10 simple self-care habits for staying calm & positive at home | stay at home with me

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024

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  • @yahyeet3694
    @yahyeet3694 4 года назад +609

    It's 5:20AM, I've just woken up, and hearing "hello my sweetest potatoes" has me smiling ear to ear

    • @SheraPhillips
      @SheraPhillips 4 года назад +7

      YAH YEET that’s sweet. I’m up late too. Early is more like it.

    • @Shiwangiloves
      @Shiwangiloves 3 года назад +1

      its swedish potatoes

  • @elliethinggoes9952
    @elliethinggoes9952 4 года назад +450

    2:20 reset your environment
    2:55 stick to pre-existing schedule sytems
    3:38 embrace stillness
    4:51 ● observe (allow urself to feel, separate from thoughts―you are not your thoughts, watch your thoughts)
    5:06 ● identify & accept (its ok to feel, keep asking why)
    5:35 ● focus on the present (what're u doing rn, what can u do about the situation rn, what is happening now vs future/past)
    6:10 think long term
    7:00 dig deeper
    9:00 uruoi
    9:36 set boundaries (work/technology/relationships, etc)
    10:20 be mindful of the color of of your thoughts
    10:35 ● be mindful of what you consume (less negatives, more positive& uplifting) "can't hurt me" -david goggins
    11:03 connect w/fellow humansa
    11:35 lean into the positive (gratitude list, meditate, journaling, friends, reading a book, exercise, fresh air) build positive portfolio. Reflect, question, dream, and wonder
    13:09 choose depth of time...
    Itaewon Class (must watch!) "everyone is given the same amount of time, but the depth of that time that he and I spent were completely different."
    How much depth are you willing to commit to?

  • @annakim761
    @annakim761 4 года назад +324

    R.eal
    O.pen-hearted
    W.arm
    E.mpowering
    N.urtures our souls
    A.esthetically pleasing

  • @seoulologyy
    @seoulologyy 4 года назад +52

    This is so what I needed. It’s extremely easy to sleep the day off, watch media until my eyes hurt, and just consume and feel horrible at the end of the day. I definitely need to set my quarantine system so I won’t wast the day away and give depth to my time...love that point! Looking forward for more of your content!

    • @SheraPhillips
      @SheraPhillips 4 года назад +2

      teariffic this was sooooo helpful!!

  • @bri2022
    @bri2022 4 года назад +157

    Hey Rowena, being in quarantine all day has left me really sad and alone and since coming across your channel I can say that I can see a glimpse of light at the end of this tunnel. I watch your videos probably every night😅. I’ve read some of the books you’ve recommended like atomic habits, omg LOVED. Just thank you, it’s gonna take a while before I can say I’m happy but, believe me when I say you’re helping me get there.💖 1% better

    • @hazaleahconde8089
      @hazaleahconde8089 4 года назад +3

      Honey Bri 1% better is still better 💖 *virtual hug 🤗 * to you

    • @bri2022
      @bri2022 4 года назад

      Thank you💖

    • @LifeWithLocc
      @LifeWithLocc 4 года назад

      I’ve been reading atomic habits too!! Thanks to Rowena. 1% is all it takes. Each and every moment.

  • @joshshortt9599
    @joshshortt9599 4 года назад +124

    Who puts you in a good mood?
    Rowena Tsai, of course!

    • @anasaamer4706
      @anasaamer4706 4 года назад +4

      Being called sweetest potatoes, I can see how

  • @hannahabel5951
    @hannahabel5951 4 года назад +28

    I love that you're videoing your "normal" human things and routines. There's something very endearing and adorable about it.

  • @444fawn
    @444fawn 4 года назад +66

    All I’ve been doing on quarantine is watch RUclips and play animal crossing, hopefully I can start to be more productive and healthy :(

    • @louisezhao662
      @louisezhao662 4 года назад +5

      Animal crossing is a fun way to relax too

    • @dominiqueleemans833
      @dominiqueleemans833 4 года назад +10

      Being healthy is the most important thing ^^ Productivity will come and go

    • @SheraPhillips
      @SheraPhillips 4 года назад

      Angel I’m sure you’ll do better. Rest is really important. I just created a video about this too.

