This video needs to be in form of documentary because it said it all! I know our young ladies won't learn from this! Many young girls are in this lifestyle in the name of my "parents must not suffer!" Unfortunately, many young girls have died early even before the parents they don't want to die from suffering! Kudos to my mother in heavy!
You're right ma. But Dami's parent took her back to the palace to beg kabiesi to beg them to forgive her and allow her to come back to the palace when she ran away 😢. Poverty is a curse 😢😢😢
God bless you, my problem with our woman in Nigeria is that we don't try to console people in distress bit add more to there problem. Thank you for standing for woman like you.
All is poverty, they were 4 in numbers then, I witness one interview then, Oba Alafin gan ma nso nigba aiye won wipe awon ko lawon denuko won, toun bati ranwon ni school tan niwon ma ni awon o lo mo, awon ma di iyawo awon, he said it then.
So many women like Dami are dreaming large life. I know a 20 yr old and now she's 24 yrs. She just wanted to live a high class life she isn't worth. I am afraid she might end-up like Queen Dami.
Mewaloka you are very right. If the alafin family had taken care and set out a plan for all young oloris. These messes will not happen. No future plans for the young oloris as resilient for them. The Alafin family can taken to court for Damages to Dami life.
Ebi lon pa iya ati bana Dami 😢. She tan away from the afin and her parents took herback there to be Alafin. That girl is too young to stay celebrate 😢. They riuned her life 😢😢😢
Madam. I married 17 years. It's our culture. Dami is not responsible. The connection she will have by now would have been very great. Portable is a big boy. He will marry someone. Portable is using his gift. What's the gift of Dami
Dolapo dapada true talk me too have never see the oba oooo that we said he want to marry my daughter with that can of oba alafin age. I will never accept oh laye
Mewolaka , our society needs to address the issue of narcissism.It exists in both men and women.But since Nigeria is a men's society, it affects women more than men. That's why a 'reject' like portable can openly shame Queen Dami since he knows other narcissists like him will orchestrate his stupidity. We need to educate our society on narcissism and how to delete it. Well done. God bless us all.
U are talking from your experience, Damina was a controversial lady when she was in the palace. I don't have any sympathy for her both of them are the same. This nonsense is common with the Yorubas, living with a man who never paid your dowry and you are calling her iyawo. Madam, you are talking from experience.
Madam I disagree with you, when he married kabiyesi was she a kid, are you asking his parents to choose a husband for her at this jet age. She said that is the person she wanted so you want her parents to refuse her choice? She is an adult and she ought to know what is good for her
I am in this life for me and I will never go out of my way to jeopardize my future for anyone.any decision I make is for me call me selfish I don't care.
Somebody like me, have been asking this question concerning the wives of Baba Aladdin for the past 15years about their parents, who opened their eyes to marry someone as old as Aladdin. Have seen this years ago.
There's truth in your contribution to the matter. I never condemn Dami but don't condone the act of patronizing money bags instead working hard pls. Many have faced the worst but didn't take that route. My final contribution is how you reach the conclusion about her parents/family without justification. You are a content creator, please try to do a bit of research first for the audience to have a balanced opinion. Just my take.
Words for only the wise.....the foolish will never understand you...... I feel for the lady Dami because the Oba did wrong by marrying her despite their age difference and stigmatization crept in, now she can't ever be satisfied sexually and in all Oba is gone leaving her with luggage's unbearable even if she was olosho on the street, she would've find her kind and not that old man ..... portable is garbage and garbage will stink on you if it rubs you but for Dami to ask portable to be serious with her means she hasn't realized herself properly because of stigma and low esteem. ... she will come out of it after this program and her past will be gone for ever...... amen
The Yorubas only make a show of respecting seniors and elders. It doesn’t really flow from inside. See as small boys are playing with wives of things their kings.
Even the king you're defending here was a SKIN BLEACHER! There's nothing worth edifying on that king. He brought this disgrace to the throne of his ancestors, who had protected that throne with purity of heart and respect.
Pure RUBBISH !!!!. Are you saying that Dami was not mature enough or TOO GULLIBLE AND NAIVE when she DECIDED to marry the late king ??. I just don’t get it. Unfortunately, she went through hell and probably still going through hell. But the question is: WHO CAUSED HER PROBLEMS ??.
