Abusers will try to isolate You from Your friends and families so they can abuse You. This part hit me so hard. Thank You for this wonderful piece 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Not everyone who divorces is a bad person 🙂🙂
I can really relate with this movie. Seeing my mother go through domestic abuse, I made up my mind not to ever marry. That if i ever married I was going to be so hard on the man that he would be afraid of me. This was to avoid being abused. God helped me later in life as I gave Him my life. Today I am married to a wonderful man who has never laid a hand on me for years now.
Imagine you giving your traumatic self in marriage you will just be frustrating the knnocent guy. Thank God for your life o. Na most of una dey take una hand spoil una marriage
Amen! God is able to deliver us from our fears and pain. Unfortunately most people in the world have experienced some kind of trauma. When it's not us, it's the persons close to us that causes the fears to be driven. Sometimes it's bad parenting or even people who are called friend. We all need healing as there is always someone to cause pain. ❤
So much to learn from this movie... Men too can be abused, abuse is not gender based, abuser is not gender based. How can we make this movie go viral guys... Thank you @Ruth and team...
If you believe we are all alive because of his glory and mercy like this comment and your life will never be the same yes 🙌🏼 your life will never be the same much love Ruth 🎉❤
I have never been this angry with Ruth😂😂. I was on the edge and wanted to slap Ruth through my phone😂😂. Good job Mama Ruth👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. You have done it again👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Hmm I’ve really learnt a lot from this movie when a woman says she’s being abused nobody believes the man even his own sister turnt against him … it’s really sad but this is a reality that most men go through.. same way when a man is beaten by his wife or a woman society sees him to be a weakling…this is a great movie thank you mama Ruth 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
A great story of happenings in some marriages. I absolutely disagree that most men go through this torture though. It is a CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR, NARCISSISTIC also.The victim must seek assist and not be afraid or ashamed to tell others outside of the home and seek HELP!
Even if you have to remarry 10 times just to get it right, please do. Never listen to what people outside would say. It is only a person who wears the shoes that knows where it pinches him. Great story line. Great actors. Great movie. I was glued all through.
This is exactly what some men are going through in there marriage,oh my 😢😢😢😢 some times is not only women that is the victim men are also going through a lot, this is a master piece, the cast and crew did a great job ❤
This is a mental condition and happens not only in marriages. I am a mental health nurse and we have patients with this and even worse. You have people that self-harm and won’t stop until they see 🩸
In Zambia, I am not sure even the nicest man can tolerate even a quarter of the nonsense in this script. How on earth can a man with even just 2 senses stay with a woman who OPENLY fake beatings? Nay, if there are women like this somewhere, I am afraid there is something wrong with the society!
Thanks for your perspective review on the movie. Really necessary storyline line. It's the evil manipulation and narcissistic behavior of those around them that baffles me. So surprised at the sister to believe that her brother whom she's known all her life is capable of such actions. DV can go both ways. Save your lives and leave. God bless,thank you.🙏🏼
People are missing one vital lesson from this movie: allowing children to live in and through dysfunctional relationships, or living with adults who watch silently, defend, or belittle dysfunctional behaviours in relationships, can change or mould children who are in or witness these relationships; they can build dysfunctional behaviours to protect themselves, emulate the dysfunction they experience or witness in their future lives or relationships, make them sensitive and over There may be some good aspects to living in dysfunctional conditions, such as learning the indications of bad connections and refraining from them, fortitude, and resilience in adverse situations, but even with these benefits, there are always one or more negatives associated with these situations in a person who comes from a dysfunctional family. Let's alter the narrative for future generations. Hanging on is not always a good idea.
Such a great movie as we celebrate man's mental health month. A lot of man are going through abuse in marriage and society seems to not be ready for this conversation. Dezathegreat really played his character so well. Good man do exist and so do abusive woman. Thanks Ruth Kadiri for such a timely yet lesson packed movie.
I like the fact that he didn't listen to his wife excuses but sent her packing. It's a psychological issue, she built herself to what she is and no amount of love or patience from her husband can change her. She sees her monster father in her husband so she'll always treat him as an object of vengeance until she goes through rehab. So many men are going through this right now but few or nobody will believe them even if they decide to share their stories. The best thing for anybody going through this kind of relationship is to just leave even if it is your 10th marriage. Forget about what the society will say about you. You alone knows exactly where the shoe pinches so run for your dear life Sis Ruth thank you for this beautiful story 🙏. Deza got me emotional when he was trying to tell everyone but nobody believed him, even his sister 😭
Exactly, so many people are bleeding on the people who didn't cut them, people are sick mentally due to their traumatic events in their childhood.. before you marry someone, make sure they're mentally fit, because even the kids who will be involved from your union will suffer from what they don't know and the cycle continues
Nowadays its rare to come in the comment section and read something about the movie itself 😢btw great story line, this is what some men are going through.
