Do THIS To Break An Unhealthy ATTACHMENT To A Man
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- Do THIS To Break An Unhealthy ATTACHMENT To A Man... An unhealthy attachment to a man can easily harm your emotional well-being. It would help if you broke any unhealthy attachment to men to regain independence and rediscover your self-worth. Take heed to this relationship advice to learn how to break an unhealthy attachment to a man you may have.
You must prioritize your well-being and recognize your worth to break an unhealthy attachment to a man. Break an unhealthy attachment, and you'll open yourself up to opportunities for emotional fulfilment in your relationships. I want you to learn how to break an unhealthy attachment so you can pave the way for healthier future relationships.
Breaking an unhealthy attachment isn't easy, as it often involves facing uncomfortable emotions that you might not want to confront. However, acknowledging the difficulty is the first step towards growth and breaking an unhealthy attachment to a man. This short relationship advice for women will teach you how to break an unhealthy attachment to a man.
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Can I remind you that being vulnerable, speaking your truth, thoughts and expressing ur emotions doesn’t always mean you have to do it to the person you broke up with or that individual that hurt you. Sometimes this means going to God with our burdens, a dear friend or opening up to a therapist. The most important decision is not just expressing yourself but who you express it too- both decisions are crucial to your wellbeing overall.
I know this from experience because I expressed myself to an ex who showed signs of emotional unavailability and didn’t care at all
Couldn't agree more
Thank you 💓
Thank you!!
Bc they won’t ever truly listen to you!!!!!! WHATS THE POINT ?????
So happy I always speak my truth. Especially to a narcissist husband who gives 0 response.
I'm so glad I got most of it flushed out ,via text as he's an avoidant attachment style man ,so he never wanted to talk on the phone. I got tired of that after a month and I called him out on the love bombing 💣 and then ghosting . He didn't like the truth I spoke but was the truth he rejected . I am using emotional intelligence now and I detected myself physically and emotionally. I can go all day without hearing from him or vice versa and moving forward 💯
Wow so I’m not alone dealin with this foolishness I’m still workin on letting the fantasy go the love bombing breadcrumbin ghostin can be soooo drainin all because you deeply love this person and want it to work so badly but I’m never desperate so I keep my distance and don’t force because I want someone of their OWN WILL NO MANIPULATING NUFFIN‼️ His LOSS✌🏽
This video gave me the strength to talk it out but still remain friends it was very difficult but necessary
This man speaks sense
Yes ladies. Even if you cannot tell him for whatever reason, you need to work on a plan to release trauma.
I utilize the tool of unsent letters to get my voice out because I know that I'm not able to do so from those unhealthy men from my past. I'm able to affirm my disconnect to the universe in order to clear my energy, so I can prepare to receive the right one who is coming
Seek Jesus, darlin. He created the universe. “ trusting the universe” is a New Age belief system, and opens the doors to spirit spouses, and all kinds of demonized men. Trust me from someone who has been there and got free and found the Lord. I will be praying for you, and for him to heal everything in your heart that made you doubt him. I know he has your best beyond even your understanding… Including your desire for marriage.
I agree with all of this .....ultimately prayer and fasting helps me see clearly what my next step should be. No more emotional decisions bc the heart is a treacherous thing who can trust it. Think it through pray through it.....then boom 💥 you are FREE
Stephan is well spoken and comfortable speaking his truth but it may not come easy for everyone. When we need to release what we suppress there is another way to release these stored suppressed stressful emotions you've been carrying around .
If you can't seem to find the words verbally then take a pen to paper and write it out to get it out.Use a laptop if you're more comfortable typing but writing works best .
Journalling is a non threatening way to release pent up frustrations or long carried resentments. After getting it out on paper you can keep it to read or throw it away, or delete from computer, either way you'll feel better just releasing this suppressed stress, like a huge weight being lifted off your shoulders ~ Blessings
Being able to stand in the truth of who you are and express it in a healthy way only comes from truly knowing yourself.
Every good person deserves a partner who knows themselves enough to communicate like a champion, then you'll both be winning.
Is this part of a longer video? What is the recommendation: write it down and burn it or go back and speak your truth then move forward? Or chalk it up and be wiser next time?
That's exactly what I was wondering
That’s a good question
I need the whole video
I ordered his book on healing after heartbreak
I get it today
Straight truth this is exactly my experience this week- sharing my truth required courage but I felt sooo much better feel like I can focus so much better now
3 days now 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 😢
💯 living it right now and have anxiety over it everyday.
Im glad I saw this. I gave in and texted him. I was chastizing myself for it. Secretly, I feel better. I hope he reads it, hears the message. I can move on. I said Ive never stopped hurting. As of yesturday, I started shifting the last 3 kilos to get my dream figure back. Put away distractions to focus on what God wants me to do. I atart the new career on Thursday. (As much as I appreciate what he did for me, it was ALWAYS up to me. Thats why his efforts fell down) I never needed a white knight, I needed a friend.
Sounds like you may have pushed away a good.
