NPD Series |Ep 71| : Why Victims Identify Narcissistic Abuse Late?
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- NPD Series - Why Victims Identify Narcissistic Abuse Late? | നാർസിസിസ്റ്റിക്കിനെ മനസ്സിലാക്കാൻ വൈകുന്നതെന്തുകൊണ്ട്?
Language: Manglish (a combination of Malayalam & English)
Dr Susan shares the wisdom from her therapeutic experience working with narcissistic personalities and Narcissistic victims through her NPD vlog series.
When a victim undergoes narcissistic abuse he/she will not be able to recognise it in the early stages. In the beginning, they are not having much idea about the nature of their relationship. They will be having many expectations and expect them to be met by their narcissistic person in life. The abuses or ill-treatment will be ignored or tolerated in the beginning but as days pass by the victim started to realise the trauma in their life. The victim mostly starts to develop reactive illnesses or psychosomatic or pseudo illnesses. Watch the video to know more.
Dr Susan Koruthu is a multifaceted life psychologist and mind wellness coach. She brings 28 years of professional experience in the field. She speaks wisdom from the experiences she had working with individuals, businesses and over 40 nationalities.
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Disclaimer: The information shared in this video is for educational purposes only. You are encouraged to seek professional help for guidance on your specific issues. This video provides general information about narcissistic personality disorder. This does not refer to any specific person or group and should not be used to refer to anyone specific to prove having narcissistic traits or related disorders. Permission is not granted to prove any allegation that a specific person is a narcissist by using this video and related videos.
പതിനഞ്ച് വർഷം മുൻപ് ഞാൻ ma'am നെ കണ്ടിരുന്നെങ്കിൽ എൻ്റെ ജീവിതം ഇങ്ങനെ മോശമായി പ്പോകില്ലയിരു ന്നു. എല്ലാ കാര്യങ്ങളും സത്യമാണ്.anyway ഇപ്പോഴെങ്കിലും മനസ്സിലാക്കാൻ പറ്റിയല്ലോ. സർവേശ്വരന് നന്ദി 🙏
Mam parayunnathu ellaam 100% sathyam aanu
Entea brother aanu NPD
Endeeyum😭😭😭😭😭
എൻ്റെ father ,ചെറുപ്പത്തിൽ വീട്ടിൽ 5 വർഷം നിന്ന വീട്ട് വേലക്കാരി പിന്നീട് ജീവിത പങ്കാളി എല്ലാം NpD തന്നെ 😮😢
I am speechless... Can't take anymore... Staying away now... You are 💯 true... Now escaped??!!!... Staying alone in kerala taking medicine for kidney transplant, sleeping tablets... But now I am strong ( only I feel so)... really lived in hell along with my children... God bless you abundantly Dr Susan Koruthu... You are doing great service...🙏🙏🙏
Don't worry lizy...i m still suffering 😭😭😭
Praying for you .. this will also pass by . Be of good courage!
Me too! 👍🏼
Correct madam
13 yrs sufferings , Skin disease, heart disease etc . Now got divorced since 3 yrs. No more health issues, happy happy happy with my children. So please Run away from NPD partner. My prayers for all my Sisters. God bless you all. Dear doctor u are doing a great Service. God send u from heaven to help us. . 💖💖💖
Thank you. May God bless you to live strong.
@@DrSusanKoruthu Mam ,what is narcissist's karma .as they destroyed so many good souls .can u pls make a video about it.
Because all npd are best actors
I feel like crying.i was a totally outgoing person,very energetic and happy now i dont know who i am anymore.5 years changed me a lot
Because of enlightened,The Perfect Drama Kings and Queens.
നല്ല വിഷയം. വീണ്ടും ശ്രദ്ധിക്കാം. നന്ദി
This is so true. Not partner but highly narcissistic & toxic parents. They show all attributes mentioned here. Thanks to good job, I was able to reduce their ill-effects by staying away. Setting boundaries with such parents is extremely difficult. I feel sorry for similar children, who may have no choice but to stay with such parents. Worst is unlike partners who come late, parents is there from childhood. On average 50 years.
Good boundary settings done
It's horrible what Npd victims are going through. She doesn't know the person whom she loves is her worst enemy.
Thank you ma'am for ur valuable advice. For 25 years l am living with an NPD.
