People can disagree and still be polite, I appreciate this about Alexis. I think it’s important to look at the other information available too, it can inform your position. I disagree with some views on this channel but I support people being who they are, whether trans or not. Cis is a Latin prefix and in no way demeans anyone who isn’t trans because it’s like saying blonde or brunette… trans or cis but anyway…
My favorite response: "You're a man." "Well, yeah, of course I am. As a trans woman, if I weren't a man, I'd be a woman." That almost always shuts them up.
It’s kinda funny, out of all the trans women on RUclips seen, I find you to be the most respectful and kinder person with a lot of day to day insight, it’s helped me start my transition journey. And it’s great to have a positive figure!
Straight up...I remember watching Sam when I was a bit younger. He really was one of the few transmen on here that helped a bit in figuring myself out as a transman. But this dude has gotten so sour, I guess you'd only be sour if your worldview were stuck on seeking transphobia instead of seeking acceptance and respect from peers.
I used to like Sam, but when I left the echo chamber, I understood how much of propaganda he has in his videos, that’s crazy. If I wouldn’t check Blaire White’s videos I would probably end up still being in that gender cult, losing all my friends and being an insufferable person.
Both Sam Collins and Blaire White are living in their own echo chambers. Sam spews left-wing propaganda and Blaire spews right-wing propaganda. They're just two sides to the same coin. It's best to stop listening to RUclipsrs for guidance and formulate your own opinions by looking at facts, statistics and studies, without confirmation bias.
He is the literal reason as a gay man that I left the 'community'. NOTHING ABOUT THIS NARRATIVE bares presence with me. It's wild that this is just normal, like what the f***? This is normal?!!! For Gays M/F, trans M2F/F2M. I am absolutely beyond myself. Keep doing what your doing Alexis. Us quietly vodka straw sipping gays in the club are DYING rooting for you.
Sam saying that you’re going against your own community….. while he makes a video that seems to be against you who is part of his community. The math is not mathing I’m afraid.
It’s ironic, the trans community “fighting to be their authentic selves” just to expect everyone in that community to think the same way. Alexis is way more moderate than Blair, but the algorithm does suggests one off the other. Alexis doesn’t disagree with people because they are trans, she disagrees with shitty behavior from people who happen to be trans, and if it’s assumed that everyone in the trans community thinks similarly, she doesn’t want to be represented by that.
Alexis, you are not relegated to the LGBT+ community. I’m a 55 year old married grandma 80’s kid, who is completely straight. You’re part of MY community. You’re part of the youth that tune in to hear you. You’re part of the working class, the regular people just trying to live their lives. You’re part of the freethinking LGBT people who refused to be reigned in by an ideology. You speak your mind and have your own opinion. Exclusive leftists like Sam are going to find out very soon that the community at large is sick and tired of hearing their taunts of “pick me” “bigot” “racist” “transphobe” “TERF”. We don’t care what you call us anymore. You scolded and chastised us out of the party. 👋🏻 And now you lost the election. Bravo! We didn’t even need to support Trump. We just withdrew our support from you. Alexis, you are kind, thoughtful, and well spoken. You try to remain as objective as possible, and we appreciate that. People will see your strength and try to cut you down. Apparently something you said hit a nerve or two. It got you noticed.
I can see how Blaire could be a pick me, how Buck Angel can be a peak me, but you, Alexis?? You are the most honest and objective RUclipsr covering trans topics. No labels, no pushing specific agendas, every time it’s just your honest opinion! Because every side has a weak and wrong point occasionally. Absolutely love your channel for that, it’s a breath of fresh air. ❤
@pixie_dust1985, maybe I didn’t word it correctly (I’m not native), but it wasn’t my intention to call him a pick me, at all. I think he is changing minds for the better. I meant that I can understand where very left people can come from while calling him one, I can get why they would do that with the mindset that they have: because he is getting very certain points across, over and over again and repeats same phrases about him being the normal one. He always mentions how others accept him, that’s like the root of his content. So for them he comes across as a pick me (I’ve had a conversation with a person who very strongly opposes him). I mostly agree with him, his story is phenomenal. What I also meant is that then I don’t get why they would call Alexis a pick me, because her content is just.. different, it’s more flexible in topics that for me personally do not feel repetitive, she really dives into nuances.
Blair white is not a pick me she is an F-U all caps. Blair White gives 0 craps about what anyone may think about her or their opinions of her...she dose not care nor will she for people to like her. But I do agree that Alexis is not a pick me... Most definitely not a pick me.. Alexis. Thanks for herself.Does for herself, regardless of whether people like or dislike her, she's allowed to .. we all are...so I do agree with you on that one....
I'm an older left leaning cis gay man. (who's not offended by "cis") I've lived all of my adult life in New York and San Francisco around and involved in vibrant and diverse LGBTQ+ communities. I still work as a counselor for gay/bi/trans men in a clinic in SF. That said, I am subscribed and seldom miss watching YT videos from you and Liam! I find you both very fair and compassionate in the way you present your thoughts on issues. I don't always agree with your take on certain issues, and that's OK! You are probably the least pickme trans content that I can think of! I do not see you and Blair White in the same light at all. Even reacting to these "mean" comments and people speaking out against you you remain civil and don't stoop to cheap shots or easy insults. I love that, and I also realize that it probably doesn't get the clicks, likes, subscribes that more outlandish responses might. Good for you, and thank you for giving some of us the kind of "adult", "grown up" content we're looking for!
I humbly find you to indeed be one of the most neutral 🏳️⚧️ RUclipsrs. I see you as a positive role model PERIOD! I have also witnessed Blair, Buck & Marcus’s approach cause fear in otherwise central leaning 🏳️🌈 Community members. Yet, I also understand how 🏳️⚧️ creators like Sam can be equally too far on the other end of the spectrum. Please continue to be a bright light with an open heart for us all. 💞
100% agree with you here, glad someone shared this. While I agree with some of Blair, Bucks opinions, the way they are delivered can be very unhelpful at times to say the least. I love how balanced and fair Alexis is. ❤
I have to thank Sam Collins, actually. The moment he said to not watch Blaire White, I did and look where we are today. Turns out quite a few people on his side don't like him much anymore either
You are a very important voice within the social media space. I am a biological woman who accepts trans people but struggle with the misogyny that is coming from certain aspects of the trans community. You talk about topics in a respectful manner and approach them from a personal approach. Please keep being you.
You are way more respectful than i am to these dreadful idiots. What i loath and despise is the tra tras pushing a language change that degrades insults and us reduces us real women to body pieces ie cervix havers, womb carriers , etc etc. And all this coming from people who want to be us and think they have access to our biology as well. Thank goodness you and quite a few others are respectful, sensible and just lovely. Need more of you ! Alexis, you must feel like pulling your hair out with having to respond to these twits. Love to hear your view points on all this insanity. ❤
I used to listen to Sam Collin’s, but he became a SJW- TRA and started repeating talking points and bad mouthing people who disagreed with him instead of actually listening/ debating the issues. I still listen him on occasion to not live in an echo chamber, but he has lost my subscription.
You were too respectful, but I think you being diplomatic in the face of adversity says a great deal about your character, and that completely defies all that was said against you in his comments. Unfortunately, the people in Sam’s comments are part of a much larger problem whereby trans people are expected to be homogenous, and united in their victimhood. They don’t realise that conditional acceptance of trans people is, in itself, wholly transphobic. You are entitled to respect and support whether or not you subscribe to groupthink. I know I’d rather speak on what is right, that what I’m told is right.
Alexis, you are so respectful and you always make it so clear how what you are saying is just your opinion and no one else’s! You welcome disagreement. It just goes to show how scared trans rights activists are of people discovering common sense over their insane ideology that they have to cut and clip your videos to make you look bad. Your opinions are not extreme, and you are always kind and respectful when you say them (even when you call someone bitchy, which I love).
I think Buck Angel says it best gender dysphoria is a mental disorder and transitioningis the treatment for that disorder. And my opinion is that just like any other mental disorder it should not be stigmatized. It's not something you choose no mental disorder/illness is you can only choose whether to treat it or not, whether to try to get better and be happier or not. Anyone who trys to use mental illness as an insult or weapon against another person I think has a mental illness of their own (narrsasism, psychopathy, or antisocial personality disorder [sociopath] i think) and could use some therapy maybe then they could learn to have some compassionand to treat others with basic human decency.
