Hey Charlotte. I want to take a moment to say thank you. My father has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease and it's been rough. But what brings us back to laughing and positivity is watching your videos. It means more than you'll ever know to hear his contagious laugh fill up the room . He always wonders if "the funny red head" has a video out. Since he forgets I know some of your words by heart, lol. Thanks again for creating good times for not only him, but my mother and I as well. ❤
Awe I’m so sorry my friend. That is really tough. I’ll be praying for you and yours. I pray insurance takes care of all your needs, and he is really responsive towards medications. I’ll also be praying for your strength during all this. My grandpa got under 6mos to live, he will die of sepsis. It’s heartbreaking and hard. He’s in a lot of pain. But watching someone degrade is so painful and hard.
I feel like it’s a passive aggressive way to disrespect the mother of his child. Like in some fantasy the father and daughter run into the ex and she hears him call his daughter by name, and she’s so touched she runs into his arms… Loco 😜
Only thing I can come up with is less names to remember or if he slips up “no I just said our daughter’s name instead of yours.” My partner has called me my daughter’s name on accident before, I call her sister her name sometimes on accident. So, my guess is no chance for a marriage ending slip up 🤷🏻♀️
Yep. My dad asked if he could name their first child. Mom: Yes, he named me after the woman he almost married. I think Dad cheated on her and she dumped him. A few years later he met my mom and they got married pretty fast. My grandma was the one who told Mom. Mom hated my grandma forever after that. She hated the wrong person.
My dad kept shooting down my moms names because he kept saying, "Dated her, dated her, dated her," such a redflag, tbh since they had me as an oopsie at 19. My moms Japanese so she said F it, shes getting an Asian name.
@@SaintShion hahah I love the fuckit moments! Usually gets you to the correct solution ❤ Edited to Say your mom is one of the great ones - My mom is too ❤. Gonna call her right now and remind her of that.... Thank you
MY ex bf named his daughter after me but his wife knew and was quite happy with it, one she liked the name and two i had introduced them lol, she knew other than feeling like brother and sister absolutely no Romantic feelings on either side lol
The naming your kid story hits close to home, since my dad named me AND my older sister over the woman he pined over for decades, whom he never even dated. Needless to say we’ve both changed our names.
That first one was so sweet. Also one the guy could add, because he's the one trying to win her back and not the other way around, is Baby Come Back by Player
My husband and I have our own PCs. Mine broke down last week and so I've been using my husband's to watch videos on RUclips. I've watched sooo many Charlotte Dobre AITA or BRIDEZILLA videos, his algorithm has completely changed and now the first video that pops up on his feed is yours 😂 Love you, petty queen 👑
Naming your child after your ex-girlfriend 20 years back is a different level of crazy . Even if he wanted to , should have discussed with the mother of his child . I have known instances where the mother of the baby threw a fit when the husband tried to name his daughter after his own mother . Heads will literally roll for this behaviour.
My ex husband named his children after my husband and our child. I could understand my husband's name as it is not uncommon but our son's name was taken from my husband's family name..not a common name at all.
My first daughter I had been in labor 18hrs, as I slept husband filled out birth certificate, when it came in he put it behind flowers on the shelf and went outside. A nurse actually saw this and came back and gave it to me because it didn’t have my signature. The first name was an ex gf and the middle name was another ex gf. I put in the name I wanted and signed, I sent it to records to be certified then got a shot for pain. When certificate came back from medical records department certified, his parents came in and saw it and were calling her by the name I had given. The look on his face was priceless, OK HE WAS MAD AF!! I filed for divorce within 6months. (?) Did anyone else want to close the window on the psycho ex when her arms and phone came in. It’s unlawful entry.
That's one of the craziest things I have ever heard. Who would do that?? WHY would he name your child anything without your permission? But, after his Ex's?? What a completely psychotic, disrespectful, calculated, cruel and just plain nonsensical thing to do. She would have really disliked that later. Not to mention what that would have been like for you. Men like that should come with tattooed warning labels. Good job on getting away from him!! Yikes.
The way you gave us this jaw dropping story and then just casually snuck in the comment about the girl opening the window at the end as if you didn’t just drop that bomb on us 😂😂
@@MDuarte-vp7bmHow do you find a way to defend him bro??? 💀💀💀 You seriously cannot think bro wasnt completely malicious with naming the baby after TWO of his ex's and not a name they agreed on??? If I was that kid I'd rather be named anything BUT after my dad's exs. He's obviously still not over the women and wanted to force his kid to have their names which is weird asf. She wasn't in labor for 18hrs just for her kid to be named after two women her husband used to bang 💀💀💀
@happinessenjoyer You act like you know what the names are. Just cause he banged em, the names are off limits? Get real. People have the same names. Sounds like she's literally just insane with jealousy. She was mad he did something disrespectful by naming the kid without talking about it, then she turned around and did the exact same thing. These are the kinds of parents who will be divorced within a year, suing each other for child support and denying visitation as a form of petty revenge. The child will be forgotten.
The psychology of these people... I did a charity film for a domestic violence/stalking awareness campaign when I was about 16/17, and my scene partner then cyber stalked me for the next two years??? he was literally doing what the film we did, warned people our age to look out for??? still no idea what he was thinking (if anything)
@@Nixmeri2411 you're right, it kind of was 😳 I basically had to block him everywhere but it helped when I moved away, I have a social media presence again now (I'm an actor) and I still worry about him sometimes
@@yasaminwhy8212 glad you’re doing better and good luck with your acting gigs, I might see you in the future (currently in school to be a screen writer). And wishing you all the best that he doesn’t come back 🤞
My old roommate's ex faked his death to get away from her. His family and friends played their part, they posted an obituary in the paper and held a celebration of life for him. Living with her, I wasn't surprised. She wasn't just bat sh*t crazy, she actually looked like a bat. She stole the copy of the portfolio my best friend gave me, that he used when he was a model. She stole personal pictures of mine, along with letters from my boyfriend and friends who moved away, newspaper articles I kept that had no significance to her, and she stole my underwear and lingerie. When I confrontated her, she took off and came back with a fake eviction notice for me from "our landlord". We lived in a basement suite and our landlord lived upstairs, I called him to come have a chat, I thought it was hilarious but he wasn't the slightest bit amused; that was the final straw for him, he went upstairs and wrote her an eviction notice. Life was great once she left.
You really don't, believe me lol. She is one of those people that when you see them for the first time, you involuntarily recoil. I know that's mean to say, but I'm just being honest. If jump scare were a human, it would be her. I honestly felt bad for her, until I got to know her and soon realized her personality matched.
My Uncle faked his death back in the 1970”s to get away from my crazy aunt . 7 years later the day the state was going to declare him deceased my aunt was notified that he was found living in California with a woman who he had children with.😂
Ive also seen stories where husbands have found out their wives named their son after an old flame or ex. Just, people naming their kids after previous lovers is baffling and horrifying. If you're so hung up on someone, don't get with someone else.
I've been going through a recent breakup of 6 years so I was a little scared to watch this cause anything relationship just makes me cry. I haven't watched you in a couple months cause life and oh how I was not expecting to cry at the into saying "hey welcome back everybody" I don't know how you manage to make it feel like I have a friend with me right now that I desperately need. thank you charlotte!
@@melissabell4927 for me no worries the day i was born my father went w her mistress and send my mom back home and at that moment my mom was like “you are not coming in the house anymore” so in my memories he never live with us but saw him one day with a gf(?) and after i asked him and he said he wasn’t with anyone… my father you can’t confuse him with anyone else, his skin his kinda dark but not that much and he looks like a latin version of Vince Vaugh
So my baby dad, wanted to name our daughter Brynn. It’s pretty and I was thinking about it, until 3 days later, I got pulled over by an officer Brynn the next town over. It was a blessing because I mentioned her name and said my bd name, and she instantly lit up. Turn out it was his ex. I named her something amazing instead.
