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  • Опубликовано: 4 май 2022

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  • @reijelll
    @reijelll 7 месяцев назад +2006

    To the parents reading this
    After being scolded and hurt by you we may smile but remember every word you say to us remains printed in our minds forever...

    • @rash224
      @rash224 6 месяцев назад +25

      True

    • @Rukayejihaerin
      @Rukayejihaerin 6 месяцев назад +10

      True

    • @raziaaltaf7862
      @raziaaltaf7862 6 месяцев назад +1

      😊😅

    • @anafajaffer1926
      @anafajaffer1926 6 месяцев назад +5

      fr :(

    • @Blackkitten2715
      @Blackkitten2715 5 месяцев назад +37

      My eldr sister and mother planned to clean furniture and sister got a call so she went to take it. I went to help my mother becuase she is cleaning alone. I can't walk quickly because my leg was cut a little. She blamed me for it but she never told anything to my sister. It just happened now. Why did they do this to us? It is always like this. I really want to go somewhere so far far away.

  • @Say_lalisa180
    @Say_lalisa180 10 месяцев назад +984

    Let’s promise to not let our future kids suffer from what we are going through

    • @maeve8082
      @maeve8082 8 месяцев назад +42

      yes i was just thinking this…. i hope to have children one day and i cant imagine making them feel horrible about themselves and so unhappy and miserable. i want to make them feel like they can tell me anything and i want them to feel happy and supported but also know its okay to have bad days and take a rest day and be sad it doesnt mean that your weak. i want them to know their loved

    • @priyanshutripathi5229
      @priyanshutripathi5229 8 месяцев назад +5

      You should just decrease the percentage of punishment but don't nuglify it.
      They could also be influenced by others and are not always given free will as it could destroy their future.
      My father is a good person but he easily get angry.
      At first, I thought he didn't love me but soon realised to him I am more than his life so he didn't want me to face difficulties he is facing. That is why he gets angry.
      Don't judge others by just action but also it's motive and be happy and make others happy.

    • @priyanshutripathi5229
      @priyanshutripathi5229 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@maeve8082true, don't punish them without knowing full truth about it

    • @FaBeL_eDiTzZ69
      @FaBeL_eDiTzZ69 6 месяцев назад +6

      Yes I promise 😢

    • @Blackkitten2715
      @Blackkitten2715 5 месяцев назад +3

      Never. I will never do it. I will let them be happy as much as I can. I will really protect them.

  • @juliadeblock
    @juliadeblock Год назад +1959

    They yell, they hurt, and yet they never apologized.

    • @axn__
      @axn__ Год назад +115

      and expect us to apologize ;)

    • @ZANABAH1010
      @ZANABAH1010 Год назад +20

      ​@@axn__fr🚬🗿

    • @ZANABAH1010
      @ZANABAH1010 11 месяцев назад +18

      @@anmolkaur6647 my mom doesn't even aplogize

    • @ish23_thv
      @ish23_thv 11 месяцев назад +4

      Correct 😢😞

    • @user-rw4gx9kg8p
      @user-rw4gx9kg8p 11 месяцев назад +3

      Correct

  • @miriah_plays4024
    @miriah_plays4024 Год назад +422

    This made me cry the fact she told her feelings to her mother..I could never my parents would beat me because they never wanna know the truth but they hate it when I lie. I would literally have have meltdown bc of them and they would say " why you crying" After they yelled at me for the most dumb reason I am just so tried of it 😭😭

    • @valerieleyva2203
      @valerieleyva2203 Год назад +12

      ​@Bye hey um I have the same issue I have a complicated relationship with my mom and she never understood me except for my dad who i lost and I tried so hard to make my mom happy but it still isn't enough but I hope whoever u are your don't alone in this world

    • @user-ul9eo6su2c
      @user-ul9eo6su2c Год назад +7

      ​@@sanahussain5551 once I did tell them and what do u expect they made fun of me 😢

    • @shan-shine1
      @shan-shine1 Год назад +1

      sanahussain left the chat

    • @johnatutahi9757
      @johnatutahi9757 Год назад +8

      As a parent I can tell you most parents never start out like this. But over time we don't know we are starting to choose one child over the other one. Then we start thinking our favourite child will never lie to us. It's not till our children are older and they confront us about this , sometimes it takes years before we realise that they are right. For some parents it's too late to make amends with our children, which is sad 😢. But if you're parent is trying to change please except their changes and help them change. I'm finally in a great relationship with my children cause I changed my ways, and I accept the criticism that my children tell me . I have gotten the forgiveness of my children and I love them more ❤.

