ASMR Voice: Comfort for dealing with body image issues [M4A] [Boyfriend] [Body anxiety]

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  • Опубликовано: 8 окт 2024
  • You're beautiful to me and you always have been... now, how do I go about showing you that?
    [I apologize for the sound quality on this one; the traffic's really bad. I'll be converting my closet into a studio once I save up enough, so hopefully this won't always be a problem!]
    ~~~
    Written by Ebba (Principesa here on RUclips), who also wrote "Comfort for an anxiety/panic attack" and "Comfort for a suicidal significant other"
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  • @cuntbabyandstomachpain1524
    @cuntbabyandstomachpain1524 7 лет назад +2951

    "Your eyes are all red? have you been-"
    Me, an idiot, : SMOKIN DAT KUSH BOIII LMAOOOOO

    • @izdihar17
      @izdihar17 6 лет назад +102

      New favourite person ^

    • @klopia1
      @klopia1 6 лет назад +55

      420 biTC H

    • @hannahklunk5998
      @hannahklunk5998 5 лет назад +103

      Hey dad look, its the good kush
      *tHiS Is ThE DoLLaR sToRe HoW gOoD cOuLd iT bE?*

    • @mychaelacameron2123
      @mychaelacameron2123 5 лет назад +18

      you're now on my list of favorite people

    • @libbylyman9833
      @libbylyman9833 5 лет назад +2

      Cunt Baby and Stomach Pain I’m not the only one who yelled it lmaooooooo

  • @madtophatter1020
    @madtophatter1020 8 лет назад +2742

    my boyfriend just insulted my weight and complimented another girl and now I feel super insecure and unloved, I really needed this right now.

    • @cloroxbleach3838
      @cloroxbleach3838 8 лет назад +689

      Dump him. Who fucking does that to their gf -.-

    • @lillylala1017
      @lillylala1017 8 лет назад +593

      I REALLY hope you dumped that jerk

    • @madtophatter1020
      @madtophatter1020 8 лет назад +318

      I haven't, but it's hard, I've been with him for 12 years and that's a long time to throw away, he's only recently been weird but it just seems that he's more interested in others than he is in me, it's complicated :S

    • @shan-um6ud
      @shan-um6ud 8 лет назад +274

      +mad tophatter it's a long time to be with someone, but if he's acting like that you deserve so much better.

    • @madtophatter1020
      @madtophatter1020 8 лет назад +151

      +Billie Anne but he's my first ever boyfriend, I have social anxiety and I don't think I'll find anyone better

  • @rhiannon909
    @rhiannon909 7 лет назад +1481

    it is midnight
    I'm hugging a body pillow
    yes I'm lonely

  • @lizzymartinez2078
    @lizzymartinez2078 6 лет назад +3266

    Me: I'm fat and ugly
    Cardlin: How long have you thought that?
    Me: My entire life

  • @finley5065
    @finley5065 7 лет назад +454

    "calm down,sweetie oh god your quivering!"
    i just pre ordered my tombstone

  • @itsmaria2426
    @itsmaria2426 8 лет назад +2005

    who's crying im not crying

  • @lilyh826
    @lilyh826 7 лет назад +564

    When you realize that nobody talks to you like this 😭😂

  • @katienothing7265
    @katienothing7265 8 лет назад +267

    "Would you mind looking at me, cutie?". I melted.

    • @lilianalozano8147
      @lilianalozano8147 5 лет назад +1

      Katie Nothing gurl same

    • @rosehill664
      @rosehill664 4 года назад

      Katie Nothing Me, low self esteem cause I look too young and cute, cries harder 😂😭

  • @mintcandy8700
    @mintcandy8700 8 лет назад +1885

    Do boyfriend like that even exist?

    • @reallyrosedraws3372
      @reallyrosedraws3372 8 лет назад +84

      Mint Candy yes you just need to find them, but sadly that's all I can say!!

    • @tywilkins2584
      @tywilkins2584 7 лет назад +163

      Yes we do, but we are typically ugly on the exterior, therefore most women walk right by without batting a eye, go right for the guy with a six pack, get beaten and abused, physically and mentally and then wonder what they ever did to deserve this. Take this from a guy who has watched this literally happen to pretty much every girl he knows.

    • @reallyrosedraws3372
      @reallyrosedraws3372 7 лет назад +46

      Ty Wilkins it's okay I wouldn't do that I'd get to know him first before all so I think I'll take your word for it bro

    • @galaxydemonchild
      @galaxydemonchild 7 лет назад +49

      this is the reason why i talk with them while not looking at them and making eye contact or talk to them online because even when i see them i dont care what they look like i just care about what they say and how they act and just their full on personality so yeah

    • @ashlynnvega8376
      @ashlynnvega8376 7 лет назад +12

      |-/

  • @kyleemalone4639
    @kyleemalone4639 8 лет назад +987

    I have listened to every single one of your videos. And I think it's safe to say that I've fallen in love with a man I don't even know a single thing about.