My oldest brother wanted to name his daughter after his ex, but his wife at the time said no. So rather than naming her "butterfly" (in my language) (also his ex's name), he decided to name her "moth" (in my language) instead to spite her.
OMG, the girl trying to get through the window… dude first I would’ve had security locked n security cameras EVERYWHERE, a restraining order! but what had me was her rolling down the blinds! That’s funny af
Ugh the mom Finding out her husband named their baby after an ex was unfortunately so relatable for me…I had a friend not even a boyfriend just a friend 15 years ago, who told me one day he was gonna name his daughter after me…our friendship ended because he was schizophrenic and we discovered he was blatantly not taking his meds and legit spiraling…said he was gonna kill me…possessed by demons etc…flash forward 5 years after exiting that friendship, the whole friend group finds out he got married briefly, had twins and one of the twins he did in fact name after me…and worse, he was in prison, for having a psychotic break and trying to harm the twin named after me…absolutely effin terrifying…just had to share
@@HibaHiba-bw9gr oh big time, I definitely keep an eye on that stuff. He spooked the entire friend group, but he claimed it was the demon that wanted to cause harm not him, and he actually tried to stay away from everyone by himself because of that. Really weird situation no less…it’s not always a compliment or an honor to have someone name their kid after you lol 😑
My dad almost named me after his ex, who he then desperately tried to cheat on my mom with years later, but she was happily married to a wealthier man who she also had kids with and wouldn't even give him the time of day.
Charlotte, that guy naming his daughter after his ex girlfriend, totally reminds me of my mother-in-law Edna. She thought her Dad did that too!!! Her father was a WW2 veteran in the Army, his battalion fought against Germany. My husband's family is Puerto Rican and Edna is not a common name there....
I had a stalker. He was ruining my life. Gay friends convinced me to hide in their community They said he would never look for me there and if he did he would think oh forget that. I was very safe there for 2 years. I was glad I did it. He did find me after I moved out and needed to finish school out of the area. He was still searching for me while I was on my honeymoon. I know he has lost track of me now because I moved a long distance away and it's been many many years but having someone like that is quite frightening The only thing I had to do was they warned me don't let anybody in the community know that you're straight I wasn't dating anyway I was too scared to after what I was going through so it was a nice peaceful time and I could focus on work and school. I could also get to know people that normally won't show you the truth of their life because they don't trust outsiders. It was sad it was the beginning of the AIDS epidemic most of the people I knew were gone within about 5 years including my dear friend. I I had grown up with him through high school and we'd even work together I've gotten him a job at the hospital I worked at.
To name your kid after an ex, is a constant reminder of her. If you're looking at your wife, do you wish she was your ex? Did you settle? Also, how creepy are you going to treat your daughter? Are you going to pamper her, treat her like gold? Or obsess over her too much? The mind of a crazed man and his decisions are fascinating to me.
In one of Dean Koontz's novels ( from long ago), a female detective exchanges Elvis Presley song titles with a perp in an attempt to find him in the warehouse.
Your makeup look in this video Charolette is my favorite makeup look I’ve seen you do. Man you look so beautiful with those eye shadow colors! Makes your eyes and hair stand out and looks great with your skin tone! Fire!🔥
I came to the realization that the less I know, the happier I am. That applies to most aspects of my life. I don't need to know who talks behind my back and who stalks my socials. I just live my life.
My mom is named after my grandpa's ex. So she switched her middle name to her first name, but her legal name is still the ex's first and middle name. My grandma refused to ever call her the first name after finding out.
I remember being in a playground conversation with moms years ago where one was insisting "Never let your husband name your daughter, because he'll always name it after an ex-girlfriend". I had never heard that before, but I've heard it a lot since.
My ex-hb was pretty insistent on what he wanted to name is son, but didn't care at all about his daughter. I tweaked my son's name a bit cause I had an objection to the first name, it was the same as my mom's 3rd hb who molested me when I was a teen. He wanted to name his son after his two grandfathers. He didn't object to my change though. So my son got his maternal great grandfather's name for first name and the same middle name as my hb.
Honestly, I named both our kids lmao I had the names picked before we were married. I only wish I had chosen a different middle name for my son. However, my husband was ok with my niece given the middle name. It worked out our son's 18 and about to graduate and leave for boot camp, and our daughter is going to be a sophomore in high school. All in all, he's just happy being a father 🤗
i heard a story once about a wife who confronted her husband about naming their daughter after his mistress. His response was that he named her that so that, if he made a mistake and called his wife by his mistress' name, she would think it was their daughter.
Hey Charlotte, was back in ICU for seizures and when I was coherent my nurse brought me my phone to watch you. Bestie, you’ve helped keep me (and my nurse) laughing! Thank you for all you do for us!
My middle name came from some girl in primary school my dad met once. ONCE. Hearing my mom, she made it sound like he was in this complete relationship and never got over her. No, it was just the first time he heard it and liked the name. He can't even remember anything else about the kid, no classes together or anything.
My cousin’s ex took her kids while she was on a vacation in Mexico & refused to give them back. They had been broken up for 6 years & co-parented amicably. Even down to him agreeing to pay child support without a court order. Skip to 2018 & she starts dating a guy & his parents moved to mexico when they retired. She gets engaged in 2020, in Mexico, the trip they took together where she was meeting his parents. Comes back to Canada engaged, ex is pissed. 2021, shes in mexico w/ fiancee, visiting in laws. Kids had a week off of school, they went to dads, then were supposed to go to grandmas while she quarantined upon return (cause c-vidI9). He gets a lawyer to draft papers requesting that she sign over custody of her kids to her ex. Remember she’s in mexico on vacation. It took a court order after 68 days (cause canada) for her to get her kids for a weekend. He almost refused to let her see her kids cause he claimed he was too busy to drop them off cause his family was visiting. Skip ahead to Aug 2023, at a custody trial, the judge finally grants her custody & returns her kids back to her. Yesterday she finally got an order for court ordered child support. In the meantime, he has only fought for custody of their son. They also have a daughter. He openly says he only cares about the son. He’s jealous of her fiancee & has made it abundantly clear that no other man is welcome in his son’s life. Her ex his literal breathing garbage.
My ex boyfriend tried to contact me via an ecommerce app. He knew my user profile and tried to message me there. Then another tried to contact me via a mobile game he knows I always play. 😂
16:44 I actually read a book called "Men (sometimes unfortunately) always come back", by Penelope Parker. And basically says "Your boyfriend broke up and you want him to come back to you? then don't do anything to get him back. If you try to get him back, he'll resist you. But if you move on, he'll definitely come back." It was a funny read XD
They like the feeling of having conquered a woman. If they have you you are no longer something that needs to be conquered. If they already had you, but you're not interested anymore, you can be conquered again.
Honestly not wrong. I'm not attractive at all, I look like a large potato with ginger fringe, and I've only ever had like 3 partners my whole 36 years of life.... but all 3 have moseyed back (after years and years apart). I dumped them, went non-con, and years later they found me. The first one to reconnect was also the first boy I ever fell for (we broke up over kid stuff when we were still 15/16 and then he went into military ASAP for a few years, I thought he had died); he messaged me out of the blue over 12 years later, and I took him back, lol. He's the sweetest man, even if NEITHER of us are perfect and both have some issues now that complicate relationships... Don't be desperate! If its MEANT to be, it'll happen. The others who came back were too late, lol, I had already reconnected with #1 and discovered I was happy with him. Sometimes it can take YEARS, but if that person is RIGHT for you, you'll have another shot around. And if you don't, well, there's other people in the world too. DO. NOT. YEET. YOUR. CROWN. Put that sh1t on, wear it with pride and let them sort their own sh1t out.
