Mbona her family hawangecontibute for the befitting burial of their daughter or sister since wako sawa. Why are they hating on the guy yet they didn't come through at their lowest
This is a sad situation. How does this lady know the inner feelings of this man? Men too get depressed. People will never understand us truly. I feel sad
As a mother, a grandmother, I feel for you two. My thoughts this couple is going through a lot, propaganda from the wife's family, the man is deeply hurting, how can the wife be there I love you and you denying him his wifey duties, you can't cook, or wash clothes for him?? What more are you denying him? You don't converse with him, any woman who wants to lose his man or get him out of her life should try this. Your family is wrong gal, who sacrifices their child for what? Men grieve in different ways but they just hurt as much, women will grieve loudly, breakdown. It is not too late, you two need counselling, to move on past the loss of your son, and rebuild your lives and marriage. You have a good, respectable man, don't lose him, there lots of women out here waiting for a man like him. Praying for you guys, may God salvage your marriage, and bless you with children and finances. May there be laughter and happiness in your home, this Safi or whatever, has done her part and is now in the past. Love you guys. Hugs.
Him drinking was a way to numb the pain. He is also going through the same pain, be gracious. She clearly poisoned her family against him, she is even missing the point, she will lose him completely if she doesn't start being sensitive to his needs. She is throwing her man under the bus to her family and should care about what her family says about him. Her and her whole family are toxic, keep it moving.
Have learnt through this channel that communication is very important..People dnt communication in their relationships with the assumption of the other partner should understand..
Bro!!!! your patience is on another level. I would have left that marriage like yesterday. May God give you peace and wisdom in all this. Thanks Steve for helping a brother speak out. God bless you.
The man should move on like yesterday. Unaendelea kukaa, making it seem like ni wewe umemfunga bibi. Move on young man. Na bibi, u too move on, enda upate mtoto na someone anaetaka mtoto km. wewe. Or, zaa na mtu na ujiendee, it doesn't hv to b this one.
This the nairobian left outs......wako njaa bt still can't show their hunger n still don't want to hunt...bruh bachelor in life consultancy and explainancy kila tym.....maisha ndo ii Sasa.
The lady lacks emotional intelligence. How do you expect a man to feel if he's rejected by your family? Peace of mind and acceptance are the greatest assets people yearn for in a relationship. Without them, hapo mtu atakesha akiwa restless.
I am not justifying whatever is being shared by either party on this clip. However very many ladies go through lots of rejection from the families they are married into but they still remain faithful to their spouses.
I just love how Steve listens as his clients pour their hearts out without interrupting... This man is really hurting 😭😭😭 He's not perfect but rejection hurts to the core.
This guy is so correct, never impregnate woman whose parents don't respect you,let such rejection impregnate her. Let them continue thinking what they think,move on guy this won't work. A parson who sees evil in you earlier cant see good spirit in you later.
Enyewe people are going through a lot kwa hizi streets BMS continue because our brothers are going through a lot they have no one to listen to them, bro jitoe keep Sifa
This is one of the longest episode from comrades/flavor 001. 1hr for the guy opening up... I can feel your pain bro😢😢 Men deserves to be heard out too.
Indeed Big Man you're a blessing You always come into people's lives when they're almost giving up God bless you for opening a channel to where people can come and open up...
Some ladies are lucky but they don't see the blessing,,,,, watching it washed away!!! Go boy child,,,,,,,,you will find safe hands. I wish I got such a family man
U never say a man doesn't feel any anything after loosing their lovedones ...THAT IS SO WRONG😢...the way i love my 2yrs old daughter if at all there was a machine to measure the amount of love people would think im the mother coz i can bet with my mother's soul that the love i carry for my daughter is more than what my wife has...SHE WILL FOREVER BE A DADDYS GAL❤❤❤
Woow i love this comment i hope God blesses us with another child than the one we lost my husband really loved her. Even though he never got to hold her alive but her loss really affected him. And hthe way he treated me during the pregnancy proves he will be the best daddy to our kids
Passed through this with my hubby two years ago 😢. Its not easy 😢😢😢na mtu akumbushe huyu mamaa that kifo ya mtoi sio dirty linen, its a reality that many people face and mist are free to share in public
This is very touching, Stevo back ground noises(try to consider your viewers?) otherwise...you have done the biggest favour to that Man. I felt his pain all the way from 🇬🇧.
