"Yeah, but penguins don't deliver cakes to different birthday parties, so it's still UnNaTuRaL!!1!" - some Republican who wears glasses and takes hair loss supplements, probably.
@@francookie9353”its not natural” -multiple animals not only experiencing homosexuality but also just, adopting infants EVEN TYRANNOSAURUS WAS THOUGHT TO ADOPT BABY TREXES
That sounds like a really cute book, my dream book when I was a kid. I loved blankets and books with baked goods, and things I could compare with another. For example 2 cupcakes to compare which one I would rather have, I when I was a kid I would've really loved it. I also wanna buy one now, because I think it's so inspirational what you do, Paul. ❤❤❤
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I really hope that there is someone, maybe another bookseller who will see this video, and give your charming looking book a chance. Better things will come to you.
I am very sorry this happened to you. The book actually looks good. I don't believe some of the books being pushed today are great for children but this one looks great and I'm so sorry. Keep pushing ahead, don't give up
Im going to order your book online, then take it to local book stores and ask them to consider buying some. NZ will love yout book. You are awesome and an inspiration to many with different abilities. Have a Pretty Woman moment when you are selling internstionally and go tell the book store what a mistake they made! Lovin ya work xxxx ❤❤❤. From 2 penguins and their children that love you!
I'm so sorry about this! I wish I could get a copy of your book, it sounds adorable! One tip though, once you find a publisher/bookstore who helps make your book a success, never ask Benedict Cumberbatch to narrate it! (for those who don't know what I mean, Google "benedict cumberbatch graham norton penguins.") Best of luck to you Sir!
Male penguins literally adopt babies. It's so messed up that this is still happening. This is passive aggressively telling people that families that are different are wrong. This issue is really important to me because I have two dads, without whom I wouldn't be here, and people are still saying it's wrong to have a family like mine, just because it goes against what they would do. My family loves each other, and when people do this it actually hurts. I don't usually get affected by people doing this, but when it's just a cute children's book that teaches kids about what different families look like it makes me really upset. It feels like people are trying to minimize my, and other families love, just because we don't look the same.
I'd make them SAY IT! "No, actually. I do not understand. Please, in as specific language as possible, explain to me what it is about my book that makes it something you cannot have in your store." Spell it out for me and for yourself. Why?
I completely agree. Ask them to verbalize the problem with their order and exactly how it goes against their policies. Be assertive - don't let them hide their bigotry in verbiage to allow themselves to feel better or superior. You are supported, you are talented, you are loved - just the way you are.
@user-ms1nu6sf3f then when they explain and it has nothing to do with homophobia yall will just say they're lying yall don't know what the reason they returned the books is but assume it's gotta be bigotry lmao
@@ashtonhamilton2218 We knew your sort aren't the brightest crayons in the box, but if you honestly believe this isn't to do with homophobia, well... must be interesting to be so dense.
They just don’t want the books, it isn’t a huge deal so don’t make it one, like I personally wouldn’t want that book, and that’s just my opinion. They could have one too and they don’t have to tell you. Simple as that!
Just seeing this now. Feeling the heartbreak and mourning with you. I love my calendar and every month it brings me such joy. You are sharing an incredible message that we don’t have to be perfect to be worthy. 💜💜💜
Hi 👋 Sarah it's Maryanne from the UK i really need to have one of books 📚 to haw do i get one if I'm in the UK God bless I'm a religious girl myself to I'm a Roman Catholic XXX ❤
I remember a quote today someone said in a comment section saying something along the lines of “if you cut off a man’s tongue, it doesn’t prove him wrong, it proves you fear what he has to say.”
I just went to your website and bought a signed copy of your first book, and also pre-ordered a signed copy of your newest book that these jerks returned. Your artwork is BEAUTIFUL and so sweet, and it fills me with joy to look at it. I don't even have kids (shout out to the childless cat ladies!), but I adore your artwork and your message. I will be proud to own and cherish my signed copies!!!
@tishasparks8237 I googled his name and book title and purchased directly from his website. Buying them directly from him instead of places like Amazon is the best way to support him. He gets more money that way. 😀
Childless cat lady here......I never had children and have no small ones in my family. But family is Family. And cake is cake. It's all delicious! Does NOT matter who's on it, or whether you have 2 grooms or 2 brides. I DO NOT care. I do care about your tears. I am so sorry for what's going on with this book banning. It's bullsh!t!!! Oh, so much BS!!!!! And dangerous. People, wake up, we really have to stop this, NOW. I read a lot of now banned books growing up and some, were school reading. It didn't scar me. It does however, scare me to death. Especially when an ex told me he'd burned a copy of the Quoran. He claims to be Christian. Who would burn someone else's Bible?? I don't know HOW I could have misread him so completely. Don't you DARE send a refund to them!!!! Let them know if they can't "read" your policies on refunds then maybe they shouldn't be selling books! I wish you all the best things. Take care. You are a kind soul. Don't let this world eat you up.❤
Sadly, people & companies like hers don't care or want to know the science or the truth about anything. They are riddled with hate & ignorance that makes them blind to reality. It's sad and pathetic. He will rise out of this situation better & wealthier! We step on hate to make a positive outcome during the worst of times to turn them into the best of times. They won't win!
It's also not the first book where two male penguins adopt a baby penguin. If I'm not mistaken, a previous book with that being part of the storyline is called "And Tango makes three" if I'm not mistaken. I learned about it because Levar Burton heartily recommended it. Edited the name of the baby penguin. As several others pointed out, the kid was a dance, not a retirement home game.
@karinehrlich7642 Karin you were given the perfect name. So in Dracula do all the readers identify as bats? In Twilight do all the readers and moviegoers identify as wolves & vampires? In The Little Mermaid do the viewers identify as Mermaids or other sea life? In Beauty and the Beast, I'm sure your partner identifies you as a beast, but most would not. God, I hope you don't read The Cat in the Hat! See how stupid you sound Karin. Since the beginning of time, stories have used interspecies as a way to make people understand things that they might not be smart or old enough to understand. Obviously, you are both of these things. Old and ignorant.
The refund policy on your website LITERALLY says, "No returns or exchanges. All sales are final." If they can't read that, that's their problem. I hope you stuck to your own policy and sent them back with an additional charge for return-return-shipping!
As a conservative Christian, I am so upset and heartbroken for you. Two male penguins at a New York zoo becoming a life-long couple is well-known. Their love story was factored into and featured in a Will and Grace episode! Animals not only adopt their own species, they adopt other species. Hello folks, watch: National Geographic's Unlikely Animal Friends. Your storybook looks charming and sounds lovely. While a refund "would be greatly appreciated," please stick to your NO REFUNDS policy. Your hard work and livelihood should not suffer ignorant fools. I wish you all the best! 🌺
@K9_MAMA as a christian you should be agreeing with God and not your feeling! The book has an agenda to normalize same sex families which is still against God's word!
I respect your freedom to live whatever lifestyle you want… I simply ask that you respect my religious beliefs. I wish you all nothing but the best. No matter what your lifestyle is… Jesus loves you.
My daughter just listened to your book, she loved it! She was giggling when you read really slowly. And thought it was so cute when they got a baby in the end.
I agree. Banning books, especially books for children, worries me. Books are supposed to widen your horizons and make you feel safe. If books that make people feel seen are banned, then what happens next?
@@moomoocow73 It's still adults that review a children's book before they sell it. And that's the original problem there. I saw a short text once where a child and her mother sat in a train near two men who were kissing each other. The woman told both men to stop because of what she should tell her child they were doing. One of them then asked the child what the kid thinks, why they were kissing each other snd the child responded "Because you love each other". Children are so tolerant, once they are grown up it's another story...
I wouldn’t ban this book, but the idea that book bans are entirely bad is also complicated because graphic material is regularly being found in our libraries nationwide. The argument that kids can “find it on their phones” doesn’t invalidate the issue. I’m sorry for Paul though, this book sounds great.
I can re-return the books for you against a bigot-fee of 50% plus an additional a-loving-family-can-exist-of-other-combo’s-than-mummy/daddy of usd 99,99.
On my way to place an order for two right now- one for the kids I work with at my local CASA and one for my own inner child. I grew up in foster care and I would have given anything to have a family, no matter what it looked like, and I know you will have illustrated the unique beauty of each individual family's love in a wonderful way. I know an order for two books isn't much compared to one hundred, but I hope you know your books are making a difference, one reader at a time. ♥️
Him just explaining the book made fall in love with it. I can’t believe they did that, it breaks my heart because I feel like so many people would love that book.
His book wasn’t banned. The store decided they didn’t want to sell these products. Everybody in these comments loves freedom of choice until it’s a decision you don’t agree with.
Love, if your website says "No returns or exchanges. All sales are final." don't refund them. It's not a bad person move, it's literally enforcing your own policies, they're there to protect you. If they didn't check, then that's their problem. Answer with "I'm sorry but all sales are non-refundable, as it says in my website, I can reship them to you, as they're your property but if you're not interested in it I would be happy to donate them for you" then donate them to libraries.
While this is a good idea, sometimes it’s not about the money/profit. An author wants to write a story/narrative/lesson that reaches a target audience. Whether with or without the money, his story is still not being shared with who he wants to read it, and for an artist that can be devastating.
@@RyuTama42 i see that. it still will be devastating. sadly i think nothing will take that feeling away short term. but i still think it would be the best thing to do in this situation, regardless of his feelings. (wow that even hurt to type). if he is refunding, one could argue he doesn’t take buisness seriously, since it clearly states it on the website. i like the donation to libraries because then more people would see it, which could be positive for sales, but also for paul.
No because that's super unprofessional. As a bookstore they should be mindful of what they order before they order it. 'opps didn't know what I was ordering' is a piss-poor excuse from a business. I can only imagine your grief, I wish you success
I guess you right to publish materials on subjects you enjoy trumps a private organization to carry and sell whatever they want to. Freedom of speech works both ways, but you don't care, assuming this is real.
@@indianoutlaw5702He never said anything of the sort. He's just upset they said they wanted his book and then when they found out the content they didn't want it, there aren't really many reasons why that would be the case and most of them are unpleasant. Also freedom of speech just means the government can't impede what you say it's got nothing to do with anything else, people use it wrongly all the time.
OMG, Your book looks absolutely precious with a wonderful message about love and diverse families and how everyone's reality or "normal" looks so incredibly different. Who wouldn't want to spread that truth to help children understand this!? I'm so sorry, as I know this hurts, but as someone else already commented, I think it's a badge of honor to have someone ban your book. You're an amazing human do NOT forget that. This book is SO wholesome. Anyone who is threatened by that is a ridiculous person.
Your book sounds so lovely with a wholesome message. I hate how vile people can be turning beauty into hate. I’m a therapist working with children and this book would help some of my clients feel more accepted based on their family. Please, don’t give up promoting your book!
Thankyou. Yeah, as the cousin of a young girl who my aunts adopted. I don't think people understand just how important for such kids it is to get that extra support. Things like seeing family models like hers in a loving, caring environment, where people talk about them as if it's a given that they are a family.
PAUL DONT CRY THIS BOOKSTORE DOESNT DESERVE YOUR AMAZING BOOK!!! Your book is amazing and totally good to read and ain’t no single human on this earth can say otherwise.
