I agree with Flame!! There is a difference between a compliment and flirting!! This applies to women as well !! I'm 52 yr old woman and I can't even compliment a young lady, young enough to be my daughter, these days without her looking at me in a lustful way. It's sad, i'm old enough to be their mother.. These days you can't compliment anyone without it being misinterpreted as something sexual!!
Men freely compliment men in the gym all the time, regarding physigue. But, I say all the time, a heterosexual man, for example, shouldn't be offended when another "man" who happens to be Gay compliments him on his appearance, his hair, clothing, physique. They should be flattered by the compliment. Instead, they almost always go on the defense, feeling that a compliment from a Gay man is a threat and an insult to their masculinity. They might also see it as a "come on" which it might very well be, or may not be. But, take it as a compliment and move on, if not interested. Doesn't mean they thought of you as "Gay" or are even interested, otherwise.
All this talk of “toxic masculinity” but where is the talk ever on “healthy masculinity”? People can list what they DON’T want to see but where’s the list of what they DO want to see?
Often that goes hand in hand with the conversation. The toxicity is pointed out and then what should happen instead or you can definitely guess what should happen. 🤷🏽♀️ 2:58 see. Right here. What were YOU watching?? You just wanna complain 🤣🤣 people are talking through things and communicating effectively and kindly and you're crying???
@@Laura-sg6ss it SHOULD go hand in hand but it doesn’t. It’s just shouted “stop toxic masculinity” but what healthy masculinity looks like is whispered or silent
Flame is making all the sense. You can't throw out compliments otherwise it comes across as if you're attracted to that person. I won't even compliment women casually
You'd think being Gay and complimenting a woman would be okay, but they don't always know you're Gay. I personally don't stand out that way. I also get flirtations from females all the time, but don't get offended.
It's how a compliment is given that matters. It's okay to compliment someone, respectfully. I hope society does not come to the point of being uptight about an innocent but kind compliment.
When I see flame I immediately click. This was a great panel but we need to replace Gary 😂. Men should be able to give another man compliments but not to often.
Ummm, I was searching for Flame Monroe after seeing him/her/they on the chocolate factory and then this video popped up. I've NEVER heard of this show until tonight, 11/7/2022 at 9:20 p.m. Who else is here around the same day and time?
@@alex12591 men are becoming softer and softer each day smh. I thought I'd never seen the day when a man is calling another man beautiful and it's accepted as a compliment 🤦🏾♀️
How do black women... Real women feel about this topic frfr not the twitter talk but the momma auntie and real friends talk.... Girlllll get that money these men's freakier then you could ever be
I want to like Charlamagne because clearly he has done the work.He deliberately got into therapy & he has never been the same.On the other hand,I've seen the interview Tasha K. did with Jessica Reid.I don't know what to believe or how to respond.I honestly think it needs to be invested.I also would like for Charlemagne to address it.
I give anybody a compliment. If you look good, smell nice, whatever because to me it doesn't matter if you look good you look good. Now I'm a woman and we get away with it a little more than men do. But men hardly get compliments so that's why I stay passing them out because maybe they hadn't heard it that day, or any day.
Charla has brought up the Pivot podcast story this week on the Breakfast Club, Brilliant Idiots and now Hell of a Week. Idk if that’s just lazy or he must be into this story.
I was told SWAG ment "Secretly We Are Gay". (edit) n I completely agree with oboy on the right, start putting pressure at the local level first, you have more access to those ppl n then you send them to put pressure on the POTUS
@Christina. Yes, I heard that too. I also heard the whole thing of guys wearing their jeans hanging off their butts is letting other gay men know they are available, in prision it started.
It's sad that when you compliment folks often think you are flirting with them. I once told a guy he has an awesome afro and he took it as I was flirting with him.
No thanks! I'm not gonna compliment a man every day about his outfit or his looks.....that's lust, in my opinion. I can tell him once that his outfit is "crispy" or ask him, politely, where he got it from, but that's as far as it goes. I was was raise to believe that, as a man, i do what I can to be handsome...but that type of compliment should come from a woman...being that I am a heterosexual man.
It was nothing wrong with this one football player complimenting the other but when the young man appeared uncomfortable he needed to stop True compliments don’t hurt or make someone uncomfortable Mic Drop❤
If everyone was straight in the world, things would be 100% more clear regarding same sex connections. No disrespect to anyone gay, but being if a man is 100% straight and friends with a gay someone gay, is like someone that is friends with a cannibal, the mindset is like, “are you really happy to see me, or are you just hungry?” I have heard plenty of stories from men and women that had best friends for years that were really gay or bi and they had been secretly in love with them. That is such dishonesty, like that person was secretly dating the other right under their nose as long as they didn’t cross the line and expose their true intentions. As for what was said from the panel, if a man gives an honest compliment to another man, that is okay, but with all the slickery going on today, there are some men with motives that use compliments to “fish” or to groom another man into buying whatever they are selling.