    • @larajayd
      @larajayd 4 года назад +6

      That's okay to watch RUclips and play Animal Crossing - don't punish yourself for it. Instead, I recommend scheduling in time to fully enjoy those activities in your day so you can also achieve your productivity goals too. Remember to never shame yourself for your productivity levels... they will waiver, particularly in this hard time. :) Good luck my dear!

    • @ciriqs2430
      @ciriqs2430 4 года назад

      larajay i loved it

  • @thandekajennifer6510
    @thandekajennifer6510 4 года назад +27

    Sticking to my schedules and systems is really keeping me sane, and your video on creating systems was really helpful.

    • @SheraPhillips
      @SheraPhillips 4 года назад +1

      Thandi's Online that video was soooo helpful!! It also inspired my last one.

  • @jeannemorona_
    @jeannemorona_ 4 года назад +23

    This video just came right into my need! I'm having trouble confronting my feelings and thoughts again, and this came like an answer from Heaven 🤧 Thank you Rowena 💖 I hope you're doing great!

  • @iu.maxvlogs
    @iu.maxvlogs 4 года назад +17

    Rowena, I feel your peace through the practice of stillness. Thanks for being you

  • @jordinarylife1323
    @jordinarylife1323 4 года назад +18

    “A certain darkness is needed to see the stars “ that line hit me ✨

    • @remy2590
      @remy2590 3 года назад

      Isn’t that from twilight?

  • @TrulyBeauty
    @TrulyBeauty 3 года назад

    love it ✨✨✨

  • @TaraWagner
    @TaraWagner 4 года назад +6

    Yes! Love this. 🙌 Self-care is my JAM! I coach a lot of clients through developing and prioritizing their self-care routines and the main thing I see is that the more drained, burnt out, anxious, tired, or depressed you are, the less energy you have to do the things that will make you feel better. Just like anything else, it gains momentum and can feel impossible to do what will help us feel better - even if we WANT to. It's important to remember that:
    A) It doesn’t have to be long and involved. It just has to be healthy.
    B) It doesn’t have to look like we’re told self-care looks. It just has to leave us feeling a bit better than when we started.
    C) There are plenty of options.
    We have to focus on doing the things that’ll help you move the needle - even just a little bit.

    • @TaraWagner
      @TaraWagner 4 года назад

      Things are bit crazy right now and it can be so overwhelming to figure out where to start, so I want to add to this by sharing this video I did on 30 self-care ideas that can be done in 60 seconds or less, and/or take hardly any energy at all to get started to help anyone watching that may need support start moving the needle! ❤
      ruclips.net/video/EH6XG82RE5E/видео.html

  • @leejaerim8972
    @leejaerim8972 4 года назад +24

    *ITAEWON CLASS IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN EVER WATCH!!! EVERRRRRR*

  • @HeyDayane
    @HeyDayane 4 года назад +7

    I love that you keep reminding us to embrace stillness. It's something I tend to rarely do but when I do it, it reminds me of how good it is to just take the time to sit in peace.

  • @laurahaviland775
    @laurahaviland775 4 года назад +8

    What kind of meditation are you doing with your hand moment, looks so peaceful.
    What is it called please, you are an inspiration needed.xo

    • @marie-lk8tg
      @marie-lk8tg 4 года назад +3

      hi! i think it's a part of qigong, but you can check the description box, she puts links about her practice :)
      have a nice day!

  • @lydiah4092
    @lydiah4092 4 года назад +5

    It's adorable how she calls Saeroyi "Mr. Chestnut Head." 😂 It's such a good show!
    But seriously, thank you for your wisdom and positivity, Rowena. It's so reassuring and helpful it this hard time. YOU are the sweetest of all sweet potatoes!! 🥰

  • @melolavender9737
    @melolavender9737 4 года назад +6

    Hi Rowena love your videos! I’ve been trying to optimize my time as much as possible while working from home but also trying to find balance and re-creating my habits ❤️ stay safe everyone and stay home if possible

  • @anasaamer4706
    @anasaamer4706 4 года назад +16

    "Self care queen"
    I am not a man, but I am male 😂

    • @SheraPhillips
      @SheraPhillips 4 года назад

      Anas Aamer 😂😂 get it in!