@@michaelkimbo4781 Ignorant about what Mr. Professor ?. What knowledge are you referring to or are you simply jumping on social media looking for someone to insult ?. We all knew that NOBODY FORCED DAMI TO MARRY THE LATE KING AND moreover, her past history of RUNNING FROM ONE MAN TO ANOTHER IS NOT A BIG SECRET. Tell me something I don’t know Mr. man instead of your attempt to insult someone.
@@insidelife4554 How is it her parents ?. Do a little more research into Dami’s character and background since she was in the university until she married the king. The woman was and has always been A HIGH PRICE OLOSHO !!!. It’s no big secret. Maybe to those who don’t know or pretend not to know. This days in time, parents no longer DICTATE to their children who to marry or be in relationship with. So, I don’t blame her parents at all.
My Sister, you got me confused about the excuses you are giving to somehow support Portable as a man. My trouble with Partable's outbursts is the way he was talking about Alaafia. Omo Yoruba gidi ko gbodo fri ori ade fin obey. Let's call a spade a spade, Portable is arrogant, useless, undisciplined, and highly disrespectful to a crowned head.
Honestly I don't blame this girl at all, but the useless boy call portable, is this an human being at all, pls before you blame Queen Dammy consider these thing you would know those who spoil the life of that little girl, 1 How old was this girl when Alaafin married her. 2 Is it with the consent of her parent at all, is the parent of Dammy alive or not. How old is Dammy now. pls find answer to this first then you will know whom to blame. But portable as a boy not a man at all is the most useless human being I have know in this world
Just speechless listening to you. Wisdom. Thank you and God Bless you real good
Mewolake, you are saying 100% truth.
Totally agree with you. Some of the girls are gullible. All they want is the money. Is not that they love Kabieso
This is the true talk I was expecting to hear from all the social media blogger.....Otito Oro ree
This video needs to be in form of documentary because it said it all! I know our young ladies won't learn from this! Many young girls are in this lifestyle in the name of my "parents must not suffer!" Unfortunately, many young girls have died early even before the parents they don't want to die from suffering! Kudos to my mother in heavy!
True talk Alhaja Mewolaka God bless you IJN
You're right ma. But Dami's parent took her back to the palace to beg kabiesi to beg them to forgive her and allow her to come back to the palace when she ran away 😢. Poverty is a curse 😢😢😢
Wisdom!!!!!! Thanks ma’am ❤❤
Madam, am with you on this. These girls parents are to be blamed, awon oni je ku je,ole
Stop, we have not detected if the parents supported the wedding jor. Ain't you a parent yet?
Infact your programme are balanced and educative ma,, may God Almighty continue to increase your wisdom 🙏 🙌 ✨️
Very insightful.
JazhakumuLLah Khairan hajiah Mewolaka🤲
Wow!!!! You did a great job analysing this issue. More wisdom, knowledge and understanding ma.
Yesssso you are speaking d truth
This is excellent hajia, more of Almighty Allah's abundant wisdom
You have power over your children than any Oba or anybody on earth
You are making sense
Parents should be alive to their responsibilities and stop pushing your daughters to traps
Yes, they are called mama Bonvita, my ex mother in law was pimping her young daughter to the neighbour, who was her late husbands friend😢
You’re very right, no kabiyesi no matter how powerful he is that can use veto power, I haven’t see it.
God bless you, my problem with our woman in Nigeria is that we don't try to console people in distress bit add more to there problem.
Thank you for standing for woman like you.
Madam mewolaka, you are wise woman. Keep doing the good work
First time mewalaka speak pure Sence😢😢😢😢you said it All more Wisdom ma❤❤❤❤❤❤
Not first time. Maybe you dont like her like my wife.
This is true. You have spoken well Ma .
I have some women going through difficulty in the hands of men and i really pity them.
This made me cry. You’re so correct
I cherish your wisdom and knowledge.Thank you for your illustrations ❤
Mewolaka.
Your insight on the matter is a lesson for the young ladies. Well done, my dear
You know why I like you?you are intelligent and always on point.Your analysis is always top notch
Actually i got emotional listening to this message.I almost shed tears
You are the best ma
You are the best ma❤❤❤
May almighty God bless you more 🙏
You are right ma
Madam mewolaka more knowledge and wisdom for you
God Bless your Wisdom .
