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  • Опубликовано: 9 июн 2024
  • this video is dedicated to my favourite #girlboss elizabeth holmes
    take a shot every time i say #girlboss and DIE of alcohol poisoning immediately!
    hi besties! i hope you enjoy this video! i had a fun time making it and it helped me get my creative juices flowing!
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    what i’m reading - 00:00-04:43
    #girlboss vlog - 04:44-09:50
    debrief - 09:51-17:09
    ⭐️ things mentioned ⭐️
    #girlboss by sophia amoruso (book)
    leave your mark by aliza licht (book)
    when’s happy hour? by betches (book)
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  • @frenchtoast9555
    @frenchtoast9555 3 года назад +3507

    that ship in the Suez Canal had immense girlboss energy

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +345

      this comment is so fucking funny i cant

    • @moonycanwatch
      @moonycanwatch 3 года назад +273

      sis woke up and said I'll cause problems on purpose 😌💅🏼

    • @literally4891
      @literally4891 3 года назад +205

      capitalism vs ship, ship wins as marx predicted

    • @akshidashottar8842
      @akshidashottar8842 3 года назад +36

      FuckiNG PERFECT LMAoo

    • @martinasophiaisaksen3034
      @martinasophiaisaksen3034 3 года назад +33

      This is a renaissance painting 😌 the vibes of this comments are unmatched ✨✨✨

  • @phosphenevision
    @phosphenevision 3 года назад +2075

    Girlboss: feminism is when capitalism, right?

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +122

      YUP

    • @alwaysgettingthere
      @alwaysgettingthere 2 года назад +35

      ooh! I just learned the word for that in class this week: neofeminism

    • @youytubey
      @youytubey 23 дня назад +1

      ​@@alwaysgettingtheretime to deviate from class and learn about marxism

    • @youytubey
      @youytubey 23 дня назад +1

      ​@@alwaysgettingthere"women hold up half the sky" - mao

  • @sophies6100
    @sophies6100 3 года назад +1593

    I don’t want to be a ‘girlboss’ I want to be a ✨grumpygrandpa✨

    • @francescakyanda9182
      @francescakyanda9182 3 года назад +33

      bro SAME I wanna be the main character in a Fredrik Backman novel like A Man Called Ove

    • @MicahRion
      @MicahRion 3 года назад +1

      +

    • @mymessynotebook2207
      @mymessynotebook2207 3 года назад +17

      @@francescakyanda9182 I want to be grumpy old librarian energy.

    • @mymessynotebook2207
      @mymessynotebook2207 3 года назад +3

      @@francescakyanda9182 as you should!!

    • @lucascattai9447
      @lucascattai9447 3 года назад +1

      @@mymessynotebook2207 I shouldn't have identified to that as much as I did.

  • @saniasajid1561
    @saniasajid1561 3 года назад +665

    gatekeep ~ gaslight ~ girlboss

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +63

      mood

    • @laureldeicas9881
      @laureldeicas9881 3 года назад +9

      ok hi i will be saying this is every 5 seconds now so thank you very much for this

    • @gracelim8361
      @gracelim8361 3 года назад +2

      I spat my coffee-

    • @victoriabyers5161
      @victoriabyers5161 3 года назад +7

      The new live laugh love

    • @novasnotvibing
      @novasnotvibing 3 года назад +1

      Gatekeep, gaslight, girlboss, grinch

  • @clarahahn7668
    @clarahahn7668 3 года назад +740

    For anyone curious, the word “girlboss” was said 33 times in the first 5 minutes. I had to give up after that

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +143

      oh my GOD this stat is horrifiying

    • @Apathist1408
      @Apathist1408 2 года назад +5

      10 of those come from the first minute alone

    • @cat-o-combs4160
      @cat-o-combs4160 Год назад +11

      63 times in total

    • @user-jg8jc1gy2q
      @user-jg8jc1gy2q 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@uncarleyall the queens love analysing data until you give them their own data