1st, your outfit looks fabulous on you !!! Love the color. Next, you're a wonderful human, and your outlook is always so positive even when you could be negative. Love your videos
You are one of the Transwomen I truly admire. You've always been respectful, balanced, and fair-minded. Some people simply want to feel offended. The question you need to ask yourself is, are the people who are whining doing what you do? And, if they are, are they doing it better?
I love your content Alexis. You are kind, respectful and a wonderful lady. I have said this before, you should be a government advisor about transitioning people. Those who show you hate are not worth bothering with.
American here, I am tired of the hivemind. I wish we went back to treating people like individuals regardless of anything relating to some identity. I don't care about someone being black, trans, Hispanic, white, gay, or straight. Lately, it seems like that is all I am supposed to care about and I just don't. I want a good quality person. Those seem to be so hard to find nowadays.
I was hesitant to watch this video because I was already pissed off seeing the title. As usual, your responses and attitude have been gracious, levelheaded and mature. Everyone's entitled to an opinion, but the level of disrespect that people take their points of view is just juvenile and reeks of insecurity. That said, I'm LOVING the Hermes orange on you!
I am just gonna say my opinon here the people commenting and saying these things are the people that are transactivists and stand for "whats right" for the community and aren't open for new views but also notice how they have to manipulate and cut off alexis to make her look like she did wrong and not show the whole segment of what she said. I love alexis and as a trans woman she has postivley impacted how I see things I have loved having alexis and she is postively impacting me obviously I cant speak for other people but also she has exposed me to even more people that do content like her such as buck and blaire keep what your doing alexis I will always be following your contect regardless what they say.
Cis guy here (from the UK). I enjoy watching your channel and like the way you are not confrontational; you are educated, reasonable and prepared to listen to other points of view. I don't like when people edit videos to suit their own narrative like this guy did. It is a lazy way to get a point across, and proves he cannot make his point fairly. I am definitely in your camp, Alexis and stand with you.
I absolutely hate how whenever someone disagrees with you, they say 'Oh she's just another Blaire White'. What's so incomprehensible about a transwoman having an opinion that differs from their narrative? And why do they all suddenly lump you in with another transwoman, as if that's not problematic? It's almost as if they're saying there's only one way to be a transgender person.
and she is nothing like Blaire White. Blaire White is nasty. Alexis is not. Not just when people are nasty to her. She is nasty the moment someone disagress with her... but she is also often nasty when she is responding to someone who isn't even talking about her. She goes nasty real fast.
I love when people react to mean comments. You took everything with such grace as you usually do. I wouldn't compare you to Blaire White, but I love that you both bring awareness to similar issues within the LGBT community
Such a lot of trans activists seem more interested in complaining and causing offence than making a positive contribution to the lives of others. Certainly, politicising the issue is of no help to anyone. I would imagine Alexis' more positive and practical aporoach must be an inspiration to those embarking on the difficult journey of becoming who they truly are, and she certainly contributes towards trans acceptance in the wider scheme of things. And she rocks in a jumpsuit! Nice colour!
Lately i'm seeing more and more people who are going at folks who are more independent or moderate or middle ground or whatever you want to call it. I like your content, Alexis, because I walk away feeling hopeful and at peace. We might not even agree, on some things we don't, but I feel like you're warm and always available for pleasant conversation. You have opinions but at the end of the day you've never come off as mean or threatening or hateful imo. I just wish more content creators would be able to do some introspection and see how the echo chambers they create are becoming harmful. Like I'm perfectly fine with someone saying I'm "cis" or "privileged", but I can respect others don't want those labels. And I do take an issue with it when the context feels like a jab. I'm not stupid. I can tell the difference between "she is a cisgender female" in a factual tone and "she's a cis" in a condescending, belittling, and dismissive one depending on the context in the discussion. Gaslighting me won't change my ability to interpret subtext. Too often people use the term privilege like it's a character flaw and I can't help the reality that certain things out of my control have made my life better than someone else who also had things out of their control. I recognize it. I don't seek to abuse it. But people treat certain traits like a scarlet letter and I shouldn't have to bear that. People enjoy inflicting pain on others as a source of comfort and it's heartbreaking. There's a lot of hurt and I think we should talk about it so we can all grow and heal. But at the same time, people need to take a page out of Brene Brown's book: stop working your shit out on other people.
I have learned and grown so much with you and your videos. Yes, our opinions do change as we learn and it is a natural progression. I love the fact that you are always so classy and you listen to both sides of the situation. You are kind and respectful of everyone, regardless of their personal journeys. You take everything that is said, graceful and tactfully. You are my favourite RUclipsr, I love the Blake Debate as well. You are more down to earth than anyone I have ever watched on this site. Again, I thank you for always sharing and openly discussing with no judgment. Haters are gonna hate, your people love you and respect you for everything that you do! Sending you big hugs and much love from Ontario Canada as always!! ❤❤
Humble as always even in the face of some vile comments. If what you do is so terrible and offensive, why do these idiots put themselves through the trauma of watching, just so they can be negative about you? I have one name for that type of person, Cupid Stunt. Gorgeous as always Alexis, it is so nice to see a decent human on here doing their thing, and sharing their journey with the rest of us.
I completely understand what you mean by having your own opinion. I as a trans woman feel a lot of the same ways you do and get called out on it within our own community. Keep doing what your doing and being a positive voice for those of us that do not have the platform form to express our views 😊 Thank you
wow you look amazing. Your own original opinions are what most of us feel is right. I feel you should be speaking for the trans community as the extremists are puting the wrong message forward. I watch some Blair White and dont think you are the same. You are always respectful and seem to think/understand about the otherside's perspective and where they are comming from, even when its difficult. You keep doing you.
Alexis, we've seen you respond to really intense vitriolic comments on this channel multiple times now, and you've responded with so much class each time. It's truly admirable
Oh good lord! Alexis, just keep being you, the only people who should be the object of your views are your family and friends. Dont worry about what anyone else thinks- even us followers. However i must say you are a breath of fresh air with your down to earth views. Xx
I thoroughly enjoy how radically accepting and mindful you are. You always have such a genuine outlook with constructive discussion. You are respectful and very well spoken. I am embarrassed by the LGBT community as of late attacking each other. I don’t associate with the madness today. I am just a “normal gay” trying to exist peacefully in this world today. To end my rant thank you for your videos. It is appreciated and I feel relieved knowing we “normal gays”have voices in the community that share our same opinions and morals.
Ok I'm a 67yo Aussie lady and I've been following you for some time now. I think you are a truly down to earth, well grounded, beautiful person who has a firm grip on reality. I can't understand why people are so mean in their comments. You obviously respect my gender and go to great lengths to walk this life as a woman, while recognizing that you are and always will be a biological man. I'd have no problem with you and would happily accept you as you are.....a beautiful, funny, kind, compassionate, understanding transwoman. Please don't let the haters affect you negatively. You are a beautiful person inside and out and I am sure your Mum is very proud of the person you've become. I know I would be.
I am against most of the trans activists and I mean the ones that do not care using MINORS. I appreciate Alexis accepting the male DNA within and the respect for those who disagree with the transition part. I acknowledge the right to pursuit happiness without damaging others and for that I like Alexis. I despise those who states that a male can get pregnant or bleed because no XY can do that. So, Alexis is an ADULT, I am a woman and I like it and understand people might like to be something else than the way they were born. Actually, I think that EVERYBODY wants to be something else one way or another. I just hope that no regret develop because it is sad to see all those who regret it and realized they made a mistake and those who embraced them at the beginning, throws them and don’t support them any longer.
Twitter (X) is basically crazy people shouting about why other people's opinions that don't agree with theirs are wrong...This dude, is entitled to his opinion, is young and will change his opinion as he ages.
I don’t have Twitter, I’m not calling it X because that just stupid. I get the impression what I’ve seen of it, it’s a cesspool of hate. Is it where all the people with anger management issues live?
@@MrsGypsumFantastic Once I was told (I deleted my account) from a stranger that I had bad morals because I disagreed with how the BBC handled the Sean/ Katya Strickly kiss. I wasn't condoning their behaviour but the BBC really went after them. This stranger, claimed that I was wrong for my opinion. Very strange.
