I just recently joined your patron and I am LOVING your podcasts. Can 💯 agree that quality is top notch- for sure worth it! Also agree about how the birthing experience can change the trajectory of having more kids. My first was a dream and I instantly knew I wanted another. Less than 2 years later had our second and that really let me know I was done. I waffled a little after her but never to the point I was willing to make another happen. It made it easy for us to know we were done.
My mom always said she was sad because her babies are gone, those little people don't exist anymore... but now she has 3 best friends. So it's sad, but it's amazing ♥️
Been watching you since closet days. I’m 35, pregnant with a 2 year old and let me tell you! The mom anxiety is real. The overwhelming feelings are real. THANK YOU for reminding me to think of ME, what I want, how I want to do something!!!! Love you!
My daughter is a few months younger than Livi. We thought for sure our girl was it for us. We were so content and happy as a family of 3, and then… I got pregnant right after my 41st birthday! We now have a little 8mo old boy. He was the last thing we ever expected, but man what a crazy, beautiful blessing he’s been for our family.
Thanks so much for being so honest and realistic about having and wanting one child. I know people with 3/4/5 kids but they basically outsource them to nannies/daycare. So much better that you are hands-on. Quality over quantity xx
Been following you since the beginning. This video is so good regarding the deep shit. Thank you for being honest and shedding a light on this. Primarily the question “why aren’t you having more kids?” “When are you having another kid?” I personally think those questions are the rudest most insensitive questions ever to a mother.
After having my son, who is 5 now, we tried to have another pretty quickly because I always dreamt of having my kids be close in age and hoped that would help them always feel they had someone but we struggled with secondary infertility and just couldn’t make it happen and I still have a hard time with that sometimes but my husband always reminds me that I get to have a different type of relationship with my child than my friends with multiple children do and whether it was a decision or just the situation you were given that always makes me feel better. Loved hearing your perspective! Been here since the closet but not sure I have ever commented so long time coming haha 💛💛
I really respect your views on having more children. My husband and I were married 8 years before having our daughter who is now 12. We did not have any help. It was hard. I felt pressure to have more kids but we made the decision to only have one. We feel like our family is complete. It is so much easier and more fun as they get older. We get to travel with her and she gets to have experiences that she might not have been able to experience if we had more children. You have to make the right choice for your family. Thanks for sharing.
I love that this is a proper Q & A where you answer multiple interesting questions. I really enjoyed it! So many RUclipsrs these days do a Q&A where they answer the same five boring questions every time. I’m a long time subscriber from the closet days. You were the very first person I ever subscribed to ❤️
As a long time viewer, I really appreciate your perspective on having more kids. My husband and I made the decision to have one child at 34, and I struggle because society makes me feel like I should have more but we are happy and content with one. Wanting my first child to have a sibling is a terrible reason to have a second!
I would have been happy with just 1 but when my oldest was 2 1/2 he begged for a sibling, we decided to have 1 more, then 3 years later we had a surprise 3rd and then 6 years later had a surprise 4th, I can’t imagine life without my kids but I’m 100% done
I had my first child at 35. I Said even when he was a baby that I did not want another child, people did not belive me. Well, he turns 6 tommorrow and his only " sibling" is our cat 🤣 And people don't ask anymore about the next child!
I think it’s a terrible reason if that’s the only reason. But if a couple truly wants another child then giving your 1st child a sibling is like killing 2 birds with one stone.
I teared up listening to you talk about watching time slip away. My oldest just turned 9 and I will be 40 this year and I 100% agree, it’s all a mind-F. Thank you for the honesty. ❤️
I've been following you since the closet videos and you still crack me up 😆 I love how you've stayed genuine all these years and haven't "followed the crowd" in terms of your business, etc. 💕💕
Oh my gosh, thank you for this! I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you sharing your thoughts on family size. We have one little boy who is the light of our lives and are thinking about sticking to being a family of three. Hearing other moms with similar feelings helps so much 💜
I've watched you for years now and this was by far the best q and a you've done! Tiffany I think your such a solid, genuine person with great common sense and someone who has always been confident with who you are and what you want. I'm glad your life is happy and content and I think your such a wonderful role model for your sweet daughter. I mean this sincerely. Xo Heather.
I genuinely appreciate this video! I’ve been a subscriber forever and it’s your authenticity that really keeps me coming back. Looking forward to diving in to the podcast!
Love the transparency. I totally relate to the no help thing. It’s so tough. I respect people’s decisions to have one kid, none, or 100. Do what works for you. But the help thing… yes. Yes. Yes.
