Frenchman here. About the berets... you might occasionally see a man or a woman wearing one of those as a fashion accessory. You might also see more people wearing them in southwestern France as it's part of the traditional attire. But all in all they largely are something from the past, and very few French people actually wear them nowadays - unlike blue jeans and NYC caps. I'm 66, and the last person I saw really wearing a beret was my grandfather who would be 120 year-old today.
Yes, good point (my wife is French, btw!). It's the same as assuming that the British wear bowler hats...sure, they used to be common. Now - so rare as to be very noticeable!
Just a tip for customer service situations: American mindset: "I'm the customer. You need my money therefore be nice to me." French mindset: "I'm the worker. You need my service therefore be nice to me." I've actually heard American tourists say things like "I'm not happy with this service. I'll never come here again." to which the French worker responds "Okay then leave. Nobody is forcing you to be here. It's okay."
@@DanilooscarBlandonMartinez lmao yes you do. You're the one that came in wanting something. Nobody came to you soliciting a service. You're not entitled to anything.
@@knucklehoagiesYou simply don't understand how business works. The consumer has endless choices as to where to dine whereas for the establishment every customer turned off presents a lost opportunity to make money and pay workers. There is a reason a whole industry called advertising exists - the customer and the service provider are not equal.
@@vmoses1979 blah blah blah that's all you're saying. Clearly you don't understand how mutual respect works. Service workers are there to provide a service not to kiss your butt. Learn the difference
100% agree! We visited Paris in the spring and by learning basic French (thank you for your basic French phrases btw) it got us soooo far! There were a couple times we were brought to the front of the line , given free champagne and even were helped out with directions in the street. Make sure you learn in French “do you speak English” or “sorry I do not speak French” , always speak French first and then go into English or whatever language. Also google translate is your friend! Definitely use it. We were blown away with how kind the Parisians were and I think because we spoke French first it made our experience so much better. You a visitor in the country, respect the language and the people will take care of you.
We are planning a trip for in 2025 and I’ve started taking French lessons (just to get the basics). It’s very hard for me and I’m worried about how silly I sound with my Texas accent, but at least no one can accuse me of not trying! 😂
I'm sorry to say I have never been to France. That said, I used to work as a TSA officer in the International terminal of an American airport. When a traveler would present me with a French passport I would always say "Bonjour" and "Merci, au revoir". Sometimes I would be asked if I spoke French and I would say no,. I would then go on to explain that I was a history major in college and was very aware of the contribution France made in helping America gain independence from Britain. In an instant, you would see the French persons face light up and smile as I mentioned Lafayette, General Rochambeau and Admiral DeGrasse. To a man, every Frenchman would say "Well, you helped us out in '44", to which I would always reply "Well, that's what friends are for". The French were very appreciative of an American acknowledging their vital contribution to our country and I learned that a little history goes a long way.
I’ve been to France multiple times never came across people who were rude…most were friendly..I’m not sure what people expect it’s not an amusement park…in fact my first trip to Paris many years ago my wife and I were standing outside a train station trying to figure out the system with our book..an older gentleman stopped and explained it all to us…later he explained he had worked for American Airlines for many years and now retired..he wished us a great stay..I’ve never forgotten that gentleman..being from NYC ..I always love helping out some confused tourists as a tribute to him..
"I’ve been to France multiple times never came across people who were rude…most were friendly.." True...to an extent. To say that whole of France are friendly, is ABSURD. I've been to France 4 times in my life. One thing they do MOST times, is to change the menu in English and double charge once they spot the American.
I LOVE that you said to say Hello to shopkeepers when in France! As an American who loves France and has been there several times, things like this are a subtlety that I learned while there. Merci beaucoup!
I never even realized making fun of the French about WWII was a thing until this week when I heard another travel vlogger talk about it. I can't believe that Americans could be so insensitive. I've always thought that the French people suffered so much loss during WWII and making fun of a whole generation of people in another culture for that is just disgusting. There aren't enough bad words to describe how embarrassing this is for me as an American.
I can't speak for other states, but California Public High Schools hardly teach any World War II history. It's discouraging and embarassing for me as an American.@@francocanuck
The French Resistance were absolute heros during WWII resisting and sabotaging the Germans. Most who were caught were shot by the Germans. There is NOTHING cowardly about the French
@@10538overture vichy was a government who signed a cease fire . not a capitulation, while the army had been crushed, the capital city had been taken, 100 000 soldiers had died and more than a million had nbeen cut off and made prisonners, and tens of thousands of civilians were on the road. Vichy was dealing with a foreign army and never accepted to negociate the peace, and Vichy is actually the reason why France was still ennemy og Germany till the end of the war, and why France was a winhner of WW2. the funny thing is that France is bashed by so called allies, on a conflict it won. utterly ridiculous...
People claim Parisians are rude, but from what I understand is they have a very engrained standard of etiquette- and phrases like “hello, I can see you are very busy…” are used almost default, regardless of whether the person looks busy at all.
My father was an intelligence officer in WWII. He had great respect for the French as fighters. The army collapsing was mostly due to failed leadership. It did not mean that individual French troops were not courageous and skilled warriors. Also, the French people bravely resisted during the occupation.
@@steveburke7675 Crude Internet humor is lost on your generation. For some reason the immediate reaction is "well I don't do that." As if your anecdotal evidence means anything. My point was, its an old joke that lacks any originality or wit. It's may have been funny in the post-war era but in 2024 it just sounds corny and dated. I did not intend any disrespect towards you personally. I love older folks and respect many of them in all honesty. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
"Also, the French people bravely resisted during the occupation." absolutely not, that was actually an extreme minority of people (coming from a French person).
French guy here. Always keep in mind that Paris, is a very busy city. People won't sometimes have no interaction with you simply cause they're in a hurry. I am living in Rouen, Normandy. The memory of WW2 is rather vivid here, and American tourists are most of the time the most welcome guests. We know some of you speak rather loudly, but hey, not a big deal, we also know how to talk loud... Remember, a "bonjour" and a smile are the most efficient keys for opening the hearts.
😅Yes, Parisians in a hurry! I got a shock when I visited Paris for the first time and at 6:30 pm as we were getting off the RER to go to the Metro link, everyone was literally RUNNING towards us to catch some train home. It was like something out of a movie where people are running for their lives from danger. I'll never forget that. 😅
One of the more recent bits of military history that most Americans don't know is that the whole "miracle at Dunkirk" was possible in large part to the French army performing a large-scale fighting retreat without which it's likely the history of WWII would have been very different. Also, the French soldiers weren't cowards, they were simply stuck operating under a command structure designed to fight a totally different war. (A problem that *every* military had to varying degrees, including ours.)
It's also worth remembering that it was only 22 years since they'd finishing fighting (and defeating) a devastating German invasion that left large parts of Northern France in ruins.
There was a French tank regiment that bested the Germans in two tank battles, chewed up several panzers and even took prisoners in the first few days of the German invasion and had them on the run. They wanted to press forward and slice into the German lines, but they got pulled back by a panicking French High Command and the opportunity was lost. It's one of the great tragedies of 'what if'?
My 1st trip to France I realized how friendly the French are (always were told they were rude). We Americans need to remember we are a visitor we should never expect a country to conform to us. Just go with the flow and enjoy the culture you choose to visit.
I'm French and usually I don't like videos. I didn't expect such a pertinent analysis. I'm very impressed by the ability of Wolters to get what annoys and the reason why. Bravo!
You are very nice to us French ! Honestly the only two things I find annoying is when people come to you speaking their own language as if we were supposed to understand it! It’s a very colonialist attitude, each time I travel I make sure to learn few words of the country I am visiting, it’s a minimum and I think people like it. Being loud is another annoying thing, kind of like not noticing there is people around you… but some French are loud too, not necessarily a foreign thing. Honestly you don’t have to eat things you don’t like, I think people will understand, many French don’t eat snails or frog legs, poor little things😢. It’s great to see you apparently enjoying your time in France ! 😊
Bravo Wolters, everything you say is based on common sense. The French in general find Americans very friendly and cheerful. I regret never having had the opportunity to go to the USA but every time I meet visitors from this country I don't fail to ask them where they come from, their impressions, it is always a pleasant experience to exchange with people from elsewhere. Here you go, thank you again for this excellent video. Et bienvenue en France à nos amis américains.😀🥰
Just a Bonjour makes a huge difference when you walk into a place or get into a taxi, just like 'Hola' in Spain. The locals acknowledge that you are trying and respecting their culture. France is not like Italy - do NOT talk loudly, laugh loudly or be overly friendly. The French are quite reserved people but friendly nonetheless. On my last visit to Paris, the taxi drivers and waiters in cafes were very very nice actually.
To be more exact, it depends of the location & generation The millenials and gen z in big cities would 1000 times prefer you speak english. Then speak french with your bad grammar, wrong pronunciation, bad accent, weird vocabulary that gives headache and confuse them 😂 they usualy know english, they want you to get to the point quicker, and are too much worried and self absorbed about their personal life problems to care that you the foreigner makes effort to say some french words 😆 Gen x and boomer from small cities. They are little more patriotic and old school civilised manners. And they will appreciate it you try to say some words in french The mentality differ depending on those factors And finaly if you gonna speak english. Speak a clear slow english. Using simple vocabulary 😆 Dont come out there speaking to local europeans as if youre speaking to your homie in Chicago using slangs, complex sentences & speaking fast 😂
Unless you walk into an eatery in the evening. I walked in, said Bonjour, and was quickly given a Bonsoir. I hit myself in the head and repeated her Bonsoir, and we had a wonderful laugh. Yes, just one word can get you into good graces.
This! A rule of thumb for every tourist should be: what's the proportion of clients around here whose first language is English? If it's the minority, just use a few words in the local language. I also got much better service in Spanish speaking countries by knowing how to say hi, thank you, and simple words to order at restaurants. Did you know that in Japan, in certain restaurants, if you do not speak Japanese, they won't even let you have a table. Just learn a few words, guys, it's not complicated ☺
@@ShadowSolaris Yes about Japan but that's not really because you can't speak Japanese, it's because the restaurant doesn't feel like they could accomodate you well because they don't speak English.
