Rachel and Peter's Tearful Breakup - The Bachelorette

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  • Опубликовано: 7 авг 2017
  • Peter's refusal to propose left himself and Rachel in a heartbreaking predicament. (From The Bachelorette Season 13 Finale).
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  • @Angelface787877
    @Angelface787877 6 месяцев назад +537

    Who is here after hearing Bryan filed divorce 😢

    • @mrsmendat1628
      @mrsmendat1628 6 месяцев назад +33

      We all are😢

    • @bivona90
      @bivona90 6 месяцев назад +11

      Meeeeeee!

    • @bienfaitmboni
      @bienfaitmboni 6 месяцев назад +12

      I swear man

    • @commongirl3504
      @commongirl3504 6 месяцев назад +20

      lmao wait what are yall doing here? I thought it was just me hahah

    • @hollyagard4927
      @hollyagard4927 6 месяцев назад +2

      I am!😮

  • @CrispyFriedPickles
    @CrispyFriedPickles 6 месяцев назад +162

    The way we all RAN back to this video 😩😭

    • @ak-ve4gi
      @ak-ve4gi 4 месяца назад +2

      Lmaoooo

  • @joycembeboh1877
    @joycembeboh1877 3 месяца назад +85

    I always come back to this breakup to feel something

    • @freespiritwithnature4384
      @freespiritwithnature4384 Месяц назад +9

      I really felt like this was true love. I could feel his love and I found out after that he started to run after her,and the producers stopped him! I really think he was trying to say just trust me Rachel, let me propose to you in my way ,he wanted it to be special and done his way. I know he hasn't had a serious relationship since then.I think he was beyond devastated, and I think she would have chosen him but wanted the proposal. I didn't like Brian at all.

    • @noellekhaligh7320
      @noellekhaligh7320 Месяц назад +2

      I was literally telling something this today… this breakup makes me really FEEL

    • @Danieei
      @Danieei 15 дней назад +1

      Girl same!!

    • @reason4427
      @reason4427 12 дней назад +2

      Now that she said she want the fantasy suite again, make it even more interesting. I wish she had taken a chance on him.

    • @missfancy8365
      @missfancy8365 9 дней назад +1

      This breakup still shakes me to the core. I wish they made it work.

  • @TexasGal.
    @TexasGal. 7 лет назад +2401

    Anyone else notice how Peter tried to shield their last hug from the cameras? Their love was real y'all.

    • @nataliepope3286
      @nataliepope3286 7 лет назад +189

      Texas Gal Yes I did. He was so over those cameras by that time. That shit was real....And we have the video that proves it.

    • @chatelnina
      @chatelnina 7 лет назад +122

      I agree and their connection was up the roof see how they identically fix their clothes they look like a clone. This is soulmate . Peter even stated at her parent's house that he felt like their connection was from the greater source.

    • @unathiemdala2611
      @unathiemdala2611 7 лет назад +59

      exactly and the look he had on his face when she walked away i will forget it that was raw

    • @hannahevans8193
      @hannahevans8193 7 лет назад +84

      OMG Yes. I thought I was the only one that noticed that. I almost feel like he was going to whisper something to her but he changed his mind. Rachel is foolish. I'm sorry but I don't believe Rachel and Brian are going to last.

    • @fionasmith82
      @fionasmith82 7 лет назад +78

      She was forced to do what she did...she sounded like she was gonna wait the day before, but she had to do what the contract said. Did you see when she came out in that final dress? She looked a mess and tired... I bet she cried all night

  • @designdesign23
    @designdesign23 7 лет назад +3242

    Realest thing to happen on this show. She clearly loved him.

    • @nataliepope3286
      @nataliepope3286 7 лет назад +85

      designdesign23 it's refreshing isn't it? I guess there is hope for this show after all.....

    • @mikem957
      @mikem957 7 лет назад +66

      designdesign23 She still does. That's why she continues to attack him.

    • @Love25648
      @Love25648 7 лет назад +21

      Mike Mikesell How is ahe attacking him lol

    • @mikem957
      @mikem957 7 лет назад +86

      Ant rip She is constantly ripping him publicly, accusing him of stringing her along, manipulating, etc. It is so damn obvious what is on her mind, and it aint Bryan. Her own sister refuses to accept her decision.

    • @nataliepope3286
      @nataliepope3286 7 лет назад +8

      Mike Mikesell how do you know her sister refuses to accept he decision? Is there proof?

  • @pennyg5979
    @pennyg5979 11 месяцев назад +282

    5 years later and this relationship still has me in a chokehold. SMH.

    • @Danieei
      @Danieei 11 месяцев назад +7

      Girlllll me tooooo lol

    • @TexasGal.
      @TexasGal. 6 месяцев назад

      Same!!

    • @kamire6559
      @kamire6559 6 месяцев назад +10

      Same 😭 Hey she’s getting divorced now . Maybe that their older she can see if they want that ole thang back ❤

  • @sadeakinfe761
    @sadeakinfe761 4 года назад +1647

    It’s 2020 and this still hurts

    • @lillians.4384
      @lillians.4384 4 года назад +43

      Sade Akinfe GIRL YES!!!! LOL. I honestly think that Peter was meant for HER. I’m sorry but I truly wouldn’t be ready to marry someone in 9 weeks. You would have to take the relationship into the actual outside world and out in reality for me to have that clarity.
      I believe it was Peter....not fake cheeks chipmunk Bryan who says whatever women want to hear to get what he wants.

    • @MyJamie1982
      @MyJamie1982 4 года назад +5

      Sade Akinfe 🤗 am and yes it really so hurts

    • @mariam1895
      @mariam1895 4 года назад +8

      Sun Moon lol you had me at fake cheeks chip munk

    • @ednatorain5808
      @ednatorain5808 4 года назад +1

      yes it does

    • @latoyanicolethefaceslayer4555
      @latoyanicolethefaceslayer4555 4 года назад +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ellieoliferovskaya
    @ellieoliferovskaya 5 лет назад +1069

    Good for her. She wasn’t going to compromise what she wanted in order to meet him at a level where he was comfortable. She came on the show for a reason and made those intentions clear from the start. Wish more women were willing to do that.