I feel sorry that you intelligence is sooo low, that you believe this video. This never happened and it’s a A.I. message he was listening to. This video was contrived to fool people like you into buying more of his books out of anger at the “book store”
Why would you be responsible for any refund at all? They ordered them, you sent them. That's the end of it. Don't give those bigots ANY of their money back. If they don't want what the ordered, that's on THEM to figure things out.
@@kaylamessier8560I assume that he would get a lot of negative comebacks so it’s easier to just refund. I’m glad they at least paid for shipping. I would charge them for any miscellaneous charges u incurred by that transaction.
Im sorry to hear about that man im a grown adult with no kids and when i get my finances in order i wouldnt mind buying your whole collection just to have them keep up the good work that u do and one day you might find your books in a store like books a million or barnes and noble
I'm an avid reader. I'm also single and childless. And neither of those would ever prevent me from purchasing and telling others starting with my Christian family and friends. It sounds like a beautiful story. It will be such a value to children to give them understanding that everyone isn't the same, don't grow up the same way and that is key to learning how to love others. Thank you for sharing this. I can imagine the pain you felt because I've always wanted to be a writer. I think after surviving cancer, no longer a hospice nurse, cancer free and hearing your story, I may just give it a try... don't you dare give up❣️🙏🏾🙋🏾♀️✌🏾
I think the last 5 words of your comment apply to you, too 😉 With such awesome life experience, I bet your book will be fabulous! Please keep us updated - I'd love to read it and I'm sure that others feel the same way 💖👍
If your website says no refunds and that all sales are final, you don't owe them a refund OR books they returned of their own volition. Now, they're just out of money and books. Sucks to be them. Leave them to their penniless ignorance.
Wear that badge with pride ❤. I tell my son that anytime he hears about a book being banned, he needs to read that book. I can imagine how much this hurts though and I know this doesn’t take away the very understandable pain but there are millions of people that care enough to feel hurt with you. You matter 💝
Exactly.. more people will be interested in all the fuss.. but seriously, banning a CHILDREN"S book???? they've already started banning "The Diary of Anne Frank".
I think Paul needs to raise a stink, make their names public, This insanity needs to end. Also, you may not need to issue a refund, depending on the time frame. Don't make it easy for them. This is bigger than you. They are depriving people of your book because of their hangups.
@@SunBear69420 Fair enough. Perhaps this gentleman can give the name of the bookstore, so that we can all make sure that we all exercise our right never to enter the shop again. Would that be ok?
@@SunBear69420 It is their right to not sell it...sure. It is also the customer's right to know the views of that business so we can choose whether or not we want to purchase from them. I personally would not. Also my right.
@@SunBear69420 do you also think businesses should get to ban black people from shopping? How about banning women? There are people who believe blacks and women are 2nd class citizens, but based on your opinion, the businesses should get to ban those groups. No one is forcing a customer to buy that book, but like all books, the owners do not always know if a book will sell or not. Banning an entire category of books doesnt even give any of those book a chance to sell. It's censorship and descriminatory.
Ya it literally talks about two people or penguins who are male loving each other. If it not graphic then why the frick is it an issue. I'm sorry that people don't want others learning about different people
@YW2324 easy. You've had a lot of schools forcing lgbtq on kids. Hence it has ruined it for those who aren't doing this and simply doing something more innocent. His own community ruined it for him.
That sounds like an in-house problem to me. You and "They" had an agreement written and/or verbal, you delivered the product, they paid, transaction fulfilled, the end. You should see a lawyer before returning the money paid. You should also include if you have a lawsuit, any and all fees.
Depends. If the book is carried by the store under some sort of consignment agreement, which is pretty common for these sorts of stuff, the store could definitely have the right to return them, depending on the contract.
@@yvrelna not worth a lawsuit. Seems like an employee mistake. If he doesn't refund the employee may have to cover the cost or lose their job. If the store has a policy then it has a policy. If it's in a conservative area no one would buy and probably cause outrage. Maybe it's even a Christian or religous based book store....they'd have to trash the about 200 books. Just refund and hope it reaches his target audiance.
@@lozdogsimo1782there a lot of families like that, so what’s the problem? Even male penguins in nature sometimes take care of an egg if the female penguin abandons it so it’s literally true
I’m so sorry that this happened to you, truly unacceptable. I’m writing from australia and there are two male penguins at Sydney Sea Life Aquarium who have chosen each other as mating partners for the past few years and they have since adopted an egg and raised their own chick. I can’t seem to buy your book in Australia, however will reach out to the aquarium to see if this would be something they would be interested in stocking in their gift shop.
I'm very sorry. However as a small business owner myself you could go two routes. 1. All orders are final, no refund! You can ship them back for additional shipping fee. If this is your current policy stick to it! 2. Restocking fee!! The restocking fee needs to cover all your costs.
How shameful and embarrassing for them to stand on the wrong side of history. Edit: I didn’t realize people were arguing under my comment so let me be clear; book bans are harmful for everyone. Maybe today they’re banning content you don’t like and that’s why you’re okay with it, but with all of these laws being passed that are purposefully vague in order to cast the widest net on what content is and isn’t acceptable it is only a matter of time before your approved content is banned too.
❤😢perfectly said.. Shame on them. The world keeps turing ...keeps changing.. Always some out there that are fully brain dead. WANT TO KNOW the COMPANY PLEASE
Or it's a business decision. They know what kinds of books sell in their area and which books struggle to move off the shelves. Sucks, but calm down before we got another one of those riled up group of internet clowns trying to tear down a business over nothing.
I agree with her. That is "unfortunate". It's also unfortunate that whoever was "unaware of the store's policy" was also unaware of your return policy. Do not sell yourself short, which is what you would be doing if you wavered from your return policy. And don't forget when you write to them with your "unfortunate news", Don't forget to remind them to "Be well".
Brilliant! You, My Friend, are a problem solver. I like to think we can fight narrow-mindedness one battle at a time. It just seems we’ve lost so much ground since that Orange Narcissist came on the scene, with his fear mongering and hate.
I was told by the best English teacher I had that you know your book is great when it gets banned. That means it stirs controversy, still gets attention and it has the potential to change the world. Your book looks super cute and I love the story. Your artwork is also just beautiful! Im rooting for you and im proud of you ❤
Sorry this happened to you. Mr. Maple is so sweet to console you, Paul. I honestly think the business should have paid for the books and donated them if they don't want to have them in their store. ❤
Absolutely! I am so upset that books I taught to my students have now been banned. To Kill a Mockingbird and Huckleberry Finn being a couple. Controversial, great for starting wonderful discussions in my mixed racial classes. My students learned history, empathy, morals, values and literary terms such as irony. Children nowadays do not question 2 mommies or 2 daddies. They would love and relate to your adorable book. ❤
Hmm… don’t want to be a pessimist but I have a feeling this was done purposely to sell the book… which incidentally has sold out. Hear me out… I work in publishing and no one straight up orders 100 books if they don’t know how the book will even sell. It’s just not done. Secondly, aren’t the books only available on presale at the moment? I could be wrong on this but I don’t think I’m wrong about my other deduction skills… unfortunately. But victimising homophobia absolutely sells… everyone loves a good son story! Reality TV Talent Show’s proved this.
As a children’s librarian, I’m so upset on your behalf. It’s so important for children to have mirrors and windows in their books. There are a lot of children that are going to miss out with this book at this particular bookstore. Keep on going. There are tons that love you and your books. Me being one of them. You, Matthew, and Mr. Maple bring joy to me every single time I see you post. ❤
Not scandalous per say but because it is controversial right now the store could potentially face some legal trouble and some trouble from the public if they sold it unfortunately
@@Hillside_East I’m not sure what type of legal trouble there could be but I also don’t know where the store is or what the laws are in that country. Backlash from the public I can understand.
It’s stupid that we have gotten to the point where we point at anything we don’t agree with even if it happens in nature, and we throw hate at it. Male penguins do adopt eggs, people in stories are allowed to be dark skinned even if people hate it, And not every dinner with people who wear robes has anything to do with Christianity Jesus why are the people that are supposed to be the best in society end up being the most angry and hateful!
@@Hillside_Eastactually no they can't of you knew anything you'd know stores don't HAVE to sale anything just like bakery's don't HAVE to service everyone so 🤷
Paul, my daughter is adopted and blind. She has been asking so many questions about our family. I can’t wait to read your book to her. Thanks for representing all types of families and sharing the many aspects of life. ❤
Its homophobia. There are probably hundreds of stories about male-female people having kids and marriage and love. But the minutes 2 male PENGUINS adopt a child - "OMG OUR KIDS CANNOT SEE THIS, BLASPHEMY!" Its stupid shit engraved into peoples minds by their parents or teachers. These people are just horrible.
I'm an adult woman. I don't have children, none are currently in the making and there aren't really any kids in my social environment that I'm close with. But this book looks and sounds so stinking cute. I really fucking want this book now!
Not really. Some books that were banned are so boring. They typically get banned for stuff like 'vulgarity'. Whatever that means in the time period it was banned in.
one of my schools banned Harry Potter. I don't know a single student that didn't pick up that series right after the ban (unless they already read it). The best way to get kids to read something I think is to ban it
Honestly I wouldn’t refund them… maybe I’m just petty, but it’s not a secret what the book is about. Your kickstarter literally says “A whimsical picture book celebrating LGBTQ families,” they bought a product without doing enough research that’s on them.
Yeah, I’d send them back to them, and cease communication. Unless the product isn’t what was ordered, it’s not his responsibility at all. Up to the buyer if they want to use them as originally intended, send them somewhere that would want them, or throw them in the trash, if they want to be wasteful.
...it looks way better for him to just give the refund. Assuming the books come back in the condition they were sent in. The right people get ahold of this and he won't have those 100 books anymore. I'm sure there are a number of LGBT+ owner books stores and such. Seriously. Let this show up on the news like that restaurant story did.
WTF is happening in the US... You're moving backwards regarding human rights? As a German I'm specially worried, I guess. We have some historical experience with this type of ideology, unfortunately. Artists that don't fit in being censored. Books with different stories and opinions being banned (and burned). That's part of something bigger. I'm sorry to repeat myself, but that really worries me. Please stay safe. Your books and your artwork is so sweet. love your channel, it's charming PLUS educating. Surely there are vendors in less religious/conservative places that appreciate your work?
Those who don't study history are cursed to repeat it. The most concerning part is if the US was to fall into a fascist regime there is no one who could stop it, luckily and also unluckily the country isn't a monolith and I'm convinced it would sooner become 50 separate countries than one giant bigoted one.
Yeah, I'm worried too what's happening over there. Reminds me of our dark history and creaps me out. This book looks so lovely and the topic is very important, because family comes in many different ways.
I am so sorry. That book should not be banned. Families look different all across the world and every single one should have representation in a children’s book. I really am so sorry. As soon as I as can afford to buy a few I will and I’ll add them into the mini libraries we have all over town!
@@jrhelios8443The representation isn’t for you, it’s for the kids who get taunted and mocked daily just because they have two dads, or two moms, or just one dad or mom. It’s for the lids who feel like they’re less of a person just because their family doesn’t look the same as another. It’s so they can feel like they aren’t the only ones going through the struggle of being different, so they feel they have a place they belong even if they can’t see it yet. Pull your head out of your ass and stop thinking everything has to be for everyone. Just because you’re fine doesn’t mean everyone is.
