I think there's a difference between not introducing a partner to a family member who you have an emotional attachment to vs a family member you're estranged from. I wouldn't want to introduce a trans gf to my father, not because i would be ashamed of her but because i would be ashamed of him.
@@honda-s2k "Pan-" means "many" and "bi-" means "two". Men+Women+Trans is more than two. So term "bisexual" is not enough and clearly not the same as "pansexual".
@@honda-s2k luke no disrespect to you and i say this as a strait man but if you dont like trans people then go away!!! you seem to be talking on a lot of these comments you got something to hide bro??????
You're an amazing ambassador for the Trans community because of how humble, sweet but yet outspoken you are, who can resist that!? How could any Transphobe or anyone at all look at your videos and NOT just change their mind a little or just make a 180° Uturn!! You're amazing...
This is my tiny speck of "wisdom" after 50 years on this planet. Falling in love with someone who actually also (somehow) is in love with you is like trying to catch a meteor with a fishing net so, if you're lucky enough to find that, hold on with both hands and don't get hung up on pronouns and other people's opinions. In the long term the two of you (or three... or four, I won't judge) are the only people that are really in the relationship. If your "friends" can't accept who you love then find better friends. Just my two pennies. Stay safe everyone. Cheers from Florida.
Two cents of wisdom is worth a treasure compared to millions of comments for closeted haters. Thank you Brutus XXVI for declaring what should be universal logic.
I know!? She's so stunningly beautiful that for a long time I thought that she was a cis girl playing games with the you-tube community by posing as a trans woman. But like she says here, when you boil it all down, it's about attraction and what makes you happy. For me it's a combination of personality and physical attraction, and how we interact with each other. Robin is the new tomorrow that has arrived here today, and the world is a better place for it.
Lol there's a reason she looks just like them. They're just like her. All VS models and high fashion runway models are trans just like most A list celebs to top sports superstars.
@@achiepalaago thats like not true. VS actually has a past of discriminatory behavior against trans people and in the past they said they would not hire trans models.
@@pepethelastsamurai3480 Just shut up. You know nothing. Not even one of the top models was born female. NOT ONE. WTF do you think their secret is? You think you can be a regular female and get that far in the modelling world? Just like all first ladies in America, tennis superstars, News anchors, A list movie stars, european queens to the us women's national team etc., they're all transgendered. Of course you won't know this cos you're one of the sheeple who are fast asleep in our world of scripted reality.
I thought sexual preference wasn't a choice. People fought for decades for this to be recognised. I'm confused. So is it a choice to date a girl with a penis or it isn't?
How about liking/loving someone for who they are. I know someone who married the same sex because they love them. They are both cis females. She’s not gay. If you’re attracted to someone inside and out.. what difference does it make? I brought up an analogy: “If they change the bottle of your favorite pancake syrup.. does it matter what the outside is as long as it’s the same syrup you always loved the same inside?” Attraction is attraction. Go with YOU. Not pressure from society. Don’t be fed. Be the feeder.
@Dustin Stich For myself it's not all about sex; relationships are tough work. I am sorry you had the experience of wanting to go on a date and it turned out to be something else. This also happens in many cis gender relationships. I believe consent is ongoing not a matter of just going to someone's house. Sorry you had this experience.
As a 24 year old cis man I haven’t had the same perspective on this. I even remember talking to my godmother before she transitioned about dating trans women she’s not even my biological parent, but a month after she transitioned all the men at restaurants and bars thought that she was my biological mom she’s very happy that without surgery’s how passing she is. As a person of color it’s really hard for me to not feel worried about peoples safety it would’ve been interesting to hear your opinion about partners you have dated being overprotective and if that’s good or bad. Because my God mom recently transitioned I am very overprotective she just goes wherever she wants and I get worried about her sometimes. I’ve been single all my life and I would not be ashamed to date a trans woman I think I would be overprotective not necessarily in a bad way, but if I met any girl as beautiful as you I would be worried because men are creepy and can be physically dangerous so I would probably be on alert a lot lol. Great video Robin given this a thumbs up 👍 and a sub.