    • @anasaamer4706
      @anasaamer4706 4 года назад

      @@SheraPhillips I donut know what you mean by that 🕺

    • @SheraPhillips
      @SheraPhillips 4 года назад +7

      Anas Aamer I mean self care is good for men too

  • @R.ndinda
    @R.ndinda 4 года назад +4

    I love you Rowena.Am from Kenya and every morning the first thing before I do anything at my work place I check your videos even if it means repeating them for the tenth time.You are my source of inspiration in so many ways and I wanna start a RUclips channel.Inspired by you don't forget.😍😍
    Be safe 😘😘

  • @mamtawankhede1832
    @mamtawankhede1832 4 года назад +7

    Had been keeping low and ro's video was just exactly what I needed right now , I cannot even emphasize enough on how much I needed this, gonna re watch and gonna note down things, thanks ro, you're so beautiful

  • @Tasneemie
    @Tasneemie 4 года назад +16

    What is called when she’s meditating and moving her arms around? 🤗

    • @Soph_79
      @Soph_79 4 года назад +2

      Falun Dafa, check links under the video.

    • @farheenw848
      @farheenw848 4 года назад +3

      I think its a type of meditation called qigong

    • @Tasneemie
      @Tasneemie 4 года назад

      thank you ♥️

  • @graceyu2041
    @graceyu2041 4 года назад +5

    Hiii love ya lots! I got your bracelet in November and my mom really wanted one but it was sold out for a bit, but I just got an email saying they restocked and I got her the set, I’ve been wearing mine everyday since I got it, so getting her the set was a no brainer! Thank you for being such an inspiration, thank you for these amazing videos, and thank you for being you! 사랑해요 ❤️

  • @NenaLavonne
    @NenaLavonne 4 года назад +5

    ♥️♥️♥️ Perfection! Stay safe, everyone! We are in this together 😊

  • @windflowerrainstorm6497
    @windflowerrainstorm6497 4 года назад +1

    Eating grilled cheese with a fork and knife? Is this new?

  • @LifeWithLocc
    @LifeWithLocc 4 года назад

    Your videos are THEE best. Gosh 😫❤️ thank you!!

  • @lillianomandam6927
    @lillianomandam6927 4 года назад +1

    that clock on your laptop and pc is niceeee. what app is that?

  • @lina_byoui
    @lina_byoui 4 года назад +4

    the upload i needed the most 🥺❤️🌸 thank u always

  • @zirie3291
    @zirie3291 4 года назад +1

    can you please do a recipe video of the breakfast you just made?? It looks so good🥺

  • @nehabiswas7511
    @nehabiswas7511 4 года назад +1

    Make a books to read video please!!!!

  • @melodyyippmen1210
    @melodyyippmen1210 4 года назад +1

    Rowena, this made me really look at myself and how I live my life. I want to thank you for this video and you can count another subscriber!

  • @farheenw848
    @farheenw848 4 года назад +2

    Really needed to be called a sweetest potato today 😂❤
    Hope you're doing well in NYC Ro :)

  • @breadncheeseplz8713
    @breadncheeseplz8713 4 года назад +3

    “Did I just become tumblr?”😂🥺💕Text hug

  • @kiaraintheforest
    @kiaraintheforest 4 года назад

    Your videos make me fw uplifted, definitely 💙💫 btw I got super surprised when you sat in a full lotus position at 12:31. It's extremely difficult to do, kudos to you. I practice Vedic meditation and yoga techniques daily, like pranayam and surya namaskar. Watching your video, I feel like trying some Japanese techniques too. Do you have any tips or suggestions? 💙💫🙏

  • @prabhdeepdhaliwal25
    @prabhdeepdhaliwal25 4 года назад +1

    I’ve been thinking recently that since we all have so much time on our hands, we need to be wayy more conscious of what we spend that time on and what we consume and your videos will always be something I spend time on and consume!! I don’t know you personally but every time I’m feeling unmotivated or in a rut, I turn to your videos! So thank you!! Keep it up, Rowena!! ❤️❤️

  • @nooralbar354
    @nooralbar354 4 года назад +1

    omg...Itaewon Class is a master piece! I aspire to be as strong and grounded as Saeroi..he's my role model.