This man loves his wife but the problem is family members.Dem ange fight for his man kama anawasupport this man is going through alot😢.let him move on.hasijaribu kuzaa.
I commented in another episode in this show that, Marriage means PROTECTION of one another from outside interference including from family members. Once you notice your partner is not protecting you from their relatives, that’s a red flag of showing you that, Love has shrunk or no more. I’m I right? Please comment for me.
Kupika is enough excuse for someone to have a female friend who in due time becomes more than a friend. That's why men are close to their moms. And don't come to me with the manipulating and cliche Mama's boy line. There's absolutely no shame in any man sharing a healthy bond with his mother. That aside, men are attracted to reasonable women. Peaceful. Whatever happens, I want a woman who gives me reason to yearn to return home, a peaceful home. He's such an honest soul. Keep your head up bruv!
Do you help your woman in the house? Ama because she's wife she should carry out motherly duties na wewe hata sahani kama hayuko you can't wash until she comes does everything wash cook clean..I agree men should be respected and cared for but most men don't help in the house she's a wife not slave or your mother who can do it without getting tired...let me ask yes its good to be close to your mum and also women should be caring old fashioned however are you those type of mama boy that don't even assist with house work wewe ni breakfast lunch dinner
As men too we also need a safe haven,just to vent out.A place where you can talk,just talk.Someone you can talk n understand you.That is what satisfy even more than property,money,kids,a place of peace and where you feel appreciated n respected.Every man needs that.I feel this man.He's my twin, going what am going through.
It's good to hear you say this,men always thought expressing emotions and feelings was being weak . I am raising a son who I always teach him to express himself!! It's ok not to be ok. We are all human!! May you find that safe haven bro❤
I am a woman, a mother, a grandmother, I concur with you. Men grieve in different ways, these two need therapy, they need to see a counselor. The wife has aided in the man looking for solace elsewhere.
This guy is sweet and so composed,a family man as well... please walk away Young Man..I went through that inlaw rejection is so traumatizing, my husband did exactly this to me with his family.. to unextend of telling his family about me, introducing his side chick to his family, unfortunately death took him ..
This lady is the type that believes she's always right, and the man is wrong. She says the man MARRIED HER, and not her family, hence should not care about the rejection by the parents and the wife's siblings. Yet she BELIEVES (just like her parents do) that this man SACRIFICED his child. Moreover she doesn't even defend her husband against those OUTRAGEOUS ACCUSATIONS! Man, run for the hills!
@@jonesjois3169 "What if he did", you ask? Good question. Maybe he did...; we have all manner of weird tribes in this country: 1. Some eat dead human bodies 2. Others will kill one of the children in a twins birth 3. Still others eliminate a child born out of incestuous sex relationship 4. Blah, blah... But I guess we will never know, and only the man knows the actual truth. Either way, these two DON'T BELONG TOGETHER; he should walk away, and she should go back to her parents and siblings, and they can all revel in the sacrifice conspiracy for ever and ever.
Her expecting him to give her another child while her family is bent to frustrating the man is way below the belt, this two can't be together given the situation from the in laws.
