Soft life= stress less life. Soft life= drama free life Soft life= triggered free life Soft life= live , love and be happy Soft life= calm , quiet life, smile more and complement others. Soft life = rest , baths 🛀 more self care. Soft life= healing ❤️🩹, health and self acceptance. Soft life= mind your own business Soft life= get rid of anything that makes your heart bleed 🩸. Best soft life to you ladies. 🥂🍾🥗🍀
@@fierceandflawed Well, oftentimes we adults tend to get in our own way with too much overthinking, focusing on hangups, etc. Just breathe, be open to growth, and push back the inhibitions, self-bashing and projection of ill-thoughts and judgment. Please know that I'm not pointing fingers at you as it would be utterly ignorant, short-sighted, and stupid of me, because I don't know you. I want our sisters to break free from emotional, financial, friendship, mental, and sexual bondage.
Fumi I'm 60, and have been living a very soft life, all by myself since I left my cheating husband. It is the best way to live and still learning more about adding ways or deleting things that makes my life far more peaceful. I enjoy the beauty of the world around me, and find more things to appreciate and love. Thanks for sharing this
Congratulations on your courage to walk away from a stressful situation 👏🏽 👌🏽 👍🏽 I love living alone too. Not married but happy and free and very relaxed once I'm in my home! Alone!
Aunty Fummi, I am not your classic audience ..but this is a video made up of so much wisdom! I am a 39 year old male going back to school to get my MBA.I dont know how the dots will connect but I know they will...
You are always uplifting us Fumi! I love your spirit! I am 50 years old and I am going to college for my bachelor's degree after being an LPN for 20 years! Thank you for allowing others to see that 50 is just the beginning of life age is not about a number it's about the charisma and spunk. I'm embracing my journey because the next 50 are going to be the best years of my life. Thank you again. I live for it FUMI!
Okay Fumi, I’m old enough to be your mother and I’ve only been watching a couple of weeks. I didn’t have my mom in my life until I was grown and my female family members taught me nothing about personal hygiene or life as a young woman should know. I applaud you for what you are doing for the young ladies (and the older) in giving wisdom. I have learned so much from you at my age and it’s a shame that I wasn’t taught earlier but maybe they didn’t know or refused to share. I love you Fumi and you deserve my being subscribed, so as of today I’m in. I guess you could be my Auntie BUT I’ll just say “OUT OF THE MOUTHS OF BABES “ Fumi spews wisdom and life. Take heed 💜 Grace and Peace 💜💕
Thank you Fumi. I am enjoying your videos. You're crazy, hilarious, fiesty and full of life. I love you. I am 43, never married, no kids, I can't have kids because I had a hysterectomy because of fibroids. I am still healing, I have been believing God for a husband since I was 20. I've decided to love myself and do the things I love, live life to the fullest. I am so liberated from expectations of African society about what it means to be a woman!!!
I have been living the Soft Life since 2013 with my husband. He is a Gem and I am blesses to have such a caring partner. We appreciate and respect each other in everything we do, I have never been so happy 🥰
Ms. Fumi, your husband has his own way of saying hi to us. He is always leaving the room once you start talking. Ula spends small time with you, but respects your work and gives you space to do it. Giving a Like for that soft life relationship.
Coming across you almost a week now my thinking is changing slowly n i now believe everything is possible....am 51 n am encouraged by your videos to go out n start a utube channel no matter what THEY say behind my back
Ole tiptoeing out the studio always makes me smile ☺️ Unhealthy finances almost killed our marriage. 5 years in we’re getting our bearings, being honest and kind, and he’s the best provider and I care for the home. He works full time in IT and I work part time in real estate. We pay 30% of our monthly income towards the house and groceries and the rest goes to our smaller personal bills (credit cards, gas, etc) and the rest is savings and fun money. We’re so at peace 🙏🏽
20:17 I’m 38, married 13 years with two kids. I grew up watching my mom live a difficult, bumpy life with my father - always hiding purchases and spending excessively as a means for coping with other things. My parents do not speak to each other kindly, mainly because they were never shown how to communicate in healthy ways. My husband and I began living the bumpy life, and I did an about-face. I didn’t want what my parents have, I wanted something better. And you know what? I have it. It took a lot of work and us both being willing to change and grow together, but I’m so happy with how far we’ve come and what we’ve built. No secrets, no going behind the other’s back, no creating deception where there doesn’t need to be.
I love the way you explain and put what soft life is. These days people define/make soft life as "always going out to spend excessively/being irresponsible". I love your explaination, its so mature and teaching to be responsible 360 of life. I am turning 24yr old next month, and i am glad i am learning from matured(mentally) people like u. I am alone, no parents but God has been helping me build my first house(to completed end of this yr) and am completing my master degree in Biomedical Engineer at the end of this year. The saving point is so true Aunt Fumi, knowing i have some coins(over $40k) in my bank makes me happier and feel secured from unforseen incidents/spending. Just encouraging all the young ones out there, you can live a soft life without finishing your life away. Always live within ur reach/level.
@@FumiDesaluVold thank you soo much Aunt Fumi. I love u and always looking forward to your uploads. Your vibe is amazing, draws me to your videos always.