Seriously 😢 I don’t even know why we watch this movie… is it not too share experience on comment section, Now it’s full of people who want to experience their nonsense behavior of likes
I'm Ghanaian and a big fan of Madam Ruth . I was not really a fan of youtube movies but my perspective changed after I came across her channel !!!! God bless you madam Kadiri and I guess I'm now a member!!!!😊❤😊❤
Imagine i got angry 😢 You nailed the role Ruth Our background really affects the present. The trauma gets to us. Most of us we're never healed and we end up hurting innocent souls. May we all heal❤
Abuse on men is not spoken as that of women,but it happens everyday infact i have seen one,the man abandoned the abusive wife and travelled abroad,and has refused to do paper for his wife that marriage became a distance one till date. And another one the husband asked the wife to see a psychologist that he thinks she needs help,so this film is soo relatable and insightful.
This thing is in the nature of so many women. Tolerate them and they'll start misbehaving. This woman has been pretending all along waiting for the guy to marry her. She's manipulative wicked and ungrateful.
The man traveling abroad was a good decision l like what he did let the wife abuse herself now. For the movie I think the husband is afraid to leave the marriage because of what society will say considering that this is his 3rd marriage
The theme for this movie is spot on!! So many people are in relationship with manipulative and emotionally abusive partners and do not know what to do. Issues related to mental health and post traumatic stress disorder (ptsd) need to be reoccurring themes in Nollywood. The execution of the story was amazing. Kudos to Ruth, Deza, and cast!❤
I'm so tired about to go to bed after a very tiring day then boom the notification came and here I am wide awake watching 😊😊😊. Watching all the way from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 fellow Zimbabweans are you here❤??
God bless you ma'am for this movie. Lots of men are going through abusive marriage and nobody is saying anything about it. I ran into a program on Facebook where the abusive wife charged the husband to court for running away from home and abandoning them. When the man started narrating his ordeals, how the woman will beat him. People started laughing in the court, meanwhile if it were to be a woman that says that. You will see how people will frown at it and will almost want to stone him to death. This is an eye opener. Lots of abusive people have experiences with their parents and they brought the trauma into their marriage hence making them to misbehave. This is exactly how narcissists behave. Kudos to the crew , you did a great job. More grace to you all in Jesus name
Ruth and Deza are my favorite husband and wife couple in Ruth's movies. They understands the Assignment and absolutely 💯💯💯 delivers! Ruth is HER and Deza is HIM! Simply the Best at their craft. Mental Health and Domestic Violence are two of the most serious Crimes in our Community! Great job bringing this to the forefront! Great Movie it's a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
This movie is giving bipolar in African homes and Narcissistic abuse - Thank you Queen Ruth❣️As a mental health practitioner it can be very difficult identifying symptoms in black communities so this exposure is simply great and I love even more the flipped roles cus often the story is the other way round. it is wrong for both males sand females to experience such torture. Bravo 👏🏽
If you have any childhood traumas, see a therapist before going into marriage or any serious relationships, seriously! there won’t be any justification for your actions, all you will be left with is regrets. Good job as always❤
From January upto now we are still breathing again because of His Grace and mercy upon our lives so take a minute to thank Him for the gift 🎁 of life He has given to us ❤️ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wow Wow Wow excellent movie everyone needs to see this movie. I couldn't stop crying so well put together All I can exclaim is Wow.❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
Thank you Aunty RK and Team. This movie deserves more attention . The message here is to not believe everything you hear about people, how people treat you doesn't define you and it's important to address your childhood trauma because it can affect your adulthood. A lot of us are fighting silent battles that we can't speak to anyone about. I'm currently dealing with smear campaign and gangstalking and everyone thinks am paranoid. If you're someone dealing with it, try as much as possible to remain calm and don't react. Also, do things that uplift your spirit and trust that one day everything in the dark will come to light.
Love everything about the movie, sis Ruth thank you for teaching or opening the eyes of our societies. We always think women are the only victims but are too. Let us marry for the right reasons and involve God in it.
It was really good to see another side of Deza the great usually he plays the rude,bad boy I really enjoyed seeing him emotional he is indeed great😊😊😊😊...it's sad to see how some past luggage can destroy our present and future ...really nice movie
Nice lesson. Am glad she was divorced. Let her go and take revenge on her late father and her sister's ex-husband. People need to stop making excuses for their bad behaviors. I always say one marriage is enough especially if kids are involved, if you had a bad experience, but if death did you part, then it's ok to remarry. Kudos 👏
Where is the part about doing therapy? His divorces means he needs to do counselling before. As he himself has a problem for his choices and not ensuring that he is equally yoked with his partners 😊s
Where are my Sierra Leonean 🇸🇱🇸🇱and also my 😊❤❤Kuwait 🇰🇼 family, please let gather here and take some grand nut 🥜 en enjoy this movie, thanks to mama Ruth kadri and her team
May we all marry our best friend, never marry out of pity or thinking you getting old or peer pressure Please stand for what you want.❤❤ Many are dying in their marriages because of this,silence kills please talk 👄 in your marriages .Always stand for the TRUTH
Good one mama Ruth ,i love the way this movie exposes that so many men go through toxic marriage and also been abused by their wives too, may God heal marriages 🙏, nice and Educative movie.