I can completely relate to the mind game and nostalgia when looking back in time. I was so excited to turn 30 because I kept hearing it’s the best time of your life and so far it’s absolutely true. It’s still sometimes emotionally hard to look back and know that the stages of getting married, having babies, and preschoolers around are done. It doesn’t make me any less excited for where we are but I do feel like I mourn that stage whenever I look back
I have one child and I 100% agree with you. You have to do what works for you and your family and not compare yourself to everyone else. Enjoyed your video. Thank you for the interesting and dynamic content all these years:)
My youngest (I have 3 daughters) just turned 8 and when you joked about animal crossing teaching her how to read, Roblox taught my daughter how to read or at least brought her to the next level. She is so far ahead in her class with reading and spelling/writing that her teacher has to split her off during that time to do higher level stuff. I could definitely see the benefit of homeschooling in that aspect that she isn’t held back to what the level the rest of the class is at. Her teacher has her helping other kids read which I think is really helpful as well. It teaches her lots of new lessons by teaching others. But seriously, those video games really do basically force them to read. She can also type really fast because of the communicating they do in those games. So cool!
I love these Q&A videos. It's like having a conversation with a girlfriend, even if it's a one sided conversation lol. I also homeschool my daughter. Best decision I've ever made!
Another long time subby. I remember when your fave foundation was the Mat Velvet + and you used Benefit powderflage under your eyes. 😂I am a parent of 2 daughters, but let me tell you! The decision to have 1 kid, no kids, 10 kids, whatever, is personal and no one's business. We literally owe NO ONE an explanation as to why our family is set up the way it is. Or why we choose to not have kids. Or maybe we desperately want them and it's not happening. 😞You'll notice men are never directed these questions and expectations. It goes to society's expectations of women and we should challenge such stereotypes. I am so happy you are happy! You, Brad and Livvy are such a beautiful family. I also LOVED what you said about putting yourself out there. "Put yourself out there, but not for approval." AMEN
I absolutely loved the honesty about only having one child! It’s ok to have 1, 2,3,4 etc.. babies are not easy and some are harder than others. It’s also ok to have none. It’s your life people so live it the way you want to 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I have been a long time follower and I loved this video! I haven’t commented in awhile but I love how you have evolved but yet you have stayed true to yourself during the years! I need to start following your podcast! Looking gorgeous as always!
Waaaait ….. after I had my baby this august I watched your 6 month update video ( I needed anything I could relate to) and I remember you saying Olivia is so easy and started sleeping though the night at 2 weeks etc…. Was that all not true? I was thinking omg everyone had it figured out but me
I kinda stopped watching RUclips and hadn’t seen you for a while, but I’m so glad I took the time for this video. (You got me with the “more kids” bait 🙈.) I love your mature, grown up attitude because that’s where I’m finding myself too. Social media tempts me to start comparing, but that just ain’t it… especially when life is actually great! I totally understand and respect your point of view on the kids topic. I became a mom at the same time you did and I felt that right away- that everyone’s experience as a parent is so different depending on variables like help, health, temperament, etc. It’s so important for moms (and everyone of course) to stop the judgement because experiences as a parent can be night and day. I felt you when you talked about a demanding baby turning life as you know it upside down and yet not asking for help. I have 3 kids now and there’s a lot of guilt about not having the time and energy I wish I had for each of them like I did when there was only one. No matter what we do there’s always going to be that little tinge of “mom guilt,” you might as well just go with your gut and do the best you can do. I’m going to come back for your next video. Oh, one thing I’ve always looked to you for are the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale Recs! It’s coming up! 😅
Long time subscriber here as well! I think I've been subbed since 2012 and although I'm not interested in makeup or beauty videos anymore, I think I will always tune in to your channel because you are always so real and genuine.
Thank you for talking about your decision to be one and done. My husband and I are currently struggling with this, but mainly with the societal pressure to have a second and my son being the only grandchild is really bringing on the guilt from my family. I so appreciate having role models to look up to with one child- seems silly, but representation is important! If we’re content as a triangle family, why change it? ❤
The scariest thing about being around 40 is that unlike other ages, by the time you are 45, you are NOT going to look young anymore. You just KNOW when someone is 45+ , but people younger than that can pass for any age. It's because your hormones change, your collagen and bone goes, no matter what you do to your skin...That's the scary part. Because agism is a thing.
I’m so happy to hear that you have one child because that’s what you want versus hearing that perhaps you’ve been struggling for years with infertility. This is me at 50 never having any kids 😂 by choice, but it is heartbreaking when someone is trying desperately to conceive and can’t.