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Great idea to rountable Char! Im always w you when ur right bro! And I've said it million times, if things were diff in society, my guy Char would have def messed w another guy. Doesn't change his sexuality at all. Kudos for not caring to play into stupidity.
Here's the thing, we all saw or at least heard of Cuties. Women are more socialized to get together and figure out what is to be celebrated about women's bodies, face, choices ans s.w.a.g. Men are socialized to stay apart and be competitive So men have zero skills when it comes to complimenting another guy
Why isn't this SHOW on this week? or the week after that? ..... Has CC already caved to whatever and cancelled? just like his other SHOW suddenly disappeared after a very short run! This is the BEST dam SHOW on TV! so what's the matter with YOU ALL now!!!
Masculinity is never toxic. They are comically pushing the gay agenda it seems. But, it's okay to compliment someone. However, understand, the rules, as far as, what you are attempting to accomplish if anything... Appropriate communication is key. There's casual conversation and there's intimate conversation.
The look on Gary face when he's realizing the other dude is gay got me dying. 😂
🤣🤣🤣
I agree with Flame!! There is a difference between a compliment and flirting!! This applies to women as well !! I'm 52 yr old woman and I can't even compliment a young lady, young enough to be my daughter, these days without her looking at me in a lustful way. It's sad, i'm old enough to be their mother..
These days you can't compliment anyone without it being misinterpreted as something sexual!!
Charlemagne love him some flame & im here for it!
Gary was terrified he thought that man was goin' kiss him!🤣😂😭
Gary has every right to not want to play with men
His face at 3:33 🤣🤣🤣
Gary is a little too homophobic to be completely heterosexual. He irks me at times.
@@lailas.3205 🤣🤣🤣
Charlemagne funny asfff 🤣🤣🤣 “he a lil to beige for me”
It Was The Stay Out Of Grown Men Conversations 😂😂😩 Took Me‼️
Men freely compliment men in the gym all the time, regarding physigue. But, I say all the time, a heterosexual man, for example, shouldn't be offended when another "man" who happens to be Gay compliments him on his appearance, his hair, clothing, physique. They
should be flattered by the compliment.
Instead, they almost always go on the defense, feeling that a compliment from a Gay man is a threat and an insult to their masculinity. They might also see it as a "come on" which it might very well be, or may not be. But, take it as a compliment and move on, if not interested. Doesn't mean they thought of you as "Gay" or are even interested, otherwise.
Him
Calling him beautiful is him being comfortable in his sexuality. And I love that
All this talk of “toxic masculinity” but where is the talk ever on “healthy masculinity”? People can list what they DON’T want to see but where’s the list of what they DO want to see?
I do want to see less toxicity and tearing each other down.
Often that goes hand in hand with the conversation. The toxicity is pointed out and then what should happen instead or you can definitely guess what should happen. 🤷🏽♀️
2:58 see. Right here. What were YOU watching?? You just wanna complain 🤣🤣 people are talking through things and communicating effectively and kindly and you're crying???
@@ericpoeperic how is talking about toxic masc. toxicity??👀🙃 we should speak about it, that's how you tease it out.
@@ericpoeperic exactly the point. “I want to see LESS of this” but what does the other end look like? What do you want to see MORE of?
@@Laura-sg6ss it SHOULD go hand in hand but it doesn’t. It’s just shouted “stop toxic masculinity” but what healthy masculinity looks like is whispered or silent
Gets better every week. Kudos to yall.
Flame been on Breakfast club 5 times since the pandemic. Each time his energy is 1000 like he know he gon get some.
Flame is making all the sense. You can't throw out compliments otherwise it comes across as if you're attracted to that person. I won't even compliment women casually
As usual, love her!
You'd think being Gay and complimenting a woman would be okay, but they don't always know you're Gay. I personally don't stand out that way. I also get flirtations from females all the time, but don't get offended.
It's how a compliment is given that matters. It's okay to compliment someone, respectfully. I hope society does not come to the point of being uptight about an innocent but kind compliment.
@@youtubeismytimemachine5917 him
Charla always been suspect fruity
💯💯💯💯💯💯
I don’t think so. He think he’s comfortable in his man hood
Let that man be metro sexual
n your mad or bothered? by it?
He’s out
Definitely agree we should apply pressure to our governors to free those who are in jail for minor marijuana offenses
Hell yeah. State and Federal.
Wow! Flame Monroe looks like Tina Turner
Lies, lies, lies. Flame looks like Tina turner as much as Halle Berry looks like Mel Gibson…which is to say not tat all😂
Loving this panel!