  • @annmartinez3844
    @annmartinez3844 7 лет назад +631

    I'm so lonely and insecure that I've reached the point that I feel like no one will ever talk to me the way this guy talks in his videos. I love watching his videos they comfort me somehow but in the end, I feel sad again because I realize I'm still alone.

  • @zach_iiii
    @zach_iiii 8 лет назад +546

    "if you looked at yourself the way I see you everyday these tears wouldn't be tears of sadness" *little things start to play in my brain and now i'm crying in the tube* xD

  • @lailas4843
    @lailas4843 6 лет назад +346

    Single as a Pringle *starts laghing laghing slowly turns into crying

  • @quackjester9756
    @quackjester9756 8 лет назад +874

    I act along with this and when he said lets see your beautiful face i made a double chin and crossed my eyes XD

  • @annabellegreen8546
    @annabellegreen8546 7 лет назад +893

    and i got a weight watchers ad before this... Damn

    • @morana-exe2477
      @morana-exe2477 7 лет назад +24

      Annabelle Green same, I'm over like...*F U PHONE*

    • @CountryGirl-cy5hy
      @CountryGirl-cy5hy 6 лет назад +19

      Annabelle Green well to be honest I am 145 pounds and I wish I was smaller but it is hard to loose weight when my family don’t believe in me

    • @sweetleafy9446
      @sweetleafy9446 6 лет назад

      Omg that happens all the time

    • @mychaelacameron2123
      @mychaelacameron2123 5 лет назад +4

      wow...thats...unfortunate

    • @mychaelacameron2123
      @mychaelacameron2123 5 лет назад +4

      @@CountryGirl-cy5hy well, depending on your age, thats pretty good! you could try walking or just drinking more water is really good for weight and stuff. it is hard when people dont believe in you, but you can believe in yourself, and your friends will believe in yourself, I do at least!
      I wish you enough

  • @sol2193
    @sol2193 5 лет назад +198

    Pillow? Drenched.
    Eyes? Red.
    Standards? Raised.
    Hotel? Trivago.

  • @lilstick5225
    @lilstick5225 8 лет назад +331

    When you actually start crying...

  • @BlackDollNerd777
    @BlackDollNerd777 8 лет назад +1058

    gosh I can't help but cry listing to this,not because this is bad or anything. I really don't really believe in these types of super hopeless romantic-y things.
    but its nice to dream.

    • @danielledantzer0990
      @danielledantzer0990 6 лет назад +24

      BlackDoll NerdPrd I know this is old but same here

    • @upionstallion
      @upionstallion 6 лет назад +19

      It's just a dream...this is what most would want.......but nobody's loving or caring anymore.....so what's the point?...

    • @shadwdemn2012
      @shadwdemn2012 6 лет назад +4

      Stiched up heart
      .......yeah...

    • @elenaheartstring2276
      @elenaheartstring2276 6 лет назад +9

      BlackDoll NerdPrd: I feel ya dude. Us fanpeople are mostly hopeless love romantics.

    • @waitisthisally
      @waitisthisally 6 лет назад +4

      You have to wait. You have to wait for that person and you have to try to find them.

  • @mhudzie
    @mhudzie 6 лет назад +276

    "I'm disgusting, I'm fat and no-one will ever love me"
    Now: "I'm strong,I'm better and I'm proud to be me 💖

  • @Hhshmrii
    @Hhshmrii 8 лет назад +435

    I CAN'T I NEED SOMEONE TO CALL ME PUMPKIN 😩

    • @Rainitdid
      @Rainitdid 5 лет назад +6

      Haya Alshimmari k pumpkin

    • @elliedefranca318
      @elliedefranca318 5 лет назад +9

      Haya Alshimmari i'm 3 years late but hello pumpkin 🌱

    • @abby_hager
      @abby_hager 5 лет назад +5

      My grandma calls me pumpkin 😂
      Besides that.
      Hello Pumpkin! How has your day been, beautiful?