    • @rashidabegum4581
      @rashidabegum4581 8 месяцев назад +3

      @johnatutahi9757 I wish all the parents be like u 😔

  • @kpop_for_life._.
    @kpop_for_life._. 2 года назад +2490

    This is me like when ever something happens my mom just compares me to my brother like whyyyy

  • @triggeredfan4613
    @triggeredfan4613 2 года назад +887

    😢😢💔💔💔 it hurts a lot when parents don't understand u at that moment

    • @Oneville7395
      @Oneville7395 2 года назад +6

      Ikr it's just hurts so much

    • @Itsgabsgames2nd
      @Itsgabsgames2nd Год назад +4

      Ikr my mom laughs

    • @_Sirens
      @_Sirens Год назад +1

      @@Itsgabsgames2nd same

    • @shwenczyb009
      @shwenczyb009 Год назад +2

      Fr it hurts a lot and they think they know me better that me just because I'm their flesh and blood

    • @jabakundu7324
      @jabakundu7324 Год назад +1

      It hurts very much 🥺

  • @its.Tavishi
    @its.Tavishi Год назад +254

    Every child in the world deserve parents but some parents don't deserve a child...
    ~Someone great

  • @skzsbackdoor
    @skzsbackdoor Год назад +640

    It hurts so much when your own parents compare you to someone else😭🔪

    • @KamikazeButterfly20
      @KamikazeButterfly20 11 месяцев назад +2

      That's to make you better

    • @iadoptedseungmin
      @iadoptedseungmin 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@KamikazeButterfly20bro wat it’s the opposite 😭.

    • @priyanshutripathi5229
      @priyanshutripathi5229 8 месяцев назад +1

      Me, I like to be compared with my bro . He is super hero for me. I want to surpass him in his studies as he is a genius to me.

    • @userleftthisaccountforever
      @userleftthisaccountforever 7 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@KamikazeButterfly20Yeah but they should understand the side effects. Comparing might reduce their child's confidence and feel imperfect and unwanted.

    • @Rahulsingh.105
      @Rahulsingh.105 7 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly 💔🖤

  • @akshitarajput392
    @akshitarajput392 2 года назад +531

    The fact I can feel it 🥲

    • @its.Tavishi
      @its.Tavishi Год назад +6

      Stay strong you deserve much better...

    • @mehjabeinohi5114
      @mehjabeinohi5114 4 месяца назад

      Ma bhi samaj sakti hu. Mera koi bhi bhai behen nahi ma ek aluad hu maa baap ki.Ase bhi is dard se abhi bhi ma guzar rahi hu.Allah sab kuch thik kar dega is barosa hi jee raha hu.

    • @user-ds2gz3bj2v
      @user-ds2gz3bj2v 3 месяца назад +1

      It still hurts me when I remember my mother saying I shouldn't have given birth to you.

  • @Amarillialinzpink
    @Amarillialinzpink 3 месяца назад +30

    The phrase "i get hurt too" was personal😭😭

  • @Blackpink1-f4n
    @Blackpink1-f4n 2 месяца назад +20

    "And then they say we treat our children equally wheather its girl or a boy"
    Which hurts more
    I can accept anything but not betrayal and a lie from my close one

  • @Ada437S
    @Ada437S 6 месяцев назад +112

    Sometimes i feel like my parents don’t deserve a daughter like me😭

  • @sumo7125
    @sumo7125 7 месяцев назад +44

    I was going through bad times in school and was depressed not knowing what to do, I did stupid things like hurting myself to relieve the stress. I was alone, none of my friends were beside me due to a misunderstanding and some stupid fake rumours, I couldn't bear it so I begged my parents to take me home. Later at home when I told my mom that my friends aren't talking to me, without even knowing the whole situation and the truth my mom said, “ it's probably your fault”...i was so hurt.
    Whatever I say is considered as talking back to them
    Whatever I do is considered selfish but when my other siblings do it they don't get called selfish
    When they wrong me and I try to defend myself by explaining but they say am talking back and showing bad behavior... Sometimes I wanna live like those kids who aren't close with their parents. I wanna run away sometimes

    • @Arfxluvv
      @Arfxluvv 4 месяца назад

      Usss

    • @Sassy_as_always-ie7iw
      @Sassy_as_always-ie7iw 2 месяца назад +3

      That's what always happen with me... I can feel u...😓
      My mother always says that to me without even knowing what happened..... Why can't I ever spent MY FRUSTRATION, MY ANGER, MY SENTIMENTS BY TELLING SOMEONE...... Why do I always have to be the first one blamed for everything when it's my sister's fault..... Just why???