This is so important, thank you for posting it! I think a lot of tourists really overlook the importance of learning local etiquette when they visit somewhere, thinking they won't be interacting much with locals so they don't need to really pay attention, and that their own culture's etiquette is "just common sense". Even if you're in a tight tour group, you're going to interact with a local, and spending 15 minutes ahead of time considering their etiquette, and how it may differ from yours, will go a long way.
Colmar or Strasbourg is an enchanting and charming little town/village that looks straight from Fairytale book. A looking Medieval/Middle age place (the houses structure looks more from 16th century) It’s located right across the Franco German border. And speaking of territory, it used to be to the German throughout wars (Franco Prussian War 1871, WW1 and WW2) What’s amazing about it it had never been shelled
French person here. All of that is good advice. Let me emphasize the Bonjour rule and the not-speaking-loudly rule, that are the two rules most likely to be broken by some Americans. But generally speaking, don't worry too much. American tourists are appeciated for their big smiles and their golden retriever attitude and they're definitely not seen as bad tourists to have around.
I understand the "Bonjour" etiquette but what's wrong with speaking loudly? As an American, my mindset is usually "mind your own business. It's not like I'm speaking to you. And if you wanna join our conversation, we welcome it as long as you're friendly but don't tell us what to do"
@@knucklehoagies The first reason is very Kantian in its approach. It can be summed up as "if everyone around here spoke as loudly as you, nobody could hear anything and it would give me a headache". The second reason is that it bothers those around you. Your voice is a disagreeable intrusion into their own privacy. It's a bit like a bad smell. You say "mind your own business" and it's funny because a French person would probably answer "Well, mind YOUR own business. Nobody needs to hear your whole life". I hope that explanation is satisfactory. Thanks for sharing your opinion.
I thought all French people were rude and snobby. Until I met a group of people visiting the USA from France. They were so friendly and warm. I now want to go to France.
My wife and I have been traveling to France since the 1980's -- never had a bad experience and had plenty of great times! For example, back about 2000, we stayed at a small hotel on the edge of Nimes... it was the off-season and very few people were about. We found that the owner and his wife enjoyed just chatting by the fireplace after dinner. On our departure day, the owner gave us a bottle of wine. What nice people! And on our first road trip in 1988, we stayed at a chateau (Ouchamps Relais des Landes). I had trouble narrowing things down to find the right local road south of Blois. Found a phone and phoned the chateau; we were closer than we thought and found the place driving on a small dirt road through a cornfield (the corn was ready for harvest). We had a wonderful dinner (sat down at 9:42 p.m.) by the fireplace in the dining room. My roasted rabbit and mushroom sauce was to die for. Next morning, they brought breakfast up to our room. Heavenly! We extended our stay for a third night. I could go on and on....
Dang. I could not imagine doing any of this. I noticed people were saying “Bonjour” every time I went into a store in Lyon. It immediately made me realize that was the norm so I responded in kind. I liked the French.
@@nathansnead7371 Try at least learning some French basic words. Like Bonjour, Au Revoir, Merci beaucoup, s’il vous plaît. It’s more easier than you think
Pretty much applies as general rule for travelling: Try to learn a few words of the local language. Try to be polite and greet people. Try to keep your voice down and respect those around you because even though YOU are on avvacation and having fun, there are other people there too who would also like to enjoy being there without you disturbing them. Being polite means keeping your voice down…in trains, cafes, PARKS, restaurants etc. I go to a park nearby on my days off to get away from the stress and enjoy the fresh air and the peace and quiet. So do other locals. In Europe, when you go to a park, you talk with a quiet voice so that you do not disturb others, to let everyone relax and enjoy the park. Then you get the tourists who run around and keep yelling and screaming and laughing loudly and you just wanna go: READ THE ROOM, people!!! 🙄😡 When travelling, observe what most people do and you’ll know how to behave. But as a general rule in Europe: Try to keep the volume down, try to be polite and greet people and learn a few words in the local language, try to have manners (table manners and being respectful), and please don’t go into the city wearing a tank top and shorts with your boobs and butt out and with flip flops. Or worse, in your pyjamas. Shorts and a tank top are fine, but keep it CLASSY. And know that it could be that you won’t be allowed into some churches or restaurants if you aren’t dressed properly. And yes that’s for everyone, not just the Americans and that applies to pretty much all of Europe, not just France. Europe is big on manners and on trying to keep things classy.
Thank you for these good remarks. Being polite, educated (not being loud) and dressing appropriately (no shorts, spaghetti straps, sneakers, flip flops in cities - that is beachwear ; no backpacks in cities - that is camping/hiking gear), not standing out as a tourist (also for your own safety) will take you anywhere in the world, not only in Europe. But how come this needs to be said ? It is part of basic manners !
Well said. Many tourists have never encounter sophistication and refinement as they still exist in France. Having money to go to 5 stars hotels and expensive restaurants is one thing, having the codes and manners that go with it should be mandatory. So, please do not play "Kardashian style" nouveau riche characterized by sloppiness, entitlement, absence of class, vulgarity and total absence of savoir-vivre.
@@solangelauthier2381 I mean these days sneakers are fine…IF they are classier, clean CITY sneakers meant for the city. Not running shoes or dirty old sneakers. And a backpack is okay, if it’s a small city backpack that is more of a purse than a backpack. However, no matter how nice of a leather backpack it would be….I would never wear a backpack simply because it is a pickpocket’s delight. You’d need to carry it in front of you most of the time to not get robbed, so it’s not practical and you might as well have a purse instead.
Americans often have a sense entitlement and think everything is weird or different or awful because it’s not the same as we have here. Why visit other countries if you’re not open to experiencing other cultures, norms, food, language, etc. How would you like if visitors were condescending about their experiences, people, language, food, etc? As the host stated, Paris is not all of France and is a diverse nation. We’d all be happier if we learned practicing acceptance, kindness and respect for one another. Merci.
I have been learning french for six years, and am traveling in summer 2024 with my class. We are going to paris, Lyon, Nice, and flying out of monaco. Im really exited, and this trip was just on my mind so funny coincidence you would post this!
Regarding the French being cowards and eager to surrender: - This is not funny and downright offensive and disrespectful. - WW2 defeat was due to indecisive leadership, afraid to impose suffering on par with what was experienced during WW1. Britain’s leadership under Chamberlain was no better (“keep calm and carry on” was to prepare the British population for an inevitable German invasion, not a show of determination to fight). The US was AWOL until 1941. - Among the Allies, the French suffered the most during WW1 and were traumatized. This shaped decisions made during the 20’s and 30’s. - Britain did not suffer the same fate because the French stopped the Germans from annihilating their expeditionary corps (Dunkirk), Churchill leadership, and for being an island. - France has been a nation for a 1000 years, winning more battles than they lost. When the US will have existed for that long, let’s do the tally. 5:16 - Finally, the French intervention was decisive during the American Revolution allowing the US to exist as a nation. When the US decided to fight the British alone in 1812, they got the White House burnt down to the ground. So, nothing to brag about. If it’s too long to explain to an offensive knucklehead, just ask about 1812. And, yes, don’t be a jerk. There are more things that unite us than there are that divide us.
Thank you for writing this. As a French person, I find it very offensive to read and hear again and again about the unfounded cliche of the French's being coward, losing wars, unable to fight....by Americans who never had a war on their territory since the Civil War, were never invaded except for Native Americans, and always waged war abroad. My father was a resistant. He was caught with explosives near a bridge....and sent to a concentration camp where he was tortured. He came out alive 2 years later, broken. My mother and her sister, my aunt, were raped by German soldiers. My aunt committed suicide 30 years later. I was raised by two very traumatized parents and it had a lot of impact on my life. Their beautiful house was bombed and destroyed, they had to sell the land that had been in the family for 6 generations to be able to rebuilt their life in a much smaller scale. War is the worse thing for humans. I hope that we are not going to see that again with WW3.
Where do you get your "facts?" The Russians clearly suffered the most, did you check stats as to how many casualties they suffered? The US was AWOL until 1941? NO country will get involved with any war unless they have something to gain or with too much to lose, EU was largely against getting involved with the Iraq situation as well, were they "AWOL." I see what you are trying to do here, but you lose credibility when your facts are not facts.
@@stayfocused1041 Missed the point, i was commenting on his statement about the US being awol, i'm simply saying that was ridiculous as any country not choosing to take part in any confrontation for ANY REASON, is now going to be labeled as awol?
I went to Paris in 1993 and before I went, I did all the right things - I did my research, I learned a bit of basic French, traveled in the off season, and followed all the tips and tricks. I nearly got away scot free with no issues except for the morning I walked into a wine and cheese shop, and when the elderly hard of hearing man who ran the shop started yelling and waving for me to go, I knew he hadn't heard my very clear French greeting. Also wasn't hearing any apology or explanation. So I chalk that up to him, not me! 🤣🤣 It's so funny that all the basics haven't changed and are indeed, universal. Happy New Year from a long time viewer!
lol I’m French and I can guarantee you, NOBODY aver says “Sacrebleu” nor “voulez-vous coucher avec moi”. EVER. I only heard those words from Foreigners
Oh... I took a flight in France last week (Strasbourg - Marseille) and when an old lady sat next to me she said Bonjour... I didn't understand why, now I do... I little late, lol.
You’re such a respectful traveler. It’s good advice for anywhere really, just being courteous and polite. If you’re visiting a country, one would think you’re there because you like it, and why do such things? I used to live in a very touristy city and tourists (perhaps “local tourists”) just literally brushing in front of me, while looking out at a view, not even acknowledging (leave alone apologizing) as if I was invisible, blocking and starting to do a photo shoot! One thing that i’ve realized is speaking their language (even if you think and know you’re speaking it so terribly) just enthralls the locals! I think it’s just an opportunity to improve upon any language really (tips, language immersion and such!) Honestly, I’ve had the best experience with the French anywhere (while traveling and encountering French tourists in other countries, and no, I don’t look French 😆) They’re nice, passionate people. I don’t know much Italian but I once just recited all my favorite Italian wines and the regions (and there’s a LOT of them 😂) and made an expatriate Italian very happy… in a context though. And talking so loudly that one can be heard long before you’re even seen… sigh… not respecting locals, signs and places 😔 we’ve all seen them!