Every woman should watch this once a week. It’s such a beautiful concept. Living the soft life. I’m blessed to truly understand, embrace, and live all of your points but it’s nice to have a reminder that all is well. Bless you and your gift of wisdom.
I can’t believe people watch you without subscribing?! How could you miss out on Fumi? Or, how can you be so selfish that you don’t wanna subscribe to your favorite RUclipsr? When I first discovered Fumi 5-6 years ago, I was instantly drawn to her and before I lose this once in a lifetime opportunity, I clicked “subscribe” 💕👏😝 I love ❤️ you Fumi!
This video touched my soul. At one point I actually cried - I felt like you were speaking the things that my mother never said. In fact, I can imagine my mother wishing someone had had this discussion with her. 😔 Its never too late to embark on the soft life. I claim it - I will live a soft life. Thank you , Fumi 🙏🏾❤️💐
The softlife for me is simplicity...focusing on a GOD, family, friends and enhancing my psychological, physical, intellectual, and spiritual well-being. This is my vibranium.
Come on everybody, lets this channel to 1 million subscribers, her content is worth it especially when some of us subscribe to woman hating, man bashing channels full of negativity, I think sometimes we get caught up in the content and forget to like, subscribe, share, sometimes after I've left the video I have to click back to like because I forget so I just try to click like as soon as I open the video, but Fumi❤️, you are worth 2 million subscribers 😘
Thank you Fumi! I've been in living in an abusive situation since I was born, and now I'm planning on an escape. I'm beyond and I mean BEYOND anxious, because I don't how things are going to go. I can only hope that everything will go well and I'll finally be able to live the soft life you talk about here.🥰
@Mar S. Anxiety comes with the territory because it is the unknown. Just keep going and know that if you are doing a good thing it cannot end in regret for you no matter how terrifying it might be at the moment. I hope you find a safe space to heal from your trauma and thrive so you can see and experience the best God has for you. Sending love and positivity your way.
1st time in my life, at age 56, I drove long distance, from NYC to Georgia and back again. Thought it couldn't be done. Did it twice.. alone. Had a BLAST!!! 😎
Hi Fumi, It is so true about looking your best and presenting your self to the world the best you can. A little makeup does go a long way, even just a little lipgloss. A woman should never live the house as if she just rolled out of bed.
Like they have been saying, "Problem no dey finish", dwelling too much in our problems will have a negative impact. I was in a very tough situation which was really hard for me to handle. I managed the situation and amidst all, I wrote an exam and came out with a DISTINCTION 🎉🎉
Part of soft life for me it is living a purpoful life.... Living in my purpose. It gives me so much life. I dont get into arguments unnecessarily. I don't have to respond.
Fumi, this topic.... RELATIONSHIPS...... should be discussed and talked about daily by all humans. It should be a subject taught in every educational institution. This is the essence of our lives!
Auntie Fumi, your the best. Let me tell you this. You just spoke to my soul. I felt as if it was just you and me just talking and you're just there counseling the hell out of me. Starting my soft life journey today...
Thank you once again .I can't stop watching this over and over,I am 42 years old, single and always having mind swings. Thank you for unconditional and unconsciously being my mentor. I love what you do and say it's soul lifting.
I needed to hear this so much. I watched hours ago, but was too full to respond. I’d been having breakdowns for days now, culminating in making an unfortunate scene at a dinner party last night. Sigh. I hate the career I’d been doing for 22 years now (it’s too scary and not aligned with who I am, and I’d just jammed myself into it for decades, hating myself all the while for doing so), and the burnout is too much to take. I quit my job mid April, and took another too soon, hence the breakdowns. With my husband’s approval, I just quit this one, and am resting now, and will take care of myself. I have a psychologist appointment set up for tomorrow. It’s going to take time, but I will try to pay attention to living a soft life, because the alternative is literally killing me.
I’m so sorry Fumi but you missed a point and I have been waiting the whole video for you to mention it. It’s smelling good, I really find a person who smells well also is very attractive and shows how well put together they are. If you ever make another video please talk about smelling good in your soft life especially ladies on their days of the month . Thank you for the video very helpful I can’t believe I have watched this crying The Whole time because you have said the things I always wish my mother tells me
Ms. Fumi.....You do such a great job with us ladies. Have you ever considered having a children's show for girls ( 4-6, 7-10) to help reinforce kindness, beauty, manners, value and worth? You would be stupendous at that too!
I love that your conception of a soft life includes extending kindness and thoughtfulness to others. That is not something that other “soft life” evangelists speak of. Thank you for generously sharing these wonderful insights with us! 🙏🏾♥️
I absolutely love how you are expressing the soft life. I think a lot of people have the soft life wrong. They think it simply means being a kept woman who dresses pretty and lives a fully suppressed life. I working on learning how to be more soft with my partner and I absolutely look up to how you carry yourself. So far it’s been amazing. Taking that extra moment everyday to take care of myself so that I’m taking care of my husband and home properly has been the best thing I’ve ever done.
I could listen to Auntie Fumi all day. 🥰 This woman is divested and has it figured OUT, from life to self- care to family... absolutely dodged a bullet with "dem other guys" and have learned your lessons from whatever those hard experiences were. 🙌🏾 When you're good to others, they will be good to you. SO MANY GEMS!
