Probably a bar girl who got sick of working in Pattaya. Didn't she meet her first husband there? He wasn't playing ball so she latched onto this guy and played him like a fiddle. Clearly a scam. So many red flags.
Eventually one comes along and obliges. There must be a lot of farang built houses there with the farang long gone. The men must have a good laugh about it over a few drinks. Probably one of the reasons why they send their daughters down to Pattaya to do a bit of nookie with foreigners.
Never ever, under no circumstances, get married. There is nothing to gain from as a farang, but a huge potential for losses. Also, never buy expensive things you have no authority over. Car, property, house, condo, bank accounts, you name it - everything needs to be in your name. Even if she doesn't play the long (scam)game, you still lose frame and that will lead to fading desire from her side. And that's the best case scenario...
All of the sudden, she just fell out of love with him the second the house was finished. What a coinkidink! Probably kept him around for a few years after to milk him even more; especially during Covid. Him moving out was also "her idea but she wanted it to be his idea" similar to all the others.
I would never get married or build a house on someone else’s land, but if I was in this guy’s position I’d pay someone to bulldoze it then never return lol
What part of "you own zero percent and you sign a legal document to say all the money was the Thai persons money" do people have trouble understanding?
I know there's a document that says you can't own land even though you're married but I don't think it says anything about who's money bought the land. Not sure but I assume when a Thai married couple buys land they both put their names on the deed but in the case of non-Thais you can't do that.
Women DO love men, same as men love women. Same same...but you have to be friends first (number one rule) and you have to have the same goals and plans. How do you discover your partner's plans? You spend T.I.M.E. with them, lots of time....and you spend that time PRIOR to marriage and prior to building a house together. How much time? How long is a piece of string? Varies, but less than three years puts you at risk.
On RUclips, Been watching some good videos about blokes getting ripped off by tarts in Thailand . There is a common thread. Meet gorgeous girl in bar. Fall crazy in love. She says, I don't want to work bar no more ,you pay $$ and I can leave, move in with you. Then visit her family in rural Thailand..they say, don't live in city, move here, there is cheap land, build a small house,live there. Sucker builds it, is in her name as foreigner can't own property over there Then, big bust up, she shagging someone else, or was already married,with kids etc... Bloke escapes, back to UK, Australia or wherever, minus about 400k. 🥴 ..
You forgot to open a business for her. It’s all power dynamics men giving away their leverage which is money and when you give all of that away why should she keep respecting you and being a wife. When she could keep what you built for the marriage and be a boss b*tch.
The only story that i could share is that my first cousin moved with a Thai Girl to the rural area and disappeared, never to be heard of him again. Thai government is the epitome of bureaucracy.
This happened to my fiancce his friend went to Thailand 10 years ago he built a house with his life saving 350,000 his thi girlfriend to him she didn't love him she got the house we don't know what has happened to him
Some old man was dumb enough to take her to Europe thinking he can change her. The guy in the story gets a pass because he doesn’t know any better. The second she said that she was from Isaan, I knew there be some kind of house involved, good luck to you Sir.
No. They're not out to get us. Women are women. They're not different from women in the West. The only difference with Thai women is they're cheaper (simply because of the exchange rate) and they may be more realistic expectations. Keys to life. 1. Don't get married. 2. Enjoy a woman's company without involving the state (marriage license). For some of us, it may be cheaper to purchase a woman's company a-la-cart. Men are in love, women are in business.
Many have this in mind I think … once you are getting ‘involved’ deeply , it gets more difficult to spot the signs for sure… never ever , suggest things to her either , will jump all over it .. you’ve got to be tough minded , disciplined , sensible & yes its not easy , but learn to say NO....
If you two were together for five years before moving to Thailand, then it was real in the UK. However, once she was in Thailand, and having a huge modern house paid off, and many local guys and family around... she prob found someone else who understood her culture better. You are fortunate not to have any children with her... as that would be 1,000x more complicated. People divorce all the time, but that doesn't mean they weren't in love at one point. Sometimes it just doesn't last.
