Starting to Pass and Losing a Backbone | DIMITRIA SPARROW

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 23

  • @RachelLouiseSwann
    @RachelLouiseSwann 3 года назад

    A seriously wonderful channel and I hope it blows up. You are putting in so much hard work in front and behind of the camera. Bless you, keep safe and be happy!

  • @albertothrist3568
    @albertothrist3568 2 года назад

    that is the beautiful truth you just spoke, and you hit on a lot of good points thank you looking forward to watching your next video

  • @ladyjayee
    @ladyjayee 3 года назад

    Hey Dimitra I just got my SRS date for June 15th. I live in a small northern Ontario community where close mindedness is very prevalent. I have been perhaps more fortunate than most may experience. I have been on HRT for 33 months now stopped because surgery is 3 weeks away. Misgendering is somewhat common but many have adapted. I find rejection extremely relevant as most guys cant deal with a dangler but I look like a girl complain like one, talk like one as far as mannerisms go, am chemically and visually one as far as breasts go and curvy hips. I am also 33 months cigarette free and happier than I could ever know in my entire life. Also wrote a 35 chapter novel about my journey so far. 2nd book will start after surgery. I appreciate the support from everyone I have hated the trolls online. And I report everyone because these people will do it if they aren't challenged . Thank you for sharing your insights with us and your tips. They have been helpful to me.

    • @DimitriaSparrow
      @DimitriaSparrow  3 года назад

      Thx very much for sharing! Props on the book(s)!

  • @NorthernWildernessOntario
    @NorthernWildernessOntario 3 года назад

    You hit the nail right on the head in this video. One of my favorite videos thus far because I fully relate to what you have said and the transphobia I experience. It's like being a circus animal with everyone staring. You are most definitely passable and a great role model to other transgender people like myself.

    • @DimitriaSparrow
      @DimitriaSparrow  3 года назад +1

      I'm very glad it helped and resonated with you!

  • @matildab2231
    @matildab2231 3 года назад +1

    Great video. Thank you!
    As a closeted trans / crossdresser, when out in public in male mode if I spot someone whom I wonder might also be trans, I might look at them longer than I should because I wish to show admiration and support for them. But it could very easily be misinterpreted as a judgemental gaze, which I would be so ashamed of. It's a minefield out there.
    Love and respect to you. M xXx

  • @raventheis4630
    @raventheis4630 3 года назад

    Very well said I'm 8 months living full time as a trans woman. 5 months on HRT. Yeah you definitely you definitely grow a hard shell.

  • @princessjulieta
    @princessjulieta 3 года назад

    I did not watch the video but do what you want. It's your life. Be strong and proud of who you are!

  • @laurenemilykoster7362
    @laurenemilykoster7362 3 года назад

    You are so stunningly beautiful that I almost feel like people would admire you even more if they knew you were trans. Which they won't, of course, precisely because you are so passable and beautiful. But knowing that you came so far would inspire both trans and cis people alike.

  • @shayvurden9009
    @shayvurden9009 3 года назад

    Beautiful video ,can relate to all what you have covered in this video , looking forward for the next video

  • @cyberpunk1618
    @cyberpunk1618 3 года назад

    Thank you. Your video gave me much more confidence, that I also can build up my spine.

  • @ronhorner4060
    @ronhorner4060 3 года назад

    I hear that, I would go for walks in the very early morning to avoid contact and always got hit on lol I am closeted mainly but have dared a few excursions and have never to be referred to as female, clocked 100% lol I have been working on the voice, my stumbling block.

  • @GolfinDanni
    @GolfinDanni 3 года назад

    Thank you for another great video, as I have said previously I am pretty new in my Transition, I think I am lucky to be working in a retail store that is very LGBTQ friendly,

  • @margaretpepper3550
    @margaretpepper3550 3 года назад

    Writing as an older Transwoman having had SRS in 2004, I would say that you are extremely passable...If I came across you in a social setting where children were I would assumed that you are someone's mum out for the day....I think that the secret is to stop thinking in terms of being MtF, but rather think in terms that any other woman of your age would think & behave...

    • @DimitriaSparrow
      @DimitriaSparrow  3 года назад +1

      Thx for sharing. I'm finding (though you've been out far longer than I have) after three years that the notion of thinking like a woman and not mtf has become a lot easier to do. Can't deny though it took a long road to get there (not even sure I'm there, yet).

  • @markschumann2903
    @markschumann2903 3 года назад

    Very pretty

  • @excxmoody
    @excxmoody 3 года назад

    perhaps learning piano will get rid of the thought