I always love seeing what you've been up to but also hearing your thoughts on society, yourself and navigating the balance between chilling and locking in! Please never stop because I love the value you bring on this lil youtube channel!
One of the many things I respect about you is that you're honest and accountable.The idea of relationships and marriage has evolved. I think romantic relationships and marriage can be wonderful covenants with someone. We don't have to force ourselves in these situations anymore to feel normal. When I got married I did it because I thought that was what I was supposed to do. I was divorced because I took life into my hands. I'm not staying in any relationship that's dead. A lot of us feel more alive alone. Alone to move how we please. Just keep it a stack with yourself. Dating and a boyfriend isn't your vibe right now. I think when you do find someone that's in harmony with you it's going to be someone that inspires you. His life is already going to be abundant and exciting with or without you. You're going to choose each other because life feels more vibrant and vivid when your worlds collide. If you don't get that guess what? You have us!!! Your YT tribe. One Love P.o.p.
Divinely timed! It's a good feeling to know that you're not alone in certain seasons/cycles of life. I like how your videos feel completely natural, like you're just checking in and sharing. Thank you for these.😁
thank you so much for posting this , i’ve been going through a lot these past 2 weeks & i only just started watching the video 8 minutes ago 😂, but you’ve already have motivated me to get up and find ways to better myself! all love ❤thank you so much
Relationships are such a lock in but also a distraction. Love your content girl! You are so good at looking within and analyzing why you move the way you do. Inspiring us all along the way ❤
It was nice for a change to hear about setting bounderies on yourself. I've for the most part always focussed on setting these external bounderies with people and outside things, but never really put myself in that category with my own negative habits, just did light checks on them. Thanks for sharing
Yesss i gotta do both bc any boundaries issues i have with others is almost always stemming from a boundary issue i have with myself, other ppl are just a mirror
I knew i was gonna be hospitalised and i saved your 2 last videos for this tough time. You are so inspirational and calming, i love your energy so much, thank you for being part of my journey ❤️🩹
Wow. The way you literally just said everything struggling with. The same with relationships, smoking, and drinking occasionally. It’s tough cause I learned so much about our bodies spiritually and I know what isn’t good and what is, so I feel you babe. Here with you. Thank you for always being so honest. 🖤🖤🖤
Thank you for not cutting your ramble out! Maybe you did to some extent but I really appreciate authenticity. We’ve all been there and if we haven’t, that time will show up in our lives in some way. Be you, express yourself freely!
Lynette, your vlogs are the only vlogs I've been watching for the past year or so. I hope you know that what you've accomplished in your life already is remarkable. You have brains, style, class, discipline, health - you can be so proud of yourself ❤ hugs from Germany ❤
I literally feel like you're my twin-flame because no matter what I’m feeling, you ALWAYS either are dealing with similar things in our journeys. I’m relieved to know I’m not alone. Aries things🥰
My two cents… every newish relationship is going to throw your personal goals off a bit bc it’s the honeymoon stage…it will take discipline to do the hobbies but strive and accept just a quarter of your intensity into those things… you’ll get back to your desired intensity once the honeymoon stage wanes 😂 and that’s not a bad thing, every relationship gets to that point and that’s when hobbies bring back that spice to life. Sounds like a good balance you could one day get to ❤
I’ve been thinking about going to therapy again too because it’s been two years and I relate to pretty much everything you said .. I think it’s called disorganized attachment
watching you explore my hometown is always really interesting to get another perspective. key food was the supermarket i used to shop at back in the day. when i first got to nyc in 1992, my family and i were on food stamps and i remember going there all the time. it was so affordable back then.
soooo proud of you Lynette, keep doing the things that make you feel your best whether that's resting or grinding! i always look forward to your videos
thank you for being real and just being you. i super appreciate it as another young black woman navigating this world and I love the vlogs. Also this vid made me get my shit together and revamp my goals and what I want to accomplish in the short term vs the long term and it really helped, so big ups to you for the inspiration.
girl, i feel like we are literally the same! and we are in the same place in our life right now - back in monk mode! wishing you Godspeed on your journey 💞
I’m an Aquarius Venus like you and I do the same thing with my anxious avoidant attachment. I would break up with my partners all the time before we actually broke up fr and I used to blame myself for that thinking I self sabotaged but I learned you wouldn’t push away something that is 100% for you, even if you’re happy. just bc you’re happy doesn’t mean it’s compatible with your soul.