    • @Natapier
      @Natapier 4 года назад +46

      Well said!!

    • @enel9961
      @enel9961 4 года назад +79

      so well said! This fool tried to dumb the relationship down, to his terms. He's not the bachelor.

    • @kimaotung
      @kimaotung 4 года назад +57

      This. This perfectly sums it up. It blows my mind how many women are going crazy for Peter just because he's good looking. Well done to Rachel for seeing past that and not settling.

    • @ZoraSearch
      @ZoraSearch 3 года назад +9

      Nailed it. Exactly, ellie.

    • @redzoom7857
      @redzoom7857 3 года назад +20

      @ Kima yes, to me he seemed like the type of guy to string her along for years without ever marrying her.

  • @meyhana6347
    @meyhana6347 7 лет назад +1259

    This is like a movie scene omg😭

  • @spacedude956
    @spacedude956 2 года назад +469

    It's almost 2022 and I'm still watching this, crying hard every time. This is the realest scene on bachelor history.

    • @Njihia_W
      @Njihia_W 2 года назад +7

      Same here 😭😭😭😭😭
      Production did them dirty. They inteferred too much and didn't allow for things to naturally progress 😭😭😭😭
      I'll forever be heartbroken 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @vanessa_valentine
      @vanessa_valentine 2 года назад +3

      Me too😁

    • @benjaminmaloney9332
      @benjaminmaloney9332 2 года назад +2

      agreed😭

    • @immaculatenzimande9929
      @immaculatenzimande9929 2 года назад +10

      Omg I come here at least once a month 😂😂😂

    • @KimmyDTV
      @KimmyDTV Год назад +2

      @@immaculatenzimande9929 lmaooo sameee

  • @Schmidty530
    @Schmidty530 6 месяцев назад +125

    Anyone else back here after the divorce announcement? ✋🏼

    • @sierrarowe5135
      @sierrarowe5135 6 месяцев назад +3

      Think she’ll go back??

    • @Schmidty530
      @Schmidty530 6 месяцев назад +17

      Probably not, but I do love romances where people end up with the one that got away!

    • @winatlife101
      @winatlife101 6 месяцев назад +9

      I honestly wish they could get back together. IDC

    • @huguettenkashama8136
      @huguettenkashama8136 6 месяцев назад

      @@sierrarowe5135 if only

    • @Khulismonica
      @Khulismonica 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@winatlife101 I am still a Pachel fan. I feel like Peter can keeps her grounded.

  • @mitchiehewer
    @mitchiehewer Год назад +165

    This the realest, most heart-wrenching, most beautiful depiction of reality I have EVER seen on this show. No proposal, no other breakup, no emotional dates, EVER, have come close to this. Incredible.

    • @user-yn1xk4jw2z
      @user-yn1xk4jw2z 2 месяца назад

      Ddccddnjdnjdnndjjdnjdnjdbhdbuiiasddjkdnmdnmdnjdnjxhikasdcnjdnjdnjdnjdnmdnjdnjdnikdnjdnioasdcjkdnkdmkddhoookks

  • @rikerich1769
    @rikerich1769 7 лет назад +236

    Peter wiped her tears with trembling hands... I must admit it this is the best breakup scene in bachelorette/bachelor history

  • @MichelleKingg
    @MichelleKingg 6 лет назад +962

    Everytime I watch this I cry. Still not over it.

  • @lifeofmarissa9507
    @lifeofmarissa9507 7 лет назад +1091

    As much as I love rachel and bryan together, I have to admit this has to be one of the hardest breakups I seen on the bachelor/bachelorette. You can tell there really is something there, whether or not they both see it

  • @MidnightMusings948
    @MidnightMusings948 3 года назад +182

    This is an real example of my favorite saying... sometimes you have to forget what you feel for what you deserve.

    • @111alic
      @111alic Год назад +5

      Forget what you feel for what you deserve💯

    • @betty848
      @betty848 Месяц назад

      @@111alic Yeah forget what you feel if its not what you deserve, but don't go for what you deserve if its not what you feel - it's about what makes you happy (in the long run). That will not work if you always wander what could have been or are not in it with your heart as well as your head

  • @shannonnesbitt2615
    @shannonnesbitt2615 7 лет назад +1927

    THIS HAD ME IN TEARS THE ONLY THING I DISLIKED IS WHEN PETER TOLD HER TO GO HAVE A MEDIOCRE LIFE BUT NO ONE CAN'T TELL ME THIS ISN'T LOVE

    • @chempanda6388
      @chempanda6388 7 лет назад +65

      shannon nesbitt he could have wished her well without the use of that word for sure. It's definitely hard to know that you won't be their person but someone else will in the future.

    • @avabarrios9191
      @avabarrios9191 7 лет назад +80

      shannon nesbitt he apologized for it tho because he realized that it was not a good thing to say, but rachel was incredibly rude to him

    • @lisadelpeche3371
      @lisadelpeche3371 7 лет назад +113

      he was said in the heat of the moment. they were both upset. even after that they shared a passionate good bye.

    • @jozigalm8159
      @jozigalm8159 7 лет назад +62

      Heat of the moment... WE ALL BEEN THERE.

    • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
      @estherbeamsforaballad3342 7 лет назад +73

      chempanda I love the flexibility Peter is given...Heat of the moment...But I guess when she flipped her wrist back at him and said she's living her best life, that's just rude, no more heat of the moment ey?

  • @jordantaylor7994
    @jordantaylor7994 3 года назад +210

    She wanted it to be him so bad but refused to settle. This was love ! But she made the right decision in the end 😭 it’s 2021 and I’m still crying

    • @MsDesiree39
      @MsDesiree39 6 месяцев назад +5

      It's over. He made the right decision to want to move slowly. Now she has no hubbies and no kids

  • @allison9579
    @allison9579 7 лет назад +2518

    Peter is the most realis person that has ever been on this show. His plan probably was to get to know Rachel outside of the show for a few months than propose and get married, their is nothing wrong with that.