Thank you for articulating your thoughts on having more kids. As a longtime viewer I always wondered about why you had one (even though I know it’s really nobody’s business). I have a 2 year old at age 38, married for 6 years before kid, and you perfectly described my delivery/recovery/colicky and cranky baby. She’s great now and things are much easier….but the thought of going through all that again makes me cringe even though it does often compete with thoughts of will I regret not having another. I’m hoping I can make the same peace with having only one the way you did soon because it occupies a lot of time thinking about it. Just wanted to say thanks for sharing because it really resonated with me.
You’ve always been beautiful but you definitely glow different now. You can tell you are in a great place. I’ve enjoyed watching you since the beginning! You’re like an old friend. I trust your recs and I really wish you continued success! You have a beautiful fam and I love your podcast! 🥰
I get you with kids. I had one and done and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s your life and live it the way u like. Bravo to u for doing what YOU want.
To your comments about looking at Olivia’s baby pictures and realizing you can’t get that time back… woooo man, I feel you… I have a 9 month old and already miss the tiny baby I had not too long ago.
I work from home had no help. My 2nd was sooooo much easier then my 1st. also they were 3 years which made it even more easy. But everyone should do whatever makes them happy.
I am currently 27. This year will be 4 years that my husband & I have been married. We kinda don’t want kids. Did you ever feel that way? I know I might change my mind but currently 🙅🏼♀️ no thank you. My life is SO good. My marriage is SO good. I don’t wanna mess that up. 🥴
Long time silent subbie here since your closet days. Always love your take on things. Especially life advice and your thoughts on why you treat people nice when you are at restaurants etc..Just had my first child 3 months ago at 35 and considering about just having one child. It’s tough cause people are already asking about a second child and I grew up with 2 brothers. I actually went back to your pregnancy vlogs as a comfort when I was pregnant. There was a minor health scared during my 20 week scan. Thankfully everything was fine. I am not sure if mentally I can go through all that anxiety again. On top of that I don’t really have anyone else to rely on. Even grandparents who want multiple grandchildren cannot help all the time. I wanna be super hands on and focus on my child.. i don’t know if I can/want to do that with multiple. Even I get to work from home..people around me with multiple kids will brush it off like .. wait till your kid reach all the milestone you would wanna do it all over again.. but it’s not that easy, and like you said.. i don’t want to and there’s nothing wrong with that. My husband and I were together for 10 years before we had our baby.. and the transition is a little hard.. we have 2 senior dogs as well.. and dog mom guilt is real when you have a new born!! I really wanted to hear your take on having one child/ multiple children.. even thought about sending u a message this morning since this decision is really bugging me..And when I saw this video’s title I was like OMG!!! Thank you so much for sharing! U made me feel so much better and less confuse!! :)
I really loved your honesty throughout this especially in regards to having another baby. My husband and I are mid 30s and haven’t had kids yet and the decision on when to start is so so hard
Thanks for answering the Colleen question! ❤️ I’m loving her N 9 face oil per your recommendation and I’ve got the hair mask and her hair serum coming in the mail soon! ❤️❤️ Happy Memorial Day!
Would love it if you would do a video on all your businesses and how you got started.....how can we get started if we have business ideas. Like step by step set up legal, taxes,.....etc
Long time Superman, girl you’re preaching to the choir on a hard baby. Emergency c-section abs didn’t sleep more than 1 hour at a time for 4 months. Yeah I’m in the one and done club too. He is now 13 and happy as could be.
Loved this video! It was just like sitting down and chatting with a friend. I’ve been subscribed forever. Since the crockpot applesauce days (remember that one? Lol). And every year, in the fall - it’s tradition in my house thanks to you, I make your crockpot applesauce 🍎. Also, my youngest son just turned 7 this past Dec. I remember you and I were pregnant around the same time. Keep being unapologetically you. It looks beautiful on you! 😘
Would you consider doing a video on selecting materials and tips for remodeling? I’m super picky…did you pick out the countertops, tile, etc. or did you enlist the help of an interior designer?
I started watching you after that article I think it was in the Shape magazine not sure, where they had you pick out your favorite make up products. Ever since then I have watched you and found you down to earth and practical.
I relate so much to what you’ve said about kids. I was a VERY happy only child, so much so that my son is going to remain an only. We are happy being able to dedicate all of our time and attention to just him. But wow, I’ve learned that people are veerrry opinionated about only children 😂 My favorite is when someone says I need to have another one so that my son won’t have to care for his parents on his own when we’re elderly. Dude, I am not having kids to be my future caretakers. Get your affairs in order as if you have no children at all. I know so many people with siblings that still got stuck doing it all on their own. Just like I know more people that aren’t close to their siblings than that are. I think the only reason to have more children is because you want more children 🤷🏼♀️
I didn't know you homeschool! I homeschool my kids as well and LOVE it! You are 100% right though...there is no right or wrong approach to schooling your kids. Public, private, homeschool...do what works for your kids/family! Those that judge homeschooling chances are know nothing about it.
