Txhob Cia Poj Niam Ntse Tshaj Koj. 1/20/2023
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I got my masters degree in computer engineering and minor in electrical engineering but I respect my wife who only got her high school diploma. My education is worthless without my wife.
I only have my High School Diploma. But my wife have a Master degree. She loves me for who I am as a human being, and respect me as her husband. A degree never change her. She never looked at my HS diploma as a downgrade. But my love and support for her is more than anything.
There are smart educated women who are kind, humble and respects their culture and families. Then there are those who think that their education means they’re above and beyond anyone and are selfish. Just because she’s a dr doesn’t mean you have to be her slave. Both work regardless of how much you earn. Both are equally important. If she thinks that way, it’s best to let her go. I’m sure reality will hit her real soon
Right on. I laugh at some highly educated Hmong people who think they know what Miskas are like and use it to argue their case when they are not happy with certain aspects of the Hmong culture. Yes, there are some Miskas with crappy attitudes, but it's more of an individual thing than a general thing. I've been with my Miskas husband for almost 30 years (his immediate & extended family consists of teachers, lawyers, a judge, nurses, engineers, a Hollywood movie producer, business owner, and many other professional fields) and I can say they don't have the crappy attitude that the wife in this story has. A career is what you do for a living, it should not define who you are as a person---a life lesson the wife clearly missed out on.
@@PM-oe5mkright! this wife is just tsab ntses xwb not a well round smart woman. I’m just glad he got her to pay him alimony cause the poor man certainty deserve it. Sad that it’s only for 6 years.
@@PM-oe5mk I agree 100%. A lot of my siblings are smart educated people with great careers and businesses and they most definitely don’t act like her. Your education shouldn’t define who you are as a person. Her ego definitely got to her head. Hmong culture is evolving and changing with the times these days. It will take a while before we get to where we need to be, but I see changes are being made. We’ve only been in this county for 40 years and Hmong people have made great strides.
this kind of woman is a she dog
So true! Not all women with a doctorate degree acts like this. I have my doctorate degree and my husband only has his high school diploma. My degree is only in use when I’m at work. When I’m home and around my family, I’m still a Hmong Nyab. Let her go, she can try to be as American as she wants, but she is still Hmong by blood. Good luck you.
A smart woman with a good heart (siab zoo) is nothing to fear. A smart woman with a selfish, mean &/or greedy heart (siab phem) is someone to be wary of. The same can be said of a man. The important thing is to know the person well and make sure you both share the same values and beliefs about life before marrying them. In general, nobody should put up with bad/rude behaviors/manners from anybody (I don't care how smart or rich they are). Rude attitudes are not acceptable in any culture/ethnicity.
Ab kj tu poj niam Tsi yog neeg ntse siab zoo os nw yog neeg kawm txawj es siab phem Xwb o cov poj niam zoo li ko ce tsum Xwb yu thiaj Tsi tuag sai os mog
Doesn't matter how much you think you know someone. People change. Their interest change. Sometimes it is just best to separate.
@@monkeybanana9269 It's true that people do change to some extent as they get older, but most people don't drastically change, nor do those changes necessarily affect a marriage to the extent where it needs to end. And yes, when a couple's life interests no longer align and there are constant fights due to the differences, it's best they part ways. IMO, this couple married too young---well before they (or at least on the wife's part) truly knew what they wanted out of life. If they had waited until both had settled into their respective careers, I highly doubt they would have gotten married due to their very different views about life and marriage.
Well said
Nicely put. And, remember, these stories are one-sides, trimmed to fit, and has a personal direction. Don't let your emotions get in the way of your thoughts. The dynamics are very real, but we don't have enough information to really judge. We must look at these from a learning perspective.
The same could be said about a man. Man not even doctors are worst.
Sorry but I'm not a doctor and I'm fed-up with the nyab life of "tias qua" . I mean every once in a while is fine..but every day and every weekend..no ty! Especially if you are a mom and work full time. Hell no. 😂
Agreed! Don't need to be a doctor to get tired of the Hmong nyab life. Some family do ask for too much!