@@MrsGypsumFantasticOn twitter you choose what you want to see, and there you have the right to have your opinions and freedom of speech, before Elon bought it, it was controlled by the woke extreme left and they got paid to push woke ideological positions, and silence everything positive about Trump
Alexis, you are beautiful inside and out and very measured and intelligent. Some people don't understand the nuance in the trans debates. Good for you for not being triggered by bitchy people. x
4:38 I agree, I disagreed with one thing of the trans ideology and that caused me the trauma, cast out of a community I been in at age 12. Even though I knew the truth, but I still wanted to watch and talk, it hurts to see pople with a mindset that think if we disagree it means we hate them which isn't true, I'm prersure there are cases of people who disagree and hate but a majority are civil and willing to learn. Again I agree with you Alexis.
Alexis you are so well adjusted 😂 i honestly think there are probably tons of youtubers who have been doing this for wayyy longer and still take these comments way harder than you do. You are so kind to others and yourself and its honestly really refreshing and inspiring.
I appreciate your takes and educating people in a non judgemental way. You are incredibly different than Blair White (who's a trumper). You seem to be a critical thinker which is what I relate too
I find it interesting that the majority of the time I see people carrying on like this, it’s people who preach love, acceptance, and gender ideology, but as soon as you challenge the status quo, they start hurling the insults they’d crucify someone else for saying to a trans person. Marcus (TheOffensiveTranny) has shared quite a few videos with people doing just that. Regardless of what they have to say, you’re stunning - beautiful inside and out. I could see the comment about “disrespecting every woman in the world” really got to you. As a biological woman, I feel absolutely no disrespect from you, the people who are disrespectful are the ones like Lily Tino (sp?) and that person who said they wanted to get a uterus transplant so they could get pregnant and be the first trans woman to have an abortion. As a biological woman who has suffered with PCOS and has been struggling for years to get pregnant and is doing the pre-tests for IVF, that person wasn’t just disrespectful of those things when they said it, they were vile. You, however, are always gorgeous, gracious, kind, and NEVER disrespectful.
You should write a book on how to be comfortable in your skin ❤ You are so respectful to everyone ✨️ We wouldn't have segregated groups if everyone took a leaf out of your book 😘
Hello. I'm usually a silent viewer. I was studying psychology when I first entered college. We learned there that people who are trans actually have (correct me because I forget if it's more or less) gray matter around their brains. In short, the gray matter around someone who is trans's brain is different. This is why trans was first put in the dsm5. Because the brain was different and gender dysphoria was seen as a real medical condition. When people who did not meet the criteria for being trans were getting denied medical access (such as hormones ans surgeries) these people began to fight to remove trans from the dsm5. They eventually won. Just a small history and science lesson. I'm sure you can also find this information someone in some studies or text books in local universities by you if you want to know more. I love studying so I always love guiding people towards more education. :)
I am a heterosexual married woman of 38 years and i like watching Blair white for certain content but i Love watching you as well! You are VERY humble and sweet! Please keep it up.i dont agree with changing your sex, but i have to say, I just dont CARE!!😂 your a KIND HUMAN BEING, dont listen to hateful people!❤
You say you cant win. I think you are winning. Lots of people love you, and your channel is succesful and I believe you are making a difference with what you are doing. That is winning. You cant win everyone over, but sometimes its a win when somebody doesnt like you. Just sometimes and noone can but that is not not winning.. I am sure you didnt mean it so deep, I was just triggered by that sentence 😂
Your content is one of the most positive and realistic content compared to other trans creators I’ve seen. Edit: Also, your voice doesn’t sound like a man, to me. Personally, I think you pass very well.
like Blaire White you are absolutely gorgeous so I always get instant envy & bitterness vibes from those types of comments, and the pick-me accusations too just because you are not on board with everything on the trans ideology agenda and what activists are currently shouting about. you are always positive and respectful. other creators get the same labels, disagree with one thing and you are going against your own community. I think you contribute a lot to the conversation. you are refreshing and one classy lady :)
LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!!!! As a conservative right winger between you, Blair White and Buck Angel my opinion has changed quite a bit on the trans topic!!!! I absolutely love the way you all have shown the world that not all trans individuals are far left woke crazies!!! And I really appreciate that!!!!🫶🏼
Omg this is so ridiculous with his video about you and his fans but you prove you are doing the right thing to have your opinion as a trans woman and people can't handle the truth keep doing what you are doing we need you when it comes to trans issues 💕💕💕💗
Many of these people who comment negatively about you have never watched your videos, for sure. I don't always agree with everything you say, but here I am listening and open to sharing my view on some topics... respectfully.
Loving the jumpsuit Alexis. It suits you soo well. I’m soo glad you don’t give the hate comments any value as they honestly are just the opinions from either small minded sheeple, uneducated sheeple or people that are hurting themselves and choose to take it out on others to try and make themselves feel better. I use to care what other ‘strangers’ thought about me then I caught sepsis and almost died. I was in a coma for 2 weeks, then had to learn to walk again, have multiple skin grafts etc etc and was in hospital for a further 2 months. Since then I realised I placed way too much value on the thought and opinions of strangers. To the point where I stopped myself having fun because I thought, for example I didn’t look good enough that particular night to go out or things like that. And after getting out of hospital the way I view things is completely different and I’ve never been happier. As an example, I realised how silly I was for not going and enjoying myself with my friends because I was worried I didn’t look good enough that night. Because when I’m grey and old the people that were out that night are not even gonna remember I existed. But I’m gonna remember that I missed out on having fun with people I love. So now I never let the thoughts and opinions of strangers stop me from doing things I want to do. Obviously I still care about the thoughts and opinions of the people I love and care about but strangers… nope, never. Not anymore anyways. And I truly believe everyone should think like this as it would honestly make soo many people a lot happier if they did. It’s the same with ‘drama’ (let’s just call it) I now think, is this really gonna matter to me in years to come out am I gonna forget it even happened come next week/month/year. If I’m probably gonna have forgotten about it by next week then do I really wanna waste any time and energy on it. Again my answer is now, NOPE. I can’t even think of a time since getting out of hospital where I’ve gotten into any ‘drama’ with anyone over silly things. If it’s something worth getting upset by then I will of course. I’m not saying I will never get upset ever again, (if you truly read what I’m saying) I just look at what is really worth it now and what isn’t. And 9x out of 10 it’s usually not worth it. Anyways, Alexis and Liam, you are both amazing people and I’m so excited to see all the wedding stuff that you will be uploading come time off your wedding. Soo happy for you both. (I’m originally from york but now like in wakey soo I’m basically a neighbour lol)
I don’t understand why people feel the need to try to cut people down. You have always been respectful and have always made it clear that your opinion is yours and that you are open to learn.
I wonder if Sam knows most people and not just people he doesn't like, create opinions from where they hang out and who they hang out with (ie: twitter ,Tumblr, bar interaction , family etc). Bro assumed, got it wrong and said nothing with his statement. Also the " you either against or with me" is so played out and at this point we can clearly see it's never a healthy mental, it always feels like someone who is power tripping in thinking they control your worth to other people.
Straight (I'm not using that poxy 'C' word!) male here, just piping up to say something positive as usual on your channel - I think you're cool AF, highly charismatic, generally pretty nuanced and with that cracking Leeds accent (I have a soft spot for Northerners!) I could listen to you for hours! Haters and trolls are always going to be abundant on here, but of course you are more than aware of that. Stay cool, hun and have a good day! 😎👌P.S. I'd actually take that comment about being "a British Blaire White" as a compliment personally! I follow her channel, that's how I was aware of yours as it popped up in my recommended feed 😉
Yes, that’s how it is. If you’re learning and growing, your opinion, will change on some things as you become more experienced or educated on things but if you’re dumb you get stuck and you never go nowhere you never learn nothing and you keep your mind closed. 🥰 9:16
Have seen a few mean comments about you on X and i am so glad to see you are taking the high road with it all.. you do you some people are never gonna get it so water of a ducks back eh!! Also great vid!! Proud of us brits 😁
Alexis Blake is the most genuine, honest, positive, and kind MTF trans people on the planet. The fact Alexis knows s/he will always be a man, sets her apart from the typical, angry, deluded, mean-spirited, “I am a real woman, you bigot!” trans women. I applaud you for so many reasons, but mostly because you are keeping it real. Stay strong Alexis, and remember, more people love and appreciate you than those who don’t. ❤ You do more good than harm with your honest opinions. (FYI: As an XX real woman myself, I have zero tolerance for the other MTF folk who insist they are real women. And that’s why I have the utmost respect for you ❤). I wish all trans women shared your Honesty)
Lol I commented on that video of his defending you and those crazy fuckers are calling me “cis” to make me mad. They are so tolerant and understanding that it makes me life their hypocrisy 😂.