    • @Rainitdid
      @Rainitdid 5 лет назад +2

      OOfAnimations07 smooth talker Lol 😂

    • @discwar7379
      @discwar7379 5 лет назад +2

      Pumpkin

  • @linkygirl8381
    @linkygirl8381 8 лет назад +440

    This the kind of man I want! Your woman is so lucky to found a man such as yourself, Cardy. She beat us all to the punch...😵😵😵😧😧😧

  • @hanahakiheart3086
    @hanahakiheart3086 7 лет назад +141

    If I had a boyfriend who is like this to me when I'm crying, I would cry even more like...WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?? COMING TO ME AND BEING A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!! *cries*

  • @ellenxoxo4446
    @ellenxoxo4446 6 лет назад +95

    Normally when I listen to these audios I imagine myself as a different person, like you do, hence the word roleplay. But when I listened to this, I felt like myself. I actually imagined myself in this situation. What I’m trying to say is that I found this video so relatable. It hit close to home. Thank you for that. Your other videos are also amazing, I love going to bed and having you ‘cuddle’ me. And when I’m stressed out having you tell me your here for me is so relaxing. Although now my boyfriend expectations are pretty high! But once again, thank you. I don’t even know if you’ll see this, I’m sure you won’t. But if you do, please know that what your doing is so helpful. It’s so comforting. If there’s a small chance your reading this please never stop doing this. Thanks so much.

  • @BambinaBelleblog
    @BambinaBelleblog 8 лет назад +352

    I suffer a lot with this, because I was bullyed during a big part of my childhood and in high school. And you said everything that I wanted to hear, during those days even when I was in the stage that it was just to hard to believe in anyone, even in my family... I'll defeat this, so thank you for making this video... It means a lot. :)

    • @roxieann6951
      @roxieann6951 6 лет назад +11

      Isabelle Barros I can relate because the only people giving me rude comments on my weight is my family. Its almost always my mom that tells me to stop eating,go workout,and even one time she told me to kill myself.

    • @gamingtheory7209
      @gamingtheory7209 6 лет назад +5

      I know how you guys feel. My mother told me that she never wanted me and that she was embarrassed to leave the house with me because of my weight. I blame myself for being born every single day. My ugly ness is a burden to everyone I love. I just wish, someone would tell me they love me and that I mean something. 😢😢

    • @kithand1106
      @kithand1106 6 лет назад +4

      I watched some of your videos and I just wanted to let you know. You’re beautiful and if anyone tries to tell you otherwise. Just remember, you. Are. Beautiful.

    • @mychaelacameron2123
      @mychaelacameron2123 5 лет назад +2

      I relate a lot. long story short, my intermediate family was an asshole for so many reasons ( my exdended was great tho, they're the ones who payed for my therapy. they greatness). so due to that, I developed ALOT of issues mentally. videos like this dont resolve it, but it makes the darkness a little brighter

    • @sm0llqueen289
      @sm0llqueen289 4 года назад +1

      I was bullied for my looks from 2nd to 5th grade and I believe them and its honestly hard for me to think that stuff and I was suffering from severe depression and almost committed suicide 3 times I honestly wish I can go back and just try to stop the bullying and probably I'll feel differently about myself idk

  • @jodiesundborg3961
    @jodiesundborg3961 7 лет назад +356

    Damn you onions

    • @pulchrasum6172
      @pulchrasum6172 6 лет назад +7

      this is a channel name pepper

    • @blueshxdows3879
      @blueshxdows3879 4 года назад +5

      I know 😥 someone get them outta here

    • @ashleyrivera5917
      @ashleyrivera5917 3 года назад

      SQUIDWARD CRIES, THEN HE NOTICED THE BOWL OF ONIONS IN FRONT OF HIM AND SAID " WOULD YOU GET OUT OF HERE!"

  • @Jasmine-zn1nh
    @Jasmine-zn1nh 8 лет назад +269

    Thank you for being "body-type"-neutral. Most body image issue speeches focus on the heavier side of the scale... Not realizing the skinny-shaming happening as a by-product. So, thank you :)

    • @vicjones3670
      @vicjones3670 5 лет назад +13

      Yes! Body anxiety manifested out of my normal amxoety disorder and i cant even move my arm without thinking about how ugly i think i am because im skinny and flat and not thick. I cant gain weight and every week i gi from 97 to 102 but,,, yeah everythings about heavier people which is great it just makes me feel so alienated

    • @gothgirl4912
      @gothgirl4912 5 лет назад +8

      that one weirdo who needs to stahp same here i’m skinny and hate myself for it, i want to be thick and curvy and i can’t even wear anything that isn’t baggy cause i hate my body so much

    • @gothgirl4912
      @gothgirl4912 5 лет назад +1

      that one weirdo who needs to stahp same here i’m skinny and hate myself for it, i want to be thick and curvy and i can’t even wear anything that isn’t baggy cause i hate my body so much

    • @arsonthepan4802
      @arsonthepan4802 4 года назад +6

      I hate my body because of how underweight I am, and I constantly get compliments, and I feel even worse. No one wants this

  • @amiahh6157
    @amiahh6157 7 лет назад +172

    The fact that I'm crying because of my own body shaming and whenever someone tells me I shouldn't feel the way that I feel makes me even sadder and mad at myself because I almost feel as if I have to hid my feelings to myself so others are not brought down by my own shame. So when I listen to this, yes, it does give me a sense of warmth I guess, but the fact that I am listening to someone who I wish was actually in my life helping me through this process and I have to use my imagination to help me kinda saddens me bc I'm living that LONER life lol. But it is what it is and I'll get over it...probably...maybe lmao

    • @amiahh6157
      @amiahh6157 7 лет назад +3

      thank God nobody's gonna see this anyway...probably...maybe

    • @pbcj3635
      @pbcj3635 6 лет назад

      I saw this!

