Here because of the workbooks. Loved the video! I had to watch this video twice to thoroughly answer the questions in the workbook. No respect no love!
I'm guilty: I demanded of my ex that he connect with me 24/7...I needed texts and calls all of the time. It exhausted him...I couldn't give space and I couldn't respect his oppinion, because my oppinion mattered and I would talk his ear off for an hour...trying to convince him of something. I couldn't give space...it did/does feel like death.. I trust everyone and immediately too, I feel guilty of I don't🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽 I take in "projects"...ugh, I'm so guilty for fixing and nagging 😭 I always have power struggle issues. This is the hardest video for me to swallow..in a good way..
I had failed at establishing some of these traits within my last serious relationship. We had quite a bit filled up at the beginning, but as it kept on moving forward. We had not revisited any of these into our discussions. Number 5, 6, & 7. As time went on, her lack of communication with me ruined her trust in me as a potential long term partner. If she would've told me about why she was feeling untrusting towards me. We could've resolved the issue pretty quickly. As a guy, I had given more power of mine away to her than I should've. Along the line, I guarantee she had last a little respect for me. Either way, I'm learning and growing and I can only move forward. Onto more knowledge! Thanks again Craig.
I really needed this, great video! It's weird when you start learning about attachment style and start trying to become more secure style only to realize you have no idea what it actually looks like lmao
I bought your workbooks 1-10 and I'm committed to completing them. So far I couldn't thank you and your team enough for your hard work. Your course is so helpful, mind-opening, and easy to understand for me and I believe also for others. In one of your video, you said one example which truly changed my perspective of learning, when a car broke down, you can't expect to leave it in garage after a while and it will be fixed by itself. You gotta repair that car, you gotta work on yourself, and it hit me real hard, I gotta do this for myself. I'm truly grateful getting to know your channel.
I worked on myself for 4 years and I haven't changed and now that this new relationship is over I'm never going to be in another relationship again because I've learned my lesson and some of us are just truly not lovable on a romantic level
My only issue with Healthy Trait #7 is there are tons of people who don't want equal power when it comes to decision making in a intimate relationship. I don't necessarily see that as a sign of an unhealthy person. If anything I would modify #7 to say "Decision making/power exchange is agreed upon between two consenting adults and no lack of respect is taking place."
So glad I watched this. I saw myself in almost all of these green flags and had already been working on the red flags in therapy DURING my relationship and making marked improvements. I see my ex in A LOT of the red flags. They left me, but what else could I do? I was an excellent partner and they weren't ready for me.
Context is important. If your partner has done something to rouse your suspicion, checking their cellphone is okay. Because it will save you years of being with a lying cheater. You could ask them but odds of your partner telling you the truth is low. I tried asking the first time but it didn't do shit. Only times I've ever needed to check my ex'es phone was 3 times, other ex'es who were trustworthy I never felt the need or urge to check their phones. 2 of those 3 turned out they were cheating. The 3rd had another woman's risque photo on his phone but explained it was an old photo from years ago that popped up by "accident".
I love that Craig talked about, that he really had a moment, when he realized that "some people need space" - I had the same experience the other way round; "some people don't need space and get really anxious, when I do and sick to their stomach".. I didn't understand that before it was too late unfortunately - but maybe in the next relationship...
I don't see how my ex would come back after 4 years of constant fighting, me stopping him from doing things, no intimacy after yr 1, we both live in diff states and he has no faith left in him that I will change after 4 years.
Hi Craig, I am working with your knowledge book and things are now clearing up about my breakup. I asked him to give me space a while back but still texting him and not seeing or phoning him, he got so upset, he tried to take revenge and never got over it. He became slightly disrespectful and got distant. I had no idea why he has changed until I finally gave up and broke up with him. It has been 3months and it's been very difficult, I told him he can call me if he wants to work on it. He replied to my txt and saying that he has missed me. He is trying to bring up the commitment issue on the table. Do you think I should suggest your books to him? I know that he had been talking to a relationship coach in the past and hope he is working on himself now. I love him and want him back HEALTHY.
If they have done the indirect approach and you ask them to hang and they rejected it saying they already had plans what's the next move do you just keep asking everytime they reach out.
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Purchasing your workshop is the best purchase I’ve made in years! I am learning so much about myself and relationships already. I am so happy.
(here for the Workbook 1)
You’ve found the way.👍
I think it would be bad ass to be a coach like them. Better get through work book one 1st🤓
Here because of the workbooks. Loved the video! I had to watch this video twice to thoroughly answer the questions in the workbook. No respect no love!
I'm guilty: I demanded of my ex that he connect with me 24/7...I needed texts and calls all of the time. It exhausted him...I couldn't give space and I couldn't respect his oppinion, because my oppinion mattered and I would talk his ear off for an hour...trying to convince him of something. I couldn't give space...it did/does feel like death.. I trust everyone and immediately too, I feel guilty of I don't🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽 I take in "projects"...ugh, I'm so guilty for fixing and nagging 😭 I always have power struggle issues. This is the hardest video for me to swallow..in a good way..
I love Margaret's sense of humour, she's so serious when joking...hahaaa, great video guys 👍👍👍
Outstanding video!!! Every single person I will date in the future will have to watch this in full :D
I had failed at establishing some of these traits within my last serious relationship. We had quite a bit filled up at the beginning, but as it kept on moving forward. We had not revisited any of these into our discussions. Number 5, 6, & 7. As time went on, her lack of communication with me ruined her trust in me as a potential long term partner. If she would've told me about why she was feeling untrusting towards me. We could've resolved the issue pretty quickly. As a guy, I had given more power of mine away to her than I should've. Along the line, I guarantee she had last a little respect for me. Either way, I'm learning and growing and I can only move forward. Onto more knowledge! Thanks again Craig.