    • @k.b.8994
      @k.b.8994 7 лет назад +239

      Allison 9579 then he obviously picked the wrong place to do it. Obviously he's never watched the previous seasons. And I don't think it's the length of time. Their stars are just not aligned right now. But it could've been something awesome. Brachel will have a good life.

    • @carolbanks9940
      @carolbanks9940 7 лет назад +63

      Let's be real probably half the guys in real life propose and don't really want to. They love their girlfriends and want to be happy and don't want to lose them, Peter should have proposed. Makes me wonder if he is already in a relationship.

    • @daisysilver7529
      @daisysilver7529 6 лет назад +37

      I agree but that is not the nature of the show. Rachel said a lot happened off camera.

    • @andrewwitzachannel4442
      @andrewwitzachannel4442 6 лет назад +1

      Allison 9579 that's exactly I said ...

    • @k.b.8994
      @k.b.8994 6 лет назад +46

      Allison 9579 his fears were founded. Bryan is a much bettee fit. ABC didn't show us enough. I see them both on IG and Peter's life seems fun but not in a Rachel kinda way. They made the right choice.

  • @princess_maya_
    @princess_maya_ 6 месяцев назад +67

    The Peter stans wasted no time running to the comment section I see lol

    • @heartofalioness
      @heartofalioness 6 месяцев назад +12

      Lmao. If Peter W. can go back and forth to multiple women. Then be on and off with Kelley multiple times.... we can have hope for these two 😂

  • @jessicajnsm
    @jessicajnsm 4 года назад +134

    Im glad neither of them compromised on what they wanted. They would have either eventually broken up or one person would have been resentful.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 6 лет назад +501

    She did say he reminded her of her 5 year relationship. She said she had dated many Peters. She is clearly crying for all those past experiences as well. Not just this one. He also got emotional talking about his ex at one of the dates and how he felt he held back from loving her fully. He’s clearly realising he hadn’t changed much and is again letting a good girl go. They’re both not just crying for this particular loss but all other loses in the past and possibly future ones (in Peter’s sake). I personally feel she chose the right guy. Bryan loves her, and she loves him. Despite being drawn to “the Peters”.

  • @anaraposo4133
    @anaraposo4133 6 лет назад +213

    He said in an interview he wanted to run after rachel in the rain.. but producers said no... dammit producers.. it have been part 2 of movie notebook

    • @Danieei
      @Danieei 6 лет назад +7

      Ana Raposo Lmaf I can’t 😂😩💀

    • @candyxoxo19
      @candyxoxo19 3 года назад +58

      And do what?? Say be my girlfriend.

    • @amalhussein8426
      @amalhussein8426 3 года назад +5

      Right haha but I love bryan that could be interesting tho

    • @tahnirene
      @tahnirene 3 года назад +3

      Lmfao dammit producers .. it’s 2021 & I still wish these two made it 😞

    • @excellentttt
      @excellentttt 3 года назад +7

      @@candyxoxo19 the way i CACKLED

  • @Similey123
    @Similey123 7 лет назад +528

    This was so raw and heartbreaking and oh the way she's speaking to him so softly I haven't heard her speak to anyone else in that voice :(

  • @patriciacastro3005
    @patriciacastro3005 2 года назад +88

    It's June 2022 and I'm still not over this breakup! This scene is like a movie :(((((((

  • @Cleverlady282
    @Cleverlady282 6 месяцев назад +82

    Back here after Bryan filled for divorce

  • @momowowo16
    @momowowo16 7 лет назад +291

    She wanted a proposal at the end of the show. He wasn't willing to give one. Major compatibility issue. Sometimes love just isn't enough!!

    • @ninadowell7841
      @ninadowell7841 4 года назад +5

      momowowo16 so sad but so true

    • @milwaukeemotor5995
      @milwaukeemotor5995 3 года назад +1

      or maybe it's not true love

    • @dianemccloud5990
      @dianemccloud5990 3 года назад +7

      @@ninadowell7841 , and when you have taken that chance most of your life, waiting to see it they will eventually propose, you just get tired and have to decide if that is your choice....Bryan loves Rachel to the top of the mountain....

  • @chocolatemami3956
    @chocolatemami3956 4 месяца назад +27

    Why do I always keep coming back to this video 😩😭😭😭😭

  • @msnandimarie7023
    @msnandimarie7023 5 лет назад +756

    Well her life is definitely NOT mediocre. She and Bryan are VERY successful.

    • @Natapier
      @Natapier 4 года назад +30

      Well said!

    • @187copz
      @187copz 4 года назад +42

      Peter is still hotter

    • @candyxoxo19
      @candyxoxo19 3 года назад +93

      @@187copz beauty is not always in height and a chizel jawline. Hot to me is a man with a good financial life, loves you unconditionally and makes you feel bigger than what you are, and he proposed. Thanks what Brian offered.

    • @187copz
      @187copz 3 года назад +9

      Candy xoxo you may have written a paragraph, but that doesn’t mean that your opinion is more valid than mine, in my opinion peter is physically better looking, i never said that he was a better man than brian

    • @YouKnowMyBody
      @YouKnowMyBody 3 года назад +37

      @@187copz Gurl That wasn't even a paragraph lol

  • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
    @estherbeamsforaballad3342 7 лет назад +522

    This is heartwrenching in a sad way that shouldn't even be on TV except if it's a movie.

    • @justmo6896
      @justmo6896 6 лет назад +2

      Esther beamsforaballad thought so too!

  • @TaylorRayeCouncil
    @TaylorRayeCouncil 7 лет назад +131

    When peter wiped away her tears 😭😭

  • @heidil851
    @heidil851 4 года назад +342

    Ill never forget this scene. So REAL and compelling. See producers, you don't need to stir up tiring drama amongst 21 year olds to make a good tv show. Get mature smart contestants and just let us watch the natural ebb and flow of romance and heartbreak!

    • @liveandletlive7152
      @liveandletlive7152 2 года назад +12

      I know this is 2 yrs ago but I have to agree with you on this. Say it louder for the producers at the back to hear.

