will help u feel safer living alone 😊

  • @mrm8584
    @mrm8584 Год назад

    I would definitely recommend getting a ring or a blink camera we have a ring doorbell and a blink camera in our living room i dont live alone but my husband works long hours and i work from home so it gives me a peace of mind knowing that if anyone is outside its being recorded and i can easily pick up my phone to check who it is

  • @angelconsealed1230
    @angelconsealed1230 Год назад

    Omg the ick feeling is so real! I've talked to a guy for about a year and lately his behavior has been really making me uncomfortable. I'm about to stop talking to him because I don't feel safe or comfortable anymore. At first i felt guilty but hearing you say this has confirmed i dont need to feel that way. I just need to protect myself ❤❤

    • @enriquelopez9157
      @enriquelopez9157 Год назад

      Make sure you let him know and not just stop replying like she did. That's immature

    • @angelconsealed1230
      @angelconsealed1230 Год назад +1

      @enriquelopez9157 No, I'm not going to reply. I already said his actions were inappropriate and made me very uncomfortable. The only thing I'm obligated to do at the point is protect myself. It's not about immaturity for me. It's about safety.

    • @enriquelopez9157
      @enriquelopez9157 Год назад

      @@angelconsealed1230 if its about safely than its a different story. If its bcuz the girl got bored or was not feeling the guy anymore then we act like adults.

    • @angelconsealed1230
      @angelconsealed1230 Год назад

      @enriquelopez9157 yea there was a couple of incidents that occurred with the guy that actually really made me uncomfortable and question my safety. In this situation the best step for me was to cut contact. But I do understand where you are coming from. It definetly hurts to be cut off from someone and not know why.

  • @mingkoos
    @mingkoos Год назад +9

    I’ve been wanting to move out (and live on my own) but i’m so scared and paranoid that i don’t think i’d be able to 😭

    • @ىخىخىاىترمار
      @ىخىخىاىترمار Год назад

      Hilo ....🌷💖💖💖🌷🌷😘

    • @Nsrrn23
      @Nsrrn23 Год назад +2

      Do it! If you don't try you'll never know truly how you'll feel.

  • @kdaymiel
    @kdaymiel Год назад +12

    It’s giving JOE vibes. Stay safe girly

  • @itzzLavi
    @itzzLavi Год назад +1

    I just ended 3yr of relationship now I'm struggling to get back normal but your video motivates me ❤

  • @jessylokis7325
    @jessylokis7325 Год назад

    Girll I missed watching u, plis do more day in my life videos😍

  • @nicolengadna7945
    @nicolengadna7945 Год назад

    What a good quality video. Makes u look forward to living alone and all dat!

  • @KarinaHernandez-nz3ss
    @KarinaHernandez-nz3ss Год назад +1

    It’s kinda crazy I’ve been watching your videos since your couple videos until now I love them

  • @natashaaugust6797
    @natashaaugust6797 Год назад +2

    Been waiting for this video!!! ❤🎉 loved it ! Joining you on the keyboard as a hobby!

  • @hernandezlouisaa
    @hernandezlouisaa Год назад +6

    Get a ring camera.
    Get a firearm.
    Get those security sensors for the windows.
    We’re women living in a dangerous world now. We can NEVERRRRRRR do anything alone anymore.
    Also make sure you buy those security locks for the front door because I’ve heard some apartment workers have keys (obviously) and they’ve went into ppls apartments! I’m sorry but I’m a very alert person and “paranoid” I just try to look out for EVERYONE. Love the vlogs! Also are we going to get an update about your health? Praying you feel better ❤️‍🩹🙏

  • @alexisaleman3773
    @alexisaleman3773 Год назад +1

    you need to do like a step by step video on how you applied the lashes 😭😭🩷

  • @SelVanaShow
    @SelVanaShow Год назад

    you're so pretty Melissa! definitely would like to see more piano videos! so cool that you know how to play

  • @MeMirrorCard
    @MeMirrorCard Год назад

    Remember the direction that the sun sets in case you get lost and use it with the plants as a navigator!

  • @JanetDragamore
    @JanetDragamore Год назад +1

    When they give you the ick that just means it's not meant to be. Good on you for not replying after bc I had difficulty letting guys down and go when I would get the ick just bc I didn't wanna be mean or come off as a B

  • @christinereider9704
    @christinereider9704 Год назад

    11/10 content right here 👌🏼 KEEP IT COMING BBY

  • @karinanaranjo8125
    @karinanaranjo8125 Год назад

    Ahhhh we’ve missed you!💓 also please let us know where you got your hair bundle for long braid or perhaps a tutorial?🫢

  • @SkyStepDrones68
    @SkyStepDrones68 5 месяцев назад

    Love your content lovely one! Thank you :)