  • @tediaxmonetize
    @tediaxmonetize 4 года назад

    super tips girl self care for me it's to connect with myself, meditating, sleeping early, trying to be productive.

  • @kkotsoon
    @kkotsoon 4 года назад +2

    Hi, Rowena! Love from Korea 💝I've watched as soon as I started my morning routine for today, and it really made my day!! Thank you for the great vid!!
    (btw, just wondered how you are so good at Korean. Did I miss some vid? T.T)

    • @ecualice1
      @ecualice1 4 года назад

      CHER she likes BTS~i saw some fan things in videos

    • @kkotsoon
      @kkotsoon 4 года назад

      @@ecualice1 a-ha! Thanks :)

  • @sruthiramesh4817
    @sruthiramesh4817 4 года назад +1

    Is she korean or Japanese??

  • @beeali1167
    @beeali1167 4 года назад +1

    I love how she cooked her food with chopsticks but then ate with cutlery 😂💕 idk why I noticed that, I guess some habits die hard

  • @susycapluzzi
    @susycapluzzi 4 года назад +1

    love you

  • @magicandriches
    @magicandriches 4 года назад

    @rowena this description is a MASTERCLASS in optimization. Dankeshein!

  • @juniisunshine
    @juniisunshine 4 года назад

    Haiii and good day:) Happy Saturday:)...had stumbled onto your yt(...and I'm so glad I did:) ...had just subscribed:) Have a super great weekend and stay safe and sound out there:)

  • @bunniefae6772
    @bunniefae6772 3 года назад

    I NEED THAT SHARK SET!! does anyone know where it's from???

  • @marsbars785
    @marsbars785 4 года назад +1

    love you so much rowena this video brings me so much happiness, thank you for posting this comes at a time when everyone needs a little tsai wisdom (tsaidom??) 👌👌

  • @ysabelaarce2319
    @ysabelaarce2319 4 года назад +1

    ahhhh Itaewon Class was amazing!! there's a lot of beautiful life lessons one can learn from it. Really is a great kdrama ♡

  • @mmak7155
    @mmak7155 4 года назад

    thank you for existing and making these inspiring videos. (๑˃̵ᴗ˂̵)

  • @teee28
    @teee28 4 года назад +1

    omg I wanna be bffs with you :c
    love from Manila 💕

  • @meow9874
    @meow9874 4 года назад

    How old are you?;) I’m just so happy I found someone as gorgeous and as productive:) I’m pretty much a success driven girl myself and I aspire to be like you ^^ thank youu

  • @sepshuck843
    @sepshuck843 4 года назад

    You're radiating with positive vibes. The way you handle yourself is such an inspiration. You gave me hope.

  • @katitoff2024
    @katitoff2024 3 года назад

    It’s the end of May 2021. This video is still relevant. Thank you, Rowena!

  • @kryskayelucina1213
    @kryskayelucina1213 4 года назад +1

    Glad you watched Itaewon Class! Such an eye opening series 💟

  • @REtron3rD0321
    @REtron3rD0321 4 года назад +1

    I really needed this video. Thank you, Rowena!

  • @IAmCatElf
    @IAmCatElf 4 года назад

    I really love the concept and aesthetic of Uruoi but I can't find any information about whether it is cruelty free which means it probably is not....Which is really too bad...

  • @lilianrose2519
    @lilianrose2519 4 года назад +7

    Hey Rowena! I'm so into your YT channel. It's so inspiring. I just started watching your vids few weeks ago. Now, I decided to went back to my daily journaling tho I decided not to have one this year because I thought Im gotta be so busy this year. And I realized that it's all about time mgt and commitment to your proposed system. (Just started my first work. I just graduated last year and at the same time hurdled my board exam. #thankful and #blessed)
    Btw, your vids gave spark to me to maximize this time by learning more and invest to self improvement. :)
    You're such an inspiration Eonni. ☺️

  • @priscillajimenez27
    @priscillajimenez27 4 года назад

    Why can't American shows/films have as much depth and substance and meaning as these Korean dramas you reference? 😭

  • @nadyanoorfatima3645
    @nadyanoorfatima3645 4 года назад

    I hope you are doing well in NYC. I heard many bad news about how Covid-19 is spreading there. You are one of sources of happiness on the internet. I am waiting for your next videos :)