As a Trans girl, I personally think it's a beautiful feeling when people around me are over protective. I'm sure not all trans folks feel the same way but I do. All my friends and my family are overprotective of me. And I've never taken it the wrong way considering the point you made about the fact that there are creepy men outside and it isn't always safe. So I personally feel cared for and loved when I see people around me be overprotective like that. But, if you're concerned about how your god mother feels about you being over protective, I would highly suggest having a conversation about it with her. I'm sure she can answer it the best. But I think it's really sweet that care enough to be over protective towards her :)
I'm not so sure about this "Family" Point. I almost never introduced my GF's to my Family, but not because i'm ashamed of her, but because my Family is weird and i don't enjoy that much to visit them.
Do you realize how cool you actually are Robin ? Your one of the most down to earth ladies on RUclips. Total respect girl. I hope and pray you find someone to treat you like you wish to be treated . In my honest opinion you are really cool and down to earth you just want to be happy and be respected for who you are . I applaud you for making a stand and speaking out and trying to show the world their is nothing wrong with your life choices or the choice any LGBT person desided for themselves. I just wish the rest of the world would wake up pull their heads out of their but so to speak and not push their negative thoughts and believes on others . Never give up the good fight. And Don't let those people put you down . Have Faith in yourself . and know your words have a positive effect on others and will help more people than you think. And those words will echo to others and help them to learn how to live and treat another human being with respect and dignity like everyone deserves. God Bless you Robin .
I met a beautiful trans girl after my divorce - literally out of the blue we met while I was on a vacation we ended up having dinner and an amazingly deep conversation - ling story short we went out separate ways she met someone we live on different coasts and literally since then I have been very open to dating a trans woman...I know it takes a special connection but I have no idea how to meet someone seeking a real relationship I guess it is just fate...
I'm a pretty open minded straight guy and I would date you without keeping it a secret, you are more attractive than most cyst women! I think you are absolutely gorgeous! 😊
By definition that is not straight. A biological male who’s attracted to other biological males(pre post or whatever) is gay. Words have meaning. Straight ≠ Gay
@@stevensgarage6451 If you have to put a label on it then fine, I just find Robin attractive. I am not into masculinity or men whatsoever. I have been with a lot of beautiful cis women before and continue to be, so if thinking Robin is attractive makes me gay according to your assessment then so be it. Whatever you say Mr. Black or White!
For what it worth, I am a straight man and I have dated TransWomen. I find that treating her with respect and being completely comfortable and honest with her yields a very enjoyable experience.
@@oggeeboggee It's funny when one person denies the work of thousands of psychologists... They concluded that a man who is attracted to a trans woman is not gay in any way or form. But that's okey. Keep livin' in you hateful dreams.
Viktória Szabó Biology says different. Females are XX and have XX pheromones. Males have XY pheromones. XX is not XY. I personally couldn’t care less what 2 people do behind closed doors. It’s not my business. But the shrinks are full of it if they say otherwise.
@@jewswhoswingssnakes923 it is interesting how people can quote biology here yet (likely) these same people forget all about biology when the subject changes to Female Bodybuilders.
Just wanted to say I think you have such a lovely personality and you're really cute and pretty too. Also, you're very right about how guys have to walk a narrow path to be straight and masculine enough for society. I know this very well myself.
Basically it's no different than dating anyone else, basic communication goes a long way as well respect for the other person. I personally prefer trans women over "biological" women, mainly because trans women seem to know better what they want and are less into head games as well are usually more open minded in general (not sexually speaking on this point).
As a man from a highly religious Muslim family living in Belgium the only obstacle would be for her to meet my parents, I think you can understand why and how it complicates things... But yeah you are right about everything, Great video
You are a beautiful and sexy woman. Everything you said should be common sense to everyone. Always treat women with respect no matter who they are. Keep up the good work. ❤️❤️❤️
It's all about the person not about the gender.It's all about the personality and whether you get along with that person.It's not always about the gender
My experience is…. Be honest be genuine treat her like any other girl. Make her feel important and listen when she speaks with you. And mist of all lwt her know how your life has been enriched by her being in it
Sometimes "fucking up is fun" especially when it's someone else's first time too... It's about laughing and being silly and having fun in a respectful and healthy way
I dated a woman who was a lawyer and 15 years older. She didn't want to be seen in public with me. It was kinda cool, but it finally hit me. When it hit me, it didn't feel cool at all.
Jeez, you're the bomb!! Too many trans youtubers are soooo harsh toward guys especially Trans oriented guys but you are so sweet and still bringing your point across in such a strong, determined but positive way and obviously you're incredibly beautiful!! OMG, I'm just freaking speechless....