When he said this man right here is broken, that's how I feel at the moment. Unfortunate how good people suffer in the hands of a narcissistic partner and eventually turn out to become the victim. I know how exactly how it feels cos that's what my partner ended up making me look like after 17 years of pain. I am on my healing journey and been a better person is the goal. Well done Ruth and her team I'm seriously addicted and there are no regrets. I love you Mama Ruth.
I swear my sister am passing through this stuff right now is not easy at all my husband is a living beast he will destroy you and still play the victim
What a beautiful movie to watch....an eye-opener to so many things that goes on in marriage. Thank you as always, Mama Ruth kadiri, for these educating movies ❤❤
God please heal every man going through any toxicity in their marriages. Give them the heart to walk away and provide an escape root before its too late. Amen!
You see toxicity and abusive home, my hands and legs no dey there, count me out, I can't stand it talkless of fixing it. People are really passing through hell, marital blackmailing is real, the message was clear enough 🎉🎉🎉.
Omoooooo this movie ehn! Please let’s learn to deal with whatever past trauma or fears we might have experienced before we settle down and traumatize those we claim to love with the same trauma
Just imagine their reaction finding out the truth imagine if the man had taken his life out of depression. My goodness this is deep thank you for this story line… men speak up you deserve to be heard too
An applaud to all those that have watched this movie,your sense of maturity is outstanding,I actually learned a lot about and from the movie from your comments,not that gather here,I’m here for such and such,nobody has liked my comment and so on….,thx so much.
There's a lot to learn from this movie..... parents forget that their children learn from their own marriages because they look up to them . I pray everyone silently going through any for of abuse or trauma heals / gets help 🙏 ❤️. Sending you lots of love ❤️.
See me see whahala. This movie tire me. I said uh then what then wait who does this. I guess the lessons that the movie was aiming to potray was well executed but my oh my. Fans of The Great Deza himself 🍻🥂, let's gather here and show him some ❤️, and give him a big 👍🏽. The man that can calmly take all the excesses from a woman 👍🏾. Well done guys.
To any man going through this, always remember that you're enough. I pray God gives you the strength, grace and wisdom to walk away from any toxic relationship or marriage 🙏.
Wow so educational I really learn alot from this movie I swear that's why I don't missed any of your movies I make sure I watch Dem even if I don't have data I will borrow just to watch your movies.❤❤ I love you aunty Ruth kadiri
Just finished the movie 😢🥺 I lost my brother last year 26 December, and he committed suicide 💔 abuse, depression and mental health issues are real, break-up from toxic relationships pls!!! Mama Ruth this movie touched me to day Love is beautiful let's appreciate it when it comes our way ♥️
Ruth played the part with such great passion, Deza did a super phenomenal job! 💯 Well done to RuthKadiri247 cast and crew, you guys always deliver superb content! 👏🏼
Dont stay in a toxic relationship for too long... I can relate this story...I lost my cousin... His girlfriend was mentally disturb... He was being threatened by the girlfriend,he lost his life... He was not paying attention... To the threats... So one night they had bad argument... Then my cousin went to bed...while he was sleep.... Little did he knew that was his last night...she was found dead sitted totally burnt, she started a fire, and she was three months pregnant 🫄.my cousin died on his sleep..he was burned badly😞This is real.... Never take the words they say lightly...
@@joycenakamba2846 there are small sily things... Like when they say... Wewe siku moja nitakukata na kisu. One day he or she will do it... Especially if he or she has being saying these for sometime... And you don't take it seriously.
The people in Jide's life easily allowed themselves to be manipulated to hate him. This movie teaches that when there is an issue on ground between two people, it is always good to hear from both sides and try to get to the root of the matter before drawing your conclusion on who is wrong and who is right. Never be easily manipulated to take sides with any one without hearing from both individuals.
Narcissist can be very manipulative I've been with one you will not even know when they will separate you from your family and friend just pray to God never to meet one in your life time
Wow that's awesome this is another interesting movie nice one my lovely sister more grace and wins to you Dear I really enjoyed watching as always thanks ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
This storyline is nothing short but amazing 🎉 the cast member and the production team did a fantastic job on this one. Mama Ruth the baddest EP on planet, see ehh Thursdays are always worth the wait. I just can't wait to be featured as even waka pass or gate woman in your production bcuz Mama you na Star Maker and so humbly in your doings. Who God done bless no one can do otherwise. I love how you use your light 🌟 to empower others ✨️ to shine and share. God bless you and your platform RuthKadiri247 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Abeg 😢 God only you fit do this one for me! You are loved!
Educative and impactful movie 🎥 Honestly no one deserves to be in an abusive marriage or relationship. Ruth you really did well 💯 for giving out this best of production.infact you deserve an award. Deza Great is another incredible and amazing actor who doesn't mess up with his roles infact he nailed his role so perfectly 💯 his acting skills is just a topnotch ✅🥰 you are the best ❤
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Guys I nearly died four days ago and God come through for me 😢help me thank God😭🙌🙏🙏🙏
Glory to the name of the Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏾
Thank God for your life
Thank God for your life 🙏
Thank God for life❤
God thank you🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Abusers will try to isolate You from Your friends and families so they can abuse You. This part hit me so hard. Thank You for this wonderful piece 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Not everyone who divorces is a bad person 🙂🙂
I'm touched by your words
Yes
You're so true 😢
U have said it all
True
I can really relate with this movie. Seeing my mother go through domestic abuse, I made up my mind not to ever marry. That if i ever married I was going to be so hard on the man that he would be afraid of me. This was to avoid being abused. God helped me later in life as I gave Him my life. Today I am married to a wonderful man who has never laid a hand on me for years now.