  • @rishikapathak4694
    @rishikapathak4694 4 года назад

    Sometimes I wish you were my sister... Coz my doesn't likes me..i mean she hates me..whenever I bullet journal about self care or something she would just poke me about it and tease me about that...she would also read my brain dump dairy and again tease me and tell everyone about what I wrote..she make me feel truly unwanted and not loved.. Sometimes I just wish I wasn't born but then Rowena helps me. 🙏

  • @yourer
    @yourer 4 года назад

    Have you considered incorporating book summary videos onto your channel? There are already channels dedicated to them, but I really like the way you present information.

  • @samf8405
    @samf8405 3 года назад

    My mom and I are learning for the first time what it means to practice self-care, to not judge ourselves for our struggles, and to find ways to move on from our traumas and build bigger, better, fuller lives for ourselves. She and I have struggled for years to find a decent therapist that might teach us these concepts, but the area we're in makes it difficult to find someone both reputable and affordable. These videos have really helped me personally, but they've also helped me present these ideas to my mom, who has been struggling for much longer than I have. Sometimes the thought of accepting even the "bad" emotions can seem radical to her, but I think this really helps get the message of balance across.
    So even though this is a bit of an old video, thank you Ro, for helping us learn and grow. I can't tell you how much it means to us.

  • @d.m.uu.8776
    @d.m.uu.8776 4 года назад

    Hey Rowena, how are you, could you please make a video about how many audiobooks you listen to per month and how many hours per day and how audioboks changed your life and which are you favorite audiobooks, that would be great :) i wish you a great day and sending you positive vips form Germany :)

  • @tanveesharma2636
    @tanveesharma2636 4 года назад

    I have been feeling do depressed for the past year.
    Your videos always calm me down and help to be more positive and productive.
    Thank you so much xx

  • @georgiam.3957
    @georgiam.3957 4 года назад

    Apatheia which you straggled to read is a Greek word it means you don't have the desire on something or generally when you dislike something . It's seperated as A + pathos .. pathos means desire ( I'm from Greece)

  • @CraftsByNgoc
    @CraftsByNgoc 4 года назад +1

    I love these tips! It's so important that we take care of ourselves and making sure we stay healthy :)

  • @alyssainnis4432
    @alyssainnis4432 4 года назад

    So idealistic...but is not my reality. My living space is above our dog kennels to where we use this warehouse as our training facility. Employees are in and out, dogs are constantly barking and all the cleaning I do is constantly messed up.
    All I can truly have is a sense of gratitude that business is still good. But peace? A laughable concept.

  • @khaibhojkhai
    @khaibhojkhai 4 года назад

    Hi Rowena. Just wanted to say your videos are really calming. During the quarantine I have been sitting with my emotions which I would have otherwise ignored in the past and it's not easy. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos. They are like little sparks of inspiration and motivation to keep doing the mundane tasks even when you just don't want to get up from the bed the whole day. I hope you stay safe and healthy. Lots of virtual hugs x

  • @selikaibarra8258
    @selikaibarra8258 4 года назад +1

    Rowena, whats that thing that you do with your hands while you meditate, and how can i watch more of that?

  • @betulaltu4477
    @betulaltu4477 3 года назад

    love it!!! I'm happy that you're happy with yourself. no one can hurt you, you love yourself more than anyone.

  • @cassierabe9112
    @cassierabe9112 4 года назад

    I really love your content. I learned a lot. I keep notes also. Be safe! From Phiippines.

  • @juliamarcopulos9567
    @juliamarcopulos9567 4 года назад +3

    literally eating grilled cheese as I watch this.

  • @whitenoiserelaxingnoises2428
    @whitenoiserelaxingnoises2428 4 года назад

    Am I the only one listening to her as background music because her audios are seriously so calming and motivating!!!

  • @jennipurrrsleepyhead6738
    @jennipurrrsleepyhead6738 4 года назад +2

    Was that an asparagus flower on the desk? 🌸

  • @ginellego
    @ginellego 4 года назад

    If any of you are missing your RMT, I have self care videos on my channel to help with aches and pains!!