Thank you for posting this. ♥ I'm going to study these pointers religiously. I want to date a transgirl, seriously... and I suck at, how they say, "Mack Daddy" skills. I always get nervous, but once I get her, they always become overwhelmed by my charm, honesty and sex appeal. Again... Thanks a lot. ♥
I was just thinking about when you were gonna upload a few days ago, and my wish came true :) Nice content as always, awesome to see you growing so fast!
Each relationship is an adventure. I am glad you made this. So many great points. Enjoy being with the one you like/love and not as what the public stereotypes are. You are beautiful 🌹
You are so incredibly down to earth, I 🙏 that someday I’ll be fortunate enough to meet and become friends with a woman like you, and hopefully become much more than friends. Please keep up all the positive energy and work that you’re doing ❤❤
Good video! I think it's sad how men still use being gay as a way to insult one another's masculinity. I agree with what you said though, respect is so important!!! Keep glowing, girl, it's nice to see a down to earth perspective on these things!! New subscriber now! :)
I see all of these points as referring to any relationship. Whether you want to be with a man or a woman or a trans man or a trans woman or a binary person you should still treat them with respect, not be ashamed to be seen with them or to introduce them to the people you care about and not get hung up on any part of them but love the whole person.
I see a wonderful person that is living her life the way she wants to and i wish i could meet her someday. Thanks for sharing Robin. You are a hero to so many out there. You are truly beautiful on the outside and in. Love you. Thomas
I've never dated trans, but I wouldn't hesitate if I were attracted to someone. I would just hope there's a very honest discussion up front about pre or post operation. I don't want a relationship with two penis in it...
Guys, dating a trans girl takes some personal strength. She will need you to have the courage to date trans, if you have the courage the rewards can be amazing. I found most guys are kinda jealous because they do not have the courage themselves. The only negatives were from people I really didn't want in my life. One must show you are proud to be by her side and love to see her shine.
"I suck at life!". So do most of us honey. Then again, what is a "perfect" life? The answer to that is the same to the question, "What is normal?" There's no answer to that, it's subjective. And you're acing it, by the way, and looking beautiful
I met this girl from my home town, and I really like her, and I had on idea that she is trans, it throw me off for a bit, but I was still really into her, but I got so much shit from my own family and friends who wanted nothing to do with me, and when they ever got the chance to put me down they did, telling everyone they know who I was and how they can fix me throw going to church. it never change shit, I still love her and will always love her. but she got the same bullshit and just split from me and dropped me to leave town to the USA and never seen her since .
I’m a guy, you’re a beautiful woman, i would treat you like any other woman, with total respect. I hope you find some one who respect you and loves you.
i just found out that i like trans women and after a long time of not realizing it i want to let my parents know about it, i know that people don't give af about me as much as my parents do, i just hope i don't break their hearts honestly.
Very informative. I am 46 and just now questioning my sexuality. I could care less what labels anyone has here or there. Like you said just respect people boundaries and love people for who they are not what they are.
I wouldn't say I'm using trans women as an experiment or wanting to date a trans woman because of a fetish. I mean to be honest I'm attracted to them because they are just attractive period but I'm more drawn or comfortable and interested in dating one because it's something*new* in this world and for me the benefits of dating one is special. As a black man I am *ALWAYS* discriminated and viewed as an exotic tool so I get the feeling of being used or being viewed as a fetish. But with that being said there are some things I can understand but still I don't know a lot about trans women because I am not a woman.
I agree with all the other comments.. treat everyone as you would want to be treated .. also .. your a beautiful woman.. who cares what anyone else thinks.. ?? I would love to hang out with you!!
Okay, I believe that sexual boundaries have to be respected, but if a woman (trans or otherwise) does not want to participate in a sexual act that might be important to a male, don't be surprised if the male wants to then break off the relationship. Actually, the male should break off the relationship because there is a chance that because his partner does not want to engage in a particular sex act will lead to resentment and anger.
I'm dating to someone at the moment he didn't know i was trans because he was just a random guy at the store where i work he gave me his number ofc i made it clear right after he was kinda alright with that but he had very awkward questions on our first date :) i wouldn't say he was rude he was just kinda uneducated about the whole trans things more like a curiosity., but he still fine with me and the situation so we are keep dating which is great :)
@@thanos7459 well dear, I stand by previous statement,the fact that you are here in the first place proves that you are at least mildly interested,be true to yourself,trans ladies take beauty and femininity to another level,more and more men now feel confident to say that and admire these ladies,times they are a changing.Rgds,
No, but certainly many more than are comfortable admitting it - because they're wimps about it. No disrespect to Ms. Jaspers, but I'm confident she knows or at least wonders how many of her subscribers are chasers - some undercover, some not so much.