It wasn't banned, that bookshop couldn't carry it. While it was their fault for not doing their research, they don't have to carry it in their shop if they don't wish. That's their right, just the same as any other book. And whilst this is a sad moment for an author, a shop can decide what they will/won't sell. They are at fault for not researching and for trying to return the books because as someone in the comments has pointed out the site says no refunds or returns.
@@jrhelios8443 Unreal lack of empathy from you. Straight people are everywhere so of course you wouldn’t feel the need to be represented since you already are
It sucks now. But honestly, getting one of your books banned is a lot of authors dreams because it means you made people think too hard and it scared them. You have so much power, Paul. And so much love from us ❤
This actually killed me. Its a lighthearted adorable book, and it was BANNED?! Its an amazing inclusive book and filled with amazing art. This is so messed up you don't deserve this at all. ❤
It wasn't banned. Stop using that word if you don't know what it means. China bans books. Iran and North Korea ban books. He is free to write whatever he wants. People are free to purchase his works. Retailers are free to carry his books or not. Communities are free to decide which materials meet their standards. Nothing is banned. Yay, freedom.
@kspen6110 because it is accurate to reality (male penguins actually do 'adopt' eggs, although it's closer to stealing), and ppl still can't fathom that male male relationships exist in nature as well.
Keep going. Keep fucking going. Write them, draw them. Your books are gorgeous, you are gorgeous, this message is important and needed. I'm so sorry. Your book is more than charming.
I'm so sorry Paul, your book has a beautiful story that many children need to hear, to help make this world a better, more inclusive & accepting place. So sad that there are still people in this world with such narrow minded attitudes. Keep doing what you do, you're very much appreciated. Love and luck to you ❤
Well in my personal opinion kids shouldn’t be reading it. To parents it’s sweet and cute and it is! But the little tiny eggs that are hidden are a no go and that’s probably why the store didn’t like the book
The defenition of a phobia: an extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something. So no, it doesnt only mean fear. It also means something that you resent or strongly dislike (aversion). Homophobia is a resent towards people who are homosexual. Where as arachnophobia (the fear of spiders) is a fear. The word phobia technically has two meanings
I like to know that too. What book store! I would never go into that book store. I love ❤️ his cute book 📚 stories. Our children learn how to love each other through books. So sorry that happened.
I feel two ways about this scenario - Businesses have the right to choose what they do or do not sell. However, it seems this book store must be run like a 3 ring circus to not realize until AFTER they ordered 100 books that it isn't a book they wish to sell 🙄 Did they do absolutely no research on what the book was, who the author was, what the story was about before ordering?! But, I also feel like a wide range of books should be available and let the customer, or if it's a child, their parent, decide what books they want or feel are appropriate to buy. It's not just about the story in the book. Paul is an amazing story himself! Not only could someone reading his book learn from the story he tells, but he's also a shining example of perseverance that many people can learn from! ❤
I agree. They should have been a lot more careful before ordering the books. I get why some stores might not want to carry a book like this. It is, after all, a book meant for children, and we still live in a world where a lot of parents don’t want their young kids exposed to “alternative lifestyles” at a young age. I could imagine a book store getting a lot of negative publicity for carrying something like that, especially in certain areas of the country. Some positive, too, of course, but the potential for negative press is probably bigger. But yes, this is ultimately the store’s mistake. They should have just accepted responsibility for their actions.
@@papasmurf9146 it doesn’t matter. Anyone a company hires is a representative of their company. It’s the company’s responsibility to make sure they are correctly trained and empowered. A court would not likely side with the company in something like this, because an official representative of the company made the purchase.
@@tarabooartarmy3654 OP was indicating that they didn't understand how this could happen, and that is what I was responding to. This can happen because someone overstepped their authority (as stated in the video). And, no. If I hire a custodian to empty the trashcans, that does not given them the authority to sign a multi-million dollar merger. If they call you up and pretend they have that authority, that is fraud on the employees part. Frankly, given that it was only 100 books (and I assume the wholesale cost was less than $1K), as the book store owner I would have eaten the cost and fired the employee. I would then make sure that there were sufficient safeguards in place to prevent that from happening again.
I was in a cafe a few months back and some girls where talking about books being banned all over and an elderly lady started to cry. The girls didnt notice but I did and so I asked her why she was crying. All she said was "I remember the last time one person was banning books and what he did with the books he didnt want people to read". It took me a minute before I realized....she was talking about the nazis burning books. History repeats itself and humans never learn.
@@Ashfold_Eberescheespecially someone who is old enough to actually REMEMBER what happened in the 1930s/1940s. I doubt they would just be hanging out in a cafe lol
My daughter loves this book. Her grandmother found it for her and I’m so happy it’s part of our library. We love having books like this to show our girls that there are many different kinds of families out there, that we live in a diverse world, and not everyone is going to have the same journey in creating their family as someone else. Currently I’ve been working as a surrogate and this book has helped create a launching point for conversations that we are helping another family. Keep at it and don’t get discouraged. You are doing a wonderful job. We look forward to seeing more of your work. The amount of time and effort you both put into this art is not going unseen. Much love ❤❤❤❤❤
My family has a saying, "There is no faster way to get someone to read a book than to ban it." We have literature in our blood and are proud advocates of reading banned books. Just to name a few: Maus, To Kill a Mockingbird, 1984, Frankenstein, The Diary of Anne Frank. You are in good company. It might not be much consolation, but I wanted you to know it won't be a total loss.
Crazy religious nuts said that Frankenstein had to be banned because only God can create life... The issue with that is they have obviously never actually read the book because that is literally the entire point of the story. It just proves that they lack any sense of awareness outside of their own sad little bubbles and don't actually bother to read the things they are trying to get banned. @@gariden
That's a very good point! Also, I wouldn't even have heard of it if there wasn't this video about it, and there wouldn't be a video if it hadn't been banned in the first place. Not a lost cause at all, just a pretty sad situation...
What's extra stupid is that it's technically correct in the very aspect they're probably banning it for. Male penguins really do adopt eggs. Unless I'm mistaken.
Don’t refund them. They want to be bigots? They should pay for it. I can't believe we're still dealing with this. My heart goes out to you, Paul. But this is all on them.
Sadly the policies means they have the right to return the books and a refund given. Blame the woke culture that people are pushing back and it's hurting those who don't deserve it.
@@ciaramc29 have you been watching what the woke culture has done? Maps aka nonces, pd files, chomos is that what you call acceptable on any level? When those who want validation for their feelings demand attention from society, but won't give an ounce of respect - I'm talking about grown adults using spray bottles to "retrain" their parents into accepting obnoxious, entitled behaviour. Or the men who threaten violence against anyone who doesn't allow them to be in women's spaces. You don't see female prisoners who identify as male asking for the men's prisons, only men who identify as women ask for women's prisons. Men who fail at winning in their sports want to compete against women because they know they can win. It's taking away hard won women places, if people can't see that problem then they are part of the problem. When women and children are attacked in women only spaces, grown men showing everything towards innocent eyes. When children have no concept of the consequences from forced transition surgery. If you're an adult and you have gone through counselling, the whole nine yards and make an informed decision I'll back you to the hilt. But if people want to play at being a woman and cause offence so they can get their rocks off expect the kick back from parents and adults who don't stand for that nonsense from any quarter of society. When you have Curly Chuck, Blair White, Jeffrey Starr and others calling out the woke culture I listen to what they have to say.
@@JaniceLHz the one that they have put in place. I would love Paul to put the policy up so we can understand why they decided they needed this policy. No book should be banned so society can discuss why they agree or disagree with the contents of it.
They also don’t deserve a refund. Honestly in any other situation I don’t think a bookstore would expect a refund. They are the ones who made the purchase it’s not Paul’s fault they didn’t look at their “policies” which is bullshit anyway.
There are so many other companies that charge you a fee for the restocking and cancellation fee that I think this is something he really needs to do! Big Squishy Hugs from a Big Squishy Grandma in the US.
Do you consider Muslim and Christians bigoted? Are they not allowed to have their beliefs? I wish we could try and be truly tolerant and inclusive from all sides. 🕊️🩷
As a fairly Conservative Muslim I'd totally buy this book for my toddler?? In the wild penguins of the same gender DO take on board rejected chicks and raise them as there own. Nature is totally appropriate to teach to kids. And families come in all different types. I'm sorry this is happening.
A male penguin will take a rejected egg not a same sex penguin couple. Just more bs to confuse children. Go ask your mosque elders if it’s ok for you to hand this book out to people in your mosque. The Muslim religion is clear on same sex relations.
Not the point of the book and everyone knows it. It's to start a conversation about sexuality with children. Period. Pretending this is a tragedy is ridiculous. No religion, no politics, no sexuality. Let kids be kids.
You did it!! You have authored A BANNED BOOK That is literally every author's goal, and you have achieved that so freaking early in your writing career. And that may not have been YOUR GOAL, but this is more incredible than you could ever imagine. Just like that, you have now joined the ranks of authors of a banned book. Do you realized that Catcher in the Rye was banned? And To Kill a Mockingbird? Banned. This is so much cooler than you might think.
In a way, it is an accolade that Paul is so forward thinking and his story is groundbreaking. Some are afraid of change and new concepts. They miss out in so much in life. ❤❤❤We love your books Paul!🎉 🐧 🐧
Agreed. I feel sorry for Paul, of course it hurts now. But now he is a banned book author. It is a badge of honor to represent a repressed minority. Oh, and charge a 30% restocking fee.
@@upnflames I know right. Why does it only take one place, whether it be a school or a bookstore, all it takes to be considerate banned from the shelves
No book is really banned, and if for some reason, an establishment removes it from their shelves, that only gets the literature more attention and creates desirability for the title. But yeah, there's really no such thing as a banned book. Even that one cookbook that we are not gonna talk about, is sitting in someone's home right now. And they ain't creating chaos with it
Well... One, who thinks, that there are many types of a familly, deffinetelly are the mentally blind ones and one, who believes in this fairytale and propagates these types of fairytales, is the one, who is working on blinding others.
@@anoniukas your comment makes no sense. My father was raised in a house by his mother and 3 of her sisters because they had to flee my grandfather's abuse. But there is only "one type" of family right. Grow up.
@@ericas5255 Your case is the case of an incomete family. It has nothing to do with the type of group living, which is not a family objectively, and which the author of this video is propagating as a falimy in his book.
@@anoniukasThere are undoubtedly lots of people typing out reasonable responses to your super ignorant comments then erasing it bc it's pointless to argue with someone with such cognitive limitations. youre welcome.
Do NOT!!! Let this rejection break you. You have an amazing moral that needs to be shared with the world and it will be shared, i have faith and hope and you are role model. Thankyou for YOU!
Ordering for my baby for one of his first birthday gifts. We raise accepting children in this home. Thank you for creating a beautiful story of acceptance and love. I look forward to having it for him. 💕
Wtf is this? Is the voice supposed to be a voicemail? It sounds like AI. This really feels like you just trying to promote your book and creating rage bait.
Congratulations! That's how you know what you wrote was important and the world NEEDED it to be written. You are doing amazing things! Keep going! (And don't refund their money, they should have done their due diligence before they ordered. Donate the books to schools and thank the returners for their donation!)
