What the Wild 1990s Taught Me About Love and Glamour in Soviet Russia

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  • Опубликовано: 6 янв 2025

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  • @elvirabary
    @elvirabary  20 дней назад +3

    My newest video just dropped titled "Russia's Shocking Future Exposed by One Insightful Formula", it's already one of the most viewed on this channel: ruclips.net/video/2AP5yFf8SY0/видео.html
    Would love to hear your thoughts about this controversial topic!

  • @pliant75
    @pliant75 Месяц назад +7

    As a historian, I’m captivated by your channel. Thank you for the content.

  • @artvandelay7236
    @artvandelay7236 Месяц назад +13

    Your natural charm is off the charts

  • @spokanefut
    @spokanefut 10 дней назад +1

    OK, Elvira, you've got me. I subscribed, if only to eventually hear Tata's stories. I just turned 70 so I hope you do not wait too long.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  10 дней назад

      Thank you for subscribing! Tata is an extraordinary person and I'm lucky to consider her my friend. More stories from her and about her are sure to come!

  • @PatriciaGoodsonpianist
    @PatriciaGoodsonpianist 14 дней назад +1

    What a charming storyteller you are. ❤

  • @thechicanes
    @thechicanes Месяц назад +6

    Love l these pre and post soviet stories from you're point of view as an english speaking Russian expat. The youth from your era have lived through some extreme changes; and to what it seems now to have reverted back too.

  • @beltigussin81
    @beltigussin81 12 дней назад

    Hello Elvira. Can't see why you wouldn't get real love easily. Here staring at you mesmerized by your story and delivery. Keep going. The fans will come. Hello from Seattle

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  11 дней назад +1

      Thanks for your support! I think in order to receive real love, we must first be ready to give it and I'm not sure I was ready back then.

    • @beltigussin81
      @beltigussin81 11 дней назад

      @elvirabary Are you ready now? 😊. Will continue to look out for your videos. Every success and a happy new year. Mervin

  • @lyspaere
    @lyspaere 21 день назад

    I miss magazines and their captivating, motivating charms. I would LOVE to read your Prince's translated letters!

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  21 день назад +1

      Those were the good old days. Opening a freshly printed magazine was something special.

  • @Bran08Eman
    @Bran08Eman Месяц назад +4

    Enjoy the unique perspective of a Russian writer/ historian. Sharing your life stories is very relatable, you got me hooked.

  • @lobster-music
    @lobster-music 15 дней назад +1

    Monthly salary in late 80s / early 90s in Eastern Europe - around 20-30$ :)
    But, we were still all millionaires due to exchange rates.

  • @LSeverusPertinax
    @LSeverusPertinax Месяц назад +13

    Still a pretty woman.. very smart, too!

  • @mattk3926
    @mattk3926 24 дня назад

    Loving this channel! You have such a cool way to explain how people felt

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  24 дня назад +1

      Thank you and I hope you like my other videos as well! :)

  • @bradleyhalfacre7992
    @bradleyhalfacre7992 27 дней назад +1

    Charming!

  • @GerFarrell-tm2ee
    @GerFarrell-tm2ee Месяц назад +10

    "What is love? I have met it on the street, a weary, poor man who was in love, his hat was old, his coat worn, the water passed through his shoes, and the stars through his eyes"

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад +5

      So beautiful!

    • @katsanddoggies9904
      @katsanddoggies9904 Месяц назад +4

      What is love?
      Oh, baby, don't hurt me
      Don't hurt me, no more
      Oh, baby, don't hurt me
      Don't hurt me, no more

    • @GerFarrell-tm2ee
      @GerFarrell-tm2ee Месяц назад +1

      "love want to own nothing, it only wants to love"

    • @paulbreen8533
      @paulbreen8533 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@elvirabaryThat nice phrase is from Victor Hugo, Les Miserables.

  • @rickgreco9415
    @rickgreco9415 Месяц назад +3

    I stumbled upon your show a few days ago and thoroughly enjoyed it. I subscribed and look forward to watching your future shows.Thank you!

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you and welcome!

  • @GerFarrell-tm2ee
    @GerFarrell-tm2ee Месяц назад +4

    "Step softly under snow and rain, To find the place where man can pray, The way is all so very plain, That one may lose the way"

  • @AliHussain-s4d
    @AliHussain-s4d Месяц назад +1

    Love your stories and personal insights !
    Thank you !

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад

      @@AliHussain-s4d thank you!

  • @flecktrain
    @flecktrain Месяц назад

    Very sweet! As well as you looked back than... BTF*

  • @rustysspeedequipment
    @rustysspeedequipment 5 дней назад

    Bring on the Tata.

  • @egrintarg230
    @egrintarg230 28 дней назад

    I was in my 20's back in the 90's. That Vampire Slayer look really worked for you. It must have been a big trend in Cali.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  27 дней назад

      Thank you, however I don't think the Vampire Slayer phenomenon got to Russia until the 2000s. :)

    • @egrintarg230
      @egrintarg230 27 дней назад

      @@elvirabary But didn't you live in California in the late 1990's?

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  26 дней назад

      I didn't get to California until the 2000s. :)

    • @egrintarg230
      @egrintarg230 26 дней назад

      @@elvirabary When I saw the photo of you in the black dress I thought it was from the Buffy show at first glance. You could have been a stunt double for Buffy. But you lived on the other side of the planet and had no knowledge of this show. Yet you looked very similar to her. Did I miss something here?

  • @paulbreen8533
    @paulbreen8533 Месяц назад

    The 1990s was a great time to fall in love. I sure did. In those days anything seemed possible but I left her before she could break my heart too.

  • @alicefreist318
    @alicefreist318 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much for this story. Your friend/mentor sounds like a delightful woman!