Thank you so much for this. I am a care giver and I am so exhausted mentally and physically. This phase of my life is almost over as the person I am helping is getting better. I will remember everything you have said and I will begin to take the tips and advice you have given and begin to make my way to the soft life. Blessing to you for your wisdom!!
Your words always come from a place of love and wisdom. That's why I enjoy listening to you. Some RUclips women empowerment personalities can be so condescending...talking down to other women and lecturing endlessly. Thanks you 😘
I LOVE HER. She is real. Came across this video after talking to God. Key word DONT stress. Be kind, be humble, live within my means, respect everyone, love myself etc
Thank you Fumi, I have been trying to live the soft life for yrs now since I turn 50, soon to be 54 and n I am loving myself, travel to texas almost 2 wks ago back home now in Jamaica, and I had a fabulous fun time, I alway say I am a Princess in my own Palace and I take.cwre of me, trusting God's grace and Mercies to see me through each day telling him thanks in the night, with peace of mind t believe that's living the soft life
Ooohhh Fumi, if only you knew how much your message blessed me. I am 53 and I have put all kinds of limitations on myself, though others have told me the same things you are saying. I am going to let go and live a little more - without the caps.
I fell in love with you the very first time I watched one of your videos. I am from and still lives in Jamaica. I love your channel I appreciate you so very much. Continue to be fabulous and keep on motivating all the wonderful women of the world. Love you my dearest fumi. Hope I will meet you someday. Blessings
I have been interested in the soft life for more than a year but there was always something keeping it from me. I needed to work on personal issues before I could get there. Therapy helps me getting closer to the soft life I want. Being single works best for me at this moment
This is my favourite episode to date Fumi!! Loved it so so much 🥰I’m living my best life, living the soft life 🙏🏽. I have a joint bank account and we share money and responsibilities & have fun with the rest. Jan 2022 I decided to take charge again, lose that weight, take care of myself, find myself, I’m so glad I did 😉 Fumi I hope to meet you one day, you inspire me to live my best life on this earth, one life that I have been given to experience. You know, in the middle of watching this episode, I stopped and started videoing myself. For years I have been afraid to be on camera, always wanted to start maybe a RUclips channel myself but been so afraid I couldn’t possibly do it. How will I speak, what will I look like…Blar blar blar, but today I did it, did it cause of watching you. So thank you my lovely ☺️ 🙏🏽 for helping me in my life. May the universe bless you always 🙏🏽😘
Fumi….you are speaking my language! I’ve been keen to the soft life from the womb. A mani/pedi is not only a treat it’s maintenance… Hair neat and tidy check. Eyebrows lined and arched and a simple lip gloss check and clothes that fit and flatter you no matter the size double check! Presentation is everything! And yes money in the bank is very SEXY! Love your shopping advice as well…mixing highs and lows. What a classic Chanel bag can do for a simple TJ Max summer dress…lol! Grown woman ish…. Thank you Auntie Fumi!!!
Fumi you are so right. I am not going to stress anymore, worrying only hurts yourself. Now, I pray about it and leave alone. I enjoy your channel so much. You are so beautiful in and out, GOD Bless you
Thank you Fumi, I know this life, I believe in this life, but sometimes I let myself down. I needed to be reminded on a few of the points you made. You made this point and I just want to agree 💯, living the soft life has nothing to do with how much money you do or don't have. It's about YOU, honoring yourself and by extension those you love. 🥰
The best illustration I have seen about "soft life", and this is because you spoke on a plethora of topic. I love how your soft life explanation is purposeful. Thank you Aunty Fumi!
My Goodness gracious 😳 😍 , Aunty FUMI. I wish you could see my face admiring you and your advices. God, you are beautiful 😍, and very happy to see your makeup, your confidence, I believe I can even see your soul (because you love what you do and you project all this love ❤️) please, receive ❤️ 💖 💕 and admiration from this your little sister/niece, etc. I wait for your videos to pop up, no matter the content. Because I know it's wonderful 😊 ☺️ 🙂 😌 😀 ❤️. Love from Equatorial Guinea 🇬🇶, Africa.
FUMI!! You give us wonderful content consistently.... BUT THE PEARLS that you gave us today...MY LOVE, absolutely fantastic. Thank you. I appreciate you!
Thank you Fumi for the gentle reminder that I must put myself 1st in order to be the best wife, friend, colleague, etc. I often sacrifice my needs/wants to do for others but today I'm making a conscious decision to take care of me 1st. Thank you 😊
I love you, Fumi! I am in my twenties and am glad to have enough suffering and a tough life to finally choose myself over anything including my parents, family, friends and all. I feel so different and peaceful lately after cutting off frenmies and fanenemis and now i know the peace i am experiencing is called SOFT LIFE. And may this comment be a sign to whomever reads it to stand up for yourself and detach from whatever sabotages your peace and sanity.