  • @heidsterrr
    @heidsterrr Год назад +1

    This story is all the more creepy if it happened shortly before or after you got that note…
    Girl, you need to move to a gated community 😫.
    Btw, I love your natural hair!! 🥹

  • @arielgraham6995
    @arielgraham6995 Год назад

    Melissa I do the same thing about always planning for unsafe scenarios but I do it too much. And I go into fight or flight any time I hear a noise. Apparently that’s not normal and ny psychologist gave me something for anxiety lol 😅

  • @isabelpulido4216
    @isabelpulido4216 Год назад

    I love it I can’t wait for the next video !🫶🏼💗

  • @ndgomez
    @ndgomez Год назад

    I've been following you since you made prank videos and it's beautiful to see how much you've blossomed.. 😊

  • @yas1467
    @yas1467 Год назад +4

    i’m just as sused out as you with the letter and knowing he knows what car you’re in 😭

  • @tricia3200
    @tricia3200 Год назад +1

    Girl get a ring !!

  • @alondragarnica1431
    @alondragarnica1431 Год назад +2

    Waiting for this so bad! There's nothing else I enjoy more than watching you and your AMAZING editions on your videos. 🌺✨🫶🏽💘🥰🩵

  • @marthaortiz4868
    @marthaortiz4868 9 месяцев назад

    Love your videos! 🥰💕 Melissa which keyboard did you get??

  • @dropdeadsandy
    @dropdeadsandy Год назад

    Omg your biggest fear was also mine especially after wtachig a movie called The Open House. Every time i come home i vheck my whole house or else i cant be comfortable also my biggest fear in general is someone brekaing into my house in yhe middle of the night because my husband works night shifts and id be home alone aith my 3 kids

  • @desscess
    @desscess Год назад

    I’m planning on a solo trip to Seattle , is there anyway you can make a Seattle itinerary ?

  • @claudiaaa172
    @claudiaaa172 Год назад +4

    Do you get scared walking alone on trails ? I be watching to many scary documentaries. That i was like oh no oh no. Someone's gonna come out.

  • @valeriavazquez1868
    @valeriavazquez1868 Год назад +1

    Can you give us tips or what oils and serums you use when you wax or shave ? 🌚😫

  • @nailvarnishluva14
    @nailvarnishluva14 Год назад +1

    Does anyone know the name of the classical piece she’s playing on the piano?

  • @sarahmary1052
    @sarahmary1052 Год назад

    Melissa girl 😂 your accent took me out when you said “how’re you gonna pay for all those boots over there” too good 😂 thanks for the laugh I definitely need that

  • @Lisaaaaaaq
    @Lisaaaaaaq 11 месяцев назад

    Please be careful! You seem to have people watching you. But as a woman, you need to take extra precautions. Get cameras for everywhere around your house and outside your front door. Also, you have to keep something to protect yourself on your bedside table drawer. I personally have something in every single room in my house just in case someone breaks in. You have to be extra careful, especially living alone as a woman ❤ There are sooo many creeps out there and unfortunately I have been a victim of some of those creeps

  • @christinereider9704
    @christinereider9704 Год назад +2

    Daddy I really want a squirrel 🤣🤣🤣 not u mocking the girl from willy wonka

  • @joannagraves57
    @joannagraves57 Год назад

    hello anyone know what type of keyboard that is

  • @Luvleyness222
    @Luvleyness222 Год назад +1

    More of these videos please ❤❤❤❤

  • @joshlynnponce
    @joshlynnponce Год назад

    Girl Had Made Me Laughing At Your Accents Sesh I Loved It 😂❤

  • @aesthxticreqund7986
    @aesthxticreqund7986 Год назад

    i’ve been struggling with being alone as i’ve been feeling super lonely and this video just made me realize that other people go through the same experiences and it gets better. thank you for this 🫶❤️

  • @AllThingsBeautyByBelle
    @AllThingsBeautyByBelle Год назад

    Where did you get your brown headband from when you were hiking?

  • @yuviasayson
    @yuviasayson Год назад

    the waves at the end are they square waves?

  • @dropdeadsandy
    @dropdeadsandy Год назад

    How do you make your hair non frizzy ? When my hair starts to air dyer i have so many lil hairs sticking out and looks ugly 😢

  • @jadziak6997
    @jadziak6997 Год назад +1

    I always wonder when a guy tries to contact you if they already watch your RUclips Channel? Does that make it less creepy or more creepy?? 🤔 I love your piano playing!! 🙂Aww I think you should still try to contact that guy you got the keyboard from, that's not creepy b/c you already met him! :-)))))

  • @liasmith6957
    @liasmith6957 Год назад +11

    I feel like the note wouldn’t have been creepy if it was shorter. “Thought you were pretty would love to get to know you if interested- here’s my Instagram” that’s all 😂

  • @nhiasolitude222
    @nhiasolitude222 Год назад

    love u !