    • @somewhatartistic7966
      @somewhatartistic7966 5 лет назад

      I know how you feel

    • @derpycat02
      @derpycat02 4 года назад +5

      That awko-taco moment when you don't wanna bother people in your life with your problems because they make you feel pathetic so you go online to listen to strangers give you affirmation but then you realize your situation and low key feel even more pathetic...
      Help

  • @flop9265
    @flop9265 7 лет назад +75

    "And I love these lips."
    *bites them and screams internally imagining him kissing me*

  • @fivenineblurry
    @fivenineblurry 8 лет назад +292

    You're so sweet and your voice is somewhat enough to calm me down, but you're doing an amazing job :')

  • @kadetori6249
    @kadetori6249 8 лет назад +63

    Goosebumps! The "I love your curves" really got to me. I always take your videos personally, and I'm genderfluid -- I can't stand my hips sometimes, so this compliment reminded me that I'm beautiful with the body I have, and just because I have curves doesn't mean I am any less masculine or any more feminine. I loved the end, as well; your brighter endings lighten up my day(:

    • @idilist
      @idilist 6 лет назад +10

      kade sparks Right, I'm genderfluid too and the lord had to bless me with curves so I'm constantly wearing baggy clothes (Unless I'm female that day. Then I wear slightly less baggy clothes. I like baggy clothes, ok?)

  • @gracepeterson1556
    @gracepeterson1556 7 лет назад +35

    *cries because this is literally too cute and sweet for me to handle*

  • @1DNoticeMOi
    @1DNoticeMOi 8 лет назад +79

    I really needed this today.
    I have been feeling super ugly lately so thank you so much.

  • @waitjessaminute
    @waitjessaminute 4 года назад +24

    Damn, my hair trigger heart. The top 3 ideals imbedded in these messages that make it so appealing: patience, understanding, and safety. Three simple ideals that the majority of women, and men, never fully experience in life, love, or relationships. Women aren't mysterious creatures. We just want this.
    Side note: SUBSCRIBED

  • @tylerarke6568
    @tylerarke6568 7 лет назад +19

    I cried during this video. Cardlin, you probably won't see this. I have some major body issues, I've been called fat since pre-k. This video made me a bit more confident about my hips and waist. I do know I am a little pudgy, but that doesn't mean I'm ugly. Thank you Cardlin for helping me realize that.

  • @emmaa1579
    @emmaa1579 8 лет назад +27

    Listening to this and just sobbing at 3am after no sleep due to feeling self-concious, this is truly beautiful! I hope one day someone shows me as much love as I'm receiving from this video, thank you so much 😘💘

  • @racheld2913
    @racheld2913 8 лет назад +83

    Wow Cardlin, look at all your fans kind words. I hope you know how much your channel helps them. It's a comforting thought to look down at my phone at the end of the day and see your name in my notifications.
    Bless your heart and soul.
    Good night, dearest Cardlin
    Rachel
    x o x o x

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 лет назад +20

      +Ellie Phantom It's been such a crazy, humbling, amazing and inspiring trip, Rachel. =] I'm glad for all of it.

  • @TheJackbilly
    @TheJackbilly 6 лет назад +13

    “....you’re perfection in my eyes.”
    WELP THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOUR EYES MAN
    Everyone else is crying while listening but for some reason this doesn’t make me cry. IM NOT TRYING TO SAY THAT ITS BAD BECAUSE ITS NOT BAD ITS GREAT but I guess I’m so used to body shaming myself that I don’t really think much of it anymore

  • @danielledantzer0990
    @danielledantzer0990 7 лет назад +24

    may i also express my appreciation that this fits any body type? my friend feels bad cuz she's a big girl and i think she's beautiful and I'm thin and feel bad and she thinks I'm beautiful..........it goes both ways

  • @kazunechan
    @kazunechan 8 лет назад +64

    Its amazing! You and Ebba make a great team! 😊

  • @LiliannaVess
    @LiliannaVess 8 лет назад +111

    I definitely needed this today

    • @aracelionline
      @aracelionline 8 лет назад +2

      Same

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 лет назад +6

      +Lilianna Monroy (Lili) Happy to help, Lils!