Anyone else getting some Adam Levine vibes with the dude naming his daughter after his ex? All the comments about the men naming their kids after the mistresses *bombastic SIDE EYE* Love you Charlotte, and Sharklotte too! You’re living the dream, and looking abso-fudging-luuuutely flawless ☺️ Congratulations and wish I would be able to see you irl,but moving provinces does that😅, you enjoy the amazing things you’ve made come true for yourself🎉❤🎉🎉🎉
Hilarious! I have a calico kitten whose name morphed from Champ to Charlemagne to Charlotte. Charlotte stuck and she's called Char-Char when she's nice and Sharklotte when she's bitey. 😅
That first one is absolutely toxic 😂 It's like alcohol. A little bit is alright but the more you do it the worse you'll feel tomorrow, the dumber your decisions get, and the higher the risk of damaging yourself beyond just alchol poisoning gets.. In saying that, my phone will stay connected to RUclips on my TV at home, and I will interrupt whatever my kids are watching while I'm at the shops to tell them to do something that needs done. It's amazing.
Tbh that first 1 kinda hurt my heart. That man was being stalked and you know people didnt fully believed him. Like poor guy had to publicly change his sexual identity for her to stop. Im glad it worked tho
My coworker just told me about a story like this This week! His niece was named after the father's ex.. The mom found out after, they are now divorced!!
As a fan who has been with the channel since pretty close to the beginning, may I congratulate you on climbing that ladder? I remember you sharing the hard work, setbacks, laughs, tears, and victories along the way! Well done, Miss Charlotte! ❤
Yeah... I was sat here like "the only reason they ain't slammed that window on her arms, jabbed at her with a broom handle or done something else must be because they know how much worse such things are seen when its male vs female presenting scenario". Like, as a woman, I would have immediately freaked out and gone on a rabid attack, slamming the window on the arms, fk I might have grabbed up a knife and started slashing the sh1t out of the intruder... I mean, do I care if I know them? NO. My space is being invaded by someone I did not permit in, I'd lose all my marbles... They so calm, though, it's like, did at least someone call the cops?!
not me having this video play on a background tab and mad scrambling with my mouse at the mention of SALAD FINGERS!! Blast from the past smacking me dead between the eyes. Love it!!!
To answer the question about the psychology behind it: it might be about unresolved feelings or a weird way of holding onto the past. Sometimes people don't fully let go of their previous relationships, and this can manifest in strange ways. It could also be about control or some misplaced sense of nostalgia. But seriously, thinking it's okay to name a baby like that without discussing it? That's just asking for trouble. What a mess!
Man, the girl whose stalker named their baby after her hit hooome. My dad was a self-proclaimed 'lothario' and deadass named his daughters after his exes, which is how my half-sisters got their names. He wanted so bad to name me Suki when I was born, thinking my mum didn't know that was his ex but she veto'd that shit so hard. I thought I'd gotten away clean until I found another sibling (they pop up due to my dad's prolific history) and turns out my middle name is, indeed, my brother's birth mother's name. How my own mum went on to birth another child with him after that initial fiasco though is honestly beyond me, but here we are. Store-bought pesto though. Crazy.
I worked for an insane mua and she was so crazy her ex bf is still dead according to facebook... He isnt dead. But his entire family and friends are in on the lie to get rid of this woman
My sister had a bunch of crazy ex’s but the last one was a doozy- he called her up 2 years later at like 1 in the morning-from going no contact-from a unknown number drunk and trying to talk dirty to her and begging her to take him back and she’s just like 😐 um no.youre drunk and im married and 6 months pregnant. 😂😂
I'm an old lady (66) but I get such a kick out of your videos! Makes me glad to not be in all that drama anymore. I can just sit back and watch. I especially like the MIL ones. (I know this isn't one) My MIL was so nice. Just wanted to let you know, Charlotte, or CharLOT.
U know an ex be crazy when u have start changing names. My grandmother on my dad's side and my aunt on my mother's side had the same name so for years I thought of naming my second girl after them both. My aunt was then stalked by a crazy ex and she had to move far away to an island, get a secret address and a new name. She is doing great now with several businesses and a great husband - can't believe the drama that sometimes occur in everyday life. Still stuck on the old name but gotta explain someday why she is named after an aunt with a different name than hers 🙊
One of your most relatable traits is not wanting to be in places/with people who want nothing to do with you. I just can't grasp insisting on getting their acceptance...even as a teen, I couldn't!
This entire video reminds me of my ex gf from the early 90s. The most beautiful, hawtest Scorpio you'd ever want to date. Also the craziest. This is the girl who, if you didn't respond to a vm immediately, would call and FILL your answering machine with crying, psychotic messages. Things came to a head when i broke off with her and she as per usual, left countless vm's i refused to respond to, and she showed up at my porch, in my VERY quiet neighborhood, at 3 am. She stood/sat/sprawled on my stoop for HOURS, threatening to use a boxcutter on herself if i didn't talk to her. I ended up calling the police, who showed up with a police dog and helicopter, because she had a weapon lmao. They simply escorted her off the property and i got a restraining order. The next time i ran into her, she was dating my ex gf🤣🤣🤣 They were welcome to each other.
Ok so i have to pause and comment. I have no way of proving it but pretty sure my ex-husband cheated with his co-worker, when we had our daughter this fool tried so hard to name our daughter the same name. I gave in for a sec and then when it was time to put it on the birth certificate i said no and put a different name. Never have i regreted going with my intuition that day.
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Yeah. I'd say your intuition on the cheating is probably really spot on. If he didn't factually do the deeds, he's got some sort of attachment or something for the coworker - provided he was legit STUCK on that name and not providing any real reason why he was so dead-set on using that name. Sounds like he REALLY tried and let me tell you... it's not that hard normally to discuss names~! Usually its more collaborative... until one partner brings up a name they have an EMOTIONAL bonding to and desire to use it BECAUSE of that tie to their emotions. IDK why your ex was so attached to the name of a COWORKER that he was stuck on it, but couldn't provide more of a reason than, I assume, generic "I like it" statements? I would assume if he HAD a good reason that explained the ties to the name, he'd have told you to make his argument stronger. I'm so sorry that you found the shady d!ck, and I hope your life is much better now you've moved on~! For what's its worth, that IS really weird of him and I, also, immediately suspect cheating just based off the "why else would he fight for the name of a coworker and have no real arguments other than wanting that name"?
My ex tried to reach out to me to go on a coffee date with him. When I turned him down he went ballistic on me.. I just blocked him. 🙄🙄 this is the same guy who tried to expose me to things I was allergic to, tried to smother me when we slept together because I “snored too loud” and admitted to me that he wanted to date me so he could be like the main guy from “Cruel Intentions” . So delulu.
The ex that wouldn't leave me alone turned into a stalker...finally got rid of him when I sent a 6' 6" brick wall of a man to explain to him that if he didn't leave me alone they would never be able to identify him IF they ever found him. Haven't seen him in 10+ yrs. Had a friend whose son was taken advantage of in college...the ex gf drove up to his college to see him, knowing he had moved on. She got him impaired and took advantage of the situation. Well, she wound up pregnant thinking she could get him back. He told her he will choose the name, she's all excited thinking they will get back together. Long story short, his first child was named by his now wife and baby mama has no clue. Only 4 ppl know...him, his wife, his mom and me. Best kept secret ever! No way to tie it to the now wife. 😂😂
Can you guys help me here.. my ex turned to be my stalker and has been stalking me since 2016. He justifies his actions by saying it is because he loves me and will love me till eternity so he won't ever forget me. He glorifies it like some romantic shit. But I have become so socially anxious that I have started hiding my life. He knew which university I took admission in, he then came living near me when I changed my address. All this is so creepy and I'm naturally a very scared fragile person. Like in the video she said should I also protect my identity in socials and stop giving out government name? Its definitely social media from where he recieves info
@Mistinpurple2 Try to document everything. Keep a diary. Screenshot any calls/ texts. Install cameras with audio - all these can help you build a case against him. Inform the police/school that he is not welcome in your life, and that you want them to know this. Tell your trusted neighbours that he is NOT your boyfriend, and that he is NOT welcome. That way you are covering your bases. Change social media names and privatise everything. Change passwords to things that he doesn't know. Do whatever you have to to protect yourself. Good luck!
