My experience has been that quite a lot of women are open to this, when explained sincerely and in depth...after all female dominiation in its core is much more about deep care about your lady woman and not necessarily of giving away masculinity...and certainly it does not mean giving up responsibility...
In my experience they are open to it, but they don't enjoy. They get shy, and they don't "feel" it when doing dominant acts, and after a while they get back to vanilla space. You can't force someone to like something. If it's not there, you just respect that and move on and find someone with similar interests.
I lucked out and my GF and eventual wife loved the idea. You have to be willing to open yourself up in all respects. She also needs to be brutally honest as well. In the end, it takes time, honesty and trust.
I encourage all submissive males to be open about their sexuality. Atleast inside your relationship! All my relationship has had femdom in them. Embrace your self and teach her.
Good thoughts. -> a man may experience a submissive side slowly, years after marriage. -> there is a kind of woman who becomes progressively contemptuous as the generous (not greedy) submissive contorts himself to please her
There are many women who will view a man who tries to please her too much as desperate and thus assume there is something wrong with him and thus not want to be in a relationship with him. But I think if you explain that you like pleasing your wife, then she might not view it as desperation and be more likely to accept it.
you are amazing. Thank you so much for everything you have conceptualized and for everything that has soothed me. it's not easy in English but luckily your accent is clear. I'll be sure to thank you more when I can.
Start by offering to do task for her. Think about when she would want a nice bath & make it for her, provided you ask her if she would like one. This will cause her to speak her mind & her preferences. A good massage, yes a good foot rub also works but each has their time & place. Do the task around the house she normally dose that you know she dose not like. Doing these actions before breaking the conversation will show her how it feels before the conversation in a nonsexual way so she can have something to go on. She can see it would be about her desires/wants/needs. It should not matter if any of that hads anything to do with your fantasies as long as you are a tool to be used for her enjoyment/plesure then that is all that a true submissive would want. Yes have your own personal limits, there is no shame in telling the dominant that you are not ok with x,y,z.
I have a strong Girlfriend, she can be strict and if I don’t do as she says, she gets mad. I had her slap me out of anger, then I get on my knees and apologies. She was the first one to use a strap=on on me and didn’t even ask. I love my Girlfriend, she is also intelligent knows many languages and much smarter than me. I ask her why would you be my Girlfriend and she said that I was extremely intelligent and that if I wasn’t she would have left a long time ago. I am so lucky to have her and I worship her and do anything to please her and not feel I need to be rewarded. It’s unconditonal and I will protect her and support her in her life. I love it when she demands I do things for her, from cleaning the house to cooking to giving her massage and more. I told her to use me as a human toy for pleasure and I will be most happy and feel most alive. It works when it works without trying cause it’s so natural. Thanks Alla, you are so cool.
Best explanation I ever heard about it, thank you. I hate how it's fucking hard to accept this part of mine, feels like you totally stuck between two parts: leading and submissive being. It's tearing myself, because this both parts of myself. P.S. btw you are beautiful and your earrings is awesome
Domination, I think more women than you think are made for it and would like to dominate their husbands. Not all women either, to be honest, but a lot. And if we lead them to become our Mistresses and they like that, be careful, because it's a path with no turning back for the husband. I know a couple whose husband pushed his wife into BDSM at the age of 30, today they are both 60 and the husband is not even allowed to leave a room without having permission to his wife.
I do think it is important to remember that in any BDSM relationship, ultimately the submissive has the final say. In your example, the husband could decide to leave the room if he wanted and there would be nothing the wife could do to stop him. It is important to build your relationship toward what you want, but ultimately if the relationship becomes abusive or if the submissive is unhappy, then they need to stop what is going on and reset the expectations of the marriage.
I swoon to be controlled to that extent.. and to have to be so humble and be constantly apologizing sincerely for the tiniest of infractions.. gets my engine purring.
My suggestion is to reframe the question. They should ask how can I tell my partner my fantasies in a way that will lead to finding where yalls fantasies overlap/or at least willing to try it once or twice. I do get individuals are all different although if you want a woman to dominate a man in the bedroom then you have to be willing to see how she feels about being dominant outside the bedroom first. If she likes it then tell her how awesome that was seeing her take control. Baby steps, dip your toes before you decide to jump in. Both not just you.