How true it is my God! God's service you are doing. Six years of hell, six years of healing journey, still yes the poison is yet showing up as procrastination., i wish I could get a personal consultation with you to pull out the root somehow and lead a peaceful life.🙏
Thank you Nazeema
Pala toxic aaya aalukallude slow poisoning has changed me. Enikk aalukal umayyi authentic connection vekkan pedi aanu ippol.
This is what I experienced in the last 23 years
Hi mam
It's really really true..Each and every points am faced. now am living seperated...on process to divorce....but now as a victim, facing some issues that you mentioned in this video...Mam, it's Only Your videos are helping me alot... So much thanks to you Mam. It's really great great Helpful... Now am getting little relaxation..., Love you mam 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hundred percent truth Slow poisoning goes on No way to escape because of the children's future as a dependent of him
Yes alternate traumatic and passionate moments is very poisonous in life.
Mam parnja ella avsthayelude njan kadannu poye. Arkkum enne help cheyyan pattyilla. Spiritual leaders parenjathe bharyamarude nalla nadappukande bharthave varum enne ane. Enne kanatha aal egane ente nadappe kanum😃. Drs. enek kuzhappam onnum kanunnella enne parenje therichu vettettunde. Ethok keettitte enek thanne njan oru miracle ane. Eppozhum njan subodathode, jeevanode erikkunnu. All glory to God
I m going through a lot of physical pain . But when went for checkup doctors found no illness. I m really going thru a lot musculoskeletal pain. Once ortho asked whether i have any depression..Your videos opened my eyes . What all you said is just my life. My children's future is very much affected. They also blame me. I don't know what to do .
Try consult a good psychologist
Orupad perku useful agum urapp
Mamnte class very useful
I m thanking to GOD 🙏🙏.I'm not affected by Victim syndrome.I had been understood who is my mother, but not in childhood!
Only recently came to hear about naracissit, after so many years of difficult situation, through these videos came to understand about naracissit. Each person before their marriage must visit Pschologist to understand naracissit.Hope madam was in Kerala, to visit her personally. Can contact in email, but personally is best.
You said it✨️
Mam ende husband oru NPD aanenn madathinde videos kanadappozhq manacilaye covert NPD aan aarikkum manacilakilla ayaale enth chaithalum negative aayi mathre edukku ayaal. njagal always fighting aa comparing with his mother, and always ende family complaint parannu kondirikkum . Oru 5 yr age child ind avan sound kelkkumbo pediya emotional, fighting scene kaanumbozhomke kutti karachilum allengil violent okk aakunnu. Kuttikk nallathokke parannu koduthalum ayaal ath kulamakkum example ayaal lazy aayi kidakkunna time kutti poyi ayaale kalikkan vilichal avanodu paraum urangam allengil tv kaaanan kuttiude screen time kazhinathayirikkum aa divasam appo kutti confused tv vekkan pokum appo njan sammathikkilla kuttiude munpil amma bad aanenna oru thought ella kaaryathilum even food polum njan aa ellam control chaiunne enna kochu vicharikkunne . Ayaal very lazy low confident covert NPD aa. 8yrs back I was very confident very smart aayirunnu. Ayaalkk oru rasama provoke chaiyyan ippo njangal thammil samsarikkare ella .now I'm planning to be independent . When ever I'm confident he will discouraged only ninakkonnum oru kazhivum ella ennu parannitt njan ippo mind aakkare ella onnum discuss chaiyyarilla madathinde video very helpful aan ath njan kurachokke manacilakki changes varuthan try chaiyukaya. I really need to take victim therappy, ende monu kurach confidence low reason ayaal thanneya avan enthokke chaiyyan nokkiyalum eyaal paraum avide kayaralle evide kayaralle veenal hospitalil povendi varum kochu nadakkan thudangiyappo thott aayaal parayaan thudangiyatha mone confident aakkan entha chaiyyandath enthengil therappy indo cheriya kuttikalkk vendi.
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Don't worry...be independent
Good that you understood your situation ....now you can seek help from people like Dr.Susan and lead a better life and helping your child to grow into a confident individual ....all the best 👍
The best thing is that you already understand your situation n you are not too late to escape from him....so go ahead n try for financially independent...make good relationships with your close friends n relatives,seek professional help if you can't survive this situation,a beautiful life is still waiting for you dear.....