Hey Charlotte! I want you to know how much you and your channel means to me. Binge watching your videos has helped me through depression and anxiety, and I can’t thank you enough for that. You’re fun, funny and beautiful. Never ever doubt that ❤
I have irish twin boys age 1 and 2 and they smile when they hear your voice and they kiss the screen when they see you just wanted you to know you have tiny admirers too❤😂😂
The ex/mistress naming business is wild to me. I got my name because my parents needed to leave the hospital with a name on my birth certificate not just "baby girl.". My kids are named after beloved family members that have passed.
My dad offered my mom a choice of two names - both current girlfriends at the time. She picked a shortened name of one and demanded to name the next child. Needless to say the marriage did not last but not before great damage was done to all 3 children over 12 years.
12:30 If he accidentally says his mistress's name, he can always say he was referring to the child. Crazy, but I guess this happens more that I thought.
Just wanted to say thank you for your videos. Life’s been more than difficult the past few years, multiple bereavements, my mum has early onset dementia and is very poorly, dad waiting for massive surgery, and I had my own week in hospital a couple of months ago. I discovered your videos then and I’ve been working my way through them since. They make me laugh on the darkest of days, so thank you.
I was born in 1959. So crazy isn’t a new thing. About 10, 15 years ago I asked my mom how my name was chosen? She said matter a factually, your dad named you after his first girlfriend! My mom and dad were together until he passed away, then she married the man she had been “seeing” for 5 years!
My dad actually named me after one of his ex girlfriends, I couldnt understand when I was a kid my mom would call me Marty instead of my name, when I turned 18 she told me. I laughed so hard and she got mad at me.
As someone who was stalked by an ex ( he went to prison for it), I find people like this unhinged! They may think it's "cute", but for the person on the receiving end, it's anything but. Glad to see Sharklotte back!! 😘
This channel is like a funny diary with all the tea and drama from social media. Congratulations to Charlotte and her team. Thanks for all the laughs. I appreciate you so much❤
Naming your kid after an ex is crazy, but I got one even crazier. My friend's daughter gave her son 5 middle names. Each middle name was the name of a man she had slept with.
Hey Charlotte. I want to take a moment to say thank you. My father has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease and it's been rough. But what brings us back to laughing and positivity is watching your videos. It means more than you'll ever know to hear his contagious laugh fill up the room . He always wonders if "the funny red head" has a video out. Since he forgets I know some of your words by heart, lol. Thanks again for creating good times for not only him, but my mother and I as well. ❤
Our best regards to you and your dad! Stay safe and petty ❤
Awe I’m so sorry my friend. That is really tough. I’ll be praying for you and yours. I pray insurance takes care of all your needs, and he is really responsive towards medications. I’ll also be praying for your strength during all this. My grandpa got under 6mos to live, he will die of sepsis. It’s heartbreaking and hard. He’s in a lot of pain. But watching someone degrade is so painful and hard.
@@erikarussell1142 i lovee You so mush my amie 😊❤
Charlotte is amazing❤❤❤❤❤Keep up the good work ma'am
This brought tears to my eyes. Sending hugs to fellow petty potatoes 🥔
As psychology major, the men naming their children after exes or mistresses, I'd love to pick their brains and see if I could uncover an answer
Very aFreud guys 😂
Me too
I feel like it’s a passive aggressive way to disrespect the mother of his child. Like in some fantasy the father and daughter run into the ex and she hears him call his daughter by name, and she’s so touched she runs into his arms…
Loco 😜
Only thing I can come up with is less names to remember or if he slips up “no I just said our daughter’s name instead of yours.” My partner has called me my daughter’s name on accident before, I call her sister her name sometimes on accident. So, my guess is no chance for a marriage ending slip up 🤷🏻♀️
In my opinion it is wery disrespectfull of your child!
Yep. My dad asked if he could name their first child. Mom:
Yes, he named me after the woman he almost married. I think Dad cheated on her and she dumped him. A few years later he met my mom and they got married pretty fast. My grandma was the one who told Mom. Mom hated my grandma forever after that. She hated the wrong person.
My dad kept shooting down my moms names because he kept saying, "Dated her, dated her, dated her," such a redflag, tbh since they had me as an oopsie at 19. My moms Japanese so she said F it, shes getting an Asian name.
@@SaintShion hahah I love the fuckit moments! Usually gets you to the correct solution ❤
Edited to Say your mom is one of the great ones - My mom is too ❤. Gonna call her right now and remind her of that.... Thank you
@@CanadianCommando awww that's really wholesome and cute! Thanks for brightening up my day and your moms ^^
Definitely the wrong person
MY ex bf named his daughter after me but his wife knew and was quite happy with it, one she liked the name and two i had introduced them lol, she knew other than feeling like brother and sister absolutely no Romantic feelings on either side lol
The naming your kid story hits close to home, since my dad named me AND my older sister over the woman he pined over for decades, whom he never even dated. Needless to say we’ve both changed our names.
That first one was so sweet. Also one the guy could add, because he's the one trying to win her back and not the other way around, is Baby Come Back by Player
My husband and I have our own PCs. Mine broke down last week and so I've been using my husband's to watch videos on RUclips. I've watched sooo many Charlotte Dobre AITA or BRIDEZILLA videos, his algorithm has completely changed and now the first video that pops up on his feed is yours 😂 Love you, petty queen 👑
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LOL THATS WHAT I LIKE TO HEAR. Love u bestie!
This is the best thing I've ever heard. 😂😂
We move in the shadows
My husband has seen my algorithm and he says absolutely not! It's sacred, and I respect that.
Naming your child after your ex-girlfriend 20 years back is a different level of crazy . Even if he wanted to , should have discussed with the mother of his child . I have known instances where the mother of the baby threw a fit when the husband tried to name his daughter after his own mother . Heads will literally roll for this behaviour.
My ex husband named his children after my husband and our child. I could understand my husband's name as it is not uncommon but our son's name was taken from my husband's family name..not a common name at all.
Jay Z named his daughter Blu and he dated Blu Cantrell. I always found that weird.
I am named after my mom's old crush... I still like my name.😅
It’s very creepy that a man would want to name his daughter after someone he fucked. To much.
@@reynarose5770they also tanked her career 😢 and oh is there a conspiracy within the conception and birth of that child 🫣 😅
My first daughter I had been in labor 18hrs, as I slept husband filled out birth certificate, when it came in he put it behind flowers on the shelf and went outside. A nurse actually saw this and came back and gave it to me because it didn’t have my signature. The first name was an ex gf and the middle name was another ex gf. I put in the name I wanted and signed, I sent it to records to be certified then got a shot for pain. When certificate came back from medical records department certified, his parents came in and saw it and were calling her by the name I had given. The look on his face was priceless, OK HE WAS MAD AF!! I filed for divorce within 6months. (?) Did anyone else want to close the window on the psycho ex when her arms and phone came in. It’s unlawful entry.
That's one of the craziest things I have ever heard. Who would do that?? WHY would he name your child anything without your permission? But, after his Ex's?? What a completely psychotic, disrespectful, calculated, cruel and just plain nonsensical thing to do. She would have really disliked that later. Not to mention what that would have been like for you. Men like that should come with tattooed warning labels. Good job on getting away from him!! Yikes.
The way you gave us this jaw dropping story and then just casually snuck in the comment about the girl opening the window at the end as if you didn’t just drop that bomb on us 😂😂
@sarahkelley9045 Same way she named the child without asking.
Two self absorbed people using a child as less than a whole person.
@@MDuarte-vp7bmHow do you find a way to defend him bro??? 💀💀💀 You seriously cannot think bro wasnt completely malicious with naming the baby after TWO of his ex's and not a name they agreed on??? If I was that kid I'd rather be named anything BUT after my dad's exs. He's obviously still not over the women and wanted to force his kid to have their names which is weird asf. She wasn't in labor for 18hrs just for her kid to be named after two women her husband used to bang 💀💀💀
@happinessenjoyer You act like you know what the names are.