@@jonesjois3169 ulikuwa? Your if sounds more of a feminism idea than logic. I it was the woman taken to the slaughter house would your opinion remain the same.just saying
From experience,people grief differently.its 7yrs after the loss of our daughter and my husband has never discussed it.we have 2 more kids and life moves on
It's been 12 years since the loss of my one and only brother and my father has never even mentioned anything about him..not even his name. Until recently when I gave birth and he asked me why I didn't name my son after my brother and I heard him call my son "George"(my brother's name) wakicheza cheza... people grief differently
I would defend my husband no matter what... this lady Lacks emotional intelligence.... this man has patience...Man go where you are Celebrated!!!am also trying to understand this lady
This lady isn't sensitive to what the man is going through.She's listening and acting to what the family is telling her,from removing him from the group, reversing the money and here she's defensive of her family.Accusing him of everything they are going through
It’s very painful to be in a relationship with a “nerd”. I feel you man! It’s not your fault they forced you into this situation! You are a great man and a family man but it takes two to tangle! Mens’ emotions and feelings have been overlooked for so long while they die inside. Asafi is the way to go. All the best dude
@@mrjnutube you're a dweep. Nerd = dork. Both used to demean someone as a boring book worm with no social life. Come to the US and use your village version of nerd then see how that turns out.
I feel for this man, I was also in such a situation with a luhya lady too. I had to leave. Rejection until they looked for a man to marry their daughter while still I was leaving with their daughter.
This woma is the one who would defend the husband. It seems alichangia maongezi ya familia that this man alisacrifice mtoi, This man is hurting after all that hata nguvu za kuzalisha tena atoe wapi hana haja if the woman famiky rejects him
This has really cought me unaware. The rejection from the in-laws is insane. I think the worst feeling in the world is the rejection feeling..so painful indeed
This couple needs therapy as soon as possible. They’re both processing the loss of their child in different ways. Getting another child does not erase the fact that a child was lost. A new child cannot substitute the lost one. May the good Lord give them peace as they look for a way foward
This Man is going through..if they can't appreciate you move go where you get peace..and don't be sorry if I get my own Man I will fight for him with all I have.
I am sure they're both suffering from the grief of loosing the baby. Shida huyu mzee alienda kucheat badala ya kuseek help. Kuna big issue kwa familia
Weeuh.. I really feel for the guy, follow your heart. Some families are cruel, if hawamutaki and the lady hamtetei and shut off the family, ni zero work. The lady wants the guy and also akirudi back anamuachilia. The guy is neglected.
Waah Men do feel sad , and they have no people to pour the hearts to. I'm woman and can tell. Women have support from friends and family... Men never get the same support siñce they are told "Mwanaume ni kuvumilia"... please guys talk this issue over....
When a man opens up, the world must sit down to listen. Men go through a lot.
A lot of couples just need someone to talk to
Unfortunately the world does not care.
Men ooh men
Yes
True😢😢
Let this woman go, live your life in Peace!
Ooh Lord bless me with such kind of a man , i will make sure he has peace in jesus name
The man is seeking peace ,a place where he feels loved
This man has gone through a lot may God heal your heart 🙏🙏🙏
Mbona her family hawangecontibute for the befitting burial of their daughter or sister since wako sawa. Why are they hating on the guy yet they didn't come through at their lowest
Grief is a trick season, everyone mourns differently and it’s wrong to rubbish each other. They should give each other space to heal…
correct well said
This is a sad situation. How does this lady know the inner feelings of this man? Men too get depressed. People will never understand us truly. I feel sad
As a mother, a grandmother, I feel for you two. My thoughts this couple is going through a lot, propaganda from the wife's family, the man is deeply hurting, how can the wife be there I love you and you denying him his wifey duties, you can't cook, or wash clothes for him?? What more are you denying him? You don't converse with him, any woman who wants to lose his man or get him out of her life should try this. Your family is wrong gal, who sacrifices their child for what? Men grieve in different ways but they just hurt as much, women will grieve loudly, breakdown. It is not too late, you two need counselling, to move on past the loss of your son, and rebuild your lives and marriage. You have a good, respectable man, don't lose him, there lots of women out here waiting for a man like him. Praying for you guys, may God salvage your marriage, and bless you with children and finances. May there be laughter and happiness in your home, this Safi or whatever, has done her part and is now in the past. Love you guys. Hugs.
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Him drinking was a way to numb the pain. He is also going through the same pain, be gracious. She clearly poisoned her family against him, she is even missing the point, she will lose him completely if she doesn't start being sensitive to his needs. She is throwing her man under the bus to her family and should care about what her family says about him. Her and her whole family are toxic, keep it moving.
