I have this with my siblings who are 20 years older than me. I also have this with my family therapist who is helping orchestrate our connection after so much family plutonic drama. I think it’s really funny that we all have this with me and I am the common denominator! I’m Venus with siblings and Pluto with my therapist lol
I wish I had never met him because it was intense and the best sex I ever had and after he broke up with me (the Venus person) I was never the same.I never really got over him. He recently commited suicide due to severe depression. I was crushed when I found out through a mutual friend and I still am although we were no longer part of each others life. It was unforgetable though unsustainable 💔
😥😥😥 I'm sorry to hear that. I'm going tru the same thing but even harder coz we love each other but we can'T be together 💔.. It was the most painful thing ever.. I tried to blocked him to detached from but then I was hurting and obsessively thinking about him to the point of losing my mind so I unblocked him, now we mansge to be friends but it's so hard coz you feel all these strong emotions towards each other but we can't be more than friends, He's my dream and happiness, my escape I'm the pluto and I don't know until when I can still handle this.. I'm also thinking to end my life because I feel empty, I'm in so much pain that I cry 😢 almost everyday 💔💔💔
@@fancylyrics. please stay strong 🥺💕 thank you so much for sharing. You are strong. You are loved 🥰 please keep strong I know suicidal ideation isn’t easy but I trust that you can hurdle through🙏🏾 I don’t know if you’re spiritual or believe in God but pray❤️
@@fancylyrics. I know how you feel. Pls try to talk to a therapist before it's too late. Sometimes you just have to accept it wasn't meant to be and move on even though it is the hardest thing you'll ever have to do. I had to let go of a father who commited suicide and now my ex boyfriend. I guess it's karmic and you cannot change your fate but just try to make the best of it. I wish you courage and strenght 💚
I have this aspect in my natal chart and thus, with a lot of people my age, too. When I fall in love with someone that I have this aspect with, I can feel the darkness coming over me the moment I realise I fell for him. I know from that moment that I am doomed and then a cycle of mind games, passion, obsession begins every single time in a compulsive manner in both of us. To the point where it becomes sickening and both of us are left drained and powerless. Cutting chords is most of the times the only solution to find sanity again.
Hi Jewel, thank you for this! Could you please consider making a video about mars opposite pluto (especially in a man's natal chart + in synastry)? Thank you so much for all your work, your videos are very helpful!
Oh god I have this with my boyfriend and we since we were born only a couple of days apart, we have this aspect towards each other. We're both the venus and pluto person. Mine is with a veryyyyy slight tighter orb thus making me the pluto person but it's still crazy. I've been through that kind of intensity and it's a wholeeee ride. I am excited but frightened lol.
Thank you for sharing you insight, Jewel! ❤ would a contra-parallel between these two planets work the same? what would be the orb allowance for declinations in general?
I had this aspect with an ex and I also have it in my natal chart. I’ve had a few traumatizing and toxic experiences that I’m still trying to work though and I honestly don’t know if I’ll ever get over them
Wow… you described my situation! I’m the Venus person and it’s been so difficult. I think I’m on the phase where I just can’t anymore. My jupiter is conjuct his sun and his Venus is conjuct my sun so it makes leaving that much harder
WOW! Hi, I am dealing with this myself and the similar charts we have made me want to comment ! My Jupiter is conjunct his sun, my Venus and his Venus are squaring exact, my Venus is opposite his Mars and Chiron (which are in exact conjunction in Scorpio - While his Pluto and Lilith are also in conjunction). These aspects in his chart are all opposing my Venus, Rising and sun. You just can’t make this up! Today is the day I said goodbye for good and now I found this video and your comment. I feel like this is going to be a period to soothe my heart and nourish my body and mind. I feel different after this connection. Thank you 🙏 for sharing and hope you’re doing well💫👍❤️❤️
How did you find out you have Venus opposition to Pluto. I keep reading about it but I don't know how to tell whether or not a planet is in the opposition of each other. My Modern Astro: Sag Venus/Sag Pluto/ 7H cancer. Vedic Astro: Sag Venus/Scorp Pluto/ 7H cancer And why would it mean death if it's in opposition to your 7H? I read for some it is.
I have Venus opposite Pluto, Venus opposite mars, moon square mars, and moon square Pluto with a crush/fling. I’m scared to see the least. I am Venus and moon in these scenarios
Pluto never gives up, they can ignore you and pretend but the Venus person will eventually move on and look back thinking wow that was a crazy time, Plutos still fuming/obsessed just pretending like they’re over it
I have venus opp his Pluto and his venus conjuncts mine. Well I have venus, mars, mercury and Saturn opp his and also falling in his 8th house…soooo. Also his venus and Jupiter conjuncts my moon and pluto. Basically lots of intensity. Never had this before.
