Dear women.... especially our beautiful Black women, there is NEVER a reason to give a man you are dating your hard earned money. You can't pay for LOVE!! Get a man who can stand on his own.
What kind of man is this?! Putting his sons in a dangerous situation because he can’t plan or figure anything out for them. And she oughta be ashamed for giving a grown man $1300 knowing she has children of her own to take care of. Grow up!
The majority of black men no matter how decent they speak, just stay dependent on women and this is majorly due to not having fathers in their homes to raise them into real men. The worst part is the cycle continues today where they still keep abandoning their children so they'll always be this way.
Yes, the defendant could have rented a car with a debit card. Major rental car companies-including Avis, Budget, Enterprise and Hertz-all permit rentals on a debit card.
I like how the Judge tried to get her to understand that it doesn’t matter if he sleeps with other people the same day or the same month. The risk is the same. They were in an open relationship and at the minimum, multiple partners is expected. The plaintiff settled for saying he just wasn’t honest about it… but she would not have been so hurt if she just expected it anyway. Everyone isn’t built for casual sexual relationships. I know I’m not.
Thank you for wording it so perfectly. I gave it a try,, but its not for me. I'd rather be alone...( he never asked for money..he expected me to be impressed by his.) We gals need to UP our self respect ... If you meet a guy, and he starts dry begging....🚩🚩🚩🚩....RUN!!!
That abusive relationship destroyed all love she must have had for herself, if she is now falling for broke & irresponsible men like him, online dating must be the absolute worst, SMH 💯
Had nothing to do with her past abuse. He carried himself like he was responsible in the beginning and she eventually learned his actions didn't follow what he was saying. Hopefully she learned a lesson.
Boo hoo hoo. I'm so sick of women staying in bad relationships for years, then whining about the abuse they suffered. Have a little self respect, girls. Don't rush into a bad situation because you think any relationship is better than none. Don't stay after it becomes clear that the guy is abusive.
I run the moment a man ask me for money! I once met a man that asked me for gas money on a date.... as he pulled up the gas station, my uber ride was right on time!
Online dating is a cesspool. It’s always guys like him, homeless dudes looking for a place to sleep, guys who are looking for a 3rd gf to share with their actual partner, men lying about being married with children, men on there with newborns. It’s actually too much. I’m not coming out my pocket for nothing
It was annoying to watch. I felt she was trying to play on our intelligence. Girl just admit you got dickmatized and lost your head but you got it back now you want your money.
Most women who say they're fine with open relationships are lying to themselves; they accept those terms because they know the guy won't date them exclusively and convince themselves to stay by saying they can date other people too. But, they'll get jealous, expect boyfriend treatments and resent the men for seeing other women. Also, she paid for his trip. Men like him love open relationships because they get money from all the women they date.
She's so accustomed to covering bad things up that she has several come back lines already in her head. it's the 18 years of being in a horrible marriage her cover ups have clouded herself.... sad!
Time and time again, women give men money within a short time after meeting them. Then, when things don't work out, the women want to sue because they've realized they've been used and he's not going to repay.
Good men usually give money as gifts even with women they are casual with and don't expect repayment. Women shouldn't do that at all. The energy is flipped.
I mean she should have regretted that tracksuit coming to court no matter what who taught these people like who really thinks that's an appropriate outfit to wear for court
Professional notary who deals with legal issues wears sweat pants to court and gives money to 40-something man who can't manage his own life. Judge was right telling her she needs to do better for herself.
Women!!!! STOP buying these sorry men’s love and affection! They aren’t worth it! They’re users, abusers, liars, cheaters and predators looking vulnerable, desperate women!!! Just STOP!
Stop the cap she gotta pay like she weight, she single for a reason especially with that dangerous tattoo. Men stop dealing with women who think & act like children! She knew she was an online jump off paying hoping for more not gonna happen big Betty
The judge is trying to show her that she deserves more. She's been broken to the point that she's just accepting anything for "friendship". I hope she heals.
Naw she really don't because she hasn't taken the time to heal. That's a common thing people say to make others feel better about themselves but it's not true. Until you do the work you get exactly what you deserve. I wish her well
THANK YOU JUDGE! Calling her out on her text and behavior with a man who is “seeing” woman the same day as her is really what she needed. Prayers that this woman finds a great man to reciprocate her love. Also no one is this unlucky it’s called inadequate planning aka being a hot mess 😂
The judge was absolutely correct and she still didn't get it. She'll walk right out of this courtroom and do this all over again. She doesn't need to be spending time with anyone but herself. Being lonely and desperate is like a perfume...men can smell it a mile away. This woman hasn't learned anything...with her Beautiful self...