  • @kittykat248100
    @kittykat248100 4 года назад +175

    honestly the real hero is rachel... so strong and mature to be able to make a smart decision despite the heartbreak

  • @chimaijemotitolouis8291
    @chimaijemotitolouis8291 7 лет назад +2210

    I think she showed more emotion in he breakup than the proposal.

    • @knbor
      @knbor 7 лет назад +110

      10000000% percent

    • @Torritoxi
      @Torritoxi 7 лет назад +115

      Rachel said, "Gimme that ring." She was so excited, about the ring.

    • @genregurl
      @genregurl 7 лет назад +53

      That was hands down the worst line of the season. I saw her in such a different light after she said that. And I LOVED her and supported her up until then. I still think she's badass, but she really didn't even acknowledge her fiancé, just the ring. Yep, sounds like love to me. *Eye roll*. Won't last. Brian will wise up and see through it. He's 37 years old and no fool I'm sure. I actually feel bad for him. Even in interviews she never talks about him or how amazing he is...she just shows off her ring and says "call me your fiancé". Brutal. This poor guy.

    • @christinajoy9807
      @christinajoy9807 7 лет назад +74

      I'd have to disagree. I was not in support of her in the beginning of the show, because I felt as if Raven should've gotten the spot. As Rachel's season progressed I began to lighten up about the idea of her being the Bachelorette. I could see how the line "Gimme that ring." would be a turn off for most. Yet, the way that I see it is more as a witty statement. She clearly acknowledged her fiance. I don't know if she is in love with Bryan, but I could definitely say that in that particular incident that she was just extremely excited to become his fiance. A ring is just a symbol of that love, and she was excited to wear it! Also, I don't know what interview you are talking about, but when I've watched the interviews with her talking about Bryan she does nothing but gushes over him... Please, send me the link or name of video so I can check out what you're talking about. I don't like that she chose Bryan, but since she did I know that it's because she already has very strong feelings for him!

    • @jordanbaker1647
      @jordanbaker1647 6 лет назад

      Chima Louis Word

  • @anafigueroa1396
    @anafigueroa1396 6 месяцев назад +42

    And this is why I stopped watching bachelorette. Not because her season was bad but because after this breakup I was over it lmao this was so real, so raw, and so heartbreaking.

    • @inerit5175
      @inerit5175 6 месяцев назад +13

      The break up was better than the proposal by a mile!

  • @CaliDaStalli
    @CaliDaStalli 3 года назад +556

    Wow, looking back at this 3 years later and I'm so happy Rachael chose Bryan. She made the smart choice. Peter may have loved her but he wasn't ready for commitment. When a man really loves you he won't waste time to grab you for himself. The people that were mad at Rachael for not choosing Peter were a bunch of little immature girls who have no clue what it's like looking for love in their 30s. Rachael's a grown ass woman who needs a grown ass man.

    • @mrnoobie2541
      @mrnoobie2541 3 года назад +4

      Well.. People who had divorces would say otherwise 🤔

    • @CaliDaStalli
      @CaliDaStalli 3 года назад +1

      @@mrnoobie2541 about what?

    • @wondroussoul5414
      @wondroussoul5414 3 года назад +54

      @@mrnoobie2541 divorce is one thing but if someone is hesitant this early in the relationship esp when there group of other men competing for her then it is a Major red flag. I’m glad she didn’t compromise and chose the man who was ready 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @gamjc
      @gamjc 3 года назад +1

      @Cali #FACTS

    • @Khulismonica
      @Khulismonica 3 года назад +7

      I think everyone had a right to have their favorite. I was a Peter and Rachel fan but she is happy and that's all that matters

  • @passionatedirector87
    @passionatedirector87 7 лет назад +273

    The most real moment in reality TV. Let me go and grab my tissues.

  • @Amourd08
    @Amourd08 4 года назад +566

    As painful as this was, Rachel made the decision she thought was right for her.
    Edit: No one can predict the future. We all do the best we can in the present and hope for the best.

    • @babushka2758
      @babushka2758 4 года назад +16

      Ame T. Yep he had a gf

    • @SuperAnnieq
      @SuperAnnieq 4 года назад +1

      @@babushka2758 who had a girlfriend ?

    • @leeeel9786
      @leeeel9786 4 года назад +1

      SuperAnnieq he’s lying Lmfaooo 😂

    • @phoenixercelbursin350
      @phoenixercelbursin350 4 года назад

      Nah, I still believe they end up together. Right she's doing PR is B. Lol

    • @desireec4089
      @desireec4089 4 года назад +2

      I agree. Peter deserved/deserves better💅🏽

  • @user-vm9rw8ew3d
    @user-vm9rw8ew3d 6 месяцев назад +33

    who else is here after the divorce news..

  • @marynduku8422
    @marynduku8422 6 месяцев назад +32

    Just saw this after the divorce announcement. She should have followed her heart

    • @ntombiradebe4343
      @ntombiradebe4343 4 месяца назад

      Exactly. But I feel sorry for Bryan who was played by being the second choice

  • @allmamalove
    @allmamalove 7 лет назад +800

    Peter tried to contact her after filming this by asking the producers but Rachel will not allow it. He really loved her.

    • @truep9484
      @truep9484 7 лет назад +167

      allmamalove No don't come play with my mind after everything is said and done.

    • @blackcos22
      @blackcos22 7 лет назад +41

      Bethsaida Romelus, Kristen was a former contestant on the bachelor who was having an affair with one of the people that worked on the show, she was sent home and he was fired. Rachel was allowed to contact Bryan and they had secret visits every two weeks. This happens with all the winners. Do your research before you post.

    • @anonymousanonymous-qx7mv
      @anonymousanonymous-qx7mv 7 лет назад +2

      Bethsaida Romelus kaitlyn

    • @OMGbreeezy
      @OMGbreeezy 7 лет назад +4

      Amanda Zinnerman Dean and Rachel were texting after the show, he said it during an interview.

    • @OMGbreeezy
      @OMGbreeezy 7 лет назад +3

      Bethsaida Romelus That's a lie, Rachel and Bryan were spending weekends together before finale even on July 4th weekend.

  • @liacanizales2763
    @liacanizales2763 4 года назад +63

    THIS STILL HITS

  • @esohe6677
    @esohe6677 4 года назад +51

    This is the realiest break up The Bachelor has EVER had..