Right, cause I’m like….were you really happy?? Or did it look good on paper? Cause people don’t leave things that they’re happy with. But then again, when I’m not being 100% myself in a relationship ~ I can hold back progress
I feel you heavy with no dating while we figure ourselves out 😭 side note: I spent 1 week in BK and saw quickly why NYC is the #1 worst place for dating 🤣
Lynette, I love you so much, your videos just resonate with me all the time! I relate so much to a lot of what you spoke about. You’re doing great, keep it up❤! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
I definitely feel the need to go hard again and secure a job after losing my job in August but the autumn girlie in me just wants to cozy up next to a fireplace with earmuffs, a big jumper, mittens, Uggs, a blanket, a hot chocolate & hair in a messy bun 📚🕯️😅
18:48 100% resonate with this part. I was off/on with my ex for 4 years because deep down I knew they weren’t for me and also in the grand scheme of things- were distracting me from my mission. I’m a cancer rising and feel like a lot of cancer placements are going through this period of surrender with unhealthy relationships. And I am so here for it. I feel like I’ve been let out of jail..
After ending a weird ass situationship last month, i also decided to quit dating. Before i also felt like it was a Black & White thing but i decided to just enjoy myself and if i meet folks, just focus on connection and not dating. For me, dating feels like alot and i overthink. I have that same disorganized attachment of being anxious and avoidant. I related to so much with this vlog. Including cleaning up tonight because i can no longer have a messy place. I love watching you when i have chores to do. Lol 🤣
I feel like I fr can’t relate to anyone my age-26 when it comes to dating, social media, drinking going out and trying to stay healthy and productive but I always relate to your experiences omg is it bc I’m an Aries too 😂
Your hair grow so much happy to see you again ❤can you make a video about how to manifest our dreams life and to be in alignment with what we want in life it would be amazing ❤❤
Aw yay thank you! & I actually have a few manifesting vids you can probably search ‘Lynette Adkins manifestation’ & find them, I may make a new one soon tho!
i'm an eldest sibling and i never really had a big sibling figure, so you seriously feel like a friend/big sis on facetime to me😭 but especially when you were talking about setting boundaries with yourself, i felt thattt. boys had me fucked up last year, and i literally had to use this year to recover. never again! i enjoy my solitude/independence wayyy too much. i would maybe like a companion (?) one day? but nothing romantic, as i realized i'm asexual and aromantic anyways lol😂 love uuu
Hi mamas!!! I’m in Rishikesh india right now for my 200 TTC because of your inspiring video!!! I’m watching this right now and I am so proud of your vulnerability. At 13:34 you’re talking about your relationship with we*d and wine- I went completely sober a month before coming out here and I’m thinking ai will continue my sobriety after too. I’d encourage it to anyone; I wake up with so much energy and I no longer use we*d to neglect my emotions and feelings. Sending you all the love and abundance for this Q4🦋✨🌱💖 much love from Rishikesh / Chicago🔐🧚🏽
Hi beautiful. Idk if you talked about your week plan or how you plan your week, but in this vlog i really loved what you said ablut reset day, that made me questioning my own week plan and i had realized i don't have reset days. Do you mind maybe making a video on how you plan your week/days and how you plan your reset days? Kind of an advice from a friend to another friend🥰 lifting each other up here I would totally appreciate that because looking at your vlogs it seems like your week or days are very structured which is something i am trying to achieve myself. Thank you so much 🤍
I love your vlogs. Kelly Brogan has a book called "A Mind of Your Own" and it has a protocol that you may find helpful. It's like 40 days but it's a really good way to see what things may affect you. Then you can have whatever you want all December. For me the benefits of the protocol lasted months. So the effort you put into ve strict is never wasted. You don't want to think like that or you will feel too discouraged to try. You are doing great. Your good decisions will compound.
Omg, you haven’t been coming up on my feed for so long, so happy to see your NYC videos 🫶🏽, also, I’ve been trying to read if we were villains since last year, I keep putting it back down 🤦🏽♀️.