Came here to say this. You are now part of an exclusive club whose other members include Toni Morrison, Mark Twain, Ray Bradbury, Alex Gino, Maia Kobabe, and Laurie Halse Anderson. It means you are saying important things. If this one place doesn't want your book, it's their loss, and more books for someone else.
my initial thought was “no refunds”! but when he’s the one doing all of this himself, sometimes it’s best to just make everyone “whole” - where they were at prior to the situation- and just cut all ties cleaning - there’s no debt anywhere, give them back their toxic money, and with it, all the negative energy they brought into your life. think of it as a cleansing ritual. and maybe all of us should think about the poor employee that made the order, and what they may have experienced when their bigot boss confronted them.
Banned books are the best books. So many hugs. I loved your book. It was very sweet and clever. Your reading me cry at work, so I had to share it with my coworkers so I wasn't the only one crying.
@@lionessofel3203How can you love everyone but refuse to normalize something that is both natural in not just humans but in other animal species and has been around for thousands of years? Do you notice the bigotry and hypocrisy?
@@officialmai no, its not natural and the only ones who are bigots are those getting angry over people disagreeing with this perversion being pushed into theirs and their children's faces. Just because an animal does it doesn't make it right for those who are made in the image of God. It's an un-natural union. No children come from it. It's not our creators order. He didn't create them like this either. I have seen people delivered of homosexuality. Love doesn't compromise conviction. I can love you but disagree with you. Love also warns someone when they're on a train track and the train is coming.
@@kris-p-4365lol nuclear family mfs, like i have zero issue with a male female home but when you want to show another family dynamic you sperg out. Republicans used to be the blue collar worker that went to work and didn't care what other people.are doing but they just became progressives but they want a reverse to 1960.
Fucking hell... I'm so sick of this... If this is considered inappropriate to kids just... I'm so sorry man this is ridiculous and honestly uncanny ...
@DW11111 What policy is it though? The books doesn't seems to have any problem, it seems like a normal children's book for me. The only thing different with this book with other children's book is that this book contain homo. If that's not the "policy" they are talking about, idk what is
Congrats on joining the ranks of the Banned! It absolutely sucks, but as someone working in the book industry, I can promise you that there are those of us working tirelessly to get books like yours into the hands of the public. For every banned book pulled from the shelf, there will be dozens more distributed.
so trueee ...all the best books are banned like hitler's book , they do belong in the same category i guess ... nice of you to congratulate him on that
Total BS to ban your book! I think these book bans are ridiculous. As parent, I am the one that should monitor what books my child is reading. The government is not their parents and have no rights to determine what I or my child should read. I am a straight single female but my kids (and neices) are raised to understand how diverse the world is. It is their choice to be who they want to be. Unfortunately I live in Florida which has over-reached on the book bans. Please write more books! They are beautifully done. I am saving up enough to buy them all. Best wishes and lots of love! ❤️
Why are you talking about the government? This book isn't banned. You can purchase it. In this particular case, the woman, or whatever establishment she works for didn't want the books. It doesn't mean their banned.
That's the problem to begin with, just opposite to your opinion. If every individual with their own opinions should decide what is available for other people there won't be any books available.
The fact it about fact how penguins does marry to one penguin an because they look very similar and hard to tell who male or female. And they soulmate for life. So if male and male penguins mate, their stick for life. And they cherish. And most of the time the couple saves tone of unwanted or lost egg and little baby.
My child realised that the 'feeling different' wasn't so rare because of a book! we have a beautiful relationship where he can discuss anything but this was about a quiet discovery before he probably knew how to articulate his feelings. Thank you for being part of this...
I love that Maple knew you were crying and came to check on you and provide support. I’m so sorry that some people are so short and narrow minded. I live in Florida and have run into a lot of books that are now banned. Praying for more understanding.
But male penguins do adopt eggs, this is accurate. Male penguins take in the lost, orphaned, and abandoned.
The book bannings are about ideology, they don't care about accuracy.
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Not sure how those people didn't understand that but it shows how uneducated they are about nature.
"Yeah, but penguins don't deliver cakes to different birthday parties, so it's still UnNaTuRaL!!1!"
- some Republican who wears glasses and takes hair loss supplements, probably.
@@francookie9353”its not natural”
-multiple animals not only experiencing homosexuality but also just, adopting infants
EVEN TYRANNOSAURUS WAS THOUGHT TO ADOPT BABY TREXES
That sounds like a really cute book, my dream book when I was a kid. I loved blankets and books with baked goods, and things I could compare with another. For example 2 cupcakes to compare which one I would rather have, I when I was a kid I would've really loved it. I also wanna buy one now, because I think it's so inspirational what you do, Paul. ❤❤❤
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I really hope that there is someone, maybe another bookseller who will see this video, and give your charming looking book a chance. Better things will come to you.
I am very sorry this happened to you. The book actually looks good. I don't believe some of the books being pushed today are great for children but this one looks great and I'm so sorry. Keep pushing ahead, don't give up
Im going to order your book online, then take it to local book stores and ask them to consider buying some. NZ will love yout book. You are awesome and an inspiration to many with different abilities. Have a Pretty Woman moment when you are selling internstionally and go tell the book store what a mistake they made! Lovin ya work xxxx ❤❤❤. From 2 penguins and their children that love you!
I'm so sorry about this! I wish I could get a copy of your book, it sounds adorable! One tip though, once you find a publisher/bookstore who helps make your book a success, never ask Benedict Cumberbatch to narrate it! (for those who don't know what I mean, Google "benedict cumberbatch graham norton penguins.") Best of luck to you Sir!
Male penguins literally adopt babies. It's so messed up that this is still happening. This is passive aggressively telling people that families that are different are wrong. This issue is really important to me because I have two dads, without whom I wouldn't be here, and people are still saying it's wrong to have a family like mine, just because it goes against what they would do. My family loves each other, and when people do this it actually hurts. I don't usually get affected by people doing this, but when it's just a cute children's book that teaches kids about what different families look like it makes me really upset. It feels like people are trying to minimize my, and other families love, just because we don't look the same.
I'd make them SAY IT! "No, actually. I do not understand. Please, in as specific language as possible, explain to me what it is about my book that makes it something you cannot have in your store." Spell it out for me and for yourself. Why?
Yes...make them read policy to you.
I completely agree. Ask them to verbalize the problem with their order and exactly how it goes against their policies. Be assertive - don't let them hide their bigotry in verbiage to allow themselves to feel better or superior. You are supported, you are talented, you are loved - just the way you are.
@user-ms1nu6sf3f then when they explain and it has nothing to do with homophobia yall will just say they're lying yall don't know what the reason they returned the books is but assume it's gotta be bigotry lmao
@@ashtonhamilton2218 We knew your sort aren't the brightest crayons in the box, but if you honestly believe this isn't to do with homophobia, well... must be interesting to be so dense.
They just don’t want the books, it isn’t a huge deal so don’t make it one, like I personally wouldn’t want that book, and that’s just my opinion. They could have one too and they don’t have to tell you. Simple as that!
Stuff like this makes me question the future of humanity. My heart goes out to you.
Just seeing this now. Feeling the heartbreak and mourning with you. I love my calendar and every month it brings me such joy.
You are sharing an incredible message that we don’t have to be perfect to be worthy. 💜💜💜
I love this^
I am a psychologist and I just ordered a copy of each book for my waiting room. Hang in there and know your audience is out here. Love, Dr. Sarah
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Hi 👋 Sarah it's Maryanne from the UK i really need to have one of books 📚 to haw do i get one if I'm in the UK God bless I'm a religious girl myself to I'm a Roman Catholic XXX ❤
The fact that this delusion has made it to the psychologists and doctors is scary!!!
@@crazylo0716thanks for commenting and boosting so i could see this sweet video and buy a book 🩷
@@crazylo0716huh
I remember a quote today someone said in a comment section saying something along the lines of “if you cut off a man’s tongue, it doesn’t prove him wrong, it proves you fear what he has to say.”
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Yes, Wayne Dyer said "When you judge another person, you don't define them. Rather you define yourself as someone who needs to judge.".
Or maybe they just don't support their views... it doesn't always have to be an extreme response.
Thanks!
beautiful quote, thank you for sharing it ❤
I just went to your website and bought a signed copy of your first book, and also pre-ordered a signed copy of your newest book that these jerks returned. Your artwork is BEAUTIFUL and so sweet, and it fills me with joy to look at it. I don't even have kids (shout out to the childless cat ladies!), but I adore your artwork and your message. I will be proud to own and cherish my signed copies!!!
How do I get his book?
Gives me hope, all these comments restore my faith in humanity.
@tishasparks8237 I googled his name and book title and purchased directly from his website. Buying them directly from him instead of places like Amazon is the best way to support him. He gets more money that way. 😀
Childless cat lady here......I never had children and have no small ones in my family. But family is Family. And cake is cake. It's all delicious! Does NOT matter who's on it, or whether you have 2 grooms or 2 brides. I DO NOT care.
I do care about your tears. I am so sorry for what's going on with this book banning. It's bullsh!t!!! Oh, so much BS!!!!!
And dangerous. People, wake up, we really have to stop this, NOW. I read a lot of now banned books growing up and some, were school reading. It didn't scar me. It does however, scare me to death. Especially when an ex told me he'd burned a copy of the Quoran. He claims to be Christian. Who would burn someone else's Bible?? I don't know HOW I could have misread him so completely.
Don't you DARE send a refund to them!!!!
Let them know if they can't "read" your policies on refunds then maybe they shouldn't be selling books! I wish you all the best things. Take care. You are a kind soul. Don't let this world eat you up.❤
What is his website? Where do I find it? I need to buy this book ASAP!
It's even accurate to nature. Male penguins literally adopt eggs irl.
Sadly, people & companies like hers don't care or want to know the science or the truth about anything. They are riddled with hate & ignorance that makes them blind to reality. It's sad and pathetic. He will rise out of this situation better & wealthier! We step on hate to make a positive outcome during the worst of times to turn them into the best of times. They won't win!
It's also not the first book where two male penguins adopt a baby penguin. If I'm not mistaken, a previous book with that being part of the storyline is called "And Tango makes three" if I'm not mistaken. I learned about it because Levar Burton heartily recommended it.
Edited the name of the baby penguin. As several others pointed out, the kid was a dance, not a retirement home game.
Oh, so this guy is identifying as a penguin?
@karinehrlich7642 Karin you were given the perfect name. So in Dracula do all the readers identify as bats? In Twilight do all the readers and moviegoers identify as wolves & vampires? In The Little Mermaid do the viewers identify as Mermaids or other sea life? In Beauty and the Beast, I'm sure your partner identifies you as a beast, but most would not. God, I hope you don't read The Cat in the Hat! See how stupid you sound Karin. Since the beginning of time, stories have used interspecies as a way to make people understand things that they might not be smart or old enough to understand. Obviously, you are both of these things. Old and ignorant.
@@karinehrlich7642who hurt you?
The refund policy on your website LITERALLY says, "No returns or exchanges. All sales are final."
If they can't read that, that's their problem.
I hope you stuck to your own policy and sent them back with an additional charge for return-return-shipping!
At a bare minimum, a restocking fee, of say 25%.
50% at least. Otherwise stick to your returns policy and don't refund at all.
As a conservative Christian, I am so upset and heartbroken for you.
Two male penguins at a New York zoo becoming a life-long couple is well-known. Their love story was factored into and featured in a Will and Grace episode!
Animals not only adopt their own species, they adopt other species. Hello folks, watch: National Geographic's Unlikely Animal Friends.
Your storybook looks charming and sounds lovely.