  • @keepinglifeflowing8392
    @keepinglifeflowing8392 5 лет назад +272

    That was not love. So happy she chose Bryan. Her life would be so different if she settled for Peter. Everything would have been on his terms.

    • @Natapier
      @Natapier 4 года назад +29

      So true and they will probably not be together few weeks after the finale. What I saw was an ending of an infatuation.

    • @kamilleking4708
      @kamilleking4708 4 года назад +10

      How was that settling, Peter is the one she wants, Bryan was the one she was left with.

    • @bremurray8865
      @bremurray8865 4 года назад +9

      Kamille King Bryan was the right choice everyone knows that at the end of the show there’s a proposal if he wasn’t ready for that why come to the show

    • @bremurray8865
      @bremurray8865 4 года назад +1

      T LG What is she forcing she talked to him about marriage and he didn’t wanna go through and he knew what that meant she had to let him go to me if they would have stayed together it would’ve been toxic and like the person said on his terms he knows that there a proposal at the end of the show if you weren’t ready why come to the show what was the point she choose someone who wanted to be serious and settle down just like she wanted

    • @bremurray8865
      @bremurray8865 4 года назад +1

      T LG When she talked to him and she told him about want a future and getting married why stay on the show honestly I see no point of him coming to the show she didn’t force him to stay he made that choice on his own he’s a grown man she didn’t have a gun point at his head and say take the rose and you better marry me no she told him about wanting a life of marriage she even mentioned the subject of wanting to be serious with someone on group dates and we’re not taking about Raven season she’s someone entirely different we’re talking about Rachel season cause I guarantee if he would have told her in the beginning of the season that he didn’t want marriage he would have mostly like been sent home

  • @carolinew7217
    @carolinew7217 6 лет назад +55

    I must admit this was a Notebook moment.

  • @elsa-jj2vg
    @elsa-jj2vg 7 лет назад +179

    it's cute how he tried to hide their hug from the cameras at 2:46

    • @nianiah2212
      @nianiah2212 5 лет назад

      If the camera's were not there, they would still be stuck together

    • @luyandakhanyi1018
      @luyandakhanyi1018 Месяц назад

      ​@@nianiah2212😂😂 yip

  • @itzmeashleymock1
    @itzmeashleymock1 10 месяцев назад +73

    I was team Peter the whole season. This scene always made me emotional. I always thought she made the wrong decision. Now that I am older and looking back at this, she made the right decision with Bryan. No doubt her and Peter loved each other. You can't tell me they didn't love each other. But Peter wasn't ready. They were on different pages. I think Peter is still single, living the bachelor life. Atleast he was the last time I was on his page. If she had chose him, I doubt they would be together.
    This reminds me of that young love. That first love that you never forget but you know it wasn't right for you. Its not that forever. I thought she gave up on him, but he let her go. He didn't love her enough to commit. 😢

    • @brownsugarglamour
      @brownsugarglamour 8 месяцев назад +7

      I legit just updated my comment apologizing for being upset with Rachel.

    • @verawonji
      @verawonji 6 месяцев назад +8

      I guess she might be single soon

    • @blackmenace20051
      @blackmenace20051 6 месяцев назад +6

      N now he’s trying to take her to the bank. 😂😂

    • @SuccessfulladiesSoftLife
      @SuccessfulladiesSoftLife 6 месяцев назад

      You were right

    • @meeksadorable9311
      @meeksadorable9311 6 месяцев назад +6

      … after seeing Bryan’s post yesterday … I half wish she had waited for Peter…

  • @astridjohnson965
    @astridjohnson965 7 лет назад +256

    That one sane dude on a crazy show.. to me this is real love. Not even a bachelorette fan, but am hoping she changes her mind.. she knows where to find him.

  • @delfina128
    @delfina128 4 года назад +586

    Looking back at this I realize how SMART Rachel is for choosing Bryan.

    • @iLovePaulWesley1864
      @iLovePaulWesley1864 4 года назад +109

      Right? If she picked Peter they would not have lasted. They would have broken up within a year or within a month or within a day. She was so smart to pick Bryan. The smartest thing she could have ever done was pick Bryan.

    • @daniellenicole6989
      @daniellenicole6989 4 года назад +5

      I agree.

    • @theworldsonheroin
      @theworldsonheroin 3 года назад +39

      I see that now. Bryan was the right choice for her BUT her still denying she had strong feelings for Peter is insane. Who cries this much over a man they didn't want to marry.

    • @beyourself2444
      @beyourself2444 3 года назад +5

      @@theworldsonheroin An emotional person

    • @theworldsonheroin
      @theworldsonheroin 3 года назад +3

      @@beyourself2444 lawyer Rachel? She said she 'didnt want to leave'...like i said she picked the right one for her, BUT saying that Peter didn't mean anything or that emotional wasnt for him is a lie...esp since we ALSO saw the stank energy at the ATFR but cie la vie, she picked right.

  • @chach1070
    @chach1070 4 месяца назад +14

    Ok so…can we get these two back together?

  • @Jennp425
    @Jennp425 6 месяцев назад +49

    I believed every word he said . He was sure about his feelings for her but just didn’t want to rush things.

