Andrew Tate On How To Discipline Children
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The Gen Z kids definitly missed out on a well needed slapping by their parents considering how soft they are.
Nowadays the kids will call CPS themselves and make a tik tok about being removed from their home
🤣😂🥲😥😔
can we blame gen Z or the parents of gen Z that has gone soft?
@@faezahazmi I'd say that both definitly are at fault, social media has made it a lot harder for parents to teach their kids the important values.
@@faezahazmi don't very semisexaul and please use neo pronouns
Don’t diss my gen I’ve been beat y’all acting like all of us soft
Much respect to Andrew Tate.
Do you want good advice here's a hint your time is more important than gold and diamonds treat yourself like the most important thing alive because nobody else will
@@volgantifriebus9549 what? Ok….
@@volgantifriebus9549 is godzilla ok after reading that. Jesus christ man
Gen z has created this fantasy world living behind fake woke ideals, that common sense is unheard of. All Tate said was, if you piss someone off, you might get slapped. Woke feminists reacting 😳😳😳
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Both of my parents combined didn't hit me 10 times. I always knew that if I fucked up I would get hit. Each time I got hit I deserved it. Last time my dad hit me was when I was 13. I love my parents to death. I am the man I am today because of these wonderful people.
Nowadays kids need to realize "that's the line" which nobody crosses without consequences.
My father used to remind me who is at the top of the hierarchy and who is at the bottom and the relationship between them😂😂😂😂.
Top G is preaching😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
I dunno. My dad ended up beating the shit out of me but I always felt like I deserved it, and I still crossed the lines. To this day I still don’t know whether I was just stubborn, stupid or just plain rebellious, but I know one thing, I was a bad son, and part of me as a kid/teen enjoyed being a bad son. I never had any friends growing up and I was homeschooled and grew up on a computer, and as a result I was socially awkward for the first 16/17 years of my life. I want to say I’ve changed since then but not being able to keep a job after having 17 jobs at 20 years old isn’t necessarily the best way of saying “I’ve changed”.
I'm so thankful I was disciplined as a child
I love my Dad my than my life itself! But I got checked a few times, deserved it, and respect him more for what he taught me! Tate is on point!
my dad was the same i saw my sibling get it a couple of times i knew from then on not to fuck around or ill find out
Too many people Need to learn that when you talk disrespect you get PUNCHED IN THE FUCKING JAW!! TRUTH
My dad would beat us brutally. Hee taught us TO LIE. He said we would get hit for lying, but we always got beaten badly for telling the truth. We'd compare our belt marks when I was 5.. We had a competition for who had the belt buckle marks indented into their skin the most. A beating could last 2 hours. My ear was almost torn off from him pulling me by the ear soo often. He beat us severely. My mom enjoyed it. Shed get aroused sexually by my dad beating us. Shed also beat us brutally, but also be loving and it was very confusing. She hit me the hardest I've ever been hit in my life, with a cast iron frying pan full swing, smashed over my head. My dad would froth at the mouth and it was a regular happenstance, daily. They starved us and also pulled us out of karate and sports, to keep us weak. As teens, they got us to work for free for their company, for no money. They refused to teach us credit or banking. They promised we'd be paid and they were saving money for us in hidden accounts, but in fact, they were using our names and numbers for tax evasion. Its caused PTSD but it didn't kick in until later in life, due to my using Marijuana to medicate stress and depression as a kid. I could change the surroundings I was in then, so it keeps my mentality in the sense that you cannot do anything to better yourself. They were actually horrible parents and parents who advocate for hitting their kids, don't realize that parents like mine hear that and pat themselves on the back, calling it discipline, but it was just disgusting abuse. Some of my siblings still take drugs and don't speak to me because I wouldn't be cool with my dad hitting us so brutally. I noticed my parents did hit other adults ever. They weren't strong or tough. They beat children and kept them weak on purpose. If I see someone embarrassing their child or beating their child Id stop them.
Proverbs 13:24
Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.
Facts my dad only hit me twice in my life, n I learned what it was to be a man.