My wife and my children are American, so, I've no americanophobia. BUT the problem with American turists is they speak to you in English without asking you, as everybody should speak English. When I go to a foreing country, I learn a few words of the language. "Bonjour, parlez-vouy anglais ?" would be polite, or at least "hello, do you speak English ?" , it is the minimum, even if we are sure (hotels, museums etc.) the reply will be yes. Other problem, Americans consider that if they pay, they can have everything (buy something or a service if it's closed, a priority in the line etc ). No, it doesn't work like this in France (not only in France, in whole Europe).
Oh man, when were you filming this? My wife and I were there in mid-October (you're almost looking at our Airbnb). We said, "Wouldn't it be funny to see Mark filming?" Thanks for all the great tips and enjoyable videos! They were very helpful.
What a wonderfully thoughtful video. Thank you! Common courtesy should still be common even here in the States. I’ve traveled the world with work (Flight Attendant) and on my own and it’s always easier to get attract bees with honey than vinegar;)
politeness is an important part of the culture and everyday language, in France. Also, being loud is akin to invasion of privacy, other people’s quiet space.
Earlier this year we went to France as part of our tour around Europe on the motorbike from the UK and we found a great little random restaurant at our first stop in Dunkerque. They spoke very little English but made use feel extremely welcome because we went in with an open mind and tried our best to speak as much French as possible (which is not much). Turned out to be a great night as they kept coming over with free drinks and talking to us the best they could despite neither of us speaking each others languages very well.
Around Normandy and Britanny used to be an English territory back in the Middle Age (Hundred Years War). People there speak English quite well. Quite a few British migrants moved there since Brexit agreement. Glad you had a wainderful time there, mate
@@christophermichaelclarence6003my family live in a village in Brittany, overall people don't speak a lot of English there. That said, there's a big age gap, young people are often quite good at English (my cousins speak English very well) and older people not so much (my grandparents really don't speak much English)
My visit to Paris and the interaction with the locals was wonderful. I had heard all the negative comments of how they hate Americans, they are upset if we don't speak French, but get even more angry if we try and don't speak it perfectly. Then I got there and found none of that to be true. I found them to be very friendly, excellent service in restaurants and generally very accomodating. It then dawned on me that maybe many Americans are jerks and they are treated as they deserve. Of course I was just in awe and couldn't believe I was in Paris. I would love to go back.
Truly some wonderful advice. I appreciate you taking the time to explain these things that I am completely oblivious to. Sometimes the concept of not knowing how we should respond in situations can be as powerful as the excitement of wanting to explore.
We have been to France (Paris) twice and haven't really experienced any problems. I do speak a little French and we are Canadian, so I know that helped. People need to remember that they are in France, or whatever country they are visiting, and are not back home. It is important to respect the country you are visiting and its people when you are there.
Don’t play your media (music or videos) out loud in public, especially at a restaurant or on transportation. True in any city, but especially in France.
Spot on: I have French cousins from Normandie and they really “get into” serving you their local cuisine and are very proud of it,…it means everything to them to know that you try it and hopefully enjoy it….I personally loved the sauccisions avec moutard ( sausage with Dijon mustard) and du cidre doux ) Apple cider ( 6-7% Alcohol)
No. SAUCISSON (several kinds, can even be made with donkey meat) is a dry sausage served sliced and cold (as a starter), certainly not with mustard. What might be served with mustard is SAUCISSE (several kinds) served hot. Do not mix the two. Cidre doux is sweet and certainly not served with either saucisson or saucisse. That is a crazy tourist mixture ! We have cidre brut, which is not sweet. You got it all wrong.
A couple of people have mentioned in one of the French travelers groups on facebook that their kids are studying abroad in Paris and I directed them to your videos 😊
-For being picky, actually it's fine, French people are very picky as well with food. It's more rare since food is delicious, but if something is not good with your food definitely you can be demanding. -For being loud, it's not only in France. 😅 All over the world Americans are known to be loud in general.
Well, it's ok to be picky in a regular joint, they will adapt to your requests. But if you go to a fancier place (something "gastronomic"), then please don't.
Yep agree. I’m a picky eater- always have been. Just don’t have an expansive taste palette. It is hat it is. Have gone to France twice and I never had any issue asking for something / it’s all about being polite.
I had the opportunity to visit Paris a couple times and it was wonderful, the people were very welcoming and tolerant of my nursery French. I managed to check in to my room in French and attempted to order dinner but the waiter could tell I was out of my element and kindly switched to English.
French person here, dont worry American tourists watching this video, you guys are far from the worst foreign tourists we have here, not even top ten worst in my opinion.
I wonder if he has a video that discusses what annoys d Americans when visiting france or dealing with French people😂.... this will equal d playing field
The Bonjour thing is real... If you don't give them back a "Bonjour!" they'll just keep saying it to you increasing the volume & intensity until you respond.. I've seen it several times. 😅
Sorry for traumatizing you with this 😅 But for us it's so important. I can't really explain why. Plus the thing is most French people don't really know that this politeness rule doesn't necessarily exist in all countries.
@@Leopold_van_Aubel I recently visited Japan with my fiance who is French. I've been living in France with him for 4 years and it felt really weird for both of us to walk into shops and NOT say bonjour/konnichiwa. In fact, it felt really rude but if we'd greeted the staff - it would've felt pretty weird for the Japanese people :D
That was really a great explanation ! Thank you. No mystery about it. Completely comprehensible to even the most clueless tourist. They , as a rule , just don't know any better. ( most of them ...)
I'm an American. The stereotype about Americans being LOUD is so true. I don't notice it so much when traveling to other countries; but here at home, I'm amazed at how noisy so many of my countrymen are. I suppose it's because our hearing sucks.
You guys are indeed loud, in the way an excited puppy is (best analogy I could find) : annoying yet likeable at the same time. When I'm out after work having drinks with friends at a terrasse, I like it. When I'm on my way to work, at 8 am in a very silent metro car, I do admit that some American tourists piss me off haha. But I'm sure we're equally annoying to commuting New Yorkers when we travel.
I spent some time over a few days with some French tourists,here in the US. They were not shy anout criticizing how loud Anericans wer 8:01 e. I was amused as I do speak softly,as do my relatives. I understood their reactions but I am used to it and I do agree. Also, they were shocked, SHOCKED, to find Orangina refrigerated. I had never boughr it before and loved it cold. Most if them put it in their backpacks or held onto it to warm it on a hot summer day. Same with bottled water. C'est la vie.
Very good advice. I'm British but a lot of what you say applies to us too (and the bit about drunken tourists probably more so!). I always try to speak what French I can and to treat everybody and everything with respect and have always thoroughly enjoyed my experiences in France.
Great video, i am teaching history and geography in Colmar, precisely in the school close to where you were standing!!! The fact that you chose Colmar to summarize France at the beginning makes me so proud of my little Alsatian town in which we often forget how quaint and beautiful it can be. Thank you for your video and thank you for what you said about us, the French people, we are just normal people and even if we seem to be rude sometimes, we are always very pleased to meet people from other places, it is always so interesting and brings a lot to us. These days in Colmar, apart from German, Dutch, Italian and Spanish tourists, we do have many visitors from China because there was a show on Colmar and Chinese TVchannel a couple of years ago and more and more people from Malaysia or Indonesia. I really enjoy hearing all these exotic languages when i walk through my little city. In the winter time, the street can be crowded with people that come to the Christmas market and these days, we have people enjoying being out in the sun of our starting summer. It is a pleasure to teach in my classroom seeing by the window tourists passing by that suddenly find out that there is a high school in an 18th century building that is still run today. Thank you for your video.
Excuse me but the French also retreated from Vietnam and IndoChina after surrendering at Dien Bien Phu. Please brush up on your history before commenting. From Wiki FYI "The garrison was overrun in May after a two-month siege, and most of the French forces surrendered. A few men escaped to Laos. Of the 11,000 French troops captured, only 3,300 survived imprisonment. The French government in Paris resigned. The new Prime Minister, the left-of-centre Pierre Mendès France, supported French withdrawal from Indochina"
All what you say is correct, thats actually every where in europe. Greetings is the key, thats makes you many doors open. Food is very good, you can try everything. Eat only local and when you wanna drinking coffee go in a local coffee shop.
Thanks for sharing this video! I always wondered what I did wrong on my (only) trip to France and was hoping to get some answers through this video. Sadly, I did not cause I did everything you suggested here. About 20 years ago, we took a class trip to France. We started in Provence and worked our way north into Paris. Everyone in Southern France was absolutely wonderful and welcoming. It was a complete 180 when we got to Paris. I’ve been a French speaker most of my life and am comfortable with the grammar, dialects, pronunciation, and so on. I went into a shop for some camera film (yes, I dated myself right there 😂). The shop owner came across as not wanting to be bothered by me. I spoke with her and asked in French for a certain film which I pointed to. She refused to sell it to me. No reason that I was given, just dismissed. I had this happen in a couple other shops. At a local restaurant, the servers thought it would be funny to serve onions to some of my classmates instead of the pasta dish. We were also served stale croissants every morning. It was such a bad experience I never wanted to go back to Paris. I truly hope things have changed since. Any insight as to why they acted that way? Thanks in advance!
@@DavidWilliams-qr5yj We are not rude. My family and friends are lovely people. And like she said, everyone in Provence was nice and welcoming. What English speakers see as rudeness is sometimes just a problem of cultural difference or poor communication. Like not saying hello and speaking loudly is considered very rude in France. And in Paris, the rudest people are most often the tourists...
I had a similar experience with 3 shop owners in Paris, about 40 years ago. Maybe it was because I didn't first speak French, and was dressed as a sloppy American. I know better now.
I used to live in Southwest Germany not that far from the French border so I've been to France more times than I can count. The first thing I learned (epically living in Germany where I was trying to practice my German) is that if you start speaking in their language they will atomically reply to you back in English but like you said they appreciate you at least trying. I also have to say that as someone who is from Chicago when I went to Paris other than the language it felt the same just the Eiffel Tower instead of the Sears Tower (and yes I still call it that because I will NEVER call it by any other name). I had always heard how rude the French could be but it's just like anywhere else in the world, you tend to get back what you put out.