What you should have done was rent your flat in London and be happy with the rent and capital appreciation. If she asked you to build a house on her families land just laugh .. if she then leaves you .. laugh even more and then just head to Pattaya and have a good time
I appreciate these videos. I’ve dated a lot of girls from female-run countries, so China, Vietnam or Thailand etc. and I think it is possible to marry them and it’s all fine, but just statistically, culturally and realistically it’s just too risky, so my advice to Bill is now you have learnt the lesson, marry a girl from Japan, Korea, Taiwan, Indonesia. Somewhere where her actions are not just not accepted but applauded. Her family and community will call her a genious and as I have said before, who you were actually contending with was her mother. It was her mother’s plan to get the dowry and house and once she got it you are no longer of any use. This is not the case in male-run societies as they don’t have bride prices or dowries and the daughter is supposed to be ‘yours’ after the marriage to take care of. So the answer is not in Argentina. It is not in Philippines or Columbia. It is somewhere masculine-run. Or, as I suspect, these guys seem to somehow be gluttons for this punishment, so I do suspect you will go back to Thailand and do it all again…
Once a women losses felling for you they are never coming back, Men need to know this. That is also assuming se every had any felling toward this man to began with.
A great red pilling channel for the blue pillers. These stories are too good 😂😂😂 yet convey a serious message. Resource gathering Black Widows no matter which part of the world!
A Bride for sale. Old, old, game. You have to be very naive nowadays. We could never see the real agenda of people. She started putting her ideas in the guy, so be it.
This story is most probably a work of fiction. Not that the similar situations don't happen (apart from letting him stay in the house as long as he wants) but at the end "Bill" or whatever his name is is asking himself "How could she have done this to me" ... "after so many years" WTF 3 or maybe 4 years living together is not "so many years" in my book and some other small details in the story that don't really add up.
Good story. Disappointed we didn’t hear John’s take. People do fall out of love, but if I had to bet I’d say it probably was the long con, and maybe even the parents weren’t in on it. Did she know the parents would gift them some land? I wonder if he got the full story on the original husband who divorced her in the uk. If it was me I’d try to see the £100k as the cost of changing my life and escaping the uk. Plenty more fish in seas all over the world.
These stories are so sad and enraging. I just wondered if there were any red flags between when they met and when the farang buys the house? These evil women can't keep up the veil for that long, can they? The big clue was "Pattaya" and the big groan moment was when he asked her to marry him. But, as in all these stories, the men learn big big lessons about female nature and for me it's not an ending without a silver lining. The farang also got to have lots of sex with a hot Thai woman for a limited time anyway . But, this was the saddest story here, for me
These are stories some fictitious or tall? Not everyone will hear these or similar as their eyes are on the girlie bars on other sites, so they unaware of all that will happen. We all dream to believe...Like buying the latest online game only to find out its full of bugs bcz we didn't think to read up abit more on the negatives. I like your channel, I mute the sound (been there lol) and take in what I had last century.
@ Correct 👍🏻 You do know that’s a fictional book right? My wife is from Surin. She has family in Buriram too. We been happily maintaining for 15 years and have 3 sons together. We live in the states but own a house in Surin. I love it there.
Probably a bar girl who got sick of working in Pattaya. Didn't she meet her first husband there? He wasn't playing ball so she latched onto this guy and played him like a fiddle. Clearly a scam. So many red flags.
same story...different names
If you go back to Buriram now you will see that she is living with some young Thai bloke in a house that you paid for.
It is a big house so not doubt there will be other family members living there too. This guy is a sucker.
Whats on in Chaloem Prakiat
@@henkdejong9051That's THEIR culture😂They don't mind AT ALL
Allot of families in Issan with land and a daughter just waiting for a farang to come along with money to build a house on it 🤣🤣
Eventually one comes along and obliges. There must be a lot of farang built houses there with the farang long gone. The men must have a good laugh about it over a few drinks. Probably one of the reasons why they send their daughters down to Pattaya to do a bit of nookie with foreigners.
Very true.
Never ever, under no circumstances, get married. There is nothing to gain from as a farang, but a huge potential for losses. Also, never buy expensive things you have no authority over. Car, property, house, condo, bank accounts, you name it - everything needs to be in your name. Even if she doesn't play the long (scam)game, you still lose frame and that will lead to fading desire from her side. And that's the best case scenario...
over 30, divorced, and scored a free house. she won the lottery
She was pro...very pro
Like 90%
I must tell you guys.
I am a Dutch man .
I stayed with a a thai woman
18 years .
No problem what so ever.
That's because you met her 18 years ago. They're much different now.
It's a variation of the same old scam. Marry the guy and get him to build a house on their land. Next thing the guy is forced to leave.
It must be a competition to see who has the biggest farang built house.
@@rvajna LMAO 🤣
@@rvajnaIsan must be full of mansions.
@@rvajna it is
Yes same story different names.
All of the sudden, she just fell out of love with him the second the house was finished. What a coinkidink!
Probably kept him around for a few years after to milk him even more; especially during Covid. Him moving out was also "her idea but she wanted it to be his idea" similar to all the others.
God gave men physical strength and compensated women with cunning.