    • @Queeniesaidimtheprincess
      @Queeniesaidimtheprincess Месяц назад +1

      I feel u I have bad days in school and when I tell my parents about it they say tell a teacher and when I do it becomes worse then I told them again but they ignored it and then when I wanted to tell them about my personal problems I feel uncomfortable and bad

    • @Coohearthaddict9804
      @Coohearthaddict9804 Месяц назад

      You deserve better ❤😢

    • @manaswiniiyer8605
      @manaswiniiyer8605 Месяц назад

      ​@@Sassy_as_always-ie7iw I know what it feels like to be blamed for your own and everyone else's behavior, without knowing what the other person did. I was and still am the unloved child, the scapegoat and the punching bag in my family. I am still struggling with depression since the last 5 years and my parents don't know about it. Everything is about them and their problems. When will they stop blaming me for everything? And they claim to be scared of me because I end up crying and yelling and not by the CID level questions they throw at me and treat me like a criminal. I really can't wait to permanently leave and disconnect with them forever. Peace.

  • @anupriyakarthikeyan9211
    @anupriyakarthikeyan9211 Год назад +134

    I would never compare my future kid bc i know how that feels🙃

  • @viditanimmagadda4047
    @viditanimmagadda4047 6 месяцев назад +25

    It hurts a lot when your own parents compare you to others💔💔😔

    • @Bfromalphabetlore222
      @Bfromalphabetlore222 3 месяца назад +1

      That's why I never wanted to make friends at school🤕

  • @Cute_fushiguro
    @Cute_fushiguro 2 месяца назад +19

    Promise me..
    In our future kids❤
    We be a good mom, we don't hurt or no one let hurt she/he
    We don't do that we see in our time... I wanna say u something----
    I have no friend or sister to say..
    I have a sister but she blind she doesn't walk..
    Im tpyingg this while crying..
    Don't treat our kids like how we treat 💔🙂

    • @s___akura
      @s___akura 2 месяца назад +2

      i promise this to my future children that they will never experience what their mom experienced growing up!

    • @Nigeriaisthegoat
      @Nigeriaisthegoat 2 месяца назад

      I promised my future kids that I will never abuse or make them Feel bad. I will appreciate them

  • @sadpie2104
    @sadpie2104 Год назад +58

    I really feel the same but I can't fight for myself, my mom always scold me when I fight with my siblings even if I am the one who is hurt. I just literally hate when my parents talk about my siblings, that is why I cry all night when they are sleep.

    • @BTSarmy-xo6lo
      @BTSarmy-xo6lo Год назад +7

      i just hate my siblings bcz of many reasons and they say I'm only acting they don't know anything

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Год назад +6

      Same here. My mom favours my sister because she is much better than me in her opinion...
      But whenever I talk to her about it?
      I just overreact in her opinion.

    • @Harry_2003
      @Harry_2003 4 месяца назад +5

      She never blame my brother when he say something bad about me...she shouts on me only

  • @Tiatiiiiiiia
    @Tiatiiiiiiia Год назад +70

    I wish i could also say this to my mom : (

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Год назад +3

      Whenever I tell her that, she says I act like a victim (overreacting) in her mind... So yeah I stopped talking to her. She underestimates me and disrespects me

    • @EvalinnTomasi-lo1hc
      @EvalinnTomasi-lo1hc 5 месяцев назад +1

      I SPEAK UP FOR MYSELF ONE DAY AND SHE HIT ME MORE :( SO I STOPED :( CUZ IT HURTS :(

    • @R0ub1.
      @R0ub1. 2 месяца назад

      @@EvalinnTomasi-lo1hcspeak up for yourself more, dont let her make you a puppet, tho it might hurt stay strong

  • @Ishika817
    @Ishika817 Год назад +24

    Parents..never understood me..they never knew anything about me..they thought they were good parents by being “strict”..but whoever go though that..I’m sorry..because of that..we hide who we really are..they..won’t understand me..and now..idc..since I know I can’t never make them proud..why not make myself proud?..

  • @mercury9576
    @mercury9576 Год назад +26

    It hurts alot when your parents not only compare u to others kids but also to your own siblings like i was compared to my sister because she was good in studies and i was not. It really hurts alot when you are nothing but a disgrace in your parents eyes. My parents even told me that i should die because i was just weak in studies.

    • @everythingwillbeok...
      @everythingwillbeok... 5 месяцев назад +2

      Girl I know no words can heal what u r going through but I wish one day u cry as much as it hurted, your bad memories becomes past and present becomes beautiful where u r surrounded by only loved ones. Stay strong love you❤️

  • @userleftthisaccountforever
    @userleftthisaccountforever 7 месяцев назад +27

    My mom always makes me feel insecure. Here's a story. I was facing heavy hairfall due to extreme dieting. Now I started extreme dieting as in my class, some of the students made fun of my weight and this made me severely insecure. I was mentally suffering during that period. To ease my suffering, I would constantly go to my mom for reassurance that I won't go bald. But at one point she got irritated of me and started blaming me for dieting, she said that I deserved it so I must not complain. She never understood my pain of being called fat. After I became thin, my mom started to call me ugly. I am in tears right now as I am typing this. Doesn't she realise that I was being bullied and I was suffering? I just wanted some reassurance that everything will be fine. But she makes things worse.