    • @jordyy_xo39
      @jordyy_xo39 8 лет назад +6

      +CardlinAudio thanks for this.... I may be only 13. . but I'm VERY insecure. I feel like I need to be super skinny.... to be pretty. My family tells me that I'm not fat. ... I guess I'm not super fat, but I feel like I am. .... I feel like I am still pretty fat.... My boyfriend never really tells me anything. .... he knows that I'm insecure and he tries to make me feel better... it sort of does, but not fully. now, it feels like he's changed.... I

    • @jordyy_xo39
      @jordyy_xo39 8 лет назад

      +Phan's_Penguin_Is_ Real I feel that he's not the same... and wants more from me ....

    • @medusa4062
      @medusa4062 8 лет назад +1

      I need it every day xD

  • @dude3707
    @dude3707 6 лет назад +21

    Reminds me of my boyfriend, he’s so sweet!
    We have been together for a couple years now and he treats me wonderfully and supports me 100%.
    What did I do to deserve a sweet guy?

    • @RN_STRM
      @RN_STRM 6 лет назад +3

      Congrats for being with such a good man. You barely find any guys who are nice to their girl.

    • @overgrownminds4603
      @overgrownminds4603 3 года назад +2

      Im so glad you found someone that amazing, I don’t think that I’ll ever find an actually caring/non toxic boyfriend.

  • @emilyjade1052
    @emilyjade1052 7 лет назад +37

    This made me feel a little bit better. I'll be sure to play this every morning. You got yourself a new subscriber, I'm obsessed

  • @toastedbagelbites
    @toastedbagelbites 5 лет назад +17

    Cardlin:what's wrong
    Me: I don't have enough money for chicken nuggets

  • @jiminsdoublechin1065
    @jiminsdoublechin1065 6 лет назад +61

    "If it's something that bothers you so much, I wanna know what's going on"
    Me: well you see I'm on my third pack of ramen in the past hour
    "Hmm... Go on..."
    Me: And I feel a little guilty for listening to this bc I have a boyfriend already but he lives overseas and the time difference screws everything up.
    "What? What do you mean?"

  • @Pancakehx3
    @Pancakehx3 8 лет назад +52

    This really provokes me to cry.

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 лет назад +4

      Yeah. It was a tough script to finish. Actually, "the emotional part" was when I broke down as I went on writing it. Still it was good to get it out there. Hope you may feel just a tiny bit better ^_^ Someone out there thinks this about or will one day. You just wait and see ^_^

    • @Pancakehx3
      @Pancakehx3 8 лет назад +3

      Yes, I do, this script is brilliant. His voice just makes it so much better and I have a boyfriend, hehe. I just wanted him to say cute stuff like this to me but didn't wanna bother him. It makes me feel so comfortable and much better.

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 лет назад +3

      I am so happy to hear that. He is lucky to have you ^_^ Also I am glad you think it is brilliant. It really warms my heart. You deserve to feel the best, we all do ^_^

  • @moonchild0344
    @moonchild0344 7 лет назад +16

    This really helped me, like it seriously helped. Thank you so much Cardin. I cried while listening to this, it was that good.

  • @kaitlynnichole476
    @kaitlynnichole476 8 лет назад +28

    Really needed this and since I remain single you will do fine. This was comforting.

  • @bloodgushers6861
    @bloodgushers6861 7 лет назад +14

    whoa the only person to say these things to me in forever.thank you.

  • @wondercoffee3058
    @wondercoffee3058 8 лет назад +53

    It love this gender neutral ones. So inclusive.

  • @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10
    @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10 8 лет назад +124

    I have another great idea for a script I've written myself. It's a comfort for before surgery and recovery at the hospital. You and the viewer are in the operating theatre watching the surgeons prepare to put the viewer to sleep. She starts to feel scared and wants to leave but you reassure her that the doctors know what they are doing and will make her feel better. At this point..the surgeon applies the anesthetic to help her relax. You help her relax by helping her breath and assure that you will be there when she wakes up!! At this point the viewer falls asleep!! Later...the viewer starts to wake up and she finds you on the bedside caressing her face. You tell her the surgery went well and that you and her will be able to leave the hospital soon 😊 I hope you like it +cardlinaudio it would help someone feel comfortable if they have to have surgery for the first time :)
    P.s I love this audio..well done to you and ebba for writing this :) it's great..your voice is soothing :)

    • @Moon-ep2bb
      @Moon-ep2bb 8 лет назад +4

      Oh yes! I definitely know that comfort in the hospital is very helpful

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 лет назад +2

      You know what? That would be awesome! I am evaluated to maybe get a surgery soon. Also, thank you ^_^ Oh how frickin thrilled I get by all kind words

    • @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10
      @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10 8 лет назад

      Principessa after watching these audios and thinking of other ideas he could do, the surgery audio just popped into my head and I wrote how the audio should be done :) I thought it would help someone going through surgery for the first time!! I like to have someone thank me for coming up with this audio for Cardlin :)

    • @gizmogurlie41786
      @gizmogurlie41786 8 лет назад

      that sounds so awesome!