Thanks for existing! This site and all your videos are very helpful. I am in a FL marriage and it feels fantastic. My nature is to be submissive. On the other hand, my wife is temperamental, dominant and she likes that role in marriage. ALL decisions are made by Her. Her wishes and needs are the most important. I work 2 jobs to have enough money to live, because my wife likes expensive shopping, luxury restaurants, frequent massages, treatments, etc. Now she is obsessed with tattoos and wants to cover her whole body. I found her the best tattoo artist in the country because she deserves it. Finally, we are a childfree couple because she does not want to have children and is going through pregnancy. I fully support her in that. We have one dog and that's enough. I adore my wife and I live for her.
@@annaa-rh2bj It is nature, part of personality. From our first meeting, it was obvious that she was the one dominating me. You have to put yourself in the right place in the relationship from the first day if you are really dominant. By the way, I am 37, my wife is 40.
My needs dont matter to my wife in the slightest. We had similar tastes early on, but after the wedding she switched to a "been there, done that" attitude. It doesnt matter what I "make it about". We go through long dry spells.
I would suggest male in this position to submit to her by doing stuff in your life. It could be fixing stuff at home, wash her car, get her finest dress cleaned up, buy her new perfume when it’s almost out. All to show you see her and her needs in life and you are there to help her help her get those done. If she thanks you for it, accept and be pleased by that, don’t request anything for it, keep doing more. It will take time but keep talking and try to focus the conversation on her needs. Where you can be helpful
My last GF eventually got into my desire to be a Beta. She appreciated that her pleasure was my priority & began to have me be nude before her while she was dressed & would give me light over the knee spankings when I " failed " her. She had me throw out my adult dvds & kept me focused on pleasing her. It was mild domination but stimulating & the passion was real. We broke up 5 years ago & I fantasize about her frequently now. I would submit to her instantly today it's what fulfills me most. Thank You.
Interesting. That's the kind of woman i would like to find. Why did you break up.. and is she with a submissive beta male type of man now.. or did she find an alpha guy?
To me FLR in the sense that the leader in the group should know how to act as a leader and what to do as a leader and that is to lead a happy family and a relationship, to me a good leader is all about the happiness of the subjects who are being led and submissiveness of a subject to their leader is all about the happiness of the leader and pleasing the leader, to me that is a balanced healthy exchange of power, with no slaking of any parties about their divided agreed upon duties... If she was a leader who care only about herself, then she is terrible leader who will drive her home to wreck... That is what I think
If pleasing your partner generously, especially if they are the submissive role, qualifies as submission, then most functional healthy relationships would be this way. Unfortunately, the role is not at all one you simply choose. I think attempting to be something you're not for your partner is going to lead to mutual disappointment. Two submissive are quite difficult to manage and it has never worked for me, lots of sadness and disappointment when I try to be what they want me to be, I am unconvincing and can't maintain an erection. I had the gift of a woman who was very compatible, but she's gone and I think my only hope is going to be finding someone who is again, or at least open.
Not an issue to administer discipline ,rules/punishments to women . But generally a man has to pay a dominatrix or escort for spankings etc ,because its a respect issue in a relationship .
Every relationship is different, and all you can do is develop a dynamic that fits her needs while satisfying your needs to be submissive. For example I have a foot fetish but my girlfriend doesn’t like me touching her feet. So I put that aside and she uses it as a rare reward. It only works when both partners communicate and build the relationship. That way you find your own grove together and she becomes your fantasy
Not kink shaming... But that can easily fall into the sexual self harm category and ESPECIALLY if this person doesnt love you. And ull end up bonding to this person that only uses you for mineywhise wich makes it SEXUAL SELF HARM
I just feel disgust towards men, who force their unknowing partners to be dominant or submissive towards them. The point of bdsm is completely lost if at least one party does not want to participate in it. I hate fake subs tbh. They're gross and i wish them worst.