Imagine you giving your traumatic self in marriage you will just be frustrating the knnocent guy. Thank God for your life o. Na most of una dey take una hand spoil una marriage
Carry truma all around. They are your parents you really can’t choose them 🤷♀️
Am so happy for you ma
Amen! God is able to deliver us from our fears and pain. Unfortunately most people in the world have experienced some kind of trauma. When it's not us, it's the persons close to us that causes the fears to be driven. Sometimes it's bad parenting or even people who are called friend. We all need healing as there is always someone to cause pain. ❤
God bless your marriage 🙏
So much to learn from this movie... Men too can be abused, abuse is not gender based, abuser is not gender based.
How can we make this movie go viral guys...
Thank you @Ruth and team...
If you believe we are all alive because of his glory and mercy like this comment and your life will never be the same yes 🙌🏼 your life will never be the same much love Ruth 🎉❤
Haven't you done enough with this your rubbish watch the movie and stop this madness
@@AfiaGodwin36 smh white elephant 💔😹
Fake spirituality...
@@AfiaGodwin36 lollllll
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I have never been this angry with Ruth😂😂. I was on the edge and wanted to slap Ruth through my phone😂😂. Good job Mama Ruth👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. You have done it again👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
😂😂😂😂😂 That's because you forgot that all Ruth's movies comes with a lesson to learn and beware of. I think most of her fans wasn't ready for this one.
@@HolyPrettyYou so right😂😂😂. I wasn’t ready at all, but it was definitely a great lesson.
Go watch crazy Matilda, and check her out too I was boiling with anger 😢😢😢😢
Same here
Me too am very angry 😡 with her as if is it in life 😂😂😂😂
This is legit what some men are going through in their marriages, but no one believes them. Ruth never disappoints with her movies. 👍
Exactly
My brother is going through the same mess.....
Hmm I’ve really learnt a lot from this movie when a woman says she’s being abused nobody believes the man even his own sister turnt against him … it’s really sad but this is a reality that most men go through.. same way when a man is beaten by his wife or a woman society sees him to be a weakling…this is a great movie thank you mama Ruth 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
That’s so sad to see your own sister don’t believe u the is wicked she went him to go to jail she did it herself
A great story of happenings in some marriages. I absolutely disagree that most men go through this torture though. It is a CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR, NARCISSISTIC also.The victim must seek assist and not be afraid or ashamed to tell others outside of the home and seek HELP!
Even if you have to remarry 10 times just to get it right, please do. Never listen to what people outside would say. It is only a person who wears the shoes that knows where it pinches him.
Great story line. Great actors. Great movie. I was glued all through.
Ruth kadiri you were a boring soul in this movie.. 😅
@@chisomomwakifuna7584 normally, that guy should never remarry again after the shege he received from @Ruth Kadiri
10 times?stop playing 😂
This is exactly what some men are going through in there marriage,oh my 😢😢😢😢 some times is not only women that is the victim men are also going through a lot, this is a master piece, the cast and crew did a great job ❤
Yes I agree with you ❤❤❤
This is a mental condition and happens not only in marriages. I am a mental health nurse and we have patients with this and even worse. You have people that self-harm and won’t stop until they see 🩸
@@joychigo1952really 😮😮😮
Seriously 😢 like women we need to heal, Heal from the disfunctionality, heal from the broken home experience 💔 Omo such an interesting movie
Very bad
So this is What some Men Go through silently in Marriages..ooh Lord Heal Men who Cry in silent Amen 🙏..
My brother went through this to a point he will come to my house to stay with me. No one believe him until he suffered from stroke😢
@Baby_Reatile. Sorry to hear that
In Zambia, I am not sure even the nicest man can tolerate even a quarter of the nonsense in this script. How on earth can a man with even just 2 senses stay with a woman who OPENLY fake beatings? Nay, if there are women like this somewhere, I am afraid there is something wrong with the society!
Thanks for your perspective review on the movie. Really necessary storyline line. It's the evil manipulation and narcissistic behavior of those around them that baffles me. So surprised at the sister to believe that her brother whom she's known all her life is capable of such actions. DV can go both ways. Save your lives and leave. God bless,thank you.🙏🏼
Do men really go through madness like this😮
Love you mama Ruth you are the best producer ever since I start watching your movie I never get enough of it .Good job lessons learned
There is always a lesson to learn from Ruth Kadiri's movies. She is moral oriented
I swear 🥰
Always
This movie is going to give alot of couples/siblings and friends a lesson.much love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
People are missing one vital lesson from this movie: allowing children to live in and through dysfunctional relationships, or living with adults who watch silently, defend, or belittle dysfunctional behaviours in relationships, can change or mould children who are in or witness these relationships; they can build dysfunctional behaviours to protect themselves, emulate the dysfunction they experience or witness in their future lives or relationships, make them sensitive and over There may be some good aspects to living in dysfunctional conditions, such as learning the indications of bad connections and refraining from them, fortitude, and resilience in adverse situations, but even with these benefits, there are always one or more negatives associated with these situations in a person who comes from a dysfunctional family. Let's alter the narrative for future generations. Hanging on is not always a good idea.