    • @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10
      @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10 8 лет назад

      I hope so too ***** :)

  • @DeadorAliveLover19
    @DeadorAliveLover19 8 лет назад +68

    Such a beautiful piece. I do have an idea for you. I am thinking comforting due to emotional/verbal abuse from past experience. I know it sounds dark but see...i think this may be something i am going through...or it could just be in my head...but sometimes if you are told something enough you tend to believe it. And also...i dont really have anyone to comfort me when i am in a state where I don't believe anything positive about myself. Maybe the piece could start with a...disagreement if you will and at some point you say something that triggers the last abuse and make it sound like you storm out. Later on you come back to look for your partner...you cant find them so you look around the home until you reach say the bedroom and you find your partner lying on the bed facing away from you, looking straight at the wall with tears falling...just blankly staring at the wall but there is clear pain in your partners eyes because of the trigger...and then the comfort can begin. I hope that wasnt too dark but as i am currently feeling that state right now, i just thought I'd share. Keep up the good work Cardlin. You truly are amazing

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 лет назад +12

    • @DeadorAliveLover19
      @DeadorAliveLover19 8 лет назад +5

      +CardlinAudio Hmmm that tends to cover more physical assault but...hmm *soft smile* im sorry...i shouldnt make demands like i did...i guess i just needed...help you know...a way to reach out. The message is still there...i am feeling a little better...i guess thats something...thank you Cardlin...i was able to sleep even for a little thanks to you

    • @lavenderrosecosplay5639
      @lavenderrosecosplay5639 6 лет назад +2

      NightBlossom oh, Honey, I'm sorry! I grew up in an emotionally/verbally abusive environment. Even after moving to a safer place almost 10 years ago, I still have so many habits/insecurities that still affect my daily life. It's only recently, through personal growth, and artists like Cardlin/Madam Wigglesworth, that I'm starting to believe a romantic partner will someday know all my baggage, and love me anyway. I don't know your circumstances, but I'm sure that you are not broken, sweetie, and you are worthy of beautiful things in your life.

  • @kimmatthews4041
    @kimmatthews4041 7 лет назад +31

    person : if it bothers you so much I want to know
    Me:I'm gay
    :what all these years....

  • @kerryatkinson3492
    @kerryatkinson3492 8 лет назад +42

    Crying while listening to this

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 лет назад +6

      Oh, I hope they are not the worst kind of tears, and I hope this made an impact. What you might think of as imperfect another person may find beautiful, never forget that. Let yourself be loved by ^you^ from time to time, and if you aren't capable then find someone who will. And don't you worry, you only have too look and you'll find it. Have a wonderful day Sweetie!

  • @bryannasay-zel9458
    @bryannasay-zel9458 8 лет назад +6

    When he said that I could cry, I let everything out. Thank you so much for this video

  • @MotherLettuce
    @MotherLettuce 8 лет назад +18

    AAAHHH MY FEELINGS I CAN'T HANDLE THIS THIS IS TOO SWEET
    I love this so much, Christ. Your voice is so soothing and amazing and this video is wonderful, as always. I hope you're having a lovely day, dear because you sure made mine lovelier. 💕

  • @amandacarman8324
    @amandacarman8324 7 лет назад +17

    Thank you cardlin I needed to hear this tonight. I look at myself in the mirror and hate myself. This was much needed thanks again

  • @onemoretime3249
    @onemoretime3249 8 лет назад +23

    Dear god you murdered me brutally! The soothe factor is off the FRICKIN' charts!
    Ignore me. I'm slightly weird

  • @nyapapaya4925
    @nyapapaya4925 4 года назад +3

    I find it sad that I don’t have anyone in my life to tell me this stuff I find it sad that I always have to turn to asmr to make myself feel better about myself. But, I find it good that I do have someone, something that makes me feel better. So Cardlin, I thank you very much for making these videos

  • @persephoneb3884
    @persephoneb3884 3 года назад +4

    When audios are the only thing that make you feel special

  • @mariacristiana7780
    @mariacristiana7780 7 лет назад +105

    *i'm in love with the shape of you* =))

  • @caley522
    @caley522 4 года назад +5

    "your eyes are all red, have you been?" NO I SMOKED WEED ;-;

  • @gdove5968
    @gdove5968 7 лет назад +7

    I wish somebody loved me like this. You are incredible Cardybear.