It's been my experience that a Woman will never do anything that She doesn't want to do. Definitely cherish Her and take care of Her but don't think of it as an exchange. Such as, I washed the dishes and cleaned the house therefore I deserve sex tonight. Because then you get into more of a barter system of sex. I did this therefore I get sex or to get my needs met or I get my kink. You should take care of your Lady. Make her feel wanted, needed, desired and therefore She will naturally want to please you not because you vacuumed the house or clean the windows or groomed the dog and painted its toenails but the fact that you're constantly making Her life easier, making Her feel loved wanted and cherished.
But she will only know what your desires are if you tell her. I heard a case where a man started doing extra chores in an effort to be submissive. His wife saw this and felt the need to do extra special things for him too, like you said. But the things she did were things a normal person would want ( he didn't list the specifics, but things like make his favorite meal or buy him gifts). What she did didn't make him feel submissive, so eventually he stopped doing the extra chores since it was making her do things he didn't want her to do and they went back to normal. That's why communication is needed.
If you are a true submissive then being willing to adapt to anything that will give her a reason to smile. Dose not matter if it is in or out of the bedroom. If she truly dose want to be dominated then dominating her is your act of submission.
Issue is I could not possibly stay hard taking a dominant role, it is one of the reasons many men even clicked on the video. It may work for some but I suspect many it will not.
@@reallythough3998 if you are doing what she told you to do for her plesure then hoe are you dominating her? Answer your not. You are simply putting on a show for her where she may be a live participant in the show. You are playing the role she told you to preform because you have decided her desires matter more to you than your own. Think of it like that & once you realize you can submit through appearing to be dominant then a world of possibilities will open up to you.
@@reallythough3998 also if you're willing to take Viagra then that is an option that you could choose to do provided you understand the risk. As a submissive you're not supposed to present problems you're supposed to find a good path to be able to complete the task your dominant has given you to do. You could also train yourself to keep it going well pretending to be dominant.
I could get my wife to do dominant things like roleplay and words however you can tell when its not someone's interest But pegging or cuckolded shes not into that (In my case its a fetish i developed recently) so ya what can i do?
“Never understood the appeal, but people are into what they’re into. If the people involved are up for it, it doesn’t hurt anyone.” - Max, 1. “I want to try it for two reasons: 1) I’m pretty submissive I’ll admit. The idea of being pegged is kind of a fetish I’ve had. 2) You need to experiment a little in your life. Otherwise, it’s just so boring.” - George, 2. “Willing to try if it was that important.” - Eashan, 3. (This three statement of the above people seemed unbelievable) ℹ️ℹ️ℹ️ℹ️ℹ️ℹ️
I find that most ,but not all women want to be dominated or like a dominant man. They don't want to dominate men for some reason. I guess a dominant guy they see as more masculine and attractive. Submissive men they see as weak and doormats. That does not mean they are weak or anything, but that seems to be the way women see them.
I really want to be in a dominant submissive relationship with my lover. At the moment i dont have anyone. and truth being told i would love to be in a s&m relationship. But i want the woman to be loving and kind . At the same time superior. I really don't know how to find a woman who's into it.and i would really be grateful to learn all there is to learn. About it.
Deep down no women wants this deep down they would leave you for sure even if some men wanted it or wanted to explore i dont see this ever working out in the long run
I've always liked pleasing the women first, should the dominace be passed back and fourth, I've always liked dominate women in bed. but I wanna keep her happy, enjoying your channel.
If a girl who is in relationship with a guy who likes it and she loves him she will do it even if she is not 100% happy doing it. Otherwise you will get it somewhere else. The wives main job is to please her man.
guys are probably more interested in having their women do specific bdsm activities. Gradually introduce her to it. What's worked in the past is offering a foot massage, which leads to foot worship, which leads to back massage for you, her walking on your back in high heels, to across your chest in high heels, nipple torture, slight ball caress, firm ball squeeze, cbt,....so why not pegging now, if that's what the guy desires?