While a refund "would be greatly appreciated," please stick to your NO REFUNDS policy. Your hard work and livelihood should not suffer ignorant fools.
I wish you all the best! 🌺
@K9_MAMA as a christian you should be agreeing with God and not your feeling! The book has an agenda to normalize same sex families which is still against God's word!
@@K9_MAMAyou remind me a bit of my roommate. Keep being amazing❤️
Homophobia is so messed up 😢 I’m so sorry this happened to your beautiful book!
That’s why they didn’t want the book? ThTsstupid. Penquins actually adopts eggs. And make penquinns are couples it’s nature.
@@allisondewse5531yes, they said the book is against their "policy". The person who ordered it accidentally overlooked their absurd policy.
It's not fxcking honophobia if someone doesn't agree with what your pushing.
I respect your freedom to live whatever lifestyle you want… I simply ask that you respect my religious beliefs.
I wish you all nothing but the best. No matter what your lifestyle is… Jesus loves you.
Yes homophobia is totally messed up. Your book looks beautiful! How else can you sell them?
My daughter just listened to your book, she loved it! She was giggling when you read really slowly. And thought it was so cute when they got a baby in the end.
So sorry this happened. This book banning thing scares the hell out of me. Send your book to Pink, she is super supportive about banned books.
I agree. Banning books, especially books for children, worries me. Books are supposed to widen your horizons and make you feel safe. If books that make people feel seen are banned, then what happens next?
@@moomoocow73 It's still adults that review a children's book before they sell it. And that's the original problem there. I saw a short text once where a child and her mother sat in a train near two men who were kissing each other. The woman told both men to stop because of what she should tell her child they were doing. One of them then asked the child what the kid thinks, why they were kissing each other snd the child responded "Because you love each other". Children are so tolerant, once they are grown up it's another story...
I wouldn’t ban this book, but the idea that book bans are entirely bad is also complicated because graphic material is regularly being found in our libraries nationwide. The argument that kids can “find it on their phones” doesn’t invalidate the issue. I’m sorry for Paul though, this book sounds great.
And Dolly!
@@firstnamenlastname...be aware of the media your children consume and be prepared to explain things to them.
“Sorry Tanya, all sales are final. If you would like me to ship the books back to you, it will be an additional shipping fee.”
Bingo. His own website says "No returns or exchanges. All sales are final.", if they wanna be bigots they can pay for it.
Yeah!!!
Yes!!! This!
I can re-return the books for you against a bigot-fee of 50% plus an additional a-loving-family-can-exist-of-other-combo’s-than-mummy/daddy of usd 99,99.
Totally agree. No refund should be given. Time for me to go see if I can buy this book
I'm so sorry, Paul. It's their loss because this book is so heartwarming and sweet.
It's also a loss for all the people in that book store's community who might never see it now
Shame on them, it is there loss! God bless and be well ❤
but it's for a niche group, not normal, mainstream society and not really for children
@@noneofyourbusiness0818 penguins don't exist everywhere. We are not penguins. Does that mean our children should not learn about them?
@@marissacolvin5969 lol that is not even a remotely equitable question.
On my way to place an order for two right now- one for the kids I work with at my local CASA and one for my own inner child. I grew up in foster care and I would have given anything to have a family, no matter what it looked like, and I know you will have illustrated the unique beauty of each individual family's love in a wonderful way.
I know an order for two books isn't much compared to one hundred, but I hope you know your books are making a difference, one reader at a time. ♥️
Him just explaining the book made fall in love with it. I can’t believe they did that, it breaks my heart because I feel like so many people would love that book.
It does look cute❤
My little sister and my best friend love penguins
His book wasn’t banned. The store decided they didn’t want to sell these products. Everybody in these comments loves freedom of choice until it’s a decision you don’t agree with.
@@jamesrobinson2138wrong
yes that is true but it is a mortal. That's why they denied his books and asked for a full refund.
Love, if your website says "No returns or exchanges. All sales are final." don't refund them. It's not a bad person move, it's literally enforcing your own policies, they're there to protect you. If they didn't check, then that's their problem. Answer with "I'm sorry but all sales are non-refundable, as it says in my website, I can reship them to you, as they're your property but if you're not interested in it I would be happy to donate them for you" then donate them to libraries.
that’s a great idea!
While this is a good idea, sometimes it’s not about the money/profit. An author wants to write a story/narrative/lesson that reaches a target audience. Whether with or without the money, his story is still not being shared with who he wants to read it, and for an artist that can be devastating.
Brilliant! And the library donation angle? Ensures his message gets out!
@@RyuTama42Read the WHOLE post: Getting the books out to Libraries covers getting the message out!
@@RyuTama42 i see that. it still will be devastating. sadly i think nothing will take that feeling away short term.
but i still think it would be the best thing to do in this situation, regardless of his feelings. (wow that even hurt to type). if he is refunding, one could argue he doesn’t take buisness seriously, since it clearly states it on the website. i like the donation to libraries because then more people would see it, which could be positive for sales, but also for paul.
No because that's super unprofessional. As a bookstore they should be mindful of what they order before they order it. 'opps didn't know what I was ordering' is a piss-poor excuse from a business.
I can only imagine your grief, I wish you success
Wow that store apparently doesn't like learning about different people. If it's not graphic then it shouldn't be a problem 😞
@@YW2324learning about different people is not the issue bud, try again
@@slaayerr1 what is the issue then?
I guess you right to publish materials on subjects you enjoy trumps a private organization to carry and sell whatever they want to. Freedom of speech works both ways, but you don't care, assuming this is real.
@@indianoutlaw5702He never said anything of the sort. He's just upset they said they wanted his book and then when they found out the content they didn't want it, there aren't really many reasons why that would be the case and most of them are unpleasant. Also freedom of speech just means the government can't impede what you say it's got nothing to do with anything else, people use it wrongly all the time.
OMG, Your book looks absolutely precious with a wonderful message about love and diverse families and how everyone's reality or "normal" looks so incredibly different. Who wouldn't want to spread that truth to help children understand this!? I'm so sorry, as I know this hurts, but as someone else already commented, I think it's a badge of honor to have someone ban your book. You're an amazing human do NOT forget that. This book is SO wholesome. Anyone who is threatened by that is a ridiculous person.
Your book sounds so lovely with a wholesome message. I hate how vile people can be turning beauty into hate.
I’m a therapist working with children and this book would help some of my clients feel more accepted based on their family. Please, don’t give up promoting your book!
Thankyou. Yeah, as the cousin of a young girl who my aunts adopted.
I don't think people understand just how important for such kids it is to get that extra support.
Things like seeing family models like hers in a loving, caring environment, where people talk about them as if it's a given that they are a family.
PAUL DONT CRY THIS BOOKSTORE DOESNT DESERVE YOUR AMAZING BOOK!!! Your book is amazing and totally good to read and ain’t no single human on this earth can say otherwise.
I feel sorry that you intelligence is sooo low, that you believe this video. This never happened and it’s a A.I. message he was listening to. This video was contrived to fool people like you into buying more of his books out of anger at the “book store”
Mr. Maple immediately rushing over to comfort you broke my heart over how sweet it was and I'm guessing he wasn't even on duty.
Why would you be responsible for any refund at all? They ordered them, you sent them. That's the end of it. Don't give those bigots ANY of their money back. If they don't want what the ordered, that's on THEM to figure things out.
@@kaylamessier8560I assume that he would get a lot of negative comebacks so it’s easier to just refund.
I’m glad they at least paid for shipping.
I would charge them for any miscellaneous charges u incurred by that transaction.
Im sorry to hear about that man im a grown adult with no kids and when i get my finances in order i wouldnt mind buying your whole collection just to have them keep up the good work that u do and one day you might find your books in a store like books a million or barnes and noble
I'm an avid reader. I'm also single and childless. And neither of those would ever prevent me from purchasing and telling others starting with my Christian family and friends. It sounds like a beautiful story. It will be such a value to children to give them understanding that everyone isn't the same, don't grow up the same way and that is key to learning how to love others. Thank you for sharing this. I can imagine the pain you felt because I've always wanted to be a writer. I think after surviving cancer, no longer a hospice nurse, cancer free and hearing your story, I may just give it a try... don't you dare give up❣️🙏🏾🙋🏾♀️✌🏾
Amen!!
But as Christians we have to say it's wrong. Man and man romantic is a sin. We love the man but hate the sin, if we love him we should say the truth.
You should definitely try being a writer! Also congrats for beating Cancer 🎉
I think the last 5 words of your comment apply to you, too 😉 With such awesome life experience, I bet your book will be fabulous! Please keep us updated - I'd love to read it and I'm sure that others feel the same way 💖👍
Would love to hear your courageous story and as a Christian I agree with everything so beautifully said❤😊
If your website says no refunds and that all sales are final, you don't owe them a refund OR books they returned of their own volition. Now, they're just out of money and books. Sucks to be them. Leave them to their penniless ignorance.
I wouldn't refund them.
Every sales contract has a cooling off period by law. Policies and disclaimers don’t override statutory law I’m afraid.
Please don't refund them if you don't have to. Wish you much success ❤
@@mswetra2610 He already did.
@@LilySaintSinOf course he did, he’s so lovely. I think it’s better. His work is not in the hands of such ugly.
Forget that store!! Please don't cry!! The premise is beautiful and will be a lovely addition to many people's shelves. Don't give up!
Cry for those ignorant people, Don't give them a refund. We will move thru this time of hate and foolishness. My
Wear that badge with pride ❤. I tell my son that anytime he hears about a book being banned, he needs to read that book.
I can imagine how much this hurts though and I know this doesn’t take away the very understandable pain but there are millions of people that care enough to feel hurt with you. You matter 💝
I love this rule of thumb you've given your son. So true! ❤
Writing a book that gets banned means you have written something meaningful and incredibly important! Banned books are indeed the best ones.
Or it just means that he should stop trying to indoctrinate children with unnatural sexual pervertedness.
Not buying a book is NOT banning it. He's free to sell his book to others.
Exactly.. more people will be interested in all the fuss.. but seriously, banning a CHILDREN"S book???? they've already started banning "The Diary of Anne Frank".
@@creativewriter3887 Not buying a book is NOT banning it. He's free to sell his book to others.
I will keep an eye out for librarys that would like it
Bummer. Small minded people are abundant. Sorry, Paul.
I think Paul needs to raise a stink, make their names public, This insanity needs to end. Also, you may not need to issue a refund, depending on the time frame. Don't make it easy for them. This is bigger than you. They are depriving people of your book because of their hangups.
@@SunBear69420 Fair enough. Perhaps this gentleman can give the name of the bookstore, so that we can all make sure that we all exercise our right never to enter the shop again. Would that be ok?
@@SunBear69420 It is their right to not sell it...sure. It is also the customer's right to know the views of that business so we can choose whether or not we want to purchase from them. I personally would not. Also my right.
@@SunBear69420yes this doxxing thing is out of hand.
@@SunBear69420 do you also think businesses should get to ban black people from shopping? How about banning women? There are people who believe blacks and women are 2nd class citizens, but based on your opinion, the businesses should get to ban those groups.
No one is forcing a customer to buy that book, but like all books, the owners do not always know if a book will sell or not. Banning an entire category of books doesnt even give any of those book a chance to sell. It's censorship and descriminatory.
It honestly broke my heart to see them break your heart.