  • @noelle7pages
    @noelle7pages 3 года назад +560

    "leave malala out of this" I'M DEAD 😂

  • @mikenna2496
    @mikenna2496 3 года назад +1672

    book recs based off myer-briggs personality types would slay

  • @louisecrivelenti7808
    @louisecrivelenti7808 3 года назад +605

    I was scared that one of the books would be How to be a Bawse by Lilly Singh

    • @my0.25lifecrisis
      @my0.25lifecrisis 2 года назад +35

      honestly, a missed opportunity! lol

    • @MercurialMoon
      @MercurialMoon Год назад +8

      Oh god I cannot burst into laughter when I see the word "bawse" after watching jack's video

  • @lucille6190
    @lucille6190 3 года назад +597

    "I am so anxious that I am innately unlikable" is literally what I've been saying the past 21 years of my life can someone make me charming and funny and cool pls?

    • @Niniminns
      @Niniminns 3 года назад +30

      Step one: stop saying that you're unlikable. I'm not charming, funny and cool. I'm funny sometimes but none of this makes me unlikable. It's okay to think social situations are hard. What helped me was exposing myself to some things that made me uncomy so I made myself talk to people who were alone at school and it actually helped me feel calmer talking to people. You can do this but at a smaller scale if you want to, like complimenting someone or say hey you have a cute dog. Anxiety will make you think the worst thing possible will happen but if you prove to yourself that it's not true it can help. I used to think I hate myself but I had to start noticing these thoughts and contradicting them every time. It helped but it took a long time before I actually was ready to not hate myself because I had to deal with my panic attacks and process the root of my anxiety problems first. So talk to a good counselor or therapist about your anxiety if you can. Btw the only thing you have to do to not be unlikable is to just be nice to people, like the bare minimum nice even, like saying hi back. Unlikable people say mean things and hurt people on purpose.

  • @kenzieluvrify
    @kenzieluvrify 3 года назад +378

    girl boss radiates the same energy as bro code and I don’t know how to explain that but I know it tracks

  • @yashikaaggarwal5908
    @yashikaaggarwal5908 3 года назад +574

    pausing my mental breakdown to watch this

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +92

      you and me both

    • @gracelim8361
      @gracelim8361 3 года назад +22

      some real girlboss sht right there

  • @taaptee
    @taaptee 3 года назад +848

    the atheism leaving my body when i pray for your instagram story to be about your new video

  • @marijaivanovic750
    @marijaivanovic750 3 года назад +530

    only 10 seconds in and its already chaotic WE STAN

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +24

      hahahaha

    • @brynmcclennan973
      @brynmcclennan973 3 года назад +5

      I watch her videos on x1.25. It makes it so much more chaotic

  • @viennakrakatoaleipzignumbers
    @viennakrakatoaleipzignumbers 3 года назад +570

    we stan a queen who cares about ergonomics
    prop ur laptops up and use external keyboards, folks

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +96

      yes everyone please do this your back needs care

    • @juliannatemple848
      @juliannatemple848 3 года назад +7

      @@uncarley where did you get your external keyboard?

  • @moonycanwatch
    @moonycanwatch 3 года назад +122

    "How are you feeling" change the topic before I start crying

  • @hanniakempen7467
    @hanniakempen7467 3 года назад +74

    "the anxiety been's bad but look at these flowers" is girlboss energy

  • @lindahaviernikova2033
    @lindahaviernikova2033 3 года назад +139

    GIRLBOSS U LOOK SO GOOD IN BLAZERS

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +19

      im trying to channel girlboss energy!

  • @booksndiscourse
    @booksndiscourse 3 года назад +164

    My fave meme is the “gaslight, gatekeep, girl boss!” Meme so I got really excited for this bc I knew I’d be laughing

  • @EmiliaIKnow
    @EmiliaIKnow 3 года назад +73

    !!! gaslight gatekeep girlboss !!!!