1. Time was when I was a 16 I’m 6’1’’ and my mom was trying to tell me what to do and I said some really disrespectful thing. My dad punched me in my chest and winded me. And he said “never disrespect your mother and my wife”
2. When I got arrested and booked and my dad came to pick me up after 2 days. Went home cleaned up and talked with my parents. I got the life slapped out of me when I started yelling at them. His reasoning was that I had to be humble because not everyone has parents to go pick them up and clean their mess. I was 19
Yeah your dad taught you you don't disrespect a man's wife and don't disrespect your mother. No matter what. You could disagree and all but don't disrespect the mothee.
Treat your wife the same, she goes first, even before a kid, even if you fought that same day.
My dude... If you got arrested and yelled at them.. you were not properly disciplined as a child
16/19 u were old enough to know u just don't do that
Those things should be learned sooner
You were a stup*d asshole and still yelled at your parents??
You weren't disciplined enough dude, you were raised a spoiled brat.
@@nicolascabrera4817 bad circles of friends maybe
Good father, he only hit you once when he had two reasons! 😂
I got hit twice too. Once when I said “f**k of” to my mum under my breath and she actually heard it 😂
You deserved it
You deserved it.
😂
u gon learn boy 😂😂
ok that's abuse
Yepp. I always say "discipline your kids.... or someone else will" .
Amen2that
Fax
Is that meant to be a threat cus im telling you if i have kids and someone hits them there gonna get bashed if there a adult
It's a threat? if you put your hand on my kids i am gonna hit you on another level stay away from my kids
So on point
I’m 25 and have a 5 year old brother. Watching the difference in how my brother is being raised compared to how I was raised is shocking. What’s even more shocking is how my mother can’t even see how different she is raising him. No discipline, letting him eat and drink what he wants rather than what his body actually needs. No wonder people seem to get worse and worse as time goes on.
Did child services take away people's kids because of "parental abuse" when you were growing up?
@@FactFusionU yeah, if kids were abused then authorities would get involved.
The same with me, there's a massive age gap between me and my little brothers and the upbringing is so different. I had my dad's discipline but he does when my youngest brother was 8 and they only had my mum. The difference is crazy. The eat all the food in the house and basically run wild
Yeah for my older brother we're 15 years apart except for him he got to do whatever he wanted while I had to do things "the right way" it's definitely interesting seeing parents have different styles raising siblings
I,m my mothers first born and only son, (4 sisters) growing up no one could tell who my mother loved the most , till this day. We,ve never expirience any Favoritism , But. What you,re saying is true I,m witnessing it on a daily basis
That's what I'm saying. Once I was talking about how my parents used to beat me when I fucked up bad. Suddenly someone started saying I feel bad for you. You were I abused. I explained it wasn’t abuse. It was for my own good so that I understand that my actions has consequences. If they hadn’t done that I would have done more fucked up shit in future. But he still kep saying that's still abuse and shit. I was like what the fuck? I'm now 27 years old. By looking back those days made me a better person and disciplined and this idiot is trying to force me to admit it was abusive when I appreciate that beating.
Holy shit dude. Happened to me too
I am 17 rn but I understand that. I used to fight Soo much after school that my father had to really just use a bat to discipline me and guess what I am not fighting anymore...
And my friend kill his father because he beated him . i guess it depends
I'm 24 and also been hit as a child. So, I agree
@@samuel97ful Beating up has to be balanced. There is one thing to keep a child in line. To make him understand that there are consciousness for his bad actions. But beating up a kid without making them understand what is bad and what is good is another problem. Parents have to teach them first what is bad and what is good. If after that they ignore the warning there can be hands involved. But if you leave your child jist saying stuff and making them grounded and all, they will end up like todays kids in most developed countries. Winny, weak, selfish, disobedient, ungrateful and indisciplined. All things should be at balance. And if you don't have a balanced control of your child from the start it can lead to situations like your friends. This happens in 2 scenarios
1. In which the kid first get too much freedom and suddenly the freedom vanishes and get little bit of violence to be controlled. So the child becomes the worst variant of himself.
2. When a child has been growing getting beat up by their parents immensely which at a certain age the child snaps and because he mostly witnessed violence through out the years he chooses violence to take revenge.
Because your friend did that doesn’t mean slapping your child when he/she is out of line is bad. If you don't do it at all and after years suddenly start doing it or if you do it too much is the problem.