I agree with Gary Owen, you got to know the rules, when you in another Country.
Totally agree the weed situation in this country makes America and Biden look soft and hypocritical
The title of this clip should be "AYO!"
When I see flame I immediately click. This was a great panel but we need to replace Gary 😂. Men should be able to give another man compliments but not to often.
Agreed
🤣 he say these aren't Pokémon cards sir ya don't have to catch them all 😂
Ummm, I was searching for Flame Monroe after seeing him/her/they on the chocolate factory and then this video popped up. I've NEVER heard of this show until tonight, 11/7/2022 at 9:20 p.m. Who else is here around the same day and time?
I thought that was Tina Turner for a sec! 😂😂😂😂😅
Charlemagne I love it man , always bringing grade A entertainment with a hint of gems 💎
In the closet, bi-sexual, many people believe.
Men need to take those compliments. They'd feel better. I let dudes know their fits are fly. Feels good to hear it. It's easier with my wife.
I get it, but would you look at a man and tell and call him beautiful?
@@alex12591 Not unless I know him. And not unless he's beautiful.
@@p51424 Loved this reply! 😄😁
@@alex12591 men are becoming softer and softer each day smh. I thought I'd never seen the day when a man is calling another man beautiful and it's accepted as a compliment 🤦🏾♀️
Flames response was more mature and masculine than Charlene’s response. Oops I mean Charla lol 😂 Flame is the realest 1 on that panel.
I just love Flame🔥🔥🔥
I really liked this episode bc they talked about a lot
I love Flame!!
( 0:29 ) This the same dude that be urinating on himself while he’s training in football on the field.
i’m so proud of Charlamagne
Whenever I see flame I click! I love her
You're pretty too Charlamagne.
How do black women... Real women feel about this topic frfr not the twitter talk but the momma auntie and real friends talk.... Girlllll get that money these men's freakier then you could ever be
I accept all compliments
First off we could've been spared that photo. Second I love flame
Right! My skin still crawling lol
Yeah I was eating. I put my food down. I’m not hungry anymore. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Right, I turned my phone away.
Men do compliment other men, always has been, just not in that way.
I ♥️❤️💋the way Flame said what he said...He stands on he's truth strong...
Great show!!!
As a grown 53 year old man, I’m not down with looking at other men telling them they are attractive.
I was looking for this comment. There's still hope!! As a woman, I found this whole panel weird.
Charlemagne the door 🚪 is not locked 🔒 come on out homie 😜
SMH.
another bothered bih... emotional attacks ain't it sis😊
Flame 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😬
Men know competition when they see it straight or gay
I want to like Charlamagne because clearly he has done the work.He deliberately got into therapy & he has never been the same.On the other hand,I've seen the interview Tasha K. did with Jessica Reid.I don't know what to believe or how to respond.I honestly think it needs to be invested.I also would like for Charlemagne to address it.
I think I am going to have a nightmare now. I didn't need to see the pic about monkeypox!
Charla on this show saying anything🤣
Go ahead flame he finally got that connection with Dave Chappelle you are the s***! I love me some flame Monroe
Didn’t know about this? As long as you have this panel I’m in
I give anybody a compliment. If you look good, smell nice, whatever because to me it doesn't matter if you look good you look good. Now I'm a woman and we get away with it a little more than men do. But men hardly get compliments so that's why I stay passing them out because maybe they hadn't heard it that day, or any day.
Charla has brought up the Pivot podcast story this week on the Breakfast Club, Brilliant Idiots and now Hell of a Week. Idk if that’s just lazy or he must be into this story.
I love Flame
Thank you 🙏🏾 I love it here 🥰
What is going on? Is this really happening 🤕
I love it. I’d just be in the audience just smiling 😊
This felt forced to me. Glad to see flame enjoying the moment tho.
I was told SWAG ment "Secretly We Are Gay". (edit) n I completely agree with oboy on the right, start putting pressure at the local level first, you have more access to those ppl n then you send them to put pressure on the POTUS
@Christina. Yes, I heard that too. I also heard the whole thing of guys wearing their jeans hanging off their butts is letting other gay men know they are available, in prision it started.
I tell my people when they look good I don't feel less of a man
There's a difference in telling a man he looks good compared to he looks beautiful 😆
Channing Crowder is funny as hell 😂 a lot of his comments are so outta left field
Lmaoooo “I’ll fight him for a couple years”
Love this
I’m sorry to say flame does not speak for everybody in the community flame speaks for flame
It's sad that when you compliment folks often think you are flirting with them. I once told a guy he has an awesome afro and he took it as I was flirting with him.
I can never trust Charlemagne after he made Little Mama cry.