  • @GerFarrell-tm2ee
    @GerFarrell-tm2ee Месяц назад +1

    Hello Elvira, my name is Ger, I'm from Ireland. I wish you well with your channel, you have a captivating voice and you really feel the emotions behind the words. You will have many subscribers.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад

      Thank you for your kind words.

  • @ricktownend9144
    @ricktownend9144 Месяц назад

    I look forward to reading your translations of Tata's stories ...

  • @Incirlikcdi
    @Incirlikcdi Месяц назад +2

    I have an appreciation of the algorithm suggesting your site. Not quite sure why you do not have more followers...will be picking up your books. Actually in the USSR the year you were born, 1975, so your perspective is interesting to me. Your salary in 1990's? My guess about $125.00 to $150.00 monthly--but I could be way off. Definitely subscribed...

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад +5

      My salary was $100, and I spent $50 to pay my rent and the rest to buy the cheapest pelmeni (dumplings) for myself and my friends, who were way poorer than me.

  • @Ralphieboy
    @Ralphieboy 9 дней назад

    I lived in Moscow in the early 90s and it was cray-zee. But I had a two-room apartment near Metro Station Tushino for $100 per month.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  9 дней назад

      Prices in USD were definitely crazy at that time in Russia. Also keep in mind that Moscow has always been the most expensive city, outside of it and perhaps St. Petersburg, the prices were half.

  • @johnbecker5213
    @johnbecker5213 Месяц назад +1

    i love your hair , looks great!!!!!!! neat story!!!!!!

  • @76629online
    @76629online Месяц назад +4

    It's too bad that most love stories these days usually come to an abrupt and ugly end. I blame social media and the rampant narcissism that it breeds. I wish I had been born 50 years sooner.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад +4

      I have another love story, with happy ending. My husband and I are married for 22 years and still in love.

    • @sweetdrreemz
      @sweetdrreemz Месяц назад +1

      @@elvirabary красивая!

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад

      @@sweetdrreemz Thank you!

  • @raycarnis9540
    @raycarnis9540 Месяц назад +1

    Regards from Scotland.

  • @vafkamat
    @vafkamat 24 дня назад

    I like ur channel

  • @anna_b11
    @anna_b11 Месяц назад +1

    Wow incredible story 😂

  • @secretagent86
    @secretagent86 Месяц назад +1

    Still very pretty. New subscriber. This is the second video of yours i am watching

  • @johngorentz6409
    @johngorentz6409 Месяц назад +1

    I'm going to guess $30/month, in U.S. equivalent dollars at the time. In the mid-late 90s a young woman postdoc researcher from Russia came to our department on some sort of Yeltsin fellowship. It was U.S. money that went to Yeltsin to pay for this sort of thing. She said she came, not completely sure if the fellowship money would even be in an account for her, Yeltsin being Yeltsin and all, and was pleased upon arrival to learn that it was. She said her father was an army colonel who was making about $30/month, so that's where I get that figure. My memory may be faulty, though. And, of course, army pay could be very different from anything else.

    • @johngorentz6409
      @johngorentz6409 Месяц назад

      Actually, the figure of $28/month sticks in my mind, but it was a long time ago so I don't quite trust my memory. I figured there had to be more to the story, , but I heard similar stories elsewhere and I didn't press for details.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад +2

      It was $100 / month. $50 was rent another $50 were spent on food and fun.

  • @markcollins730
    @markcollins730 Месяц назад +7

    You are still an incredibly beautiful woman

  • @katsanddoggies9904
    @katsanddoggies9904 Месяц назад +3

    The Scorpions-
    "Wind Of Change"
    I follow the Moskva
    Down to Gorky Park
    Listening to the wind of change
    An August summer night
    Soldiers passing by
    Listening to the wind of change
    The world is closing in
    And did you ever think?
    That we could be so close?
    Like brothers
    The future's in the air
    I can feel it everywhere
    Blowing with the wind of change
    Take me to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night
    Where the children of tomorrow dream away (dream away)
    In the wind of change
    (Mmmmmmm)
    Walking down the street
    And distant memories
    Are buried in the past forever
    I follow the Moskva
    And down to Gorky Park
    Listening to the wind of change
    Take me (take me) to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night (a glory night)
    Where the children of tomorrow share their dreams (share their dreams)
    With you and me (you and me)
    Take me (take me) to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night (a glory night)
    Where the children of tomorrow dream away (dream away)
    In the wind of change (wind of change)
    The wind of change blows straight
    Into the face of time
    Like a storm wind that will ring
    The freedom bell for peace of mind
    Let your balalaika sing
    What my guitar wants to sing (sing)
    Take me (take me) to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night (a glory night)
    Where the children of tomorrow share their dreams (share their dreams)
    With you and me (you and me)
    Take me (take me) to the magic of the moment
    On a glory night (a glory night)
    Where the children of tomorrow dream away (dream away)
    In the wind of change (wind of change)

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад +2

      Oh I love this song.

    • @katsanddoggies9904
      @katsanddoggies9904 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@elvirabary I don't know you, but listened to your story. I became fascinated. You said; Gorky, I thought of the song and it's true meaning.
      I was in Germany before the wall came down. We do have a few things in common, but in the meantime take care, and stay in touch.

  • @secretagent86
    @secretagent86 Месяц назад

    Young lawyer salary then $120 USD per month

  • @thereisnosanctuary6184
    @thereisnosanctuary6184 Месяц назад

    MMMBOP, UMM UMM-BOP, MMM-BOP, UH-MOW, MOW

  • @drawingmomentum
    @drawingmomentum Месяц назад

    Sad that u felt the need to harshly judge a man that did u no harm.

    • @elvirabary
      @elvirabary  Месяц назад +1

      He never knew about it. And I believe he didn't care.