All spot on. I lived in Paris for a year studying French. So many times, after greeting shopkeepers in French and, when asked, telling them I was American and revealing I could actually speak the language, they were positively effusive. Wanted me to stay and talk, offered me coffee, etc. The smallest gesture of greeting is all that is required. There's a reason "dickhead" is an American expression.
I could write a book about the bad behavior I've seen. I have family in Savoie, and I often stop in Paris en route. I've visited France many times. The one example that comes to mind is the loud American guy in the restaurant, drunk, bellowing about how he was going to take the whole family to "VER SALES" the next day and it was going to cost him his "left ball." Bragging about being a rich American is ugly.
My first trip abroad was just a few years ago to Paris. I was so nervous because I had heard all the stereo-typing of how rude the French are and how much they hated Americans. I had also heard how dirty and icky Paris was. I was so pleasantly surprised to find out how wrong all that was. I forgot to greet the worker at the snack counter at the Eiffel Tower. He wouldn’t serve me until I did. Then he started speaking English and I found out he was really from Nee York and not French at all. One evening my sister and I decided we were tired and wanted to go back to the apartment earlier than the rest of our group. We stopped at a restaurant and asked for a table. Again, I was tired and didn’t attempt a greeting in French. The waiter seemed quite annoyed with us. He took our order and started to walk away when I realized I hadn’t ordered a coke. I asked for one and then said, “por favor” realizing I was stupid, I then said, “per favore”. I finally got a “si vous plait” out. He started laughing. I apologized for getting flustered and after that he was the nicest guy ever. I had such a great time. The people were very friendly and the city was actually clean and beautiful. We went on a side trip to Normandy and the people their were extremely kind and welcoming. I’d love to go back.
The French people are lovely people, especially outside of Paris. Paris, like New York or London or any big city will have it's measure of rude people. Ignore those that are rude and just enjoy the wonderful food, scenery, and people.
That bonjour tip when you enter a shop, cafe etc is a really good tip. Maybe its because they had a revolution and people see each other as equals they expect / demand to be treated with respect. I think maybe thats why because some shopkeepers as grumpy because the keepers see the tourists as rude.
Thank you very much for mentioning these tips. However, I am saddened that it had to be said at all. I have only been to Paris once, but I couldn't imagine doing any of these things anywhere, even in my home country.
Colmar is beautiful! I speak pretty good French although with enough of an accent that’s noticeable, especially in a longer conversation. French people usually ask me if I’m English although I’m American, so I assume the accents sound similar. It makes me a little sad when French people switch to English when they pick up the accent, even when my French is better than their English. I posting this just to alert any French people who might see it that it’s nice to let anglophones and other foreigners use their French. Same principle applies to other countries/languages used by visitors.
Colmar is more beautiful than beautiful. It’s an enchanting and charming little town. What’s amazing about this place is it didn’t get bombarded by the Nazis Futhermore is right across the Franco German border Well, as matter of fact. Speaking English is actuall more easier and more fun. Not to mention, it’s widely spoken across the World. Some or most Frenchie (Technically I don’t look like one) are just annoyed how bad Foreigners speak french
@@christophermichaelclarence6003 My point is that if a foreign visitor with a different native language is speaking French IN FRANCE or a different French speaking environment and the visitor is not struggling to communicate , it is more welcoming to continue the conversation in French.
It all makes a lot of sense! The only place I’ve been in France is Colmar and the local cuisine was amazing!! Especially that flat bread/pizza with the creamy sauce ( forgot the name!!) 😊
I was in Paris with 3 friends. I was the only one who had been before so I had schooled them on complaining because although we didn’t speak a lot of French, many French speak English. The other was on being loud. On our last night in Paris we were in a small Italian restaurant (was fabulous). The 4 of us along with everyone else were enjoying our dinner. That is until 4 more American young ladies came in and were so fricking loud, everyone in the restaurant turned and looked at them. I hated this was happening so I went over to the young women and introduced myself by saying in a low voice, “hi, I could hear you were from America. Where are you from”? Thinking they would mirror how I was speaking. Nope they just got louder🤣🤣🤣
Just standard etiquette for travelling anywhere, really. If you don't like the local food/culture, don't go there. I'm from the UK, and it always makes me cringe when I go to places and see English pubs/fish & chip shops, etc. If I'm holidaying in France, I definitely want to try the local cuisine. When in Spain, a paella is definitely on the "to do" list.
For me when I think of the French, I think of the bravery of the French resistance . I think it’s sad that the perception is the English don’t like the French. ( I’m 😅English).
It's soooo damn easy... "C'est vous plait," "bonjour" and "merci" (and bonus: "puis-je avoir") go so, so far in France. That's even if you just have a layover at CDG. Also, as many Americans are liberal in their use of "I want," "gimme" and "I'll have" at home without any incorporation of basic manners, many of us don't have much in the way of manners to begin with (and I don't want to read platitudes from any of my fellow Southerners about manners; I promise you that as Southerners, we're friendlier but no more polite than most other Americans). Even so, it's still not an excuse to not brush up on the customs for manners in other societies before travel. To be fair, I've seen Brits, Aussies, Germans, etc. act impolitely, too, but there's a higher level of entitlement found in Americans' flubs, it seems.
You're making me hungry! I wish I could work/teach ESL in France, both my Great Great Grandmas immigrated from Norther France in the 1870 war. Nobody told me I can't do that. I feel French, doing everything but smoke.
I found the French to wonderful people. Several times, I would be sitting all alone in a restaurant and they would hear my american accent and would invite me to their table to eat with them. They respect Americans who love their culture , their food and their language.
I guess I'll go to Normandy for oysters. Though I adore good cheese (I worked @ L''escargot and Un Grande Cafe in the late 70's/early 80's in Chicago and I adore Pom Frites and all) my body won't let me eat much, anymore, but, I still will take a taste of my faves. I will be kind.
I've been wanting to visit Normandy and I was unaware of the oysters. This is going to be ammunition for convincing my bf to go with me. He's very food motivated, and I can get him to do anything I want if I wave oysters in front of him!
I’ve found that learning “hello” and “thank you” in the language of the country you visit goes a long way!
How nice to hear advice that doesn’t insult the French. « Don’t be a jerk. » Perfect advice for travelers everywhere.
We try and help :)
It's just about respect for ppl
Frenchman here. About the berets... you might occasionally see a man or a woman wearing one of those as a fashion accessory. You might also see more people wearing them in southwestern France as it's part of the traditional attire. But all in all they largely are something from the past, and very few French people actually wear them nowadays - unlike blue jeans and NYC caps. I'm 66, and the last person I saw really wearing a beret was my grandfather who would be 120 year-old today.
You are refering to the Basques. Correct?
@@LouBasques1423 Yes, the Basques and other Pyrenean people.
I’m American and wear a beret in my basic rotation of caps/hats. One thing not in the rotation is ball caps (even though I’m a born NY Yankee fan)
NY Yankees hats and American or British flags in France. Tons of them in Paris
Yes, good point (my wife is French, btw!). It's the same as assuming that the British wear bowler hats...sure, they used to be common. Now - so rare as to be very noticeable!
Just a tip for customer service situations:
American mindset: "I'm the customer. You need my money therefore be nice to me."
French mindset: "I'm the worker. You need my service therefore be nice to me."
I've actually heard American tourists say things like "I'm not happy with this service. I'll never come here again." to which the French worker responds "Okay then leave. Nobody is forcing you to be here. It's okay."
It's similar in the rest of Europe.
I do not need your service. I can go somewhere else.. the worker can not go somewhere else.
@@DanilooscarBlandonMartinez lmao yes you do. You're the one that came in wanting something. Nobody came to you soliciting a service. You're not entitled to anything.
@@knucklehoagiesYou simply don't understand how business works. The consumer has endless choices as to where to dine whereas for the establishment every customer turned off presents a lost opportunity to make money and pay workers. There is a reason a whole industry called advertising exists - the customer and the service provider are not equal.
@@vmoses1979 blah blah blah that's all you're saying. Clearly you don't understand how mutual respect works. Service workers are there to provide a service not to kiss your butt. Learn the difference
As a French, I was moved by your words and your kindness. It is thanks to good people like you that friendship bretween countries is possible.
100% agree! We visited Paris in the spring and by learning basic French (thank you for your basic French phrases btw) it got us soooo far! There were a couple times we were brought to the front of the line , given free champagne and even were helped out with directions in the street.
Make sure you learn in French “do you speak English” or “sorry I do not speak French” , always speak French first and then go into English or whatever language. Also google translate is your friend! Definitely use it. We were blown away with how kind the Parisians were and I think because we spoke French first it made our experience so much better. You a visitor in the country, respect the language and the people will take care of you.
So glad we could help a bit 😀
Make sure you learn "i'm not from England'.
We are planning a trip for in 2025 and I’ve started taking French lessons (just to get the basics). It’s very hard for me and I’m worried about how silly I sound with my Texas accent, but at least no one can accuse me of not trying! 😂
@@grouloulle I think they would know by our American accents. I’m from the south so there would be no confusing me with an English person. 😂
@@penelopepitstop762 Votre sympathique accent texan aura du succès.
I'm sorry to say I have never been to France. That said, I used to work as a TSA officer in the International terminal of an American airport. When a traveler would present me with a French passport I would always say "Bonjour" and "Merci, au revoir".
Sometimes I would be asked if I spoke French and I would say no,. I would then go on to explain that I was a history major in college and was very aware of the contribution France made in helping America gain independence from Britain.
In an instant, you would see the French persons face light up and smile as I mentioned Lafayette, General Rochambeau and Admiral DeGrasse.
To a man, every Frenchman would say "Well, you helped us out in '44", to which I would always reply "Well, that's what friends are for".
The French were very appreciative of an American acknowledging their vital contribution to our country and I learned that a little history goes a long way.
PURE TRUTH 💯 and kinda Brilliant btw to find these ways to acknowledge the long friendship of our countries
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Well then we will definitely like you with such an attitude ❤
Excellent blueprint on how to get along and make friends were ever you go in the world.
Well done!
I’ve been to France multiple times never came across people who were rude…most were friendly..I’m not sure what people expect it’s not an amusement park…in fact my first trip to Paris many years ago my wife and I were standing outside a train station trying to figure out the system with our book..an older gentleman stopped and explained it all to us…later he explained he had worked for American Airlines for many years and now retired..he wished us a great stay..I’ve never forgotten that gentleman..being from NYC ..I always love helping out some confused tourists as a tribute to him..