Watching your videos makes me realise how much I messed up!!!! You have no idea how much you are helping me grow xx
Such good chemistry between you two, great coaches.
Here for the workbook as well :-)
I really needed this, great video! It's weird when you start learning about attachment style and start trying to become more secure style only to realize you have no idea what it actually looks like lmao
This is wonderful. Gives me hope for the future. It worked till it didn’t. So I feel like we had a strong base to come back and build on!
I bought your workbooks 1-10 and I'm committed to completing them. So far I couldn't thank you and your team enough for your hard work. Your course is so helpful, mind-opening, and easy to understand for me and I believe also for others.
In one of your video, you said one example which truly changed my perspective of learning, when a car broke down, you can't expect to leave it in garage after a while and it will be fixed by itself. You gotta repair that car, you gotta work on yourself, and it hit me real hard, I gotta do this for myself. I'm truly grateful getting to know your channel.
I worked on myself for 4 years and I haven't changed and now that this new relationship is over I'm never going to be in another relationship again because I've learned my lesson and some of us are just truly not lovable on a romantic level
I started watching your videos about 2 monthd ago..
I love every video I have ever watched. They are so great..
It's better too disagree with out fighting and without getting mad or upset ...wonderful video and from all three of you including coach Victoria 😊❤💕
I really enjoyed this video. I'm happily married but always looking for ways to keep it that way or even make it better. Appreciate the insight!
Thank you Thank you sooooo much for this video!!! This really helps me to look into myself so that I can figure out what quality I need to work on.
Huge thank you for the video, this is a very good one.
My only issue with Healthy Trait #7 is there are tons of people who don't want equal power when it comes to decision making in a intimate relationship. I don't necessarily see that as a sign of an unhealthy person. If anything I would modify #7 to say "Decision making/power exchange is agreed upon between two consenting adults and no lack of respect is taking place."
Most women want to give to power to a man they love. If the man acts like it's 50/50 the woman's attraction drops.
Amazing bravo best coach ever
So glad I watched this. I saw myself in almost all of these green flags and had already been working on the red flags in therapy DURING my relationship and making marked improvements. I see my ex in A LOT of the red flags. They left me, but what else could I do? I was an excellent partner and they weren't ready for me.
Would love to see a video on if a break/ time out is the same as a break up? Should time apart be considered a break up?
Spot on!!! I am so happy I decided to be on the workbook
I am so glad I bought the Workbook. All spots on
she's upset I can't make her happy. wow.
I felt responsible for her happiness.
Excellent! Thank you both!😊
Fantastic to see you Margaret !!!!! You sound great, voice nice and strong!! Take care -great to see both of you together! Very Interesting !!
“How can they make me happy.” 👀 I feel seen. Great perspective on how to break the fog of this lie.
This was eye-opening, thank you!
i have to say this video really makes you think ..
Love Margaret's glasses! 🥰
Great video! Thank you both!
This work book is making me realize that I truly need help 🙄....and all the while I’m thinking “ I’m good, know what’s up” 🤦🏻♀️
Context is important. If your partner has done something to rouse your suspicion, checking their cellphone is okay. Because it will save you years of being with a lying cheater. You could ask them but odds of your partner telling you the truth is low. I tried asking the first time but it didn't do shit. Only times I've ever needed to check my ex'es phone was 3 times, other ex'es who were trustworthy I never felt the need or urge to check their phones. 2 of those 3 turned out they were cheating. The 3rd had another woman's risque photo on his phone but explained it was an old photo from years ago that popped up by "accident".
I disagree, you shouldn't be with someone if you mistrust them so much.
I purchased your knowledge course. How do I get guidance on what videos to watch to match the work book?
I love that Craig talked about, that he really had a moment, when he realized that "some people need space" - I had the same experience the other way round; "some people don't need space and get really anxious, when I do and sick to their stomach".. I didn't understand that before it was too late unfortunately - but maybe in the next relationship...
You two ROCK!
I don't see how my ex would come back after 4 years of constant fighting, me stopping him from doing things, no intimacy after yr 1, we both live in diff states and he has no faith left in him that I will change after 4 years.
I'm still having trouble finding the answer the first question about what could happening you try to use someone else to make you happy..
Are these in order? I have all of them with my ex except for one even though I kinda have it.
Amazing video
Hi Craig, I am working with your knowledge book and things are now clearing up about my breakup. I asked him to give me space a while back but still texting him and not seeing or phoning him, he got so upset, he tried to take revenge and never got over it. He became slightly disrespectful and got distant. I had no idea why he has changed until I finally gave up and broke up with him. It has been 3months and it's been very difficult, I told him he can call me if he wants to work on it. He replied to my txt and saying that he has missed me. He is trying to bring up the commitment issue on the table. Do you think I should suggest your books to him? I know that he had been talking to a relationship coach in the past and hope he is working on himself now. I love him and want him back HEALTHY.
IM THROUGH THE SAME SITUATION AS YOU. STARTED THE WORKBOOK SERIES YESTERDAY.
If they have done the indirect approach and you ask them to hang and they rejected it saying they already had plans what's the next move do you just keep asking everytime they reach out.
You're wasting your wish wishing it for me.
uuu:) thank U, Margaret looks very good....want to hug her.I pray for u guys;) :* if you find a few million of euros-than me:*