Would just disregard any "pick me" comments, its pretty much anyone who doesn't wholeheartedly agree with trans ideology and femisnism gets called this. Would regard being called a british blaire white as a complement, end of there no bigger ""pick me" then those afraid to give their own viewpoint
Which of your communities is he referring to, though? He's American, you're British, for example. He is *assuming* all trans communities are culturally identical to America.
These hate comments are just plain Jealousy, You are so Polite, intelligent and a good communicator and much more goodness..., You are a good Human and Lovely and look like and act like a Lady..., To all the Haters do not talk about Her Mother or Loved One's You idiots....
You are so absolutely graceful. You're in good company with Blaire, Buck, Marcus, Sara, Jessica, & Eden. Don't worry about the LGBTQIA+ OR the people who really don't understand. I'm sorry that the fake T's have changed the discussion & focused on them when real trans people are just trying to live their lives. I love that you acknowledge your biology which most fake trans won't do. I've found that real trans women respect our spaces as opposed to AGP who get excited by controlling others. We don't agree with those people at the end. Many of us women can appreciate that you acknowledge biology & when you do that we can focus on the things we DO have in common instead of focusing on the trivial biological difference. You respect women & we respect you for it. 🩷
I've said this before, but your videos helped someone I know to overcome their misgivings about trans people. I'm not going to hate on Sam Collins either, but let's just say that his videos would've more likely done the opposite. Keep up your moderate, reasonable outlook. Keep up your respect and empathy for differing views. Keep up your confidence and also your humility. Keep up your refusal to sink to any haters' level. Oh, and your fashion sense too!
You have more of a down-to-earth delivery than Blaire White does. Well, I love both you and Blair. You are a lot more elegant in your phasing of your opinions . Where Blair is kind of aggressive with hers.
This person doesn't know you at all! You do wonders for the trans community and educating people in what it means to live as a transwoman in the UK. I'm happy to know you are here, in my country, with your fiance - you're both lovely! This person sounds like he thinks there's a "trans mafia" who will come for you if you don't "do trans" his way! You are ALWAYS respectful of natal women and I love you for it :) And you sound feminine to anyone with ears!
So this is why I watch a variety of people. I’ve never found you to offensive to women whatever, you’re the most natural person I’ve seen, it doesn’t feel like a big explosive thing you’re trying to set off. You’re kind and people forget that we’re ALLOWED to have opinions. I’m a bisexual female. I have no issues with you because you’re not walking around calling me a “birthing person” which is dehumanizing and ironic to me frankly. You’re solid, don’t worry about it. ❤
I haven’t watched all the video yet, I’m about half way through..but I just want to say something…I am not trans, but I support the community. I enjoy listening to you and your thoughts on things. I actually think you, for want of a better way to say this, are a great stepping stone for others to accept and understand the community. You are easy to listen to, accept there are many different feelings from people, and you deliver your message with kindness and compassion. You don’t have extreme views…and personally I think you do and can reach many people and at least getting them to start thinking about accepting everyone is their own person and different..everyone has a story, everyone is worthy..everyone should be their authentic selves. Time on this earth is short….we all have a journey..so yeah…I appreciate you being here and sharing..😀
Wow! Girl! That is so your colour! The dress/top and your makeup. You are so very tolerant of the criticisms and nastiness that these haters send to you. I sent a message to a RUclipsr, living in Yorkshire, from the South, living with an Ex Rugby Player a couple of months ago, correcting his Grammar on one particular phrase he used. So shocked at his response, it wasn't even that bad, one tiny Americanism he used, which Brit's don't use (but obviously we do now?, and he was overly upset by my comment). It's the ex English and Drama Degree that fires my critique regarding bad Grammar, and I also make mistakes myself. Decided to un-subscribe as the diatribe was totally uncalled for and unnecessary. My point....if one puts oneself on a public platform, one should expect a little criticism,. Nastiness is not acceptable however. You and Liam are great, and your Grammar is.....just Yorkshire. As a Yorkshire man I understand that, Yorkshire can be a totally different language at times. Great as always Alexis -x-
Well Alexis we think you're gorgeous, level headed, intelligent with your opinions and just an all round lovely woman. People who leave toxic/mean comments really have something wrong with them deep inside. Just be nice to other people. It's not that hard and it's not that deep 😒
Alexis, I can’t commend you enough for exposing the harmful rhetoric and propaganda the trans activists have pushed. Thank you for this. While Blaire White may be quite extreme on the right side and Sam Collins extreme on the left, you are a breath of fresh air because of your moderate and calm position. Thank you for all you do!
@ I believe a lot of transphobia is in response to radical trans activism. In exactly the same way I, as a gay man, believe that a lot of homophobia is a direct result of radical gay activists pushing their poisonous agenda. These people don’t represent me, and they never have.
Some people must hate themselves to not be able to deal with different opinions, this is why i don't want to be part of the community and this cultist vibe. Alexis, you're always respectful, and it's refreshing to see a diversity of opinions.
You are the nicest person in the world and your opinions are so legit and you express them politely. Can’t believe a person would make a disgusting video like this on you
i know im repeating what everyone else is saying, but you are so calm, kind, and bring a refreshing air of peace on the internet, which is notorious for being a place of polarization, extremism, and plain disrespect. thank you alexis!
Love you Blaire and Buck you are all different in delivery and yet similar in questioning/ challenging narratives in the trans community. I like all the different levels that you all come at it with.
I really appreciate your honesty in who you are and that you are showing up and being authentic, it's inspiring me to do the same. It's not always easy so we should be celebrating each other not critising!
I'm glad you deal with haters and naysayers with grace and class. We need more people like you who see things from a nuanced lens and deliver your points in a diplomatic way.
There are several mental illnesses that cause people to say hateful things. I don't know of any that cause a person to be so fair minded. I stumbled upon your channel and am so glad I did. I relate to you so much! I try to see both sides of an argument, but usually get attacked by both sides because I don't see things from an extreme viewpoint.
Why can't everyone react to things like this the way you do. You rock
Outrage sells far easier for attention than positive stuff.
Thank you x
Agree xx hugs from Jacquie xx
People can disagree and still be polite, I appreciate this about Alexis. I think it’s important to look at the other information available too, it can inform your position. I disagree with some views on this channel but I support people being who they are, whether trans or not. Cis is a Latin prefix and in no way demeans anyone who isn’t trans because it’s like saying blonde or brunette… trans or cis but anyway…
@@ravens-cryptwhich is obviously what this “Sam” was hoping to do, fishing for clicks
My favorite response:
"You're a man."
"Well, yeah, of course I am. As a trans woman, if I weren't a man, I'd be a woman."
That almost always shuts them up.
That's a great response!
That actually made me LOL 😂😂 that is hilarious❤ like ppl need to start using common sense
Love this response
Exactly, it's not an insult like they think it is. LOL
@@JessRenee91481 oh that’s perfect!
It’s kinda funny, out of all the trans women on RUclips seen, I find you to be the most respectful and kinder person with a lot of day to day insight, it’s helped me start my transition journey. And it’s great to have a positive figure!
Aww hun this made me smile, thank you and good luck x
@ thank you! Keep it up!
Straight up...I remember watching Sam when I was a bit younger. He really was one of the few transmen on here that helped a bit in figuring myself out as a transman. But this dude has gotten so sour, I guess you'd only be sour if your worldview were stuck on seeking transphobia instead of seeking acceptance and respect from peers.
@@VestaseNewton ❤️
I used to like Sam, but when I left the echo chamber, I understood how much of propaganda he has in his videos, that’s crazy. If I wouldn’t check Blaire White’s videos I would probably end up still being in that gender cult, losing all my friends and being an insufferable person.
Both Sam Collins and Blaire White are living in their own echo chambers. Sam spews left-wing propaganda and Blaire spews right-wing propaganda. They're just two sides to the same coin. It's best to stop listening to RUclipsrs for guidance and formulate your own opinions by looking at facts, statistics and studies, without confirmation bias.
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Welcome to the sane side!! ❤
i used to watch him so much when i was 13/14
Same i used to think Sam was chill until he started going after real trans people and encouraging the Dylan Mulvaneys of the world.