Just cause he banged em, the names are off limits? Get real. People have the same names. Sounds like she's literally just insane with jealousy.
She was mad he did something disrespectful by naming the kid without talking about it, then she turned around and did the exact same thing.
These are the kinds of parents who will be divorced within a year, suing each other for child support and denying visitation as a form of petty revenge. The child will be forgotten.
The psychology of these people... I did a charity film for a domestic violence/stalking awareness campaign when I was about 16/17, and my scene partner then cyber stalked me for the next two years??? he was literally doing what the film we did, warned people our age to look out for??? still no idea what he was thinking (if anything)
That’s video was just homework for him to learn all the techniques, that’s messed up! I hope your ok and he’s gone but it’s wild
@@Nixmeri2411 you're right, it kind of was 😳 I basically had to block him everywhere but it helped when I moved away, I have a social media presence again now (I'm an actor) and I still worry about him sometimes
@@yasaminwhy8212 glad you’re doing better and good luck with your acting gigs, I might see you in the future (currently in school to be a screen writer). And wishing you all the best that he doesn’t come back 🤞
My old roommate's ex faked his death to get away from her. His family and friends played their part, they posted an obituary in the paper and held a celebration of life for him.
Living with her, I wasn't surprised. She wasn't just bat sh*t crazy, she actually looked like a bat.
She stole the copy of the portfolio my best friend gave me, that he used when he was a model. She stole personal pictures of mine, along with letters from my boyfriend and friends who moved away, newspaper articles I kept that had no significance to her, and she stole my underwear and lingerie.
When I confrontated her, she took off and came back with a fake eviction notice for me from "our landlord".
We lived in a basement suite and our landlord lived upstairs, I called him to come have a chat, I thought it was hilarious but he wasn't the slightest bit amused; that was the final straw for him, he went upstairs and wrote her an eviction notice.
Life was great once she left.
Now I want to See a Photo of her 😂
You really don't, believe me lol.
She is one of those people that when you see them for the first time, you involuntarily recoil.
I know that's mean to say, but I'm just being honest.
If jump scare were a human, it would be her. I honestly felt bad for her, until I got to know her and soon realized her personality matched.
@@egryeyes o goodness... Sounds like a person to keep distance from 😅
@FranziskaMLeibe she is lol.
My Uncle faked his death back in the 1970”s to get away from my crazy aunt . 7 years later the day the state was going to declare him deceased my aunt was notified that he was found living in California with a woman who he had children with.😂
As my parents taught me, if they love you there is no way you can lose them; if they don't love you there is no way you can keep them.
Good one.
that's very wise I'm writing that one down lol
Yall remember Adam Lavinge wanting to name his kid after his mistress, and then mistress told the whole internet. Fn crazy
WTF!!
Some ppl have no shame. Straight to the 🔥🗑🔥 with him.
Psycho behavior. He really hates his wife.
He is 🗑️
Pepperidge Farms remembers lol
Ive also seen stories where husbands have found out their wives named their son after an old flame or ex. Just, people naming their kids after previous lovers is baffling and horrifying. If you're so hung up on someone, don't get with someone else.
The only one of my kids that shares the same name as an ex is my eldest. But my son was born years before I met the guy, so that doesn't count!
That 45 second argument with a shark puppet... Girl you are unhinged and I'm here for it! ❤ Thank you for being unapologetically you!
I've been going through a recent breakup of 6 years so I was a little scared to watch this cause anything relationship just makes me cry. I haven't watched you in a couple months cause life and oh how I was not expecting to cry at the into saying "hey welcome back everybody" I don't know how you manage to make it feel like I have a friend with me right now that I desperately need. thank you charlotte!
You are going to make it through, French Fry! Give yourself time!❤
Not only am I named after my dad's mistress, I met her several times and my dad had me attend her funeral with him about ten years ago. Truly wild.
Sameee
I’m very sorry to hear you had to go through this in life
@@melissabell4927 for me no worries the day i was born my father went w her mistress and send my mom back home and at that moment my mom was like “you are not coming in the house anymore” so in my memories he never live with us but saw him one day with a gf(?) and after i asked him and he said he wasn’t with anyone… my father you can’t confuse him with anyone else, his skin his kinda dark but not that much and he looks like a latin version of Vince Vaugh
I would simply send my dad same day delivery to god to be with her 💕
😮😮😮@@Yeya1802
So my baby dad, wanted to name our daughter Brynn. It’s pretty and I was thinking about it, until 3 days later, I got pulled over by an officer Brynn the next town over. It was a blessing because I mentioned her name and said my bd name, and she instantly lit up. Turn out it was his ex. I named her something amazing instead.
Aaahhhhhhh!
That name thing is crazy I really don't understand
My oldest brother wanted to name his daughter after his ex, but his wife at the time said no. So rather than naming her "butterfly" (in my language) (also his ex's name), he decided to name her "moth" (in my language) instead to spite her.
But what are the names?
@@lillia2479 Hey moths are good luck
Not just his ex, but HIS EX FROM 20 YEARS AGO! That is some really creepy stuff!
Is it just me, or is it kinda gross to name your daughter after somebody you had sex with? That gives me really icky vibes
Gives me Adam Levine vibes, so many men do this, good to know what to blacklist.
Maybe she had a really pretty name.???😅
I still wouldn't want my child named after an ex or a mistress.
I found out last year that my ex from over 20 years ago fights with his wife of 17 years about me. I’ve had zero contact with him since 2005.
My stepsister-in-law is a nightmare. Engaged 6 times, married twice. One ex moved across the country and joined the Navy to get away from her.
The fact that the first couple was able to do this and understood each other. 😂 They should be together. 😂
OMG, the girl trying to get through the window… dude first I would’ve had security locked n security cameras EVERYWHERE, a restraining order! but what had me was her rolling down the blinds! That’s funny af
She obviously wanted privacy while she made that phone call. 😂😂😂 don’t you hate when people stare at you when you’re on the phone? It’s so rude! 😂😂
Why didn't he roll down the blinds?
Nah that shit was legit scary, like esp when she stuck her hands through 😭😭
Ugh the mom Finding out her husband named their baby after an ex was unfortunately so relatable for me…I had a friend not even a boyfriend just a friend 15 years ago, who told me one day he was gonna name his daughter after me…our friendship ended because he was schizophrenic and we discovered he was blatantly not taking his meds and legit spiraling…said he was gonna kill me…possessed by demons etc…flash forward 5 years after exiting that friendship, the whole friend group finds out he got married briefly, had twins and one of the twins he did in fact name after me…and worse, he was in prison, for having a psychotic break and trying to harm the twin named after me…absolutely effin terrifying…just had to share
Omg am so sorry this happend to u stay safe ❤❤
Be sure he is far away from you like he realy want to harm
@@HibaHiba-bw9gr oh big time, I definitely keep an eye on that stuff. He spooked the entire friend group, but he claimed it was the demon that wanted to cause harm not him, and he actually tried to stay away from everyone by himself because of that. Really weird situation no less…it’s not always a compliment or an honor to have someone name their kid after you lol 😑
Scary 😥
HOLYYYYYYY SHEEEEEEEIIIITTTTT
My dad almost named me after his ex, who he then desperately tried to cheat on my mom with years later, but she was happily married to a wealthier man who she also had kids with and wouldn't even give him the time of day.
Charlotte, that guy naming his daughter after his ex girlfriend, totally reminds me of my mother-in-law Edna. She thought her Dad did that too!!! Her father was a WW2 veteran in the Army, his battalion fought against Germany. My husband's family is Puerto Rican and Edna is not a common name there....
Edna is also not a common name in Germany.