Yeah but it’s just not the setting to give a 30 second sell on “self love” coming from an 18 year abusive relationship anything looks better and JM is not the person to guide her through that
@@justhereyeah1112 Facebook isn't the setting to guide her thru it either...she's not looking for guidance she's looking to get laid anyway by any means necessary...
@@mrshappilymarried1 okay, she’s been abused for 18 years. You act like her going on FB for a man is unusual behavior for someone who’s dealt with trauma it’s called being realistic and what’s not realistic is for JM to get through to her in that setting as I said!
@@justhereyeah1112 mam idgf what you said..anyone coming out of an 18 yr relationship should have 'enter a new relationship ' AFTER the last item on their f'n bucket list Dummie. You're just as delusional as she is with yall hard up for D asses. Find yourself, seek therapy and leave men alone for awhile..desperate asses
How convenient that his credit card was eaten by the machine, and she was able to help out, then he didn't have flight tickets back, so she helped him out, then his friend didn't answer the door, when he knew he was staying with him, and neither the wife nor the children heard him ringing the doorbell. His phoned crashed, his son's phone was hacked, all so convenient...
This man is unprepared and a bit of a user it seems. He probably should have delayed this trip until he could afford it completely. I get it people want to go on a trip but he didn’t even have a credit card he could put it on.
The plaintiff is so smart that she is dumb . She wasn’t making much sense in what she was saying in terms of him being with a woman or not etc etc . However as also a mobile notary on top of law student , etc . I would love to pick her brain as far as her notary business if she has that much money to just give away 😂
Yeah she sounded like she was in denial about her true expectations from their "relationship". Trying to act cool with being friends with benefits while desperately trying to maintain her dignity by not admitting the fact that she really wanted to be exclusive smh. She still has some growing up to do.
Lesson Learned: It’s okay to say NO to loaning money, especially to someone you’ve known a short time. Once you’ve established a trustworthy friendship/relationship then you only give money if you have it to spare. Otherwise, you take the risk of not getting money you loaned back and that will most certainly ruin a friendship/relationship. OR, if you do decide to loan money be sure to get the payback agreement in writing. And, in the case of multiple loans, don’t loan more money before you get the previous loaned amount back. Thank goodness the text message served as a really good written loan agreement. Kudos to the defendant for at least having that important piece of evidence! Peace…
You can use a debit card at not well known rental car companies but they put a hold on your card for the amount and a deposit. I’m glad she had all her paperwork in order but a sweatsuit in court is a no.
But did you catch it...he lied! He said the car rental place wouldn't let him use his debit card but he said his debit card got ate at the ATM the second day so he didn't have one anyway 🤦
She needs to spend time with herself. She kept saying casual. When I think casual I think I'll spot you some cash for lunch. That wasn't casual money imo 🤔
My parents taught me early that men take care of women,not the other way around. That said ,I do take care of myself, and I've never depended on a man for anything. A man asking a woman for money,especially early in the relationship,is a RED flag,PERIOD!
Lady bye, he's using all the women he mess with, Fucking them too & long as their paying, I wouldn't fortify a casual date & have sex too knowing he's sleeping around, she's lucky but very stupid not Dumb
The moment he did not have a credit card. My antennas went up. Call me picky but to me that means you can't one which means you have bad credit which means you don't manage your money well.
Any time I have ever borrowed money from folks I ALWAYS paid it back. I have friends I can ask for 5k from right now and they would hand it right over without even asking me what I need it for. I hate when people take advantage of others like this because it destroys the relationship for people you can actually trust.
I am like that too but don't like to borrow. I have bought a house and am selling another house my brother and I own. I got just over $100 000 less for my house than the one i am buying, so need to borrow till I sell the other house. I am borrowing from my brother, I have had an open discussion with him, I have included his daughters, as I also have power of attorney for him as he is quadriplegic. So I wanted it to be all open and above board but I am still really uncomfortable. I just found out it is less I have to borrow and the other house going on the market soon but still not comfortable with it.