So weird, I don't feel any of that, I am Pluto and it is a close conjunction. First time of my life I experience this conjunction, at 42 years of age. Venus was the one making all the moves, I am the one asking him to keep his feet on the ground. No intensity, no lust, no obsession. Only that is the first person that I care to get to know in 9 years. Personal security? Other than having -maybe- a partner ... Jealousy, it will always be there for me, I am a jealous person, regardless of the aspects I have with anyone. Also, I only hear "shit-crap-shit-crap", where is the muses part? 😂
My venus opposes most people who are in Gen Z (I'm a millenial). Every time I'm interested in a man who's in Gen Z, it's like he's immediately obsessed with me and wants to be in a relationship right away. It's too much.
From my own experience in synastry with Pluto energies: Venus opposite pluto, pluto sextile moon, mars in my 8th house (pluto house), mars trine pluto, pluto opposite mercury, jupiter opposite pluto. Pluto energy is that powerfull that any other good aspects can't balance it out. Even almighty Saturn with whom I have banch of very good aspects can't over do Pluto energies. In my case looks like that all aspects in my synastry chart was sitting quitely in the corner while the Pluto was running the show. Bad aspects of Pluto can leave a scares in your mind and heart, it's hard to forget and overcome the painfull experience. In most cases relationship ending Venus. Pluto will be torturing Venus emotionally but will never leave her. In Venus - Pluto opposition, Pluto sees Venus as his property. This aspect only works well in the case if Venus will cut ties with all her friends and even some family members because Pluto wants Venus for himself only.
Do you think this can still work or there's hope for a happy ending..? His pluto square my moon and Sun, my pluto opposite his mercury and venus Scorpio-Taurus axis. My moon is in his 8th house.. We love each other but we can'T be together 💔.. It is the most painful thing ever.. I tried to blocked him to detached from him but then I was hurting and obsessively thinking about him to the point of losing my mind so I unblocked him, now we manage to be friends but it's so hard coz you feel all these strong emotions towards each other but we can't be more than friends, He's my dream and happiness, my escape I'm the PLUTO in the pluto-venus opposition and I don't know until when I can still handle this.. I'm thinking to end my life because I feel empty, I'm in so much pain that I cry 😢 almost everyday 💔💔💔.. It's sick that sometimes I wish I wudn't have met him.. It feels like I'm dying of pain worst feeling ever. I hope I find the courage to get on with my life but it's tough feels like committing suicide is the Only way to end the pain permanently 💔
@@fancylyrics. venus pluto opposition never going to work. And don't be silly by thinking about end the life. You will heal and all the pain will be the past. Go out and socialise meet new people.
I have this but I also have sun sextile Venus moon sextile moon Sun conjunct Jupiter Venus trine Neptune it's the most comfortable relationship I've ever been in.
That was more underhanded rude and negative then anything she said. lf you don’t like it watch another astrologers video 😂 the world doesn’t revolve around you ffs
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Your hair!! 🤩
I had this in my longest relationship, a very transformative passionate love. It would bring out a lot of insecurities. Please do Mars square Mars🔥
Where you Venus or Pluto?
@@sonvous0 Pluto
I have Pluto square Venus AND Mars square Mars in my transformative relationship as well.
I have this plus the mars square mars lol
Another awesome video from my favorite astrologer, Ms. Jewel Mayberry. Jewel, you're the best.
I’m venus, he’s Pluto. He definitely moved in first, but I was definitely very receptive!
I have this with my siblings who are 20 years older than me. I also have this with my family therapist who is helping orchestrate our connection after so much family plutonic drama. I think it’s really funny that we all have this with me and I am the common denominator! I’m Venus with siblings and Pluto with my therapist lol
Cool space aunt back again!
This aspect is way too much for me to handle even a few hours of, but it’s incredibly addicting
I wish I had never met him because it was intense and the best sex I ever had and after he broke up with me (the Venus person) I was never the same.I never really got over him. He recently commited suicide due to severe depression. I was crushed when I found out through a mutual friend and I still am although we were no longer part of each others life. It was unforgetable though unsustainable 💔
Sorry for your loss 🥺
😥😥😥 I'm sorry to hear that. I'm going tru the same thing but even harder coz we love each other but we can'T be together 💔.. It was the most painful thing ever.. I tried to blocked him to detached from but then I was hurting and obsessively thinking about him to the point of losing my mind so I unblocked him, now we mansge to be friends but it's so hard coz you feel all these strong emotions towards each other but we can't be more than friends, He's my dream and happiness, my escape I'm the pluto and I don't know until when I can still handle this.. I'm also thinking to end my life because I feel empty, I'm in so much pain that I cry 😢 almost everyday 💔💔💔
@@fancylyrics. please stay strong 🥺💕 thank you so much for sharing. You are strong. You are loved 🥰 please keep strong I know suicidal ideation isn’t easy but I trust that you can hurdle through🙏🏾 I don’t know if you’re spiritual or believe in God but pray❤️
@@sonvous0 thank you 🙏
@@fancylyrics. I know how you feel. Pls try to talk to a therapist before it's too late. Sometimes you just have to accept it wasn't meant to be and move on even though it is the hardest thing you'll ever have to do. I had to let go of a father who commited suicide and now my ex boyfriend. I guess it's karmic and you cannot change your fate but just try to make the best of it. I wish you courage and strenght 💚
I have this aspect in my natal chart and thus, with a lot of people my age, too.