Imagine carrying your own dead child in your arms for 8hrs. Let that sink in heartbreaking beyond words.
So painful 😢
This is beyond imagination
Waah,
to have that sacrifice mindset... maybe she's the one who sacrificed the kid
Uchungu saana happened to me 2013😂😂😂😂😂
Have learnt through this channel that communication is very important..People dnt communication in their relationships with the assumption of the other partner should understand..
Bro!!!! your patience is on another level. I would have left that marriage like yesterday. May God give you peace and wisdom in all this. Thanks Steve for helping a brother speak out. God bless you.
a case of soul tie here
The man should move on like yesterday.
Unaendelea kukaa, making it seem like ni wewe umemfunga bibi. Move on young man.
Na bibi, u too move on, enda upate mtoto na someone anaetaka mtoto km. wewe. Or, zaa na mtu na ujiendee, it doesn't hv to b this one.
sure i have felt for the man too and am a lady, its heartbreaking
😂😂😂😂😂😂
This the nairobian left outs......wako njaa bt still can't show their hunger n still don't want to hunt...bruh bachelor in life consultancy and explainancy kila tym.....maisha ndo ii Sasa.
This guy is a family man bro you have taught me a lot
Man I feel your pain,rejection.dont force bro,walk out bro
Exactly
Who said that God can't bless....
Shetani tu ndiye ana properties!!!! God's timing is the BEST💪✌️
Bro i feel you..
Just go ahead and marry huyo asafi...dont entertain disrespect..its painful😢😢
Which disrespect surely??
The lady lacks emotional intelligence. How do you expect a man to feel if he's rejected by your family? Peace of mind and acceptance are the greatest assets people yearn for in a relationship. Without them, hapo mtu atakesha akiwa restless.
I am not justifying whatever is being shared by either party on this clip. However very many ladies go through lots of rejection from the families they are married into but they still remain faithful to their spouses.
I feel for this man rejection is a painful thing and people mourn differently
😅😅😂😅😅😂😅❤😅❤❤❤😂😅
I just love how Steve listens as his clients pour their hearts out without interrupting... This man is really hurting 😭😭😭 He's not perfect but rejection hurts to the core.
This guy is so correct, never impregnate woman whose parents don't respect you,let such rejection impregnate her.
Let them continue thinking what they think,move on guy this won't work.
A parson who sees evil in you earlier cant see good spirit in you later.
Amen
Kabisa
True
Absolutely
Exactly. You hit the nail on the head.
Enyewe people are going through a lot kwa hizi streets BMS continue because our brothers are going through a lot they have no one to listen to them, bro jitoe keep Sifa
This is one of the longest episode from comrades/flavor 001. 1hr for the guy opening up... I can feel your pain bro😢😢 Men deserves to be heard out too.
i understand the man fully, you can never live somewhere your rejected , you have to walk out bro..
The Grace of carrying a dead kid in your arms is on another level 😢😢😢😢😢
Aki nimeumia😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Nani alibeba mtoi..sijaskia hiyo
@@ericrakamba7572 that lady.....wifee
Waaah.....this is a man and a half!! Respect 🙏
I feel for this man ,that rejection is in another level
Indeed Big Man you're a blessing
You always come into people's lives when they're almost giving up
God bless you for opening a channel to where people can come and open up...
Some ladies are lucky but they don't see the blessing,,,,, watching it washed away!!! Go boy child,,,,,,,,you will find safe hands.
I wish I got such a family man
This man has persevered alot he really needed someone to come talk to.
U never say a man doesn't feel any anything after loosing their lovedones ...THAT IS SO WRONG😢...the way i love my 2yrs old daughter if at all there was a machine to measure the amount of love people would think im the mother coz i can bet with my mother's soul that the love i carry for my daughter is more than what my wife has...SHE WILL FOREVER BE A DADDYS GAL❤❤❤
Woow i love this comment i hope God blesses us with another child than the one we lost my husband really loved her. Even though he never got to hold her alive but her loss really affected him. And hthe way he treated me during the pregnancy proves he will be the best daddy to our kids
😢😢
People have issues out there.