Fumi I’m so glad you popped up on my You tube rotation. I’m 46 years old and I live a soft life. I enjoyed this so much. Thanks for the reminder of contentment and gratefulness. I have a wonderful husband and beautiful family. ❤
This was so therapeutic to listen to… I took a lot of mental notes and I am definitely saving this video to come back to it over and over again. Love you Aunty Fumi 💕
I started watching you when you were at 3,000 subscribers when you had the best of beauty products Part 1 and 2 ( you advised Nailtiques) . I was with you way back then and I am so glad for you Fumi.
I knew exactly what you meant when I read he title but Thank you for explaining this concept for many who I could see would not "get it". And as always, you look absolutely gorgeous... ♥
Fumi it's like you made this episode with me in mind. For me the definition of a soft life is working. Work for me is a stress relief. But I also get the whole thing of not stressing on the things that I can't control. This episode is what I needed. From now on I will live the soft life.
At 25:51, I started to think, I can relate to this. My husband and I've got problems; and urgent as well as outstanding matters to deal with. Yet we keep finances transparent and live as stress free as we're able to - #simpleplusblessed = #softlife
New Subscriber ! ☝🏽 Hi Fumi ! 🤩 Im so happy that i found you ! Your such a wise, intelligent Woman. I really love listening to you. Especially your laughter is soooo uplifting to me ! Thank you Sister Fumi 🤗🤗🤗🥳
Thank you Fumi....I'm 48 in South Carolina. Not living as Soft of a life as I would like but I appreciate you and all the care you put into sharing information, makeup and stories with us all. I LOVE! 🤗
I broke up with a bf 2days ago and am not in the best place. This video randomly popped up on my page and at the end of it I was like 38 beautiful 6foot and African but you’re here crying bc of man🤦🏾♀️piss take. Fumi thank you so much for uplifting me and putting me at ease rn. Truly felt like you were talking to me. Happy to be a new subscriber ma’am.
My aunty Fumi….. thanks for this video…. It is always a pleasure hearing from you on a lot of issues that help us ladies… you are such a blessing…. Thanks for doing RUclips 🤗🤗
Thanks ever so much Lady Fumi. I may not always be viewing but I'll always be a subbie. This topic I especially enjoyed because it made me feel pumped and reminded me of all my blessings. #livingmysoftlife
Soft life= stress less life.
Soft life= drama free life
Soft life= triggered free life
Soft life= live , love and be happy
Soft life= calm , quiet life, smile more and complement others.
Soft life = rest , baths 🛀 more self care.
Soft life= healing ❤️🩹, health and self acceptance.
Soft life= mind your own business
Soft life= get rid of anything that makes your heart bleed 🩸.
Best soft life to you ladies. 🥂🍾🥗🍀
I love this 👏👏👏👏
Sounds like to live a soft life you need to be kid free 😅
@@fierceandflawed
Fumi has a kid
I do have one kid. Nop.
You just need to adopt a lifestyle that is full of health choices.
Thank you for this.
@@fierceandflawed Well, oftentimes we adults tend to get in our own way with too much overthinking, focusing on hangups, etc. Just breathe, be open to growth, and push back the inhibitions, self-bashing and projection of ill-thoughts and judgment. Please know that I'm not pointing fingers at you as it would be utterly ignorant, short-sighted, and stupid of me, because I don't know you. I want our sisters to break free from emotional, financial, friendship, mental, and sexual bondage.
Fumi I'm 60, and have been living a very soft life, all by myself since I left my cheating husband. It is the best way to live and still learning more about adding ways or deleting things that makes my life far more peaceful. I enjoy the beauty of the world around me, and find more things to appreciate and love. Thanks for sharing this
Ditto!
I’m so glad you left, that’s incredibly empowering! Many women settle…
Congratulations on your courage to walk away from a stressful situation 👏🏽 👌🏽 👍🏽
I love living alone too. Not married but happy and free and very relaxed once I'm in my home! Alone!
Like that
Can't wait for to move out and finish my divorce. Been through hell..
Aunty Fummi, I am not your classic audience ..but this is a video made up of so much wisdom! I am a 39 year old male going back to school to get my MBA.I dont know how the dots will connect but I know they will...
Thats exciting! Good luck on your studies. 🤗
The dots have already connected. You got accepted into an MBA program. Congratulations to you. Dr. Gretchen Mims
You are always uplifting us Fumi! I love your spirit! I am 50 years old and I am going to college for my bachelor's degree after being an LPN for 20 years! Thank you for allowing others to see that 50 is just the beginning of life age is not about a number it's about the charisma and spunk. I'm embracing my journey because the next 50 are going to be the best years of my life. Thank you again. I live for it FUMI!
Omgosh that is great! Good luck on your studies 🙏🤗
Brilliant- life begins when you wake up to your potential
GO GET YOURS!!!!!!
Okay Fumi, I’m old enough to be your mother and I’ve only been watching a couple of weeks. I didn’t have my mom in my life until I was grown and my female family members taught me nothing about personal hygiene or life as a young woman should know. I applaud you for what you are doing for the young ladies (and the older) in giving wisdom. I have learned so much from you at my age and it’s a shame that I wasn’t taught earlier but maybe they didn’t know or refused to share. I love you Fumi and you deserve my being subscribed, so as of today I’m in. I guess you could be my Auntie BUT I’ll just say “OUT OF THE MOUTHS OF BABES “ Fumi spews wisdom and life. Take heed 💜
Grace and Peace 💜💕
Your honesty is wonderful Gail. You dropped some pearls too. God bless you. I hope you enjoy this part of your life.