Who cares about privilege? You still have lived experiences that give you the right to express your opinions.
Yasss xx
He is the literal reason as a gay man that I left the 'community'. NOTHING ABOUT THIS NARRATIVE bares presence with me. It's wild that this is just normal, like what the f***? This is normal?!!! For Gays M/F, trans M2F/F2M. I am absolutely beyond myself.
Keep doing what your doing Alexis. Us quietly vodka straw sipping gays in the club are DYING rooting for you.
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Sam saying that you’re going against your own community….. while he makes a video that seems to be against you who is part of his community. The math is not mathing I’m afraid.
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Mic drop 😝😂💖💖
@@Alexis_blake00 thank you ❤️❤️😂😂
His delulu's showing.
I see we've got some Brad Pulombo fans here lol.
It’s ironic, the trans community “fighting to be their authentic selves” just to expect everyone in that community to think the same way. Alexis is way more moderate than Blair, but the algorithm does suggests one off the other. Alexis doesn’t disagree with people because they are trans, she disagrees with shitty behavior from people who happen to be trans, and if it’s assumed that everyone in the trans community thinks similarly, she doesn’t want to be represented by that.
Alexis, you are not relegated to the LGBT+ community. I’m a 55 year old married grandma 80’s kid, who is completely straight. You’re part of MY community. You’re part of the youth that tune in to hear you. You’re part of the working class, the regular people just trying to live their lives. You’re part of the freethinking LGBT people who refused to be reigned in by an ideology. You speak your mind and have your own opinion.
Exclusive leftists like Sam are going to find out very soon that the community at large is sick and tired of hearing their taunts of “pick me” “bigot” “racist” “transphobe” “TERF”. We don’t care what you call us anymore. You scolded and chastised us out of the party. 👋🏻 And now you lost the election. Bravo! We didn’t even need to support Trump. We just withdrew our support from you.
Alexis, you are kind, thoughtful, and well spoken. You try to remain as objective as possible, and we appreciate that. People will see your strength and try to cut you down. Apparently something you said hit a nerve or two. It got you noticed.
Yes to all this ❤❤❤❤
That's so sweet .. Good People
@@Nine28457 👏💜🎶 bravo!
😍😍😍😍exactly!!!! you put that so perfectly. very thankful for this community
As another straight 55 yr old mother of three, I couldn't agree more, well said
I can see how Blaire could be a pick me, how Buck Angel can be a peak me, but you, Alexis?? You are the most honest and objective RUclipsr covering trans topics. No labels, no pushing specific agendas, every time it’s just your honest opinion! Because every side has a weak and wrong point occasionally. Absolutely love your channel for that, it’s a breath of fresh air. ❤
This! 🙌
i think all 3 of them are the exact opposite of a pick me!😂
Imagine calling the blue print for trans, THE TRANPA, a pick me.
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@pixie_dust1985, maybe I didn’t word it correctly (I’m not native), but it wasn’t my intention to call him a pick me, at all. I think he is changing minds for the better. I meant that I can understand where very left people can come from while calling him one, I can get why they would do that with the mindset that they have: because he is getting very certain points across, over and over again and repeats same phrases about him being the normal one. He always mentions how others accept him, that’s like the root of his content. So for them he comes across as a pick me (I’ve had a conversation with a person who very strongly opposes him). I mostly agree with him, his story is phenomenal. What I also meant is that then I don’t get why they would call Alexis a pick me, because her content is just.. different, it’s more flexible in topics that for me personally do not feel repetitive, she really dives into nuances.
Blair white is not a pick me she is an F-U all caps. Blair White gives 0 craps about what anyone may think about her or their opinions of her...she dose not care nor will she for people to like her. But I do agree that Alexis is not a pick me... Most definitely not a pick me.. Alexis.
Thanks for herself.Does for herself, regardless of whether people like or dislike her, she's allowed to .. we all are...so I do agree with you on that one....
I'm an older left leaning cis gay man. (who's not offended by "cis") I've lived all of my adult life in New York and San Francisco around and involved in vibrant and diverse LGBTQ+ communities. I still work as a counselor for gay/bi/trans men in a clinic in SF. That said, I am subscribed and seldom miss watching YT videos from you and Liam! I find you both very fair and compassionate in the way you present your thoughts on issues. I don't always agree with your take on certain issues, and that's OK! You are probably the least pickme trans content that I can think of! I do not see you and Blair White in the same light at all. Even reacting to these "mean" comments and people speaking out against you you remain civil and don't stoop to cheap shots or easy insults. I love that, and I also realize that it probably doesn't get the clicks, likes, subscribes that more outlandish responses might. Good for you, and thank you for giving some of us the kind of "adult", "grown up" content we're looking for!
I humbly find you to indeed be one of the most neutral 🏳️⚧️ RUclipsrs. I see you as a positive role model PERIOD!
I have also witnessed Blair, Buck & Marcus’s approach cause fear in otherwise central leaning 🏳️🌈 Community members.
Yet, I also understand how 🏳️⚧️ creators like Sam can be equally too far on the other end of the spectrum.
Please continue to be a bright light with an open heart for us all. 💞
Wow, thank you! X
100% agree with you here, glad someone shared this. While I agree with some of Blair, Bucks opinions, the way they are delivered can be very unhelpful at times to say the least. I love how balanced and fair Alexis is. ❤
I have to thank Sam Collins, actually. The moment he said to not watch Blaire White, I did and look where we are today. Turns out quite a few people on his side don't like him much anymore either
Leo and Willy come to mind, and they're both leftists like Sam.
I try to watch Sam and after a few watches. I was just over him
You are a very important voice within the social media space. I am a biological woman who accepts trans people but struggle with the misogyny that is coming from certain aspects of the trans community. You talk about topics in a respectful manner and approach them from a personal approach. Please keep being you.
You are way more respectful than i am to these dreadful idiots. What i loath and despise is the tra tras pushing a language change that degrades insults and us reduces us real women to body pieces ie cervix havers, womb carriers , etc etc. And all this coming from people who want to be us and think they have access to our biology as well. Thank goodness you and quite a few others are respectful, sensible and just lovely. Need more of you ! Alexis, you must feel like pulling your hair out with having to respond to these twits.
Love to hear your view points on all this insanity. ❤
I used to listen to Sam Collin’s, but he became a SJW- TRA and started repeating talking points and bad mouthing people who disagreed with him instead of actually listening/ debating the issues. I still listen him on occasion to not live in an echo chamber, but he has lost my subscription.
Same
Same, he used to be a cool guy, I enjoyed his content with his ex gf
You were too respectful, but I think you being diplomatic in the face of adversity says a great deal about your character, and that completely defies all that was said against you in his comments. Unfortunately, the people in Sam’s comments are part of a much larger problem whereby trans people are expected to be homogenous, and united in their victimhood. They don’t realise that conditional acceptance of trans people is, in itself, wholly transphobic. You are entitled to respect and support whether or not you subscribe to groupthink. I know I’d rather speak on what is right, that what I’m told is right.
Alexis, you are so respectful and you always make it so clear how what you are saying is just your opinion and no one else’s! You welcome disagreement. It just goes to show how scared trans rights activists are of people discovering common sense over their insane ideology that they have to cut and clip your videos to make you look bad. Your opinions are not extreme, and you are always kind and respectful when you say them (even when you call someone bitchy, which I love).
"Diet Coke sort of nice Blaire White" sounds very chic and like a compliment!
Funny thing is, that's how I described Alexis to my bf but in a nice way 😂 so to hear him say it in a disparaging way cracks me up
I think Buck Angel says it best gender dysphoria is a mental disorder and transitioningis the treatment for that disorder. And my opinion is that just like any other mental disorder it should not be stigmatized. It's not something you choose no mental disorder/illness is you can only choose whether to treat it or not, whether to try to get better and be happier or not. Anyone who trys to use mental illness as an insult or weapon against another person I think has a mental illness of their own (narrsasism, psychopathy, or antisocial personality disorder [sociopath] i think) and could use some therapy maybe then they could learn to have some compassionand to treat others with basic human decency.
1st, your outfit looks fabulous on you !!! Love the color. Next, you're a wonderful human, and your outlook is always so positive even when you could be negative. Love your videos
Thank you so much!! X
You are one of the Transwomen I truly admire. You've always been respectful, balanced, and fair-minded. Some people simply want to feel offended. The question you need to ask yourself is, are the people who are whining doing what you do? And, if they are, are they doing it better?
