The first time I went to Europe, it suddenly struck me how poorly most Americans (including myself) dress. People dress much more consciously there, and even for a simple night out or running errands, they are smartly and appropriately dressed. China, on the other hand, loves logos. It's so important to show that you have money that everything has to be adorned with logos. And it's not all just knock-off stuff. There is a ton of money there in places like Shanghai, and all the luxury brands have their biggest stores there because the market for logoed or easily recognized brands is huge.
I think (and it's not a sign but rather a reason) that many men are actually not confident enough to try dressing well, they're afraid of going out of their comfort zone, away from style they knew from early teenage years on or from their main influences that didn't dress well either. I used to be afraid to try new styles because I immediately thought "this wouldn't suit me, I look ridiculously, I can't wear this" when, in fact, not trying had this effect.
@@tasjourney7778 What's right are these lads' sponsors. Imagine taking seriously the opinions of an advertiser. At least your friend isn't on the take.
I also think a lot of it has to do with the way you’re raised. A lot of people who’ve always been in more formal situations, corporate jobs, grew up with rich business parents, etc you’re gonna have an easier time figuring out certain situations as you’re trained for it.
@@tasjourney7778always go with what you genuinely like and feel comfortable in. If you want to get “better” at dressing yourself, focus on that first and then move on to finding good/higher quality versions, good fitting stuff, etc
Also bad when there are youre parents who say it would be strange to wear a blazer, to formal. I could do it if i would want to, I am 18, but it is demotivating.
@@jimbojimbo6873 this was me for most of my life, I am starting to care more, but I really used to just see no point in wearing clothes that are more expensive and slightly less comfortable just to impress strangers.
It's based on the flawed assumption that some people are pretending not to care. Bullshit. I genuinely didn't care about dressing up all proper like two years ago. He's pretending like dressing up is as natural an instinct as eating. It's an egoistical and selfish statement refusing to acknowledge that not all people share his thought process.
The funny thing is every time you pop up the guy in the cargo shorts, I’m thinking “I see nothing wrong there.” The guy is comfortable, the shorts are not overly baggy and clearly it is intentional. There are definitely times, particularly during summer months, where a tee and cargo shorts is exactly right.
Ask a woman about cargo shorts. 10 times out of 10 they will tell you they hate them. Men shouldn’t be wearing cargo shorts at all. I read about this and I’ve asked a few women in my life, including my wife, if that’s true and everyone of them said they could not stand cargo shorts. I had to admit I was very surprised. I had a few pairs as well and got rid of them.
@@BrockMcGoffhey man, I love your content and I have a question: how to dress correctly in hot weather? I mean, I live in Brazil and down here it’s almost always hot. November, December, January, February and march are insane hot. I know that flip flops are a big no no for you but how not to use it in places like Brazil?
As someone who didnt give a crap for a solid 15 years. Looking back it's kind of sad to see. I'd have T-shirts with the collar streched out and the T-shirt being worn to crap so it just didnt sit properly. Bunch of extra fabric around the stomach for example. Just a tiny bit of effort makes a big difference.
I'm glad I'm not an offender in any of these style mishaps. That being said, I'm pretty much abhorrently against the white sneakers trend today. Unless you stay on top of them by cleaning every time you have a moment, they can ruin a clean-looking outfit with scuffs, stains, yellowing, etc. A white trim or laces is fine but fir longevity's sake, I'll stick to darker shoes.
I clean my white AirForce1 Sneakers every other time I wear them. I have made it a habit. I use a simple toothbrush and a small amount of detergent-water solution for the shoe. As for the laces, I have 2 pairs of white laces. I use one for 2-3 wear, then I exchange it and the dirty one is put to wash the same day.
I love my white sneakers, and I clean them after every wear simply with Costco baby wipe. It literally took a couple of minutes ever time. It’s not hard. I just cannot stand dirty shoes
same, darker sneakers a bit easier to match, also dont have to worry about stains as much. Though lighter sneakers bring different styles in I do admit.
Going out for drinks with friends or lunch with my wife vs panic rush to the grocery store at 11pm... two completely different levels of caring what I look like. I don't judge anyone at 11pm in the grocery store, or 7am for that matter. Night shifters, I got you fam.
The trick is to only own clothes that make you look great. My rushed 11pm grocery store outfit is still much dressier than the outfit most people where to the office
@@robd7934 Slides (if they're what I think they are ) are a debate on Scout Camp at the moment. Convenient if you need to pop out of your tent in the night (as long as the ground is dry), but is there increased risk of ticks if you're walking around with partially uncovered feet?
Here in the Uk there seems to be a trend of wearing sweat pants and sliders, absolutely everywhere, and where I live, there is a guy in his 70's who always wears sports shorts all year round. I think people should wear what they like, but not to the point of looking ridiculous.
I agree with this video honestly, I use clothing as a way to project not only my current image but the image of who I want to be, it’s essentially wearing my life goal on my sleeve, showing that I don’t just want to be the man I am, I chase the man I could be.