  • @LexBeatlesManiac
    @LexBeatlesManiac 3 года назад +346

    Books rec for each of the girls from sex and the city would make a great vid 🥺

    • @sheissarahg
      @sheissarahg 3 года назад +7

      YES! plus I desperately want to know which satc episode is the one that made you cry ~ please drop it. I’m just so overhyped other people actually cry because of satc as well

    • @sruvfig
      @sruvfig 3 года назад +3

      I’d loveee that

    • @nisrinehamza2791
      @nisrinehamza2791 3 года назад +1

      Omg yes i would love that

    • @mymessynotebook2207
      @mymessynotebook2207 3 года назад +1

      YESSSSSS

  • @natatouille1543
    @natatouille1543 3 года назад +217

    Carley constantly making hashtags with her hands is my jam

  • @alexsitar4163
    @alexsitar4163 3 года назад +217

    I think it would be fun to have a video where you suggest books to the celebrities you have judged but ofc they won’t see it, it’s just for us

  • @maryconnors1412
    @maryconnors1412 3 года назад +68

    My cousins are super into MLM's and these books are practically their bibles lol

  • @kate-ne
    @kate-ne 3 года назад +22

    Legit "small talk" tips: Ask people about themselves, make them lead the conversation. People love talking about themselves. If they mention something you have in common, latch onto that.
    Really good general use questions to ask:
    "are you from here originally/where are you from?" If they aren't from the area and you've been to the city/state they are from, make a comment about something you like about that place.
    "Where did you go to school? /what did you Major in? /where do you work/what do you do?"

  • @tricoteusedhistoires1602
    @tricoteusedhistoires1602 3 года назад +30

    "the concept of small talk doesn't exist to me" THAT'S ME

  • @katherinefernandez8358
    @katherinefernandez8358 3 года назад +39

    Full proof way to get drunk; Take a shot every time #girlboss is said with hand movements

  • @ramisa12332
    @ramisa12332 3 года назад +88

    the fearless(Taylor's Version) cameo is the real #girlboss energy

  • @sarahs4354
    @sarahs4354 3 года назад +17

    "i am so anxious i am innately unlikable" yeah, felt

  • @dOnajiBfFs
    @dOnajiBfFs 3 года назад +38

    Fun fact Sophia Amoruso is not longer the ceo from nasty girl and now she is doing some kind of "master class" about being a ceo

  • @fran2815
    @fran2815 3 года назад +8

    i worked at a "feminist" retail start-up in New York. My ex-boss just wrote a book entitled, "How to Build a Goddamn Empire: Advice on Creating Your Brand with High-Tech Smarts, Elbow Grease, Infinite Hustle, and a Whole Lotta Heart". So...that speaks for itself.

  • @hanahe7838
    @hanahe7838 3 года назад +56

    The intro is me walking down the stairs to my family after having crippling cramps

  • @adiahh6382
    @adiahh6382 3 года назад +102

    Carly vibing to Taylor Swift is a whole mood

  • @_ameljaaa
    @_ameljaaa 3 года назад +191

    „How are you feeling?” Ah a little bit dead Thank you

  • @ishikayadav9311
    @ishikayadav9311 3 года назад +89

    I was gonna buy girl boss books tomorrow wtf, is this a miracle or something

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +37

      oh no i dont think you will learn anything from this video

  • @isabellejoubert1075
    @isabellejoubert1075 3 года назад +48

    Not three videos within a week we are SPOILED 😍😍😍😍

  • @alopsia6583
    @alopsia6583 3 года назад +80

    whenever I see you upload I drop everything cause NOTHING else matters.....CARLEY TIME

  • @TalkAsSoftAsChalk
    @TalkAsSoftAsChalk 3 года назад +51

    Wait Promising young woman is based on a book! How the hell am I just finding this out?
    Edit: Looked it up. They just happen to have similar names. It's an original screenplay. The book actually sounds very good (or ya know... promising).
    K. Bye.

  • @ellakang8970
    @ellakang8970 3 года назад +40

    I have heard the words Girl Boss way too many times for today. It doesn’t like a real phrase anymore lmaooo

  • @justalurkr
    @justalurkr 3 года назад +15

    My career advice: show up on time, dressed for the occasion, and unironically make your boss look good. I learned this after my dad retired and his successor surplused me. Connections only get you so far.