It sucks as Americans we have to find balance with everything we consume, especially foods like sugary treats 😅 balance seems to be the best option and that’s prob gonna be different for everyone. I’m in the same boat 😂 and autumn is a perfect season for keeping what works and letting go and what is DONE, ded, no longer serves. Ghost season wooo! Also love your wild hair as an older wild ish curly girly :) 🎃
Maybe we should normalise being single till we actually find are soulmates and stop getting in relationship with people that makes us feel shit. I would love to date someone, but right now I feel like I’m better off by myself, I don’t know. Last time I was in a relationship there was a point I was questioning myself so much, If I wanted to be with the guy and if was happy, that made me crazy and I stooped living my life. We broke up and I became sick real sick. Now I’m starting to live my life again I feel really happy there is a lot of things that I want to do in 2025. So for my best. relationship is out of the question right now. Because I don’t want to go through nothing that can put me down and stopping me of reaching whatever that I desire. I know myself I’m very sensitive so if something happen that hurts me, my soul,my heart, I will just spend a whole week in bed crying so I’m out of anything that can break me and make me weak like a relationship. I’m focusing on my goals only, and bettering myself in the mean time. To when I get into a relationship I don’t allow certain things and to choose the right partner that will not make me question myself about him and his attitude and behaviour.
You’re so funny omg 😂😂. Loved this video! I have a question I’m moving to Austin soon , do you have a video talking about living in Austin or anything I should know?
Glad you enjoyed it! & yay congrats, I miss Austin a lot!! Enjoy the nature out there, there’s tons to do! I recommend checking out the greenbelt if you like hikes
I’m gonna play a drinking game called “Drink every time Lynette apologizes for looking crazy, insane or a mess” All jokes ofc hahahaha. I think you look ok every time you say that. I’m talking to my phone like “Girl you look fiiiiiine” 🤣🤣❤️
I feel like sit down videos always are best when the message naturally comes to you & we’re used kind of like a vessel 🫶🏼 we’re grateful for the vlogs though!! They are just as helpful & comforting ❤️ Thank you for being open about your relationship talk as well 🙏🏼 We’re all just here trying to figure it out lol
Be normal, enjoy life, find that balance. We live one life, do what makes you happy, and do whats good for your soul. I love your vlogs ❤️
Yes! Thank you!
I always love seeing what you've been up to but also hearing your thoughts on society, yourself and navigating the balance between chilling and locking in! Please never stop because I love the value you bring on this lil youtube channel!
One of the many things I respect about you is that you're honest and accountable.The idea of relationships and marriage has evolved. I think romantic relationships and marriage can be wonderful covenants with someone. We don't have to force ourselves in these situations anymore to feel normal. When I got married I did it because I thought that was what I was supposed to do. I was divorced because I took life into my hands. I'm not staying in any relationship that's dead.
A lot of us feel more alive alone. Alone to move how we please. Just keep it a stack with yourself. Dating and a boyfriend isn't your vibe right now. I think when you do find someone that's in harmony with you it's going to be someone that inspires you. His life is already going to be abundant and exciting with or without you. You're going to choose each other because life feels more vibrant and vivid when your worlds collide. If you don't get that guess what? You have us!!! Your YT tribe.
One Love
P.o.p.
Divinely timed! It's a good feeling to know that you're not alone in certain seasons/cycles of life. I like how your videos feel completely natural, like you're just checking in and sharing. Thank you for these.😁
Yes! Thank you sm!
thank you so much for posting this , i’ve been going through a lot these past 2 weeks & i only just started watching the video 8 minutes ago 😂, but you’ve already have motivated me to get up and find ways to better myself! all love ❤thank you so much
Aw I’m so sorry to hear that, sending you so much love!❤️ so glad these could help a bit
Relationships are such a lock in but also a distraction. Love your content girl! You are so good at looking within and analyzing why you move the way you do. Inspiring us all along the way ❤
Thank you so much!! & yes omg they are
It was nice for a change to hear about setting bounderies on yourself. I've for the most part always focussed on setting these external bounderies with people and outside things, but never really put myself in that category with my own negative habits, just did light checks on them. Thanks for sharing
Yesss i gotta do both bc any boundaries issues i have with others is almost always stemming from a boundary issue i have with myself, other ppl are just a mirror
I knew i was gonna be hospitalised and i saved your 2 last videos for this tough time. You are so inspirational and calming, i love your energy so much, thank you for being part of my journey ❤️🩹
Wow. The way you literally just said everything struggling with. The same with relationships, smoking, and drinking occasionally. It’s tough cause I learned so much about our bodies spiritually and I know what isn’t good and what is, so I feel you babe. Here with you. Thank you for always being so honest. 🖤🖤🖤
Gosh I relate so much with what you said about the self sabotaging and being used to being alone. I appreciate you sharing with us ❤
Thank you for not cutting your ramble out! Maybe you did to some extent but I really appreciate authenticity. We’ve all been there and if we haven’t, that time will show up in our lives in some way. Be you, express yourself freely!