    • @Harry_2003
      @Harry_2003 4 месяца назад +4

      Desi moms do this always 😢

    • @__nomithajames13
      @__nomithajames13 3 месяца назад +3

      I'm soo sorry for that🥺🫂

    • @R0ub1.
      @R0ub1. 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Harry_2003yeah i fucking hate my parents

    • @eiraidkwhatelsetoput
      @eiraidkwhatelsetoput 2 месяца назад +1

      Something similar for me. I have always had more body hair ,acne, and greasier hair, most of which were due to HER genes. She would constantly make fun of me for it. During my childhood, she would cut my hair to the lenth that SHE wants bc i "cant wash it properly" even though i was a small child who didn't know how to wash it. She would say my face is bumpy and ugly, that my face was fat. Then in the same breath she would complain that i don't eat and that i was "too skinny". She would constantly make fun of my body hair, especially my legs.

    • @khushitrivedi3429
      @khushitrivedi3429 2 месяца назад

      Dont worry guyss ...you're precious..don't let your angel inside you fade away becoz of someone who doesn't care about you

  • @maddy.is.kinda.cool.
    @maddy.is.kinda.cool. Год назад +122

    Ok but I’m was crying before and now I can’t stop 😭
    Oops- got a tear drop on my phone

    • @its.Tavishi
      @its.Tavishi Год назад +6

      I am just like you and that's why we should have waterproof phones 😂😂✌🏻✌🏻

    • @farwasardar
      @farwasardar Год назад +4

      Remember whatever terrible is happening right now will be just some memories after some time so dont be depressed and be happy

  • @roshnipouchepparadjou2513
    @roshnipouchepparadjou2513 2 года назад +625

    Its is abusive in kdrama and world ......but in India its common that parents beat kids even for small things that doesn't matter....

    • @ONKYYU
      @ONKYYU 2 года назад +24

      Same

    • @bhumigole7480
      @bhumigole7480 2 года назад +109

      *Cause for them*
      Comparison is motivation
      Abuse is a lesson to children so that they won't do mistake again
      👏🏻👏🏻

    • @roshnipouchepparadjou2513
      @roshnipouchepparadjou2513 2 года назад +17

      @@bhumigole7480 I cant understand whether you're supporting me .... Or ?

    • @bhumigole7480
      @bhumigole7480 2 года назад +22

      @@roshnipouchepparadjou2513 I am saying for them means our parents think this not me

    • @roshnipouchepparadjou2513
      @roshnipouchepparadjou2513 2 года назад +12

      @@bhumigole7480 yeah ...so sad !

  • @fathimasithara_-_-_-.a
    @fathimasithara_-_-_-.a 7 месяцев назад +15

    In reality 😅if we cry they get angry or don’t care.Then we stops crying ultimately leading to depression

  • @Kim._taenniee
    @Kim._taenniee 2 года назад +75

    This happens in every time every year every days to me

    • @tokyomanjirogang--
      @tokyomanjirogang-- 11 месяцев назад +1

      I can fell it 😢

    • @zooMonalicom
      @zooMonalicom Месяц назад

      Hey lady take care of yourself.
      You know after disturbing your mental health no one cares they will treat you as a mental

  • @Sh4meL3ssBeing
    @Sh4meL3ssBeing Год назад +39

    " I AM NOT afraid ANYMORE MAKES U SURE"😭
    *I JUST WANTED UR LOVE FOR FREE..... YOU CAN SEE ME GETTING BORED..*

  • @aric4118
    @aric4118 Год назад +17

    The "I get hurt too" gets me every time

  • @Monchy_moon
    @Monchy_moon 10 месяцев назад +12

    parents doesnt know us. They dont know that we give the best of us only for hearing a "im proud of you". They don't know our pain because we hide it with a smile. It hurts but we dont matter anyway so we have to keep on suffering

  • @MOON_kim280
    @MOON_kim280 5 месяцев назад +9

    "Outside smile inside crying in pain "iam relatable to this video mom never understands me 💔

  • @akshitasingh9261
    @akshitasingh9261 Год назад +14

    This scene is describing my life 😭😭 it hurts and they don't even apologize 😞

  • @Coco_cookie788
    @Coco_cookie788 Месяц назад +2

    I just want to say every parents please don't compare us we also have feelings It hurts us when you say this we don't react but when we remember it we broke every single second 😣😔😞

  • @odd_onee
    @odd_onee Год назад +16

    it hurts to see how a woman hates another woman. Doesn't matter if it is our mother 😣

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Год назад +6

      Especially since we live in a world where women have poor treatment, because of patriarchy.