When I fall in love with someone that I have this aspect with, I can feel the darkness coming over me the moment I realise I fell for him. I know from that moment that I am doomed and then a cycle of mind games, passion, obsession begins every single time in a compulsive manner in both of us. To the point where it becomes sickening and both of us are left drained and powerless. Cutting chords is most of the times the only solution to find sanity again.
Do you have Gemini Venus and sag Pluto?
@@amyowen5856 no dear, Venus in Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio…
You have this with everyone in your generation as Pluto is a generational planet as you have this nataly.
@@Nayaniify of course, but I don’t fall in love with everyone in my generation
@@anamaria-db7pq It should be within 5’ orbit to feel strongly.
Superb analysis
you explain things so well
Hi Jewel, thank you for this! Could you please consider making a video about mars opposite pluto (especially in a man's natal chart + in synastry)? Thank you so much for all your work, your videos are very helpful!
Oh god I have this with my boyfriend and we since we were born only a couple of days apart, we have this aspect towards each other. We're both the venus and pluto person. Mine is with a veryyyyy slight tighter orb thus making me the pluto person but it's still crazy. I've been through that kind of intensity and it's a wholeeee ride. I am excited but frightened lol.
God you are unbelievable!!
Super helpful !!!
Thank you for sharing you insight, Jewel! ❤ would a contra-parallel between these two planets work the same? what would be the orb allowance for declinations in general?
It does but in a mild way
Please do mars oppostie pluto synastry and natal when you get a chance thanks.
What are some drama seeking placements/aspects in astrology?
Jewel, you are an amazing relationship, not only that of course, astrologer. I wander when will you surprise us with asteroids in synastry? 🙏🌹
What advice you have to successfully navigate this?
Can you please talk about saturn in 8th synastry ?
I wonder if this goes for the composite as well
I had this aspect with an ex and I also have it in my natal chart. I’ve had a few traumatizing and toxic experiences that I’m still trying to work though and I honestly don’t know if I’ll ever get over them
were you the pluto or venus person?
Wow… you described my situation! I’m the Venus person and it’s been so difficult. I think I’m on the phase where I just can’t anymore. My jupiter is conjuct his sun and his Venus is conjuct my sun so it makes leaving that much harder
WOW! Hi, I am dealing with this myself and the similar charts we have made me want to comment ! My Jupiter is conjunct his sun, my Venus and his Venus are squaring exact, my Venus is opposite his Mars and Chiron (which are in exact conjunction in Scorpio - While his Pluto and Lilith are also in conjunction). These aspects in his chart are all opposing my Venus, Rising and sun. You just can’t make this up! Today is the day I said goodbye for good and now I found this video and your comment. I feel like this is going to be a period to soothe my heart and nourish my body and mind. I feel different after this connection. Thank you 🙏 for sharing and hope you’re doing well💫👍❤️❤️
you are obsessed or the other person????
That’s what I’d like to know too…
8:00 What are the indicators in the natal chart for drama seeking?
Please do Venus trine Pluto synastry!
Jewel, what does this mean having this in our synastry chart (I’m Venus) with my moon conjunct their Pluto?
Very nice as always. But wondering if you remember you did this one 4 years ago... :)
Sometimes I do them again as an update. I’m always learning more.
I have venus (gemini 5'23) pluto (Sagittarius 5'52) opposition in my natal chart. What should i do im too jealous and can easily feel melancholic.
Omg...my ex and me we had Venus/Pluto conjunction double whammy!...there was lots is sex /drama/hard to let it go despite of incompatibility
How did you find out you have Venus opposition to Pluto. I keep reading about it but I don't know how to tell whether or not a planet is in the opposition of each other.
My Modern Astro: Sag Venus/Sag Pluto/ 7H cancer. Vedic Astro: Sag Venus/Scorp Pluto/ 7H cancer
And why would it mean death if it's in opposition to your 7H? I read for some it is.
if we both have venus in 8 house and my venus is in aries could this work??
I have Venus opposite Pluto, Venus opposite mars, moon square mars, and moon square Pluto with a crush/fling. I’m scared to see the least. I am Venus and moon in these scenarios
Thank you… is 10 degree orb too wide to be felt w this one?