Which episode of the podcast is the homeschooling one? I have missed a few, and I heard you mention it on one of your other episodes and can't find which one it is. Thanks!
Yay! A long video!! I look forward to relaxing on Friday nights with your channel. As an aside, I started using Flonase (CVS generic version) for my allergies, and I think it worked better than my trusted Zyrtec... You might give it a shot.
Been watching you since before I ever had an account and used to search for your handle like more than 10 years ago 😂😂 Where is your mirror from? Gorgeous!🖤
Everyone is different. I'm an only. I always wanted three kids. We had two, and my husband didn't want anymore. So at 38, I was done ... I accepted it. Something always seemed like it was missing though. At 43, I got pregnant and it turned out to be twins. Totally unplanned. I thought our lives were just going to be turned upsidedown! And they were, but in the best way. Having these two little munchkins has just satisfied me in a way I never thought possible!
I'm 41 & don't have kids by choice (dog mom🙋🏻♀️) and people annoy me when they ask why, how and why...like not everyone is trying to get wifed up & have kids. I love kids & I'm the best auntie but having kids is not my vibe 🙃
In 2020 I got a new Switch and sent my 5 year old niece my old one with a copy of Animal Crossing and my sister-in-law swears she learned to read because of it. 😂
I’ve been a viewer ufff for like 10 years. 😅 I totally get you on a second child I’m 35 and have a 2 1/2 baby girl. I got pregnant after being married for 12 years. So I get your life before baby with hubby and then boom life was so different with a child. So I had a bad C-section birth and recovery. She had been a tough baby too I have had no help other than hubby. I worked full time from home I had to quit a year ago, I lost like 20 pounds due to stress. I got down to weighing 100 pounds. Anyways it’s been tough but love being a mom. Now thinking of a second baby gets me really nervous 😬. But we decided on trying next year if it happens good if not that’s it. But hey it’s that’s are decisions and our life so who cares what others think. 🤷🏻♀️
Asymmetrical short dark bob days subbie here! ❤ You've always had a gift of communication whether telling stories, applying makeup or sharing a haul. Keep up the good work! Happy Memorial Day!
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I just recently joined your patron and I am LOVING your podcasts. Can 💯 agree that quality is top notch- for sure worth it! Also agree about how the birthing experience can change the trajectory of having more kids. My first was a dream and I instantly knew I wanted another. Less than 2 years later had our second and that really let me know I was done. I waffled a little after her but never to the point I was willing to make another happen. It made it easy for us to know we were done.
Thank you so much Terra!! ❤️❤️
My mom always said she was sad because her babies are gone, those little people don't exist anymore... but now she has 3 best friends. So it's sad, but it's amazing ♥️
Been watching you since closet days. I’m 35, pregnant with a 2 year old and let me tell you! The mom anxiety is real. The overwhelming feelings are real. THANK YOU for reminding me to think of ME, what I want, how I want to do something!!!! Love you!
My daughter is a few months younger than Livi. We thought for sure our girl was it for us. We were so content and happy as a family of 3, and then… I got pregnant right after my 41st birthday! We now have a little 8mo old boy. He was the last thing we ever expected, but man what a crazy, beautiful blessing he’s been for our family.
Thanks so much for being so honest and realistic about having and wanting one child. I know people with 3/4/5 kids but they basically outsource them to nannies/daycare. So much better that you are hands-on. Quality over quantity xx
Been following you since the beginning. This video is so good regarding the deep shit. Thank you for being honest and shedding a light on this. Primarily the question “why aren’t you having more kids?” “When are you having another kid?” I personally think those questions are the rudest most insensitive questions ever to a mother.
After having my son, who is 5 now, we tried to have another pretty quickly because I always dreamt of having my kids be close in age and hoped that would help them always feel they had someone but we struggled with secondary infertility and just couldn’t make it happen and I still have a hard time with that sometimes but my husband always reminds me that I get to have a different type of relationship with my child than my friends with multiple children do and whether it was a decision or just the situation you were given that always makes me feel better. Loved hearing your perspective! Been here since the closet but not sure I have ever commented so long time coming haha 💛💛
I really respect your views on having more children. My husband and I were married 8 years before having our daughter who is now 12. We did not have any help. It was hard. I felt pressure to have more kids but we made the decision to only have one. We feel like our family is complete. It is so much easier and more fun as they get older. We get to travel with her and she gets to have experiences that she might not have been able to experience if we had more children. You have to make the right choice for your family. Thanks for sharing.