I had a stalker. He was ruining my life. Gay friends convinced me to hide in their community They said he would never look for me there and if he did he would think oh forget that. I was very safe there for 2 years. I was glad I did it. He did find me after I moved out and needed to finish school out of the area. He was still searching for me while I was on my honeymoon. I know he has lost track of me now because I moved a long distance away and it's been many many years but having someone like that is quite frightening The only thing I had to do was they warned me don't let anybody in the community know that you're straight I wasn't dating anyway I was too scared to after what I was going through so it was a nice peaceful time and I could focus on work and school. I could also get to know people that normally won't show you the truth of their life because they don't trust outsiders. It was sad it was the beginning of the AIDS epidemic most of the people I knew were gone within about 5 years including my dear friend. I I had grown up with him through high school and we'd even work together I've gotten him a job at the hospital I worked at.
6:28 return of the legendary Sharklotte . Poor thing forgotten in a drawer for 6 months . 😂
Can't lie, Ive MISSED her🥹🥹
LOVE Sharklotte!!🤣🦈🦈🦈
I just few days ago thought about the sharks and how fun they used to be. And here she is!
SHE WAS HIBERNATING
I love sharklotte she is hilarious 😂
To name your kid after an ex, is a constant reminder of her. If you're looking at your wife, do you wish she was your ex? Did you settle? Also, how creepy are you going to treat your daughter? Are you going to pamper her, treat her like gold? Or obsess over her too much? The mind of a crazed man and his decisions are fascinating to me.
That's borderline obsessive pedo behavior. Fascinating? More like terrifying
Maybe he just thought the name was pretty 🤷
@missj9186 True especially if it's a common name
Why does ‘two people can only communicate through a Spotify Playlist’ sound like the plot for tv show pilot?
IDK but its 100% the plot for a contemporary romance novel and I would eat my left shoe if there isn't one out there right now already with that plot.
In one of Dean Koontz's novels ( from long ago), a female detective exchanges Elvis Presley song titles with a perp in an attempt to find him in the warehouse.
Gives me Jubilee video vibes
@@deborahbutcher3933 lol what is it with Dean Koontz and Elvis? I remember him being prominent in the ‘Odd Thomas’ series too
It's a Criminal Minds episode. 😂
Omg im dying at the playlist conversation!😂😂💀 Im so here for it! That is seriously hilarious! Chef's kiss! 💋
Your makeup look in this video Charolette is my favorite makeup look I’ve seen you do. Man you look so beautiful with those eye shadow colors! Makes your eyes and hair stand out and looks great with your skin tone! Fire!🔥
I came to the realization that the less I know, the happier I am. That applies to most aspects of my life. I don't need to know who talks behind my back and who stalks my socials. I just live my life.
Motto I live by: What you think of me is none of my business". = Peace of mind.😊
@collette9008 exactly
Same.
It would also be awesome if some people didn't make their mission to tell me everything, anyway. 😅
My mom is named after my grandpa's ex. So she switched her middle name to her first name, but her legal name is still the ex's first and middle name. My grandma refused to ever call her the first name after finding out.
I remember being in a playground conversation with moms years ago where one was insisting "Never let your husband name your daughter, because he'll always name it after an ex-girlfriend". I had never heard that before, but I've heard it a lot since.
My ex-hb was pretty insistent on what he wanted to name is son, but didn't care at all about his daughter. I tweaked my son's name a bit cause I had an objection to the first name, it was the same as my mom's 3rd hb who molested me when I was a teen. He wanted to name his son after his two grandfathers. He didn't object to my change though. So my son got his maternal great grandfather's name for first name and the same middle name as my hb.
Honestly, I named both our kids lmao I had the names picked before we were married. I only wish I had chosen a different middle name for my son. However, my husband was ok with my niece given the middle name. It worked out our son's 18 and about to graduate and leave for boot camp, and our daughter is going to be a sophomore in high school. All in all, he's just happy being a father 🤗
Having babies with the wrong men 😂
My middle name is one of my Dads exes. It’s a pretty middle name.
It never ceases to amaze me how people cannot hide anything from the Internet
i heard a story once about a wife who confronted her husband about naming their daughter after his mistress. His response was that he named her that so that, if he made a mistake and called his wife by his mistress' name, she would think it was their daughter.
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THE WAY I WANTED TO VOMIT
@@chandlerrwho appropriate response.
Hey Charlotte, was back in ICU for seizures and when I was coherent my nurse brought me my phone to watch you. Bestie, you’ve helped keep me (and my nurse) laughing! Thank you for all you do for us!
My middle name came from some girl in primary school my dad met once. ONCE. Hearing my mom, she made it sound like he was in this complete relationship and never got over her. No, it was just the first time he heard it and liked the name. He can't even remember anything else about the kid, no classes together or anything.
One thing that's worse than a crazy ex, is a toxic family member who acts like a crazy ex because you went no-contact with them
My parents are also toxic so I feel your pain lol
I'm so glad to have read this. I felt like the crazy one thinking dealing with my mother felt like a crazy ex boyfriend.
My cousin’s ex took her kids while she was on a vacation in Mexico & refused to give them back. They had been broken up for 6 years & co-parented amicably. Even down to him agreeing to pay child support without a court order. Skip to 2018 & she starts dating a guy & his parents moved to mexico when they retired. She gets engaged in 2020, in Mexico, the trip they took together where she was meeting his parents. Comes back to Canada engaged, ex is pissed. 2021, shes in mexico w/ fiancee, visiting in laws. Kids had a week off of school, they went to dads, then were supposed to go to grandmas while she quarantined upon return (cause c-vidI9). He gets a lawyer to draft papers requesting that she sign over custody of her kids to her ex. Remember she’s in mexico on vacation. It took a court order after 68 days (cause canada) for her to get her kids for a weekend. He almost refused to let her see her kids cause he claimed he was too busy to drop them off cause his family was visiting. Skip ahead to Aug 2023, at a custody trial, the judge finally grants her custody & returns her kids back to her. Yesterday she finally got an order for court ordered child support. In the meantime, he has only fought for custody of their son. They also have a daughter. He openly says he only cares about the son. He’s jealous of her fiancee & has made it abundantly clear that no other man is welcome in his son’s life. Her ex his literal breathing garbage.
You are so genuinely sweet Charlotte, you are such a beauty. Keep up the amazing work girl❤YOU DESERVE YOUR SPOT AT VIDCON DARLING❤
My ex boyfriend tried to contact me via an ecommerce app. He knew my user profile and tried to message me there. Then another tried to contact me via a mobile game he knows I always play. 😂
I'm so proud of Charlotte. She deserves all the recognition and success. She's so adorable, funny and talented. I wish her the best. ❤
Ong! She deserves all the best this crazy world has to offer. She’s such a ray of sunshine.
Absolutely 💯 agree she's so talented and beautiful
I keep wondering if there's anything going on with The Swipe Life
@@erikarussell1142 so true, she's amazing♥️
@@BrianAndresScott i hope she gets all the success she deserves.
16:44 I actually read a book called "Men (sometimes unfortunately) always come back", by Penelope Parker. And basically says "Your boyfriend broke up and you want him to come back to you? then don't do anything to get him back. If you try to get him back, he'll resist you. But if you move on, he'll definitely come back."
It was a funny read XD
Sadly it works.
They like the feeling of having conquered a woman. If they have you you are no longer something that needs to be conquered. If they already had you, but you're not interested anymore, you can be conquered again.
Most of my exes, regardless of who broke up with who, contacted me, sometimes years later
Honestly not wrong. I'm not attractive at all, I look like a large potato with ginger fringe, and I've only ever had like 3 partners my whole 36 years of life.... but all 3 have moseyed back (after years and years apart). I dumped them, went non-con, and years later they found me.
The first one to reconnect was also the first boy I ever fell for (we broke up over kid stuff when we were still 15/16 and then he went into military ASAP for a few years, I thought he had died); he messaged me out of the blue over 12 years later, and I took him back, lol. He's the sweetest man, even if NEITHER of us are perfect and both have some issues now that complicate relationships...