@@Sunlightsam24 I still dont know if he was or wasnt. He had his red flags. Felt like all that attention was too much. Pretty intense. That scares me coz of experiences. I miss friendship more than anything else. That was powerful.
I said to him that I dont need a white knight, I want my best friend, I want pride pushed aside to acknowledge that what happened hurt..(poop hit the fan because he waited 3 weeks before telling me he was going away, doesnt know when he will be back. I said to pick this up again when he gets back/if Im still single or we do long distance.. He wanted his cake both ways.. Stuck to my boundaries. Its just gotten worse and worse since then.) Until then, I am driving around, living in my van, using my own resources to better myself. The number of men that want to rescue me or have an unusual interest in my van is a curiousity to me.
I just dont need to attach myself to anyone who is confused. It does my head in.
@@Sunlightsam24 Its not all black and white...
@@Sunlightsam24 I am not happy to be lead on for weeks thinking that this is going somewhere before he drops the bomb that he's leaving. I cried for weeks and weeks. The least he could do was apologize for not taking into consideration how much that hurt. I cant stop him, I dont want to stop him.. But if a man cant have empathy for his partner over his actions. Thats a red flag.. I'm holding my standards.
As women, I don’t think we express our truths in the most effective way, or talk in a complain mode or often criticize him about who he is as a person and man. Men will often say that they want to be accepted for who they are, they want to be respected (huge) and they want to be with their best friend. That’s why men will often not respond. I know I’ve had to learn effective communication with men, practice it and before I talk to him, I ask myself ‘is this who he is as a person?’
Girl… Lot of what you’re saying makes sense, but there are some men that you can apply the absolute best and healthiest communication styles with, and they still won’t respond or somehow turn it into an offense, no matter how supportive and feminine you are in your loving approach… Some of this is a spiritual battle for men who are battling a narcissistic spirit of leviathan. At this point, it’s best to just pray and give it to God and get your own deliverance from that situation.
@@godfirst3709 Yes, you’re right, there are men out there that aren’t interested in her enough to want to change so he doesn’t lose her. So what do women do? More repeat talking, talking, talking. If he’s not the right fit for her, if it’s too difficult, then she needs to stop talking/convincing/ threatening-LEAVE! (And honor her words!) Men respect actions, not endless words. Communication as I’m referring to isn’t about being sweet or soft, it’s about being kind and effective. Telling a man how he doesnt make her happy, he’s a piece of crap and doesnt act like she demands he acts is not effective and that’s what comments on relationship content are filled with.
Where’s the entire version of this?!?
Thank you this helps me in finishing the processing of what what holding me back! My missing piece💯✨👌🙏
100% True. Or having unanswered questions. I just had to call my ex and get some things out. I finally felt ready to move on after that.
So true I have to get things off my chest to feel better so they know where am at at all times and respect my wishes or thoughts
Wish this clip didn’t end there, we need context on your full advice. Understanding that we need to express ourselves fully is one thing, but to whom and how is what we really need to hear.
I've been trying to find the full video 🥴
I have to say this only goes for weak women…if a man don’t want to be with you or just wont act right after you’ve told him the problem, then there’s nothing you can say that is gonna change him or the situation, so no need to pour your heart out just let it go ❤ in time you will detach
A woman is only weak, when they don't own their ish...
Right. Imagine when l try to express myself ..he says l was "quarreling and complaining " when all was doing was expressing myself..
🙌🏽 This was me
@taniatroutmandaley3338 MOST annoying thing EVER to me, well a major one....Like we speak our mind & we're like the abw to some of our black men! Fr dude!
Plus in my case, he's the one that started the mess in the 1st place 9 outta 10 times...SMDH
@@tammyowen2812 right and did something to hurt my feelings and illtreat me but l don't suppose to talk about it because he said "sorry". He was emotional abusive 😢 and a mean abusive drunk. When he had to much to drink...his demons come out and he became mean and abusive. I am so glad l left him and he is on block. Sometimes l feel like l need therapy . All l know God sees l was kind, loving and ❤ caring. I left because l am no carpet and he threatened to hit me. I blocked him forever....
I would like to hear this message in a whole message
That is when you are dealing with a narcissist individual because it is a device the devil uses to keep you in bondage and derail from you purpose! Remember we don't wrestle against flesh and blood. I have lived this, but now i am free, thank God
Same here and now I am free indeed
Flesh and blood*
@@jasminebrown8651 yea, flesh and blood. Thanks girl
You are so wise!
This was confirmation of me standing up for myself today.
Interesting advice! Walked away more than once for my self care & preservation. No contact from either person! God guided me & showed me what was needed to be learned! Happy now & so in Love! Thank you, God❤🙏
Sometimes speaking the truth to a toxic person gives them ammo to aim at you later…
Exactly!! he would twist what I said, and use it against me! Such a master manipulator blame shifter, gas, lighter, who lacked empathy and compassion, and rarely took accountability for things, he said, and did…
I have gone no contact, and although I wanted to read him, the riot act, I choose not to exert any more energy on him, and give all the care concern, encouragement, support, and love to myself, and begin my healing process!