    • @Kkskrog
      @Kkskrog 7 месяцев назад

      Lol you are taking these on completely different direction let's take these drama situation as real life if a mother had genius son and dumb trash daughter like these girl then way not the mother will like and love son more than daughter yeah but cursing and comparing your child with other is not a good thing but it is what it is

  • @BTSarmygirl-pb6zh
    @BTSarmygirl-pb6zh 2 месяца назад +6

    Yes it's true 💯🥺😢✨❣️💜so let's promise to not let our future kids suffer from what we are going through okk😊✨👍❣️✌️😎💜

  • @luvv23
    @luvv23 Год назад +30

    This is just like me. They don't understand me and always teasing me and compare me with my friend and my brother. 😭

  • @supertechnicalgamer6993
    @supertechnicalgamer6993 22 дня назад +1

    Parents who compare their child to others miss out their appreciating their unique gifts of talents😢
    Please don't compare your child with others😔

  • @syedashaima12
    @syedashaima12 Месяц назад +1

    I always find this short when ever i get treated by everyone like her 😢😕🥺

  • @Doraemon_07342
    @Doraemon_07342 Год назад +4

    This made me cry,it happens with me all time.

  • @itz_zooey
    @itz_zooey Год назад +11

    When only some people understand......it hurts when you understand :(

  • @user-tt1qe7lq4e
    @user-tt1qe7lq4e Год назад +12

    Watching this made me cry because it’s happened to me but I didn’t have the words to fight back

    • @ZANABAH1010
      @ZANABAH1010 Год назад +1

      whats the kdrama name pls?

    • @jyothijoo9897
      @jyothijoo9897 Год назад

      Me alsooooo idont have intrst on other group my dream is mbbs mrng mrng they started scolding me nd beaten meeeee to send me to clg even my dad🥺💔 beaten nd got angryyyyy i was brokeddddd stilll i love themmmmm but they dont understand my pain 😢they said ur wsteeeee urrrr karma for usssss nd saiddd dieee 😭😭😭😭

    • @jancyv.j4968
      @jancyv.j4968 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ZANABAH1010
      Strong women do bong song

    • @jancyv.j4968
      @jancyv.j4968 9 месяцев назад

      Strong women do bong soon

    • @JsjsI-em6op
      @JsjsI-em6op 2 месяца назад

      @@jancyv.j4968episode??

  • @saishpandey6673
    @saishpandey6673 10 дней назад

    it's heartbreaking man they never understood us and when they finally did it's too late💔

  • @rinasaha3755
    @rinasaha3755 Год назад +16

    And this kdrama made me realise that u can make thousands of videos about abusive but parents will do what they want. And I am myself telling this things parents things are normal but in reality it hurts so stay strong that's all what we can so now

  • @yeosang1999
    @yeosang1999 3 месяца назад +3

    in the morning i cry a lot,
    Sometimes parent's never deserve childs,

  • @RamyaK-k3u
    @RamyaK-k3u Месяц назад

    "Iam your child too...... "
    Hits different 🫠💔

  • @ilove_toeat
    @ilove_toeat 11 месяцев назад +8

    If anyone wants to know the k drama it's called "strong woman do-bong-soon"

  • @ruqaiyaghole8325
    @ruqaiyaghole8325 Год назад +7

    This is literally my whole life rn
    Idk why but as soon as she compared her to her brother tears started flowing out of my eyes as I remembered all the thousands of time she did this to me 😢

    • @userleftthisaccountforever
      @userleftthisaccountforever 7 месяцев назад +1

      Hey I can understand your pain. I also get compared with the worst people sometimes. If they ever compare, please be confident and tell them that you don't want to be compared as you are one individual and you are unique.

    • @ruqaiyaghole8325
      @ruqaiyaghole8325 7 месяцев назад

      @@userleftthisaccountforever if I said that , I would get a nice slipper thrown at my face and then she will say " it's for you to improve and we only want your best"

  • @xwolfminionx
    @xwolfminionx Год назад +47

    Mama wolf is here for any who feels like their parents pick favorites i will love you with open arms

  • @itsnotzainabb
    @itsnotzainabb Год назад +5

    Being the youngest of 4 siblings i completely understand. My mum is always telling me how shitty she got treated but shes doing it to me. She's only comforting my siblings

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Год назад +1

      Similar situation. She used to be a little better to my older sister, but she treated me worse because I was the youngest scapegoat in the family.