  • @fanny10711
    @fanny10711 Год назад +2

    girl! where are your brown leggings from? and the ones you went hiking with too?

  • @stefslyfe
    @stefslyfe Год назад +2

    Maybe don’t ghost him. Maybe just say something like “hey it was nice meeting you but I don’t think I’d be interested in pursuing anything further or something like that.

    • @enriquelopez9157
      @enriquelopez9157 Год назад

      Yeah she is acting so stuck up and immature.

    • @stefslyfe
      @stefslyfe Год назад +1

      @@enriquelopez9157 I didn’t say that. And I understand why she would not want to talk to him. I just thought that closure is better and a more mature way of handling the situation than avoidance

  • @karlaamaya2372
    @karlaamaya2372 Год назад +1

    where are your leggings from!! ❤️❤️ loved this vlog sm

  • @lethallwulf
    @lethallwulf Год назад

    was the lighthouse at mukilteo? what beach omg i have 2 go

  • @TaliaVilleda
    @TaliaVilleda Год назад

    where did you get your couch from ?

  • @samanthamurillo9554
    @samanthamurillo9554 Год назад

    Hi melissa can you link the lash clusters pleaseeee

  • @marigarcia9669
    @marigarcia9669 Год назад +1

    I never comment on your videos
    But the letter did not seem “ creepy “… like I get it but the dude put his # and IG on there for you to be aware of who he is
    Anyways love your videosss 💜
    And I hope you’re safe regardless of any situation

  • @sixtypebeat
    @sixtypebeat Год назад +1

    girl.. i SHOULD NOT have watched this video at 4a.m. 😭 i’m scared asf now cause of ur whole rant about being home alone and the fear of someone being inside the home.. THAT IS SO SCARY LMFAOOOO BAHAHAHA UGHHH NOW IM SCARED😂

  • @92murdah
    @92murdah Год назад

    11:08 This part 😂😂 but this has happen to me too when I’m alone with my dogs and my bf isn’t here I hate hearing stuff but I also hate when my oldest dog barks like crazy she be barking even when no one’s even there 😒😒😒😒 Lol

  • @tomasfloresdiaz4424
    @tomasfloresdiaz4424 Год назад

    I dont always comment but i must say you Are simply adorable 😍 LIKE 👍

  • @peachyyoki320
    @peachyyoki320 Год назад +2

    Same the ick is real 😂

  • @_lovelyliss
    @_lovelyliss Год назад +10

    Give the secret admirer a chance. Maybe he’s too shy to approach you in person. He seemed sincere in his letter lol, idk I think that was really simple and respectful.

    • @raquelporcayo
      @raquelporcayo Год назад +7

      Yeah, I considered that it was cute and not creepy. He left his phone number and his intragram.

  • @sstephhernandez
    @sstephhernandez Год назад

    Can you do a natural curly hair routine 😭

  • @heyitzritzy
    @heyitzritzy Год назад

    The part where u were playing the piano, u looked so into it 😂

  • @mireiyachanel9619
    @mireiyachanel9619 Год назад

    I need to know what’s the name of those lash clusters🙏🏻☺️

  • @KingKong-dx3dp
    @KingKong-dx3dp Год назад +1

    Completely unrelated but related... I saw a catfish of you the other week on ***** I was like "who's this fine ahh girl and why she look so familiar" took me 20 seconds to realise... You're on the other side of the world.

  • @vanessaramirez7714
    @vanessaramirez7714 Год назад

    Girl you need to install cameras and in case of anything have backup security weapons

  • @Nono_713
    @Nono_713 Год назад

    Definitely beautiful

  • @maraisifuentes
    @maraisifuentes Год назад +4

    LOVE YOUR VIDEOS 🫶🏻

  • @thebestofus677
    @thebestofus677 Год назад

    What song was that on piano i wanna learn it 🤣

  • @Olivia-ns5dj
    @Olivia-ns5dj Год назад +3

    I don’t mean to be annoying but PLS don’t touch anything or any note someone puts on your car with bare hands bc crazies having been putting a powder substance on or in things that once it makes contact with your skin it will drug you

    • @kakaycccc
      @kakaycccc Год назад +4

      That's true nowadays we need to be more vigilant.

  • @ashley-pc2cd
    @ashley-pc2cd Год назад

    2:48 update on the DATE

  • @danielr.5232
    @danielr.5232 Год назад

    Gorgeous woman I love watching your live videos

  • @virginialorthe1487
    @virginialorthe1487 Год назад +1

    I guess I’m a weirdo cause I thought the note was cute 🥹

  • @katherinemejia1368
    @katherinemejia1368 Год назад

    girl get cameras! i have cameras & a dog 😂

  • @deaaronduncan9797
    @deaaronduncan9797 Год назад

    🔥💕❤️

  • @ishika0102
    @ishika0102 Год назад

    I wanna be you when I grow up 😭