  • @tigermelissa
    @tigermelissa 3 года назад +17

    *phatassandbigtiddies* "we're in" had me rolling

  • @eyes9514
    @eyes9514 3 года назад +14

    bad anxiety and dancing to Mr.perfectly fine has been my life in a nutshell

  • @lornaallan766
    @lornaallan766 3 года назад +8

    "we love social media, me and you" stop, but don't ever stop

  • @fionagrace75
    @fionagrace75 3 года назад +10

    the amount of relaxation i feel because of your videos is astounding

  • @Leonie-vu4kc
    @Leonie-vu4kc 3 года назад +24

    the queen posted y‘all✨

  • @frenchtoast9555
    @frenchtoast9555 3 года назад +44

    omg Carley you should do a video about books that are also TV shows like pretty little liars and gossip girl and stuff...idk what you would actually say in the video I just want to get more normal people content lol

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +19

      god i do love pretty little liars

  • @kater1816
    @kater1816 3 года назад +15

    your influence is so powerful dude every time you post I am immediately compelled to watch and do whatever you’re up to

  • @peachy2132
    @peachy2132 3 года назад +44

    you’re getting a BUSINESS DEGREE ??!! 🤧🤧

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +36

      i know im ashamed

  • @lizard_like
    @lizard_like 3 года назад +4

    "So anxious I'm innately unlikeable" wow. thank you so much for that statement, I'm using it to explain myself now

  • @grace-4072
    @grace-4072 10 месяцев назад +1

    you make me so excited to watch videos about books man i usually don’t enjoy booktube cause it feels sorta intimidating? but i really love how you make your videos it’s very having a redbull with your bestie at 2am vibes

  • @TheManiaTC
    @TheManiaTC 3 года назад +51

    waiting two weeks to one london guy trying to "re-do" your video like: "I'm a man and I read girlboss books"

    • @zmo2299
      @zmo2299 3 года назад +1

      who r u talking about

    • @prachi8771
      @prachi8771 3 года назад +1

      Omg wot?

    • @aisling8308
      @aisling8308 3 года назад +14

      @@zmo2299 i'm guessing jack edwards because he copied the "reading books recommended by harry styles" and "reading books recommended by taylor swift" videos

    • @lolwho7009
      @lolwho7009 3 года назад +7

      @@aisling8308 Don't forget the celebrity poetry video!

    • @sugassugar8036
      @sugassugar8036 3 года назад +8

      @@aisling8308 wait qwtf he did-
      I love his content omg how did I not notice

  • @okay.3170
    @okay.3170 3 года назад +46

    Your videos are so chill they're kinda like asmr

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +7

      omg i love this

  • @fatmazaki8628
    @fatmazaki8628 3 года назад +34

    Carley, u came into my life like a WHIRLWIND, your videos are my fav and u really got me into reading again after what seemed like a 2 year book slump lol. So thanks and alsooo out of all ur celebrity book club videos, which 3 books would you like ACTUALLY recommend and which 3 books are ur fav generally?

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +9

      eve babitz was amazing! also loved the white book by hang kang and this is pleasure by mary gaitskil

  • @gabi.9959
    @gabi.9959 3 года назад +5

    bestie i’m so glad you mentioned mbti ‘cause i’m obsessed, i’d love to see a video with book recommendations for each one

  • @sparks5719
    @sparks5719 3 года назад +8

    you are like a cool older sister giving me only the most important life tips and i love it

  • @Supitscamii
    @Supitscamii 3 года назад +10

    When you talked about networking and having an inability to make connections outside of literal trauma I... FFELT THAT and I felt like you understand me on a fundamental level. So hi! This my attempt at networking, I think we already have a connection 😭😭😭

  • @meadowrae1491
    @meadowrae1491 3 года назад +4

    "My three hour walk." I have a five year old and every time you say that I get a little bit more jealous.