Also it seems like all of a sudden all guys like feet, I've liked em since I was a little boy, did everyone always like feet and just didn't say it, lol
U said "Women do a lot of stuff to men". Are u sure a lot ? Always we can check 😊 repair ur car, house, do shoping, pay bills, go with dog, make a dinner, do homework with kids etc. All of this are men dutys. So I don't think women do a lot of stuff. Only sexual but not always and with rly poor quality. Maybe that's why men live shorter ? They are just used over the limit. Please think about it sometimes.
Well, thank u for advice but no thx. There is many othr options like change women or no sex at all. I don't get why u are so aggressive ? I watched many ur vids and normally i can not agree with most of ur points that's why I'm trying give u my arguments. There is no offence, especially when I'm graduate of philosophy study. Only curiosity of ur world.
@@arygawel7627 she's more of a blindfolded women who doesn't want to take criticisms 😂 nonetheless if all women for some weird reasons became dominant, it would be truly disastrous for society.
Well, some1 said: one day without men and whole world will ruin with agony. About this Lady, I don't know her and I'm so interested about her motives. I still don't know s this her game or lifestyle ? Some day I'll discover the true.
@@arygawel7627 I'm myself a femdom addict, idk from my childhood i like feets, slowly my fetish converted into femdom, but now i realised that taking it to another level like being a slave or whatever is truly bad and not good for manhood, some play in normal sex is somewhat ok, but thing like mistress slave relation definitely not ok at least for me, hence I'm on my reboot 🤞
I like women dominate me but iam very lazy if i give her full authority over me she make me her servant so i need to hard work but iam lazy but iam too submissive in nature
Due to stereotypes forced upon us, I make sure to have a conversation about how all of those deciding lins are bullshit & I al willing to explore with her most anywhere she wants, few hard limits obviously since I am still myself.
8:40 But didn't what women wanted trough feminism ? Be a boss, be at direction, get the same salaries and responsabilities than man ? So isn't that be a little hypocrite to say now, than they just want to relax and be submissive to men in bed ? Then if this is the reason that they wanted to relax, because of all this responsibilities, then what about men ? In this case, they want too, to be guided and cared in bed maybe ? Anyway it is not an attack just a reflexion, but yeah i think you explained well the motives behind why most women don't want be a femdom, unless if it is a work, and how to communicate, especially here 9:48. I think that all this femdom topic it is just at the beginning. I think some men want just women to be more responsible of themselves, some men want share the power with them, maybe... Anyway good video i think you did your best.
My experience has been that quite a lot of women are open to this, when explained sincerely and in depth...after all female dominiation in its core is much more about deep care about your lady woman and not necessarily of giving away masculinity...and certainly it does not mean giving up responsibility...
In my experience they are open to it, but they don't enjoy. They get shy, and they don't "feel" it when doing dominant acts, and after a while they get back to vanilla space. You can't force someone to like something. If it's not there, you just respect that and move on and find someone with similar interests.
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i got lucky and my gf really likes it
Never met a dominant woman in 52 years. Never known of any interested in it in the least.
I lucked out and my GF and eventual wife loved the idea. You have to be willing to open yourself up in all respects. She also needs to be brutally honest as well. In the end, it takes time, honesty and trust.
I encourage all submissive males to be open about their sexuality. Atleast inside your relationship! All my relationship has had femdom in them. Embrace your self and teach her.
What's in it for me? Unless shes a service sub herself and wants to learn how to please me by domming me it sounds self destructive and wasteful.
My wife and I just started, I wish there was more content like this.
Good thoughts.
-> a man may experience a submissive side slowly, years after marriage.
-> there is a kind of woman who becomes progressively contemptuous as the generous (not greedy) submissive contorts himself to please her
There are many women who will view a man who tries to please her too much as desperate and thus assume there is something wrong with him and thus not want to be in a relationship with him. But I think if you explain that you like pleasing your wife, then she might not view it as desperation and be more likely to accept it.
Could not agree more - thank you. And your sense of humour is sterling!
Open communication and honesty is of paramount importance, in any relationship.
@@adelmb A girl is a woman under the age of puberty....so, no.