Charlemagne looks extremely good to me today.
Masculinity isn’t toxic at all. That’s what society wants you to believe.
Facts
Toxic is the narrative being pushed
Yall think sexual violence is ok. Got it
@@LyricSnowe who hurt you? 😂😂😂
Complete and utter BS!!! Trying to justify your own toxicity?? Truth is that only very weak men engage in this kind of behaviour or attitude!
I agree with flame if someone is complimenting you often they are attracted to you...
A little too holly weird for me I’m out.
saying some one 'looks good'!! is not sexual.
I'm with Gary on the overseas actions & what to carry. I. Need. To. Know.
👀Is Flame 🔥 Monroe wearing the red shirt ?
I think EVERYONE knows that specific law in Russia. Especially when you're in a sports team. You're told.
No thanks! I'm not gonna compliment a man every day about his outfit or his looks.....that's lust, in my opinion. I can tell him once that his outfit is "crispy" or ask him, politely, where he got it from, but that's as far as it goes. I was was raise to believe that, as a man, i do what I can to be handsome...but that type of compliment should come from a woman...being that I am a heterosexual man.
I agree!! There is a difference between a compliment and flirting!! These people are are trying to desensitize us!!
It was nothing wrong with this one football player complimenting the other but when the young man appeared uncomfortable he needed to stop
True compliments don’t hurt or make someone uncomfortable
Mic Drop❤
If everyone was straight in the world, things would be 100% more clear regarding same sex connections. No disrespect to anyone gay, but being if a man is 100% straight and friends with a gay someone gay, is like someone that is friends with a cannibal, the mindset is like, “are you really happy to see me, or are you just hungry?”
I have heard plenty of stories from men and women that had best friends for years that were really gay or bi and they had been secretly in love with them. That is such dishonesty, like that person was secretly dating the other right under their nose as long as they didn’t cross the line and expose their true intentions.
As for what was said from the panel, if a man gives an honest compliment to another man, that is okay, but with all the slickery going on today, there are some men with motives that use compliments to “fish” or to groom another man into buying whatever they are selling.
As a man do not call me beautiful, that’s something you compliment a woman. I am handsome.
May GOD bless and protect you! May GOD and JESUS break every chain holding you back! GOD is good! GOD is love in times of hate, GOD is strength in times of weakness, GOD is light in times of darkness, GOD is harmony in times of chaos, and GOD is all you need! If you need more love/strength/anything GOD is there! GOD LOVES YOU JESUS LOVES YOU! GOD BLESS!
How does one obtain tickets to the show?
I love me some charlamagne
Charla you fofo 😂
Yaaasss!! I love me some flame!
Okay I like this show
Love me some Flame he she is beautiful
hugs!
I think it depends on the career criminal thing...?
Flame for president!!!!
President of the Big D*ck Club!
I predict Charlemagne will come out completely and live his truth dressed in drag in the very near future. I give it 2 to 5 years.
No, he’s going to get exposed for being DL within that timeframe.
another bothered emotional attack 😂you people got it bad😅
This wasn't a segment about Flame click bait
Great idea to rountable Char! Im always w you when ur right bro! And I've said it million times, if things were diff in society, my guy Char would have def messed w another guy. Doesn't change his sexuality at all. Kudos for not caring to play into stupidity.
Here's the thing, we all saw or at least heard of Cuties. Women are more socialized to get together and figure out what is to be celebrated about women's bodies, face, choices ans s.w.a.g.
Men are socialized to stay apart and be competitive
So men have zero skills when it comes to complimenting another guy
Wish yr show wz hr like arsenio...btw can ya invite arsenio on show
Charlemagne copying Chelsea Handler. Shameless
People so homophobic not knowing how insecure they sound when they say “ayo” when a man compliments another man.
Facts - it’s annoying and childish
Charlemagne is black conservative who thinks he's a liberal.🤣
Why isn't this SHOW on this week? or the week after that? ..... Has CC already caved to whatever and cancelled? just like his other SHOW suddenly disappeared after a very short run! This is the BEST dam SHOW on TV! so what's the matter with YOU ALL now!!!
Masculinity is never toxic. They are comically pushing the gay agenda it seems. But, it's okay to compliment someone. However, understand, the rules, as far as, what you are attempting to accomplish if anything... Appropriate communication is key. There's casual conversation and there's intimate conversation.
BS!!! You seem to be very uneducated! What agenda?? Elaborate......aubmissive hater!
I love flame 🔥 ❤
Cee keep doing your thing King!
Gary plays in the black pond but is who he is
No you do not, man.
Damn. Hope he will be okay.
This my new show
I like the name of this show.
Charlemagne is making a great point on Britney and the other guy in jail In Russia