For me my main concern is like to make her feel save and good. Thanks for making this Video it really helped me to emphatize better with trans ladys (and the one transe dude who i fought alot with pre Transition but as dudes we kinda get along^^)
I just found you and you are gorgeous in every way! Love has no boundaries! I know it's cliche but it's so true. I'm absolutely sure you inspire people to open their minds and rethink their views on sexuality and what it is to be a human being. Keep doing what you do, I look forward to and find inspiration in your words, as I'm sure many others do.
I think there's a difference between not introducing a partner to a family member who you have an emotional attachment to vs a family member you're estranged from. I wouldn't want to introduce a trans gf to my father, not because i would be ashamed of her but because i would be ashamed of him.
So show respect and affection, I really hope most people are able to do that regardless of gender identity
That would make them pansexual
@@honda-s2k
"Pan-" means "many" and "bi-" means "two". Men+Women+Trans is more than two.
So term "bisexual" is not enough and clearly not the same as "pansexual".
@@honda-s2k luke no disrespect to you and i say this as a strait man but if you dont like trans people then go away!!! you seem to be talking on a lot of these comments you got something to hide bro??????
@transwomen are sexist men yes well you can only speak for your self
How about that respect be extended both ways and stop sending material to people who has made it clear that they are not interested in such subjects.
You're an amazing ambassador for the Trans community because of how humble, sweet but yet outspoken you are, who can resist that!? How could any Transphobe or anyone at all look at your videos and NOT just change their mind a little or just make a 180° Uturn!! You're amazing...
This is my tiny speck of "wisdom" after 50 years on this planet. Falling in love with someone who actually also (somehow) is in love with you is like trying to catch a meteor with a fishing net so, if you're lucky enough to find that, hold on with both hands and don't get hung up on pronouns and other people's opinions. In the long term the two of you (or three... or four, I won't judge) are the only people that are really in the relationship. If your "friends" can't accept who you love then find better friends. Just my two pennies. Stay safe everyone. Cheers from Florida.
I'm in love but she only loves me.
Hard to feel like we r on the same page. Frustrating to say the least
Exactly what King said.
Greetings from Florida as well! I appreciate your advice
Spank
Two cents of wisdom is worth a treasure compared to millions of comments for closeted haters.
Thank you Brutus XXVI for declaring what should be universal logic.
damn, she looks like one of those french fashion models
I know!? She's so stunningly beautiful that for a long time I thought that she was a cis girl playing games with the you-tube community by posing as a trans woman. But like she says here, when you boil it all down, it's about attraction and what makes you happy. For me it's a combination of personality and physical attraction, and how we interact with each other. Robin is the new tomorrow that has arrived here today, and the world is a better place for it.
@@samualyumkins7373 well said Sir.
Lol there's a reason she looks just like them. They're just like her. All VS models and high fashion runway models are trans just like most A list celebs to top sports superstars.
@@achiepalaago thats like not true. VS actually has a past of discriminatory behavior against trans people and in the past they said they would not hire trans models.
@@pepethelastsamurai3480 Just shut up. You know nothing. Not even one of the top models was born female. NOT ONE. WTF do you think their secret is? You think you can be a regular female and get that far in the modelling world? Just like all first ladies in America, tennis superstars, News anchors, A list movie stars, european queens to the us women's national team etc., they're all transgendered. Of course you won't know this cos you're one of the sheeple who are fast asleep in our world of scripted reality.
Spoiler alert: Treat them just like any other women.
@@honda-s2k NO, I'm a trans woman, if that where true, we wouldn't be transgender.
I thought sexual preference wasn't a choice. People fought for decades for this to be recognised. I'm confused. So is it a choice to date a girl with a penis or it isn't?
To each is own on who you date..
Im just saying treat whom ever you date well ..
@@curtisstapleton7167 well, that's a given it doesn't need an instruction video.