Yes oru kannadiyil ennapole ellamam thelinjukaanunnu Same way and same things happening in my life
വളരെ ഉണ്ട് ഡോക്ടർ എൻ്റെ സഹോദൻ പിന്നെ എൻ്റെ ബിസ്നസ് പാർട്ട്ണർ ഇവരെ ആയി ഞാൻ മാറി പക്ഷേ എന്നാലും അവർ ഉപ്പോഴും ശല്യം ചെയ്യുന്നുണ്ട് എനിക്കറിയാം അവരുടെ ആവശ്യം ഒരു ഉപാദിയുമില്ലാതെ അവർ ചെയ്ത തെറ്റുകൾ ചൂണ്ടിക്കാണിക്കാതെ അവരെ ആയി ലോഗ്യം ആവാനാണ് അവരുടെ ആവശ്യം
yes, there are many NPDs, psychopaths and dark triads and dark empaths in business world. I have also experienced such abuses in business and career. They must be kept away at a safe distance to protect yourself. Take good care and be safe.
U r true mam really suffered a lot .now at da age of 64. I am diabetic .noted my sugar is high when I am with hhim.With my relatives. Sugar is low feel energetic.Still I am living with him.son got married think he too is NPD. 7yr kid with them.Daughter got divorced after two months of marriage.Bcoz he is a typical NPD..even he was trying to endanger her life .Mam we want to meet u
I am living with a malignant and covert NPD for the last thirty eight years. Now I became almost helpless because my children could not be well settled in their life.
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Kazhinja dhivasam ente medical checkup ayerunnu Dr. Parenju otheri better ane enne medicine dosage kurachittunde. Njan complete heal akum alle Mam. 🙏
Yes Laly, you will.
Keep healing. Break trauma bond. Write gratitude journal and affirmation journal and do self love. Do whatever makes u happy. All the best
Found out in 3 months...escaped...who hooo! Happy to be with myself!!
Thank you very much Dr
Thanks 🙏
Still in a difficult situation 😥
Please escape
Mam en story victims nu paranju kodukan agraghikunnu😊
So strength en my self
Mam, psychosomatic deseases
Waiting 👍
And. Enjoy myself
NAMASKARAM Doctor Ma'am 🙏☺
25.1.2022
Dr de wup nu kitumo,anikariyuna karyagal njan dr,parayam.
Idetect early-stage but my family not support me
Ma'am, Will you do Inner Child Healing as part of Victim therapy
Inner healing is a part of victim therapy
@@DrSusanKoruthu Thank you
Ma'am. Please do a video about HOW NARCISSIST TARGET VICTIM'S INNER CHILD WOUNDS..
🙏
Thanks mam❤❤❤❤❤
You god bless child
Mamnte mumpil mpattu padi dance chyana kothikunnu
Yes Madam
After 25 years by God's grace I got divorced
Iam earning person ayathu kondu save my life
I’m a victim 😢,
Ma'am, can you say how to set boundaries in a married life with an npd.
I will in a video
@@DrSusanKoruthu Thank you ma'am.
Ma’am enikum venamayirunnu...
Hi Dr. Susan
Madam en courage my self
Can u giv an example for traumatic abusivenes.
Ente molanumamnte vedio ayachu thannath
Dr,njan 3 npd yude koode jolichaitirunnu.anikariyam npd ye kurichu.
What happened bro..can you explain. Can be useful to know
Mam..please explain Timothy chapter 3. Is this explains about narcicist?
Timothy second Epistle chapter 3 in Holy Bible.
🙏🏼👍
In Kerala
Very correct mam🙏
Iam. 60+ but now lam living age 20
But thping difficult me
Mamne neril kananam
Hi Doctor I would like to take an appointment. How it possible? Please help🙏
Hi Remya,
Please visit my website www.drsusankoruthu.com or send a mail to drsusankoruthu@gmail.com
@@DrSusanKoruthu Hi Dr. Susan Thank you for your quick reply. I send an email. Please check it
Waiting
Now my children s grogwnup
Mam ny neri kananaam
Namasthe Mam🙏
Hope you are fine mam 😊
I am fine now, thank you Smitha.
@@DrSusanKoruthu👍
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Yes correct 34 year
But I realised early-stage but my not support me
So Live s34 year spoil
But lam working women so leave myself
Note lamretired my work
Victims contact meeting nadakumbo jan varam
Hi dr what happened both are npd
there will be constant rejections, manipulations, fights, competition to prove who is better, down play, fights for respective golden children and many more...
Now lam free bird
Pls help me മാഡം iam ബിഗ് victim
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Mee too
@@sreejanair4809 പ്ലീസ് explaine
I take a good decision to divorce from my narcist hus
I❤ you like my daughter
Tour self singing dancing
😥😥😥😥
Waiting
Waiting