A least have camera around house
Such a great movie as we celebrate man's mental health month. A lot of man are going through abuse in marriage and society seems to not be ready for this conversation. Dezathegreat really played his character so well. Good man do exist and so do abusive woman. Thanks Ruth Kadiri for such a timely yet lesson packed movie.
To every hand that touch this comment... may blessings upon blessings be your portion forever 🤲
Amen 🙏🏾🤲🏽🙌🏽
Amen
❤❤❤ Amen
Amen 🙏 and Amen, same to you too
AMEN
Watching from South Africa and I'm here for my faves deza the great and mama Ruth u are the best thumbs up
I like the fact that he didn't listen to his wife excuses but sent her packing. It's a psychological issue, she built herself to what she is and no amount of love or patience from her husband can change her. She sees her monster father in her husband so she'll always treat him as an object of vengeance until she goes through rehab.
So many men are going through this right now but few or nobody will believe them even if they decide to share their stories. The best thing for anybody going through this kind of relationship is to just leave even if it is your 10th marriage. Forget about what the society will say about you. You alone knows exactly where the shoe pinches so run for your dear life
Sis Ruth thank you for this beautiful story 🙏. Deza got me emotional when he was trying to tell everyone but nobody believed him, even his sister 😭
I couldn't agree more! 💯💯 I can't add anything else. Your sentiments are very correct and profound!
I cried sef. I felt so sorry for him
Wow you are amazingly talented in your perspective 😢 you summed it perfectly, thank you 🙏🏾
Exactly, so many people are bleeding on the people who didn't cut them, people are sick mentally due to their traumatic events in their childhood.. before you marry someone, make sure they're mentally fit, because even the kids who will be involved from your union will suffer from what they don't know and the cycle continues
I cried 😢 thank you for this comment
Any gender can be an abuser
Nowadays its rare to come in the comment section and read something about the movie itself 😢btw great story line, this is what some men are going through.
Seriously 😢 I don’t even know why we watch this movie… is it not too share experience on comment section, Now it’s full of people who want to experience their nonsense behavior of likes
Its so so annoying. I thought I was the only that gets pain about this. I wonder what they gain with all this rubbish comments
rubbish comments, if you know , if you like, if you left , if you BLA BLA BLA 🚮🚮🚮
And it's so annoying, people busy saying something else,kiss my comment do this do that,what is that aaargh
It won't be nice to soil it for others na
Let them feel every suspense and get the full experience.
No spoilers allowed😂
This movie for me is a 10/10. Ruth never disappoints, more reason I can't stop watching her movies.
Ruth I almost forgot this is a movie 😢u really served my man Deza maximum shege, this is blackmail pro max, thanks though for this piece ❤
I'm Ghanaian and a big fan of Madam Ruth . I was not really a fan of youtube movies but my perspective changed after I came across her channel !!!! God bless you madam Kadiri and I guess I'm now a member!!!!😊❤😊❤
We welcome you, you have missed alot
😢😢😭😭😂😂wahala don come oooo
OMG this is so insightful. Great Actors and captivating storyline. Thank you Momma Ruth for sharing this valuable movie
Am addicted to ruth movies I swear.if u are watching right now thumb up 🤚🤚
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Me too, my sister said I must have shares with Ruth 😂😂😂
Addiction is real
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Imagine i got angry 😢
You nailed the role Ruth
Our background really affects the present. The trauma gets to us. Most of us we're never healed and we end up hurting innocent souls. May we all heal❤
You not the only one that get angry I got so irritated watching the way the wife behaves
I vex all through till the end of the movie. This is so provoking. But an eye-opening to us all. Thank you @Ruth Kadiri & Team
Abuse on men is not spoken as that of women,but it happens everyday infact i have seen one,the man abandoned the abusive wife and travelled abroad,and has refused to do paper for his wife that marriage became a distance one till date. And another one the husband asked the wife to see a psychologist that he thinks she needs help,so this film is soo relatable and insightful.
He should just let things remain the way they are,from a distance.
This thing is in the nature of so many women. Tolerate them and they'll start misbehaving.
This woman has been pretending all along waiting for the guy to marry her. She's manipulative wicked and ungrateful.
The man traveling abroad was a good decision l like what he did let the wife abuse herself now.