@@Bergerons_Review just sayin
How about liking/loving someone for who they are. I know someone who married the same sex because they love them. They are both cis females. She’s not gay. If you’re attracted to someone inside and out.. what difference does it make? I brought up an analogy: “If they change the bottle of your favorite pancake syrup.. does it matter what the outside is as long as it’s the same syrup you always loved the same inside?” Attraction is attraction. Go with YOU. Not pressure from society. Don’t be fed. Be the feeder.
All you gotta do is treat a lady right.
I dont see any lady.
@@calistafalcontail YWNBL
" I suck at words. I suck at life." I can relate.
I agree it's tough being trans and dating... I found some people just wanted to treat me as an object. I am a person with feelings not an object.
welcome to womanhood.
@Dustin Stich I said I found some people who treated me as an object not all men. There are many good guys out there too.
@Dustin Stich For myself it's not all about sex; relationships are tough work. I am sorry you had the experience of wanting to go on a date and it turned out to be something else. This also happens in many cis gender relationships. I believe consent is ongoing not a matter of just going to someone's house. Sorry you had this experience.
@Jessica Your words have touched my heart
So are you happily married and happy in life? I am ready to find a girl that I will love for life
As a 24 year old cis man I haven’t had the same perspective on this. I even remember talking to my godmother before she transitioned about dating trans women she’s not even my biological parent, but a month after she transitioned all the men at restaurants and bars thought that she was my biological mom she’s very happy that without surgery’s how passing she is.
As a person of color it’s really hard for me to not feel worried about peoples safety it would’ve been interesting to hear your opinion about partners you have dated being overprotective and if that’s good or bad. Because my God mom recently transitioned I am very overprotective she just goes wherever she wants and I get worried about her sometimes. I’ve been single all my life and I would not be ashamed to date a trans woman I think I would be overprotective not necessarily in a bad way, but if I met any girl as beautiful as you I would be worried because men are creepy and can be physically dangerous so I would probably be on alert a lot lol.
Great video Robin given this a thumbs up 👍 and a sub.
Did y'all fug
@@alphaotakux 🤮
As a Trans girl, I personally think it's a beautiful feeling when people around me are over protective. I'm sure not all trans folks feel the same way but I do. All my friends and my family are overprotective of me. And I've never taken it the wrong way considering the point you made about the fact that there are creepy men outside and it isn't always safe. So I personally feel cared for and loved when I see people around me be overprotective like that. But, if you're concerned about how your god mother feels about you being over protective, I would highly suggest having a conversation about it with her. I'm sure she can answer it the best. But I think it's really sweet that care enough to be over protective towards her :)
I'm not so sure about this "Family" Point. I almost never introduced my GF's to my Family, but not because i'm ashamed of her, but because my Family is weird and i don't enjoy that much to visit them.
That’s a little different. If you have a strained relationship with your family and don’t want to see them, then that’s okay!
I think all anyone wants is to be loved and respected by their partner , gay straight or otherwise .
Tom Evans perhaps you need to do the same ?
otherwise what?
Do you realize how cool you actually are Robin ? Your one of the most down to earth ladies on RUclips. Total respect girl. I hope and pray you find someone to treat you like you wish to be treated . In my honest opinion you are really cool and down to earth you just want to be happy and be respected for who you are . I applaud you for making a stand and speaking out and trying to show the world their is nothing wrong with your life choices or the choice any LGBT person desided for themselves. I just wish the rest of the world would wake up pull their heads out of their but so to speak and not push their negative thoughts and believes on others . Never give up the good fight. And Don't let those people put you down . Have Faith in yourself . and know your words have a positive effect on others and will help more people than you think. And those words will echo to others and help them to learn how to live and treat another human being with respect and dignity like everyone deserves. God Bless you Robin .
I met a beautiful trans girl after my divorce - literally out of the blue we met while I was on a vacation we ended up having dinner and an amazingly deep conversation - ling story short we went out separate ways she met someone we live on different coasts and literally since then I have been very open to dating a trans woman...I know it takes a special connection but I have no idea how to meet someone seeking a real relationship I guess it is just fate...
Wish I could meet a guy like you
Can’t live without the 🐱 though😭
If you love someone, you love them completely and respect them utterly.
I'm a straight guy and I am extremely attracted to you. (Truth)
if thats the case then your not straight, since this person regardless of appearance either way is a man.
@@john-si9yc mind your own business.
@@alyaaloverst5218 u and the original poster have fun together at the pride parade. He'll be there too. 😂 😂
@@john-si9yc was that supposed to be funny?