I have found NYC people so extremely friendly, fun, and very helpful!!
People are nicer outside the city
"I’ve been to France multiple times never came across people who were rude…most were friendly.." True...to an extent. To say that whole of France are friendly, is ABSURD. I've been to France 4 times in my life. One thing they do MOST times, is to change the menu in English and double charge once they spot the American.
The last bit about helping others because that man helped you is so cute. You’re paying it on. ❤ that
@@luigivincenz3843you sir are rude…see you prove your own point. Thank you. 😂
I LOVE that you said to say Hello to shopkeepers when in France! As an American who loves France and has been there several times, things like this are a subtlety that I learned while there. Merci beaucoup!
I never even realized making fun of the French about WWII was a thing until this week when I heard another travel vlogger talk about it. I can't believe that Americans could be so insensitive. I've always thought that the French people suffered so much loss during WWII and making fun of a whole generation of people in another culture for that is just disgusting. There aren't enough bad words to describe how embarrassing this is for me as an American.
Could come from your education in the US ,50 states ,50 different versions of history
I can't speak for other states, but California Public High Schools hardly teach any World War II history. It's discouraging and embarassing for me as an American.@@francocanuck
@@cathyf.2672 But what do they teach in history lessons in these high school ?
The French Resistance were absolute heros during WWII resisting and sabotaging the Germans. Most who were caught were shot by the Germans. There is NOTHING cowardly about the French
I can't believe that Americans can be so cruel about this. I would never joke about another country's experiences during a war.
That's cute. Meanwhile the Soviet Union entered Berlin facing heavy German resistance.
Vichy, anyone?
@@10538overture vichy was a government who signed a cease fire . not a capitulation, while the army had been crushed, the capital city had been taken, 100 000 soldiers had died and more than a million had nbeen cut off and made prisonners, and tens of thousands of civilians were on the road. Vichy was dealing with a foreign army and never accepted to negociate the peace, and Vichy is actually the reason why France was still ennemy og Germany till the end of the war, and why France was a winhner of WW2.
the funny thing is that France is bashed by so called allies, on a conflict it won. utterly ridiculous...
Le Velodrôme, Vichy, Marshall Pétain attest otherwise.
Helpful, authentic, friendly, never condescending. This is why you are so successful!
thank you :)
As a French speaker from Canada, these are golden advices! At the end if you think about it, it's all about respect
People claim Parisians are rude, but from what I understand is they have a very engrained standard of etiquette- and phrases like “hello, I can see you are very busy…” are used almost default, regardless of whether the person looks busy at all.
My father was an intelligence officer in WWII. He had great respect for the French as fighters. The army collapsing was mostly due to failed leadership. It did not mean that individual French troops were not courageous and skilled warriors. Also, the French people bravely resisted during the occupation.
The WWII jokes about France are as old as the dying boomers who say them. They're honestly not even funny anymore.
Ignoramus: Ha, French people can't fight!
Jean Reno: (puts down newspaper, lights a cigarette, and stares disapprovingly)
@@knucklehoagies Hated boomer here...I, nor anyone I know my age would do this. "Dying boomers"? Grow up.
@@steveburke7675 Crude Internet humor is lost on your generation. For some reason the immediate reaction is "well I don't do that." As if your anecdotal evidence means anything.
My point was, its an old joke that lacks any originality or wit. It's may have been funny in the post-war era but in 2024 it just sounds corny and dated.
I did not intend any disrespect towards you personally. I love older folks and respect many of them in all honesty. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
"Also, the French people bravely resisted during the occupation." absolutely not, that was actually an extreme minority of people (coming from a French person).
Boils down to good manners and common courtesy. You are visiting a different country so be respectful of their language, customs, and culture. 😊
Yes doesnt need being a brain surgeon hehe
French guy here.
Always keep in mind that Paris, is a very busy city. People won't sometimes have no interaction with you simply cause they're in a hurry.
I am living in Rouen, Normandy. The memory of WW2 is rather vivid here, and American tourists are most of the time the most welcome guests. We know some of you speak rather loudly, but hey, not a big deal, we also know how to talk loud...
Remember, a "bonjour" and a smile are the most efficient keys for opening the hearts.
😅Yes, Parisians in a hurry! I got a shock when I visited Paris for the first time and at 6:30 pm as we were getting off the RER to go to the Metro link, everyone was literally RUNNING towards us to catch some train home. It was like something out of a movie where people are running for their lives from danger. I'll never forget that. 😅
THank you for that.
One of the more recent bits of military history that most Americans don't know is that the whole "miracle at Dunkirk" was possible in large part to the French army performing a large-scale fighting retreat without which it's likely the history of WWII would have been very different. Also, the French soldiers weren't cowards, they were simply stuck operating under a command structure designed to fight a totally different war. (A problem that *every* military had to varying degrees, including ours.)
This!
It's also worth remembering that it was only 22 years since they'd finishing fighting (and defeating) a devastating German invasion that left large parts of Northern France in ruins.
There was a French tank regiment that bested the Germans in two tank battles, chewed up several panzers and even took prisoners in the first few days of the German invasion and had them on the run. They wanted to press forward and slice into the German lines, but they got pulled back by a panicking French High Command and the opportunity was lost. It's one of the great tragedies of 'what if'?
Ww2 history would not be changed.. the American resources completely overwhelmed the Germans. They only lasted a year after d-day.
My 1st trip to France I realized how friendly the French are (always were told they were rude). We Americans need to remember we are a visitor we should never expect a country to conform to us. Just go with the flow and enjoy the culture you choose to visit.
I'm French and usually I don't like videos. I didn't expect such a pertinent analysis. I'm very impressed by the ability of Wolters to get what annoys and the reason why. Bravo!
You are very nice to us French ! Honestly the only two things I find annoying is when people come to you speaking their own language as if we were supposed to understand it! It’s a very colonialist attitude, each time I travel I make sure to learn few words of the country I am visiting, it’s a minimum and I think people like it. Being loud is another annoying thing, kind of like not noticing there is people around you… but some French are loud too, not necessarily a foreign thing. Honestly you don’t have to eat things you don’t like, I think people will understand, many French don’t eat snails or frog legs, poor little things😢. It’s great to see you apparently enjoying your time in France ! 😊
Bravo Wolters, everything you say is based on common sense. The French in general find Americans very friendly and cheerful. I regret never having had the opportunity to go to the USA but every time I meet visitors from this country I don't fail to ask them where they come from, their impressions, it is always a pleasant experience to exchange with people from elsewhere. Here you go, thank you again for this excellent video. Et bienvenue en France à nos amis américains.😀🥰
Just a Bonjour makes a huge difference when you walk into a place or get into a taxi, just like 'Hola' in Spain. The locals acknowledge that you are trying and respecting their culture. France is not like Italy - do NOT talk loudly, laugh loudly or be overly friendly. The French are quite reserved people but friendly nonetheless. On my last visit to Paris, the taxi drivers and waiters in cafes were very very nice actually.
To be more exact, it depends of the location & generation
The millenials and gen z in big cities would 1000 times prefer you speak english. Then speak french with your bad grammar, wrong pronunciation, bad accent, weird vocabulary that gives headache and confuse them 😂
they usualy know english, they want you to get to the point quicker,
and are too much worried and self absorbed about their personal life problems to care that you the foreigner makes effort to say some french words 😆
Gen x and boomer from small cities. They are little more patriotic and old school civilised manners. And they will appreciate it you try to say some words in french
The mentality differ depending on those factors
And finaly if you gonna speak english. Speak a clear slow english. Using simple vocabulary 😆 Dont come out there speaking to local europeans as if youre speaking to your homie in Chicago using slangs, complex sentences & speaking fast 😂
Unless you walk into an eatery in the evening. I walked in, said Bonjour, and was quickly given a Bonsoir. I hit myself in the head and repeated her Bonsoir, and we had a wonderful laugh. Yes, just one word can get you into good graces.
This! A rule of thumb for every tourist should be: what's the proportion of clients around here whose first language is English? If it's the minority, just use a few words in the local language. I also got much better service in Spanish speaking countries by knowing how to say hi, thank you, and simple words to order at restaurants. Did you know that in Japan, in certain restaurants, if you do not speak Japanese, they won't even let you have a table. Just learn a few words, guys, it's not complicated ☺
@@ShadowSolaris Yes about Japan but that's not really because you can't speak Japanese, it's because the restaurant doesn't feel like they could accomodate you well because they don't speak English.
Wonderful! I think similar to Italy saying hello like "Bonjour" goes a long way. If you can, check out our new footage in central Italy.
This is so important, thank you for posting it! I think a lot of tourists really overlook the importance of learning local etiquette when they visit somewhere, thinking they won't be interacting much with locals so they don't need to really pay attention, and that their own culture's etiquette is "just common sense". Even if you're in a tight tour group, you're going to interact with a local, and spending 15 minutes ahead of time considering their etiquette, and how it may differ from yours, will go a long way.
Colmar is such a little gem ! Always makes me happy to know you guys spent some time in France
Colmar or Strasbourg is an enchanting and charming little town/village that looks straight from Fairytale book. A looking Medieval/Middle age place (the houses structure looks more from 16th century)
It’s located right across the Franco German border. And speaking of territory, it used to be to the German throughout wars (Franco Prussian War 1871, WW1 and WW2)
What’s amazing about it it had never been shelled
Heading nack soon to film more french winter time videos
@@woltersworld That blue jersey with italian flag in your video that’s not really "français" 😆
I prefer Colmar over Strasbourg since it’s small and cozy ❤
I always had to refuse the cheese plates, but did so with a "Je suis intolerant au lactose."
French person here. All of that is good advice. Let me emphasize the Bonjour rule and the not-speaking-loudly rule, that are the two rules most likely to be broken by some Americans. But generally speaking, don't worry too much. American tourists are appeciated for their big smiles and their golden retriever attitude and they're definitely not seen as bad tourists to have around.