Don't be desperate! If its MEANT to be, it'll happen. The others who came back were too late, lol, I had already reconnected with #1 and discovered I was happy with him. Sometimes it can take YEARS, but if that person is RIGHT for you, you'll have another shot around. And if you don't, well, there's other people in the world too.
DO. NOT. YEET. YOUR. CROWN.
Put that sh1t on, wear it with pride and let them sort their own sh1t out.
Can agree 🙄
First one should have left him on: "we are never, ever, getting back together", lol.
Anyone else getting some Adam Levine vibes with the dude naming his daughter after his ex? All the comments about the men naming their kids after the mistresses *bombastic SIDE EYE*
Love you Charlotte, and Sharklotte too! You’re living the dream, and looking abso-fudging-luuuutely flawless ☺️
Congratulations and wish I would be able to see you irl,but moving provinces does that😅, you enjoy the amazing things you’ve made come true for yourself🎉❤🎉🎉🎉
Hilarious! I have a calico kitten whose name morphed from Champ to Charlemagne to Charlotte. Charlotte stuck and she's called Char-Char when she's nice and Sharklotte when she's bitey. 😅
I understand. Charlotte gives so much pleasure and cats can be so funny AND petty
That first one is absolutely toxic 😂 It's like alcohol. A little bit is alright but the more you do it the worse you'll feel tomorrow, the dumber your decisions get, and the higher the risk of damaging yourself beyond just alchol poisoning gets.. In saying that, my phone will stay connected to RUclips on my TV at home, and I will interrupt whatever my kids are watching while I'm at the shops to tell them to do something that needs done. It's amazing.
Tbh that first 1 kinda hurt my heart. That man was being stalked and you know people didnt fully believed him. Like poor guy had to publicly change his sexual identity for her to stop. Im glad it worked tho
@@SaintShion the Spotify one? What?
@@SaintShionwrong one
@@imjayhime ah thanks haha dyslexia in full force
@@shellodee nah Im mixed them up sorry 🤣
i love Charlotte days so i can do dishes to goofy tiktok reactions instead of just True Crime lol
literally, SAME
Don’t call me out 😭🤣
@@JaiAutumn94me too! How did she write every single evening of my life-except Charlotte days!
Most relatable comment ever
Your out here spilling my tea.
My coworker just told me about a story like this This week! His niece was named after the father's ex.. The mom found out after, they are now divorced!!
As a fan who has been with the channel since pretty close to the beginning, may I congratulate you on climbing that ladder? I remember you sharing the hard work, setbacks, laughs, tears, and victories along the way! Well done, Miss Charlotte! ❤
That last one had me spooked... The way I would shriek if someone tried to get in my windows like that! And I'm not someone who screams! *shiver*
Yeah... I was sat here like "the only reason they ain't slammed that window on her arms, jabbed at her with a broom handle or done something else must be because they know how much worse such things are seen when its male vs female presenting scenario". Like, as a woman, I would have immediately freaked out and gone on a rabid attack, slamming the window on the arms, fk I might have grabbed up a knife and started slashing the sh1t out of the intruder... I mean, do I care if I know them? NO. My space is being invaded by someone I did not permit in, I'd lose all my marbles... They so calm, though, it's like, did at least someone call the cops?!
2:38 if he cheated, as our Petty Potato Queen says: ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! 😂
Can't believe you kept her in a box for 6 months Charlotte... Time to call shark control on you... Sorry, not sorry 😹❤️
FAIR HONESTLY
@@CharlotteDobre well I just realized she was hibernating so you're off the hook.... This time! Love you 🦈 and Charlotte ❤️❤️❤️
SALAD FINGERS is the creepy throwback I didn’t know I needed right now omg my Potato QUEEN!!! You are seriously hilarious
not me having this video play on a background tab and mad scrambling with my mouse at the mention of SALAD FINGERS!! Blast from the past smacking me dead between the eyes. Love it!!!
To answer the question about the psychology behind it: it might be about unresolved feelings or a weird way of holding onto the past. Sometimes people don't fully let go of their previous relationships, and this can manifest in strange ways. It could also be about control or some misplaced sense of nostalgia.
But seriously, thinking it's okay to name a baby like that without discussing it? That's just asking for trouble. What a mess!
It's the Salad Fingers reference for me 🤣🤣🤣 but seriously, MY GOD that girl is wild. Go drink wine and eat ice cream like a normal person
That window one is so awkward. 😂if they were me and my friends we would be crying laughing while calling the police.
Im just thinking spray her w water like a cat LOL
& can we normalize keeping the first letter of the swear word, like the good old days. My brain is too tired to run through them all.
Congratulations on VidCon! You deserve to be recognized, your content is pure Gold!❤😊
Man, the girl whose stalker named their baby after her hit hooome. My dad was a self-proclaimed 'lothario' and deadass named his daughters after his exes, which is how my half-sisters got their names. He wanted so bad to name me Suki when I was born, thinking my mum didn't know that was his ex but she veto'd that shit so hard. I thought I'd gotten away clean until I found another sibling (they pop up due to my dad's prolific history) and turns out my middle name is, indeed, my brother's birth mother's name.
How my own mum went on to birth another child with him after that initial fiasco though is honestly beyond me, but here we are.
Store-bought pesto though. Crazy.
12:20 And here I am, being named after my father’s childhood pet turtle hahascreamshahah
That guy who had to fake come out..... Is the 1 time someone can legit say "My Ex is Crazy"
I thought it was clear that he faked his coming out, but Charlotte is making a whole novel out of it.
I worked for an insane mua and she was so crazy her ex bf is still dead according to facebook...
He isnt dead. But his entire family and friends are in on the lie to get rid of this woman
Omg 😱 Storytime?
HUH??
Oooooo😮😮😮😮
Oh! the tea!
Yeah I definitely want to hear this story! 🫖
My sister had a bunch of crazy ex’s but the last one was a doozy- he called her up 2 years later at like 1 in the morning-from going no contact-from a unknown number drunk and trying to talk dirty to her and begging her to take him back and she’s just like 😐 um no.youre drunk and im married and 6 months pregnant. 😂😂
I'm an old lady (66) but I get such a kick out of your videos! Makes me glad to not be in all that drama anymore. I can just sit back and watch. I especially like the MIL ones. (I know this isn't one) My MIL was so nice. Just wanted to let you know, Charlotte, or CharLOT.
6:36 yes!!! Sharklotte is back!!! I have missed you!!!
U know an ex be crazy when u have start changing names. My grandmother on my dad's side and my aunt on my mother's side had the same name so for years I thought of naming my second girl after them both. My aunt was then stalked by a crazy ex and she had to move far away to an island, get a secret address and a new name. She is doing great now with several businesses and a great husband - can't believe the drama that sometimes occur in everyday life. Still stuck on the old name but gotta explain someday why she is named after an aunt with a different name than hers 🙊
Remember when Adam Levine told the girl he was having an affair with he may name his daughter with his supermodel wife after her 🤦🏽♀️
One of your most relatable traits is not wanting to be in places/with people who want nothing to do with you. I just can't grasp insisting on getting their acceptance...even as a teen, I couldn't!
1:58 yes, its the classic form of being bad, and then play nice, to be bad again.
This entire video reminds me of my ex gf from the early 90s. The most beautiful, hawtest Scorpio you'd ever want to date. Also the craziest. This is the girl who, if you didn't respond to a vm immediately, would call and FILL your answering machine with crying, psychotic messages. Things came to a head when i broke off with her and she as per usual, left countless vm's i refused to respond to, and she showed up at my porch, in my VERY quiet neighborhood, at 3 am. She stood/sat/sprawled on my stoop for HOURS, threatening to use a boxcutter on herself if i didn't talk to her. I ended up calling the police, who showed up with a police dog and helicopter, because she had a weapon lmao. They simply escorted her off the property and i got a restraining order. The next time i ran into her, she was dating my ex gf🤣🤣🤣 They were welcome to each other.