For the movie I think the husband is afraid to leave the marriage because of what society will say considering that this is his 3rd marriage
The movie reminds me of johnny Depp (capt jacksparo )and the wife t was so hard to believe that Ts the lady who was abusing the man😭😭😭😭
@@munadavies3517men are never afraid of society in this case the woman was threatening him
NOT IN HOSPITAL
NOT IN JAIL
NOT IN BAD CONDITION LET'S GATHER WE GIVE GLORY BACK TO ALMIGHTY GOD 🙏 🙌
Thank you Jesus 🙏
All adorations be scribed unto your holy name.
Father God am deeply grateful 🥲
Lord I am grateful 🙏
I wish men could be bold enough to speak up in their abusive relationships. Everyone deserves to be happy . Kudos to the entire cast 👏
The music alone in all her movies gets me every time ❤🎉Thank u Ruth kadiri ❤❤
The theme for this movie is spot on!! So many people are in relationship with manipulative and emotionally abusive partners and do not know what to do. Issues related to mental health and post traumatic stress disorder (ptsd) need to be reoccurring themes in Nollywood. The execution of the story was amazing. Kudos to Ruth, Deza, and cast!❤
Deza and Ruth am here for you big up for this wonderful movie
I'm so tired about to go to bed after a very tiring day then boom the notification came and here I am wide awake watching 😊😊😊. Watching all the way from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 fellow Zimbabweans are you here❤??
God bless you ma'am for this movie. Lots of men are going through abusive marriage and nobody is saying anything about it. I ran into a program on Facebook where the abusive wife charged the husband to court for running away from home and abandoning them. When the man started narrating his ordeals, how the woman will beat him. People started laughing in the court, meanwhile if it were to be a woman that says that. You will see how people will frown at it and will almost want to stone him to death. This is an eye opener. Lots of abusive people have experiences with their parents and they brought the trauma into their marriage hence making them to misbehave. This is exactly how narcissists behave. Kudos to the crew , you did a great job. More grace to you all in Jesus name
The most painful thing in life is saying the truth without evidence.....nice movie 👏👏
Ruth and Deza are my favorite husband and wife couple in Ruth's movies. They understands the Assignment and absolutely 💯💯💯 delivers! Ruth is HER and Deza is HIM! Simply the Best at their craft. Mental Health and Domestic Violence are two of the most serious Crimes in our Community! Great job bringing this to the forefront! Great Movie it's a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
A CCTV camera should be the first thing to think about in a situation like this,nice movie❤
I swear 👍
Simple 👍
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You just said my mind
This movie is giving bipolar in African homes and Narcissistic abuse - Thank you Queen Ruth❣️As a mental health practitioner it can be very difficult identifying symptoms in black communities so this exposure is simply great and I love even more the flipped roles cus often the story is the other way round. it is wrong for both males sand females to experience such torture. Bravo 👏🏽
If you have any childhood traumas, see a therapist before going into marriage or any serious relationships, seriously! there won’t be any justification for your actions, all you will be left with is regrets. Good job as always❤
This is so sweet ❤❤
Such comments I like ❤❤❤
WOW good comment
From January upto now we are still breathing again because of His Grace and mercy upon our lives so take a minute to thank Him for the gift 🎁 of life He has given to us ❤️ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wow Wow Wow excellent movie everyone needs to see this movie. I couldn't stop crying so well put together All I can exclaim is Wow.❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
Big ups to Ruth Kadiri and Deza the great ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Thank you Aunty RK and Team. This movie deserves more attention . The message here is to not believe everything you hear about people, how people treat you doesn't define you and it's important to address your childhood trauma because it can affect your adulthood. A lot of us are fighting silent battles that we can't speak to anyone about. I'm currently dealing with smear campaign and gangstalking and everyone thinks am paranoid. If you're someone dealing with it, try as much as possible to remain calm and don't react. Also, do things that uplift your spirit and trust that one day everything in the dark will come to light.
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It’s official, Ruth Kadiri is best movie producer right now ❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌
You are right ❤
You can say that again😊😊
Love everything about the movie, sis Ruth thank you for teaching or opening the eyes of our societies. We always think women are the only victims but are too. Let us marry for the right reasons and involve God in it.
It was really good to see another side of Deza the great usually he plays the rude,bad boy I really enjoyed seeing him emotional he is indeed great😊😊😊😊...it's sad to see how some past luggage can destroy our present and future ...really nice movie
Nice lesson. Am glad she was divorced. Let her go and take revenge on her late father and her sister's ex-husband. People need to stop making excuses for their bad behaviors. I always say one marriage is enough especially if kids are involved, if you had a bad experience, but if death did you part, then it's ok to remarry. Kudos 👏
3 side to a story. His side, Her side and the truth
Where is the part about doing therapy? His divorces means he needs to do counselling before. As he himself has a problem for his choices and not ensuring that he is equally yoked with his partners 😊s
Deza my guy! Great acting
Where are my Sierra Leonean 🇸🇱🇸🇱and also my 😊❤❤Kuwait 🇰🇼 family, please let gather here and take some grand nut 🥜 en enjoy this movie, thanks to mama Ruth kadri and her team
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May we all marry our best friend, never marry out of pity or thinking you getting old or peer pressure
Please stand for what you want.❤❤
Many are dying in their marriages because of this,silence kills please talk 👄 in your marriages .Always stand for the TRUTH
Good one mama Ruth ,i love the way this movie exposes that so many men go through toxic marriage and also been abused by their wives too, may God heal marriages 🙏, nice and Educative movie.