    • @elifmeryem4652
      @elifmeryem4652 8 месяцев назад

      finally someone who knows the truth about the lie that „youngest child is the favorite“ is not real : (

  • @mdsaeedrazvi3868
    @mdsaeedrazvi3868 2 месяца назад +2

    Literally I am crying after watching this video 😭❤️‍🩹

  • @DazaiOsamu-kj8ik
    @DazaiOsamu-kj8ik Год назад +17

    I can feel her pain

  • @leiftbell6309
    @leiftbell6309 Год назад +6

    Now I don’t feel sad but instead I feel ashame. Ashame that the society is this way!

  • @everythingwillbeok...
    @everythingwillbeok... 5 месяцев назад +3

    This society hates when we say I think my parents do partiality between siblings, they did hurt my feelings, they don't understand me.... everyone says parents sacrifices their whole life they did this and that so u don't have any right to say so but let me tell you parents who grow their handicapped child on their own literally without expecting anything can be the real parents but some are really not...cuz they do everything for sure but in return they always expects success and if u don't become one then they really the worst people u have dealt with in ur life....some of u might be lucky enough to not go through all this but some of us really in tough time....we need to stay strong no matter what....

  • @cherrylandfics7243
    @cherrylandfics7243 Год назад +7

    dude I'm actually crying for real😭, my mom acts like this too. I'm very sensitive when it comes to me getting yelled or shout at(I will instantly start crying once you tell or shout)

  • @sophiabonilla6401
    @sophiabonilla6401 Год назад +8

    That’s one of the saddest things that happen in k drama when they cry and poor girl

  • @Esxstuff
    @Esxstuff Год назад +3

    Every kid deserves parents.
    But not all parents deserve kids

  • @BangtanbyTodoro
    @BangtanbyTodoro 27 дней назад

    This is so true. Some of my friends parents I know alawyas say to not compare with others to their friends but always make their own kids feel low.
    My parents body shame me and tell me to get slimer yet when I try and try and succeed in something they say to make more effort. Like why...? Please don't be hard on childern, parents. And kids and kids who are my age, please don't let their words affect you...
    I know it will be hard but try and distract yourself. Show them and prove them that YOU are the best

  • @Roseviolet9884
    @Roseviolet9884 6 месяцев назад +9

    Parents Don’t know what kids feel😢

    • @Zhuine_dontmindme
      @Zhuine_dontmindme 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yes I thought they are kids before how come they still don't understand

    • @R0ub1.
      @R0ub1. 2 месяца назад

      @@Zhuine_dontmindmeidk?!

  • @khushi0happy
    @khushi0happy 6 месяцев назад +5

    " u r a women too " !! Wish my mom understood this line ... I just wanna tell my mom that it hurts when she treats me like a shit !

  • @minusharma6623
    @minusharma6623 Месяц назад +1

    "Sometimes it's better to keep silent
    than you tell others what you FEEL
    Because it will hurt, when your parents don't Understand you 😢😢
    ~ unknown

  • @Laiba968art
    @Laiba968art Год назад +4

    Parents never understand they just compare😢

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Год назад

      Exactly as a child you have to wait until adulthood to actually get a free life, sometimes which is sad because childhood is something you don't get back.

  • @then1hal
    @then1hal 5 месяцев назад +6

    Scream at me but you can't hit me. You cannot harm this body. This body does not belong to you. It won't always be like this. I might walk away one day, mom. Then you can hit and break things that remind me of me and scream as much as you want.

  • @anandmohansingh279
    @anandmohansingh279 2 месяца назад +3

    I was compared to my best friend everyday. She is the best but now coz of them saying she's better, im always so jealpus of her even if she did nothing wrong. God save us

  • @user-hp4fo2lo5x
    @user-hp4fo2lo5x 2 месяца назад +1

    Parents just dont understand what we are going through, like getting bullied or being left out, we are just trying to make them proud and happy once you get kids plss dont treat them like this but once they notice it ( like watching emotional videos like this short ) they've seen/feel our pain 😢 it is just soooo hard to not cry infront if them😔

  • @shashthisahu222
    @shashthisahu222 Месяц назад

    When she cries it feels so real and hurt 😢

  • @Sykeita
    @Sykeita Год назад +6

    I always hate this.. my mom always does this to me and compares me to other like, kids have emotions too! My mom seems to hate me only out of my siblings. She's always like " your sister can do better than you!" It hurts because your parents don't understand how you feel In that moment.

  • @Emily_McRae
    @Emily_McRae Год назад +2

    This made me cry!😢

  • @queenwishieluck1359
    @queenwishieluck1359 4 дня назад

    Bad things shouldn’t go unpunished. Bad parents disgust me.