Wow! Absolutely nothing wrong with the book from the way you described it. So sorry. Don’t give up
Ya it literally talks about two people or penguins who are male loving each other. If it not graphic then why the frick is it an issue. I'm sorry that people don't want others learning about different people
@YW2324 easy. You've had a lot of schools forcing lgbtq on kids. Hence it has ruined it for those who aren't doing this and simply doing something more innocent. His own community ruined it for him.
@@slaayerr1 ya it's definitely unfortunate 😔
@@slaayerr1 yes I understand that. Now. That's why it's mind blowing to me that they won't give him and his book a chance
To see him cry is so heartbreaking 😢
That sounds like an in-house problem to me. You and "They" had an agreement written and/or verbal, you delivered the product, they paid, transaction fulfilled, the end. You should see a lawyer before returning the money paid. You should also include if you have a lawsuit, any and all fees.
Stop assuming
Depends. If the book is carried by the store
under some sort of consignment agreement, which is pretty common for these sorts of stuff, the store could definitely have the right to return them, depending on the contract.
Is two hundred worth getting a lawyer in the mix 200 is about the hourly rate for a lawyer consultation
@@misterswan3131 Economically, no. I would though. Happy to waste some savings just to stick it to the idiots running that store.
@@yvrelna not worth a lawsuit. Seems like an employee mistake. If he doesn't refund the employee may have to cover the cost or lose their job. If the store has a policy then it has a policy. If it's in a conservative area no one would buy and probably cause outrage. Maybe it's even a Christian or religous based book store....they'd have to trash the about 200 books. Just refund and hope it reaches his target audiance.
That is sooo sad ......Male Penguins actually do adopt eggs in Nature why would they Ban this...
Cos it's 2 male penguins. If it was a single father penguin ot would be fine. Or a male and female penguin.
Oh they don't want to hear that.
@@lozdogsimo1782there a lot of families like that, so what’s the problem? Even male penguins in nature sometimes take care of an egg if the female penguin abandons it so it’s literally true
I mean, I remember hearing that a school somewhere banned books about Seahorses because the male carries and cares for the eggs until they hatch
@@missing_names8001oh no! Wait until they find out about clown fish. Poor Nemo is gonna get banned and never be found. 😭
It's a child's book that includes love and equality. What more could a bookstore want?!
Exposed to what? Regular people depicted as animals? @@lifeofsemya7976
@@lifeofsemya7976so it's not a problem if it's a dad and a mother but if there two dad or two mother now it's a problem
@@NecroZombi This!!!
@@lifeofsemya7976exposed to what?
@@ace97101Gay people existing apparently.
I’m so sorry that this happened to you, truly unacceptable. I’m writing from australia and there are two male penguins at Sydney Sea Life Aquarium who have chosen each other as mating partners for the past few years and they have since adopted an egg and raised their own chick. I can’t seem to buy your book in Australia, however will reach out to the aquarium to see if this would be something they would be interested in stocking in their gift shop.
I'm very sorry.
However as a small business owner myself you could go two routes.
1. All orders are final, no refund!
You can ship them back for additional shipping fee.
If this is your current policy stick to it!
2. Restocking fee!! The restocking fee needs to cover all your costs.
Restocking fee definitely, or offer only a partial refund.
This is the only way to do business. People find every reason to return things now.
Goomers are bad.
Womp womp someone doesnt know what real grooming means or does
@@Bellsbear64or how it's spelt
How shameful and embarrassing for them to stand on the wrong side of history.
Edit: I didn’t realize people were arguing under my comment so let me be clear; book bans are harmful for everyone. Maybe today they’re banning content you don’t like and that’s why you’re okay with it, but with all of these laws being passed that are purposefully vague in order to cast the widest net on what content is and isn’t acceptable it is only a matter of time before your approved content is banned too.
❤😢perfectly said..
Shame on them.
The world keeps turing ...keeps changing..
Always some out there that are fully brain dead.
WANT TO KNOW the COMPANY PLEASE
How? What store was it?
Fr tho@@giannidescalzo2101
Or it's a business decision. They know what kinds of books sell in their area and which books struggle to move off the shelves. Sucks, but calm down before we got another one of those riled up group of internet clowns trying to tear down a business over nothing.
@@captain4318 actions have consequences. Interesting how certain types just love that for some people but not for others.
Maple making sure you're okay is the sweetest.
Right? I'm in tears too.
I must be going blind too. When did Maple enter?
@@Korn_Popsright after he says he was really excited because it’s an authors dream
I am so very sorry Paul😢this is devastating I feel badly for you.
I agree with her. That is "unfortunate".
It's also unfortunate that whoever was "unaware of the store's policy" was also unaware of your return policy. Do not sell yourself short, which is what you would be doing if you wavered from your return policy. And don't forget when you write to them with your "unfortunate news", Don't forget to remind them to "Be well".
Amen. I whole heartedly agree.
This comment a million times over.
Yeah no refunds for bigots.
I agree. Assess "restocking" and "convenience" charges. Their inattention to details that offend them is not your emergency.
Brilliant! You, My Friend, are a problem solver. I like to think we can fight narrow-mindedness one battle at a time. It just seems we’ve lost so much ground since that Orange Narcissist came on the scene, with his fear mongering and hate.
Paul, if anything this is a sign of how needed your books are in the world. Keep shining your bright light and love everywhere!
I was told by the best English teacher I had that you know your book is great when it gets banned. That means it stirs controversy, still gets attention and it has the potential to change the world.
Your book looks super cute and I love the story. Your artwork is also just beautiful! Im rooting for you and im proud of you ❤
Sorry this happened to you. Mr. Maple is so sweet to console you, Paul. I honestly think the business should have paid for the books and donated them if they don't want to have them in their store. ❤
Oh, I see you have a "no refund" policy posted. So...no refund.
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. I can think of a million ways to get a book banned.
Absolutely! I am so upset that books I taught to my students have now been banned. To Kill a Mockingbird and Huckleberry Finn being a couple. Controversial, great for starting wonderful discussions in my mixed racial classes. My students learned history, empathy, morals, values and literary terms such as irony. Children nowadays do not question 2 mommies or 2 daddies. They would love and relate to your adorable book. ❤
Hmm… don’t want to be a pessimist but I have a feeling this was done purposely to sell the book… which incidentally has sold out.
Hear me out… I work in publishing and no one straight up orders 100 books if they don’t know how the book will even sell. It’s just not done. Secondly, aren’t the books only available on presale at the moment? I could be wrong on this but I don’t think I’m wrong about my other deduction skills… unfortunately. But victimising homophobia absolutely sells… everyone loves a good son story! Reality TV Talent Show’s proved this.
As someone who has a child in a non-traditional family, thank you for writing this book! I’ll purchase a copy for us to enjoy together
As a children’s librarian, I’m so upset on your behalf. It’s so important for children to have mirrors and windows in their books. There are a lot of children that are going to miss out with this book at this particular bookstore. Keep on going. There are tons that love you and your books. Me being one of them. You, Matthew, and Mr. Maple bring joy to me every single time I see you post. ❤
"Mirrors and windows" is such a wonderful way to phrase it. Thank you for doing very important work, now more than ever.
@@TheGuardingDark Thank you for the kind words! 😊 I will definitely keep up the good fight.
YES! LOUDER! THE MOST WONDERFUL WORDS I NEEDED TO READ TODAY!
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Mirrors and windows is absolutely brilliant.
Oh my goodness, the two male penguins adopt a baby penguin? How scandalous!
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Not scandalous per say but because it is controversial right now the store could potentially face some legal trouble and some trouble from the public if they sold it unfortunately
@@Hillside_East I’m not sure what type of legal trouble there could be but I also don’t know where the store is or what the laws are in that country. Backlash from the public I can understand.
It’s stupid that we have gotten to the point where we point at anything we don’t agree with even if it happens in nature, and we throw hate at it. Male penguins do adopt eggs, people in stories are allowed to be dark skinned even if people hate it, And not every dinner with people who wear robes has anything to do with Christianity Jesus why are the people that are supposed to be the best in society end up being the most angry and hateful!
@@RE_CANWe're sick of homosexuality being allowed in any and everything news flash we actually don't have to accept it everywhere k? K
@@Hillside_Eastactually no they can't of you knew anything you'd know stores don't HAVE to sale anything just like bakery's don't HAVE to service everyone so 🤷
Paul, my daughter is adopted and blind. She has been asking so many questions about our family. I can’t wait to read your book to her. Thanks for representing all types of families and sharing the many aspects of life. ❤
This made my heart smile. Your family is beautiful ❤️
If i ever decide to adopt, I hope to read this book to them in the future! It is beautiful.
Don't give up! Your book is beautifully illustrated and it is a wonderful title and plot. Other places will order more books.
Paul, please don’t be discouraged. Your book is absolutely beautiful and you are sharing your joyful light with those around you! Their loss, truly!
Its a sickness book
@@moomoon42so are you. Be well
@@bluescorpion7 im not g.y so 🤷♀️
This is a load of bull crap. Wtf do they MEAN it doesn’t follow their “policies”?! ITS A CHILDREN’S BOOK
Its homophobia. There are probably hundreds of stories about male-female people having kids and marriage and love. But the minutes 2 male PENGUINS adopt a child - "OMG OUR KIDS CANNOT SEE THIS, BLASPHEMY!" Its stupid shit engraved into peoples minds by their parents or teachers. These people are just horrible.
a childrens book with two male penguins as the main characters…
@@lifeofsemya7976so?
😢❤
What a bunch of crap! That is a great book. I loved your reading of it. ❤
I'm an adult woman. I don't have children, none are currently in the making and there aren't really any kids in my social environment that I'm close with. But this book looks and sounds so stinking cute. I really fucking want this book now!
Only the best books get banned. My daughter is immediately interested in any book that gets banned
exactly!
Not really. Some books that were banned are so boring. They typically get banned for stuff like 'vulgarity'. Whatever that means in the time period it was banned in.
one of my schools banned Harry Potter. I don't know a single student that didn't pick up that series right after the ban (unless they already read it). The best way to get kids to read something I think is to ban it
It's not always the case... I mean, Hitler's book was banned, so...
' Hope your daughter doesn't put Mein Kampf on her Christmas list ! 😊
Honestly I wouldn’t refund them… maybe I’m just petty, but it’s not a secret what the book is about. Your kickstarter literally says “A whimsical picture book celebrating LGBTQ families,” they bought a product without doing enough research that’s on them.
Yes!
I second this.
Yeah, I’d send them back to them, and cease communication. Unless the product isn’t what was ordered, it’s not his responsibility at all. Up to the buyer if they want to use them as originally intended, send them somewhere that would want them, or throw them in the trash, if they want to be wasteful.
...it looks way better for him to just give the refund. Assuming the books come back in the condition they were sent in. The right people get ahold of this and he won't have those 100 books anymore. I'm sure there are a number of LGBT+ owner books stores and such. Seriously. Let this show up on the news like that restaurant story did.
@@smol-one good point
WTF is happening in the US... You're moving backwards regarding human rights?
As a German I'm specially worried, I guess. We have some historical experience with this type of ideology, unfortunately.
Artists that don't fit in being censored. Books with different stories and opinions being banned (and burned). That's part of something bigger. I'm sorry to repeat myself, but that really worries me. Please stay safe.
Your books and your artwork is so sweet. love your channel, it's charming PLUS educating. Surely there are vendors in less religious/conservative places that appreciate your work?