Thanks Fumi❤😘🙏🏽💯
@@lotaosarollor9706 thank you, blessings to you also. Grateful to have lived this long 💜🙏🏾
Lovely..
God bless u
Thank you Fumi. I am enjoying your videos. You're crazy, hilarious, fiesty and full of life. I love you. I am 43, never married, no kids, I can't have kids because I had a hysterectomy because of fibroids. I am still healing, I have been believing God for a husband since I was 20. I've decided to love myself and do the things I love, live life to the fullest. I am so liberated from expectations of African society about what it means to be a woman!!!
I have been living the Soft Life since 2013 with my husband. He is a Gem and I am blesses to have such a caring partner. We appreciate and respect each other in everything we do, I have never been so happy 🥰
Ms. Fumi, your husband has his own way of saying hi to us. He is always leaving the room once you start talking. Ula spends small time with you, but respects your work and gives you space to do it. Giving a Like for that soft life relationship.
I’m a English leaner . I don’t understand everything you say but I love watching your videos . A huge thank you
I’m a big fan of you 🤩
Coming across you almost a week now my thinking is changing slowly n i now believe everything is possible....am 51 n am encouraged by your videos to go out n start a utube channel no matter what THEY say behind my back
Ole tiptoeing out the studio always makes me smile ☺️
Unhealthy finances almost killed our marriage. 5 years in we’re getting our bearings, being honest and kind, and he’s the best provider and I care for the home. He works full time in IT and I work part time in real estate. We pay 30% of our monthly income towards the house and groceries and the rest goes to our smaller personal bills (credit cards, gas, etc) and the rest is savings and fun money. We’re so at peace 🙏🏽
The way l needed this. My poor heart has been hardened so bad theses days. This was so hard to hear but I needed it.
20:17 I’m 38, married 13 years with two kids. I grew up watching my mom live a difficult, bumpy life with my father - always hiding purchases and spending excessively as a means for coping with other things. My parents do not speak to each other kindly, mainly because they were never shown how to communicate in healthy ways. My husband and I began living the bumpy life, and I did an about-face. I didn’t want what my parents have, I wanted something better. And you know what? I have it. It took a lot of work and us both being willing to change and grow together, but I’m so happy with how far we’ve come and what we’ve built. No secrets, no going behind the other’s back, no creating deception where there doesn’t need to be.
Yes! I find putting on a dress is easier and definitely more feminine than pants and a blouse. It's definitely a different vibe.
I'm the same I buy more dresses and use cardigans to accessories so I can wear again especially when packing for a holiday.
So true
Yes, the only one piece of clothing that can be a whole outfit there is! Brilliant
I love the way you explain and put what soft life is. These days people define/make soft life as "always going out to spend excessively/being irresponsible". I love your explaination, its so mature and teaching to be responsible 360 of life. I am turning 24yr old next month, and i am glad i am learning from matured(mentally) people like u. I am alone, no parents but God has been helping me build my first house(to completed end of this yr) and am completing my master degree in Biomedical Engineer at the end of this year. The saving point is so true Aunt Fumi, knowing i have some coins(over $40k) in my bank makes me happier and feel secured from unforseen incidents/spending. Just encouraging all the young ones out there, you can live a soft life without finishing your life away. Always live within ur reach/level.
I'm soooooo PROUD of you my darling, God Bless you always. ♥️
@@FumiDesaluVold thank you soo much Aunt Fumi. I love u and always looking forward to your uploads. Your vibe is amazing, draws me to your videos always.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 you got girl.
You're NEVER ...alone!❤
Every woman should watch this once a week. It’s such a beautiful concept. Living the soft life. I’m blessed to truly understand, embrace, and live all of your points but it’s nice to have a reminder that all is well. Bless you and your gift of wisdom.
40 minutes of Mama Fumi is 40 minutes of inspiration. Thank you so much mama
I can’t believe people watch you without subscribing?! How could you miss out on Fumi? Or, how can you be so selfish that you don’t wanna subscribe to your favorite RUclipsr?
When I first discovered Fumi 5-6 years ago, I was instantly drawn to her and before I lose this once in a lifetime opportunity, I clicked “subscribe” 💕👏😝 I love ❤️ you Fumi!
I am 61 am loving these talk
This video touched my soul. At one point I actually cried - I felt like you were speaking the things that my mother never said. In fact, I can imagine my mother wishing someone had had this discussion with her. 😔 Its never too late to embark on the soft life. I claim it - I will live a soft life. Thank you , Fumi 🙏🏾❤️💐
The softlife for me is simplicity...focusing on a GOD, family, friends and enhancing my psychological, physical, intellectual, and spiritual well-being. This is my vibranium.