Thank you Steve for giving this couple an ear 🙏🙏
An EAR, please.
@@gerrytushh😂😂
Passed through this with my hubby two years ago 😢. Its not easy 😢😢😢na mtu akumbushe huyu mamaa that kifo ya mtoi sio dirty linen, its a reality that many people face and mist are free to share in public
This is very touching, Stevo back ground noises(try to consider your viewers?) otherwise...you have done the biggest favour to that Man.
I felt his pain all the way from 🇬🇧.
Hii iko sawa Kuna zingine wee
This man loves his wife but the problem is family members.Dem ange fight for his man kama anawasupport this man is going through alot😢.let him move on.hasijaribu kuzaa.
I commented in another episode in this show that, Marriage means PROTECTION of one another from outside interference including from family members. Once you notice your partner is not protecting you from their relatives, that’s a red flag of showing you that, Love has shrunk or no more. I’m I right? Please comment for me.
Very right😅
The man needed someone to talk to for real.
Kupika is enough excuse for someone to have a female friend who in due time becomes more than a friend. That's why men are close to their moms. And don't come to me with the manipulating and cliche Mama's boy line. There's absolutely no shame in any man sharing a healthy bond with his mother. That aside, men are attracted to reasonable women. Peaceful. Whatever happens, I want a woman who gives me reason to yearn to return home, a peaceful home. He's such an honest soul. Keep your head up bruv!
Do you help your woman in the house? Ama because she's wife she should carry out motherly duties na wewe hata sahani kama hayuko you can't wash until she comes does everything wash cook clean..I agree men should be respected and cared for but most men don't help in the house she's a wife not slave or your mother who can do it without getting tired...let me ask yes its good to be close to your mum and also women should be caring old fashioned however are you those type of mama boy that don't even assist with house work wewe ni breakfast lunch dinner
Ohhh my!!!!!
Ni wengi wanatamani hubby wa kupenda family za wife but hawana
My size you got one but rejecting,,,utaumia manzeeee.
As men too we also need a safe haven,just to vent out.A place where you can talk,just talk.Someone you can talk n understand you.That is what satisfy even more than property,money,kids,a place of peace and where you feel appreciated n respected.Every man needs that.I feel this man.He's my twin, going what am going through.
It's good to hear you say this,men always thought expressing emotions and feelings was being weak .
I am raising a son who I always teach him to express himself!!
It's ok not to be ok.
We are all human!!
May you find that safe haven bro❤
Very Thoughtfully thanks
I am a woman, a mother, a grandmother, I concur with you. Men grieve in different ways, these two need therapy, they need to see a counselor. The wife has aided in the man looking for solace elsewhere.
Thanks Steve for this show you are God’s sent at least meeting with this 2has help them to open up
This guy is sweet and so composed,a family man as well... please walk away Young Man..I went through that inlaw rejection is so traumatizing, my husband did exactly this to me with his family.. to unextend of telling his family about me, introducing his side chick to his family, unfortunately death took him ..
The man is telling the truth ❤
Even me I go through that
Poleni sna.. God is control
Sorry man
there is God in heaven
Toka man
Na bado umekaa kwa hiyo situation? Ondokea
May God heal this guy he is going through alot
God bless you Steve..you bring healing to people.
This man is deeply hurted, he is honestly going through alot 😢
This lady is the type that believes she's always right, and the man is wrong.
She says the man MARRIED HER, and not her family, hence should not care about the rejection by the parents and the wife's siblings. Yet she BELIEVES (just like her parents do) that this man SACRIFICED his child. Moreover she doesn't even defend her husband against those OUTRAGEOUS ACCUSATIONS!
Man, run for the hills!
❤❤ What if he did??