@@samuel97ful There is difference beween slapping your kid once a year for a mistake and beating him everyday for no reason.
Very normal in Hispanic/Latino Black and Asian Households to get hit if you fuck up major there’s a difference between abuse and punishment one is sadistic and overboard the other is low and a last resort
My white ass got smacked up if I got way out of hand. I'm from Louisiana tho. People are wild down there.
I find it funny that blacks/Latinos always seem to say this as a point of pride. I understand the clichè of the spoilt white kid talking back but, let's be real, in many cities the Latino/Black youths run riots because they not only don't have discipline, they don't even have real parents at all.
fax, my dads belt was really hard 😂😂
I've known a lot of spoiled ass kids that were black Hispanic and asian, get your shit straight
@@ryanleblanc6817 my white ass got the belt too 😂😂 never did me any harm 😂😂
The problem is some parents don’t know where the ‘Line’ is. Discipline can turn into abuse real quick.
That's really the only problem.
This is true. And i think as new generation parents, we have a responsibility to teach our kids (when we have them) where that line is.
Loud minority
That’s because 50% of the population is dumb af
That's where(If parents cross the line)community moves in.
Hence,
"Takes a village to raise a child"
I also got beat. But lessons were learned.
Same here. Hated it at the time and thought my father hated me but looking back now I kinda appreciate it.
True. Kids these days need it
That fucking leather weight belt hurts bro
I got a couple smacks when I was younger. They were justified. I’m 20 so I think I’m gen Z, but a lot of gen Z kids didn’t get hit and I think a lot of them should’ve been. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that violent crime is on the rise considering how soft kids are brought up nowadays
@@Likeaworm bruhhhh, i can understand lmaoooo
I got hit with an extension cord a Mexican belt and I had to go help my mom at work every day cleaning strip clubs and she still wouldn’t drive me to school Or give me money she went out clubbing thu fri sat and sun and we paid cheap rent single mothers are evil and she has 6 baby daddys. And she has favorites. These women think the kids will never remember all there doing bruh 🤨
Fuck bro that hurt to read. So sorry you have to deal with that. You’ll obviously be a better parent one day.
Real Sorry to hear. Many single moms can be "world best mamas" and for some that's not the case might learn from their wrongs, change and are or might become great parent(s).
most single women are the worst kind of parent.
Your mother is everything a man could hate about a woman.
Damn…. That sounds horrible BUT you are NOT gonna let that tear you down. I can tell you’re a strong person
Same I got hit twice. The disciplinary action shouldn't be for years. You're suppose to learn your lesson as a KID.
Discipline is necessary but child abuse ruins lives
There's a fine line between the two,
Tate can't tell the difference.
My dad used to hit me because I was a really bad child lol I used to hate him until I matured and understood. Although it’s not right to hit children, it some cases it helps. Now I am 30 years old, with a nice car, a Uni degree and I just purchased my first house by a beautiful beach (Mexico). Now that I have my own children, I will never lay a finger on them. So I guess the moral of this story is, there can be better ways to raise children but a spanking won’t hurt IF necessary.
It helped you but it's not right. Discipline your children because if you don't the internet will do it for you.
@@anyetitan8410 they get disciplined if needed but I don’t hit them. They listen which is a plus.
@@AviaryAviles159 if words do the work then surely the wood is not needed..
@@anyetitan8410 no
Oh my god this comment section is justifying abuse, if you have to use violence means you FAILED TO RAISE HIM, ITS YOUR FAULT, NOT HIS, talk to him logically to fix a problem with maturity and STOP
@@gut6262 yup
SOMEONE SAID IT
We also need to understand that we just can't expect children to always behave...it's unrealistic to think a 5 year old should have the same understanding as an adult.
And hitting does nothing..it is an unnatural consequence that would never occur in the real world as an adult save for abusive relationships and situations.
By stepfather wooped my ass for getting Fs in school...he told me that I would never get a decent living or without school,and that a boss would not tolerate poor aptitude...
Which to a degree is true...but I can't think of a profession where a boss would whip their employees with a belt for poor performance.
It instills no practical wisdom other than
"Because I said so" but with an extra step.