Privilege is a spectrum
Well said
Exactly, there will always be someone better off than you and someone worse off than you. It does not invalidate their opinion or yours.
I love your content Alexis. You are kind, respectful and a wonderful lady. I have said this before, you should be a government advisor about transitioning people. Those who show you hate are not worth bothering with.
American here, I am tired of the hivemind. I wish we went back to treating people like individuals regardless of anything relating to some identity. I don't care about someone being black, trans, Hispanic, white, gay, or straight. Lately, it seems like that is all I am supposed to care about and I just don't. I want a good quality person. Those seem to be so hard to find nowadays.
I was hesitant to watch this video because I was already pissed off seeing the title. As usual, your responses and attitude have been gracious, levelheaded and mature. Everyone's entitled to an opinion, but the level of disrespect that people take their points of view is just juvenile and reeks of insecurity. That said, I'm LOVING the Hermes orange on you!
I am just gonna say my opinon here the people commenting and saying these things are the people that are transactivists and stand for "whats right" for the community and aren't open for new views but also notice how they have to manipulate and cut off alexis to make her look like she did wrong and not show the whole segment of what she said. I love alexis and as a trans woman she has postivley impacted how I see things I have loved having alexis and she is postively impacting me obviously I cant speak for other people but also she has exposed me to even more people that do content like her such as buck and blaire keep what your doing alexis I will always be following your contect regardless what they say.
Thanks Alexis for being the positive in the conversation.
Cis guy here (from the UK). I enjoy watching your channel and like the way you are not confrontational; you are educated, reasonable and prepared to listen to other points of view. I don't like when people edit videos to suit their own narrative like this guy did. It is a lazy way to get a point across, and proves he cannot make his point fairly. I am definitely in your camp, Alexis and stand with you.
I absolutely hate how whenever someone disagrees with you, they say 'Oh she's just another Blaire White'. What's so incomprehensible about a transwoman having an opinion that differs from their narrative? And why do they all suddenly lump you in with another transwoman, as if that's not problematic? It's almost as if they're saying there's only one way to be a transgender person.
and she is nothing like Blaire White. Blaire White is nasty. Alexis is not. Not just when people are nasty to her. She is nasty the moment someone disagress with her... but she is also often nasty when she is responding to someone who isn't even talking about her. She goes nasty real fast.
I love when people react to mean comments. You took everything with such grace as you usually do.
I wouldn't compare you to Blaire White, but I love that you both bring awareness to similar issues within the LGBT community
Such a lot of trans activists seem more interested in complaining and causing offence than making a positive contribution to the lives of others. Certainly, politicising the issue is of no help to anyone. I would imagine Alexis' more positive and practical aporoach must be an inspiration to those embarking on the difficult journey of becoming who they truly are, and she certainly contributes towards trans acceptance in the wider scheme of things. And she rocks in a jumpsuit! Nice colour!
Was wondering what does 'pygmy ' mean, then realised you was saying 'pick me' 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Omg ahaha sorry 😂😂😂💖
Ohhh now I need to google what a 'pick me' and a 'pygmy' is 😂 I'm out of touch with slang these days haha
Lately i'm seeing more and more people who are going at folks who are more independent or moderate or middle ground or whatever you want to call it. I like your content, Alexis, because I walk away feeling hopeful and at peace. We might not even agree, on some things we don't, but I feel like you're warm and always available for pleasant conversation. You have opinions but at the end of the day you've never come off as mean or threatening or hateful imo. I just wish more content creators would be able to do some introspection and see how the echo chambers they create are becoming harmful.
Like I'm perfectly fine with someone saying I'm "cis" or "privileged", but I can respect others don't want those labels. And I do take an issue with it when the context feels like a jab. I'm not stupid. I can tell the difference between "she is a cisgender female" in a factual tone and "she's a cis" in a condescending, belittling, and dismissive one depending on the context in the discussion. Gaslighting me won't change my ability to interpret subtext. Too often people use the term privilege like it's a character flaw and I can't help the reality that certain things out of my control have made my life better than someone else who also had things out of their control. I recognize it. I don't seek to abuse it. But people treat certain traits like a scarlet letter and I shouldn't have to bear that.
People enjoy inflicting pain on others as a source of comfort and it's heartbreaking.
There's a lot of hurt and I think we should talk about it so we can all grow and heal. But at the same time, people need to take a page out of Brene Brown's book: stop working your shit out on other people.
I have learned and grown so much with you and your videos. Yes, our opinions do change as we learn and it is a natural progression. I love the fact that you are always so classy and you listen to both sides of the situation. You are kind and respectful of everyone, regardless of their personal journeys. You take everything that is said, graceful and tactfully. You are my favourite RUclipsr, I love the Blake Debate as well. You are more down to earth than anyone I have ever watched on this site. Again, I thank you for always sharing and openly discussing with no judgment.
Haters are gonna hate, your people love you and respect you for everything that you do! Sending you big hugs and much love from Ontario Canada as always!! ❤❤
Thank you so much hun, sending hugs to you in Canada 🇨🇦 💋💖
@ thank you so much, enjoy having tea with your Mum! Hope to see her in a video soon! ❤️❤️
Humble as always even in the face of some vile comments. If what you do is so terrible and offensive, why do these idiots put themselves through the trauma of watching, just so they can be negative about you? I have one name for that type of person, Cupid Stunt. Gorgeous as always Alexis, it is so nice to see a decent human on here doing their thing, and sharing their journey with the rest of us.
I completely understand what you mean by having your own opinion. I as a trans woman feel a lot of the same ways you do and get called out on it within our own community. Keep doing what your doing and being a positive voice for those of us that do not have the platform form to express our views 😊
Thank you
wow you look amazing. Your own original opinions are what most of us feel is right. I feel you should be speaking for the trans community as the extremists are puting the wrong message forward. I watch some Blair White and dont think you are the same. You are always respectful and seem to think/understand about the otherside's perspective and where they are comming from, even when its difficult. You keep doing you.
Alexis, we've seen you respond to really intense vitriolic comments on this channel multiple times now, and you've responded with so much class each time. It's truly admirable
Oh good lord! Alexis, just keep being you, the only people who should be the object of your views are your family and friends. Dont worry about what anyone else thinks- even us followers. However i must say you are a breath of fresh air with your down to earth views. Xx
So basically Sam wants you to be a sheep and follow his opinion and not think for yourself. That’s how I understood it.
Sam is in a cult. You’re not allowed to think differently than him
I thoroughly enjoy how radically accepting and mindful you are. You always have such a genuine outlook with constructive discussion. You are respectful and very well spoken. I am embarrassed by the LGBT community as of late attacking each other. I don’t associate with the madness today. I am just a “normal gay” trying to exist peacefully in this world today. To end my rant thank you for your videos. It is appreciated and I feel relieved knowing we “normal gays”have voices in the community that share our same opinions and morals.
You're your own thing and I'm all for it. ❤
Ok I'm a 67yo Aussie lady and I've been following you for some time now. I think you are a truly down to earth, well grounded, beautiful person who has a firm grip on reality. I can't understand why people are so mean in their comments. You obviously respect my gender and go to great lengths to walk this life as a woman, while recognizing that you are and always will be a biological man. I'd have no problem with you and would happily accept you as you are.....a beautiful, funny, kind, compassionate, understanding transwoman. Please don't let the haters affect you negatively. You are a beautiful person inside and out and I am sure your Mum is very proud of the person you've become. I know I would be.
I am against most of the trans activists and I mean the ones that do not care using MINORS. I appreciate Alexis accepting the male DNA within and the respect for those who disagree with the transition part. I acknowledge the right to pursuit happiness without damaging others and for that I like Alexis. I despise those who states that a male can get pregnant or bleed because no XY can do that. So, Alexis is an ADULT, I am a woman and I like it and understand people might like to be something else than the way they were born. Actually, I think that EVERYBODY wants to be something else one way or another. I just hope that no regret develop because it is sad to see all those who regret it and realized they made a mistake and those who embraced them at the beginning, throws them and don’t support them any longer.
glad you have a sense of humour about it
I do love your videos, so down to earth. Even your e-mail to me was 'earthy' lol. I am so jealous of your hair, it looks gorgeous x
Twitter (X) is basically crazy people shouting about why other people's opinions that don't agree with theirs are wrong...This dude, is entitled to his opinion, is young and will change his opinion as he ages.