  • @LindseyUijleman
    @LindseyUijleman 3 года назад

    I love your pajamas, seriously where do you buy them? I love you, thank you for all your wise words! You have really helped me so thank you very much!

  • @chandelperez1007
    @chandelperez1007 4 года назад +1

    I am going to try the Japanese beauty because why not.

  • @naida7810
    @naida7810 4 года назад

    Awesome video. I love the positive vibes and constructive advice🙏i always get inspired!

  • @TheDreamLifeFoundation
    @TheDreamLifeFoundation 4 года назад

    Every day is a new opportunity to reinvent ourselves. Our past does not define us. It is not who we are. It is our attachment to it that makes us suffer. We can create a new story. Every day we have a new opportunity to become our greatest version and this starts with self-care and giving our mind, body, and spirit what it needs-love.

  • @hynjn9
    @hynjn9 3 года назад

    This was so lovely, and just what I needed to hear... Thank you very much

  • @gargiyadav1578
    @gargiyadav1578 4 года назад

    is it just me or does her side profile look a lot like Shin Hye-Sun's (from Angel's last mission love)?

  • @ghostc4stle
    @ghostc4stle 4 года назад

    What are the motions you do while you meditate? Will you make a video about it at some point? This video was amazing btw thank you so much!

  • @yoursturly7100
    @yoursturly7100 4 года назад

    All this comforted me in a way😭 thank youuu ❤❤❤ much love

  • @SH-sb5ky
    @SH-sb5ky 4 года назад

    really need these videos during quarantine. thanks for your content!!

  • @gabriellaamaral376
    @gabriellaamaral376 4 года назад

    this is such a sweet and helpful video!!!! thank you so much💖💖

  • @Solarpunkkait
    @Solarpunkkait 4 года назад

    you should check out discord for watching movies with friends!

  • @georgiam.3957
    @georgiam.3957 4 года назад

    I have a question . Are you half Chinese and half korean cause on another video of yours you spoke Chinese with your mom and on this one too but in this video you said "thank you for the meal " or something like that before eating breakfast which is in korean .

  • @violetchadwell
    @violetchadwell 3 года назад

    Where can I get those shark pjs i'm absolutely in love; having a shark onesie is not enough

  • @stephanietagnong3796
    @stephanietagnong3796 3 года назад

    I love how she is that typical asian sweet girl like me, I've always been in bad state of loving myself and what does loving yourself really mean

  • @jazmynlikethetea_0.0
    @jazmynlikethetea_0.0 3 года назад

    Omg where is that bed/couch/futon looking thing from?!

  • @MelissaFreeman
    @MelissaFreeman 4 года назад

    Coming to your channel & taking a little time away from the worries of the world helps me tremendously. 🙏🏽 thank you so much

  • @TheLynnsepeda
    @TheLynnsepeda 4 года назад

    It does look like an asparagus! I thought that from the beginning of the video 😂

  • @deananddelucaaa
    @deananddelucaaa 4 года назад +1

    wait. is she korean????

  • @giuliacoiro0810
    @giuliacoiro0810 4 года назад +1

    best way to start my morning, with rowena’s life lessons 😅♥️

  • @TheFacianes
    @TheFacianes 4 года назад

    Awwww I love this video so much! Just gained a new subbieee!! 🤍💫🧿

  • @churinin551
    @churinin551 4 года назад

    I think your apartment is such a huge space for one person. pardon me for oot q :"))

  • @shirinpitale7789
    @shirinpitale7789 4 года назад

    What is the kind of process you carried out at the end of the video? Was it a way of meditation? What is it called?

  • @noraniabasher9592
    @noraniabasher9592 4 года назад +1

    HIII!!! SO PERFECT FOR THE MORNING!!! (NOTIF SQUAD HERE)

  • @maningasxialen6997
    @maningasxialen6997 3 года назад

    i am starting to get addicted to your videos. thank you for helping and motivating a potato like me.

  • @bloompretty7576
    @bloompretty7576 4 года назад

    People with tinnitus: quiet is not peaceful in any way quiet is very loud

  • @itsmahna
    @itsmahna 4 года назад +1

    *your videos are so pure and therapeutic* especially these days
    thank you 💛