My daughter has never required any physical discipline. My son on the other hand seems to sometimes enjoy pushing the boundaries until he's physically disciplined.
Yes for daughters is different but they must also learn never to raise their hand against a man or there might be a backlash
@@iammohdali8543 - Yeah certain females need to hear that. Because like I was trying to tell someone before but they didn’t want to hear me. Not all but certain females can get out of hand 🙄.
@@QuanBrown27 Yes they need to hear and learn that the time that you could hit a man and he won't return it, it's gone. Equal rights also means equal lefts
@@iammohdali8543 - Exactly 🤷♂️👍!
My brother used to start problems because he enjoyed being a pain in the ass and admitted it. He made my mom cry because she was stressed out from a long drive and he just kept getting on her nerves and his only response was "Did I break her?" He got a few ass whoopings that he admits he completely deserved. He's glad he got them when he was a kid instead of an adult.
I only got smacked by dad once. Though he would regularly give me a flick in the ear for disobeying him. The one time he did smack me was when I basically called his bluff… bad move 😂
The difference between discipline and abuse, is that a child that is disciplined with violence is not scared of their parent, they're scared of consequences when they fuck up, because no one wants to get the belt. A child that's abused is simply terrified of their parent's presence, because the beatings are arbitrary and there's no rhyme or reason to it.
As someone who was raised in an abusive household I’m so glad someone is able to make the distinction between discipline and abuse. Discipline is a deliberate response that is the consequence of the child’s action and the intention is never to harm them. Abuse is often an impulsive reaction that is the consequence of a parents inability to manage their anger/frustration in a situation where a child misbehaves, with little regard for the physical outcome. 100% agree with ur point about the emotional aspect - fear and tyranny have no place in a household and children deserve safety and respect too :)
Great comment that captures the difference in tone and atmosphere when around a loving parent that has been pushed to take action on a few occasions and someone who has terrified and destroyed the ambience between them and their child.
Well done 👍👏
@@juliak1511 Another great comment full of great points also Julia 👌👏
No one should be taking their hardships out on their children.
@@thebesttheworst2277 thank you :)
A belt is not a natural consequence though so it teaches nothing.
he has opened the eyes of everryone.. keep at it tatey!!!
My father was the same. Yelled and screamed when warranted and Only had to smack me a few times for me to understand the real boundaries of life. My father passed away 3 months ago and I’ve never missed something or someone more in my life.
So sorry for your loss, he was a great man and an incredible father indeed
I'm sorry.
He apparently has 3 fathers, one in Air Force, one in CIA and another one a professional chess player.
Or his father was Johnny Sins, ig.
basically, you got options.
So my Husband has been an infantryman for 24 years, he's about as rough as they come but he doesn't and will not discipline our kids. Our kids amore afraid of me than they are of him for whatever reason, we didn't raise them to be that way, that's just the way they see us. They'll beg him not to tell me about certain things because I get very creative with punishment and I don't cave to their apologies and whatnot. Some kids require a spanking every now and then, other kids do not, you have to discipline according to the child, it's not a one size fits all.
Yeah, some fair points there. Some kids NEED it. I was one of them. But many don't. I slapped both of my son's arses if they did something moronic (touch the cooker, try to run away in the street etc) but never because I was angry. I never had to touch them after they were 3/4 years old.
I sure hope your kids don't perceive your "creative" approach as you taunting and humiliating them.
My mom tried the usual psychological warfare women like so much on me when I was a kid. It wasn't too bad at first, just annoying. However, the fact that she would come up with that crap instead of just being real got on my nerves eventually. After participating in that charade for several times I felt nothing but resentment towards her and her games. I didn't care about her forgiveness or reasons for the punishment.
I waited for dad to come home and do things the sane way. My pops was strict and didn't shy away from being "physical", but at least he didn't treat me like some trick monkey to test his imagination on. To me it was as if he didn't anticipate me messing up, he didn't plan to punish me and didn't want to do it. It was over quickly so I could just go and do things the right way.
@@Poppenheimer69 no. My kids know what's coming it isn't a game, I don't play with people's psychological well being. Example: my daughter has a habit of slamming her door when she's angry and we've warned her about it, last time she slammed the door, I took it off the hinges and put up a curtain. She was staying up late on her phone, so I took her phone and she got a flip phone. Needless to say she's careful with doors and shuts doen her phone at bedtime now.