Hopefully
@@ravens-crypt Totally. At the moment Sam is going with the herd.
I don’t have Twitter, I’m not calling it X because that just stupid. I get the impression what I’ve seen of it, it’s a cesspool of hate. Is it where all the people with anger management issues live?
@@MrsGypsumFantastic Once I was told (I deleted my account) from a stranger that I had bad morals because I disagreed with how the BBC handled the Sean/ Katya Strickly kiss. I wasn't condoning their behaviour but the BBC really went after them. This stranger, claimed that I was wrong for my opinion. Very strange.
@@MrsGypsumFantasticOn twitter you choose what you want to see, and there you have the right to have your opinions and freedom of speech, before Elon bought it, it was controlled by the woke extreme left and they got paid to push woke ideological positions, and silence everything positive about Trump
Actually, I think you have a very unique , original personality being compared to Blair White is a compliment in my book.
Alexis, you are beautiful inside and out and very measured and intelligent. Some people don't understand the nuance in the trans debates. Good for you for not being triggered by bitchy people. x
4:38 I agree, I disagreed with one thing of the trans ideology and that caused me the trauma, cast out of a community I been in at age 12. Even though I knew the truth, but I still wanted to watch and talk, it hurts to see pople with a mindset that think if we disagree it means we hate them which isn't true, I'm prersure there are cases of people who disagree and hate but a majority are civil and willing to learn. Again I agree with you Alexis.
Alexis you are so well adjusted 😂 i honestly think there are probably tons of youtubers who have been doing this for wayyy longer and still take these comments way harder than you do. You are so kind to others and yourself and its honestly really refreshing and inspiring.
I appreciate your takes and educating people in a non judgemental way. You are incredibly different than Blair White (who's a trumper). You seem to be a critical thinker which is what I relate too
I agree. I don't like when people compare the two of them. I wanted to like Blair but...I can't get past their political views and their meanness
That color on you!
Isn’t it beautiful ❤❤
Just glowing ❤
I find it interesting that the majority of the time I see people carrying on like this, it’s people who preach love, acceptance, and gender ideology, but as soon as you challenge the status quo, they start hurling the insults they’d crucify someone else for saying to a trans person. Marcus (TheOffensiveTranny) has shared quite a few videos with people doing just that.
Regardless of what they have to say, you’re stunning - beautiful inside and out.
I could see the comment about “disrespecting every woman in the world” really got to you. As a biological woman, I feel absolutely no disrespect from you, the people who are disrespectful are the ones like Lily Tino (sp?) and that person who said they wanted to get a uterus transplant so they could get pregnant and be the first trans woman to have an abortion.
As a biological woman who has suffered with PCOS and has been struggling for years to get pregnant and is doing the pre-tests for IVF, that person wasn’t just disrespectful of those things when they said it, they were vile.
You, however, are always gorgeous, gracious, kind, and NEVER disrespectful.
You should write a book on how to be comfortable in your skin ❤ You are so respectful to everyone ✨️ We wouldn't have segregated groups if everyone took a leaf out of your book 😘
Hello. I'm usually a silent viewer. I was studying psychology when I first entered college. We learned there that people who are trans actually have (correct me because I forget if it's more or less) gray matter around their brains. In short, the gray matter around someone who is trans's brain is different. This is why trans was first put in the dsm5. Because the brain was different and gender dysphoria was seen as a real medical condition. When people who did not meet the criteria for being trans were getting denied medical access (such as hormones ans surgeries) these people began to fight to remove trans from the dsm5. They eventually won. Just a small history and science lesson. I'm sure you can also find this information someone in some studies or text books in local universities by you if you want to know more. I love studying so I always love guiding people towards more education. :)
I am a heterosexual married woman of 38 years and i like watching Blair white for certain content but i Love watching you as well! You are VERY humble and sweet! Please keep it up.i dont agree with changing your sex, but i have to say, I just dont CARE!!😂 your a KIND HUMAN BEING, dont listen to hateful people!❤
You say you cant win. I think you are winning. Lots of people love you, and your channel is succesful and I believe you are making a difference with what you are doing. That is winning. You cant win everyone over, but sometimes its a win when somebody doesnt like you. Just sometimes and noone can but that is not not winning.. I am sure you didnt mean it so deep, I was just triggered by that sentence 😂
I appreciate that! Wow thank you 🙏 x
Your content is one of the most positive and realistic content compared to other trans creators I’ve seen.
Edit: Also, your voice doesn’t sound like a man, to me. Personally, I think you pass very well.
like Blaire White you are absolutely gorgeous so I always get instant envy & bitterness vibes from those types of comments, and the pick-me accusations too just because you are not on board with everything on the trans ideology agenda and what activists are currently shouting about. you are always positive and respectful. other creators get the same labels, disagree with one thing and you are going against your own community. I think you contribute a lot to the conversation. you are refreshing and one classy lady :)
LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!!!! As a conservative right winger between you, Blair White and Buck Angel my opinion has changed quite a bit on the trans topic!!!! I absolutely love the way you all have shown the world that not all trans individuals are far left woke crazies!!! And I really appreciate that!!!!🫶🏼
Omg this is so ridiculous with his video about you and his fans but you prove you are doing the right thing to have your opinion as a trans woman and people can't handle the truth keep doing what you are doing we need you when it comes to trans issues 💕💕💕💗
Many of these people who comment negatively about you have never watched your videos, for sure. I don't always agree with everything you say, but here I am listening and open to sharing my view on some topics... respectfully.
Blaire is hilarious, but she's kind of a meanie 😂 If anything, you're too nice, which is the opposite 😆
Blaire White is nothing but a bully
Loving the jumpsuit Alexis. It suits you soo well. I’m soo glad you don’t give the hate comments any value as they honestly are just the opinions from either small minded sheeple, uneducated sheeple or people that are hurting themselves and choose to take it out on others to try and make themselves feel better.
I use to care what other ‘strangers’ thought about me then I caught sepsis and almost died. I was in a coma for 2 weeks, then had to learn to walk again, have multiple skin grafts etc etc and was in hospital for a further 2 months.
Since then I realised I placed way too much value on the thought and opinions of strangers. To the point where I stopped myself having fun because I thought, for example I didn’t look good enough that particular night to go out or things like that.
And after getting out of hospital the way I view things is completely different and I’ve never been happier.
As an example, I realised how silly I was for not going and enjoying myself with my friends because I was worried I didn’t look good enough that night. Because when I’m grey and old the people that were out that night are not even gonna remember I existed. But I’m gonna remember that I missed out on having fun with people I love.
So now I never let the thoughts and opinions of strangers stop me from doing things I want to do.
Obviously I still care about the thoughts and opinions of the people I love and care about but strangers… nope, never. Not anymore anyways.
And I truly believe everyone should think like this as it would honestly make soo many people a lot happier if they did.
It’s the same with ‘drama’ (let’s just call it) I now think, is this really gonna matter to me in years to come out am I gonna forget it even happened come next week/month/year. If I’m probably gonna have forgotten about it by next week then do I really wanna waste any time and energy on it. Again my answer is now, NOPE.
I can’t even think of a time since getting out of hospital where I’ve gotten into any ‘drama’ with anyone over silly things. If it’s something worth getting upset by then I will of course. I’m not saying I will never get upset ever again, (if you truly read what I’m saying) I just look at what is really worth it now and what isn’t. And 9x out of 10 it’s usually not worth it.
Anyways, Alexis and Liam, you are both amazing people and I’m so excited to see all the wedding stuff that you will be uploading come time off your wedding. Soo happy for you both. (I’m originally from york but now like in wakey soo I’m basically a neighbour lol)
I don’t understand why people feel the need to try to cut people down. You have always been respectful and have always made it clear that your opinion is yours and that you are open to learn.
I wonder if Sam knows most people and not just people he doesn't like, create opinions from where they hang out and who they hang out with (ie: twitter ,Tumblr, bar interaction , family etc). Bro assumed, got it wrong and said nothing with his statement. Also the " you either against or with me" is so played out and at this point we can clearly see it's never a healthy mental, it always feels like someone who is power tripping in thinking they control your worth to other people.