@@adelmb I am sexually dominant...but not a dominatrix. Enjoy your evening.
you are amazing. Thank you so much for everything you have conceptualized and for everything that has soothed me. it's not easy in English but luckily your accent is clear. I'll be sure to thank you more when I can.
Start by offering to do task for her. Think about when she would want a nice bath & make it for her, provided you ask her if she would like one. This will cause her to speak her mind & her preferences.
A good massage, yes a good foot rub also works but each has their time & place.
Do the task around the house she normally dose that you know she dose not like.
Doing these actions before breaking the conversation will show her how it feels before the conversation in a nonsexual way so she can have something to go on. She can see it would be about her desires/wants/needs. It should not matter if any of that hads anything to do with your fantasies as long as you are a tool to be used for her enjoyment/plesure then that is all that a true submissive would want.
Yes have your own personal limits, there is no shame in telling the dominant that you are not ok with x,y,z.
When Dominatrix said “that doesn’t matter because you came here to listen to My opinion” 🔥🔥
I have a strong Girlfriend, she can be strict and if I don’t do as she says, she gets mad. I had her slap me out of anger, then I get on my knees and apologies. She was the first one to use a strap=on on me and didn’t even ask. I love my Girlfriend, she is also intelligent knows many languages and much smarter than me. I ask her why would you be my Girlfriend and she said that I was extremely intelligent and that if I wasn’t she would have left a long time ago. I am so lucky to have her and I worship her and do anything to please her and not feel I need to be rewarded. It’s unconditonal and I will protect her and support her in her life. I love it when she demands I do things for her, from cleaning the house to cooking to giving her massage and more. I told her to use me as a human toy for pleasure and I will be most happy and feel most alive. It works when it works without trying cause it’s so natural.
Thanks Alla, you are so cool.
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Thanks for lovely insights
Best explanation I ever heard about it, thank you. I hate how it's fucking hard to accept this part of mine, feels like you totally stuck between two parts: leading and submissive being. It's tearing myself, because this both parts of myself.
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btw you are beautiful and your earrings is awesome
Thank you:)
LOL around the 3 Minute mark, dog falls off the chair in back ground. Oh and great advice too thanks x
Dog definitely jumped not fell.
Domination, I think more women than you think are made for it and would like to dominate their husbands. Not all women either, to be honest, but a lot. And if we lead them to become our Mistresses and they like that, be careful, because it's a path with no turning back for the husband. I know a couple whose husband pushed his wife into BDSM at the age of 30, today they are both 60 and the husband is not even allowed to leave a room without having permission to his wife.
I do think it is important to remember that in any BDSM relationship, ultimately the submissive has the final say. In your example, the husband could decide to leave the room if he wanted and there would be nothing the wife could do to stop him. It is important to build your relationship toward what you want, but ultimately if the relationship becomes abusive or if the submissive is unhappy, then they need to stop what is going on and reset the expectations of the marriage.
@@greywolf7577 I think they're grown up, they've been together for 30 years, and they do what they want :)
Wtf she’s so controlling
I swoon to be controlled to that extent.. and to have to be so humble and be constantly apologizing sincerely for the tiniest of infractions.. gets my engine purring.
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This was a very deep dive, yet concise. Good stuff.
That's heavenly information. Thanks baby.
My suggestion is to reframe the question. They should ask how can I tell my partner my fantasies in a way that will lead to finding where yalls fantasies overlap/or at least willing to try it once or twice.
I do get individuals are all different although if you want a woman to dominate a man in the bedroom then you have to be willing to see how she feels about being dominant outside the bedroom first. If she likes it then tell her how awesome that was seeing her take control. Baby steps, dip your toes before you decide to jump in. Both not just you.
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Thanks for existing! This site and all your videos are very helpful.
I am in a FL marriage and it feels fantastic. My nature is to be submissive. On the other hand, my wife is temperamental, dominant and she likes that role in marriage.
ALL decisions are made by Her. Her wishes and needs are the most important.
I work 2 jobs to have enough money to live, because my wife likes expensive shopping, luxury restaurants, frequent massages, treatments, etc.