  • @ShaemaMhamad-f5e
    @ShaemaMhamad-f5e 16 дней назад

    They hurt us by what they’re saying and when we tell them how we feel they never want to listen 😢

  • @darling_woozi
    @darling_woozi Год назад +8

    This girl is strong to cry in front of her parent I just pretend I have to use the bathroom or smth and cry there. It’s actually sad because our parents are supposed to be there for ANYTHING but sometimes they don’t even know what happening and just yell at you.

  • @Cardboard333
    @Cardboard333 2 месяца назад +5

    Our parents think we are bad even though, we arent.

  • @MomoChanmultistan
    @MomoChanmultistan 2 месяца назад +1

    Ut really hurts when your parents prioritize your brothers over you... Like right now, my brothers are on a trip to another city while I'm here crying in my room because no one even mentioned to take me with them...

  • @christinatorres5963
    @christinatorres5963 15 дней назад

    Whenever I try to stand up for myself they shut me up and whenever I cry abt it, I have to be the one to apologize 🫠

  • @Pakistani_Gamer92
    @Pakistani_Gamer92 Год назад +2

    This is the most painful thing that's your parents compare you with anyone 😢😭 but now i don't care because it's me i know how my parents say me in past present and future😔 that's why i ignore them but i can't i don't know what can i do

  • @ikijadayschoolsurulere2238
    @ikijadayschoolsurulere2238 Год назад +8

    Why did this make me cry????

  • @albionakrasniqi6030
    @albionakrasniqi6030 Месяц назад

    Every kid deserves a parent
    But every parent dosen‘t deserve a kid

  • @zhimonia
    @zhimonia 7 месяцев назад +1

    This made me cry as I'm also going through the same

  • @nikitasatpute6230
    @nikitasatpute6230 Год назад +6

    Literally in india or in asia
    The parent literally compare them to another child when they score more than us or do good things
    And when us score good they are like what we have to do with them

  • @Elianna.gymnast
    @Elianna.gymnast 6 месяцев назад +4

    Why my parents always think my life is not hard and i can't even express myself and they always compare me to other people i hate that. Why do they have to do this??? They expect me to apologize they think they are always right they never had time to listen to me about my problems they think i dont have problems i deal with depression alone everyday. I have God who can understand me. But WHY DO PARENTS HAVE TO BE LIKE THAT IM A TEEN. YOU SEE I HAVE NEVER EXPRESSED MYSELF TO ANYONE THAT I DONTTTTTTTTTTTTT EVEN KNOW HOW TO EXPRESS MYSELF RIGHT NOW!!!!!!! EVERYTIME I CRY MY PARENTS FORCE ME TO STOP CRYING. I DONTTTTTTTTTTTTT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE.

    • @Hako-san2027
      @Hako-san2027 6 месяцев назад +2

      It's okay, you are strong because you can bear all this. Please smile. You are amazing and talented. Don't care about what they say. Believe in yourself, you are a hero🎉

    • @Elianna.gymnast
      @Elianna.gymnast 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Hako-san2027 awwww thxxxx u made me smile 🥺💕 May God bless you 💕💕❤❤

  • @star.yuk11
    @star.yuk11 Месяц назад +1

    I know how unfair the world is..i would just fake my smile sometimes..

  • @Izumi_zuzu2
    @Izumi_zuzu2 Месяц назад

    I’ve been through this a lot my parents mentally abuse me and constantly compare me to my brother or friends I promise myself that if I ever have kids I will treat them with love and care
    To all the parents -
    Kids are humans too they have feelings too not only you are always right so please don’t make them feel unloved or they might end up doing something you could never imagine to end the pain you gave them

  • @soyaa_bp4635
    @soyaa_bp4635 Год назад +11

    I am literally crying

  • @jagannathmandal3214
    @jagannathmandal3214 2 месяца назад +3

    I don't know why parents do this

  • @Lisa_Fan_No.01
    @Lisa_Fan_No.01 11 дней назад

    Yeah Children deserves parent but Parents doesn't deserve children

  • @akankshasharma8440
    @akankshasharma8440 Месяц назад

    Tried so hard to be good enough but was always rejected... They won't ever realise that they left us feeling hollow and unwanted.

  • @babitaagrawal730
    @babitaagrawal730 Год назад +3

    This is reality whenever i fo anything wrong she slways compares me with my eldest sister. When I say something she never talks me until i say sorry or beg to talk to me "WHY ALWAYS WE YOUNGEST SIBLINGS GET THIS TREATMENT" 😭😭😭

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Год назад

      This reminds me of my own childhood as well...
      Constantly being compared to my elder sister and making me feel uncomfortable for existing under the same roof as her. So she would tell me to be nice to her and my sister, while being inconsiderate for my feelings...😢

  • @BlackSky_111
    @BlackSky_111 2 года назад +12

    Especially desi parents do this things to theyr kids...