Leider gibt es das nicht nur in den USA, sondern ist und bleibt ein weltweites Problem
Those who don't study history are cursed to repeat it. The most concerning part is if the US was to fall into a fascist regime there is no one who could stop it, luckily and also unluckily the country isn't a monolith and I'm convinced it would sooner become 50 separate countries than one giant bigoted one.
I myself am in the US and don’t even know what’s going on anymore-
I don't think this book would be banned in Germany these days, right? At least I hope we're more open minded.
Yeah, I'm worried too what's happening over there. Reminds me of our dark history and creaps me out.
This book looks so lovely and the topic is very important, because family comes in many different ways.
I am so sorry. That book should not be banned. Families look different all across the world and every single one should have representation in a children’s book. I really am so sorry. As soon as I as can afford to buy a few I will and I’ll add them into the mini libraries we have all over town!
Why does everyone need representation? I read cat in the hat and no way shape or form do I feel I need representation.
@@jrhelios8443The representation isn’t for you, it’s for the kids who get taunted and mocked daily just because they have two dads, or two moms, or just one dad or mom. It’s for the lids who feel like they’re less of a person just because their family doesn’t look the same as another. It’s so they can feel like they aren’t the only ones going through the struggle of being different, so they feel they have a place they belong even if they can’t see it yet.
Pull your head out of your ass and stop thinking everything has to be for everyone. Just because you’re fine doesn’t mean everyone is.
It wasn't banned, that bookshop couldn't carry it. While it was their fault for not doing their research, they don't have to carry it in their shop if they don't wish. That's their right, just the same as any other book. And whilst this is a sad moment for an author, a shop can decide what they will/won't sell. They are at fault for not researching and for trying to return the books because as someone in the comments has pointed out the site says no refunds or returns.
@@jrhelios8443 Unreal lack of empathy from you. Straight people are everywhere so of course you wouldn’t feel the need to be represented since you already are
@@jrhelios8443Ignorance at its finest 😂
It sucks now. But honestly, getting one of your books banned is a lot of authors dreams because it means you made people think too hard and it scared them. You have so much power, Paul. And so much love from us ❤
This❤
That's so heartbreaking. I'm so sorry 😢
This actually killed me. Its a lighthearted adorable book, and it was BANNED?! Its an amazing inclusive book and filled with amazing art. This is so messed up you don't deserve this at all. ❤
It wasn't banned. Stop using that word if you don't know what it means. China bans books. Iran and North Korea ban books. He is free to write whatever he wants. People are free to purchase his works. Retailers are free to carry his books or not. Communities are free to decide which materials meet their standards. Nothing is banned. Yay, freedom.
Banned for good reason! Nice.
@@mjwbulich true. I still think it's messed up to order that many books then deny them because of the stores policy. Truly sad
@hanswerner321 and what reason would that be?
@kspen6110 because it is accurate to reality (male penguins actually do 'adopt' eggs, although it's closer to stealing), and ppl still can't fathom that male male relationships exist in nature as well.
Keep going. Keep fucking going. Write them, draw them. Your books are gorgeous, you are gorgeous, this message is important and needed. I'm so sorry. Your book is more than charming.
It's evil
@@mgeorge4347 No. Take care.
@@mgeorge4347*You're* evil.
@@jademusic1211 to the twisted, divine does look evil. Touch children and I'll prove you right, groomer.
@@109324g in no way am I a Saint, but the people supporting this garbage are no better than the fertilizer they shall become.
Who hurt you?
I'm so sorry Paul, your book has a beautiful story that many children need to hear, to help make this world a better, more inclusive & accepting place. So sad that there are still people in this world with such narrow minded attitudes. Keep doing what you do, you're very much appreciated. Love and luck to you ❤
Even tho people are sympathetic, it’s still called sin. Sin is not “inclusive” to feelings.
@@QueenQaffir you've spent your life reading lies and mistranslations.
@@QueenQaffirYes, the sin of being born different, right?
No book should be banned. I'm sorry this happened to you, and I hope you find a retail partner that's open-minded!
@@QueenQaffirJust like you, I don't know what you're talking about. Have a good day with that box of frogs though. 😉 Oh and Love is not a sin sweetie.
Well in my personal opinion kids shouldn’t be reading it. To parents it’s sweet and cute and it is! But the little tiny eggs that are hidden are a no go and that’s probably why the store didn’t like the book
Ridiculous how much homophobia is still out there. I’m really sorry
homophobia would mean fear of homosexuals
@@tormmacIt also includes hatred and aversion lmao
The defenition of a phobia: an extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something.
So no, it doesnt only mean fear. It also means something that you resent or strongly dislike (aversion). Homophobia is a resent towards people who are homosexual. Where as arachnophobia (the fear of spiders) is a fear. The word phobia technically has two meanings
@@tormmacno. It means aversion. But if that word bothers you we should probably just use bigot instead. Much more fitting
@@tormmacphobia also means aversion or avoidance. Which is exactly what the customer in the video is doing.
What store is this? I want to know where NOT to shop.
I like to know that too. What book store! I would never go into that book store. I love ❤️ his cute book 📚 stories. Our children learn how to love each other through books. So sorry that happened.
Same here!
Sounds like a based store
I feel like it's not based in the us as well? MYR is malaysian ringgit no?
Same, I'm all about shaming a business
I feel two ways about this scenario - Businesses have the right to choose what they do or do not sell. However, it seems this book store must be run like a 3 ring circus to not realize until AFTER they ordered 100 books that it isn't a book they wish to sell 🙄 Did they do absolutely no research on what the book was, who the author was, what the story was about before ordering?!
But, I also feel like a wide range of books should be available and let the customer, or if it's a child, their parent, decide what books they want or feel are appropriate to buy. It's not just about the story in the book. Paul is an amazing story himself! Not only could someone reading his book learn from the story he tells, but he's also a shining example of perseverance that many people can learn from! ❤
I agree. They should have been a lot more careful before ordering the books. I get why some stores might not want to carry a book like this. It is, after all, a book meant for children, and we still live in a world where a lot of parents don’t want their young kids exposed to “alternative lifestyles” at a young age. I could imagine a book store getting a lot of negative publicity for carrying something like that, especially in certain areas of the country. Some positive, too, of course, but the potential for negative press is probably bigger. But yes, this is ultimately the store’s mistake. They should have just accepted responsibility for their actions.
The message says that the person did the ordering overstepped.
@@papasmurf9146 it doesn’t matter. Anyone a company hires is a representative of their company. It’s the company’s responsibility to make sure they are correctly trained and empowered. A court would not likely side with the company in something like this, because an official representative of the company made the purchase.
@@tarabooartarmy3654 OP was indicating that they didn't understand how this could happen, and that is what I was responding to. This can happen because someone overstepped their authority (as stated in the video).
And, no. If I hire a custodian to empty the trashcans, that does not given them the authority to sign a multi-million dollar merger. If they call you up and pretend they have that authority, that is fraud on the employees part.
Frankly, given that it was only 100 books (and I assume the wholesale cost was less than $1K), as the book store owner I would have eaten the cost and fired the employee. I would then make sure that there were sufficient safeguards in place to prevent that from happening again.
Of course businesses have the right, just like how I have the right to think they are pricks with bigoted and pathetic beliefs
I was in a cafe a few months back and some girls where talking about books being banned all over and an elderly lady started to cry. The girls didnt notice but I did and so I asked her why she was crying. All she said was "I remember the last time one person was banning books and what he did with the books he didnt want people to read". It took me a minute before I realized....she was talking about the nazis burning books. History repeats itself and humans never learn.
This book is literally available for sale on Amazon. lol
How is that the same thing as the German government burning books? You people are insane.
Yeah I bet that happened.
@@Ashfold_Eberesche i mean its likely unless ur talking about nazis burning books then a google search is all u need
businesses have a right to sell what they want to sell. Open a damn bookstore if you want to sell his book.
@@Ashfold_Eberescheespecially someone who is old enough to actually REMEMBER what happened in the 1930s/1940s. I doubt they would just be hanging out in a cafe lol
My daughter loves this book. Her grandmother found it for her and I’m so happy it’s part of our library. We love having books like this to show our girls that there are many different kinds of families out there, that we live in a diverse world, and not everyone is going to have the same journey in creating their family as someone else. Currently I’ve been working as a surrogate and this book has helped create a launching point for conversations that we are helping another family. Keep at it and don’t get discouraged. You are doing a wonderful job. We look forward to seeing more of your work. The amount of time and effort you both put into this art is not going unseen. Much love ❤❤❤❤❤
My family has a saying, "There is no faster way to get someone to read a book than to ban it."
We have literature in our blood and are proud advocates of reading banned books. Just to name a few: Maus, To Kill a Mockingbird, 1984, Frankenstein, The Diary of Anne Frank. You are in good company.
It might not be much consolation, but I wanted you to know it won't be a total loss.
why would frankenstein be banned? the other ones i can recognise a (twisted) reason, but frankenstein?
Crazy religious nuts said that Frankenstein had to be banned because only God can create life... The issue with that is they have obviously never actually read the book because that is literally the entire point of the story. It just proves that they lack any sense of awareness outside of their own sad little bubbles and don't actually bother to read the things they are trying to get banned. @@gariden
@@garidenyeah, using carcasses of human bodies to create a creature outside of God's heavenly touch leans Christianity all the way! 😂
@@leiawhitmore1991 i forgot about religion! lol yeah that tracks. unfortunately.
That's a very good point! Also, I wouldn't even have heard of it if there wasn't this video about it, and there wouldn't be a video if it hadn't been banned in the first place. Not a lost cause at all, just a pretty sad situation...
What's extra stupid is that it's technically correct in the very aspect they're probably banning it for. Male penguins really do adopt eggs. Unless I'm mistaken.
You're not mistaken. In fact, homosexual coupling happens with a lot of animals, not just humans, iirc.
Life science student here who studies zoology as a part of it. You are not mistaken and penguins actually do that
Yes! This!!!
@@srilakshmidevanathan8334 @solaris9426 Thank you both for the confirmation.
They also grape babies and corpses on a higher frequency. But you do you.
Don’t refund them. They want to be bigots? They should pay for it.
I can't believe we're still dealing with this. My heart goes out to you, Paul. But this is all on them.
Sadly the policies means they have the right to return the books and a refund given.
Blame the woke culture that people are pushing back and it's hurting those who don't deserve it.
@@dyanduffy7651 woke culture, no more like conservative culture.
@dyanduffy7651
Which policy gives them that right?
@@ciaramc29 have you been watching what the woke culture has done? Maps aka nonces, pd files, chomos is that what you call acceptable on any level?
When those who want validation for their feelings demand attention from society, but won't give an ounce of respect - I'm talking about grown adults using spray bottles to "retrain" their parents into accepting obnoxious, entitled behaviour. Or the men who threaten violence against anyone who doesn't allow them to be in women's spaces.
You don't see female prisoners who identify as male asking for the men's prisons, only men who identify as women ask for women's prisons. Men who fail at winning in their sports want to compete against women because they know they can win. It's taking away hard won women places, if people can't see that problem then they are part of the problem.
When women and children are attacked in women only spaces, grown men showing everything towards innocent eyes.