    • @ak-ve4gi
      @ak-ve4gi 4 месяца назад

      No I feels he’s avoidant and needs therapy. He sabotaged this cause marriage isn’t a forever guarantee he wasn’t stuck if he later didn’t want it anymore lol

  • @frankyb4249
    @frankyb4249 3 года назад +17

    who else is here 3 yrs after ;(

  • @mimozahasanaj1111
    @mimozahasanaj1111 6 лет назад +75

    THIS WAS the saddest and the most beautiful thing on the bachelor

  • @melbrome2979
    @melbrome2979 4 года назад +134

    Why am I still watching this in 2020😭

  • @dreamidani
    @dreamidani Год назад +21

    this was the last bachelor season that was actual real and not staged i miss when it was like this

  • @nataliepope3286
    @nataliepope3286 7 лет назад +188

    Ladies the point at where she was fidgeting and couldn't leave. We have all been there. She loved that man. It took a lot for her to walk away from him in that moment. And who knows this was over two months ago so now she has probably developed strong feelings for Bryan because he was her only focus now. But Rachel if you are a God fearing person please do not go on national tv and say you never loved Peter. We have the proof right here. Own your truth woman. ....that way you could be free to live as you so joyfully put it the "best life ever"

  • @kryceecheri5382
    @kryceecheri5382 4 года назад +32

    This is honestly one of the saddest break ups ever. Really felt it. This is raw and real. Its soo sad when two ppl that you feel belong together can't make it work. 😢

  • @daphneymarc9420
    @daphneymarc9420 6 месяцев назад +47

    I always knew she settled for Bryan. If Peter wanted marriage he would’ve been her choice, hands down. They had so much more chemistry, and her family preferred him over Bryan. I remember him getting up in the middle of a converstion as Rachel’s sister was grilling him, and he couldn’t handle it. And if you watch the first episode, Bryan seemed so inauthentic; making out every second rather than having a real conversation with her, and using his sex appeal as leverage. He was an opportunist and him asking for spousal support confirms that; a trophy husband. Maybe they grew to have real love for each other when they got married, but that relationship was doomed from the start. I was never a fan of his. I really like Rachel though, I wish her the best moving forward.

    • @IbhadeArabome
      @IbhadeArabome 6 месяцев назад +3

      All of this!

    • @bivona90
      @bivona90 6 месяцев назад +1

      Girl you better preach!!! Amen to all of this!!!

    • @hollyagard4927
      @hollyagard4927 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah I can’t believe he asked for spousal support

  • @ZoraSearch
    @ZoraSearch 3 года назад +42

    3 years later and I STILL have my jaw on the floor over this. This was sooo real but everything worked out for the best.

  • @shirlsshirls8594
    @shirlsshirls8594 4 года назад +28

    Her first choice was Peter but Peter wasn’t ready and she was smart enough to choose a man who was. I can only imagine how Brian felt watching this...

    • @bbwalk100
      @bbwalk100 4 года назад +2

      Her first choice was always Brian. They have been together 2 years before they just got married.

    • @Natapier
      @Natapier 4 года назад +2

      @@bbwalk100 Well said!! I cannot believed how people were so blind!!

    • @sarahkelly3234
      @sarahkelly3234 4 года назад

      Pilot Peter and Hannah was another plot twist. This BN show is a real circus.

    • @lisadelpeche3371
      @lisadelpeche3371 Месяц назад

      @@bbwalk100 now they are getting a divorce

  • @collegeofnaturalhealthscie3777
    @collegeofnaturalhealthscie3777 6 месяцев назад +16

    I mean, Peter did say "We are both going to regret this!" So....um............. we know at least one person does as of 12/31/2023. IJS!

  • @jennjoint6123
    @jennjoint6123 7 лет назад +330

    Peter did not want Rachel. That is the bottom line. No man ever has a problem committing to a woman he wants. If a man wants you, he will commit. No woman should have to beg a man to commit to her. If he is not ready and he does not want to do it, stop wasting your time ladies and don't let him waste yours. LET HIM GO. Because if a man wants you, he WILL ask you for commitment. You don't have to ask him. He wants to snag you before anyone else does!

    • @laurenality
      @laurenality 7 лет назад +36

      Jenn JointNot in 3 dates he won't! At least mature men won't.

    • @claireprincess_
      @claireprincess_ 5 лет назад +3

      I totally agree with you Jenn

    • @nanayaa-ansah
      @nanayaa-ansah 5 лет назад +16

      I don’t think this situation applies.

    • @hopelovegood8131
      @hopelovegood8131 5 лет назад +1

      @@laurenality exactlyyyy

    • @Username0029
      @Username0029 5 лет назад +3

      FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @micheabell4978
    @micheabell4978 7 лет назад +90

    You can't watch this and tell me they're not in love

  • @lowleelana_3316
    @lowleelana_3316 7 лет назад +118

    this is the TOP moment in bachelor history!!! so sad, beautiful, and heartbreaking!

  • @TheCarlScharnberg
    @TheCarlScharnberg 6 месяцев назад +18

    Why did this make me cry?

  • @nataliepope3286
    @nataliepope3286 7 лет назад +439

    This break up was definitely longer than what we are seeing. After they kiss the first time and before he says I love you Rachel there is editing there. Yup was probably a lot of tears that probably was too much to be shown.

    • @yvonnepratt5175
      @yvonnepratt5175 7 лет назад +62

      True coz they didnt show the part where he was crying on the floor. They left a lot out. Must have been more intense

    • @jozigalm8159
      @jozigalm8159 7 лет назад +122

      Also we didnt see the part where she says what am i supposed to do... Apparently they were there for almost 4hrs!! I think they edited it down cause they didnt want to make her engagement to look like a total sham... but who knows... WHAT I DO KNOW is i would pay a shit ton of money for all the Pachel footage...

    • @askalutesfay3433
      @askalutesfay3433 7 лет назад +37

      @Jozigal M omg I would kill to watch that footage !!!!

    • @meyhana6347
      @meyhana6347 7 лет назад +40

      Did we even get the "I don't wanna give up on you and I'm not gonna give up up you" line from Peter ugh

    • @bienfaitmboni
      @bienfaitmboni 7 лет назад +12

      i was so excited for that part damn it

  • @aimeeolivas9723
    @aimeeolivas9723 7 лет назад +60

    When she said I know you're gonna feel pressured to do it that shows that she was gonna pick him not Bryan

  • @dejanelleadams2531
    @dejanelleadams2531 5 лет назад +26

    This is the saddest, most heartbreaking thing to ever watch from the Bachelorette

  • @june049
    @june049 7 лет назад +566

    There is just no explaining this away. Brian cannot possibly watch this and continue to believe Rachel was not in love with Peter..probably still is.

    • @mskeysnote14
      @mskeysnote14 5 лет назад +87

      There's no way you can date 20+ men in a few months and not come out with feelings for more than one person. I think she loved them both but Peter was easier on the eye and had her tooth gap... But in the end, there's nothing more scary than being with a man who doesn't know what he wants. You have to be on your toes the whole time... Its not a good feeling. She picked the right person for her in the end.