I feel like I just got a life masterclass. Thank you Aunty Fumi. ❤❤❤
Exactly ❤❤❤❤
Come on everybody, lets this channel to 1 million subscribers, her content is worth it especially when some of us subscribe to woman hating, man bashing channels full of negativity, I think sometimes we get caught up in the content and forget to like, subscribe, share, sometimes after I've left the video I have to click back to like because I forget so I just try to click like as soon as I open the video, but Fumi❤️, you are worth 2 million subscribers 😘
Thank you Fumi! I've been in living in an abusive situation since I was born, and now I'm planning on an escape. I'm beyond and I mean BEYOND anxious, because I don't how things are going to go. I can only hope that everything will go well and I'll finally be able to live the soft life you talk about here.🥰
Im rooting for you sister. You got this!
@Mar S. Anxiety comes with the territory because it is the unknown. Just keep going and know that if you are doing a good thing it cannot end in regret for you no matter how terrifying it might be at the moment. I hope you find a safe space to heal from your trauma and thrive so you can see and experience the best God has for you. Sending love and positivity your way.
❤️🙏🏽
@@pretaporterp Thank you so much.
@@ladyann7077 Thank you. I'm keeping this in my thoughts.
1st time in my life, at age 56, I drove long distance, from NYC to Georgia and back again. Thought it couldn't be done. Did it twice.. alone. Had a BLAST!!! 😎
Hi Fumi, It is so true about looking your best and presenting your self to the world the best you can. A little makeup does go a long way, even just a little lipgloss. A woman should never live the house as if she just rolled out of bed.
This made me cry...So many women live in trauma. I want to and will live the soft life
Like they have been saying, "Problem no dey finish", dwelling too much in our problems will have a negative impact. I was in a very tough situation which was really hard for me to handle. I managed the situation and amidst all, I wrote an exam and came out with a DISTINCTION 🎉🎉
Congratulations 👏. I wish you the best in your future endeavors
Part of soft life for me it is living a purpoful life.... Living in my purpose. It gives me so much life.
I dont get into arguments unnecessarily. I don't have to respond.
Fumi, this topic.... RELATIONSHIPS...... should be discussed and talked about daily by all humans.
It should be a subject taught in every educational institution.
This is the essence of our lives!
Auntie Fumi, your the best. Let me tell you this. You just spoke to my soul. I felt as if it was just you and me just talking and you're just there counseling the hell out of me. Starting my soft life journey today...
To my very core. This is a sign from God that I’m on the right path I have recently chosen for myself.
Thank you once again .I can't stop watching this over and over,I am 42 years old, single and always having mind swings. Thank you for unconditional and unconsciously being my mentor. I love what you do and say it's soul lifting.
I needed to hear this so much. I watched hours ago, but was too full to respond. I’d been having breakdowns for days now, culminating in making an unfortunate scene at a dinner party last night. Sigh. I hate the career I’d been doing for 22 years now (it’s too scary and not aligned with who I am, and I’d just jammed myself into it for decades, hating myself all the while for doing so), and the burnout is too much to take. I quit my job mid April, and took another too soon, hence the breakdowns. With my husband’s approval, I just quit this one, and am resting now, and will take care of myself. I have a psychologist appointment set up for tomorrow. It’s going to take time, but I will try to pay attention to living a soft life, because the alternative is literally killing me.
I’m rooting for you and you will get the life and Joy you deserve. Meet you at the top of the soft life. Sending you love and Hugs.
I would travel to London to have a beauty class with Fumi. Makeup, hair & clothing to compliment me.
I’m so sorry Fumi but you missed a point and I have been waiting the whole video for you to mention it. It’s smelling good, I really find a person who smells well also is very attractive and shows how well put together they are. If you ever make another video please talk about smelling good in your soft life especially ladies on their days of the month . Thank you for the video very helpful I can’t believe I have watched this crying The Whole time because you have said the things I always wish my mother tells me
This is a well rounded perspective of the soft life. It does not just focus on luxury and finances
This is relatable and practical Auntie Fumi thank you. It's unfortunate that people think a soft life is just about luxury purchases .
No I think that’s like the black woman in luxury movement but I’ve seen lots of the soft life of like cottage core and self-care things.
Ms. Fumi.....You do such a great job with us ladies. Have you ever considered having a children's show for girls ( 4-6, 7-10) to help reinforce kindness, beauty, manners, value and worth? You would be stupendous at that too!
I agree I'm 55 lost my mom in 2020 after caring 4 her 😪and now I'm going to do my best to have a soft life 🙏🏾
And a clean home with a well edited clothes closet
Fumi I'm 52, I always watch your videos
and find them to be relevant... this video
Is like I read a book, WITH TEARS.. it meant so much to me...
This is crazy I was just thinking about this "soft life" statement a few hours ago
I love that your conception of a soft life includes extending kindness and thoughtfulness to others. That is not something that other “soft life” evangelists speak of. Thank you for generously sharing these wonderful insights with us! 🙏🏾♥️
I absolutely love how you are expressing the soft life. I think a lot of people have the soft life wrong. They think it simply means being a kept woman who dresses pretty and lives a fully suppressed life.
I working on learning how to be more soft with my partner and I absolutely look up to how you carry yourself. So far it’s been amazing. Taking that extra moment everyday to take care of myself so that I’m taking care of my husband and home properly has been the best thing I’ve ever done.