Y'all can yes queen each other if you want to. She ain't check ish😂. She got played. And that's on purr She tried to pretty it up U can put a bow on 💩 but it's still 💩😂
Both of them make poor choices and are not able to self reflect and self correct. Neither are victims. She branded herself, " I win you lose," and continues to put herself in positions to lose. Self- love = boundaries.
She has bad judgement on the smallest things. What business LADY tats herself like that.... she didn't even have good judgement as to wear a nice top and black pants or skirt, to look business like in court....sad!
What a loser this dude is. I know that there have probably always been men around who were willing to *“live off of”,* or frequently take money from women, but coming from the examples of men that I grew up around, starting first with my dad, that kind of behavior just seems so foreign to me. I know men who would 1000% choose to go *without* something than to take money from a woman. They would actually consider it shameful. Times sure are changing. 😒
The Defendant planned for the Plaintiff to pick up his travel expenses. I am dropping you off at the first point turns to paying your first bill. She should have seen it coming 😂😂😂
Broke bandit! Why should she have to bring you to court to pay as a "man". That's the same they do with their children; child support is ordered by the courts. Dammmm shame.
Even with casual dating, there is a certain level of mutual respect. I think that’s the point the plaintiff was trying to make. She didn’t have an issue with him dating other people but lying about it was problematic.
If you are fresh out of a crappy relationship, practise having a loving relationship with yourself before you attract another crappy relationship.... the universe is teaching us....if we listen.....
People can't even tell what is a debit card vs a credit card anymore.. they all look completely different there's so many companies you can get them through unless you studied all credit cards you're not going to know which one's a debit and which one's the credit
I have a debit card & when I want the money taken out right then, I will hit ‘debit’ on the pin pad. And if I don’t & want it taken out later that day or the next, I hit ‘credit’ on the pin pad.
Maybe it's just my demeanor, but I have NEVER had a man ask me for money or ask me to pay half for a date. None of my boyfriends have stuck out their hand to me. Even though they know I make a good living as a nurse, not one has ever asked me for money. Not one dime. But women all around me are coming out of pocket for men. How weird. 🤔
Same here! Honestly, I know that would be a big turn off for me if a man did that. I’m sure there are special circumstances, but the one presented in this case, is not one!
Lord!!!! When will women learn!!!! No she even said she was hoping that they would be the real deal. She just needs to stop trying to save her feelings. You wanted a relationship with this man.
when your self esteem is damaged, you don't think you deserve better; he's STUPID & TRIFLING!; she's trying to justify her bad decisions! from a horrible marriage to "hooking" up with a (other?) horrible man! WOW!
The whole idea she was explaining is dumb. You can’t control what someone else does so to put all your faith into another person’s word when your health is involved is bad decision making and doesn’t make sense 💁🏽♀️.
Like judge said, “you’re not making any sense.” If the guy causally dates you at 11am and casually dates someone at 5pm, it shouldn’t bother you if that’s the relationship you have. She wanted so many hours in between like it was going to make a difference 🤣
Yeah she was in major denial and sounded like she just didn't want to admit that she really wanted to be exclusive but knew their relationship could never be that.
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Dear women.... especially our beautiful Black women, there is NEVER a reason to give a man you are dating your hard earned money. You can't pay for LOVE!! Get a man who can stand on his own.
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Yes great advice.
Finally this from a man!
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That goes both ways
It’s incredible that phones always go missing, broken, misplaced when they gotta bring incriminating evidence to court 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍✨RIGHT, QUEEN U & ME ON THE SAMEE PAGE WIT THAT I ALWAYS B SAYN THAT!!
Right 👍
Don't forget hacked 😆
got to give him brownie points for originality of texting via son's phone. but then when son's phone is hacked, that eliminates all doubt he is lying.
Her standards were low. Dang.
What kind of man is this?!
Putting his sons in a dangerous situation because he can’t plan or figure anything out for them. And she oughta be ashamed for giving a grown man $1300 knowing she has children of her own to take care of. Grow up!
You are so correct 💯 👍 👍 👍 The plethora of irresponsible adults on court shows, that are also raising children?? 😭😭😭😭
He’s not a Man. He’s a boy. He’s such a Scammer too.
A stupid con man who cannot keep even a penny in the bank.
😂 you would be surprised the people who come up with stupid ways to travel and I tell them yeah that’s not how it works
The majority of black men no matter how decent they speak, just stay dependent on women and this is majorly due to not having fathers in their homes to raise them into real men. The worst part is the cycle continues today where they still keep abandoning their children so they'll always be this way.