When children have no concept of the consequences from forced transition surgery. If you're an adult and you have gone through counselling, the whole nine yards and make an informed decision I'll back you to the hilt. But if people want to play at being a woman and cause offence so they can get their rocks off expect the kick back from parents and adults who don't stand for that nonsense from any quarter of society.
When you have Curly Chuck, Blair White, Jeffrey Starr and others calling out the woke culture I listen to what they have to say.
@@JaniceLHz the one that they have put in place. I would love Paul to put the policy up so we can understand why they decided they needed this policy.
No book should be banned so society can discuss why they agree or disagree with the contents of it.
They don't deserve your talent and positivity
Where as we can't get enough!
Sending love to you, Matthew and Mr. Maple ❤❤❤
They also don’t deserve a refund. Honestly in any other situation I don’t think a bookstore would expect a refund. They are the ones who made the purchase it’s not Paul’s fault they didn’t look at their “policies” which is bullshit anyway.
@@GeekFilter True. I've never heard of someone sending back a package AND THEN insisting on a refund
DON"T CRY!!! your book is amazing they don't know what treasure you wrote!
Charge them a 50% handling and cancellation fee. Bigoted idiots. Love and luck from a Scottish grandma ❤️🍀🏴👵🏼
Agree 100% 👌🏻
There are so many other companies that charge you a fee for the restocking and cancellation fee that I think this is something he really needs to do! Big Squishy Hugs from a Big Squishy Grandma in the US.
I agree. But 100% shipping, handling, purchase cost plus 500% backwards bigot fee. They owe you money, love.
As well as a 90% bigot fee. They still owe you more money.
Do you consider Muslim and Christians bigoted? Are they not allowed to have their beliefs? I wish we could try and be truly tolerant and inclusive from all sides. 🕊️🩷
As a fairly Conservative Muslim I'd totally buy this book for my toddler?? In the wild penguins of the same gender DO take on board rejected chicks and raise them as there own. Nature is totally appropriate to teach to kids. And families come in all different types. I'm sorry this is happening.
You’re open minded. Too many people are not. They can’t (or don’t Even want to) see past their own ignorance.
A male penguin will take a rejected egg not a same sex penguin couple. Just more bs to confuse children. Go ask your mosque elders if it’s ok for you to hand this book out to people in your mosque. The Muslim religion is clear on same sex relations.
Not the point of the book and everyone knows it. It's to start a conversation about sexuality with children. Period. Pretending this is a tragedy is ridiculous. No religion, no politics, no sexuality. Let kids be kids.
@@JeffFletcher-w7di take it you don't incorporate any religion in your child's life?
@@JeffFletcher-w7dSexuality is not inherently an adult thing.
You did it!!
You have authored A BANNED BOOK
That is literally every author's goal, and you have achieved that so freaking early in your writing career. And that may not have been YOUR GOAL, but this is more incredible than you could ever imagine.
Just like that, you have now joined the ranks of authors of a banned book.
Do you realized that Catcher in the Rye was banned? And To Kill a Mockingbird? Banned.
This is so much cooler than you might think.
In a way, it is an accolade that Paul is so forward thinking and his story is groundbreaking. Some are afraid of change and new concepts. They miss out in so much in life. ❤❤❤We love your books Paul!🎉 🐧 🐧
Agreed. I feel sorry for Paul, of course it hurts now. But now he is a banned book author. It is a badge of honor to represent a repressed minority. Oh, and charge a 30% restocking fee.
He is not a banned book author. A bookstore just simply rejected his book
@@upnflames I know right. Why does it only take one place, whether it be a school or a bookstore, all it takes to be considerate banned from the shelves
No book is really banned, and if for some reason, an establishment removes it from their shelves, that only gets the literature more attention and creates desirability for the title. But yeah, there's really no such thing as a banned book. Even that one cookbook that we are not gonna talk about, is sitting in someone's home right now. And they ain't creating chaos with it
I’m pregnant and will 10000% be buying this for my son
You may legally blind, but there are those who are mentally blind! Thier loss on so many important messages in this book. The most important
LOVE!❤
Amen!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
Well... One, who thinks, that there are many types of a familly, deffinetelly are the mentally blind ones and one, who believes in this fairytale and propagates these types of fairytales, is the one, who is working on blinding others.
@@anoniukas your comment makes no sense. My father was raised in a house by his mother and 3 of her sisters because they had to flee my grandfather's abuse.
But there is only "one type" of family right.
Grow up.
@@ericas5255 Your case is the case of an incomete family. It has nothing to do with the type of group living, which is not a family objectively, and which the author of this video is propagating as a falimy in his book.
@@anoniukasThere are undoubtedly lots of people typing out reasonable responses to your super ignorant comments then erasing it bc it's pointless to argue with someone with such cognitive limitations. youre welcome.
Do NOT!!! Let this rejection break you. You have an amazing moral that needs to be shared with the world and it will be shared, i have faith and hope and you are role model. Thankyou for YOU!
Ordering for my baby for one of his first birthday gifts. We raise accepting children in this home. Thank you for creating a beautiful story of acceptance and love. I look forward to having it for him. 💕
You mean brainwashed children. You should be reported for child abuse.
I hope your children grow up knowing that children are happier with a mother and father rather than with two fathers.
Wtf is this? Is the voice supposed to be a voicemail? It sounds like AI. This really feels like you just trying to promote your book and creating rage bait.
My thought exactly
Congratulations! That's how you know what you wrote was important and the world NEEDED it to be written. You are doing amazing things! Keep going! (And don't refund their money, they should have done their due diligence before they ordered. Donate the books to schools and thank the returners for their donation!)
Came here to say this. You are now part of an exclusive club whose other members include Toni Morrison, Mark Twain, Ray Bradbury, Alex Gino, Maia Kobabe, and Laurie Halse Anderson. It means you are saying important things. If this one place doesn't want your book, it's their loss, and more books for someone else.
“All sales are final. No returns or exchanges.”
You are a business owner too.
(You are also loved & adored by all of us!)
100% THIS.
YES. This is what I was looking for
They can pay for their shitty opinions
NOT ALL OF US
Unfortunately, books are only stocked by stores when they are full returnable. Applies to ALL books by all publishers, big and small.
Refund he money? I'd be like, breach of contract. Bite me.
Not how that works.
Wtf that's bull shit it's even accurate to what penguins do
NO!
No refunds for bigots.
Agreed 🙏💗
Exactly!
THIS!
I partly agree, but he's a really good person, and the store/company is not keeping the books.
my initial thought was “no refunds”! but when he’s the one doing all of this himself, sometimes it’s best to just make everyone “whole” - where they were at prior to the situation- and just cut all ties cleaning - there’s no debt anywhere, give them back their toxic money, and with it, all the negative energy they brought into your life. think of it as a cleansing ritual.
and maybe all of us should think about the poor employee that made the order, and what they may have experienced when their bigot boss confronted them.
Banned books are the best books. So many hugs. I loved your book. It was very sweet and clever. Your reading me cry at work, so I had to share it with my coworkers so I wasn't the only one crying.
It was a very good book. Sending hugs and support 😊
The nerve of them to ask for a refund - screw them! Your book is worthy of reading Paul! Every child should have the chance to read it
They didn't even really ask. They're like "this is happening."
Not my children. We love everyone but refuse to normalize this. Sorry.
@@lionessofel3203How can you love everyone but refuse to normalize something that is both natural in not just humans but in other animal species and has been around for thousands of years? Do you notice the bigotry and hypocrisy?
@@officialmai no, its not natural and the only ones who are bigots are those getting angry over people disagreeing with this perversion being pushed into theirs and their children's faces. Just because an animal does it doesn't make it right for those who are made in the image of God. It's an un-natural union. No children come from it. It's not our creators order. He didn't create them like this either. I have seen people delivered of homosexuality. Love doesn't compromise conviction. I can love you but disagree with you. Love also warns someone when they're on a train track and the train is coming.
@@officialmai YT censored my comment. Love doesn't compromise convictions
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. As a librarian, it enrages me when a book is banned. Hugs from Argentina ❤
I went to order it on Amazon and it's sold out!! So that's the good news. But when can we get copies??
Is it about two *male* penguins perhaps? That might be it
@@kris-p-4365lol nuclear family mfs, like i have zero issue with a male female home but when you want to show another family dynamic you sperg out.
Republicans used to be the blue collar worker that went to work and didn't care what other people.are doing but they just became progressives but they want a reverse to 1960.
It shouldn't matter, though, you know?
Unless your a godly person it does matter. @dwhatsit1
@@gloomydolleyes But there is literally same-sex pairing of penguins... in the wild and in captivity. Are you saying god is wrong?
Fucking hell... I'm so sick of this... If this is considered inappropriate to kids just... I'm so sorry man this is ridiculous and honestly uncanny ...
"Our refund policy doesn't cover homophobia or bigotry. Should have read the fine print."
Vote with your wallet😊
Actually if you check the website it says no refunds... This is voiding the terms of the contract they signed@@protocal1991
@DW11111 What policy is it though? The books doesn't seems to have any problem, it seems like a normal children's book for me. The only thing different with this book with other children's book is that this book contain homo. If that's not the "policy" they are talking about, idk what is
YES
What?
Congrats on joining the ranks of the Banned! It absolutely sucks, but as someone working in the book industry, I can promise you that there are those of us working tirelessly to get books like yours into the hands of the public. For every banned book pulled from the shelf, there will be dozens more distributed.
Thank you for doing that.
so trueee ...all the best books are banned like hitler's book , they do belong in the same category i guess ... nice of you to congratulate him on that
@@lukalalosevic200 I don't need any of Hitler's garbage.
Total BS to ban your book! I think these book bans are ridiculous. As parent, I am the one that should monitor what books my child is reading. The government is not their parents and have no rights to determine what I or my child should read. I am a straight single female but my kids (and neices) are raised to understand how diverse the world is. It is their choice to be who they want to be. Unfortunately I live in Florida which has over-reached on the book bans. Please write more books! They are beautifully done. I am saving up enough to buy them all. Best wishes and lots of love! ❤️
Why are you talking about the government? This book isn't banned. You can purchase it. In this particular case, the woman, or whatever establishment she works for didn't want the books. It doesn't mean their banned.
That's the problem to begin with, just opposite to your opinion. If every individual with their own opinions should decide what is available for other people there won't be any books available.
Exactly. Ironic that these book banning fanatics claim to be supporting parental rights when it’s clearly the exact opposite.
Oh yes, I agree that the communist manifesto and mein kampf should be in schools. Books of any type of indoctrination should be banned.
You spelled ridiculous wrong. I have no idea how that is possible when everything has spell check these days, but you managed to skip that step.
The fact it about fact how penguins does marry to one penguin an because they look very similar and hard to tell who male or female. And they soulmate for life. So if male and male penguins mate, their stick for life. And they cherish. And most of the time the couple saves tone of unwanted or lost egg and little baby.
My child realised that the 'feeling different' wasn't so rare because of a book! we have a beautiful relationship where he can discuss anything but this was about a quiet discovery before he probably knew how to articulate his feelings.
Thank you for being part of this...
@@ITSALLWITHINYOU ok Rebecca…
Sounds like you're conditioning your child.
@@HiKarmenikOk Karmenik
Sounds like you need to teach your child better.
I feel bad for your child.
I love that Maple knew you were crying and came to check on you and provide support.
I’m so sorry that some people are so short and narrow minded. I live in Florida and have run into a lot of books that are now banned.
Praying for more understanding.