Lynette, your vlogs are the only vlogs I've been watching for the past year or so. I hope you know that what you've accomplished in your life already is remarkable. You have brains, style, class, discipline, health - you can be so proud of yourself ❤ hugs from Germany ❤
I literally feel like you're my twin-flame because no matter what I’m feeling, you ALWAYS either are dealing with similar things in our journeys. I’m relieved to know I’m not alone. Aries things🥰
I love to drink coffee and watch you, it’s like a theraphy 🩷🥰
Best time of the week when Lynette post a new video ❤
Aww thanks for tuning in!❤️
Truly live for you vlogs! Please never stop
Thank you I won’t 🫡
My two cents… every newish relationship is going to throw your personal goals off a bit bc it’s the honeymoon stage…it will take discipline to do the hobbies but strive and accept just a quarter of your intensity into those things… you’ll get back to your desired intensity once the honeymoon stage wanes 😂 and that’s not a bad thing, every relationship gets to that point and that’s when hobbies bring back that spice to life. Sounds like a good balance you could one day get to ❤
I’ve been thinking about going to therapy again too because it’s been two years and I relate to pretty much everything you said .. I think it’s called disorganized attachment
watching you explore my hometown is always really interesting to get another perspective. key food was the supermarket i used to shop at back in the day. when i first got to nyc in 1992, my family and i were on food stamps and i remember going there all the time. it was so affordable back then.
i just discovered your channel during a study break, i am IN LOVE with your content 😭😭😭
soooo proud of you Lynette, keep doing the things that make you feel your best whether that's resting or grinding! i always look forward to your videos
thank you for being real and just being you. i super appreciate it as another young black woman navigating this world and I love the vlogs. Also this vid made me get my shit together and revamp my goals and what I want to accomplish in the short term vs the long term and it really helped, so big ups to you for the inspiration.
A reset day is a great idea, i need to get into that
Winter Arc let’s goooo
girl, i feel like we are literally the same! and we are in the same place in our life right now - back in monk mode! wishing you Godspeed on your journey 💞
your vlogs lately have been extra amazing!!!
Aw thank you sm!!
I’m an Aquarius Venus like you and I do the same thing with my anxious avoidant attachment. I would break up with my partners all the time before we actually broke up fr and I used to blame myself for that thinking I self sabotaged but I learned you wouldn’t push away something that is 100% for you, even if you’re happy. just bc you’re happy doesn’t mean it’s compatible with your soul.
Right, cause I’m like….were you really happy?? Or did it look good on paper? Cause people don’t leave things that they’re happy with. But then again, when I’m not being 100% myself in a relationship ~ I can hold back progress
Ok so true, this is what I’ve been realizing! Thank you for saying this!
I feel you heavy with no dating while we figure ourselves out 😭 side note: I spent 1 week in BK and saw quickly why NYC is the #1 worst place for dating 🤣
Girl yes it’s tough out here 😭
I just feel like drinking wine with you and eating that popcorn after watching this whole video!
Aww I love it!
you’re so much cooler and realer than all the aspirational perfect girly youtubers
I looove your vlogs and look up to you in so many ways ❤❤❤
thank you for creating
Lynette, I love you so much, your videos just resonate with me all the time! I relate so much to a lot of what you spoke about. You’re doing great, keep it up❤! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
Thank you so much! So glad it resonates❤️
I definitely feel the need to go hard again and secure a job after losing my job in August but the autumn girlie in me just wants to cozy up next to a fireplace with earmuffs, a big jumper, mittens, Uggs, a blanket, a hot chocolate & hair in a messy bun 📚🕯️😅
18:48 100% resonate with this part. I was off/on with my ex for 4 years because deep down I knew they weren’t for me and also in the grand scheme of things- were distracting me from my mission. I’m a cancer rising and feel like a lot of cancer placements are going through this period of surrender with unhealthy relationships. And I am so here for it. I feel like I’ve been let out of jail..
