Hi Felicia, I really enjoy watching your youtube videos about life, some advices about life lessons, and many others. I struggle with autism including a learning disability including cognitive disability where it affects me on daily life stuff like friendships, trying to adjust to understanding tasks efficiently or going at a fast pace, and feeling okay in society. It's hard for me to have friends because I get put down by other people including peers about being different, how I can't meet people's expectations, and many others. Also I deal with getting rejections from girls if I want to have a connection like a friendship or a relationship. Your videos are fun to listen to and it great learning your perspective about life. Matt Winick Ann Arbor, MI USA
@@mattwinick7659 Hi Matt, I’m so glad my videos are helping in some way! Thank you for sharing your struggles, I hope to make content that helps with some of those issues in the near future :)
Wow. It's feels like i had a great conversation with someone i know since a long time 😢. And i know the pain of rejection very well. Now im afraid and i don't want to be in a relationship again to make myself suffering. Also as same as you mentioned I had bad experiences by believing my friends too. They used my kindness and innocence so trickily. When I realised that , I was too late end up making a wrong attitude in others mind towards me. My friends were secretly on a mission to ruin my name and make others hate me .I'll be better forever alone. Great vid gurl ! Keep shining 🌟
Aw, I'm glad this video resonated, and I feel your pain. I know it's hard to believe right now, but the best thing we can do for ourselves is to not let these negative experiences change how we view the world. I went through a phase where all I wanted was to be detached and emotionless, but all that really did was sabotage my potential relationships/friendships. Our strength lies in our ability to keep being kind and loving, despite being tested by low-vibe people :) We can also take some responsibility for our own lives by identifying the red flags we missed, and the boundaries we should've set!
@@LiciaWang The hardest part is that only someone who's been through this can truly understand the situation. This means there won't be anyone to help or accept what you're going through. The self-healing process is really tough, and sometimes you can't fully recover. A scar will always remain in your heart after healing, and during the self-healing process, your soul can feel numb.As a result, I still love the pain because it's the only thing I can feel. You'll also have to deal with trust issues. Now, I look at people differently and am very aware of their every little move. Sometimes it's too much, but I do it to protect myself because I love myself now. And I love that point " our strength lies in our ability to keep being kind and loving " Keep shining Luci ❤️. You da best
@@vip_izzaI totally get what you mean. As much as we need to learn to put our defences down at the right times, it’s also a good thing that painful experiences have taught us we need to protect ourselves. As much as I believe there is so much good in the world, there is also almost an equal amount of bad we need to defend ourselves from. So, we shouldn’t aim to fully heal; instead, our pain acts as a reminder that we need to remember to stand up for ourselves It’s easy to be hard on ourselves for being so defensive, but we need to remember that it’s pain that made us this way in the first place ❤
@@LiciaWang genius ! Best conversation I've ever had. It's so easy to share our opinions when there's someone who is smarter and wise in the other side. It's so good to talk something important like this with someone Lici 🫶. There's so much to learn from you. ☺️
Relationships can be so complex! I have been in situations where I had a big crush on a woman but she was not interested. I was rejected and felt hurt for a very long time. The reverse happened too. Women who were interested in me and I was either not interested or did not understand her clues. Recently someone told me that I tend to push people away… Maybe I have a bit of an avoidant personality type and prefer to stay on my own world. Any thoughts?
@@louissker4447 it’s possible you’re avoidant, though it’s also possible you just haven’t found the right people. I feel like people often think of relationships wrong; it’s not about attracting the most amount of people, it’s just about finding the person compatible with you, which can take quite a long time!
It is good that you found your interests early. You have a high level of emotional intelligence. Such skills will serve you well!
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School/Career - 6:47
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Hi Felicia, I really enjoy watching your youtube videos about life, some advices about life lessons, and many others. I struggle with autism including a learning disability including cognitive disability where it affects me on daily life stuff like friendships, trying to adjust to understanding tasks efficiently or going at a fast pace, and feeling okay in society. It's hard for me to have friends because I get put down by other people including peers about being different, how I can't meet people's expectations, and many others. Also I deal with getting rejections from girls if I want to have a connection like a friendship or a relationship. Your videos are fun to listen to and it great learning your perspective about life. Matt Winick Ann Arbor, MI USA
@@mattwinick7659 Hi Matt, I’m so glad my videos are helping in some way! Thank you for sharing your struggles, I hope to make content that helps with some of those issues in the near future :)
Wow. It's feels like i had a great conversation with someone i know since a long time 😢. And i know the pain of rejection very well. Now im afraid and i don't want to be in a relationship again to make myself suffering. Also as same as you mentioned I had bad experiences by believing my friends too. They used my kindness and innocence so trickily. When I realised that , I was too late end up making a wrong attitude in others mind towards me. My friends were secretly on a mission to ruin my name and make others hate me .I'll be better forever alone.
Great vid gurl ! Keep shining 🌟
Aw, I'm glad this video resonated, and I feel your pain. I know it's hard to believe right now, but the best thing we can do for ourselves is to not let these negative experiences change how we view the world. I went through a phase where all I wanted was to be detached and emotionless, but all that really did was sabotage my potential relationships/friendships. Our strength lies in our ability to keep being kind and loving, despite being tested by low-vibe people :) We can also take some responsibility for our own lives by identifying the red flags we missed, and the boundaries we should've set!
@@LiciaWang The hardest part is that only someone who's been through this can truly understand the situation. This means there won't be anyone to help or accept what you're going through. The self-healing process is really tough, and sometimes you can't fully recover. A scar will always remain in your heart after healing, and during the self-healing process, your soul can feel numb.As a result, I still love the pain because it's the only thing I can feel. You'll also have to deal with trust issues. Now, I look at people differently and am very aware of their every little move. Sometimes it's too much, but I do it to protect myself because I love myself now.
And I love that point " our strength lies in our ability to keep being kind and loving "
Keep shining Luci ❤️. You da best
@@vip_izzaI totally get what you mean. As much as we need to learn to put our defences down at the right times, it’s also a good thing that painful experiences have taught us we need to protect ourselves. As much as I believe there is so much good in the world, there is also almost an equal amount of bad we need to defend ourselves from. So, we shouldn’t aim to fully heal; instead, our pain acts as a reminder that we need to remember to stand up for ourselves
It’s easy to be hard on ourselves for being so defensive, but we need to remember that it’s pain that made us this way in the first place ❤
@@LiciaWang genius ! Best conversation I've ever had. It's so easy to share our opinions when there's someone who is smarter and wise in the other side. It's so good to talk something important like this with someone Lici 🫶. There's so much to learn from you. ☺️
Relationships can be so complex! I have been in situations where I had a big crush on a woman but she was not interested. I was rejected and felt hurt for a very long time. The reverse happened too. Women who were interested in me and I was either not interested or did not understand her clues. Recently someone told me that I tend to push people away… Maybe I have a bit of an avoidant personality type and prefer to stay on my own world. Any thoughts?
@@louissker4447 it’s possible you’re avoidant, though it’s also possible you just haven’t found the right people. I feel like people often think of relationships wrong; it’s not about attracting the most amount of people, it’s just about finding the person compatible with you, which can take quite a long time!