  • @Allaroundtheworld99
    @Allaroundtheworld99 8 лет назад +10

    THIS REALLY HELPED ME BC I HAVE SO MUCH INSECURITY OMG THANK YOU ILYSM

  • @lindslu
    @lindslu 3 года назад +2

    “you still are an absolute dream” oh my god 🥺

  • @laynee1728
    @laynee1728 7 лет назад +119

    Cardlin: "Would you mind looking at me cutie?"
    Me: *Crosses eyes and makes a doublechin*

    • @cloudsnail_9529
      @cloudsnail_9529 5 лет назад +1

      Sara Chlopecki *pFFT*

    • @trinityw3169
      @trinityw3169 4 года назад +4

      You have to *make* a double chin?!
      Sounds like heaven.

    • @katakurischocolatedonut
      @katakurischocolatedonut 4 года назад

      @Faithful Angel_97 Both of y'all 😭🤣 I can't hdjdhev and same

  • @mags7542
    @mags7542 6 лет назад +3

    Wow. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve felt awful about myself and just started crying. I’ve never been super attractive, not very fit, and I’ve always felt self conscious about my appearance. I’ve never gotten made fun of it by anyone except myself. Sure there are a few compliments every now and then but it usually feels forced to me. This actually made me cry bc I’ve never had this stuff said to me. Ever. Even though this is old, I’m in love with this audio. Thanks so much ❤️

    • @RN_STRM
      @RN_STRM 6 лет назад +1

      I'm pretty sure you're the most beautiful being ever. Well..at least, prettier then I am. But still, I'm sure that you're a good individual.

    • @mags7542
      @mags7542 6 лет назад +2

      Dark Choco that really means a lot ❤️

    • @RN_STRM
      @RN_STRM 6 лет назад

      No problem. Anytime ^-^

  • @crose2496
    @crose2496 8 лет назад +12

    This is amazing, and is great after a judgemental day at school, or anywhere else... Thank you for making this. ^•^
    And Kazunechan is right, you and Ebba are a great team.

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 лет назад +3

      Woop! Happy you liked them! It makes me so excited. I try what I can ^_- Hope it dosen't bleed through in the audios that English isn't my mothertounge though O.O

    • @crose2496
      @crose2496 8 лет назад +1

      Principessa Haha, don't worry. If it does, it's not very noticeable. 😜

  • @pafista
    @pafista 7 лет назад +7

    Lately I've been feeling so upset due to my weight and my body. All of the weight I gain goes below my waist and it makes so sad. With this audio, with every compliment I hear, I just say "bullshit", "you're lieing", "you're just saying that to make me feel better". I've been lied to so many times, that I can't even believe anything that people say to me anymore.. It honestly sucks.

    • @katiebobat8e
      @katiebobat8e 7 лет назад +1

      Pafista I know what you mean. I feel the same way

  • @kashifsalahuddin7780
    @kashifsalahuddin7780 4 года назад +6

    Me : crying because I am fat
    Him: pumpkin are you all right.
    Me : *cries even harder* are you calling me Fat!!

  • @joannagonzalez-clawson8243
    @joannagonzalez-clawson8243 4 года назад +2

    I liked how I started crying and talking about my insecurities but now I kinda fill better

  • @saranelson9250
    @saranelson9250 4 года назад +3

    I’ve gained eight pounds since quarantine and I’m trying to work out and I’m just crying cause the girl in the video was so better

  • @GT-uz9wm
    @GT-uz9wm 4 года назад +1

    i just cried for 2 hours straight about my body and i can’t even look in the mirror without sobbing again.
    this was very much needed, and i will frequently visit this video. 😌

  • @danielledantzer0990
    @danielledantzer0990 7 лет назад +29

    what about loss of a pet or family member? idk if you've done that one yet but you are absolutely amazing. New Subscriber here

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  7 лет назад +15

      Great idea. ^_^ Thanks for subscribing, btw!

  • @togabbie3395
    @togabbie3395 5 лет назад +1

    This brought me to tears. It brought me to tears because I wish I had someone to tell me these things, not some man with an angelic voice talking through a screen...

  • @cicelialake3388
    @cicelialake3388 5 лет назад +4

    0:30 him: what’s going on
    Me: in here BREAKFAST

  • @mieshadaniels9525
    @mieshadaniels9525 5 лет назад +1

    I’m really glad I found these because I just gives me more hope that there are people in this word as kind and as understanding as you but it also makes feel lonely 😞❤️

  • @renee3214
    @renee3214 4 года назад +3

    this literally made me cry

  • @kaitlyndtrainor8151
    @kaitlyndtrainor8151 4 года назад +1

    I just relapsed back into my eating disorder and this popped up. I don't think I've really cried like this in a minute. You reminded me of my first love. He always compliments the arches of my lips he definition of my thighs the way my hair falls crazy. Made me feel loved. Like I could actually be beautiful.

  • @rainakookie2
    @rainakookie2 7 лет назад +21

    where can I find a man like this seriously, I need him.