  • @eunice-oy5rl
    @eunice-oy5rl 3 года назад +6

    as a fellow business student ... it's like networking events were made to be awkward asf. also LOVE the ripping on the girlboss interviews - I picked up the book like a month ago for ✨science✨ and I literally had to put it down so fast cause I could not get over the lack of self awareness

  • @w.li.8652
    @w.li.8652 3 года назад +7

    The part about not being able to network had some real INFP energy

  • @unsteadyedi
    @unsteadyedi 3 года назад +5

    hey i just wanna say that you're literally the only youtuber whose videos i don't ever wanna miss and your channel is really refreshing❤

  • @AlarasCrib
    @AlarasCrib 3 года назад +7

    This video saved me from yet another mental breakdown, so THANK YOU BESTIE

  • @macylightfoot
    @macylightfoot 3 года назад +11

    The Netflix series Girlboss, based loosely-ish on Sophia Amaoruso's rise to success was SO GOOD! They cancelled it after one season because people are dicks and hated on it because the main character is ever so slightly annoying for like the first episode (or possibly because real life Amaruso scandal, I dunno), but it was genuinely brilliant.

    • @macylightfoot
      @macylightfoot 3 года назад +1

      @kibblewibble I don't even remember how it ended, tbh, but now that you say it I think I wasn't that mad when I got to the end of it, so one season was probably fine. People are still dicks though, pretty sure.

    • @maheenm.k1015
      @maheenm.k1015 3 года назад

      How come good shows like that get canceled but Emily in Paris isn't going anywhere?

  • @Lucia-em7uw
    @Lucia-em7uw 3 года назад +19

    i'm still waiting for the lorde's faves video, compassion pls we know nothing about that woman nowadays :((( love u tho!!

  • @bestenazkasut6839
    @bestenazkasut6839 3 года назад +9

    i have never heard the word girlboss more in my entire life

  • @nahinakyupakaraheho
    @nahinakyupakaraheho 3 года назад +40

    Books that fictional characters have read what it says about them is needed

  • @kendallpsaila2470
    @kendallpsaila2470 3 года назад

    Every time you post I get such a boost of serotonin THANK U it makes my day

  • @Misseggy24
    @Misseggy24 2 года назад +1

    I honestly love that tinder tip like yes girl play the game

  • @cara9567
    @cara9567 3 года назад +11

    Carey: my anxietys been bad
    Carley 2 seconds later : look at these flowers 😁😜🥵

  • @davidshead1323
    @davidshead1323 3 года назад +5

    The Queen killing her husband just before he makes it to a round 100 is #girlboss energy

  • @nervousbooklion8074
    @nervousbooklion8074 3 года назад +1

    I love the vibe of this video. Seeing you go for a walk, look at flowers, listen to Taylor and crochet is so cozy and calming! That’s total #girlboss energy 😃

  • @dmcp11
    @dmcp11 3 года назад +7

    i can already tell i’m going to love this video based off the intro

  • @Leo24300
    @Leo24300 3 года назад +4

    Going on anxiety/maladaptive daydreaming walks is literally all I’ve been doing for the past year, glad I’m not alone #girlbossenergy

  • @emmaoc-jh8df
    @emmaoc-jh8df 3 года назад +6

    It's a good day when Carley uploads :)

  • @mariabarulli3458
    @mariabarulli3458 3 года назад +10

    I'm so good. I resisted and did my religion homework although I knew carley uploaded a video. Now I can finally watch it.

  • @rajshrisukhani6318
    @rajshrisukhani6318 3 года назад +6

    I’ve never really said this out loud but like climbing the ladder and “networking” has always kinda seemed pathological to me

  • @mayranohelia
    @mayranohelia 3 года назад +7

    ✨ the intro ✨

  • @ananyagulati3522
    @ananyagulati3522 3 года назад +2

    the chaotic energy in the video PLEASE I LOVE AND STAN 😭

  • @aj7058
    @aj7058 3 года назад +2

    I think your network point is a great example of your connections point. They leave out how to do it because they don't actually know how to do it they just think that their privilege is skill.