All is poverty, they were 4 in numbers then, I witness one interview then, Oba Alafin gan ma nso nigba aiye won wipe awon ko lawon denuko won, toun bati ranwon ni school tan niwon ma ni awon o lo mo, awon ma di iyawo awon, he said it then.
You are right ✅️
Yes 💯 you are very correct listened to the interview too
E ti soro tan ma. She should turn her Ashes to beauty. God will take care of your own family. Good job👍🏽👍🏽
So many women like Dami are dreaming large life. I know a 20 yr old and now she's 24 yrs. She just wanted to live a high class life she isn't worth. I am afraid she might end-up like Queen Dami.
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This emotional
You're on point ma
That is the fact
Sister the Lord is your strength
You told the truth
We parents have a lot of responsibilities to cover
Great one. You have spoken well. I always trust you, you didn't disappoint ❤
You are talking the truth about this matter,
Mewaloka you are very right. If the alafin family had taken care and set out a plan for all young oloris. These messes will not happen. No future plans for the young oloris as resilient for them. The Alafin family can taken to court for Damages to Dami life.
Ebi lon pa iya ati bana Dami 😢. She tan away from the afin and her parents took herback there to be Alafin. That girl is too young to stay celebrate 😢. They riuned her life 😢😢😢
God bless you ma'am
You are right .baba had committed.
You are saying the truth my sister, we need respect for our female children. God bless you.
God bless you for your wisdom
Mewolaka you are very right nowadays no king can force any girl to marriage unlike olden days
Madam. I married 17 years. It's our culture. Dami is not responsible. The connection she will have by now would have been very great. Portable is a big boy. He will marry someone. Portable is using his gift. What's the gift of Dami
Ododo oro leso koninbaje funyin❤
Mama you are making a lot of sense. God will bless you. But for portable is a mad boy which the end is near.
Good talk dear
It’s Nigeria that happened to Dami, just like Dele Farotimi will say. Unfortunately there are whole lot of Dami out there.
Absolutely true. How could she be accepted as wife number 15 or whichever number she was? Foundation matters a lot in child's life
Dolapo dapada true talk me too have never see the oba oooo that we said he want to marry my daughter with that can of oba alafin age. I will never accept oh laye
Madam, you are saying the truth. However, I see the societal problems are largely linked to poverty in the land which could be traced way back to
True talk dear sis
You really made a point 👉
Exactly some of our parents still believe in oldies culture so
You really try madam Mewolaka God will bless your intelligence more
Mewolaka , our society needs to address the issue of narcissism.It exists in both men and women.But since Nigeria is a men's society, it affects women more than men. That's why a 'reject' like portable can openly shame Queen Dami since he knows other narcissists like him will orchestrate his stupidity.
We need to educate our society on narcissism and how to delete it.
Well done. God bless us all.
U all see the signs of a narcissist during relationship but u all ignore bcos of money
Madam , damilola will need total deliverance
Deliverance from. What please?
My sister, you are simply the best. You are a bless to the younger generations. Please keep it up.
U are talking from your experience, Damina was a controversial lady when she was in the palace. I don't have any sympathy for her both of them are the same. This nonsense is common with the Yorubas, living with a man who never paid your dowry and you are calling her iyawo. Madam, you are talking from experience.
All tribes do same not only yoruba
Ethnocentric. Don’t point to any ethnic. Values has been eroded in various ways across cultures and ethnicities
Madam why did you call Yoruba in Particular??I know many Igbo ladies too..
Madam I disagree with you, when he married kabiyesi was she a kid, are you asking his parents to choose a husband for her at this jet age. She said that is the person she wanted so you want her parents to refuse her choice?
She is an adult and she ought to know what is good for her
I am in this life for me and I will never go out of my way to jeopardize my future for anyone.any decision I make is for me call me selfish I don't care.
Somebody like me, have been asking this question concerning the wives of Baba Aladdin for the past 15years about their parents, who opened their eyes to marry someone as old as Aladdin. Have seen this years ago.