@@jonesjois3169 what if he didn't 😊 for her parents n her to have that sacrifice mindset maybe its the lady who did the sacrifice thing🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
@@jonesjois3169
"What if he did", you ask? Good question. Maybe he did...; we have all manner of weird tribes in this country:
1. Some eat dead human bodies
2. Others will kill one of the children in a twins birth
3. Still others eliminate a child born out of incestuous sex relationship
4. Blah, blah...
But I guess we will never know, and only the man knows the actual truth.
Either way, these two DON'T BELONG TOGETHER; he should walk away, and she should go back to her parents and siblings, and they can all revel in the sacrifice conspiracy for ever and ever.
Her expecting him to give her another child while her family is bent to frustrating the man is way below the belt, this two can't be together given the situation from the in laws.
@@jonesjois3169 ulikuwa? Your if sounds more of a feminism idea than logic. I it was the woman taken to the slaughter house would your opinion remain the same.just saying
I feel for this man indeed🫂....i now conquer tht men settle where there is PEACE ❤
100%
This guy needed a shoulder to learn on and thats y he got the second lady who will understand him and respect him
In-laws !!!!!!!! always respect what God have given you son or daughter before you take any actions you hear
Man,walk away,may God give you your better half.Gi where you are appreciated and respected
Some men have got resilience 😢😢😢 this woman should know people's are not angels ... speak out what you feel. He is your husband for God's sake
Human beings are big pretenders and hypocrites...may this guy heal😢😢
I feel the pain this man is going through rejection😭
Heheh, this woman is treating this man so badly and expects him to just love her. Wanawake hata sisi jameni...Good job boy child!
Bro my advice!!!!! choose yourself. Almost had a similler story and choosing me was my best lifetime choice. All the best
i feel for the man, this woman should have protected her husband from her family but its like anakubaliana na wao.
Road to a million subscribers BMS. We love you 💕❤❤❤❤❤
Aki in-laws can be so wicked and heartless. My late dad always told us that before you marry please get to know their family
Please thank your dad even in grave 🪦 he was a Solomon of your house.
But you can't know people enough. .
@@ogangooliver8273true.. human beings are full of surprises
@@ogangooliver8273 yes you can know them enough to want association or not...this thing of your marrying your partner not his family is a myth
what q handsome, gentle,tall loving, caring guy..in a wrong relationship and toxic in-laws
From experience,people grief differently.its 7yrs after the loss of our daughter and my husband has never discussed it.we have 2 more kids and life moves on
Aiyah same case here.....hata story or reference don't
It's been 12 years since the loss of my one and only brother and my father has never even mentioned anything about him..not even his name. Until recently when I gave birth and he asked me why I didn't name my son after my brother and I heard him call my son "George"(my brother's name) wakicheza cheza... people grief differently
A lady who can't support her husband is like a wound which can't heal😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
may God bless this man and open the door for Him the more...
He is still mourning that’s why he doesn’t want a kid it’s traumatic carrying your kid for that long it heartbreaking 💔
Married people have hidden issues but come out when they meet BMS!
Imagine when someone want to be listened to,they are given a bad reception.
I would defend my husband no matter what... this lady Lacks emotional intelligence.... this man has patience...Man go where you are Celebrated!!!am also trying to understand this lady
This lady isn't sensitive to what the man is going through.She's listening and acting to what the family is telling her,from removing him from the group, reversing the money and here she's defensive of her family.Accusing him of everything they are going through
True I feel for this man
That man should leave her .. she'll come to regret it wacha aolewe na maskini wanataka
Very true
I feel for him, the lady angeprotect her man,
The lady is very irrelevant 😢
I've always been to the ladies side but for this situation I feel the man's pain ....so heartbreaking
It’s very painful to be in a relationship with a “nerd”. I feel you man! It’s not your fault they forced you into this situation! You are a great man and a family man but it takes two to tangle! Mens’ emotions and feelings have been overlooked for so long while they die inside. Asafi is the way to go. All the best dude
What?? You clearly don't know the meaning of the word nerd. Google it. Nerd means a book worm.