FYI, not ALL educated & high profile careers women are like your self-center wife. Heck, even CEO of Billionaire businesses are still humble! They leave their Title at the doorstep once they are home with their family! I'd say...Find someone better!
Done listening to this kind of stories first 5min! You truly don’t know until you are in the husbands shoe! They truly will look down on you after you help and been there for them! Goes both ways men/women!
“Peb txivneej yog Dr tseem hlub pojniam” Not always true. Most stories are of cheating husbands and wife suffering. It seems the table have turned and some men are feeling/understanding what women have endured all along. I’m not saying it’s right or ok but just saying men and women now have equal rights to choose how they want live their lives.
Exactly! There was a story last year about a guy doctor leaving his wife for his mistress. People change and if one or both don't want to work together on their differences then most likely the marriage will fail.
That is so true. If one has more power that one will always play up. In the case of the husband having more power he would most likely cheated and she stay for the children.
Now days it is 50/50. Guy or girl- relationship is just too scary. Can't trust anyone.
Her heart deserves more blame than her education…high school drop outs can be mean too…just sayin.
We don't know her side of the story. By the sound of it, you just want a woman under your control just like the majority of Hmong men. It's no wonder she don't want to stay married to you.
Doesn't matter the degree, she just know her worth.
Apparently you didnt get the story lol.
@@supervong1 apparently we are all allowed our own opinion
She just wanted other men for fun only not life.
Thanks for sharing your story. Some Hmong Drs or higher educations are trash when it comes to relationships and cultures and your ex dr wife is one of them. Glad you made the choice to move on. Her Dr money is not worth it if she doesn't love you with all her heart. A women that makes only $20/hr but deeply and madly in love with you is more worthy. Good luck brother!
I have a friend similar in your situation. They both were college lovers. Both graduated with their bachelor's degree. She continued her education, and he started working. He worked his butt off to help pay for her doctor degree. 8 years later, she left him with another guy. They had 2 boys and she left them with him. She wanted no relationship with them whatsoever. 5 years later, he met his ex at some sort of business conference. He won the best business/ director award. Guess who came in 2nd? The man she left with. Moral of the story. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and make the best out of your situation. That's the only way to live. My boy is in his late 30s. Holler girls, he's still single. Lol jk
Amazing outcome for your friend
I do not condone cheating. Butt very bigg butt hmong men cannot and will not be able to ever handle a women who can think for herself and knows ther worth. Becus hmong men were raised by believing that all women must obey and cater to all families and gatherings. Not saying men has to always be on hands and knees but that goes both ways. Not all doctors are bad we jus hear more of the bad ones. But im not going to lie when a person has a higher education and is smarter your conversation and theirs is going to change. Just see it as not all relationship is going to work out. Only way to let go. Why yall think alot of doctors end up with doctors.🤷🏻♀️
Lol I’m single
She's just selfish. People with a bad heart will do bad things despite their education.
Word of advice to young lovers, never get married then go to school. In most cases one or the other will change. Stay single and go get your career first then find one that is comfortable to you.
Very true. Happened to me. I got out of the marriage because we ended up not wanting the same things for our future.
Well said!
Very good advice.
Great advice, most likely will be like that.
I agree with you 100%. They both wanted different things in life.
Your degree is to work and make money that’s all. The moment you put your degree above your husband, family, and your culture. You’re pretty much done…even the most powerful man in the world, US President, he is still a father to his children and a husband to his wife…he is not using his power to control his wife and family. This is how smart and humble people do in their lives. Your wife might have have the title, but she is dumb…people have this kind of attitude is useless. Our Lord, Jesus Christ, humble Himself to help the poor and gave His life to died for us as sinners…tus pojniam siab phem lubneej tsis txog txij twg…have her pay your alimony and find a new wife…best luck…😩👍🤠!!!