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Mewolaka olorun oba awa pelu re lagbara olorun
Baarokallọọhu fiiki
There's truth in your contribution to the matter. I never condemn Dami but don't condone the act of patronizing money bags instead working hard pls. Many have faced the worst but didn't take that route. My final contribution is how you reach the conclusion about her parents/family without justification. You are a content creator, please try to do a bit of research first for the audience to have a balanced opinion. Just my take.
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That was then.......Aye atijo ni yen
Aalafin not going around the street looking for anyone so all the ladies went to palace by international
Words for only the wise.....the foolish will never understand you...... I feel for the lady Dami because the Oba did wrong by marrying her despite their age difference and stigmatization crept in, now she can't ever be satisfied sexually and in all Oba is gone leaving her with luggage's unbearable even if she was olosho on the street, she would've find her kind and not that old man ..... portable is garbage and garbage will stink on you if it rubs you but for Dami to ask portable to be serious with her means she hasn't realized herself properly because of stigma and low esteem. ... she will come out of it after this program and her past will be gone for ever...... amen
Gbe gbogbo enu e sohun, birds of the same feathers flocks together ni iwo ati e
Can't you express yourself without insulting her? Too bad
The Yorubas only make a show of respecting seniors and elders. It doesn’t really flow from inside. See as small boys are playing with wives of things their kings.
Even the king you're defending here was a SKIN BLEACHER! There's nothing worth edifying on that king. He brought this disgrace to the throne of his ancestors, who had protected that throne with purity of heart and respect.
Pure RUBBISH !!!!. Are you saying that Dami was not mature enough or TOO GULLIBLE AND NAIVE when she DECIDED to marry the late king ??.
I just don’t get it.
Unfortunately, she went through hell and probably still going through hell. But the question is: WHO CAUSED HER PROBLEMS ??.
You are ignorant. You have no knowledge
Parents
@@michaelkimbo4781 Ignorant about what Mr. Professor ?.
What knowledge are you referring to or are you simply jumping on social media looking for someone to insult ?.
We all knew that NOBODY FORCED DAMI TO MARRY THE LATE KING AND moreover, her past history of RUNNING FROM ONE MAN TO ANOTHER IS NOT A BIG SECRET. Tell me something I don’t know Mr. man instead of your attempt to insult someone.
@@insidelife4554 How is it her parents ?. Do a little more research into Dami’s character and background since she was in the university until she married the king.
The woman was and has always been A HIGH PRICE OLOSHO !!!. It’s no big secret. Maybe to those who don’t know or pretend not to know.
This days in time, parents no longer DICTATE to their children who to marry or be in relationship with. So, I don’t blame her parents at all.
Why calling the olosho, ashewo alabe rirun, queen. Please stop calling the mumu, queen!
What a stinking statement! Are you human at all? Your statement has really shown the kind of life you live an whom you are.
As you have said, the fault is from her parents. On the contrary, of that idiot portable, Dami is just at the wrong place at the wrong time
My Sister, you got me confused about the excuses you are giving to somehow support Portable as a man. My trouble with Partable's outbursts is the way he was talking about Alaafia. Omo Yoruba gidi ko gbodo fri ori ade fin obey. Let's call a spade a spade, Portable is arrogant, useless, undisciplined, and highly disrespectful to a crowned head.
You're getting over westernized for your own good.
Mewolaka.........tie naa wa lara e !
Dammy is following your footsteps, ma.
Really, and as how?
Honestly I don't blame this girl at all, but the useless boy call portable, is this an human being at all, pls before you blame Queen Dammy consider these thing you would know those who spoil the life of that little girl,
1 How old was this girl when Alaafin married her.
2 Is it with the consent of her parent at all, is the parent of Dammy alive or not.
How old is Dammy now.
pls find answer to this first then you will know whom to blame.
But portable as a boy not a man at all is the most useless human being I have know in this world
😂😂😂😂😂😂I want to belong
Huuuuum
You seem to be an expert in everything & you have an opinion. Please back off peoples business
Olojukokoro, ole, olee ni iwo na, gboko gboko
I don’t have any sympathy for her and her likes they were thieves and very gullible….
Madam, you are saying the truth. However, I see the societal problems are largely linked to poverty in the land which could be traced way back
Wisdom!!!!!!! Thanks ma’am ❤🙏