Agreed
when you've felt a mothers slap to the back of your legs.... you learn lessons real quick.!!! 😆
And what lesson is that?
Not to piss mommy off? Because that doesn't exactly instill an understanding of right and wrong.
The most important teachings from parents are manners, and advice without cursing and cursing.
This was my father, I wouldn’t have the values I have without him.
"Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them." - Ancient Hebrew Proverb
The rod is to guide children, Not beat children. Shut your mouth if you dont know anything
Notice the word CAREFUL...this verse has been warped completely out of context.
A slap is mandatory to restart the software every time a malfunction occurs.
I used to get whacked and turned out ok 👀
And guess wat, turned out ok is rare nowadays..... Good for u bro
i never got ehacked and i also turned out great
I never got beaten as a child and turned out ok and are disiplined. Hit a child in any form is abuse and are never ok. This view is disgusting 🤮
"He who loves correction loves knowledge, he who disregards discipline is a fool."- King Solomon
But you can't just slap discipline on something like it applies to everything.
@@dakotastein9499 Discipline literally applies to everything, whatever we choose to do in this world we can either do with discipline or without it. Drinking, eating, sleeping, studying everything we do improves when we apply discipline.
@@pikiaonorman3636
You can't just haul off and hit someone and say your disciplining them.
@@dakotastein9499 I agree with you but your confusing abuse and discipline, they are two different things. Discipline is good for you and obviously abuse is not. Discipline is the art of correcting ones behaviour or conduct through punishment (Not Abuse).
@@pikiaonorman3636
Which can be done without hitting,slapping or any other forms of violence...
The only acceptable time to do so is when defending yourself or protecting another.
I haven't had many whoopins either. I learned to listen to my father and life has been great due to his teaching. REST EASY DADDY❤️
I feel like kids are by default afraid of disappointing their parents so it won't even take a lot to make them feel bad if they mess up. Physical means should be a last resort if you observe that the child is not showing remorse over being wrong.
Stop justifying violence. This shit would be illegal if it was a random person on street. Just because it’s your child doesn’t give you the right to use physical violence on them.
Facts
Facts
Lmao 😂 your soft
@@Martin_salcedo i don’t think it has anything to do with being soft. It’s like picking on a smaller person. Adults should never hit a kid in the first place.
@@marke6533 lmao it’s not abuse at all. Some people need to get the sense smacked in them.
U can raise a child well with out hitting them yk
Same bro my dad cracked me one time and I never fucked up again . I maybe didn’t have as much love for him on that specific day but to this day I’m thankful for that one good smack that straightened my brain out the rest of the way. It was all over my mom asking if I wanted anything from the store and I said “ a pop” and my mom said no not tonight “ I said “ well fine u just suck then “ my dad stood up so fast flew across the dining room table and said what the hell you just say to your mom ?” Smacked me into next week and this was right after they had an argument where they were going back and forth so I thought he’d be on my side I guess not lmao
Now when I think about it. My dad only hit me 3 times in life. My mother on the other hand….
Talked back to my mom once she smacked me in the mouth, never ever talked back to my mom ever again and she rarely even hit us
True story
I agree with this HOWEVER this method does not work on ADHD children. In fact, every professional will tell you it will worsen their behavior. ADHD children only learn to improve their behavior from being praised on their good behavior. I just think this is information that parents should know about. ADHD is not just hyper, low focused children. Their brains literally function differently and react differently. They don't need drugs either by the way. Just praise, positivity, support and love. Most ADHD symptoms drastically decline around puberty.
Growing up in a Korean household I got my ass beat a lot. Hated it at the time but appreciate it now. Everything Andrew said plus you develop thick skin. My white friends never got hit and would cuss at their parents and the worst punishment I’ve seen for them was getting grounded 😂😂
Physically harming a child in any way to "teach" or "discipline" instead of putting in the hard work and setting a foundation for negotiation is low IQ and barbaric.
You can teach your kids self defense and how to defend themselves physically, but using physical harm of any kind just makes people trigger happy.