@@luixpaproductions It is.
Manners, civility and respect: they cost nothing - use them always.
Whatever gender: You are loved. Wherever you are.
WHO'M EVER YOU ARE.....🤗❤️
I am Chris live in the USA NY State 50yr old m
Hope ur day was awesome 😘
I'm a pretty open minded straight guy and I would date you without keeping it a secret, you are more attractive than most cyst women! I think you are absolutely gorgeous! 😊
By definition that is not straight. A biological male who’s attracted to other biological males(pre post or whatever) is gay. Words have meaning. Straight ≠ Gay
@@stevensgarage6451 If you have to put a label on it then fine, I just find Robin attractive. I am not into masculinity or men whatsoever. I have been with a lot of beautiful cis
women before and continue to be, so if thinking Robin is attractive makes me gay according to your assessment then so be it. Whatever you say Mr. Black or White!
@@stevensgarage6451 YWNBL
For what it worth, I am a straight man and I have dated TransWomen. I find that treating her with respect and being completely comfortable and honest with her yields a very enjoyable experience.
You have to understand one thing: you are not straight and you live in denial.
@@oggeeboggee it is you that is ridiculously delusional.
@@oggeeboggee It's funny when one person denies the work of thousands of psychologists... They concluded that a man who is attracted to a trans woman is not gay in any way or form. But that's okey. Keep livin' in you hateful dreams.
Viktória Szabó Biology says different. Females are XX and have XX pheromones. Males have XY pheromones. XX is not XY. I personally couldn’t care less what 2 people do behind closed doors. It’s not my business. But the shrinks are full of it if they say otherwise.
@@jewswhoswingssnakes923 it is interesting how people can quote biology here yet (likely) these same people forget all about biology when the subject changes to Female Bodybuilders.
Just wanted to say I think you have such a lovely personality and you're really cute and pretty too. Also, you're very right about how guys have to walk a narrow path to be straight and masculine enough for society. I know this very well myself.
Basically it's no different than dating anyone else, basic communication goes a long way as well respect for the other person. I personally prefer trans women over "biological" women, mainly because trans women seem to know better what they want and are less into head games as well are usually more open minded in general (not sexually speaking on this point).
easy answer is trans women are women
EXACTLY
Yes, this exactly. Just treat them like normal people and treat them like you would dating anyone else.
@Reggie Brigham your bigotry is as disgusting as your illiteracy.
@Reggie Brigham na my guy
@@honda-s2k yeh but he didnt bleach his skin did he!!!! at it again luke!! you just trolling or running from your own gender confusion?
She is so precious ugh my heart ❤
Love seeing you upload 🧡
@Kylie ❤
"Who the fuck cares" Best response ever. You're lovely
I don't need advice, I just watched this cuz you cute. Btw, "normal" is boring!
As a man from a highly religious Muslim family living in Belgium the only obstacle would be for her to meet my parents, I think you can understand why and how it complicates things... But yeah you are right about everything, Great video
You are a beautiful and sexy woman. Everything you said should be common sense to everyone. Always treat women with respect no matter who they are. Keep up the good work. ❤️❤️❤️
It's all about the person not about the gender.It's all about the personality and whether you get along with that person.It's not always about the gender
It's nice to see a trans-girl not wearing tons of makeup, not having huuuge boobs, fake hair....you look so naturally beautiful 🙏
My experience is…. Be honest be genuine treat her like any other girl. Make her feel important and listen when she speaks with you. And mist of all lwt her know how your life has been enriched by her being in it
As someone who is on the outside but willing to learn, I very much appreciate your content. Keep it up!
Treat someone you care about with intelligence, courage and compassion.
If you love somebody it shouldn't matter if they're transgender or not treat everyone as if they're equal
Oh my god this is 4 years ago🥹🥺 you rlly have glown up since then, and this is amazing advice for the ppl who need to hear this!!!!!!🏳️⚧️
My best friend transitioned. She is working hard at what she wants to be and I really respect her for it and she really has come a long way.
I would be loving and caring but I have never had this kind of experience so if i fuck up don't take it personally.
Sometimes "fucking up is fun" especially when it's someone else's first time too... It's about laughing and being silly and having fun in a respectful and healthy way
I dated a woman who was a lawyer and 15 years older. She didn't want to be seen in public with me. It was kinda cool, but it finally hit me. When it hit me, it didn't feel cool at all.