I felt sad for the husband.. he just wanted to make it right after 2 failed marriages.. be it a man or woman, no one deserves to be abused.....
When he said this man right here is broken, that's how I feel at the moment. Unfortunate how good people suffer in the hands of a narcissistic partner and eventually turn out to become the victim. I know how exactly how it feels cos that's what my partner ended up making me look like after 17 years of pain. I am on my healing journey and been a better person is the goal.
Well done Ruth and her team I'm seriously addicted and there are no regrets. I love you Mama Ruth.
May you find a permanent healing. 😢
I swear my sister am passing through this stuff right now is not easy at all my husband is a living beast he will destroy you and still play the victim
May we never be in a silent killer's hand like Angela, in the name of marriage.. A good lesson , job well done👏
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What a beautiful movie to watch....an eye-opener to so many things that goes on in marriage. Thank you as always, Mama Ruth kadiri, for these educating movies ❤❤
God please heal every man going through any toxicity in their marriages. Give them the heart to walk away and provide an escape root before its too late. Amen!
Amen. In the same vein, may God heal any gender going through this. May they have the grace to seek help 🙏🏿 ✨️
You see toxicity and abusive home, my hands and legs no dey there, count me out, I can't stand it talkless of fixing it. People are really passing through hell, marital blackmailing is real, the message was clear enough 🎉🎉🎉.
Omoooooo this movie ehn!
Please let’s learn to deal with whatever past trauma or fears we might have experienced before we settle down and traumatize those we claim to love with the same trauma
Just imagine their reaction finding out the truth imagine if the man had taken his life out of depression. My goodness this is deep thank you for this story line… men speak up you deserve to be heard too
This marriage thing eehh....by God's grace, I will marry right Amen 🙏
Me too IJN .Amen
Amen 🙏
Damaged people should heal before going into marriage or relationship.. Lesson to learn.... Nice movie thuo
If you left another movie after seeing the notification gather here for mamah Ruth and de Great deza ❤😊
My dear😂😂😂
As in ehh❤😂
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😂😂😂 I did I was watching clean heart 😂😂 and I will finish it when I finish this one 😂😂
@@TaongaJere-cd2ni you're guilty of leaving anaother movie en running here 😂😂😂
This amongst all your movies and I am at this point addicted 😂 has been the most informative and creative work thus far well done madam. Namibia 🇳🇦
Deza and Ruth work really well together 😂😂😂😂😂
I swear 🎉🎉
thanks, Ruth for this masterpiece, especially for a time like this where we are in a month of mental health awareness among men.
An applaud to all those that have watched this movie,your sense of maturity is outstanding,I actually learned a lot about and from the movie from your comments,not that gather here,I’m here for such and such,nobody has liked my comment and so on….,thx so much.
There's a lot to learn from this movie..... parents forget that their children learn from their own marriages because they look up to them . I pray everyone silently going through any for of abuse or trauma heals / gets help 🙏 ❤️.
Sending you lots of love ❤️.
Watched it last night but forget to comment now am back to put my comment here this movie broken my heart 😢😢
Your movies is like vitamin c that has no overdose love you always
See me see whahala. This movie tire me. I said uh then what then wait who does this. I guess the lessons that the movie was aiming to potray was well executed but my oh my. Fans of The Great Deza himself 🍻🥂, let's gather here and show him some ❤️, and give him a big 👍🏽. The man that can calmly take all the excesses from a woman 👍🏾. Well done guys.
To any man going through this, always remember that you're enough. I pray God gives you the strength, grace and wisdom to walk away from any toxic relationship or marriage 🙏.
So true
Comment section association,,,,well done,i can see meaningful comments in here about this masterpiece, much love from 🇰🇪
So Deza can be this calm 😂😂😂 I felt so emotional for him, no one deserves to be tortured like this. Great masterpiece. Watching from Sierra Leone
Imagine. Deza shud be talking and sulking 😂😂😂😂😂
Seriously it's strange😂😂 he's always that arrogant type
I’m addicting to Ruth movie I swear 😂 more grace my love ❤❤
She deserves the best movies award no jokes 😊i love u ruth kadiri
One day my time will come I will be watched too on the screen
Congratulations to me in advance..like this comment if you believe God can do it
Amen
Believe and trust His timing.
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen, me too❤😢
I was hoping he would put cameras in the house long before he finally did. Nothing before the time. Great movie my children !!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow so educational I really learn alot from this movie I swear that's why I don't missed any of your movies I make sure I watch Dem even if I don't have data I will borrow just to watch your movies.❤❤ I love you aunty Ruth kadiri
Nice movie
Staying away from friendship or relationships that are toxic is like freedom that can never be bought with money .
Regardless of what ppl will say.