I understand the "Bonjour" etiquette but what's wrong with speaking loudly? As an American, my mindset is usually "mind your own business. It's not like I'm speaking to you. And if you wanna join our conversation, we welcome it as long as you're friendly but don't tell us what to do"
@@knucklehoagies The first reason is very Kantian in its approach. It can be summed up as "if everyone around here spoke as loudly as you, nobody could hear anything and it would give me a headache". The second reason is that it bothers those around you. Your voice is a disagreeable intrusion into their own privacy. It's a bit like a bad smell. You say "mind your own business" and it's funny because a French person would probably answer "Well, mind YOUR own business. Nobody needs to hear your whole life". I hope that explanation is satisfactory. Thanks for sharing your opinion.
@@knucklehoagies Speaking loudly is very arrogant, whether it is in France or USA. You are imposing ourself on everyone else.
@@AbsalomMcVey what's loud to others might not be loud to you.
@@knucklehoagies True, and vice versa.
I thought all French people were rude and snobby. Until I met a group of people visiting the USA from France. They were so friendly and warm. I now want to go to France.
My wife and I have been traveling to France since the 1980's -- never had a bad experience and had plenty of great times! For example, back about 2000, we stayed at a small hotel on the edge of Nimes... it was the off-season and very few people were about. We found that the owner and his wife enjoyed just chatting by the fireplace after dinner. On our departure day, the owner gave us a bottle of wine. What nice people! And on our first road trip in 1988, we stayed at a chateau (Ouchamps Relais des Landes). I had trouble narrowing things down to find the right local road south of Blois. Found a phone and phoned the chateau; we were closer than we thought and found the place driving on a small dirt road through a cornfield (the corn was ready for harvest). We had a wonderful dinner (sat down at 9:42 p.m.) by the fireplace in the dining room. My roasted rabbit and mushroom sauce was to die for. Next morning, they brought breakfast up to our room. Heavenly! We extended our stay for a third night. I could go on and on....
Dang. I could not imagine doing any of this. I noticed people were saying “Bonjour” every time I went into a store in Lyon. It immediately made me realize that was the norm so I responded in kind. I liked the French.
Thats cool you caught on. Hope you had fun in Lyon!
@@woltersworld Had a blast. 💥
@@nathansnead7371 Try at least learning some French basic words.
Like Bonjour, Au Revoir, Merci beaucoup, s’il vous plaît.
It’s more easier than you think
@@christophermichaelclarence6003 That’s the plan. I live in a part of Portugal where many of the people speak French. 👍🏾
Pretty much applies as general rule for travelling: Try to learn a few words of the local language. Try to be polite and greet people. Try to keep your voice down and respect those around you because even though YOU are on avvacation and having fun, there are other people there too who would also like to enjoy being there without you disturbing them. Being polite means keeping your voice down…in trains, cafes, PARKS, restaurants etc. I go to a park nearby on my days off to get away from the stress and enjoy the fresh air and the peace and quiet. So do other locals. In Europe, when you go to a park, you talk with a quiet voice so that you do not disturb others, to let everyone relax and enjoy the park. Then you get the tourists who run around and keep yelling and screaming and laughing loudly and you just wanna go: READ THE ROOM, people!!! 🙄😡 When travelling, observe what most people do and you’ll know how to behave. But as a general rule in Europe: Try to keep the volume down, try to be polite and greet people and learn a few words in the local language, try to have manners (table manners and being respectful), and please don’t go into the city wearing a tank top and shorts with your boobs and butt out and with flip flops. Or worse, in your pyjamas. Shorts and a tank top are fine, but keep it CLASSY. And know that it could be that you won’t be allowed into some churches or restaurants if you aren’t dressed properly. And yes that’s for everyone, not just the Americans and that applies to pretty much all of Europe, not just France. Europe is big on manners and on trying to keep things classy.
Thank you for these good remarks. Being polite, educated (not being loud) and dressing appropriately (no shorts, spaghetti straps, sneakers, flip flops in cities - that is beachwear ; no backpacks in cities - that is camping/hiking gear), not standing out as a tourist (also for your own safety) will take you anywhere in the world, not only in Europe. But how come this needs to be said ? It is part of basic manners !
Well said. Many tourists have never encounter sophistication and refinement as they still exist in France. Having money to go to 5 stars hotels and expensive restaurants is one thing, having the codes and manners that go with it should be mandatory. So, please do not play "Kardashian style" nouveau riche characterized by sloppiness, entitlement, absence of class, vulgarity and total absence of savoir-vivre.
@@solangelauthier2381 I mean these days sneakers are fine…IF they are classier, clean CITY sneakers meant for the city. Not running shoes or dirty old sneakers. And a backpack is okay, if it’s a small city backpack that is more of a purse than a backpack. However, no matter how nice of a leather backpack it would be….I would never wear a backpack simply because it is a pickpocket’s delight. You’d need to carry it in front of you most of the time to not get robbed, so it’s not practical and you might as well have a purse instead.
Americans often have a sense entitlement and think everything is weird or different or awful because it’s not the same as we have here. Why visit other countries if you’re not open to experiencing other cultures, norms, food, language, etc. How would you like if visitors were condescending about their experiences, people, language, food, etc? As the host stated, Paris is not all of France and is a diverse nation. We’d all be happier if we learned practicing acceptance, kindness and respect for one another. Merci.
I have been learning french for six years, and am traveling in summer 2024 with my class. We are going to paris, Lyon, Nice, and flying out of monaco. Im really exited, and this trip was just on my mind so funny coincidence you would post this!
This applies to most countries. Learn the culture and a few words. It goes a long way.
Regarding the French being cowards and eager to surrender:
- This is not funny and downright offensive and disrespectful.
- WW2 defeat was due to indecisive leadership, afraid to impose suffering on par with what was experienced during WW1. Britain’s leadership under Chamberlain was no better (“keep calm and carry on” was to prepare the British population for an inevitable German invasion, not a show of determination to fight). The US was AWOL until 1941.
- Among the Allies, the French suffered the most during WW1 and were traumatized. This shaped decisions made during the 20’s and 30’s.
- Britain did not suffer the same fate because the French stopped the Germans from annihilating their expeditionary corps (Dunkirk), Churchill leadership, and for being an island.
- France has been a nation for a 1000 years, winning more battles than they lost. When the US will have existed for that long, let’s do the tally. 5:16
- Finally, the French intervention was decisive during the American Revolution allowing the US to exist as a nation. When the US decided to fight the British alone in 1812, they got the White House burnt down to the ground. So, nothing to brag about.
If it’s too long to explain to an offensive knucklehead, just ask about 1812.
And, yes, don’t be a jerk. There are more things that unite us than there are that divide us.
Thank you for writing this. As a French person, I find it very offensive to read and hear again and again about the unfounded cliche of the French's being coward, losing wars, unable to fight....by Americans who never had a war on their territory since the Civil War, were never invaded except for Native Americans, and always waged war abroad. My father was a resistant. He was caught with explosives near a bridge....and sent to a concentration camp where he was tortured. He came out alive 2 years later, broken. My mother and her sister, my aunt, were raped by German soldiers. My aunt committed suicide 30 years later. I was raised by two very traumatized parents and it had a lot of impact on my life. Their beautiful house was bombed and destroyed, they had to sell the land that had been in the family for 6 generations to be able to rebuilt their life in a much smaller scale. War is the worse thing for humans. I hope that we are not going to see that again with WW3.
@@caudron5926 Yes, the same Russians who lost 21 millions men and were not invited at the 80th Anniversary of D-day.
Where do you get your "facts?" The Russians clearly suffered the most, did you check stats as to how many casualties they suffered? The US was AWOL until 1941? NO country will get involved with any war unless they have something to gain or with too much to lose, EU was largely against getting involved with the Iraq situation as well, were they "AWOL." I see what you are trying to do here, but you lose credibility when your facts are not facts.
@@jrcwwl Everybody knew what the Iraq war was really about, certainly not defending the US neither promoting "democracy"
@@stayfocused1041 Missed the point, i was commenting on his statement about the US being awol, i'm simply saying that was ridiculous as any country not choosing to take part in any confrontation for ANY REASON, is now going to be labeled as awol?
I went to Paris in 1993 and before I went, I did all the right things - I did my research, I learned a bit of basic French, traveled in the off season, and followed all the tips and tricks. I nearly got away scot free with no issues except for the morning I walked into a wine and cheese shop, and when the elderly hard of hearing man who ran the shop started yelling and waving for me to go, I knew he hadn't heard my very clear French greeting. Also wasn't hearing any apology or explanation. So I chalk that up to him, not me! 🤣🤣 It's so funny that all the basics haven't changed and are indeed, universal. Happy New Year from a long time viewer!
lol
I’m French and I can guarantee you, NOBODY aver says “Sacrebleu” nor “voulez-vous coucher avec moi”. EVER.
I only heard those words from Foreigners
Je suis tout a fait d'accord. I'ts rather funny
Thank you for this very insightful and important information.
Oh... I took a flight in France last week (Strasbourg - Marseille) and when an old lady sat next to me she said Bonjour... I didn't understand why, now I do... I little late, lol.
You’re such a respectful traveler. It’s good advice for anywhere really, just being courteous and polite. If you’re visiting a country, one would think you’re there because you like it, and why do such things? I used to live in a very touristy city and tourists (perhaps “local tourists”) just literally brushing in front of me, while looking out at a view, not even acknowledging (leave alone apologizing) as if I was invisible, blocking and starting to do a photo shoot! One thing that i’ve realized is speaking their language (even if you think and know you’re speaking it so terribly) just enthralls the locals! I think it’s just an opportunity to improve upon any language really (tips, language immersion and such!) Honestly, I’ve had the best experience with the French anywhere (while traveling and encountering French tourists in other countries, and no, I don’t look French 😆) They’re nice, passionate people. I don’t know much Italian but I once just recited all my favorite Italian wines and the regions (and there’s a LOT of them 😂) and made an expatriate Italian very happy… in a context though.
And talking so loudly that one can be heard long before you’re even seen… sigh… not respecting locals, signs and places 😔 we’ve all seen them!
My wife and my children are American, so, I've no americanophobia. BUT the problem with American turists is they speak to you in English without asking you, as everybody should speak English. When I go to a foreing country, I learn a few words of the language. "Bonjour, parlez-vouy anglais ?" would be polite, or at least "hello, do you speak English ?" , it is the minimum, even if we are sure (hotels, museums etc.) the reply will be yes. Other problem, Americans consider that if they pay, they can have everything (buy something or a service if it's closed, a priority in the line etc ). No, it doesn't work like this in France (not only in France, in whole Europe).