The defendant has one story of woe after another. He's either the unluckiest man alive or truly pathetic
Yes, the defendant could have rented a car with a debit card. Major rental car companies-including Avis, Budget, Enterprise and Hertz-all permit rentals on a debit card.
@@davemathews7890 That's a lie. Do you live in Ohio or something? In real world U need a Major credit card
For real. Reminds me of my ex-husband he always had a story
@@bresams2917 No. your wrong. You can use a debit card, you just need to put down a large deposit. The defendant is a liar and a user.
For real 💯💯💯💯
I like how the Judge tried to get her to understand that it doesn’t matter if he sleeps with other people the same day or the same month. The risk is the same. They were in an open relationship and at the minimum, multiple partners is expected. The plaintiff settled for saying he just wasn’t honest about it… but she would not have been so hurt if she just expected it anyway. Everyone isn’t built for casual sexual relationships. I know I’m not.
Thank you for wording it so perfectly. I gave it a try,, but its not for me. I'd rather be alone...( he never asked for money..he expected me to be impressed by his.)
We gals need to UP our self respect ...
If you meet a guy, and he starts dry begging....🚩🚩🚩🚩....RUN!!!
Lol the risk is definitely not the same
@@heidicrimmings9615 Agreed. Don't give and give to a guy you are "casually" dating.
@@TheMilanW how is it not? Multiple partners come with the same risk no matter the time between. You disagree? STIs expire after a week or so?
@@heidicrimmings9615 yes I agree!!!
That abusive relationship destroyed all love she must have had for herself, if she is now falling for broke & irresponsible men like him, online dating must be the absolute worst, SMH 💯
Most of them are attracted to the (same energy) they complain about
Had nothing to do with her past abuse. He carried himself like he was responsible in the beginning and she eventually learned his actions didn't follow what he was saying. Hopefully she learned a lesson.
Boo hoo hoo. I'm so sick of women staying in bad relationships for years, then whining about the abuse they suffered. Have a little self respect, girls. Don't rush into a bad situation because you think any relationship is better than none. Don't stay after it becomes clear that the guy is abusive.
First she said she thought they was going to be in something...then it's it was a loan
Buyer beware. I don't feel sorry for her.
I run the moment a man ask me for money! I once met a man that asked me for gas money on a date.... as he pulled up the gas station, my uber ride was right on time!
Online dating is a cesspool. It’s always guys like him, homeless dudes looking for a place to sleep, guys who are looking for a 3rd gf to share with their actual partner, men lying about being married with children, men on there with newborns. It’s actually too much. I’m not coming out my pocket for nothing
Must people who go online lie about their relationship status and are already in a long-term relationship
Very smart….👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Me either and I’m not interested in online dating. Even his friend knew this guy was a bum.
And always women looking for help not love 😂
Not always. I meet my wife online. We meet on POF. And we have been together 10 years.
U can never be more accurate I swear 😊
The plaintiff can flower it up all she wants.. The bottom line is she was too desperate & got used!
It was annoying to watch. I felt she was trying to play on our intelligence. Girl just admit you got dickmatized and lost your head but you got it back now you want your money.
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Agree
She will never see that money.
@@hi-xf7cj nope lol damn sure want
Most women who say they're fine with open relationships are lying to themselves; they accept those terms because they know the guy won't date them exclusively and convince themselves to stay by saying they can date other people too. But, they'll get jealous, expect boyfriend treatments and resent the men for seeing other women. Also, she paid for his trip. Men like him love open relationships because they get money from all the women they date.
Bingo😂she played herself
I agree.
This is true
I understand the judge. She is trying to get the woman to see she is being played.
She's so accustomed to covering bad things up that she has several come back lines already in her head. it's the 18 years of being in a horrible marriage her cover ups have clouded herself.... sad!
Time and time again, women give men money within a short time after meeting them. Then, when things don't work out, the women want to sue because they've realized they've been used and he's not going to repay.
Same goes for men given women money too
@@delonjuan absolutely
I don't date men who need to borrow money. I like financially comfortable sweet faithful men. That's my list.
@@tamaramtl2024 I don’t either
Good men usually give money as gifts even with women they are casual with and don't expect repayment. Women shouldn't do that at all. The energy is flipped.