Now she is obsessed with tattoos and wants to cover her whole body. I found her the best tattoo artist in the country because she deserves it.
Finally, we are a childfree couple because she does not want to have children and is going through pregnancy. I fully support her in that. We have one dog and that's enough. I adore my wife and I live for her.
Congrats on your marriage! I’d like to become dominant woman like your wife so maybe you have some tips on becoming that? Also how old are you both ?
@@annaa-rh2bj It is nature, part of personality. From our first meeting, it was obvious that she was the one dominating me. You have to put yourself in the right place in the relationship from the first day if you are really dominant.
By the way, I am 37, my wife is 40.
@@annaa-rh2bjare you a dominant girl
My needs dont matter to my wife in the slightest. We had similar tastes early on, but after the wedding she switched to a "been there, done that" attitude.
It doesnt matter what I "make it about".
We go through long dry spells.
I would suggest male in this position to submit to her by doing stuff in your life. It could be fixing stuff at home, wash her car, get her finest dress cleaned up, buy her new perfume when it’s almost out. All to show you see her and her needs in life and you are there to help her help her get those done.
If she thanks you for it, accept and be pleased by that, don’t request anything for it, keep doing more.
It will take time but keep talking and try to focus the conversation on her needs. Where you can be helpful
My last GF eventually got into my desire to be a Beta. She appreciated that her pleasure was my priority & began to have me be nude before her while she was dressed & would give me light over the knee spankings when I " failed " her. She had me throw out my adult dvds & kept me focused on pleasing her. It was mild domination but stimulating & the passion was real. We broke up 5 years ago & I fantasize about her frequently now. I would submit to her instantly today it's what fulfills me most. Thank You.
Interesting. That's the kind of woman i would like to find. Why did you break up.. and is she with a submissive beta male type of man now.. or did she find an alpha guy?
You are a real superior woman
Many fetishes come and go, they're not a permanent part of someone's psyche. She is wrong.
You are so amazing with this.. i get it.. i think you solved it..❤ thanks
To me FLR in the sense that the leader in the group should know how to act as a leader and what to do as a leader and that is to lead a happy family and a relationship, to me a good leader is all about the happiness of the subjects who are being led and submissiveness of a subject to their leader is all about the happiness of the leader and pleasing the leader, to me that is a balanced healthy exchange of power, with no slaking of any parties about their divided agreed upon duties... If she was a leader who care only about herself, then she is terrible leader who will drive her home to wreck... That is what I think
If pleasing your partner generously, especially if they are the submissive role, qualifies as submission, then most functional healthy relationships would be this way. Unfortunately, the role is not at all one you simply choose. I think attempting to be something you're not for your partner is going to lead to mutual disappointment. Two submissive are quite difficult to manage and it has never worked for me, lots of sadness and disappointment when I try to be what they want me to be, I am unconvincing and can't maintain an erection. I had the gift of a woman who was very compatible, but she's gone and I think my only hope is going to be finding someone who is again, or at least open.
once she knows what you want she will deny you and dominate you perfectly ,all you think about is what she denies
Very useful 👌🏻 lesson learned
You are correct sis thanks....🌼🌼🌼
Not an issue to administer discipline ,rules/punishments to women . But generally a man has to pay a dominatrix or escort for spankings etc ,because its a respect issue in a relationship .
Every relationship is different, and all you can do is develop a dynamic that fits her needs while satisfying your needs to be submissive.
For example I have a foot fetish but my girlfriend doesn’t like me touching her feet. So I put that aside and she uses it as a rare reward.
It only works when both partners communicate and build the relationship. That way you find your own grove together and she becomes your fantasy
I think you have an amazing accent beautiful voice and I agree
Thank you very much, Madam !
I love this advice. Thank you so much.
Findom is one of the most powerful things ever
Not kink shaming... But that can easily fall into the sexual self harm category and ESPECIALLY if this person doesnt love you. And ull end up bonding to this person that only uses you for mineywhise wich makes it SEXUAL SELF HARM
If you're submissive on any way, she will cheat
I just feel disgust towards men, who force their unknowing partners to be dominant or submissive towards them. The point of bdsm is completely lost if at least one party does not want to participate in it. I hate fake subs tbh. They're gross and i wish them worst.
🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 thank You very much
It's been my experience that a Woman will never do anything that She doesn't want to do.
Definitely cherish Her and take care of Her but don't think of it as an exchange. Such as, I washed the dishes and cleaned the house therefore I deserve sex tonight. Because then you get into more of a barter system of sex. I did this therefore I get sex or to get my needs met or I get my kink.
You should take care of your Lady. Make her feel wanted, needed, desired and therefore She will naturally want to please you not because you vacuumed the house or clean the windows or groomed the dog and painted its toenails but the fact that you're constantly making Her life easier, making Her feel loved wanted and cherished.
But she will only know what your desires are if you tell her. I heard a case where a man started doing extra chores in an effort to be submissive. His wife saw this and felt the need to do extra special things for him too, like you said. But the things she did were things a normal person would want ( he didn't list the specifics, but things like make his favorite meal or buy him gifts). What she did didn't make him feel submissive, so eventually he stopped doing the extra chores since it was making her do things he didn't want her to do and they went back to normal. That's why communication is needed.
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If you are a true submissive then being willing to adapt to anything that will give her a reason to smile. Dose not matter if it is in or out of the bedroom.
If she truly dose want to be dominated then dominating her is your act of submission.
Issue is I could not possibly stay hard taking a dominant role, it is one of the reasons many men even clicked on the video. It may work for some but I suspect many it will not.
@@reallythough3998 if you are doing what she told you to do for her plesure then hoe are you dominating her? Answer your not. You are simply putting on a show for her where she may be a live participant in the show. You are playing the role she told you to preform because you have decided her desires matter more to you than your own. Think of it like that & once you realize you can submit through appearing to be dominant then a world of possibilities will open up to you.
@@reallythough3998 also if you're willing to take Viagra then that is an option that you could choose to do provided you understand the risk. As a submissive you're not supposed to present problems you're supposed to find a good path to be able to complete the task your dominant has given you to do. You could also train yourself to keep it going well pretending to be dominant.
I could get my wife to do dominant things like roleplay and words however you can tell when its not someone's interest
But pegging or cuckolded shes not into that
(In my case its a fetish i developed recently) so ya what can i do?
You need to seek for certain type of person. ❤
“Never understood the appeal, but people are into what they’re into. If the people involved are up for it, it doesn’t hurt anyone.”
- Max, 1.
“I want to try it for two reasons: 1) I’m pretty submissive I’ll admit. The idea of being pegged is kind of a fetish I’ve had. 2) You need to experiment a little in your life. Otherwise, it’s just so boring.”
- George, 2.
“Willing to try if it was that important.”
- Eashan, 3.
(This three statement of the above people seemed unbelievable) ℹ️ℹ️ℹ️ℹ️ℹ️ℹ️
Usually triggered by severe child abuse destroying the sense of self
How do I make her? Too funny!!
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Great advice 👍
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@@balajip1745 he what is ur name
How many female are in your life
Tell me
My male friend ask me to be dominate him I make his life hell
@@Sanihya_t really 😍😍😍Thank you mistress
@@balajip1745 ok give me your e-mail id we will talk there
I find that most ,but not all women want to be dominated or like a dominant man. They don't want to dominate men for some reason.
I guess a dominant guy they see as more masculine and attractive.
Submissive men they see as weak and doormats. That does not mean they are weak or anything, but that seems to be the way women see them.
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I really want to be in a dominant submissive relationship with my lover. At the moment i dont have anyone. and truth being told i would love to be in a s&m relationship. But i want the woman to be loving and kind . At the same time superior. I really don't know how to find a woman who's into it.and i would really be grateful to learn all there is to learn. About it.
@MaryScott-tx8scare you a serious dominant girl?