Straight (I'm not using that poxy 'C' word!) male here, just piping up to say something positive as usual on your channel - I think you're cool AF, highly charismatic, generally pretty nuanced and with that cracking Leeds accent (I have a soft spot for Northerners!) I could listen to you for hours! Haters and trolls are always going to be abundant on here, but of course you are more than aware of that. Stay cool, hun and have a good day! 😎👌P.S. I'd actually take that comment about being "a British Blaire White" as a compliment personally! I follow her channel, that's how I was aware of yours as it popped up in my recommended feed 😉
Yes, that’s how it is. If you’re learning and growing, your opinion, will change on some things as you become more experienced or educated on things but if you’re dumb you get stuck and you never go nowhere you never learn nothing and you keep your mind closed. 🥰 9:16
Have seen a few mean comments about you on X and i am so glad to see you are taking the high road with it all.. you do you some people are never gonna get it so water of a ducks back eh!! Also great vid!! Proud of us brits 😁
Love Blair White but you are definitely sweeter in your opinions. We all love you and your gentler delivery.
Alexis Blake is the most genuine, honest, positive, and kind MTF trans people on the planet. The fact Alexis knows s/he will always be a man, sets her apart from the typical, angry, deluded, mean-spirited, “I am a real woman, you bigot!” trans women. I applaud you for so many reasons, but mostly because you are keeping it real. Stay strong Alexis, and remember, more people love and appreciate you than those who don’t. ❤ You do more good than harm with your honest opinions. (FYI: As an XX real woman myself, I have zero tolerance for the other MTF folk who insist they are real women. And that’s why I have the utmost respect for you ❤). I wish all trans women shared your Honesty)
Lol I commented on that video of his defending you and those crazy fuckers are calling me “cis” to make me mad. They are so tolerant and understanding that it makes me life their hypocrisy 😂.
Would just disregard any "pick me" comments, its pretty much anyone who doesn't wholeheartedly agree with trans ideology and femisnism gets called this. Would regard being called a british blaire white as a complement, end of there no bigger ""pick me" then those afraid to give their own viewpoint
Which of your communities is he referring to, though? He's American, you're British, for example. He is *assuming* all trans communities are culturally identical to America.
Very true xx
These hate comments are just plain Jealousy, You are so Polite, intelligent and a good communicator and much more goodness..., You are a good Human and Lovely and look like and act like a Lady..., To all the Haters do not talk about Her Mother or Loved One's You idiots....
You are so absolutely graceful. You're in good company with Blaire, Buck, Marcus, Sara, Jessica, & Eden.
Don't worry about the LGBTQIA+ OR the people who really don't understand. I'm sorry that the fake T's have changed the discussion & focused on them when real trans people are just trying to live their lives.
I love that you acknowledge your biology which most fake trans won't do. I've found that real trans women respect our spaces as opposed to AGP who get excited by controlling others. We don't agree with those people at the end. Many of us women can appreciate that you acknowledge biology & when you do that we can focus on the things we DO have in common instead of focusing on the trivial biological difference. You respect women & we respect you for it. 🩷
a diet blaire white! best compliment ever
I've said this before, but your videos helped someone I know to overcome their misgivings about trans people. I'm not going to hate on Sam Collins either, but let's just say that his videos would've more likely done the opposite. Keep up your moderate, reasonable outlook. Keep up your respect and empathy for differing views. Keep up your confidence and also your humility. Keep up your refusal to sink to any haters' level. Oh, and your fashion sense too!
I feel like you acknowledge your biology all the time. The people that comment that stupid stuff haven't even watched you
You have more of a down-to-earth delivery than Blaire White does. Well, I love both you and Blair. You are a lot more elegant in your phasing of your opinions . Where Blair is kind of aggressive with hers.
This person doesn't know you at all! You do wonders for the trans community and educating people in what it means to live as a transwoman in the UK. I'm happy to know you are here, in my country, with your fiance - you're both lovely!
This person sounds like he thinks there's a "trans mafia" who will come for you if you don't "do trans" his way!
You are ALWAYS respectful of natal women and I love you for it :) And you sound feminine to anyone with ears!
So this is why I watch a variety of people. I’ve never found you to offensive to women whatever, you’re the most natural person I’ve seen, it doesn’t feel like a big explosive thing you’re trying to set off. You’re kind and people forget that we’re ALLOWED to have opinions. I’m a bisexual female. I have no issues with you because you’re not walking around calling me a “birthing person” which is dehumanizing and ironic to me frankly. You’re solid, don’t worry about it. ❤
You are the best ❤
I haven’t watched all the video yet, I’m about half way through..but I just want to say something…I am not trans, but I support the community. I enjoy listening to you and your thoughts on things. I actually think you, for want of a better way to say this, are a great stepping stone for others to accept and understand the community. You are easy to listen to, accept there are many different feelings from people, and you deliver your message with kindness and compassion. You don’t have extreme views…and personally I think you do and can reach many people and at least getting them to start thinking about accepting everyone is their own person and different..everyone has a story, everyone is worthy..everyone should be their authentic selves. Time on this earth is short….we all have a journey..so yeah…I appreciate you being here and sharing..😀
Wow! Girl! That is so your colour! The dress/top and your makeup.
You are so very tolerant of the criticisms and nastiness that these haters send to you.
I sent a message to a RUclipsr, living in Yorkshire, from the South, living with an Ex Rugby Player a couple of months ago, correcting his Grammar on one particular phrase he used.
So shocked at his response, it wasn't even that bad, one tiny Americanism he used, which Brit's don't use (but obviously we do now?, and he was overly upset by my comment).
It's the ex English and Drama Degree that fires my critique regarding bad Grammar, and I also make mistakes myself.
Decided to un-subscribe as the diatribe was totally uncalled for and unnecessary.
My point....if one puts oneself on a public platform, one should expect a little criticism,.
Nastiness is not acceptable however.
You and Liam are great, and your Grammar is.....just Yorkshire. As a Yorkshire man I understand that, Yorkshire can be a totally different language at times.
Great as always Alexis -x-
Hey biological woman here! You are the most respectful voice in the trans community and it is always a joy to listen to you.
6:33 HAHA that comment was so badly worded wtf i got bored too 😭😭
Well Alexis we think you're gorgeous, level headed, intelligent with your opinions and just an all round lovely woman.
People who leave toxic/mean comments really have something wrong with them deep inside. Just be nice to other people. It's not that hard and it's not that deep 😒
Alexis, I can’t commend you enough for exposing the harmful rhetoric and propaganda the trans activists have pushed. Thank you for this. While Blaire White may be quite extreme on the right side and Sam Collins extreme on the left, you are a breath of fresh air because of your moderate and calm position. Thank you for all you do!
Point two. If every trans person was as respectful as you, transphobia would virtually disappear overnight.
Is this a joke? Lol Do you think transphobia is in response to rude trans people!? What? 😮
@ I believe a lot of transphobia is in response to radical trans activism. In exactly the same way I, as a gay man, believe that a lot of homophobia is a direct result of radical gay activists pushing their poisonous agenda. These people don’t represent me, and they never have.
I absolutely LOVE that you made a video addressing the 'haters'! In my opinion, it just proves that you truly are a good person. Thank you. ❤
Some people must hate themselves to not be able to deal with different opinions, this is why i don't want to be part of the community and this cultist vibe. Alexis, you're always respectful, and it's refreshing to see a diversity of opinions.
You are the nicest person in the world and your opinions are so legit and you express them politely. Can’t believe a person would make a disgusting video like this on you
i know im repeating what everyone else is saying, but you are so calm, kind, and bring a refreshing air of peace on the internet, which is notorious for being a place of polarization, extremism, and plain disrespect. thank you alexis!
Love you Blaire and Buck you are all different in delivery and yet similar in questioning/ challenging narratives in the trans community. I like all the different levels that you all come at it with.
I really appreciate your honesty in who you are and that you are showing up and being authentic, it's inspiring me to do the same. It's not always easy so we should be celebrating each other not critising!
I follow because 1 We think so alike 2 you give a fair view from both side (not that we should have side) and because you inspire me to be me xx
I'm glad you deal with haters and naysayers with grace and class. We need more people like you who see things from a nuanced lens and deliver your points in a diplomatic way.
There are several mental illnesses that cause people to say hateful things. I don't know of any that cause a person to be so fair minded. I stumbled upon your channel and am so glad I did. I relate to you so much! I try to see both sides of an argument, but usually get attacked by both sides because I don't see things from an extreme viewpoint.