I could listen to Auntie Fumi all day. 🥰
This woman is divested and has it figured OUT, from life to self- care to family... absolutely dodged a bullet with "dem other guys" and have learned your lessons from whatever those hard experiences were. 🙌🏾 When you're good to others, they will be good to you.
SO MANY GEMS!
Thank you so much for this. I am a care giver and I am so exhausted mentally and physically. This phase of my life is almost over as the person I am helping is getting better. I will remember everything you have said and I will begin to take the tips and advice you have given and begin to make my way to the soft life. Blessing to you for your wisdom!!
Your words always come from a place of love and wisdom. That's why I enjoy listening to you. Some RUclips women empowerment personalities can be so condescending...talking down to other women and lecturing endlessly. Thanks you 😘
I LOVE HER. She is real. Came across this video after talking to God. Key word DONT stress. Be kind, be humble, live within my means, respect everyone, love myself etc
After this preaching we need to pick up an offering. This is so good. Thank you Aunty Fumi. Love and blessings!!!
I don't know how I came across your channel but it is very captivating God bless you young lady.
Thank you Fumi, I have been trying to live the soft life for yrs now since I turn 50, soon to be 54 and n I am loving myself, travel to texas almost 2 wks ago back home now in Jamaica, and I had a fabulous fun time, I alway say I am a Princess in my own Palace and I take.cwre of me, trusting God's grace and Mercies to see me through each day telling him thanks in the night, with peace of mind t believe that's living the soft life
Hi fumi darling i think you are just fabuleus.that's why i subsribed to your Channel.i really your wisdom about life.i Will turn 50 this year❤❤❤❤
Yes Fumi, there are some problems when left alone without your stress or obsession, will sort themselves out just the way they should. Thank God!
Ooohhh Fumi, if only you knew how much your message blessed me. I am 53 and I have put all kinds of limitations on myself, though others have told me the same things you are saying. I am going to let go and live a little more - without the caps.
I fell in love with you the very first time I watched one of your videos. I am from and still lives in Jamaica. I love your channel I appreciate you so very much. Continue to be fabulous and keep on motivating all the wonderful women of the world. Love you my dearest fumi. Hope I will meet you someday. Blessings
I have been interested in the soft life for more than a year but there was always something keeping it from me. I needed to work on personal issues before I could get there. Therapy helps me getting closer to the soft life I want. Being single works best for me at this moment
I'm so glad that God led you to Ole and him to you. The blessing produces more blessings least expected. Be ever grateful 🙏💯❤️
Fumi, I could hear my late mother speaking through you today. Living the Soft Life is the only way to live. I love you and will watch you again;
This is my favourite episode to date Fumi!! Loved it so so much 🥰I’m living my best life, living the soft life 🙏🏽. I have a joint bank account and we share money and responsibilities & have fun with the rest.
Jan 2022 I decided to take charge again, lose that weight, take care of myself, find myself, I’m so glad I did 😉 Fumi I hope to meet you one day, you inspire me to live my best life on this earth, one life that I have been given to experience.
You know, in the middle of watching this episode, I stopped and started videoing myself. For years I have been afraid to be on camera, always wanted to start maybe a RUclips channel myself but been so afraid I couldn’t possibly do it. How will I speak, what will I look like…Blar blar blar, but today I did it, did it cause of watching you. So thank you my lovely ☺️ 🙏🏽 for helping me in my life. May the universe bless you always 🙏🏽😘
Don't stress don't stress, I must remember this because all of us have problem it is how we handle them, thank you
Fumi….you are speaking my language! I’ve been keen to the soft life from the womb. A mani/pedi is not only a treat it’s maintenance… Hair neat and tidy check. Eyebrows lined and arched and a simple lip gloss check and clothes that fit and flatter you no matter the size double check! Presentation is everything! And yes money in the bank is very SEXY! Love your shopping advice as well…mixing highs and lows. What a classic Chanel bag can do for a simple TJ Max summer dress…lol! Grown woman ish…. Thank you Auntie Fumi!!!
Fumi you are so right. I am not going to stress anymore, worrying only hurts yourself. Now, I pray about it and leave alone. I enjoy your channel so much. You are so beautiful in and out,
GOD Bless you
Fumi you have the greatest content ever yet..... thank you for today's message. You shared the truth.
Thank you Fumi, I know this life, I believe in this life, but sometimes I let myself down. I needed to be reminded on a few of the points you made. You made this point and I just want to agree 💯, living the soft life has nothing to do with how much money you do or don't have. It's about YOU, honoring yourself and by extension those you love. 🥰
So true
The best illustration I have seen about "soft life", and this is because you spoke on a plethora of topic. I love how your soft life explanation is purposeful. Thank you Aunty Fumi!
My Goodness gracious 😳 😍 , Aunty FUMI. I wish you could see my face admiring you and your advices. God, you are beautiful 😍, and very happy to see your makeup, your confidence, I believe I can even see your soul (because you love what you do and you project all this love ❤️) please, receive ❤️ 💖 💕 and admiration from this your little sister/niece, etc. I wait for your videos to pop up, no matter the content. Because I know it's wonderful 😊 ☺️ 🙂 😌 😀 ❤️. Love from Equatorial Guinea 🇬🇶, Africa.