How can we expect people to behave properly overseas when they can't even behave here in the US.
@@dominicwroblewski5832 Fact
Merci beaucoup pour tes détours en Alsace , j’éspère que tes séjours sont toujours agréables 👍
Oh man, when were you filming this? My wife and I were there in mid-October (you're almost looking at our Airbnb). We said, "Wouldn't it be funny to see Mark filming?" Thanks for all the great tips and enjoyable videos! They were very helpful.
What a wonderfully thoughtful video. Thank you! Common courtesy should still be common even here in the States. I’ve traveled the world with work (Flight Attendant) and on my own and it’s always easier to get attract bees with honey than vinegar;)
Went to Paris once with my parents had French onion soup 🍜 it was sooooooooo good 👍 I highly recommend trying it oh my gosh
politeness is an important part of the culture and everyday language, in France. Also, being loud is akin to invasion of privacy, other people’s quiet space.
Earlier this year we went to France as part of our tour around Europe on the motorbike from the UK and we found a great little random restaurant at our first stop in Dunkerque. They spoke very little English but made use feel extremely welcome because we went in with an open mind and tried our best to speak as much French as possible (which is not much). Turned out to be a great night as they kept coming over with free drinks and talking to us the best they could despite neither of us speaking each others languages very well.
Around Normandy and Britanny used to be an English territory back in the Middle Age (Hundred Years War). People there speak English quite well. Quite a few British migrants moved there since Brexit agreement.
Glad you had a wainderful time there, mate
@@christophermichaelclarence6003my family live in a village in Brittany, overall people don't speak a lot of English there. That said, there's a big age gap, young people are often quite good at English (my cousins speak English very well) and older people not so much (my grandparents really don't speak much English)
My visit to Paris and the interaction with the locals was wonderful. I had heard all the negative comments of how they hate Americans, they are upset if we don't speak French, but get even more angry if we try and don't speak it perfectly. Then I got there and found none of that to be true. I found them to be very friendly, excellent service in restaurants and generally very accomodating. It then dawned on me that maybe many Americans are jerks and they are treated as they deserve. Of course I was just in awe and couldn't believe I was in Paris. I would love to go back.
Truly some wonderful advice. I appreciate you taking the time to explain these things that I am completely oblivious to. Sometimes the concept of not knowing how we should respond in situations can be as powerful as the excitement of wanting to explore.
We have been to France (Paris) twice and haven't really experienced any problems. I do speak a little French and we are Canadian, so I know that helped. People need to remember that they are in France, or whatever country they are visiting, and are not back home. It is important to respect the country you are visiting and its people when you are there.
Don’t play your media (music or videos) out loud in public, especially at a restaurant or on transportation. True in any city, but especially in France.
I can’t wait to visit 🇫🇷 !!
Spot on: I have French cousins from Normandie and they really “get into” serving you their local cuisine and are very proud of it,…it means everything to them to know that you try it and hopefully enjoy it….I personally loved the sauccisions avec moutard ( sausage with Dijon mustard) and du cidre doux ) Apple cider ( 6-7% Alcohol)
No. SAUCISSON (several kinds, can even be made with donkey meat) is a dry sausage served sliced and cold (as a starter), certainly not with mustard. What might be served with mustard is SAUCISSE (several kinds) served hot. Do not mix the two.
Cidre doux is sweet and certainly not served with either saucisson or saucisse. That is a crazy tourist mixture ! We have cidre brut, which is not sweet. You got it all wrong.
Vous avez tort, mec. J’était là avec ma famille, pas vous…d’accord…Tu est malheureusement naïf 😂
A couple of people have mentioned in one of the French travelers groups on facebook that their kids are studying abroad in Paris and I directed them to your videos 😊
-For being picky, actually it's fine, French people are very picky as well with food. It's more rare since food is delicious, but if something is not good with your food definitely you can be demanding.
-For being loud, it's not only in France. 😅 All over the world Americans are known to be loud in general.
Well, it's ok to be picky in a regular joint, they will adapt to your requests. But if you go to a fancier place (something "gastronomic"), then please don't.
Yep agree. I’m a picky eater- always have been. Just don’t have an expansive taste palette. It is hat it is. Have gone to France twice and I never had any issue asking for something / it’s all about being polite.
I don't like food.
I had the opportunity to visit Paris a couple times and it was wonderful, the people were very welcoming and tolerant of my nursery French. I managed to check in to my room in French and attempted to order dinner but the waiter could tell I was out of my element and kindly switched to English.
Loudness is the main one i think. Talk to people near you. The people 20 yards away dont need to hear you.
Now if we could get people to follow those rules in the U.S. 🙂
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French person here, dont worry American tourists watching this video, you guys are far from the worst foreign tourists we have here, not even top ten worst in my opinion.
Thanks. People love to unfairly target us but my experience traveling has been the same. The worst tourists here in the US are the Chinese.
I wonder if he has a video that discusses what annoys d Americans when visiting france or dealing with French people😂.... this will equal d playing field
The Bonjour thing is real... If you don't give them back a "Bonjour!" they'll just keep saying it to you increasing the volume & intensity until you respond.. I've seen it several times. 😅
That’s really and true and Cool fact : the Story of Beauty and the Beast actually takes place in Colmar
Sorry for traumatizing you with this 😅 But for us it's so important. I can't really explain why. Plus the thing is most French people don't really know that this politeness rule doesn't necessarily exist in all countries.
@@Leopold_van_Aubel I recently visited Japan with my fiance who is French. I've been living in France with him for 4 years and it felt really weird for both of us to walk into shops and NOT say bonjour/konnichiwa. In fact, it felt really rude but if we'd greeted the staff - it would've felt pretty weird for the Japanese people :D
I think it's awesome, la petite politesse, elle est profonde@@Leopold_van_Aubel
That was really a great explanation ! Thank you. No mystery about it. Completely comprehensible to even the most clueless tourist. They , as a rule , just don't know any better. ( most of them ...)
Honestly, I think pretty much all of this advice works anywhere you travel.
Happy New Year Mark and your family.
And all others
Thanks Arno! You too!
I'm an American. The stereotype about Americans being LOUD is so true. I don't notice it so much when traveling to other countries; but here at home, I'm amazed at how noisy so many of my countrymen are. I suppose it's because our hearing sucks.
You guys are indeed loud, in the way an excited puppy is (best analogy I could find) : annoying yet likeable at the same time. When I'm out after work having drinks with friends at a terrasse, I like it. When I'm on my way to work, at 8 am in a very silent metro car, I do admit that some American tourists piss me off haha. But I'm sure we're equally annoying to commuting New Yorkers when we travel.
I spent some time over a few days with some French tourists,here in the US. They were not shy anout criticizing how loud Anericans wer 8:01 e. I was amused as I do speak softly,as do my relatives. I understood their reactions but I am used to it and I do agree.
Also, they were shocked, SHOCKED, to find Orangina refrigerated. I had never boughr it before and loved it cold. Most if them put it in their backpacks or held onto it to warm it on a hot summer day. Same with bottled water.
C'est la vie.
Nobody in France says " c est la vie "
Very good advice. I'm British but a lot of what you say applies to us too (and the bit about drunken tourists probably more so!). I always try to speak what French I can and to treat everybody and everything with respect and have always thoroughly enjoyed my experiences in France.
Great video, i am teaching history and geography in Colmar, precisely in the school close to where you were standing!!! The fact that you chose Colmar to summarize France at the beginning makes me so proud of my little Alsatian town in which we often forget how quaint and beautiful it can be. Thank you for your video and thank you for what you said about us, the French people, we are just normal people and even if we seem to be rude sometimes, we are always very pleased to meet people from other places, it is always so interesting and brings a lot to us. These days in Colmar, apart from German, Dutch, Italian and Spanish tourists, we do have many visitors from China because there was a show on Colmar and Chinese TVchannel a couple of years ago and more and more people from Malaysia or Indonesia. I really enjoy hearing all these exotic languages when i walk through my little city. In the winter time, the street can be crowded with people that come to the Christmas market and these days, we have people enjoying being out in the sun of our starting summer. It is a pleasure to teach in my classroom seeing by the window tourists passing by that suddenly find out
that there is a high school in an 18th century building that is still run today.
Thank you for your video.
I find it ironic that Americans would call French losers/quitters considering Americas retreat from Vietnam.
Excuse me but the French also retreated from Vietnam and IndoChina after surrendering at Dien Bien Phu. Please brush up on your history before commenting.
From Wiki FYI
"The garrison was overrun in May after a two-month siege, and most of the French forces surrendered. A few men escaped to Laos. Of the 11,000 French troops captured, only 3,300 survived imprisonment. The French government in Paris resigned. The new Prime Minister, the left-of-centre Pierre Mendès France, supported French withdrawal from Indochina"
@@craigroaring say what you want Beanie. By do open a history book
@@rivierarocket You just proved my point.
The french were railroaded by Germany. You can't spin that kind of loserdom
@@diegoflores9237 America was railroaded by Vietnam, a 3rd world country. Lets talk about losers.
Colmar looks great, heading there in the summer, wish I'd scheduled more time there now.
All what you say is correct, thats actually every where in europe. Greetings is the key, thats makes you many doors open. Food is very good, you can try everything. Eat only local and when you wanna drinking coffee go in a local coffee shop.
Excellent clip!
Let’s be honest. These are the manners for all, not just in France or for tourists.
Thanks for sharing this video! I always wondered what I did wrong on my (only) trip to France and was hoping to get some answers through this video. Sadly, I did not cause I did everything you suggested here.
About 20 years ago, we took a class trip to France. We started in Provence and worked our way north into Paris. Everyone in Southern France was absolutely wonderful and welcoming. It was a complete 180 when we got to Paris.
I’ve been a French speaker most of my life and am comfortable with the grammar, dialects, pronunciation, and so on. I went into a shop for some camera film (yes, I dated myself right there 😂). The shop owner came across as not wanting to be bothered by me. I spoke with her and asked in French for a certain film which I pointed to. She refused to sell it to me. No reason that I was given, just dismissed. I had this happen in a couple other shops.