All this "fine line" bs, it's like just say you wanna hit kids and stop hiding behind this grandstanding justification of violence against entities that can't protect themselves.
Sounds like how I grew up. Nothing about this is out of the ordinary.
How about instead of worrying about how to discipline, condemn, gatekeep, and blame each other. Y’all learn how to raise your kids and teach them morals. For example, blocking your kid from gta and the internet doesn’t teach them a thing or keep them safe long term. All it does it makes your kid feel sad or left out and can soon turn to depression. Instead of blaming the social media or other people, blame yourselves. When you were kids did you not try your hardest to do something against your parents rules?? teach them how to handle those “dark roads”. Teach them why things in Violent games like gta is wrong. Teach them how to be safe on the internet. not block it entirely.
Spare the rod and spoil the child. It’s Biblically ok to physically discipline your children but he’s right that it’s a fine line.
It’s actually, whoever spares the Rod from his son hates him but he who disciplines his son loves him. I think when you read the original way it hits home a little harder. Makes you think it wrong to just let your kid get away with everything cause you’re too lazy or tired to enforce some decent behavior.
@@kingleonidas4296 There are other ways to discipline a child. And beating children has given so many truamas and ptsd. You lack common sense
The rod here is for guiding.
That verse has been warped and interpreted far past it's intention...if poeple had any understanding of the culture in which it was written,and the wording that was chosen,they wouldn't make that mistake.
So why this "properly" disciplined man can't talk in a normal way (instead he is arrogant and nervous simultaneously), and sits in a room wearing sunglasses? 😂
I was a kid that didn't get disciplined, and I got in lots of trouble for it doing things I shouldn't have done. It didn't come from my single mother- it came from society. He's absolutely right. 💯
You are a legend, your family should be proud of you👍
Old folk always Said, if i come home crying cause some other kid beat me up, i would get a second One on The arrival. Miss you like hell old man 😕
Fight fluency’s
When I turned 18. The first thing my dad said to me was “happy birthday son, you’re a man now. So if you fuck up im gonna hit you like one.”
I understand and appreciate my single mom disciplining me when I desrved it as a child
Got my butt beat for being stupid and following the protective rules set by my parents. I have never resented them for this. if you break the rules there are consequences. Prison is full of rule breakers. Not too hard a concept to figure out...
This dude is spot on !!!
You don't have to beat your kids to keep them in line, but the threat of a beating has to be there.
Fear is an excellent motivator.
I agree, if you hit your kid right the first time, the fear of being hit again will help keep you in line. It worked for me when my father disciplined me.
And has very real, sometimes violent consequences. Kids nowadays don’t even have sense enough to be scared. A very close friend said this and i almost pissed myself. It’s both funny and sad.
So you would raise your child by fear and not by love? Because that's not what I would do. If they fear you, they would secretly hate you. You slap them without telling them the reason, it's abuse. Fear has its own consequences. If they got off the line, and you are threatening their lives, what would you think they'd do? Suicide. Do you want your kids to suicide? If you are a parent, I feel sorry for your kids. I disagree with every single point that you are trying to make here.
@@kristoffersana960 what
@@justinvermette267 no it won’t
it's crazy that this man is so hated... he's basically nothing more than an average man with old school standards... these gen z and most millenials are so soft they think that this is a baf person. This is how billions of us are... good people, we just dont take any sh1t...
That FIRST- slap level of humbleness! *Can’t kill Tate*🙏🏽
Disciplining a child is not abuse.... most kids nowadays becomes such a spoil brat because the parents just et them do what they want since they were a child....that will spoil the kids and they will have a twisted sense of justice
Same here. Father made sure I knew where the line was and definitely understood there is a fine line.
I agree with tate but it is a fine line. Male here who had an abusive father. Was hospitalized more than a dozen times before my 10th birthday. Beaten senseless more times than I could count after then. It only stopped once I hit the gym and got some serious size to the point where he couldnt hurt me. I never hit him back. Im terrified of having kids because the older I get the more of my father I see in myself and I hate it. I was not horrible child. Discipline is needed but there is a fine line.