By law he will get alimony
@@katielee2377 you can pray as much as you want, god is not going to help you lady. Do not depend on your god. Your destiny is in your own hand.
It’s not her degree and profession, it’s just her. She never truly loved you. My cousin’s wife is a pharmacist and he doesn’t have a degree but they are still together. He even cheated on her and she’s still with him. It comes down to love. Also, her love for the mekas D 😜.
Your cousin is just lucky. Not a lot of people can find a love like that. Not even in a million lifetime. Hopefully he change before his wife decides something else. One can never be so sure.
Brother aw...peb cov pojniam ces uv npaum koj hais ko tiag.
Ua cas peb cov ntxhais twb yog Doctor thiab Tab sis lawv tsis tsa ntswg li as lawv yeej coj ib yam li qub xwb thaum mus hauj Lwm ces yog Doctor hos thaum los tsev ces yog niam tsev xwb
It’s not education, it’s her personality.
Some people who are dr’s and achieve their PhD’s come back and HELP their community.
Your wife just thinks she’s high-so and too good. At the same time, because of her line or work and life, she won’t have time for all the Hmong things. Depends on what it is.
Omg brother your story exactly like my nephew story too. Very sad indeed. Please 🙏 continue to loved yourself and your children.
My boyfriend's nephew's wife is an important doctor and she's very humble, sweet, respectful, and still do things with us as a family. We can still joke and have fun. We tell each other we love and support each other. Your ex wife is ignorant and selfish. With that attitude I wouldn't trust her as my doctor. May you have a happy life with blessings with your new wife brother.
Her degree has nothing to do with her attitude, personality, demeanor, selfish ways, and cultural respect. She was already that kind of person at the start but you were too blind to see the signs.
I'm sure Hmong women who really know herself and respect her own kind. Will never use other kind cultures to compare with your own. Just remember that apple and orange will never comparison. Doesn't matter how smarted or educated you were, always remember that you still a Hmong woman. Plus, that will also make other nationality respect and getting closer to you and learn something from you so you can be true leader or good model for everyone.
Txhob tu siab os brother, koj zoo txaus lawm koj yeej yuav tau tus zoo thiab txoj kev zoo tshaj nws xwb xwb. Koj tus poj niam ntse ntawm nws tus ple xwb, noj tsis tau thiab noj tsis ntev li os....
Cia poj niam ho tsim txiv neej me2 thiab mas vim txiv neej twb tsim poj niam ntau2 lawm ne ua li no los yeej yog lawm thiab
There must be more to the story that he’s not sharing. But it doesn’t matter anymore when she is already made up her mind that you’re not her happiness. Let her go. Hope you can move on bro.
I agree. He's not telling everything. Most educated women are not selfish, they learn that they have 'a choice'. It's not the old days when women are expected to be a housewife, 'ua siab ntev' regardless of the circumstances. Her life is more valuable than slaving over her in-laws just for 'face'. If she's smart and genuine enough, she will know how to balance. Most older Hmong generation will not understand when a woman has self-love. They consider it selfish but hmong men have been nurtured and taught to be selfish/unfaithful from birth.
You guys heard the story, what else you wanna know? She asked for a divorce, that goes to show she doesn't love him. He has to move on.
When one ask for a divorce, they are done, they have no hope left of the other partner. Best to let go peacefully and not end up on the 10’o’clock news as victims🤦🏻♀️
Haub Yau Haub, yau 100 tus ces 99 tug yog poj niam uv txiv neej hos 1 nuuag tug li koj thiaj uv txiv neej xwb cas tseem muaj plhu tuaj Tham thiab
Well I think that this guy must just be mad that his ex wife left him but let’s hear her side.
We need to listen to the wife side.
I dont think this story is bias from the man side. He’s not a husband that does not work or doesn’t have a education. He did his part to make his marriage work and she still left because of her status.
No we dont need to hear her side.
Koj ua yog lawm. Txhob nyuaj siab. Cia tus poj laib ntawv mus ntxhais Mekas qau.