I love that this is a proper Q & A where you answer multiple interesting questions. I really enjoyed it! So many RUclipsrs these days do a Q&A where they answer the same five boring questions every time.
I’m a long time subscriber from the closet days. You were the very first person I ever subscribed to ❤️
As a long time viewer, I really appreciate your perspective on having more kids. My husband and I made the decision to have one child at 34, and I struggle because society makes me feel like I should have more but we are happy and content with one. Wanting my first child to have a sibling is a terrible reason to have a second!
Same!
I would have been happy with just 1 but when my oldest was 2 1/2 he begged for a sibling, we decided to have 1 more, then 3 years later we had a surprise 3rd and then 6 years later had a surprise 4th, I can’t imagine life without my kids but I’m 100% done
Thank you SO much for your thoughts on this. We also have one and are very happy. Ifs nice to see other families who look like ours!
I had my first child at 35. I Said even when he was a baby that I did not want another child, people did not belive me. Well, he turns 6 tommorrow and his only " sibling" is our cat 🤣 And people don't ask anymore about the next child!
I think it’s a terrible reason if that’s the only reason. But if a couple truly wants another child then giving your 1st child a sibling is like killing 2 birds with one stone.
I teared up listening to you talk about watching time slip away. My oldest just turned 9 and I will be 40 this year and I 100% agree, it’s all a mind-F. Thank you for the honesty. ❤️
I've been following you since the closet videos and you still crack me up 😆 I love how you've stayed genuine all these years and haven't "followed the crowd" in terms of your business, etc. 💕💕
Oh my gosh, thank you for this! I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you sharing your thoughts on family size. We have one little boy who is the light of our lives and are thinking about sticking to being a family of three. Hearing other moms with similar feelings helps so much 💜
I've watched you for years now and this was by far the best q and a you've done! Tiffany I think your such a solid, genuine person with great common sense and someone who has always been confident with who you are and what you want. I'm glad your life is happy and content and I think your such a wonderful role model for your sweet daughter. I mean this sincerely.
Xo Heather.
I genuinely appreciate this video! I’ve been a subscriber forever and it’s your authenticity that really keeps me coming back. Looking forward to diving in to the podcast!
Thank you so much!!
Love the transparency. I totally relate to the no help thing. It’s so tough. I respect people’s decisions to have one kid, none, or 100. Do what works for you. But the help thing… yes. Yes. Yes.
I can completely relate to the mind game and nostalgia when looking back in time. I was so excited to turn 30 because I kept hearing it’s the best time of your life and so far it’s absolutely true. It’s still sometimes emotionally hard to look back and know that the stages of getting married, having babies, and preschoolers around are done. It doesn’t make me any less excited for where we are but I do feel like I mourn that stage whenever I look back
Love your videos! I've been a subscriber since the closet days!
aw thank you so much! xo
Same here! The smokey eyes makeup always be my fav RUclips video to comeback and learn..😁
me too!! first ever video I watched was how to straighten your hair with the ghd iron !
Me too! And when she came to an event in Pasadena. I lived next to Pasadena then and got so excited and sad I had missed seeing her. lol
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I have one child and I 100% agree with you. You have to do what works for you and your family and not compare yourself to everyone else. Enjoyed your video. Thank you for the interesting and dynamic content all these years:)
My youngest (I have 3 daughters) just turned 8 and when you joked about animal crossing teaching her how to read, Roblox taught my daughter how to read or at least brought her to the next level. She is so far ahead in her class with reading and spelling/writing that her teacher has to split her off during that time to do higher level stuff. I could definitely see the benefit of homeschooling in that aspect that she isn’t held back to what the level the rest of the class is at. Her teacher has her helping other kids read which I think is really helpful as well. It teaches her lots of new lessons by teaching others. But seriously, those video games really do basically force them to read. She can also type really fast because of the communicating they do in those games. So cool!
I love these Q&A videos. It's like having a conversation with a girlfriend, even if it's a one sided conversation lol. I also homeschool my daughter. Best decision I've ever made!