Me too, twice 😂
Why is twice the lucky number? ,😂 Me too. Im greatful to him tho. Even tho he left when I was 12, there was a time when I ignored all the value and masculinity he actually taught me directly and indirectly. I didn't realize I learned game from him as a kid. I didn't acknowledge that the only reason I had a gf at age 7 is because I learned how to play by listening to the way he talked to women customers as he was a salesman. My dad could've been a conman , a politician but he threw his life away chasing pxssy. Nonetheless I recognize now the game I got from him never left me.
I remember my mom putting her cigarette out on the floor at Walmart and knocking me into next week. I was being a massive douche and deserved it.
The word influencer gets thrown around but Tate is the definition
There is a difference between discipline and violence. My father was violent, for example.
I only heard of this guy before , but since his "censorship " this is my first time listening and idk why they canceled him lol
Because a video leaked of him hardcore beating a woman came out even tho she said it was consensual and she liked it the world seemed put off by his vicious actions
@@mfdoomnyc1471 sooo not 'hardcore', they were role-playing a sexual kink... #Dominatrix. They used that as an excuse but he got cancelled because he is vaccuum'n the smoke they blow up our asses.
Her body, her choice.
@@niconycoable I totally agree but I also seen the video and that shit was brutal asf
@@mfdoomnyc1471 it was foreplay according to her. Different strokes for different folks.
As to why Tate's wearing sunglasses inside. I guess it's also a power up as oppose to the hand signal.
If you're a child and someone hits you, it is abuse. Stop denying your own abuse.
Lmao no it’s not your just soft.
I've never understood how it's always wrong to hit a woman but when it comes to kids there's this massive gray area. The kid didn't choose you, can't leave and has a developing brain they're learning on the fly with.
Father's today wouldn't dare slap their son
And then 15 years later they're shocked to hear that they now have a daughter
What ?🤣😂🤣😂
Bruh💀💀💀
So you are saying that beating your child will become man what bs you are spreading
Hitting kids is just wrong. U are a bad parent if you cant teach a child without hitting them
That why many gen z are softies!
@@FN_Ang3l So you are telling me, That me getting truamatized from it is soft of me?
@@FN_Ang3lyou are aware a good majority of millennials and gen xers spanked their kids right? The same kids that grew into the gen z we know now.
You should never get hit at all by parents. That’s just awful.
My ass was beat until 19 years old by my dad but made me a man
@Banx haha at least 10 more years till proper adulthood:D
@Banx 14-19 is the most rebelious part. But its good he understand that the beating is for his own good.
If you allowed it when you were already older you were weak.
19? You were a fucking adult...don't you think that's a bit too old to get spankings from "daddy"?
.I was arguing with my therapist about this. I grew up very similar to Tate. My parents could bring 5 kids anywhere and we didn't run around or talk back or allowed to be "wild". I remember my dad taking my older brother to the wood shed for an ass-beating for saying the "F-word" at school. I called my mom a b*!ch ONCE as a teen and I got knocked off my stool so fast my head spun! Didn't know dad had been standing behind me 😬 I know all 5 of us got spanked so hard (one slap each but we were all limping the next day!) after my mom had come into our rooms telling us to go to sleep numerous times and we were all wound up for some reason and the last time she started to cry. Boy, my dad saw that and we kids couldn't move fast enough when he stormed through the doorway. I later found out that they were trying to discuss serious health problems my mom was having and because my father (a policeman) worked nites they had little time together ever. We kids picked a bad nite to goof around. I hated my dad for years. But I also respected him and we damn well learned to listen with ZERO smart back talking. As the last child still living at home when she died I got to see the human side of him for the first time. I watched his hair turn white from stress within a month of her diagnosis. I watched my parents go from planning their retirement (they bought a little camper and my mom sewed all the curtains and cushions) to my dad having to go back to work 3 months after his retirement from the force because they needed the health insurance, and we all watched mom wither away. I watched my dad break down in the hospital hallway after the doctors told him she wasn't coming back. It was time to unhook her from the machines. I hated my dad growing up because I didn't understand the hard farming life he grew up with and how his dad treated his own kids. Dad says we had it better. I believe him. Stopped hating my dad during that heartbreaking summer while he retired, the community celebrated their 25 year anniversary, and we buried mom weeks later. I forgive him. My therapist tells me all of us kids were