Poj niam hmoob ces yeej kawg li os.cia nyob txom nyem thiaj zoo.vam meej lawm ces yuav ua poj laib.peb cov txiv neej los yeej ib yam.peb hmoob tus cwj pwm yeej kawg li os.
Txhob tu siab os, tus tub aws, pab cov niam tsev laus no ces twb mag lub maib kom ua ntej nej cov me tub lawm mam tos muaj niam yau ob peb tug.
😆 🤣 😂 omg...the title makes me laugh already....more Dr. Drama! Woohoo!
Yog li koj hais kawg os brother…
Koj zaj dab neeg hai tau tu saib heev li ❤❤
Thank you sister aw, this story is quiet true and happened to our fellow brothers and sisters in America but our life is temporary. that is happened like it, even though I got my master degree I also respect and humble with wife and kids. I think both husbands and wife are treated equally important in the sight of man..She is as hole manners and rude
pride is the beginning of all falls.
Best advice in general. 👍
Txhob txawj os poj niam puav leej muaj nceb rau yus de ib yam os txiv neej aw !
Nws nrhiav tsis tau txiv yuav lawd yawg aw
Peb cov poj Niam Hmoob cov khwv pab kwv tij neej tsa mas Yeej khwv tshaj plaws li. Ua ib tug poj niam Hmoob yeej tsis yooj yim.
Yog yus ntshe ces nyob Tom haujlwm ces Yog Doctor. Nyob Tom tsev ces Yog Niam tsev los Yog Txiv tsev.
There are plenty of highly educated and beautiful women who respect their husband and culture. It just depends on a person's attitude and not their education or beauty.
Yuav ua cas thiaj txwv tau kom poj niam txhob ntse mas vim nws yug los twb ib txwm ntse lawm ne? Yog tias poj niam twb ntse lawm ces pab tsis tau yog li txhob pub txawj xwb. Vim tias yog thaum ib tug neeg ntse thiab txawj tshaj plaws lawm ces yus tsis npaum ntawv lawm ces swb xwb...
Doesn't matter how high you go in school, you don't respect yourself aint nobody outside going to respect you. Ladies take a note of this story. The one who loves you is all you need to respect you. Everyone is just outside looking in. When you healthy everything is good, when in bad health nobody want you, but your husband. To the brother divorce her and get the child supporter. See how she'll be living her lifestyle while paying child and spousal support.
I've learned that helping women become educated means they will find me less appealing. I helped my ex-girlfriend through university. About 6 months before her graduation, she dumped me for another man. The lesson: Don't help women become smarter, more educated than you. Women stay with you because she needs your help but once she meets someone better who likes her, she'll just throw you away like a piece of used tampon. Even if you gave her $1 million. Even if you saved her life. All that means nothing to her cuz she now has someone better (richer, handsomer, better in bed). My saying in Hmong: "Pab luag muaj ces luag hais tias yus pluag, pab luag ntse ces luag hais tias yus ruam".
Sorry to hear that.
I’m college educated, make 6 figure salary, manage a busy office of 30+ people, work 9-10 hrs per day. I have 5-15 different people talk to me at the same time, all day long. I don’t take breaks, i stopped eating lunch. When I come home, I’m exhausted. Thank god my husband gets home first so dinner is usually ready by the time I get home. I make the kids do dishes, then it’s homework, bedtime routines. I have no problem “tiam qhua” and play nyab 10K. I love to entertain friends and family when they visit, but I also value quiet weekends where I can chill…Its draining to be a nyab Hmong and a working Hmong American woman! My husband makes way less than me but I told him that I have too much invested in our relationship and Im never leaving him even if he sends me back to my family 😂😂😂😂😂😂
zaj dab neeg nov simular li kuv zaj thiab os hmoob tu siab tshaj plaws li os cov phooj ywg tiam sis kuv zaj mas lub ntuj kuj hlub kuv thiab es twb uas rau nws poob tsis tau doctor ntiaj teb no peb cov txiv neej hmoob yuav tsum tsis txhob hlub lwm tus tshaj yus tus kheej nawb txhoj kev hlub ntawv thiaj li tsis uas dej kub rov hlab yus.