Another long time subby. I remember when your fave foundation was the Mat Velvet + and you used Benefit powderflage under your eyes. 😂I am a parent of 2 daughters, but let me tell you! The decision to have 1 kid, no kids, 10 kids, whatever, is personal and no one's business. We literally owe NO ONE an explanation as to why our family is set up the way it is. Or why we choose to not have kids. Or maybe we desperately want them and it's not happening. 😞You'll notice men are never directed these questions and expectations. It goes to society's expectations of women and we should challenge such stereotypes. I am so happy you are happy! You, Brad and Livvy are such a beautiful family. I also LOVED what you said about putting yourself out there. "Put yourself out there, but not for approval." AMEN
I absolutely loved the honesty about only having one child! It’s ok to have 1, 2,3,4 etc.. babies are not easy and some are harder than others. It’s also ok to have none. It’s your life people so live it the way you want to 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’ve been watching you for such a long time and this video is by far my absolute favorite. I loveeeed the honesty.
I so agree! We must make the best decision for our families/selves without judgement.
I have been a long time follower and I loved this video! I haven’t commented in awhile but I love how you have evolved but yet you have stayed true to yourself during the years! I need to start following your podcast! Looking gorgeous as always!
Thank you so much Danielle xo
Gosh this was so lovely to listen to! Love you and your family, you're just always a breath of fresh air! x
Waaaait ….. after I had my baby this august I watched your 6 month update video ( I needed anything I could relate to) and I remember you saying Olivia is so easy and started sleeping though the night at 2 weeks etc…. Was that all not true? I was thinking omg everyone had it figured out but me
I kinda stopped watching RUclips and hadn’t seen you for a while, but I’m so glad I took the time for this video. (You got me with the “more kids” bait 🙈.) I love your mature, grown up attitude because that’s where I’m finding myself too. Social media tempts me to start comparing, but that just ain’t it… especially when life is actually great!
I totally understand and respect your point of view on the kids topic. I became a mom at the same time you did and I felt that right away- that everyone’s experience as a parent is so different depending on variables like help, health, temperament, etc. It’s so important for moms (and everyone of course) to stop the judgement because experiences as a parent can be night and day. I felt you when you talked about a demanding baby turning life as you know it upside down and yet not asking for help. I have 3 kids now and there’s a lot of guilt about not having the time and energy I wish I had for each of them like I did when there was only one. No matter what we do there’s always going to be that little tinge of “mom guilt,” you might as well just go with your gut and do the best you can do.
I’m going to come back for your next video. Oh, one thing I’ve always looked to you for are the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale Recs! It’s coming up! 😅
Long time subscriber here as well! I think I've been subbed since 2012 and although I'm not interested in makeup or beauty videos anymore, I think I will always tune in to your channel because you are always so real and genuine.
I’ve really enjoyed following you since the closet days! Your videos are like hanging out with a dear friend. ♥️
Aw thank you so much. xo So glad youre here!
Hands down the most beautiful I have ever seen you look... and I have been watching for a longgg time.
Thank you so much for sharing the CR sale!! ❤️ You look beautiful as always. Love the trousers too!
Thank you for talking about your decision to be one and done. My husband and I are currently struggling with this, but mainly with the societal pressure to have a second and my son being the only grandchild is really bringing on the guilt from my family. I so appreciate having role models to look up to with one child- seems silly, but representation is important! If we’re content as a triangle family, why change it? ❤
The scariest thing about being around 40 is that unlike other ages, by the time you are 45, you are NOT going to look young anymore. You just KNOW when someone is 45+ , but people younger than that can pass for any age. It's because your hormones change, your collagen and bone goes, no matter what you do to your skin...That's the scary part. Because agism is a thing.
I’m so happy to hear that you have one child because that’s what you want versus hearing that perhaps you’ve been struggling for years with infertility. This is me at 50 never having any kids 😂 by choice, but it is heartbreaking when someone is trying desperately to conceive and can’t.
Thank you for articulating your thoughts on having more kids. As a longtime viewer I always wondered about why you had one (even though I know it’s really nobody’s business). I have a 2 year old at age 38, married for 6 years before kid, and you perfectly described my delivery/recovery/colicky and cranky baby. She’s great now and things are much easier….but the thought of going through all that again makes me cringe even though it does often compete with thoughts of will I regret not having another. I’m hoping I can make the same peace with having only one the way you did soon because it occupies a lot of time thinking about it. Just wanted to say thanks for sharing because it really resonated with me.
You’ve always been beautiful but you definitely glow different now. You can tell you are in a great place. I’ve enjoyed watching you since the beginning! You’re like an old friend. I trust your recs and I really wish you continued success! You have a beautiful fam and I love your podcast! 🥰
Thank you so much!!
I get you with kids. I had one and done and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s your life and live it the way u like. Bravo to u for doing what YOU want.