    • @lilygrace6689
      @lilygrace6689 5 лет назад +10

      christie bowman Now that I'm older and more mature, I realize that Peter was her first choice, and Bryan was her second choice. If Peter wanted her, she would have picked him. It still worked out for all of them though

    • @dcastillo2008
      @dcastillo2008 4 года назад +31

      @@lilygrace6689 It doesnt matter because Bryan was the right partner. And the better partner. If you have to choose a few years of love or a lifetime...choose a lifetime.

    • @beautifulangel5627
      @beautifulangel5627 4 года назад +2

      @@lilygrace6689 older and more senile is what you sound like.

    • @pepper1188
      @pepper1188 4 года назад +2

      This is like the Desiree season, both Rachel and Desiree ended up picking their second choice.... They're both clearly in love with men that weren't ready to commit... So they took the next best thing nothing wrong with it but it is what it is...

  • @Sedaspiringdental
    @Sedaspiringdental 11 месяцев назад +24

    I was so sad about this and was upset at Rachel when I saw this but as I get older I finally understand where she’s coming from. She made her intentions clear from the start and didn’t want to settle for any less. As much as I loved Peter what he could give was not enough. She definitely made the right decision and I’m so glad that she and Bryan are still married, happy, and together to this day.

  • @viwemdlungu2863
    @viwemdlungu2863 21 день назад +7

    It’s 2024 and I should probably move on but I’m still here 😢.

  • @MargaretMargaretMargaret
    @MargaretMargaretMargaret 6 месяцев назад +14

    I pray these souls get together now that she's getting divorced! I got tears watching this again today
    Jan 2,2024.

  • @kahisasaintlouis7724
    @kahisasaintlouis7724 6 месяцев назад +23

    Rachel go find him now!

  • @weeziventures
    @weeziventures 2 года назад +14

    Years later and this is still sad. This was real, true love.

  • @rq4080
    @rq4080 7 лет назад +222

    My heart is hurting.

  • @naturalself9
    @naturalself9 6 месяцев назад +34

    WHO'S HERE FINDING OUT RACHEL & BRYAN DIVORCING. I always thought he was better for her

    • @christinak.1357
      @christinak.1357 6 месяцев назад +6

      He was. You just feel it. They were so real. It's sad. I pray they can find eachother again

    • @lucyheinrich9888
      @lucyheinrich9888 Месяц назад

      Me too

  • @kristinesanta6971
    @kristinesanta6971 3 года назад +8

    Who is still watching this at the end of 2020? So raw and real...

  • @tamieluv
    @tamieluv 6 лет назад +81

    So....here I am, a month later, here to say that Rachel made the right choice. She is enjoying "her best life" with a man who came on the show fighting hard for her heart, BRYAN. Good job Rachel, you used your brains!

    • @Natapier
      @Natapier 4 года назад +5

      Well said!

  • @meyhana6347
    @meyhana6347 7 лет назад +79

    This scene was beautifully tragic, but I guess everything happens for a reason. Wishing them both the best in everything.

  • @maggiekapindula5417
    @maggiekapindula5417 7 лет назад +1147

    When Rachel and peter's breakup has more views than Rachel and Bryan's proposal. Lol that says a lot

    • @kimerietate382
      @kimerietate382 7 лет назад +31

      Maggie Kapindula I watch this SEVERAL TIMES A DAY.

    • @maggiekapindula5417
      @maggiekapindula5417 7 лет назад +3

      same

    • @vimbainashe2044
      @vimbainashe2044 7 лет назад +12

      lol was about to say that.And I'm still watching lol

    • @agnetorkunda4594
      @agnetorkunda4594 5 лет назад +11

      2019 and still watching

    • @maureenmucureezi7099
      @maureenmucureezi7099 5 лет назад +57

      Because it confirms this world is insane. People love tragedy more than happiness! and oh wait drama and not love? What has the world come to!

  • @rachra
    @rachra 3 года назад +16

    Bryan was into Rachel more than she was into him. Rachel was into Peter more than he was into her. The man should love the woman more (especially at the beginning).. Peter would not have committed in the long run.. She made the right choice.

    • @user-sw6ks4hf7n
      @user-sw6ks4hf7n Год назад +2

      Exactly. Never fall in love with someone who don't love you. Rachel did right

  • @PriyaDesai95
    @PriyaDesai95 7 лет назад +59

    I see Peter's point. It's only been 2 months and that too in a fantasy type of setting. If it were only 2 months in a normal life setting, then maybe he could be ready to propose, but he's not sure what life would look like with her in the real world and he needed time to explore that. It doesn't mean his feelings for her are less. I feel like she chose Bryan just to get a proposal.

  • @kaylaholmes1018
    @kaylaholmes1018 5 лет назад +18

    If she had chose Peter y’all would’ve called her dumb cause y’all would’ve been like “hes not gonna marry her..why wouldn’t she choose Brian”

    • @Natapier
      @Natapier 4 года назад +9

      Well said!! People only wanted Rachel to be unhappy!

    • @sarahkelly3234
      @sarahkelly3234 4 года назад

      Pilot Peter is the new Bachelor and these folks are seriously still rehashing the other Peter's intentions.(✷‿✷)

  • @freespiritwithnature4384
    @freespiritwithnature4384 2 месяца назад +7

    He needed her to trust him

  • @OnTheGoWithGlo
    @OnTheGoWithGlo 7 лет назад +224

    After watching this again I am certain Rachel is not keeping it 💯 In all of these interviews. No one cries like that over someone they did not love. It's actually heartbreaking 😩 I know she wanted to be engaged and it's possible things may not have worked out with Peter, but I wish she just would've gave herself more time.

    • @Tee-fz4mf
      @Tee-fz4mf 4 года назад +4

      itsgloriapowell she found out he had someone on the side

    • @retharamodibedi2788
      @retharamodibedi2788 3 года назад +9

      I agree with you 100% She definitely wanted Peter. If she was sure she wanted to be she with B she would've let Peter go before this date. She keeps saying she wanted "seeing it through". If she knew it was gonna be Bryan why did she want Peter to commit to proposing the next day? I love Rachel but she is not being truthful about this.