As someone with a Cancer Venus, I relate to this deeply.
This!! Knowing someone isn’t the one but not being able to let them go is tough. So glad I’m not alone in this, but yes we have to free ourselves haha
I'm a minute and a half into the dating section and im hearing so much that i needed to hear
After ending a weird ass situationship last month, i also decided to quit dating. Before i also felt like it was a Black & White thing but i decided to just enjoy myself and if i meet folks, just focus on connection and not dating. For me, dating feels like alot and i overthink. I have that same disorganized attachment of being anxious and avoidant.
I related to so much with this vlog. Including cleaning up tonight because i can no longer have a messy place. I love watching you when i have chores to do. Lol 🤣
Those shoes remind me of the wedge sneakers everyone was wearing in 12’ , 13’…can’t believe their back 😭😭
I feel like I fr can’t relate to anyone my age-26 when it comes to dating, social media, drinking going out and trying to stay healthy and productive but I always relate to your experiences omg is it bc I’m an Aries too 😂
Aries ganggg you get me
dishevelled is CRAZY you’re so gorgeous
Your hair grow so much happy to see you again ❤can you make a video about how to manifest our dreams life and to be in alignment with what we want in life it would be amazing ❤❤
Aw yay thank you! & I actually have a few manifesting vids you can probably search ‘Lynette Adkins manifestation’ & find them, I may make a new one soon tho!
i'm an eldest sibling and i never really had a big sibling figure, so you seriously feel like a friend/big sis on facetime to me😭 but especially when you were talking about setting boundaries with yourself, i felt thattt. boys had me fucked up last year, and i literally had to use this year to recover. never again! i enjoy my solitude/independence wayyy too much. i would maybe like a companion (?) one day? but nothing romantic, as i realized i'm asexual and aromantic anyways lol😂 love uuu
Shoutout to your cinematography on the last few vlogs!
Thank you!!
18:20 is so real😂😂 I really do resonate with ur emotions towards dating
Been feeling the same way, heavy on better alone 😂
Hi mamas!!! I’m in Rishikesh india right now for my 200 TTC because of your inspiring video!!! I’m watching this right now and I am so proud of your vulnerability. At 13:34 you’re talking about your relationship with we*d and wine- I went completely sober a month before coming out here and I’m thinking ai will continue my sobriety after too. I’d encourage it to anyone; I wake up with so much energy and I no longer use we*d to neglect my emotions and feelings. Sending you all the love and abundance for this Q4🦋✨🌱💖 much love from Rishikesh / Chicago🔐🧚🏽
Omg I hope you have the best time in Rishikesh & your TTC!! That’s so exciting ❤️
& that’s amazing, I may try that! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
I got the burgundy nail colour from last vlog ♥️😭😭 beautiful. I definitely believe in slow and steady change you can sustain - lovely vlog 🥰🥰✨
The shoes are giving Bratz and I love it 🤩🥰
I really resonated with so many things that you said, thank you so much for posting this!
Please share more about how you will make your plan!❤
My favorite RUclipsr 🫶🏼
🤗🤗❤️
Hi beautiful. Idk if you talked about your week plan or how you plan your week, but in this vlog i really loved what you said ablut reset day, that made me questioning my own week plan and i had realized i don't have reset days. Do you mind maybe making a video on how you plan your week/days and how you plan your reset days? Kind of an advice from a friend to another friend🥰 lifting each other up here
I would totally appreciate that because looking at your vlogs it seems like your week or days are very structured which is something i am trying to achieve myself. Thank you so much 🤍
lynette!! i've been enjoying your vlogs so much
Yay thank you!
Yess winter arcccc
i could not have said it better!! these men have us mentally unstable🤣🤣🤣
I love your vlogs. Kelly Brogan has a book called "A Mind of Your Own" and it has a protocol that you may find helpful. It's like 40 days but it's a really good way to see what things may affect you. Then you can have whatever you want all December. For me the benefits of the protocol lasted months. So the effort you put into ve strict is never wasted. You don't want to think like that or you will feel too discouraged to try. You are doing great. Your good decisions will compound.