Some say, put it in a letter and burn it up or flush it, but do something to get your feelings out on paper or in an email that does not have to be sent… He was not listening during the relationship and I doubt it very seriously if he will Listen now… So I am unburden and unbothered and life goes on❤️🥇🥇
Communicated yet, NOT COMPREHENDED
Agreed completely..💯🙏💜
Get it all out on paper or the computer and shred/delete ❤
Very True Stephan! 😊
Truth, Stephan. Thank you.
True! Once I flushed out the truth and my needs were not met, I ended the relationship peacefully . I was able to let go (detach) without any regrets
This is so true! I found that when you put your feelings in writing and sharing with your partner, it can be extremely helpful before you decide to leave and help with the healing journey❤
How do I get everything out of my chest. I need to speak out the truth
I got it out last night. He was an adult child taking no accountability ever.
So what do we do to address this completely?
I released my truth and had a tower moment. Hurt like hell that night. Next day, I'm doing much better.
Very true. I gave it to my ex and left, so all that’s left is to heal 😊
Thank you 💯❤️
Nothing but the Truth!💯🔥
Absolutely the truth ,Absolutely
The Truth Always needs to get out one way or the other
Good advice. Thank you sir
Emotionally... that's me he want talk to me that's all I want to do is get everything off my chest and I think he know it because the way he ended things
Mmmm….I like the blue
That blue goes well with your colour... cute!
i take respondsibility for my own hurt feelings. I underestimated the depths of his depravity.
Months? Try years... I'm such a non-confrontational person. I walked away but never got over him. 💔
He always had an internal struggle that had nothing to do with me. months and years later he would stop by to stare at me and make lobrow conversation. some people never grow up, maybe expand sideways, but thats all.
Wow thats kinda TRUTH
noted .
Complicated seemingly.
I'm experiencing this issue. I met this man three weeks ago. I've seen him once since our initial meeting. At the end of the first date, he wanted to kiss me. I told him no. I lied and told him that I noticed he had a cough that made me uncomfortable to kiss him. Second date it was completely confirmed it's his breath, due to dental issues. Aside from that his personality is a bit intense. I want to tell him so bad it's his BREATH that's the problem. (I don't want to be hurtful). I'm not going to initiate contact with him. Two of my friends say I should tell him about his breath. He mentioned he always falls off with women after three weeks, now I know why. (I really want to tell him, but I'm thinking I'll just let it fade out!
Maybe someone has told him and he thinks he's corrected the problem. May I suggest letting him know that his breath is a problem and still fade away.
Lordy knows I can’t keep it to myself. Especially if I like them. Sometimes they still don’t listen. Because I had one friend tell me it shouldn’t stop me from kissing him. I said the devil is lie. I don’t do bad smells good. However if they really do want you I believe they’ll go to the dentist or brush their teeth thoroughly.
Message Amen
Agree!!!
I love this shirt
That's True!
this is so true.
Confronting a man or anybody with their failures will never change them. If they disrespected you just keep away from them. If they don't know how to respect people by the time they're grown adults they aren't worth your time & attention. They're children, not men.
True
I'm impressed about the Godly character displayed in this movie, more of it should be shown in movies 🥰
You areso right
Truth
What would you recommend?
Do men do this & handle things the same way when a woman abruptly end things with them & ignore the man?
Ok❤
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I want to know how?
So what’s the answer? We know we haven’t gotten it off our chests, bc if we tried to tell them, and we’ve tried and tried over and over again, they will NEVER CARE ENOUGH TO LISTEN
christall, I" m wondering if it's the same man. He'll text 3hrs back to back & cannot pick- up the phone & call. IHe's all over on social media vibing from DALLAS TX & thankfully I'm in a different STATE. 😅
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Once you detach emotionally, you detach mentally. To attempt this with a man that thinks he knows it all, doesn't work. Sorry, this method isn't for everybody!
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I need help I still think 15year he waisted my time years
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
This is me :(
Did he make the video yet ?
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Well Ithink that's true but my situation is different. Perhaps
I might have this kind of
Experience. Not knowing by everyone that l was an enemy
Of God before now that l was called by God l need to OBEY
My Shepherd who lead me to a greener pasture and a quite
water. I am a Child Of God..
An openness to a relationship is good but knowing a man who is shooting two birds in one bullet
It seems to be okay in this situation in a religious point
of view. God Love HUMANITY
B U T P U N I S H E S the
EVIL DOERS.
Thanks and God Bless
STEPHAN. Bless this CHANNEL
We can find closure in Jesus and Therapy. Leave that man alone.
Im not going to say what I did 😂
So what’s wrong when you express the truth and then u keep going back I swear this is making me me just wanna die why can’t God just wake me up and this night mare will be over I was with my husband for 19 years and outta all the cheating he did I decided to get him back. An cheated on him it was the worst thing I’ve ever did I didn’t even no about the n word everyone’s using then 3 years later I meet another one 9 years fell into another relationship with one I think I have n tendencies as well I want to go to a mental hospital an curl up in a corner