"Improperly" dressed men are only ever actively communicating a need to be perceived as indifferent to public opinion...? That is 1000% false. Men might dress "poorly" for all sorts of reasons. Financial reasons, higher priorities, or true, healthy self-forgetfulness to name a few.
@luke5100 it’s laugh-out-loud hilarious to attribute a man’s lack of fashion to their intentional commitment to an image of indifference. It justifies narcissism, turning it in to a heroic act. I totally agree that there’s a lot of guys out there that don’t really care that much for fashion, and have different hobbies. Doesn’t mean they’re trying to project an image of indifference 🤣
I used to follow your blog when you were transitioning from your day job as a graphic designer (i think) it’s great to see that you have a massed such a following, turns out clothing for modestly sized men was a topic worth discussing. Cheers Brock!!
I totally agree. Showing no effort is a reflection of the self. Especially in more specific things like skin care and hair. Dry lips are not cute my guys. The rest is subjective and debatable. You can mix match and add different texture to a fit that adds a dimensional element of couture, you can use a monogram which a lot of designers to make a look stand out. Not everyone is a midwesterner who where’s neutrals color theory is different from one person to the next. Fashion itself is multi lingual and dialectic, but I do appreciate those who put in the effort.
This made me chuckle, I've searched for a video looking for the answer to why I should care about clothing, and the guy in the video and you convinced me that I have no reason to. The reason is this, men past the age 30 who dedicate half an hour every day to style their hair, and plan out what to wear for the day are feminine men, they are nothing to look up to. And how about leaving yourselves out of the story of someone else's poor looks? If I, a stranger would want to offend you I would need to give a s hit about you first. Keep styling your hair and beard, people will not care about you the same amount.
You mention the risks of being "too colorful" but whenever I put on wildly colored batik shirt or Hawaiian shirt, I'm told I look totally normal... and I was the kind of kid that was invisible in high school.
This an amazing guideline and I think it is great advice in general. It is important to remember that every rule has an exception. If you love that t-shirt that’s a size to big, don’t be scared to wear it! Fashion is all about self expression, its ok to go outside the norm. I love this guide on how to look like you care about what you wear, after all you have to know the rules before you can break them!
When I started to listen to this video, I thought that I would be guilty of all of them but no... I feel that dressing well also has to do with your lifestyle and your occupation. If I was asked the way I like to dress, I would look like a "vintage Dapper Dan", dressed like a "mob boss". And yes, I happen to do so, feel comfortable and very much feel like myself. However, I can't dress like that every day because I have two jobs, one of them being a cleaning agent. Some times in a month, I would also do some outdoor job. But I haven't found any way to look more formal, with an outfit which would fit my two occupations. I dress like an ordinary guy in his early 20s (I am 10 years older) and lucky me, I look like that age with my small high (158cm) and my baby face, though I never dressed with sweat pants, clothes with shouting logos and never liked bright colors. But deep inside me, I wish I could dress better. Any ideas or suggestions for people in my case?
Try. Don't try too hard. It's okay to try. If you try, you'll need to replace this stuff in 2 months anyways. Replace what you're using with my sponsored product. Good fit is important. What fits you best is comfortable, it works for you. Your clothes shouldn't be too comfortable, they work against you. Some people sit on the fence, but you manage to jump with somersaults around it.
Lol. Sometimes I used to look stupid because I'd have clothes that were functional but didn't look good. Like I'd wear a Trench coat with a cowboy hat because it was raining. And people used to think I was trying hard to show people I din't care, when I just didn't wanna get rained on...
Just read a couple of your blogs, well said. I find that a couple of things are always left out. For instance color palettes are often regional, I remember early in my career was a recognition that color east vs middle vs west are different in color, weight, shade and tone. Then I read success which amplified some of my beliefs. I was influenced by my father who dressed well, as musician as well as business person (always planning for future events). He wore bespoke clothes down to his Pendletons which he handed down to me and I got many extra years of stylish wear out of. This was a guy who wore Zoot suits in 40's for gig's and a natty double breasted for after hours.A fan of wools, wool/silk wool/cotton in different weights depending where he was East Coast was different then West and St. Louis famous the acceptance of naturals and browns as well as the type of overcoat one might wear as well as shoes. It said you are a local. Sometimes I think that "you can wear anything" is part of a individual local aura with cut and paste on the side. People in years pass always made fun of Western wear (yes suits) but it was a nod to regional history. Just as historically in the middle ages French clothing and style was different from English or German. Anyway your thoughts struck a chord with me. To repeat well said please continue.
I do spend time and effort on dressing “properly “ but I really don’t want to get along with ppl by dressing well , don’t have a reason to do so. I am just so done with the social aspect of it, I don’t dress to please anyone else. I don’t care and really no one should.
Great video! Wearing shorts all the time is a tell for me. For a bit of context, I live in the UK so it’s not a hot country, relatively speaking. This October has been unseasonably warm but it isn’t shorts weather! I think it speaks to the comfort over everything else attitude you mentioned in the video.