@@Simba_tano GREAT!👍🏾
@@Simba_tano
And you don't know what NERD means either. Go on, GOOGLE IT; it's the least you should do if your aim is to CORRECT someone. 😏
@@mrjnutube you're a dweep. Nerd = dork. Both used to demean someone as a boring book worm with no social life. Come to the US and use your village version of nerd then see how that turns out.
@@Simba_tanoooh no he is correct😅 by what he means
for sure, this is really touching. true we cry differently. this dame.......every one knows am married,,,
As you pray to Marry a good partner, don't forget to pray to Marry in a good family..Some Families are CRUEL and EVIL😢
To pray to God or marry????
@@zaidiissa3714 Re- read the statement and understand 🫂
Very very true some families are evil
True😢
Very true mostly luos
Im so sorry for what you went through. You are a good man and you deserve to be loved.
I feel for this man, I was also in such a situation with a luhya lady too. I had to leave. Rejection until they looked for a man to marry their daughter while still I was leaving with their daughter.
So sad💔
@sarahmoraa1651 yeah, it's traumatising, you even lose interest in ladies
This guy is so calm...he deserves better...awachane na huyu Bibi Tu juu she's not going to change any soon
Asafi gave these man a shoulder to lean on but may God intervain
This woma is the one who would defend the husband. It seems alichangia maongezi ya familia that this man alisacrifice mtoi, This man is hurting after all that hata nguvu za kuzalisha tena atoe wapi hana haja if the woman famiky rejects him
This has really cought me unaware. The rejection from the in-laws is insane. I think the worst feeling in the world is the rejection feeling..so painful indeed
Carrying your own dead child made me shed 😢😢 Mey God take you through
The two should part ways ,they have irreversible differences
Let this man find his own peace bruv….let him walk away 😢😢😢😢
How can he have another child while he feels so regrettable 😢
May they both heal.
For me men always go where they find peace, respect and appreciated. Asafi come for your man🎉 you won a gentlemans heart. And you deserve him
This couple needs therapy as soon as possible. They’re both processing the loss of their child in different ways. Getting another child does not erase the fact that a child was lost. A new child cannot substitute the lost one. May the good Lord give them peace as they look for a way foward
Very true. I second this
women always think men have no feelings .. My friends we do .. we cry , we pray only that hamuonangi . pole bbaba
This man is passing through alot he need help .
This man has gone through a lot hugs bro.i feel your pain.leave her and move on
This Man is going through..if they can't appreciate you move go where you get peace..and don't be sorry if I get my own Man I will fight for him with all I have.
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He should have moved long time ago😢😢😢😢😢😢
These man is so hurt,both families should be happy for your marriage,if not it will never go far,,,young man just move on with your life.
Such wild allegations from the lady's family can be disturbing to the guy it makes him phobic to having another baby.
So painfull show,kazi fiti bigman stivo.letA part 2
Bro I feel ur pain koz have gone through such! Very painful 😣😣
people are going through alot but may God see us through everything
I am sure they're both suffering from the grief of loosing the baby. Shida huyu mzee alienda kucheat badala ya kuseek help. Kuna big issue kwa familia
Steve help this guy consoling he's in pain for real hugs bro
THAT FAMILY HAS POVERTY MENTALITY JUST LEAVE HER AND GET A WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN YOUR HARD WORK AND SUPPORTS YOU
Exactly,,
True
Exactly 💯
Ukweli
Lady is primitive. Very primitive.
bro walk away from this woman,, you deserve better
Weeuh.. I really feel for the guy, follow your heart. Some families are cruel, if hawamutaki and the lady hamtetei and shut off the family, ni zero work. The lady wants the guy and also akirudi back anamuachilia. The guy is neglected.
Waah Men do feel sad , and they have no people to pour the hearts to. I'm woman and can tell. Women have support from friends and family... Men never get the same support siñce they are told "Mwanaume ni kuvumilia"... please guys talk this issue over....
Mjamaa run run run this family hates you.Action speaks louder than words.
The lady has broken her own marriage, and it's tough outside there. Kupata mume mwingine ni ngumu.
Am sorry for what you went through may God see you through and make a way where there seems to be no way.
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Rejection is painful😢I feel for this man