A part of me wonders of she regretted wearing a mauve tracksuit to court when she saw the defendant walk in in a suit.
Probably
I mean she should have regretted that tracksuit coming to court no matter what who taught these people like who really thinks that's an appropriate outfit to wear for court
I’m so Dead. 😂. He wore a suit but he’s definitely not a Gentleman in it. He’s a little boy playing games with people. 😂
@@alyssahamlett I agree! Especially exposing a tattoo that states “ I win you lose “. Now I have to watch this to the end to see if she really wins🤭😂.
@@alyssahamlett k
Professional notary who deals with legal issues wears sweat pants to court and gives money to 40-something man who can't manage his own life. Judge was right telling her she needs to do better for herself.
Yeah... the gym clothes 🤦🏾♀️
Her outfit was cute for court
@@JJTHEBEAST12382 her outfit was cute for court
@@jamillaharris9114hoping you are being sarcastic 🙏🏼
So judgy.... you know most people have to fly in to be on the show. Ever think maybe the airline lost her bag and that's all she had?
the defendant has a sincere soothing demeanor and voice, but you can't trust him as far as you can throw him
When buying someone's love backfires....
Exactly loneliness an desperation kicks in smh
She was trying to be a supportive GF. Because black men say BW don't support or let men lead. But as we see. ALL THAT talk is BS💩
Women!!!! STOP buying these sorry men’s love and affection! They aren’t worth it! They’re users, abusers, liars, cheaters and predators looking vulnerable, desperate women!!! Just STOP!
Stop the cap she gotta pay like she weight, she single for a reason especially with that dangerous tattoo. Men stop dealing with women who think & act like children! She knew she was an online jump off paying hoping for more not gonna happen big Betty
The judge is trying to show her that she deserves more. She's been broken to the point that she's just accepting anything for "friendship". I hope she heals.
She wanted causal so she needs to accept everything that comes with. He deserves better too. He can get a younger and not overweight version
Naw she really don't because she hasn't taken the time to heal.
That's a common thing people say to make others feel better about themselves but it's not true. Until you do the work you get exactly what you deserve. I wish her well
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Maybe he likes her weight and maturity and that she has earning power.
I'm so surprised that Doug and his messy self didn't reference her tattoo...it literally says "I win, you lose" lol
I couldn't figure out what that tattoo said!! Thank you lol
😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Doug wasn’t on savage mode today lol
Lmfao He be Messy AF
Lol you’re not lying because he is known for being messy LMAO
THANK YOU JUDGE! Calling her out on her text and behavior with a man who is “seeing” woman the same day as her is really what she needed. Prayers that this woman finds a great man to reciprocate her love. Also no one is this unlucky it’s called inadequate planning aka being a hot mess 😂
The judge was absolutely correct and she still didn't get it. She'll walk right out of this courtroom and do this all over again. She doesn't need to be spending time with anyone but herself. Being lonely and desperate is like a perfume...men can smell it a mile away. This woman hasn't learned anything...with her Beautiful self...
Yeah but it’s just not the setting to give a 30 second sell on “self love” coming from an 18 year abusive relationship anything looks better and JM is not the person to guide her through that
@@justhereyeah1112 Facebook isn't the setting to guide her thru it either...she's not looking for guidance she's looking to get laid anyway by any means necessary...
@@mrshappilymarried1 okay, she’s been abused for 18 years. You act like her going on FB for a man is unusual behavior for someone who’s dealt with trauma it’s called being realistic and what’s not realistic is for JM to get through to her in that setting as I said!
@@justhereyeah1112 mam idgf what you said..anyone coming out of an 18 yr relationship should have 'enter a new relationship ' AFTER the last item on their f'n bucket list Dummie. You're just as delusional as she is with yall hard up for D asses. Find yourself, seek therapy and leave men alone for awhile..desperate asses
She probably loaned him another $500 in the hallway after this case lol.
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😂😂😂
🛑 stop.......got me Rollin
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🤦😂😂😂😂exactly!
Douglas' face when she's explaining the casual dating thing was like " Ok, girl, whatever...." lol
😂😂😂😂
Her chest tattoo is throwing me off lol
Do you know what her tattoo says? I was only able to read "will you" ..
I win you lose
@@sheilae.9670 I think it says “I win you lose”
Only clicked the thumbnail, to see if she would win 🏆
@Beautifulll B lol 😂 I was all off. Thank you! ❤️
When does casually dating means casually sleeping around? She needs to gain some self respect and self love.