  • @malikai_wtf1907
    @malikai_wtf1907 3 года назад +2

    I remember I was listening to one of his videos then I bursted into tears cuz that day my gf/bf had broke up with me and cardlin reminded me of them.

  • @drarryfan5057
    @drarryfan5057 3 года назад +7

    Just two words:
    Thank you
    Thank you for reading this.

  • @xbubble_teax
    @xbubble_teax 6 лет назад

    This is literally such s comfort to hear this. I've struggled with parental abandonment issues my entire life and whenever I look in the mirror, all I see is them. Which doesn't help when people compare me to them. It's hard but this is helping me so much. Thank you 💙

  • @liv.c9554
    @liv.c9554 4 года назад +4

    I was sweating out my eyes then he said he’d pick us up and then I was sobbing cuz like tbh I probably couldn’t be picked up

  • @Graypoppy
    @Graypoppy 8 лет назад +2

    Bless you, Cardy. You're little messages and voice actings have saved me many a time. Thank you so much for doing these things, and I hope you continue. I really needed this, especially with my own disgruntled feelings towards my own image... Thank you

  • @thalberg3079
    @thalberg3079 7 лет назад +44

    Could you do something with anorexia? It’s something that I’ve been struggling with for years and it be awesome if you could help. If not understand, thanks:)

  • @catonphyre
    @catonphyre 6 лет назад

    I really feel loved with these audios. They comfort me a lot and help me through hard times. Hearing "it's okay to cry" and similar stuff just seems to make me want to break down as I've mostly been punished or looked down upon for showing any negative emotion. You make me feel like it's okay to feel sad every once in a while. Thank you for creating these audios. 💕

  • @alyssaparsons8364
    @alyssaparsons8364 8 лет назад +3

    this actually made me cry....

  • @aryiabanihashem-ahmad9167
    @aryiabanihashem-ahmad9167 6 лет назад +3

    When he says “if it’s something that bothers you so much then I wanna know.” *CRIES* “I CAN’T FIND THE COOKIES!”

  • @riversworld96
    @riversworld96 5 лет назад +9

    Cardlin: let me see your beautiful face
    Me: um sorry kinda left mine at home.. I only have the ugly one with me...

  • @nekotakumeow624
    @nekotakumeow624 5 лет назад +2

    I love how a lot of your videos deal with the listener's emotional issues. My real boyfriend, bless his heart he tries so hard to help me but he has issues of his own and sometimes it's all too much for him. Not that I'm blaming him. I just like to hear something like this once in a while. And I would never cheat so the fact that this isn't real makes it awesome lol

  • @savannahd420
    @savannahd420 8 лет назад +3

    Ebba & Cardlin strike gold again! :D This was so unbelievably awesome. I don't struggle with this too much, but I know where to turn if I'm having a moment of weakness! Thank you, again. ♡

  • @alexisgordon1039
    @alexisgordon1039 4 года назад

    Cardlin, thank you for making this. I have been dealing with extremely severe body dysmorphia for almost 8 years. I also deal with the need for male appreciation. This truly has been such an aid for reminding me that I am worth love from anyone, especially, and most importantly, myself. I can't say thank you enough. I hope you see this and see how much positivity you provide.

  • @XxSUGACUBExX
    @XxSUGACUBExX 4 года назад +4

    My whole ed: 👁 👄👁 “so am I gonna stay or-“
    Me: “SHHH I can’t hear my boyfriend loving me”

  • @autumngaze_
    @autumngaze_ 6 лет назад +2

    This audio really helped me. Mainly today. I went to the mall with my sister and her friend, and I have been called fat by at least 3 boys and 7 girls. I came home and listened to this audio. It made me feel better. Thank you Cardlin. Really thank you.

  • @brittneybenavidez8580
    @brittneybenavidez8580 4 года назад +4

    Is it bad that I have to listen to this almost every night

  • @equalxox7179
    @equalxox7179 6 лет назад +1

    I suffer from depression and hearing this makes feel a lot better! I would like to thank you!!!

  • @fyadollahi4735
    @fyadollahi4735 5 лет назад +5

    2:53 "I hold you... tight"
    Me: boy I don't think your arms will reach lamooo

  • @gracewalker8508
    @gracewalker8508 5 лет назад

    I actually started crying when listening to this. As someone with major anxiety and body's issues this was so calming to listen to. Tysm for making this same it's amazing!💕

  • @insertoriginalnamehere_1232
    @insertoriginalnamehere_1232 7 лет назад +13

    Cardlin: I looove your curves..
    Me: What curves I'm flat as fuck

    • @beansnatcher4163
      @beansnatcher4163 6 лет назад

      SmileyRiley Covers I got curves in the wrong places

  • @arcatia66
    @arcatia66 8 лет назад +2

    All of this art gives me life