At a local restaurant, the servers thought it would be funny to serve onions to some of my classmates instead of the pasta dish. We were also served stale croissants every morning. It was such a bad experience I never wanted to go back to Paris.
I truly hope things have changed since. Any insight as to why they acted that way? Thanks in advance!
The French are legendary with their rudeness. I'm amused when people want to defend them and say they're really not rude LO. L
@@DavidWilliams-qr5yj We are not rude. My family and friends are lovely people. And like she said, everyone in Provence was nice and welcoming. What English speakers see as rudeness is sometimes just a problem of cultural difference or poor communication. Like not saying hello and speaking loudly is considered very rude in France. And in Paris, the rudest people are most often the tourists...
I had a similar experience with 3 shop owners in Paris, about 40 years ago. Maybe it was because I didn't first speak French, and was dressed as a sloppy American. I know better now.
I used to live in Southwest Germany not that far from the French border so I've been to France more times than I can count. The first thing I learned (epically living in Germany where I was trying to practice my German) is that if you start speaking in their language they will atomically reply to you back in English but like you said they appreciate you at least trying. I also have to say that as someone who is from Chicago when I went to Paris other than the language it felt the same just the Eiffel Tower instead of the Sears Tower (and yes I still call it that because I will NEVER call it by any other name). I had always heard how rude the French could be but it's just like anywhere else in the world, you tend to get back what you put out.
All spot on. I lived in Paris for a year studying French. So many times, after greeting shopkeepers in French and, when asked, telling them I was American and revealing I could actually speak the language, they were positively effusive. Wanted me to stay and talk, offered me coffee, etc. The smallest gesture of greeting is all that is required. There's a reason "dickhead" is an American expression.
Really ?
I could write a book about the bad behavior I've seen. I have family in Savoie, and I often stop in Paris en route. I've visited France many times. The one example that comes to mind is the loud American guy in the restaurant, drunk, bellowing about how he was going to take the whole family to "VER SALES" the next day and it was going to cost him his "left ball." Bragging about being a rich American is ugly.
It's ugly anywhere not just France.
Great video! New subscriber here! Happy New Year!
My first trip abroad was just a few years ago to Paris. I was so nervous because I had heard all the stereo-typing of how rude the French are and how much they hated Americans. I had also heard how dirty and icky Paris was. I was so pleasantly surprised to find out how wrong all that was. I forgot to greet the worker at the snack counter at the Eiffel Tower. He wouldn’t serve me until I did. Then he started speaking English and I found out he was really from Nee York and not French at all. One evening my sister and I decided we were tired and wanted to go back to the apartment earlier than the rest of our group. We stopped at a restaurant and asked for a table. Again, I was tired and didn’t attempt a greeting in French. The waiter seemed quite annoyed with us. He took our order and started to walk away when I realized I hadn’t ordered a coke. I asked for one and then said, “por favor” realizing I was stupid, I then said, “per favore”. I finally got a “si vous plait” out. He started laughing. I apologized for getting flustered and after that he was the nicest guy ever. I had such a great time. The people were very friendly and the city was actually clean and beautiful. We went on a side trip to Normandy and the people their were extremely kind and welcoming. I’d love to go back.
I heard Paris is looking like the middle east nowadays
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The French people are lovely people, especially outside of Paris. Paris, like New York or London or any big city will have it's measure of rude people. Ignore those that are rude and just enjoy the wonderful food, scenery, and people.
@@chuckh4077 Is that meant to be racist Chuck?
@@chuckh4077 As French (don’t look like one). I can highly confirm that is true. It’s looking now middle east
@@narabdela nope, meant to be facts.
That bonjour tip when you enter a shop, cafe etc is a really good tip. Maybe its because they had a revolution and people see each other as equals they expect / demand to be treated with respect. I think maybe thats why because some shopkeepers as grumpy because the keepers see the tourists as rude.
Another great video, Mark! 🇫🇷 ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks Walter I was on the fence on weather or not to do my Pepe Le Pew accent in France
BTW, his name is Mark Wolters
Did you know for the French, the character Pepe Le Pew was Italian? Funny eh?
I'm French. Americans stand out because they are LOUD 🔊.
I'm a quiet guy. My wife is the loud one. Yes, in bed, too. Apparently, I have no secrets.
@vilefly your secrets are yours, if you don't share. Either way, they're irrelevant
@@vilefly At least you admit it 👍😊🤣.
@@vilefly Good punctuation +1. It sounded on first reading as if someone had TOLD YOU your wife was loud in bed. 🤔😁
@@andrewrobinson2565 Well, opposites attract. So, I am so terribly goosed if I ever travel abroad.
Thank you very much for mentioning these tips. However, I am saddened that it had to be said at all. I have only been to Paris once, but I couldn't imagine doing any of these things anywhere, even in my home country.
Colmar is beautiful! I speak pretty good French although with enough of an accent that’s noticeable, especially in a longer conversation. French people usually ask me if I’m English although I’m American, so I assume the accents sound similar. It makes me a little sad when French people switch to English when they pick up the accent, even when my French is better than their English. I posting this just to alert any French people who might see it that it’s nice to let anglophones and other foreigners use their French. Same principle applies to other countries/languages used by visitors.
Colmar is more beautiful than beautiful. It’s an enchanting and charming little town. What’s amazing about this place is it didn’t get bombarded by the Nazis
Futhermore is right across the Franco German border
Well, as matter of fact. Speaking English is actuall more easier and more fun. Not to mention, it’s widely spoken across the World.
Some or most Frenchie (Technically I don’t look like one) are just annoyed how bad Foreigners speak french
@@christophermichaelclarence6003 My point is that if a foreign visitor with a different native language is speaking French IN FRANCE or a different French speaking environment and the visitor is not struggling to communicate , it is more welcoming to continue the conversation in French.
Hi, I really enjoyed your light hearted comments, it’s so true whatever you said and yet entertaining. Asia is waiting for you 😄
It all makes a lot of sense! The only place I’ve been in France is Colmar and the local cuisine was amazing!! Especially that flat bread/pizza with the creamy sauce ( forgot the name!!) 😊
You’re referring the "quiche". Sort of pie. Colmar is located right across the Franco German border 🇫🇷🇩🇪
It’s mostly sausage, bretzel and gingerbred
Like at 4:45 : it's tarte flambée (french) or flammekueche (alsatian dialect)
@@christophermichaelclarence6003 It's not quiche, it's flammekueche.
"It's mostly sausage, bretzel and gingerbread" - except for choucroute, baeckoffe, matelote, coq au riesling, Kuglehof, Munster cheese....
pretty simple, don't be a dick in someone else's house.
@@billswim - Except here in America we let foreigners do whatever they want and no one says a thing!
I was in Paris with 3 friends. I was the only one who had been before so I had schooled them on complaining because although we didn’t speak a lot of French, many French speak English. The other was on being loud. On our last night in Paris we were in a small Italian restaurant (was fabulous). The 4 of us along with everyone else were enjoying our dinner. That is until 4 more American young ladies came in and were so fricking loud, everyone in the restaurant turned and looked at them. I hated this was happening so I went over to the young women and introduced myself by saying in a low voice, “hi, I could hear you were from America. Where are you from”? Thinking they would mirror how I was speaking. Nope they just got louder🤣🤣🤣
I thought everyone annoyed the French.
I thought exactly the same when I saw this video. Even the French annoy the French!
Prejudice.
Not true
Lighten up! It’s a joke. This soft society is really getting out of hand.
That’s ok Europeans think all Americans carry guns and live in super violent places. I was so shocked at how kind and friendly everyone was.
Just standard etiquette for travelling anywhere, really. If you don't like the local food/culture, don't go there. I'm from the UK, and it always makes me cringe when I go to places and see English pubs/fish & chip shops, etc. If I'm holidaying in France, I definitely want to try the local cuisine. When in Spain, a paella is definitely on the "to do" list.
God bless you brother ❤❤❤❤
For me when I think of the French, I think of the bravery of the French resistance . I think it’s sad that the perception is the English don’t like the French. ( I’m 😅English).
i'm Scottish. Generally speaking the French like the Scots a lot.
@@WDH59510indeed!
@@WDH59510 Oui je confirme ;)
Thank you for this! Visiting France in April for the first time.
It's soooo damn easy... "C'est vous plait," "bonjour" and "merci" (and bonus: "puis-je avoir") go so, so far in France. That's even if you just have a layover at CDG. Also, as many Americans are liberal in their use of "I want," "gimme" and "I'll have" at home without any incorporation of basic manners, many of us don't have much in the way of manners to begin with (and I don't want to read platitudes from any of my fellow Southerners about manners; I promise you that as Southerners, we're friendlier but no more polite than most other Americans). Even so, it's still not an excuse to not brush up on the customs for manners in other societies before travel. To be fair, I've seen Brits, Aussies, Germans, etc. act impolitely, too, but there's a higher level of entitlement found in Americans' flubs, it seems.
maybe because of the "Client is king" mindset ?
You're making me hungry! I wish I could work/teach ESL in France, both my Great Great Grandmas immigrated from Norther France in the 1870 war. Nobody told me I can't do that. I feel French, doing everything but smoke.
Your sweatshirt is by far the best. 🇮🇹😁I don't know how much the French appreciate it⚽
How about using the right flag color, it’s clearly Ireland’s 🇮🇪
I found the French to wonderful people. Several times, I would be sitting all alone in a restaurant and they would hear my american accent and would invite me to their table to eat with them. They respect Americans who love their culture , their food and their language.
Reason number 1 in annoying the French is, just like Wolter;
Wear a hoodie with the colours of an Italian sports team.
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HA - HA -HA -HA -HA -HA ! ! ! …Sacré bleu! …Touché!
I guess I'll go to Normandy for oysters.
Though I adore good cheese (I worked @ L''escargot and Un Grande Cafe in the late 70's/early 80's in Chicago and I adore Pom Frites and all) my body won't let me eat much, anymore, but, I still will take a taste of my faves.
I will be kind.
I've been wanting to visit Normandy and I was unaware of the oysters. This is going to be ammunition for convincing my bf to go with me. He's very food motivated, and I can get him to do anything I want if I wave oysters in front of him!