Poj niam ua tsis npaum txiv neej ua txiv neej siab phem tsaj poj niam
Peb cov txiv neej hmoob uv tsis taus peb cov poj niam hmoob txawj ntse, hos poj niam hmoob uv taus txiv neej cuab ntse, ko diav this rau peb cov poj niam niam no ua pauj cov txiv neej hmoob siab phem phem thaum i lawm zoo siab heev li
Vim yog txoj kev khaus pim dhaus lawm thiaj co lij koj tsis yog ib poj niam ntse.
yus tus pojniam siab phem siab dub ces los pw ua kev los yeej tsis so li qub cia ntuj mam li rub mog.
Yog sib hlub ces yeej sib nkag siab, tsis tim tias pojniam ntse tshaj ces caij tsuj tus txiv. Ib co pojniam lawv lub zog me me lawv thiaj nyiam mus kawm txawj kawm ntse, lawvv thiaj tsis yog cov pojniam los yog cov nyab 10K.
Tus siab luag os
Some people think they are above all once they have a degree or make a lot of money. Sadly, if they are one of these and are mean/rude to you and family, you don't need them. I know it's hard cus you love her and supported her through her education. But you deserve better. Much better.
Tau Dr ces pojniam txiv neej los yeej siv fwj chim ib yam
Tus me txiv tsev koj tus poj niam tsi sawm zoo o mog peb cov niam tsev tim nplog no ces uv peb cov txiv li koj uv ko o tab sis heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim mog
Hlub koj kawg tus kwv tij mloog koj zaj neejneeg pab hlub koj thiab koj cov me nyuam kawg, koj tus maum no g piam g liam g puas tsuaj g txaus nws saib, nws liam sim nws thiaj txaus siab qhuas os
brother tell her to put her high education or DR degree at work please! for all the man and women who have high education or degree please hang your degree at work please!!!!!! don't bring your degree at home, bring your love to your family.
If the moral of the story has anything with this title then it's all wrong. As a man, you need to be supportive of your wife. You are so proud that you refuse to give her equality. When your wife has the title, and the money, and is needed by many outsides, you cannot expect her to act like a housewife. You will have to take on the house-husband role and suck it up. The man is always the one who refuses to let his ego and status be lower than his wife even when he sees she's successful. Typical Asian men. Women always lower themselves. Men need to learn to lower themselves.
Agreed! He wants her to be a doctor so he can show her off and then for her to come home and tiam him and his family.
That's just hmong man no matter what you have to serve him and his family.
Hom txiv neej zoo li tus no ces yog hom uas tsis muaj noob qes es tsis paub kev ua neej ua neeg hos hmoob aw cas yuav muaj ib homtxiv neej uasruam tsis pom qab ruam lawm os yuas.
That six year she is supporting you. You should go back to school n become a Dr yourself so that way she'll regret letting you go.
Hmoob tias rau ntsia npuj tswg, zoo no. Ua tsaug neb nthuav neb txoj kev lwj siab rau sawv daws ua lub chaw caiv cim tsis ua.
Dr. Phoua nyob St. Paul mas txo hwjchim heev. Pom Nws los nrog cov niamtsev serve dej thiab txiv hmab txiv ntoo rau Sawvdaws noj hauv tsev txias.
So many doctor stories I wanna see how these people look like 😂
Koj tau txiv noj nco ntsoov tus cog, kawm ntawv tiav nco ntsoov tus txhawb, lub neej thiaj tsis puas tsuaj kob huam
Good stories May!
Poj niam npem mas muaj tsuwg tus cov txiv neej npem mas muaj coob kuwg li os
Smart woman with a ugly heart. He was definitely not in a win win situation. More like a lose win situation for him.