I would never get married or build a house on someone else’s land, but if I was in this guy’s position I’d pay someone to bulldoze it then never return lol
I was thinking the same thing. I don't know how that would work if it's in 'her' name.
@@gecko2000405 Sure he can make is as doing an extension or remodelling that went wrong.
@@gecko2000405easy, you get arrested and free board and food in Thailand jail fir 10 years
Um use your brain assuming you have one
What part of "you own zero percent and you sign a legal document to say all the money was the Thai persons money" do people have trouble understanding?
I know there's a document that says you can't own land even though you're married but I don't think it says anything about who's money bought the land. Not sure but I assume when a Thai married couple buys land they both put their names on the deed but in the case of non-Thais you can't do that.
You can own 49% there has been case where men took their wife’s to court and won their cases for their share. It’s not common but it can be done
The little can't read.
Men love women, women love money nothing changes
Women DO love men, same as men love women. Same same...but you have to be friends first (number one rule) and you have to have the same goals and plans. How do you discover your partner's plans? You spend T.I.M.E. with them, lots of time....and you spend that time PRIOR to marriage and prior to building a house together. How much time? How long is a piece of string? Varies, but less than three years puts you at risk.
Do men love women or do they love a trophy?
You met her in the West. She already belonged to the streets. Buy a condo. They can't take condos because you don't own the land.
On RUclips,
Been watching some good videos about blokes getting ripped off by tarts in Thailand . There is a common thread. Meet gorgeous girl in bar. Fall crazy in love. She says, I don't want to work bar no more ,you pay $$ and I can leave, move in with you.
Then visit her family in rural Thailand..they say, don't live in city, move here, there is cheap land, build a small house,live there. Sucker builds it, is in her name as foreigner can't own property over there
Then, big bust up, she shagging someone else, or was already married,with kids etc...
Bloke escapes, back to UK, Australia or wherever, minus about 400k. 🥴
..
Sadly so because our Farang men think with their lower anatomy than their brain.
You forgot to open a business for her. It’s all power dynamics men giving away their leverage which is money and when you give all of that away why should she keep respecting you and being a wife. When she could keep what you built for the marriage and be a boss b*tch.
A sad tale often to be repeated. I am the same with other males, even more dangerous as there is potential for getting beat up too
The only story that i could share is that my first cousin moved with a Thai Girl to the rural area and disappeared, never to be heard of him again. Thai government is the epitome of bureaucracy.
This happened to my fiancce his friend went to Thailand 10 years ago he built a house with his life saving 350,000 his thi girlfriend to him she didn't love him she got the house we don't know what has happened to him
Imagine all the houses built by Farangs littering the Isaan countryside.
I know! Foolish and gullible lot.
Red flag when she said she broke with her husband.
because he was 'controlling' 😂😂😂
Red flag shes thai 👍
@@MrFrobbo No further specifics on that either.
Cue Prince Charming on his white horse, set to Rescue Damsel-In-Distress!
The furry clam is tough to resist!!!
Es gibt immer einen Noteinstieg
Some old man was dumb enough to take her to Europe thinking he can change her. The guy in the story gets a pass because he doesn’t know any better. The second she said that she was from Isaan, I knew there be some kind of house involved, good luck to you Sir.
she was real and loving... she really loved your money. I was never a 'shared dream'... it was yours alone.
A single guy on vacation in Thailand and never heard of Pattaya? This guy is clueless from the start
I get more disturbed the more I listen to these videos. Thai women are out to get us guys!
Well...
We can get 8 ladies
Good
No. They're not out to get us. Women are women. They're not different from women in the West. The only difference with Thai women is they're cheaper (simply because of the exchange rate) and they may be more realistic expectations. Keys to life. 1. Don't get married. 2. Enjoy a woman's company without involving the state (marriage license). For some of us, it may be cheaper to purchase a woman's company a-la-cart. Men are in love, women are in business.
Best education here
No, they are not. They are simply doing smart business and our lot are dumb enough to fall prey.
"This sounded strange....but I didn't question it"
Many have this in mind I think … once you are getting ‘involved’ deeply , it gets more difficult to spot the signs for sure… never ever , suggest things to her either , will jump all over it .. you’ve got to be tough minded , disciplined , sensible & yes its not easy , but learn to say NO....
If you two were together for five years before moving to Thailand, then it was real in the UK. However, once she was in Thailand, and having a huge modern house paid off, and many local guys and family around... she prob found someone else who understood her culture better. You are fortunate not to have any children with her... as that would be 1,000x more complicated. People divorce all the time, but that doesn't mean they weren't in love at one point. Sometimes it just doesn't last.