Fumi, This was one of hardest lessons I had to learn in love. I can't make people feel something they don't feel. Fumi, you nailed it! THANKS ❤️
FUMI!! You give us wonderful content consistently.... BUT THE PEARLS that you gave us today...MY LOVE, absolutely fantastic. Thank you. I appreciate you!
Thank you Fumi for the gentle reminder that I must put myself 1st in order to be the best wife, friend, colleague, etc. I often sacrifice my needs/wants to do for others but today I'm making a conscious decision to take care of me 1st. Thank you 😊
Same here .
❤Thanks much Fumi for sharing.God bless youvand the family.
I love you, Fumi!
I am in my twenties and am glad to have enough suffering and a tough life to finally choose myself over anything including my parents, family, friends and all.
I feel so different and peaceful lately after cutting off frenmies and fanenemis and now i know the peace i am experiencing is called SOFT LIFE.
And may this comment be a sign to whomever reads it to stand up for yourself and detach from whatever sabotages your peace and sanity.
I give this video a million likes! Thank you Fumee for blessing us with your talent. You are one in a million!
Blessings xxxx
Fumi, your soft life episode is indeed therapy for all women faced with the "balancing act of life".
Fumi I’m so glad you popped up on my You tube rotation. I’m 46 years old and I live a soft life. I enjoyed this so much. Thanks for the reminder of contentment and gratefulness. I have a wonderful husband and beautiful family. ❤
Thanks Fumi, Ole, and Babooska Adrian and FumiNation!
This was so therapeutic to listen to… I took a lot of mental notes and I am definitely saving this video to come back to it over and over again. Love you Aunty Fumi 💕
I started watching you when you were at 3,000 subscribers when you had the best of beauty products Part 1 and 2 ( you advised Nailtiques) . I was with you way back then and I am so glad for you Fumi.
Wow
Me too! I knew she would go far. She is so refreshingly different.
If you believe that Fumi should have her own television talk show, say YES!
Love your content! I’m 52 and love that we are part of the same age club. 💃🏻⭐️❤️👍🏼🥰
I knew exactly what you meant when I read he title but Thank you for explaining this concept for many who I could see would not "get it". And as always, you look absolutely gorgeous... ♥
Thank you Fumi
I at 58 understand this late in life. Stress free is the goal...always! Love ❤️ 😍 your advice and conversations !
Thank you Fumi . from now on I'll start living soft and simple life.
Fumi, you are officially my new favorite RUclipsr! I LOVE your content. Subscribed and shared with my sorority sisters. :-) Be blessed.
Fumi it's like you made this episode with me in mind. For me the definition of a soft life is working. Work for me is a stress relief. But I also get the whole thing of not stressing on the things that I can't control. This episode is what I needed. From now on I will live the soft life.
Although we are the same age, you have such admirable wisdom and confidence that I say "thank you Auntie Fumi!!" 🙂
Life is hard, people are struggling, I try to be as kind as possible to all!
At 25:51, I started to think, I can relate to this. My husband and I've got problems; and urgent as well as outstanding matters to deal with. Yet we keep finances transparent and live as stress free as we're able to - #simpleplusblessed = #softlife
New Subscriber ! ☝🏽
Hi Fumi ! 🤩 Im so happy that i found you ! Your such a wise, intelligent Woman. I really love listening to you.
Especially your laughter is soooo uplifting to me !
Thank you Sister Fumi 🤗🤗🤗🥳
Thank you Fumi....I'm 48 in South Carolina. Not living as Soft of a life as I would like but I appreciate you and all the care you put into sharing information, makeup and stories with us all. I LOVE! 🤗
Hi can I be your friend please? My name is Mabel!
I broke up with a bf 2days ago and am not in the best place. This video randomly popped up on my page and at the end of it I was like 38 beautiful 6foot and African but you’re here crying bc of man🤦🏾♀️piss take. Fumi thank you so much for uplifting me and putting me at ease rn. Truly felt like you were talking to me. Happy to be a new subscriber ma’am.
I'm so happy you made it clear that living the soft life isn't all about money. We have got to open our minds.
I can seriously watch FUMI alllll daaayyyyyy
Oh Lord! I clicked this video faster than the speed of light!
Me too 🤣
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Me three...
Still listening but amazing video in this age where ever single woman is pretending and living above their means. Well done Auntie Fumi🥰🥳
My life is changed since I started watching you. God bless you Fumi 💯❤️🙏
I’m so glad I found you. Thank you. 73 soon will be taking your advice.
My aunty Fumi….. thanks for this video…. It is always a pleasure hearing from you on a lot of issues that help us ladies… you are such a blessing…. Thanks for doing RUclips 🤗🤗
I love the soft life. Thank you Fumi, you're absolutely fabulous. I should be original, myself, just the way God made me, unique and beautiful. ❤
Great video. I can't commit to make up no matter how hard I try but I will start investing more in skin treatments.
Thanks ever so much Lady Fumi. I may not always be viewing but I'll always be a subbie. This topic I especially enjoyed because it made me feel pumped and reminded me of all my blessings. #livingmysoftlife
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