To your comments about looking at Olivia’s baby pictures and realizing you can’t get that time back… woooo man, I feel you… I have a 9 month old and already miss the tiny baby I had not too long ago.
I work from home had no help. My 2nd was sooooo much easier then my 1st. also they were 3 years which made it even more easy. But everyone should do whatever makes them happy.
You are the girl who taught me how to do my makeup from your closet 🥰 thanks for your words in this video.
You are hilarious! I love your outlook on life. You aren’t having more kids because you just don’t wanna!
I am currently 27. This year will be 4 years that my husband & I have been married. We kinda don’t want kids. Did you ever feel that way? I know I might change my mind but currently 🙅🏼♀️ no thank you. My life is SO good. My marriage is SO good. I don’t wanna mess that up. 🥴
You’re such an inspiration Tiffany
Long time silent subbie here since your closet days. Always love your take on things. Especially life advice and your thoughts on why you treat people nice when you are at restaurants etc..Just had my first child 3 months ago at 35 and considering about just having one child. It’s tough cause people are already asking about a second child and I grew up with 2 brothers. I actually went back to your pregnancy vlogs as a comfort when I was pregnant. There was a minor health scared during my 20 week scan. Thankfully everything was fine. I am not sure if mentally I can go through all that anxiety again. On top of that I don’t really have anyone else to rely on. Even grandparents who want multiple grandchildren cannot help all the time. I wanna be super hands on and focus on my child.. i don’t know if I can/want to do that with multiple. Even I get to work from home..people around me with multiple kids will brush it off like .. wait till your kid reach all the milestone you would wanna do it all over again.. but it’s not that easy, and like you said.. i don’t want to and there’s nothing wrong with that. My husband and I were together for 10 years before we had our baby.. and the transition is a little hard.. we have 2 senior dogs as well.. and dog mom guilt is real when you have a new born!! I really wanted to hear your take on having one child/ multiple children.. even thought about sending u a message this morning since this decision is really bugging me..And when I saw this video’s title I was like OMG!!! Thank you so much for sharing! U made me feel so much better and less confuse!! :)
I really loved your honesty throughout this especially in regards to having another baby. My husband and I are mid 30s and haven’t had kids yet and the decision on when to start is so so hard
Thanks for answering the Colleen question! ❤️ I’m loving her N 9 face oil per your recommendation and I’ve got the hair mask and her hair serum coming in the mail soon! ❤️❤️ Happy Memorial Day!
Would love it if you would do a video on all your businesses and how you got started.....how can we get started if we have business ideas. Like step by step set up legal, taxes,.....etc
I love your honesty, we should stop pressuring women about having kids, everyone makes a decision and we should respect it.
Sending so much love from Canada. You'll never know how much your honestly and insight has helped me over the years.. xo
Thank you so much! That means so much to me xo
Long time Superman, girl you’re preaching to the choir on a hard baby. Emergency c-section abs didn’t sleep more than 1 hour at a time for 4 months. Yeah I’m in the one and done club too. He is now 13 and happy as could be.
Yes! I heard every thing you said. Loved this video. Thank you for this! 💕
I absolutely LOVED this video! You’re great!!!
We are in Cherokee County but only a mile from Milton. Best place ever! Love your channel!
Really, really enjoying this video. You truly are like an old friend to me
Loved this video! It was just like sitting down and chatting with a friend. I’ve been subscribed forever. Since the crockpot applesauce days (remember that one? Lol). And every year, in the fall - it’s tradition in my house thanks to you, I make your crockpot applesauce 🍎. Also, my youngest son just turned 7 this past Dec. I remember you and I were pregnant around the same time. Keep being unapologetically you. It looks beautiful on you! 😘
Really appreciate your openness on that last question!
Would you consider doing a video on selecting materials and tips for remodeling? I’m super picky…did you pick out the countertops, tile, etc. or did you enlist the help of an interior designer?
OG follower and fellow teacher turned homeschooler. Would you mind sharing homeschool ideas, tips, and curriculum? Thank you! 😊
I started watching you after that article I think it was in the Shape magazine not sure, where they had you pick out your favorite make up products. Ever since then I have watched you and found you down to earth and practical.
girl, you are just glowing!!
great video-nice catch up.
I’m an OG closet subscriber! Absolutely loved this video! 😊
You don’t age, Tiffany whatever you are doing keep it up, your skin is beautiful.
I relate so much to what you’ve said about kids. I was a VERY happy only child, so much so that my son is going to remain an only. We are happy being able to dedicate all of our time and attention to just him. But wow, I’ve learned that people are veerrry opinionated about only children 😂
My favorite is when someone says I need to have another one so that my son won’t have to care for his parents on his own when we’re elderly. Dude, I am not having kids to be my future caretakers. Get your affairs in order as if you have no children at all. I know so many people with siblings that still got stuck doing it all on their own. Just like I know more people that aren’t close to their siblings than that are.