But that's what the generation under 40 does it's called casual sex with whoever you want at that time
Yeah , she was a hot mess for that.
If someone can not rent their own car at their big ole age..come on red flag....
The defendant is a user and a bum. Starting over can be hard but red flags are red flags… you can’t ignore them. And she did.
“Really good friendship” but you know he’s a liar, ma’am. Glad you took him to court though.
That part. Lol
This is why men keep trying all women with this crap !
How convenient that his credit card was eaten by the machine, and she was able to help out, then he didn't have flight tickets back, so she helped him out, then his friend didn't answer the door, when he knew he was staying with him, and neither the wife nor the children heard him ringing the doorbell. His phoned crashed, his son's phone was hacked, all so convenient...
I hope she find some self worth cause that was sad to watch.
Yes indeed. She was desperate and he’s a little boy.
They are both embarrassing and a complete waste of time. Am embarrased for both of them.
Again, why can’t men be honest about their relationship status? Most women will respect a honest man that openly says I am seeing other women.
Respect and move on!!
Truly, it's because they don't have to be. There is always a woman desperate enough...always.
And they will still be there , girl he's so honest 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He was honest she knew he was dating she just has No Self Worth😢
Because they can't use you with the truth
Ms. Plaintiff, you are a wonderful, beautiful, intelligent lady, who lost her way a bit. Adjust your crown. Move forward with confidence.
Awwe, that was nice ❤
That was A Absolutely Beautiful Comment Beautiful Woman ❤
The defendant has a loose relationship with the truth. She should have let him figure out his travel woes most of which he probably made up. 💀
I think he went to see another woman.
@@xtraxtra2359 quite possible!
This man is unprepared and a bit of a user it seems. He probably should have delayed this trip until he could afford it completely. I get it people want to go on a trip but he didn’t even have a credit card he could put it on.
Also the judge called the plaintiff out and gave her good advice. The plaintiff was contradicting herself no judgment everyone does this sometimes
I bet he went to see another woman. How did a house FULL of people NOT one hear him at the door.
J:Why did you break up?
P: He has a hard time with honesty
Me: It shows, it shows😂
This lady is in denial.
The plaintiff is so smart that she is dumb . She wasn’t making much sense in what she was saying in terms of him being with a woman or not etc etc . However as also a mobile notary on top of law student , etc . I would love to pick her brain as far as her notary business if she has that much money to just give away 😂
Yeah she sounded like she was in denial about her true expectations from their "relationship". Trying to act cool with being friends with benefits while desperately trying to maintain her dignity by not admitting the fact that she really wanted to be exclusive smh. She still has some growing up to do.
Sir you said the machine ate your card NOT your bank account. 😂 He never had the money for the trip.
He has an answer for everything 😂
If a significant other asks you for money 💰 then walk away and block them because they are a User.
Lesson Learned: It’s okay to say NO to loaning money, especially to someone you’ve known a short time. Once you’ve established a trustworthy friendship/relationship then you only give money if you have it to spare. Otherwise, you take the risk of not getting money you loaned back and that will most certainly ruin a friendship/relationship. OR, if you do decide to loan money be sure to get the payback agreement in writing. And, in the case of multiple loans, don’t loan more money before you get the previous loaned amount back. Thank goodness the text message served as a really good written loan agreement. Kudos to the defendant for at least having that important piece of evidence! Peace…
You can use a debit card at not well known rental car companies but they put a hold on your card for the amount and a deposit.
I’m glad she had all her paperwork in order but a sweatsuit in court is a no.
But did you catch it...he lied! He said the car rental place wouldn't let him use his debit card but he said his debit card got ate at the ATM the second day so he didn't have one anyway 🤦
Poor plaintiff 😢 she’s been hurt bad but ain’t no excuse for tricking on that fully grown man.
The plaintiff would not humble herself and admit she was not valuing herself when the judge was tryna give her some advice lol
Smh she was doing THEE MOST for someone she was “casually” dating
Have some self respect! Completely ridiculous and embarrassing.
I thought as you become older you become wiser. Why are (older) women still falling for these shenanigans 😣
They are desperate... that's why. I will never understand these American women.🤷🏾
She needs to spend time with herself. She kept saying casual. When I think casual I think I'll spot you some cash for lunch. That wasn't casual money imo 🤔
He has more excuse than someone going to jail.