Also i dont know if thia is wrong but i say girl women etc because to me thats how it is in my eyes personally. And i always try to be respectful.
Jeez, you're the bomb!! Too many trans youtubers are soooo harsh toward guys especially Trans oriented guys but you are so sweet and still bringing your point across in such a strong, determined but positive way and obviously you're incredibly beautiful!! OMG, I'm just freaking speechless....
Your a lovely girl, hope you find respectful dates in future x
Thank you for posting this. ♥ I'm going to study these pointers religiously. I want to date a transgirl, seriously... and I suck at, how they say, "Mack Daddy" skills. I always get nervous, but once I get her, they always become overwhelmed by my charm, honesty and sex appeal.
Again... Thanks a lot. ♥
I was just thinking about when you were gonna upload a few days ago, and my wish came true :)
Nice content as always, awesome to see you growing so fast!
Each relationship is an adventure. I am glad you made this. So many great points. Enjoy being with the one you like/love and not as what the public stereotypes are. You are beautiful 🌹
Nobody:
This lady: 👈👈👉👉🙏🤙🤙✋✋
trans or not, you are a beautiful human being.
Imagine being Dutch too and understand the thing she was saying in Dutch🇳🇱
You are so incredibly down to earth, I 🙏 that someday I’ll be fortunate enough to meet and become friends with a woman like you, and hopefully become much more than friends. Please keep up all the positive energy and work that you’re doing ❤❤
Good video! I think it's sad how men still use being gay as a way to insult one another's masculinity. I agree with what you said though, respect is so important!!! Keep glowing, girl, it's nice to see a down to earth perspective on these things!! New subscriber now! :)
I see all of these points as referring to any relationship. Whether you want to be with a man or a woman or a trans man or a trans woman or a binary person you should still treat them with respect, not be ashamed to be seen with them or to introduce them to the people you care about and not get hung up on any part of them but love the whole person.
I see a wonderful person that is living her life the way she wants to and i wish i could meet her someday. Thanks for sharing Robin. You are a hero to so many out there. You are truly beautiful on the outside and in. Love you. Thomas
Be respectful. Open minded. Honest about what you want and ask them what they want. And appreciative and kind. Doesnt matter what labels are.
I've never dated trans, but I wouldn't hesitate if I were attracted to someone. I would just hope there's a very honest discussion up front about pre or post operation. I don't want a relationship with two penis in it...
So beautiful! I love your SMILE!!
Wonderful speech, filled with kindness, common sense and grace. You are amazingly attractive, and charming, with a stylish personality.
Thank you for helping us allies in the dating world of trans women. Nicely designed, useful info.
not if they are ashamed of dating you, they shouldn't be dating you. if they are ashamed of dating you, YOU shouldn't be dating them.
3:25 Yes, simply put: if it makes you uncomfortable, don't date :-)
Guys, dating a trans girl takes some personal strength. She will need you to have the courage to date trans, if you have the courage the rewards can be amazing. I found most guys are kinda jealous because they do not have the courage themselves. The only negatives were from people I really didn't want in my life. One must show you are proud to be by her side and love to see her shine.
0:41 Now.. That. Move. Was. Cute!
You put a big smile on my face there :)
Thanks for giving me things to think about, I really needed it.
Love ur smile 😍 and ur hair was in a ponytail ❤️
Welcome back, beautiful Trans-Sister!
"I suck at life!". So do most of us honey. Then again, what is a "perfect" life? The answer to that is the same to the question, "What is normal?" There's no answer to that, it's subjective. And you're acing it, by the way, and looking beautiful
living up to your name bro!!!
When she first said “I suck” then paused, I thought - well that will keep a guy around!
I didn't get reply 😪 like videos tho
@@learningtolivewithhumans1859 I try my best 😊
@@ronaldyeater3322 not everyone dose i replied though
I met this girl from my home town, and I really like her, and I had on idea that she is trans, it throw me off for a bit, but I was still really into her, but I got so much shit from my own family and friends who wanted nothing to do with me, and when they ever got the chance to put me down they did, telling everyone they know who I was and how they can fix me throw going to church. it never change shit, I still love her and will always love her. but she got the same bullshit and just split from me and dropped me to leave town to the USA and never seen her since .
Good riddance! I hope you find a really good woman who will love you forever 🥰
I like your personality, I can see you getting rlly good at speaking infront of the camera. I relate to the robot mode 😂
Very seriously... How this video became part of my RUclips recommendations?
