this kind of dual mentality I gained after my therapy, I remain soft and kind but gained a sense of boundaries, self-awareness, and self-respect. it's really fun to watch how narcisstic types of people are convinced I'm easy target, but then they get slap in the face by me saying "no" to them.
I used to have a open heart but now it's not.its only for me. I have seen that many people need that connection for their own purposes. Which is denied lol. Idk ab that anymore. I used to be so soft and listen to everyone. I was drained all day long. I'm slowly becoming the villain and I loooove it😂❤🎉
This message is what we need more of! I love how you speak on the importance of duality. Life isn't black and white, one or the other. That mindset creates confusion and chaos. We are like water, we adapt. This came to me when I needed it most, so thank you!
I don’t like the “this or that” mindset. I believe it’s situational. I’m a cold black cat in my usual day to day routine, but as soon as MY GUY is around… instant warm submissive sweetheart.
After doing the work to be the woman I want to be (still a work in progress but I'm more confident than I've ever been) I notice the same. Don't let that stop you from being the best you! 💖 You will inspire the ones who want to be their best, and maybe the haters will be inspired one day. Who knows
I feel this video was less good then the others, because it didn't feel like she didn't give much information in I mean, she did not tell the how, just the why of the topic of the video. It would have been better if she told the how to it.
The “soft and sharp” idea is being talked about a lot right now, but I don’t agree with you equating sharpness with coldness. I am learning to be warmer as part of my feminine level up journey. My family culture is very cold, and additionally, I have felt uncomfortable with being warmer towards my female friends as a lesbian because I’m not familiar with where the line is between being warm like to a friend and warm like to a lover, because I’m not familiar with being warm at all. But at the same time, my coldness came with overgiving and poor boundaries, which you put in the category of warmth. I also have so many examples of my mother having been cold, yet overgiving with poor boundaries. I’ve got some things to add to the feminine energy conversation coming from my background!
Vickita your videos are truly truly truly helpful to me in my life Thank you so so so much for making such a wonderful beautiful videos for us and I will always be your supportive🥹💫💗
I'm 17. Can you make a content about what to do when you have a crush without being too desperate? Im a freshman in college, and I have a big crush on a senior guy at school. How can i stay in my feminine energy while crushing on him?
I am 33. and had a crush on someone . i tried everything and he is not interested in me at all. so i worked so hard to forget him.. if he doesnt like you, just move on.
As a man, I would like yo share something that my good female friend told me. Women have made the illusion of making the man feel, he has taken the first move when in reality its always been the woman who selects.
It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
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this kind of dual mentality I gained after my therapy, I remain soft and kind but gained a sense of boundaries, self-awareness, and self-respect. it's really fun to watch how narcisstic types of people are convinced I'm easy target, but then they get slap in the face by me saying "no" to them.
Wow good for you girl!
This exactly what I’m trying to do right now in therapy. Thank you for this
still working on that too
❤️💯 yes
how did you do this, by any chance? :)
I used to have a open heart but now it's not.its only for me. I have seen that many people need that connection for their own purposes. Which is denied lol. Idk ab that anymore. I used to be so soft and listen to everyone. I was drained all day long. I'm slowly becoming the villain and I loooove it😂❤🎉
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right😂😂😂 do you ❤
Me too, I'm so sick of always being there for others and always feel drained afterwards.
This message is what we need more of! I love how you speak on the importance of duality. Life isn't black and white, one or the other. That mindset creates confusion and chaos. We are like water, we adapt. This came to me when I needed it most, so thank you!
I don’t like the “this or that” mindset. I believe it’s situational. I’m a cold black cat in my usual day to day routine, but as soon as MY GUY is around… instant warm submissive sweetheart.
I find that women become hateful when they see what they could be in me 😢
After doing the work to be the woman I want to be (still a work in progress but I'm more confident than I've ever been) I notice the same. Don't let that stop you from being the best you! 💖 You will inspire the ones who want to be their best, and maybe the haters will be inspired one day. Who knows
@@heyhaley__ awww 🥰 thank you I appreciate that!
OMMMGG, the other day I was wondering how I can keep a balance between my energies and you uploaded this T.T
THANK YOUUU VICKITAAAA I ENJOY YOUR VIDEOS SO MUCH YOU'RE AMAZING THANKK YOUU 🤗😋💘🌟
thank you!!! ❤️
Thanks girl. Needed this ❤❤
You nailed it. Absolutely! 🙂❤
Thanks Vickita, I appreciate this. 💚
Glad it was helpful!
I feel this video was less good then the others, because it didn't feel like she didn't give much information in I mean, she did not tell the how, just the why of the topic of the video. It would have been better if she told the how to it.
great video, thanks! it would be amazing if you’d try a nice mic, for a higher quality softer audio 💫
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The “soft and sharp” idea is being talked about a lot right now, but I don’t agree with you equating sharpness with coldness. I am learning to be warmer as part of my feminine level up journey. My family culture is very cold, and additionally, I have felt uncomfortable with being warmer towards my female friends as a lesbian because I’m not familiar with where the line is between being warm like to a friend and warm like to a lover, because I’m not familiar with being warm at all. But at the same time, my coldness came with overgiving and poor boundaries, which you put in the category of warmth. I also have so many examples of my mother having been cold, yet overgiving with poor boundaries. I’ve got some things to add to the feminine energy conversation coming from my background!
Vickita your videos are truly truly truly helpful to me in my life Thank you so so so much for making such a wonderful beautiful videos for us and I will always be your supportive🥹💫💗
You are so welcome! ❤️
I'm 17. Can you make a content about what to do when you have a crush without being too desperate?
Im a freshman in college, and I have a big crush on a senior guy at school. How can i stay in my feminine energy while crushing on him?
I am 33. and had a crush on someone . i tried everything and he is not interested in me at all. so i worked so hard to forget him..
if he doesnt like you, just move on.
As a man, I would like yo share something that my good female friend told me. Women have made the illusion of making the man feel, he has taken the first move when in reality its always been the woman who selects.
did you take that thumbnail idea from arielle niu? i notice that you copy a lot from other youtubers.
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welcome !!! ❤️
Great video, but not all couples are heterosexual….. it’s 2024…..
My channel is geared toward straight women but swap about the terms I use to suit you!
It doesn't matter what year it is on the Earth, it still doesn't make it natural for Human beings to mate with the same s3x, hope this helps!
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It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
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