Ok so i have to pause and comment. I have no way of proving it but pretty sure my ex-husband cheated with his co-worker, when we had our daughter this fool tried so hard to name our daughter the same name. I gave in for a sec and then when it was time to put it on the birth certificate i said no and put a different name. Never have i regreted going with my intuition that day.
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Yeah. I'd say your intuition on the cheating is probably really spot on. If he didn't factually do the deeds, he's got some sort of attachment or something for the coworker - provided he was legit STUCK on that name and not providing any real reason why he was so dead-set on using that name. Sounds like he REALLY tried and let me tell you... it's not that hard normally to discuss names~! Usually its more collaborative... until one partner brings up a name they have an EMOTIONAL bonding to and desire to use it BECAUSE of that tie to their emotions.
IDK why your ex was so attached to the name of a COWORKER that he was stuck on it, but couldn't provide more of a reason than, I assume, generic "I like it" statements? I would assume if he HAD a good reason that explained the ties to the name, he'd have told you to make his argument stronger.
I'm so sorry that you found the shady d!ck, and I hope your life is much better now you've moved on~! For what's its worth, that IS really weird of him and I, also, immediately suspect cheating just based off the "why else would he fight for the name of a coworker and have no real arguments other than wanting that name"?
I need to now his reaction
Good for you !! 👍👍
I blocked an ex on everything and he communicated with me by requesting 1 cent from me on paypal, like he didn’t wanna send me a single cent lmao
Desperate AND cheap/broke, wow. Glad you dodged out on that one, the bill sounds like it would have been too much :'D
Stop! No his broke azz didn’t 🤣
lol that huge pause from charlotte at 12:12 ish was immediately hit with an advert before she started speaking again...well done
What!? Who would name their child for an ex you dated TWENTY YEARS AGO is...I don't know what to call it!
My ex tried to reach out to me to go on a coffee date with him.
When I turned him down he went ballistic on me.. I just blocked him. 🙄🙄 this is the same guy who tried to expose me to things I was allergic to, tried to smother me when we slept together because I “snored too loud” and admitted to me that he wanted to date me so he could be like the main guy from “Cruel Intentions” . So delulu.
The ex that wouldn't leave me alone turned into a stalker...finally got rid of him when I sent a 6' 6" brick wall of a man to explain to him that if he didn't leave me alone they would never be able to identify him IF they ever found him. Haven't seen him in 10+ yrs.
Had a friend whose son was taken advantage of in college...the ex gf drove up to his college to see him, knowing he had moved on. She got him impaired and took advantage of the situation. Well, she wound up pregnant thinking she could get him back. He told her he will choose the name, she's all excited thinking they will get back together. Long story short, his first child was named by his now wife and baby mama has no clue. Only 4 ppl know...him, his wife, his mom and me. Best kept secret ever! No way to tie it to the now wife. 😂😂
She sexually assaulted him ?
" impaired". Interesting. I guess if that's his story.
Can you guys help me here.. my ex turned to be my stalker and has been stalking me since 2016. He justifies his actions by saying it is because he loves me and will love me till eternity so he won't ever forget me. He glorifies it like some romantic shit. But I have become so socially anxious that I have started hiding my life. He knew which university I took admission in, he then came living near me when I changed my address. All this is so creepy and I'm naturally a very scared fragile person. Like in the video she said should I also protect my identity in socials and stop giving out government name? Its definitely social media from where he recieves info
I don't understand this story
@Mistinpurple2 Try to document everything. Keep a diary. Screenshot any calls/ texts. Install cameras with audio - all these can help you build a case against him.
Inform the police/school that he is not welcome in your life, and that you want them to know this. Tell your trusted neighbours that he is NOT your boyfriend, and that he is NOT welcome. That way you are covering your bases. Change social media names and privatise everything. Change passwords to things that he doesn't know.
Do whatever you have to to protect yourself.
Good luck!
The first one is basically the modern day equivalent of the ex signing to her from outside her window movie/tv trope.
Time to cue up In Your Eyes, by Peter Gabriel 😂
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉👏👏👏
On your vidcon, you go girl!!!
Always rooting for you 💓💓💓💓
Love you and your content and all the people that bring it to us! 😹
Hey Charlotte! I want you to know how much you and your channel means to me. Binge watching your videos has helped me through depression and anxiety, and I can’t thank you enough for that. You’re fun, funny and beautiful. Never ever doubt that ❤
That playlist thing is such a clever battle of wits.
I have irish twin boys age 1 and 2 and they smile when they hear your voice and they kiss the screen when they see you just wanted you to know you have tiny admirers too❤😂😂
The ex/mistress naming business is wild to me. I got my name because my parents needed to leave the hospital with a name on my birth certificate not just "baby girl.". My kids are named after beloved family members that have passed.
Peoples. Don't revisit an ex who's already been in a few seasons. It never ends well.
My dad offered my mom a choice of two names - both current girlfriends at the time. She picked a shortened name of one and demanded to name the next child. Needless to say the marriage did not last but not before great damage was done to all 3 children over 12 years.
12:30 If he accidentally says his mistress's name, he can always say he was referring to the child. Crazy, but I guess this happens more that I thought.
Oml I didn't think of that
Until he says it while they’re having sex…🤮
@@jesclifford88 hahah no kidding 🤢
I remember when you quit that channel. Best decision you ever made❤
Agreed. I actually don’t even watch anymore. She was pretty much my only reason to watch. 😂 love Charlotte.
I'm literally racking my brain trying to remember the name of the channel...and I used to watch it all the time when Charlotte was on it
What was the channel?
@@heatherdickau5335 InformOverload
What was it????
Just wanted to say thank you for your videos. Life’s been more than difficult the past few years, multiple bereavements, my mum has early onset dementia and is very poorly, dad waiting for massive surgery, and I had my own week in hospital a couple of months ago. I discovered your videos then and I’ve been working my way through them since. They make me laugh on the darkest of days, so thank you.
I was born in 1959. So crazy isn’t a new thing. About 10, 15 years ago I asked my mom how my name was chosen? She said matter a factually, your dad named you after his first girlfriend! My mom and dad were together until he passed away, then she married the man she had been “seeing” for 5 years!
My dad actually named me after one of his ex girlfriends, I couldnt understand when I was a kid my mom would call me Marty instead of my name, when I turned 18 she told me. I laughed so hard and she got mad at me.
I can relate to the one that lied about being gay...I used the lesbian card more than once to get rid of crazy clingy stalker boyfriends
Salad fingers 😂😂👽😂 Loved that reference! And missed Miss Shark, she's hilarious!
As someone who was stalked by an ex ( he went to prison for it), I find people like this unhinged! They may think it's "cute", but for the person on the receiving end, it's anything but.
Glad to see Sharklotte back!! 😘
Your face at 12:35ish got me 😂 Also the fact that you know salad fingers makes me so happy
This channel is like a funny diary with all the tea and drama from social media. Congratulations to Charlotte and her team. Thanks for all the laughs. I appreciate you so much❤
Salut Tatie dina j'espère que tu vas bien je t'aimes fort 😊❤
@@Solènelamigonnelicorne je vais bien merci et toi?
@@dinasilva9263bien merciiii❤
Je vais bien merciiii ma tatie 😊😊❤
It's me, I was named after one of my Dads ex's. I'm ok with it, though. I met her in middle school as she was my school nurse. She was so nice.
You playing with sharklotte 😂
Naming your kid after an ex is crazy, but I got one even crazier. My friend's daughter gave her son 5 middle names. Each middle name was the name of a man she had slept with.
Strangers bonding over tea....YES! I've done it 🤣
Not the hand coming in through the window!!! Je telephone a la police!!!
Made it here again in under 5 minutes. I LOOOVEEE CHARLOTTE!!!