  • @westmezzanine4321
    @westmezzanine4321 3 года назад +6

    “And by a funk I mean mental health crisis”
    What a mood

  • @antoniarose4379
    @antoniarose4379 3 года назад +1

    I didn't know I needed this, but thanks for energy you brought to my day omg

  • @DanielaGarridou
    @DanielaGarridou 3 года назад +10

    omg new drinking game to excuse my alcoholism: take a shot every time Carley says hashtag girlboss 💀💀

  • @olympuscherry
    @olympuscherry 3 года назад

    I found your videos this week and I can't stop watching them, your ultimate # girlboss move is making great content 🥺 hope you have a nice day! ✨

  • @cajsita
    @cajsita 3 года назад +15

    i read girlboss in 2014 and have since realized how that actually taught me not.a.damn.thing. lol also maybe i'm wrong but i think promising young women (book) and promising young woman (movie) are 2 different plots/stories!! they just sound v similar

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +3

      ooop! thank you! will look into this

    • @lavenderscared5687
      @lavenderscared5687 3 года назад +2

      I was looking to see if someone commented this

  • @kathryn6217
    @kathryn6217 3 года назад +7

    So, am I the only one who wants videos of Carley analyzing book/literature related data? Because I would be HERE for that? Tell me those facts and figures girl.

  • @anabanana8518
    @anabanana8518 3 года назад +14

    hunny you have to read "how to be a bawse" by lilly singh lmao

  • @mayranohelia
    @mayranohelia 3 года назад +20

    ok, nothing to do with the video but
    YOUR HANDS ARE PRECIOUS 🛐

  • @angelawesneski5029
    @angelawesneski5029 3 года назад +2

    I am living for all of the gestures in this vlog.

  • @MagicDemonCookies
    @MagicDemonCookies 3 года назад

    I felt the thing about the discussion posts in my soul. Also Carley if you have any short story/short story collection recommendations that would be a great video!

  • @larissaprates1384
    @larissaprates1384 3 года назад

    Your intros are always so funny!! I’m so entertained

  • @Anasuper1850
    @Anasuper1850 3 года назад +1

    i struggle even creating genuine affective friendship and relationship bonds with people, and networking as a concept to me just sounds like collecting people for interest and making use of them whenever its necessary like its so weird to me how people do it casually and dont overthink it or feel bad about it i just could never see myself succeeding at a work based on building 'connections' with other people

  • @heathermade7294
    @heathermade7294 3 года назад +5

    grocery store fleece is peak girl boss actually (very into it)

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  3 года назад +1

      its my comfort fleece now

  • @biancarangel6089
    @biancarangel6089 3 года назад

    thank you for this carly! its been a really rough week & def needed some girlboss energy to cheer me up :)

  • @andreaferrer8259
    @andreaferrer8259 3 года назад

    YOUR ENTRANCE OMG I love u

  • @Psychwriteify
    @Psychwriteify 3 года назад +8

    I got an economics degree because of the data analysis. You're not alone in the "wait, really? But you hate capitalism" college majors

  • @danielaaleman7394
    @danielaaleman7394 3 года назад +1

    idk why but everytime i see your videos it's like you're educating me

  • @kaleighpledger6389
    @kaleighpledger6389 3 года назад

    it’s the hair tucking when her hair is already pulled back for me... ❤️ my most recent obsession is carley’s personality

  • @Fatima-ts4rv
    @Fatima-ts4rv 3 года назад +2

    this youtube channel feels so safe and comfortable 😌

  • @antocomegalletasXD
    @antocomegalletasXD 3 года назад +1

    this is the energy I needed

  • @mg7977
    @mg7977 3 года назад +10

    As an ADHD woman, I gotta say-every single word that came out of your mouth in this video told me RIGHT AWAY that you're also an ADHD person. You said so many things I've said, with the exact energy that I've said them. It's truly uncanny. The combination of feelings you have about networking-both being totally overwhelmed by it/feeling stupid for not being good at it and having total contempt for the very existence of "networking" as a concept-it's such a deep, deep, deep, deep MOOD.

  • @alyssaferreira4189
    @alyssaferreira4189 3 года назад

    bestie Carley is really spoiling us with these amazing videos✨✨

  • @rafaelabergamo6659
    @rafaelabergamo6659 3 года назад

    Omg, I was needing this type of video, thank you queen!!! Xo from Brazil ♥️