  • @coleendonre6983
    @coleendonre6983 27 дней назад

    if only parents could truly do when they say "I love you both equally".

  • @user-cs2cp5yk8p
    @user-cs2cp5yk8p 6 месяцев назад +1

    kids deserve parents, parents don't deserve kids

  • @loveU_likeThis
    @loveU_likeThis 2 месяца назад +4

    I'm watching this kdrama rn 😢❤

  • @ferdinandmina6626
    @ferdinandmina6626 5 месяцев назад +3

    to parents again
    u really have to noy scold ur kids bc there crying they don't tell u bc parents accuse there children of stealing and being a mistake
    how much they cried
    they cried at home
    they cried at school
    they cried at the bathroom
    they cried bc of the scold
    they cried bc there hurt
    they cried bc ur choose the fav over them
    they cried to depression
    they cried to Friends
    they cried secretly
    they cried bc u fight with them
    they cried bc u hurt them
    they cried bc of u
    they cried bc u call them a failure
    they cried bc u grounded them for no reason
    they cried bc u care abt urself and there siblings instead of them
    they cried bc u don care abt them
    they cried bc strong emotions
    they cried bc of friends
    they cried bc of anxiety
    they cry bc u Don believe in them

    • @Zhuine_dontmindme
      @Zhuine_dontmindme 5 месяцев назад +1

      Wow I wanna send this to my parents but I know they'll hit me

  • @dark_aestheticlife5205
    @dark_aestheticlife5205 2 дня назад

    I can't forget that one line, sorry mom
    I love you still but your that one line is becoming true and im not happy.

  • @alexqtaf5313
    @alexqtaf5313 17 дней назад

    When these happen, my mind just goes "they are hurting too, just understand them."

  • @kimkpopstan789
    @kimkpopstan789 Год назад +4

    This why child don't respect their parents 😢 never blame child blame parents if kid bad then it's cause parents
    But it's not mean that all parents like that ☺️

  • @editorjen8909
    @editorjen8909 2 года назад +15

    l love you editor 💖👍

  • @wingsofatlantis
    @wingsofatlantis 4 месяца назад +1

    I’ve got a Korean mother. No idea if they’re just hardwired to compare and overestimate, but I feel this.

  • @Black_Queens.4
    @Black_Queens.4 8 месяцев назад +1

    Saddest thing You're parents love you they give you both money and time 😊❤ but they don't understand your feelings, they just keep you comparing with others
    they don't know what happens with you 😭😭😭😭

  • @shwenczyb009
    @shwenczyb009 Год назад +3

    And yet , I'm my culture NO MATTER WHAT, respect parents
    It's a blessing of God
    I was told even no matter what they do

  • @MangoSalt
    @MangoSalt 8 месяцев назад +3

    Parents are supposed to help you in life, not make it harder
    -A wise person once said

  • @dharmmalhotra523
    @dharmmalhotra523 5 месяцев назад +3

    Iam an introvert and my parents don't understand or never tried to understand what is my personality type they just say that i am so sensitive and so weak mentally, they simply say i am behaving like Mentally (pagal) in their language,
    you are absolutely right
    exactly what i wanted/ expected from my parents they fight against each other everyday in front of me and if i try to protect my mother he shouts at me 😢

    • @user-pr3ww4bs1x
      @user-pr3ww4bs1x 3 месяца назад

      I can relate to that . My parents and relatives think that my introversion is a problem to be fixed and when I try to explain, they just call me crazy and never listen to me. 🙂

    • @AyeshaShahid-hd3ju
      @AyeshaShahid-hd3ju 22 дня назад

      Ikr. I don't have any friends at school and they keep pushing me like "oh it's not too hard just talk"
      They don't even know how hard it is for me.
      (By any chance are u Punjabi
      Bcuz u said "pagal"? )

  • @user-dr5ui5ze1m
    @user-dr5ui5ze1m Месяц назад

    At least she told her mom..her feeling .. What if you have so many things to complain that your mind goes blank and you forget everything, don't say anything and just stand still...?.

  • @Roopa.09
    @Roopa.09 Год назад +5

    My parents compare me with my elder sissy..
    I wish that they can see how much efforts i'm putting everyday to make them happy🙂
    I hate u so damn much mom and dad..pls leave me..pls go away..💔

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Год назад +2

      I was the same situation with you. I was the younger one being compared to the older one...

    • @Roopa.09
      @Roopa.09 Год назад +2

      @@missstranger7697 same buddy...i'm also the youngest one.
      But now everything is good...don't wrry nothing is permanent so just be happy and don't let there words to hit u.❤
      Just love yourself and be you🌸🥀

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Год назад +2

      @@Roopa.09 Same for you😊😇