    • @aminahbercot6392
      @aminahbercot6392 3 года назад +3

      @@retharamodibedi2788 I agree with you a 💯

    • @MyVeedaLoca
      @MyVeedaLoca 2 года назад

      All laaate lol but what is she supposed to say? It’d affect her real life relationship at that point lol

  • @Maxineshawattyatlaw
    @Maxineshawattyatlaw Год назад +27

    I remember watching this and truly wanting her to pick Peter. They had such great chemistry and clearly cared for each other. I don’t think there is right or wrong here. Just two people with incompatible views on how to approach love. I’m happy that Rachel found what she was looking for, and I hope Peter finds the same.

  • @melissajohnson-eb9vj
    @melissajohnson-eb9vj 7 лет назад +40

    We always want, fight for, and act emotional over men we can't have. That's what happened here. Rachel knew she had Bryan's commitment so her focus was redirected to Peter, who she should have sent home.

  • @freespiritwithnature4384
    @freespiritwithnature4384 2 месяца назад +4

    He adored her. He wanted to give her the wedding day in his way,to be special. They were made for each other.

  • @mdiallo07
    @mdiallo07 7 лет назад +66

    They both backed each other in a corner. They were too stuck in their heads about past experiences and one not having enough time and the other expecting so much in so little time. It's sad because I truly believe they would have made a great couple. Even though Rachel claims now she would have picked Bryan anyways, I believe there's still a part of her that wanted Peter to be more than willing to propose. I am still shocked it's not Peter, but at the end of the day this is about what Rachel wants and she wanted someone who was sure and ready for marriage. Peter seems like a lot of women's ideal man which is why he is so favored and why so many women are upset that Rachel didn't choose him over a proposal. I think Peter needs to figure things out for himself and not jump in to possibly being the next bachelor.

  • @nataliepope3286
    @nataliepope3286 7 лет назад +91

    I need the rest of this break up scene. ABC we need the deleted scences from this break up pronto😅😅You owe us that.....

  • @annafed2419
    @annafed2419 5 лет назад +19

    This is the saddest bachelorette break up ever

  • @Claulma1999
    @Claulma1999 6 месяцев назад +10

    Dang he said mediocre life 😭 and now they’re getting divorced

  • @user-rx2wr5jq5h
    @user-rx2wr5jq5h 6 месяцев назад +17

    I always thought she should have waited for him. Sometimes marriage is not the answer to a happy ending.

  • @cierrarobinson6427
    @cierrarobinson6427 3 года назад +12

    Y’all saying she should’ve picked him but let’s listen to what she said “I have been down this road before “ Constantly waiting and waiting “. Yea she loved him but you don’t know what it feels like to have to beg someone to love you or just to spend the rest of your life with them. Peter was looking for an out idc. Regardless of a proposal, He didn’t fight for her.

  • @BlessingIrving
    @BlessingIrving Год назад +4

    2023 and this is still raw

  • @debrastevenson709
    @debrastevenson709 4 года назад +47

    Peter was so manipulative which is a very dangerous trait and position for Rachel. How could he say I will give you an amazing life when he doesn't even know what he's going to do tomorrow!!!! He wanted to string her along while he wallowed in the valley of indecisiveness in terms of committing to marriage! I'm so glad she cut him loose because he was a painful waste of time and never should have been on the show in the first place!

  • @nataliepope3286
    @nataliepope3286 7 лет назад +57

    You know what the irony( if I can call it that)in all of this is. That we saw a journey to love between Rachel and Peter from the beginning to the very end which includes the breakup. The final rose ceremony in my opinion is to solidify the love story between two people. But I felt like the break up did that instead. It showed us even when they were on the verge of a spilt the love was so intense. To me that break up was the final rose ceremony. It just ended in heart break (I hope it makes sense to whoever reads this). Because we felt all the emotions that is suppose to be felt at the final rose ceremony in this scene even though it was sad. So it gives me some joy to know that what we witnessed throughout this season between rachel and peter was real feelings up until the very end. And pls don't say it was editing because cameras can't fake emotions (unless producers was telling rachel to ball her eyes out😅😅😅) which i doubt they did. what the camera did was capture real moments. Ok I'm done😊

  • @onyia2409
    @onyia2409 5 лет назад +29

    From her first interaction with Bryan, it was clear that he was the one for Rachel. Anyone coming with this bullshit that she “chose the ring over true love” or anything similar is dumb. She had more with Bryan in my opinion and just because it was hard to let Peter go, that doesn’t mean she felt more for him. At the end of the day, him not knowing what he wanted at that point doesn’t mean like some of you are saying that in a bit after the show ended he’d propose. She went with her gut and I’m glad. Her and Bryan are better together than her and Peter ever were or ever would be. Also the fact that her and Bryan are still together proves it is something real while who knows if her and Peter would even still be dating let alone engaged at this point.

    • @Natapier
      @Natapier 4 года назад +4

      Well said!! Peter was so cold, unemotional, boring and uncharismatic.

    • @sarahkelly3234
      @sarahkelly3234 4 года назад

      First black Bachelorette and enough content to last forever. But why? (✷‿✷)

    • @chocolatemami3956
      @chocolatemami3956 2 года назад

      Are u blind??? ... As much as I loved Bryan , that woman loved peter more

    • @onyia2409
      @onyia2409 2 года назад

      Zidane Lai Hing clearly you’re the blind one considering she’s STILL with Bryan and they’re now happily married. I’ll never understand how you random people on the Internet think you know how someone is feeling better than they do LOOOL seek help xox

  • @kittykat248100
    @kittykat248100 3 года назад +12

    love is not just a feeling, it is a choice and a commitment. it's saying 'even after the excitement and infatuation are gone, i will still support, respect, and stand with you.' i think a lot of people fail to understand this

  • @rebo_7724
    @rebo_7724 3 года назад +21

    It’s 2021 and I’ve never seen a breakup like in my life!!! This shit was real! No one can tell me otherwise!!!!