Totally. And even much harder when the defense is an attack and lots of anger involved. Thanks for all u do dear. We're all here together to help each other out.
My boyfriend has a very, very codependent relationship with his parents. He gets angry and lashes out at me for the smallest things. I couldn't understand why he lashed out at me when all I do is shower him with love and do my very best to keep up. Turns out, he was the family member who "bailed out" his alcoholic father. It's so complex. Your videos help a lot- thanks!
What do you or do when they don’t realize their childhood was trauma! Some people believe to Jay if their parents met their basic needs, then their was no neglect therefore nothing to overcome
Totally. And even much harder when the defense is an attack and lots of anger involved. Thanks for all u do dear. We're all here together to help each other out.
My boyfriend has a very, very codependent relationship with his parents. He gets angry and lashes out at me for the smallest things. I couldn't understand why he lashed out at me when all I do is shower him with love and do my very best to keep up. Turns out, he was the family member who "bailed out" his alcoholic father. It's so complex. Your videos help a lot- thanks!
Excellent advice. Your videos and books have helped me for the past few months rekindle my love with love- for Love's sake. Thank you!
Love it! Dr. Shefali,
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Recently understood self compassion goes the long way .
Very very true!
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What do you or do when they don’t realize their childhood was trauma! Some people believe to Jay if their parents met their basic needs, then their was no neglect therefore nothing to overcome
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What if it isnyour own child you are having a difficult time with and they are.blaming you for.being a bad parent?