Cov poj niam hmoob es kawm ntawv siab siab ces yeej siab phem li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
Koj poj niam mus ua nais maum nws nkaug koob rau tib neeg heev dhau lawm nws thiaj xav tau rab koob loj lawm nrog koj tu siab chim siab heev
Kav liam nawb, tus poj niam no nws ntse tshaj qhov ntse lawm, cia nws mus nws, lawm hnub nws tuag seb nws txoj kev ntse ntawd puas muaj lub chaws rau nws tuag, ceev faj tsam koj rauj nws tsis tu taws ces koj cia li tau thas nws thiab os, ces hos yuav khi khi koj txog hnub tuag. Nws niam tais yawm txiv twb hais tsis tau nws, lawv kws kws nws tabsi hnub twg nws tuag ces lawv yuav muab pov rau koj ntag.
I’m a Hmong woman but sorry I don’t have time to cater to relatives….I’m not super women. I work, I have kids to look after. If you want a women to cater to all your guest at all time then good luck
Poj Niam zoo Li no Muab nrauj Kiab xwb mas
Finally! Men can taste their own medicine!! Sorry not sorry
Koj Piav tau Yog lawn o
Good for you, you won; move on and find a honesty, live a happily life.
Koj ntxub qhov koj uv koj niag poj niam kuv ntxub qhov kv uv kv niag txiv ntxub dhau lm os sim mi neej no ma ntxub tshaj plaws li oS
Kwv koj myuam qhuav paub xwb tej nos mas kuv paub thiab pom uas ntu zus los txhoj niaj hnub niam nos
Txawm yus yuav kawm ntawv siab npaum li cas thiab ua hauj lwm siab tau nyiaj ntau npaum li cas los thaum yus rov los txog tsev, yus yuav tsum hle daim degree ntawv tseg es los hwm yus tus poj niam tus txiv. Los hwm yus lub neej thiab tsev neeg.
Yuav cov poj niam ruam, ruam thiab txhob tseg cov ntxhais mus kawm ntawv siab thiaj li zoo vim peb yog hmoob, poj niam kawm ntawv siab ces lawv lub meej nom loj tshaj peb cov txiv neej lawm peb hais tsis tau lawv los tiam peb cov qhua txhua lub weekend li peb cov ua yog pab thas no lawm.
This guy complain too much he even disrespected his current No degree wife. There will probably be a part 2 to his life. 😂
Apparently you missed the whole story lol
I absolutely trust you and it's true brother
Ua neeg nyob mas txawm tus muaj kev txawj ntse tsis muaj los yog nws yog tus neeg los ntawm ib tse neeg txhob cuab cuab ntse mas lub neej mus taus vim nws tsev neeg noj nias nqees lub neej tias koj tus txij nkawm yog ib tug neeg zoo. Ua li koj ua, yuav tsis nyog. Nws tsev neeg hais kiag tias, “‘Me tub los me ntxhais, koj tsis yuav peb hais ces koj txawm mus kiag ces peb yuav kiag ib tug rau nws los nyob koj qhov chaw ntiag hos.”
“Me tub los me ntxhais, nws phem dhau, peb hais tsis tau lawm ces tso mus mog, txiv neej, poj niam Tsis tag rau nws os, tso mus, kaj ntug tag kis koj nyiam leej twg peb yuav kiag rau koj.”
Tsev neeg nrog Tswv lub neej ces zoo. Ho tsev neeg twg es hais li tus yawm txiv no hais ces tso mus, tsso mus nawb.
Tsis tag li xwb, koj ua yog lawm. Koj raug nws yug koj ces #1 kiag.
Cov poj niam kawm ntawv siab siab li ko lawv saib hmoob tsis khuab qhov muag os....tu poj niam uas yog tu txiv kawm tau Doctor xwb twb tseem saib tsis taus hmoob hos....
Cov poj niam hmoob meskas tam sim no ces yeej liam li no nawb lawv aw...