@MaryScott-tx8sc no i just have seen your comment..i'm a serious sub man looking for a serious dom woman if you want to talking on it
@MaryScott-tx8sc yes i watched it but give me your facebook to talking on it
Sorry, but after watching all the video, I really didn't get the tips 🤔
That´s funny, because for nearly the same reasons I don´t waant to dominate my wife.
I would love to be more thin one key hold slave to keep the key holders Happy lady's that would share a key holder
Deep down no women wants this deep down they would leave you for sure even if some men wanted it or wanted to explore i dont see this ever working out in the long run
I've always liked pleasing the women first, should the dominace be passed back and fourth, I've always liked dominate women in bed. but I wanna keep her happy, enjoying your channel.
If a girl who is in relationship with a guy who likes it and she loves him she will do it even if she is not 100% happy doing it. Otherwise you will get it somewhere else. The wives main job is to please her man.
What if she did like it
guys are probably more interested in having their women do specific bdsm activities. Gradually introduce her to it. What's worked in the past is offering a foot massage, which leads to foot worship, which leads to back massage for you, her walking on your back in high heels, to across your chest in high heels, nipple torture, slight ball caress, firm ball squeeze, cbt,....so why not pegging now, if that's what the guy desires?
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It is a hella lot of work being a top.
Also it seems like all of a sudden all guys like feet, I've liked em since I was a little boy, did everyone always like feet and just didn't say it, lol
not sure you have any good advice on this subject since you aren't interested in certain types of play
U said "Women do a lot of stuff to men". Are u sure a lot ? Always we can check 😊 repair ur car, house, do shoping, pay bills, go with dog, make a dinner, do homework with kids etc. All of this are men dutys. So I don't think women do a lot of stuff. Only sexual but not always and with rly poor quality. Maybe that's why men live shorter ? They are just used over the limit. Please think about it sometimes.
If women provide sex of poor quality, maybe try with men?
Well, thank u for advice but no thx. There is many othr options like change women or no sex at all. I don't get why u are so aggressive ? I watched many ur vids and normally i can not agree with most of ur points that's why I'm trying give u my arguments. There is no offence, especially when I'm graduate of philosophy study. Only curiosity of ur world.
@@arygawel7627 she's more of a blindfolded women who doesn't want to take criticisms 😂 nonetheless if all women for some weird reasons became dominant, it would be truly disastrous for society.
Well, some1 said: one day without men and whole world will ruin with agony. About this Lady, I don't know her and I'm so interested about her motives. I still don't know s this her game or lifestyle ? Some day I'll discover the true.
@@arygawel7627 I'm myself a femdom addict, idk from my childhood i like feets, slowly my fetish converted into femdom, but now i realised that taking it to another level like being a slave or whatever is truly bad and not good for manhood, some play in normal sex is somewhat ok, but thing like mistress slave relation definitely not ok at least for me, hence I'm on my reboot 🤞
I like women dominate me but iam very lazy if i give her full authority over me she make me her servant so i need to hard work but iam lazy but iam too submissive in nature
Can we talk we can talk about that told me about ur e-mail id we will talk there
@KingShamaan I don't think soo
@@Sanihya_ti like dominant women u plz sent ur instagram id
@@Sanihya_ti want to talk to u
9:13 and 9:23 eew :p
Due to stereotypes forced upon us, I make sure to have a conversation about how all of those deciding lins are bullshit & I al willing to explore with her most anywhere she wants, few hard limits obviously since I am still myself.
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8:40 But didn't what women wanted trough feminism ? Be a boss, be at direction, get the same salaries and responsabilities than man ? So isn't that be a little hypocrite to say now, than they just want to relax and be submissive to men in bed ?
Then if this is the reason that they wanted to relax, because of all this responsibilities, then what about men ? In this case, they want too, to be guided and cared in bed maybe ?
Anyway it is not an attack just a reflexion, but yeah i think you explained well the motives behind why most women don't want be a femdom, unless if it is a work, and how to communicate, especially here 9:48.
I think that all this femdom topic it is just at the beginning. I think some men want just women to be more responsible of themselves, some men want share the power with them, maybe...
Anyway good video i think you did your best.
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your eyes are drugs...woow
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