What you should have done was rent your flat in London and be happy with the rent and capital appreciation. If she asked you to build a house on her families land just laugh .. if she then leaves you .. laugh even more and then just head to Pattaya and have a good time
I'd only go back if it's a good deal at any eatery if someone that looks like a bank employee you're best too treat it that way.
I appreciate these videos. I’ve dated a lot of girls from female-run countries, so China, Vietnam or Thailand etc. and I think it is possible to marry them and it’s all fine, but just statistically, culturally and realistically it’s just too risky, so my advice to Bill is now you have learnt the lesson, marry a girl from Japan, Korea, Taiwan, Indonesia. Somewhere where her actions are not just not accepted but applauded. Her family and community will call her a genious and as I have said before, who you were actually contending with was her mother. It was her mother’s plan to get the dowry and house and once she got it you are no longer of any use. This is not the case in male-run societies as they don’t have bride prices or dowries and the daughter is supposed to be ‘yours’ after the marriage to take care of. So the answer is not in Argentina. It is not in Philippines or Columbia. It is somewhere masculine-run. Or, as I suspect, these guys seem to somehow be gluttons for this punishment, so I do suspect you will go back to Thailand and do it all again…
Spot on about their mothers.
Once a women losses felling for you they are never coming back, Men need to know this. That is also assuming se every had any felling toward this man to began with.
Why do these guys continue to do this over and over again 🙄🤦♂️
A great red pilling channel for the blue pillers. These stories are too good 😂😂😂 yet convey a serious message. Resource gathering Black Widows no matter which part of the world!
Get 8 ladiess
Be happyyyy
Stop tryin to trust nobodyy
Never get marry
Never buy nothingg😂😢
They play the circle,,,,wow they are good at it,,,
A Bride for sale. Old, old, game. You have to be very naive nowadays. We could never see the real agenda of people. She started putting her ideas in the guy, so be it.
At least half of the members here are simps going by the amount of these stories…..
what is a simp ?...
@@leeholzmann1023 A sucker with no spine.
It’s an old story: Man loves Beer. The end.
Too many of the same stories about Thai Wife, western men have many weaknesses, remember friends is ok but not wife.
But all These Older Men and Younger Men Kkeep Falling For The same Old SCAM!
This story is most probably a work of fiction. Not that the similar situations don't happen (apart from letting him stay in the house as long as he wants) but at the end "Bill" or whatever his name is is asking himself "How could she have done this to me" ... "after so many years" WTF 3 or maybe 4 years living together is not "so many years" in my book and some other small details in the story that don't really add up.
Good story. Disappointed we didn’t hear John’s take.
People do fall out of love, but if I had to bet I’d say it probably was the long con, and maybe even the parents weren’t in on it. Did she know the parents would gift them some land? I wonder if he got the full story on the original husband who divorced her in the uk.
If it was me I’d try to see the £100k as the cost of changing my life and escaping the uk. Plenty more fish in seas all over the world.
These stories are so sad and enraging. I just wondered if there were any red flags between when they met and when the farang buys the house? These evil women can't keep up the veil for that long, can they?
The big clue was "Pattaya" and the big groan moment was when he asked her to marry him.
But, as in all these stories, the men learn big big lessons about female nature and for me it's not an ending without a silver lining. The farang also got to have lots of sex with a hot Thai woman for a limited time anyway . But, this was the saddest story here, for me
Im married our mony is completely separate she inherited god budda bless
You do don’t give your on 2 cents on it? We like to hear your view on these stories.
These are stories some fictitious or tall? Not everyone will hear these or similar as their eyes are on the girlie bars on other sites, so they unaware of all that will happen. We all dream to believe...Like buying the latest online game only to find out its full of bugs bcz we didn't think to read up abit more on the negatives. I like your channel, I mute the sound (been there lol) and take in what I had last century.
No morals
Never heard of pattaya 555
You where her golden ticket
Why people loof for miracles in tailand?
Justt enjotioyyyy
5 bathrooms?
One for the visitors, 4 en-suite, probably.
Planned
Surin > Buriram
They're both in Isaan and best avoided. The book 'Private Dancer' is based on a cunning woman from Surin.
@ Correct 👍🏻 You do know that’s a fictional book right? My wife is from Surin. She has family in Buriram too. We been happily maintaining for 15 years and have 3 sons together. We live in the states but own a house in Surin. I love it there.
He let her take control from beginning on.... a week man! Always ends the same way!
Advice I give my kids. Marry someone on the same financial footing as you.
Its healthy and all my other advice never worked for me