Kuv li cas kuvTsis nyiam cov poj niam suab laus 2 li suab txiv neej li os. Ua cas suab tsis deev suab rau kuv hli li os.
Lam yuav cov poj niam ruam ruam os lauv thiaj hwm koj mog
Tsis hais txiv neej los yog poj niam txawj ntses ces yeej siab phem ib yam kaus. Tsis yog poj niam ntses es thiaj siab phem xwb. Txiv neej twb tsis ntses los twb siab phem thiab nes.
Let her go... she will see that beauty, money, degree and being on another level will never help her when she's sick, needs a helping hand when she's old. Everyone who turns their back on their love one will suffer no matter the fun or exciting life they think they left for is better. Money doesn't change a thing, it only changes the situation. If she's happy, let her be but we all know in the end it's never a good ending without true love. Sad but real.
Kev kawm tsis muaj hnub kawm tas ke kawm ke ua
There are many highly educated Hmong women with master’s degrees and Doctorate degrees who are kind, humble, respect their Hmong husbands and the Hmong community. Tej zaum tus nus no tus poj niam xav yuam kev lawm. Peb ua tib neeg, txawm peb txawj ntse kawm ntawv siab npaum li cas los, peb yuav tsum hwm peb tus txiv, peb tsev neeg thiab peb haiv neeg hmoob.
Txhob tub siab os me nus kuv lub neej tseem tshaj qhov koj tham koj lub neej lawm thiab os. Kuv twb lam nyob os mog xav ntawm tej me nyuam xwb. Thaum kuv tsis tau hnov koj txoj no kuv kuj xav tias ntiaj teb no ntshe kuv lub neej thiaj txawj tu siab xwb no os
Why do people keep saying “men do this, women do this” no, that’s just YOUR wife/husband. Just bc YOUR wife got a degree and treated you like dirt doesn’t mean ALL women will be like her if they have a high education.
Niam laus as thov kj pab nrhiav ib tug hluas nraug rau kv kv twb los ua pojnrauj tau 5 xyoo lawm tu 2 siab li os kv mj 26 xyoo lawm thov kj pab nrhiav ib tug rau kv os
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Hi tus kwv tij los yog tus tub koj txhob tu siab rau qhov koj twb ua tas koj txoj kev zoo rau nws lawm nws.thiaj kawm tag nws daim Dr tab sis nws g pom koj txoj kev zoo es hnub no nws thiaj li g muaj lub neej nrog luag ua es nws Daim Dr ntawv yeej pab g tau nws os cov poj niam tau Dr es tsab ntse ces txoj thaum kawg ces yeej g nrog luag muaj lub neej ua thiab yuav g muaj chaws tuag es koj twb yuav tau koj tu poj niam lawm ces koj rov qab muaj lub neej.lawm es txhob ntshaw cov poj niam Dr nawb
Koj tu poj niam ntse dhau lawm ces yeej ua neej nyuaj os...yog tu ntse thas mab Das xwb mas ua neej yooj yim os
Lub neej yim vam meej npaum cas los lub siab yim poob qab npaum ntawd peb yeej pom tias yim vam meej yim nplua nuj lub siab yim nqaim tsis vam meej thiab thaub qab deb npaum ntawd
Tau poj niam txawj ntse es hos ruam lim hiam li ko ces xum yuav tus ruam ntawv me ntsi los kav liam tsuav ntshe lub siab siab zoo hlub yus hlub niam hlub txiv hlub kwv tij xwb zoo dua
Sounds like you two are not compatible. You are still living in the old world (traditional Hmong) while she is not. If the roles are reversed, you would expect your wife to take care of the household and tiam you and your guests. I feel sorry for your current wife because you probably won’t give her any equality.
Dr thoob khib nyhiab
Its not the education; its the person. A good education cannot mask an ugly heart/personality.
marriage is a thing of the past. Trust no one. As a person, we can't even trust our own self.