abused because we lived in fear of him and if we stepped out-of-line we got smacked. Not BEAT. But it was gonna leave a mark. I was so offended by the label! When Tate says life has lines that you don't cross without threat of physical consequences, I 💯 agree. I would never use a cuss word in front of him to this day. We were taught to obey without question or else, true. And he wasn't affectionate or involved or verbally supportive very often. But as a male role model there was no "can't" in his vocabulary. He built it with his own hands, he fixed it himself when it broke - from welding, to carpentry, to engines, to electrical & plumbing and from breaking horses to ride to sitting down with popcycle sticks & medical tape to splint broken chicken legs (those little things hopped around on those stick casts until their legs healed - yes, there's a story to that one lol) to being the one who grabbed the gun and took care of it whenever a beast had to be put down. I doubted if he really loved us. Mom was the one who rsised us, who cheered for us and never missed a game or show, who sewed our costumes and doll clothes, who held and hugged and told us we could do anything if we set our minds to it. Dad led by silent example. My dad was like superman. No excuses and no complaining. At 20 I got my hand caught in an auger and as the doctors discussed the options for re-attachment surgeries, my dad blurted out "What about me? Can you use any of my skin or veins or muscles?" and he put his arms out as if to show them that his arms were strong and healthy. They could chop off any parts they needed from him to save my hand.
I don't feel like I was abused. We were raised to be tough and respectful with strong morals and good manners. I find it hard to even find many "real men" in society today. I want a man like my dad .... But able to communicate and show affection too! My expectations are probably too high.
But these standards were bred into me. I would rather carry my own toolbox and drive a truck with my dog riding shotgun until the good Lord calls me home than lower these standards because I think I'm lonely. Wow. This was a long rant!!
Maybe I should call dad and see if he'd like to grab a cup of coffee some day soon.
That it was only Twice, is EXACTLY what gives those lines their definition. If you are smacking your kids all the time, over everything, those lines will never be clear.
My dad pinched my ears hard once for talking rudely to my big sister, learnt one lesson hard never happened again never pinched me again, love that man
Either your parents can correct you as a child or the world can correct you as an adult.
It's call getting your attention.. because you cross the line. It doesn't take but once or twice as a young boy to know what respect is from your parents.
There is a difference between discipline and abuse.
As a latina, both my parents would whoop my ass if I did something dumb af. Not hard that will leave bruises on me, but enough so I’ll learn. Shit at some point, my cat tried defending me but got whooped with the chancla too 😂
Haters gonna say he needs more beating for being a misogynist
That’s what I tell some of my more wealthy and privileged friends that never got hit as kids “there’s a very noticeable line if you grew up making sure you didn’t cross it”
So you mean not beating children=spoiling them? You have zero common.sense
It's called Tough Love. If you know. You know. Love tate💪🏽💕
* child burns self on stove *
This generation's Parent: " im canceling stoves and suing the maker for the stove getting that hot "
All the times I got the shit beaten out of me, I never felt like I was abused.
I knew I fucked up and I accepted what came with it.
Trust me, it's different when you're actually a product of a 2 parent household and the Father is the Head.
This guy is smarter than 90% of humans ofc they cancel him
I agree 100%. I was spanked as a child and i quickly learned negative actions ignite negative consequences. If you don’t want the consequences don’t engage in the activities and behavior that produce negative outcomes
I got hit by my dad exactly once in my life and it was like a big strong pat on the back. I love my dad to death and never hated him for it.
My mom used to throw me on the ground and kick me while shouting "gangster style mf, gangster style!"
Tbh I'm pretty fkd up about it still 😭
Damn I know so many people would disagree with this but as a father of two young boys I definitely agree. I haven’t had to slap them yet but when they start trying to get tough with me I tell them if they do that in school to another kid they better be ready to be hit. I definitely get slightly aggressive in my demeanor and tone when I’m saying it to try to make them feel some sort of fight or flight reaction and they’re both fight not flight. Gonna get them into the martial arts and continue to teach them respect and consequence.
I got whooped more than twice in my life time but bro is spitting facts
That’s some real shit💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 Whoop that ass because if you don’t do it at a young age somebody will do it out in the streets