This is my first time seeing one of your videos. And I must say that you are both beautiful and intelligent and very genuine. I applaud you..😃
I’m a guy, you’re a beautiful woman, i would treat you like any other woman, with total respect. I hope you find some one who respect you and loves you.
i just found out that i like trans women and after a long time of not realizing it i want to let my parents know about it, i know that people don't give af about me as much as my parents do, i just hope i don't break their hearts honestly.
Very informative. I am 46 and just now questioning my sexuality. I could care less what labels anyone has here or there. Like you said just respect people boundaries and love people for who they are not what they are.
These are things that any one should know, no matter sexual orientation. The biggest thing is always be honest with one another.
I wouldn't say I'm using trans women as an experiment or wanting to date a trans woman because of a fetish. I mean to be honest I'm attracted to them because they are just attractive period but I'm more drawn or comfortable and interested in dating one because it's something*new* in this world and for me the benefits of dating one is special. As a black man I am *ALWAYS* discriminated and viewed as an exotic tool so I get the feeling of being used or being viewed as a fetish. But with that being said there are some things I can understand but still I don't know a lot about trans women because I am not a woman.
I agree with all the other comments.. treat everyone as you would want to be treated .. also .. your a beautiful woman.. who cares what anyone else thinks.. ?? I would love to hang out with you!!
Just be courteous and polite.
Okay, I believe that sexual boundaries have to be respected, but if a woman (trans or otherwise) does not want to participate in a sexual act that might be important to a male, don't be surprised if the male wants to then break off the relationship. Actually, the male should break off the relationship because there is a chance that because his partner does not want to engage in a particular sex act will lead to resentment and anger.
I'm dating to someone at the moment he didn't know i was trans because he was just a random guy at the store where i work he gave me his number ofc i made it clear right after he was kinda alright with that but he had very awkward questions on our first date :) i wouldn't say he was rude he was just kinda uneducated about the whole trans things more like a curiosity., but he still fine with me and the situation so we are keep dating which is great :)
@Victoria Your words have touched my heart
Truly speaking you're beautiful
It’s straight to date a trans girl. Look at her, she is a girl and if you like girls you like her.
You’re absolutely correct ! You’re such a down to Earth lovely lady !!
Robin you look amazing.
In life no matter who you are all anyone wants is to be loved and appreciated.
Here's some things where I might have issues about dating a trans woman. Our opinions might be differents and being the only man in that relationship
Another great video and wonderful advice. P.S. you don't suck at words or life! 🥰
Every straight man would love to date a trans woman .
What??
@@thanos7459 well dear, I stand by previous statement,the fact that you are here in the first place proves that you are at least mildly interested,be true to yourself,trans ladies take beauty and femininity to another level,more and more men now feel confident to say that and admire these ladies,times they are a changing.Rgds,
No, but certainly many more than are comfortable admitting it - because they're wimps about it. No disrespect to Ms. Jaspers, but I'm confident she knows or at least wonders how many of her subscribers are chasers - some undercover, some not so much.
Hardly makes them straight then huh. Lol
girl you look amazing :o and your english sounds amazing
No-one wants to feel used. Damn that's some deep truth for everyone
I love your material. I really appreciate how much I've learned from your videos.💙
For me my main concern is like to make her feel save and good. Thanks for making this Video it really helped me to emphatize better with trans ladys (and the one transe dude who i fought alot with pre Transition but as dudes we kinda get along^^)
I dont have any problem to date a girl like you. You are a regular girl
I wish I could meet trans women for myself and what is the best advice for guy like myself who likes trans women and want to date trans women
I just found you and you are gorgeous in every way! Love has no boundaries! I know it's cliche but it's so true. I'm absolutely sure you inspire people to open their minds and rethink their views on sexuality and what it is to be a human being. Keep doing what you do, I look forward to and find inspiration in your words, as I'm sure many others do.
Love you Robin!
Trans women are people too! Treat them with respect, dignity and compassion as you would like to be treated. It's as simple as that.
Robin, it is so great to see you again!!!
The hardest part about dating trans women is that they generally look at most trans attracted males as chasers :/
You are back!
I've dated a lot of trans and cis women. I don't give a single fuck what other people think. Women are women, people are people.
Very well said. The world can be very cruel, but there are good people out there. You are so beautiful! I would treat you like a queen.