I think the only reason to have more children is because you want more children 🤷🏼♀️
I didn't know you homeschool! I homeschool my kids as well and LOVE it! You are 100% right though...there is no right or wrong approach to schooling your kids. Public, private, homeschool...do what works for your kids/family! Those that judge homeschooling chances are know nothing about it.
Which episode of the podcast is the homeschooling one? I have missed a few, and I heard you mention it on one of your other episodes and can't find which one it is. Thanks!
It's from several months ago... I believe called "just say no"
I am a long time Subbie too!! The closet and MAC days❤❤❤
Same!! Also puppy Waylon!
Yay! A long video!! I look forward to relaxing on Friday nights with your channel. As an aside, I started using Flonase (CVS generic version) for my allergies, and I think it worked better than my trusted Zyrtec... You might give it a shot.
I still wear the erborian BB cream based on your recommendation years ago. Nothing beats it!
Been watching you since before I ever had an account and used to search for your handle like more than 10 years ago 😂😂
Where is your mirror from? Gorgeous!🖤
I have been using the erborian bb crème since you first mentioned it years ago. I just repurchased my 4th one I think. I still love it!
I love north of Atlanta as well! Blue Ridge specifically! Hoping to be there later this summer!
As a homeschool mama, I’d love to know what curriculum you’re using!
Everyone is different. I'm an only. I always wanted three kids. We had two, and my husband didn't want anymore. So at 38, I was done ... I accepted it. Something always seemed like it was missing though. At 43, I got pregnant and it turned out to be twins. Totally unplanned. I thought our lives were just going to be turned upsidedown! And they were, but in the best way. Having these two little munchkins has just satisfied me in a way I never thought possible!
I love your earrings! Where did you get them?☺️
I'm 41 & don't have kids by choice (dog mom🙋🏻♀️) and people annoy me when they ask why, how and why...like not everyone is trying to get wifed up & have kids. I love kids & I'm the best auntie but having kids is not my vibe 🙃
I love those earrings! Where did you get them?😊
What’s that crystal thing in the table next to you? Looks cool!
TMI What kind of bra r u wearing? What strapless bra would u recommend?
Thanks so much for doing this! I'm not on patreon but I do love to hear about this. Also what is the oval thing on the table?
Diamond painting is what it’s called. I love to do those. My niece likes to do them too.
I loved your explanation about not wanting another child. I trully understand what you mean. A great video in general.
I love your honesty and love your style! and been a subscriber from the start and I love watching how your family has grown!
Love your hair in this video! Tutorial please ❤️
What’s the name of your podcast ?
Brad and Tiffany at Home... always the first link here in the description box 😘
What is the podcast called?
Beautiful look on you. Love your hoop earrings! Where are they from?
thank you! linked the exact ones for you guys xo
This was great and funny 🧡🧡🧡
Another thing. We need to normalize saying motherhood is hard. It doesn't matter the circumstances motherhood is hard.
What chain and font is your name necklace from bauble bar?
In 2020 I got a new Switch and sent my 5 year old niece my old one with a copy of Animal Crossing and my sister-in-law swears she learned to read because of it. 😂
What was her hand cream i did not see in link ?
I’ve been a viewer ufff for like 10 years. 😅
I totally get you on a second child I’m 35 and have a 2 1/2 baby girl. I got pregnant after being married for 12 years. So I get your life before baby with hubby and then boom life was so different with a child.
So I had a bad C-section birth and recovery. She had been a tough baby too I have had no help other than hubby. I worked full time from home I had to quit a year ago, I lost like 20 pounds due to stress. I got down to weighing 100 pounds. Anyways it’s been tough but love being a mom. Now thinking of a second baby gets me really nervous 😬. But we decided on trying next year if it happens good if not that’s it.
But hey it’s that’s are decisions and our life so who cares what others think. 🤷🏻♀️
haven't seen your videos in soo long
aw! Well welcome back! I've posted every week here for almost 15 years!
I'm 42 I believe lol Since I had my son at 36 I'm content and don't worry about age.
What was her hand cream ??
What was her hand cream ?
Asymmetrical short dark bob days subbie here! ❤ You've always had a gift of communication whether telling stories, applying makeup or sharing a haul. Keep up the good work! Happy Memorial Day!
What homeschool program do you follow??? We want to homeschool as well but I’m not sure where to start.