It's all about the balance :)
18:18 FACTSSSS
Hi Lynette🤎 I have to watch Coraline now 😅 I forgot how funny she was, just off hearing that one clip! Alwaysss loving the vibes here
Omg, you haven’t been coming up on my feed for so long, so happy to see your NYC videos 🫶🏽, also, I’ve been trying to read if we were villains since last year, I keep putting it back down 🤦🏽♀️.
I forced myself to finish it over the weekend & honestly hated it lol
It sucks as Americans we have to find balance with everything we consume, especially foods like sugary treats 😅 balance seems to be the best option and that’s prob gonna be different for everyone. I’m in the same boat 😂 and autumn is a perfect season for keeping what works and letting go and what is DONE, ded, no longer serves. Ghost season wooo! Also love your wild hair as an older wild ish curly girly :) 🎃
We love Isabel Marant!!!
yay ❄️ love ur vlogs
❤️
title of the video is what I feel rn
Very interested in reading stoner now! Your videos are always the best!
It’s so good!! & thank you sm!
Literally SAMEEEEEE 😩😩😩 time to lock in 😝😂
it’s giving princess and the frog
Hey Lynette i ❤ your vlogs , greetings Germany.
Yay so glad you enjoy!
I'm anxious avoidant too :( me and you both girlie
I was following along well engaged & all but then you lost me with the sneakers boots 😂😂 but sheeit you liken I love em gang💫
😂❤️
Girl I missed you,July,August and September was very overwhelming and I just exit RUclips
trying with a bracelet now (regarding the jewelry situation), we’ll see how long it will last
Kamari is so cute
❤️ you girl
Maybe we should normalise being single till we actually find are soulmates and stop getting in relationship with people that makes us feel shit.
I would love to date someone, but right now I feel like I’m better off by myself, I don’t know.
Last time I was in a relationship there was a point I was questioning myself so much,
If I wanted to be with the guy and if was happy, that made me crazy and I stooped living my life.
We broke up and I became sick real sick. Now I’m starting to live my life again I feel really happy there is a lot of things that I want to do in 2025. So for my best. relationship is out of the question right now.
Because I don’t want to go through nothing that can put me down and stopping me of reaching whatever that I desire. I know myself I’m very sensitive so if something happen that hurts me, my soul,my heart, I will just spend a whole week in bed crying so I’m out of anything that can break me and make me weak like a relationship. I’m focusing on my goals only, and bettering myself in the mean time. To when I get into a relationship I don’t allow certain things and to choose the right partner that will not make me question myself about him and his attitude and behaviour.
You’re so funny omg 😂😂. Loved this video! I have a question I’m moving to Austin soon , do you have a video talking about living in Austin or anything I should know?
Glad you enjoyed it! & yay congrats, I miss Austin a lot!! Enjoy the nature out there, there’s tons to do! I recommend checking out the greenbelt if you like hikes
I don’t have a video specifically on Austin but have tons of vlogs from living there!
Let’s be insane just for 1 year
Yes
Your friend at 5:20 looks soooo familiar!! I live in Houston, I wonder why
Keyfood is expensive for no good reason. Get out of there 🏃🏽♀️ 😂… its convenient though
What was his channel make kimari
Omygod isn’t he from twenty somethings Austin??
I’m gonna play a drinking game called “Drink every time Lynette apologizes for looking crazy, insane or a mess”
All jokes ofc hahahaha. I think you look ok every time you say that. I’m talking to my phone like “Girl you look fiiiiiine” 🤣🤣❤️
You look so hot in your gym outfit!! Great video!
❤️❤️
I feel like you are in a really healthy place and I want to normalize that
Aw thank you!!
Wasn’t he on tv??
it would be cool to be your company, I live in Nyc, I know it sounds creepy but just shootin my shot.
❤❤❤
😇😇😇
Luv
What the hell is winter arc
I feel like sit down videos always are best when the message naturally comes to you & we’re used kind of like a vessel 🫶🏼 we’re grateful for the vlogs though!! They are just as helpful & comforting ❤️
Thank you for being open about your relationship talk as well 🙏🏼 We’re all just here trying to figure it out lol
So true! Will def get back to that soon. & thank you!