My parents taught me early that men take care of women,not the other way around. That said ,I do take care of myself, and I've never depended on a man for anything.
A man asking a woman for money,especially early in the relationship,is a RED flag,PERIOD!
People need to take time to know each other, especially when you are parents 🙄
If he had the money but on his debit and they wouldn't take it why didn't he just give her the cash in replacement? And she put it on her card
He's a Bumb
Lady bye, he's using all the women he mess with, Fucking them too & long as their paying, I wouldn't fortify a casual date & have sex too knowing he's sleeping around, she's lucky but very stupid not Dumb
Now she can go back to jogging on her regular route!
This mans whole life must be cursed because literally EVERYTHING in his life crashes so he says…
Because he's a Bumb
He's lying😹😹😹😹
There’s so much dust flying all around this defendant 🚮🗑️. Ladies, we gotta do better and not allow just anything in our space
Why did this woman think it was appropriate to display her collar tattoo in court? There’s a time and place for everything but not here or now 😒
And in a sweat suit, so strangle. Know your audience!
Her tat wouldn't be showing if she wasn't dressed like she's on her way to the gym.
Or a purple track suit? 😂
@@MichellePieonMauve 😅
@@clwilson7318 my bad mauve 😂
The moment he did not have a credit card. My antennas went up. Call me picky but to me that means you can't one which means you have bad credit which means you don't manage your money well.
I thought it was just me. I judge acording to some of those factors.
Any time I have ever borrowed money from folks I ALWAYS paid it back. I have friends I can ask for 5k from right now and they would hand it right over without even asking me what I need it for. I hate when people take advantage of others like this because it destroys the relationship for people you can actually trust.
I am like that too but don't like to borrow. I have bought a house and am selling another house my brother and I own. I got just over $100 000 less for my house than the one i am buying, so need to borrow till I sell the other house. I am borrowing from my brother, I have had an open discussion with him, I have included his daughters, as I also have power of attorney for him as he is quadriplegic. So I wanted it to be all open and above board but I am still really uncomfortable. I just found out it is less I have to borrow and the other house going on the market soon but still not comfortable with it.
He invited her so she would pay for whatever he couldn’t afford smh.
The defendant is sorry af
What a trifling bum. Got all that money from her and didn’t want to pay back. No comment on why she even gave it to him in the first place.
Definitely a USER!! 😆 🤣
I like how she checked the Judge! She definitely knows HER expectations. To each their own.
I caught that too
It was still sloppy
She only said that so she wouldn't look so so stupid.... It was a pure cover up on her part.
I see what the judge meant but I kinda understand what the plaintiff meant also…
Y'all can yes queen each other if you want to. She ain't check ish😂.
She got played.
And that's on purr
She tried to pretty it up
U can put a bow on 💩 but it's still 💩😂
Both of them make poor choices and are not able to self reflect and self correct. Neither are victims. She branded herself, " I win you lose," and continues to put herself in positions to lose. Self- love = boundaries.
She has bad judgement on the smallest things. What business LADY tats herself like that.... she didn't even have good judgement as to wear a nice top and black pants or skirt, to look business like in court....sad!
What a loser this dude is. I know that there have probably always been men around who were willing to *“live off of”,* or frequently take money from women, but coming from the examples of men that I grew up around, starting first with my dad, that kind of behavior just seems so foreign to me. I know men who would 1000% choose to go *without* something than to take money from a woman. They would actually consider it shameful. Times sure are changing. 😒
i real man would NEVER let a woman know he is having money problems. He is a professional leach..
Speak on it. It is so disgusting. They have no shame….trifling.
He's such a liar
Also A burn A Scammer and A terrible father😒😑
She was not making sense.
The Defendant planned for the Plaintiff to pick up his travel expenses. I am dropping you off at the first point turns to paying your first bill. She should have seen it coming 😂😂😂
Has anyone ever noticed how rude, disrespectful and just ruthless Doug is? 😂😂😂😂
You mean he hits the nail on the head, right? No beating around the bush😅😅😅😅
Broke bandit! Why should she have to bring you to court to pay as a "man". That's the same they do with their children; child support is ordered by the courts. Dammmm shame.
Even with casual dating, there is a certain level of mutual respect. I think that’s the point the plaintiff was trying to make. She didn’t have an issue with him dating other people but lying about it was problematic.