A case study of the Late Sis.Osinachi Nwachukwu😢😢😢
I was so busy yesterday but am back mama Ruth. If u know she is the best and u can't miss any of her movie for anything gather we have a meeting😂😂
I love her so much
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This movie has thought me a great lesson I never knew men also goes through abuse wow this is sad. Good job Mama Ruth I love ur movies
I am here because the title is gluing. What to know why it's called a third marriage. Anyone who is with me? Mama Ruth after you na you 😊😊
We dey here 😂
Ruth is his third wife, and it is where the movie is focused, that's y its titled 3rd marriage
@@Estherfrank-r4r thank you dear I got to know that when the friend was telling him to make it work because he is tired of attending his weddings
Kenya number one 🎉🎉🎉🎉🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
The moment I saw the notification I knew something 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥from my moma #The best producer 🎉🎉🎉🎉We love from kenya❤❤🇰🇪
Tumeingia kwa kishindo😂❤❤❤
@@mwanaisha1998 🤣🤣🤣this is our home 🥰
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Tuko pamoja 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
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Waaauuuwwww this is a really nice movie, I enjoyed every bit of it...
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Just finished the movie 😢🥺 I lost my brother last year 26 December, and he committed suicide 💔 abuse, depression and mental health issues are real, break-up from toxic relationships pls!!! Mama
Ruth this movie touched me to day Love is beautiful let's appreciate it when it comes our way ♥️
Sorry dear ,and that's my birthday
Is ok 🙏
Sorry for your lost ❤
The Lord comfort you my dear
So sorry for Ur lost
My favorite production again?❤
I love 💕 Ruth Kadiri 🎉❤
Me too ❤❤
Ruth played the part with such great passion, Deza did a super phenomenal job! 💯 Well done to RuthKadiri247 cast and crew, you guys always deliver superb content! 👏🏼
Dont stay in a toxic relationship for too long... I can relate this story...I lost my cousin... His girlfriend was mentally disturb... He was being threatened by the girlfriend,he lost his life... He was not paying attention... To the threats... So one night they had bad argument... Then my cousin went to bed...while he was sleep.... Little did he knew that was his last night...she was found dead sitted totally burnt, she started a fire, and she was three months pregnant 🫄.my cousin died on his sleep..he was burned badly😞This is real.... Never take the words they say lightly...
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Eish this makes a sad reading 😢..am so sorry for your loss.. mental health is really a serious issue..
@@sophiadel317 I'm still broken 💔... This kind of behavior are real not games... People ignore, thinking he or she is just playing around.
@@joycenakamba2846 there are small sily things... Like when they say... Wewe siku moja nitakukata na kisu. One day he or she will do it... Especially if he or she has being saying these for sometime... And you don't take it seriously.
True 😢
The people in Jide's life easily allowed themselves to be manipulated to hate him. This movie teaches that when there is an issue on ground between two people, it is always good to hear from both sides and try to get to the root of the matter before drawing your conclusion on who is wrong and who is right. Never be easily manipulated to take sides with any one without hearing from both individuals.
Narcissist can be very manipulative I've been with one you will not even know when they will separate you from your family and friend just pray to God never to meet one in your life time
Ruth what character can't you so justice to, you're simply the best 🎉🎉🎉🎉
You are correct.
Especially the sister, she's so annoying
@@EuniceAruwa-hg9jmso true
Aunty Ruth I love all your movie you are too funny but sometimes troublesome am sending love ❤❤❤ you are the best 😂😂😂
I was literally sad before I came across this movie and it made me smile. Thanks Aunt Ruth.💋💗
Somebody's son is going through agony, you're saying you find joy that cured your sadness really?....😏
Its just a movie no hard feelings 😂😂😂😂@aliceighodaye332
Wow that's awesome this is another interesting movie nice one my lovely sister more grace and wins to you Dear I really enjoyed watching as always thanks ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Where can I find such a humble lovely man like Deza the Great.Mwaaaaaah u r the best darling ❤❤❤
Ruthie, you're a genius. Deza the great the best for this role. Kudos to all cast. Love you all !!!❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love this storyline. The cast did amazing.❤️❤️
How many are we here after receiving notification ❤❤❤
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Have being waiting since oooo
This is my husband best song and why he love your movies is because of this song
This movie hits on different levels personally 😭, it is well, thanks mama ruth for shedding lights on silent points, well done ma
This storyline is nothing short but amazing 🎉 the cast member and the production team did a fantastic job on this one. Mama Ruth the baddest EP on planet, see ehh Thursdays are always worth the wait. I just can't wait to be featured as even waka pass or gate woman in your production bcuz Mama you na Star Maker and so humbly in your doings. Who God done bless no one can do otherwise. I love how you use your light 🌟 to empower others ✨️ to shine and share. God bless you and your platform RuthKadiri247 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Abeg 😢 God only you fit do this one for me!
You are loved!
Educative and impactful movie 🎥
Honestly no one deserves to be in an abusive marriage or relationship. Ruth you really did well 💯 for giving out this best of production.infact you deserve an award. Deza Great is another incredible and amazing actor who doesn't mess up with his roles infact he nailed his role so perfectly 💯 his acting skills is just a topnotch ✅🥰 you are the best ❤