No but it'll play out in a less dramatic way, and moreso over time. It'll be kinda drowned out by more energetic aspects.
Are more intense venus-pluto or moon-pluto aspects in synastry?
If I had to pick I would say Moon/Pluto but both are nothing to ignore.
I would say venus pluto is more on a body base. more sexual.
Would you say it’s the Venus person who usually gets sick of the intensity and drama first/more than the Pluto person in this aspect?
Pluto never gives up, they can ignore you and pretend but the Venus person will eventually move on and look back thinking wow that was a crazy time, Plutos still fuming/obsessed just pretending like they’re over it
Wow❤️
Does this also apply to Venus Contraparallel Pluto in Synastry?
I asked her in a live once if she looks a declinations and she said yes! So it counts 😊
@@girltalkstudio thank you for sharing her response! ♥️
How do you know who the Venus/Pluto person is? I have this aspect natally and I always have it in synastry with those in my Pluto generation
You would be the Venus.
I have venus opp his Pluto and his venus conjuncts mine. Well I have venus, mars, mercury and Saturn opp his and also falling in his 8th house…soooo. Also his venus and Jupiter conjuncts my moon and pluto. Basically lots of intensity. Never had this before.
My Venus Opp. MG Pluto (Exact)
Mars Opposite Pluto next pretty please 😍
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So weird, I don't feel any of that, I am Pluto and it is a close conjunction. First time of my life I experience this conjunction, at 42 years of age. Venus was the one making all the moves, I am the one asking him to keep his feet on the ground. No intensity, no lust, no obsession. Only that is the first person that I care to get to know in 9 years. Personal security? Other than having -maybe- a partner ... Jealousy, it will always be there for me, I am a jealous person, regardless of the aspects I have with anyone.
Also, I only hear "shit-crap-shit-crap", where is the muses part? 😂
This is a video for the opposition not the conjunction
My venus opposes most people who are in Gen Z (I'm a millenial). Every time I'm interested in a man who's in Gen Z, it's like he's immediately obsessed with me and wants to be in a relationship right away. It's too much.
His moon is in Aquarius trine my Venus in Gemini and his Pluto in Sagittarius also opposes my Venus his sun in Aries sextiles my Venus.
From my own experience in synastry with Pluto energies:
Venus opposite pluto, pluto sextile moon, mars in my 8th house (pluto house), mars trine pluto, pluto opposite mercury, jupiter opposite pluto. Pluto energy is that powerfull that any other good aspects can't balance it out. Even almighty Saturn with whom I have banch of very good aspects can't over do Pluto energies. In my case looks like that all aspects in my synastry chart was sitting quitely in the corner while the Pluto was running the show. Bad aspects of Pluto can leave a scares in your mind and heart, it's hard to forget and overcome the painfull experience.
In most cases relationship ending Venus. Pluto will be torturing Venus emotionally but will never leave her. In Venus - Pluto opposition, Pluto sees Venus as his property. This aspect only works well in the case if Venus will cut ties with all her friends and even some family members because Pluto wants Venus for himself only.
Do you think this can still work or there's hope for a happy ending..?
His pluto square my moon and Sun, my pluto opposite his mercury and venus Scorpio-Taurus axis. My moon is in his 8th house..
We love each other but we can'T be together 💔.. It is the most painful thing ever.. I tried to blocked him to detached from him but then I was hurting and obsessively thinking about him to the point of losing my mind so I unblocked him, now we manage to be friends but it's so hard coz you feel all these strong emotions towards each other but we can't be more than friends, He's my dream and happiness, my escape I'm the PLUTO in the pluto-venus opposition and I don't know until when I can still handle this.. I'm thinking to end my life because I feel empty, I'm in so much pain that I cry 😢 almost everyday 💔💔💔.. It's sick that sometimes I wish I wudn't have met him.. It feels like I'm dying of pain worst feeling ever. I hope I find the courage to get on with my life but it's tough feels like committing suicide is the Only way to end the pain permanently 💔
@@fancylyrics. venus pluto opposition never going to work. And don't be silly by thinking about end the life. You will heal and all the pain will be the past. Go out and socialise meet new people.
This is so true
I have this but I also have sun sextile Venus moon sextile moon Sun conjunct Jupiter Venus trine Neptune it's the most comfortable relationship I've ever been in.
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What if my pluto is opposing his venus and also my venus squaring his pluto? 😂 doomed? He is just my crush so far. Shall I run? Hahaha
A bit negative of a take. It can work and nicely
gonna die
You are so virgo, understand that. It reeks out of you, I wish you could keep that out of your readings. Try to be objective, hard for virgos but try.
That was more underhanded rude and negative then anything she said. lf you don’t like it watch another astrologers video 😂 the world doesn’t revolve around you ffs
Wow. Entitled much?