This is correct. There are plenty of ethical ppl who date several ppl at once and don't have any problems.
If you are fresh out of a crappy relationship, practise having a loving relationship with yourself before you attract another crappy relationship.... the universe is teaching us....if we listen.....
I blame her for falling for his lies 😂😂😂
You can tell after about 3 minutes of him talking that he is a FAST TALKER and shady..
it’s the “i win you lose” tattoo for me 😂
Excuses, excuses, EXCUSES!!!!!!!!! SMH!!!!!!!!!
RED FLAG 🚩
Never give a man your money that you barely know!!
He gives black man a BAD NAME...LADIES DONT SETTLE.... RUN ..BE HAPPY WITH GOD AND YOUR CHILDREN....❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Lady! You were the bank and a booty call to this sorry man!
C’mon Judge some rental companies do take debit cards 😂
People can't even tell what is a debit card vs a credit card anymore.. they all look completely different there's so many companies you can get them through unless you studied all credit cards you're not going to know which one's a debit and which one's the credit
Some won't do debit card unless ure renting from a rental company in the same state as your driver's license.
I have a debit card & when I want the money taken out right then, I will hit ‘debit’ on the pin pad. And if I don’t & want it taken out later that day or the next, I hit ‘credit’ on the pin pad.
She was acting like his planning to use a debit card was absurd 😂
But I think it’s usually with a deposit though, right?
Doug cracks me up, face doesn’t move
Beware and aware of online dating sites.
Maybe it's just my demeanor, but I have NEVER had a man ask me for money or ask me to pay half for a date. None of my boyfriends have stuck out their hand to me. Even though they know I make a good living as a nurse, not one has ever asked me for money. Not one dime. But women all around me are coming out of pocket for men. How weird. 🤔
This wasn’t a date. It was a trip.
keyword "man"
Same here! Honestly, I know that would be a big turn off for me if a man did that. I’m sure there are special circumstances, but the one presented in this case, is not one!
@@susiesolangesimpson2828 Doesn't matter. I have never had a man ask me for money for anything. A date, a trip, a loan, nothing. That was my point.
@@Childfree334 , maybe it's that masculine lesbian vibe you give off 🤷♂️
He knew she was vulnerable and took advantage of that. You have to want better for yourself. She's a beautiful women and deserves better.
Sir.. come on now,,she had to come to court to be paid.. smh a pos
This dude enunciates the crap outta some words 😂😂😂
Doug with the shade tree as per usual🤣🤣
Lord!!!! When will women learn!!!! No she even said she was hoping that they would be the real deal. She just needs to stop trying to save her feelings. You wanted a relationship with this man.
EXACTLY 💯
The plaintiff came in like she just finish jogging and remembered she had court. BTW she looks like a young Bernice King.😊
1 minute into the case and if I hear her say ummm one more time I'm going to go crazy.
His "plans" sound like he just plans to rely on everyone else to carry his weight
when your self esteem is damaged, you don't think you deserve better; he's STUPID & TRIFLING!; she's trying to justify her bad decisions! from a horrible marriage to "hooking" up with a (other?) horrible man! WOW!
Don't give anyone money if you don't have it like that. It should be a big red flag when someone is making big plans, but they don't have the funds.
I like that she had a little push back with the judge. It totally makes sense not to have sex with someone who just fucked someone else 40mins earlier
But 12 hours ago is fine?
The whole idea she was explaining is dumb. You can’t control what someone else does so to put all your faith into another person’s word when your health is involved is bad decision making and doesn’t make sense 💁🏽♀️.
🤣 🤣!
“I win you lose” lmao @ her chest tattoo
One word describes the defendant and I can't use it without violation of community standards.
One of the things that I love about judge Judy is that she makes the litigants look her in the eye
Her tattoo is soooooo embarrassing
She must have had the tattoo to spite her ex😂😂😂😂
Ladies, please pay attention, and DON'T DO THIS!!!
Like judge said, “you’re not making any sense.” If the guy causally dates you at 11am and casually dates someone at 5pm, it shouldn’t bother you if that’s the relationship you have. She wanted so many hours in between like it was going to make a difference 🤣
Yeah she was in major denial and sounded like she just didn't want to admit that she really wanted to be exclusive but knew their relationship could never be that.
I would never give a man any money nor loan a man money