You've really put this into perspective for me. I've been dressing in badly fitting outfits and clothes that are way too old for as long as I can remember
I'm starting very late (I blame autism) but finally learning about style going into my 40s. Videos like this are very helpful! I love the idea of getting timeless basics right and not chasing trends.
Don’t worry , I also started late in my appreciation of dressing well . I was a part of the punk generation X and while we had some style it was usually a it of a jarring style . It’s never too late to appreciate beautiful clothes that are well made , well suited and well worn and it needn’t cost a fortune either . Just a well considered suit , blazer , shirt, trousers , coat and shoes that might cost a little more at first but will last a lifetime , seems worth it in contrast to buying the latest fashion that is usually not appropriate for us , is cheaply and hurriedly made and having to throw it out every year or so. I learnt that fashion and style are very different things .it might just take us a while to learn how to appreciate our own style without chasing the superficialities of fashion . When I see old footage from the 20s up to the 1950s I’m envious of how easily people seem to look,so elegant and stylish almost without trying .which is perhaps the perfect example of style . It’s als9 so much nicer and rewarding to be confident in one’s own classic style and clothing and it perhaps allows us more time to be concerned about what is important in life , which being well dressed seems to also help us recognize ! It’s a win win .!
I started to put in effort when I hit 30. I used to have worn out T-shirts where the collar is all loose and looks terrible. I'd legit have the same t-shirts I used to wear when I was 10 years younger.
There are literally men who don't care what they wear and let their wives pick all of their clothes for them, and they wear discounted tennis shoes for comfort -- my dad being one of them. We've desperately tried to get him to care over the years, but he has this innocent aloof reaction that gets us to stop pushing the issue, lmao.
You got my attention on this and frankly speaking you've helped lots of guys who luck skills in this department....and thanks for an insight into the weekend bag. I'll get me one in a nice colour
My advice on trends is similar to what you said in the video, to use them as opportunities to try stuff out. For instance, I recently started wearing relaxed pants due to the trend. They work well on my long and slim frame, but it's probably never something I would have just tried instinctually. It's good to be plugged in a bit to these things so you can try switching up your look every now and then, and even find long-term favorites.
Fit is up there. I think a lot of guys choose weird colour pairings as well. I think my biggest blind spot has been not being aware of the "rules" between certain clothing items and where they can fall between the casual-formal scale. I've learned a lot from videos like these. Thank you!
Great video! Everything that was said was spot on. I'm a young teen trying to dress well and your video really helped me fix up some of my mistakes. Thank you!
Hi Brock, Love your presentation. My only divergence is in the wearing of what I call a copy of a high end wrist watch. I have a small collection of what I call tasteful interpretation of a high end watch. To me they are jewelry or accessories. Being of Millionaire status , I can easily afford most of the watches on the market aside from the jewelled ones worth millions. I see money as energy and there are so many other experiences and substances I would rather spend my money on. I have been able to buy beautifully designed copies here in Asia over the past three decades. Being retired and secure in myself how people see me is there problem. Keep up the great advice, a lot of which is common sense and minimalist which is my style.
Made the mistake working graveyard shift in lounge trousers, no interaction with outside people so no harm no foul but still got laughed at by coworkers. Touche
Well done. Informative. Well-paced. You have a great understated delivery. Great job. I tell people who work for me that I really only want them to present themselves in outfits that are clean, that are tidy, and that fit. Messages you convey well. I really enjoy your channel and how you edit, design, and present great content. Thank you.
One must take culture into consideration. Some cultures traditionally wear lots of colors. Japanese Americana and Ivy League use many colors, patterns and fabrics.
One sign of a well-dressed guy is going a little beyond the standard safe colour combinations of grey pants, light blue or white shirts, and for the Fall season doing those little bit more interesting colours together, like grey and brown, camel and navy, taupe and charcoal.
I think some colour is good, otherwise your outfit can be seen as a bit boring. I wear fewer colours than I used to (rightly) but it’s about what the colour is, what context you’re wearing it in, and what the rest of your outfit is like. If I do wear something brighter, the rest of my outfit will be plain so as not to be OTT. Brighter colours are more acceptable in the summer, I feel. Shades of colours is a good way to add more colour but not go too extreme. Blue is a great colour for that and you can pair shades of blue if you do it right!
Great video, as usual. Loved the nod to Shakespeare with "protest too much". There's a great quote in Hamlet too, when Polonius says "The apparel oft proclaims the man." This is why clothes matter.
Several years ago, say around 75 years old, I became drawn into the Celtic/Viking/Galic look. I went so far as to pierce one ear, high sides in my haircut style. So I ran with this for a year and a half now. By now I have drawn back from the very high sides and trimmed down on "flash jewelry" to a more conservative. older gent appearance. Changes in my wardrobe have also been a work in progress. First, it was crash-looking "T"s and colored jeans. Now my trend is more solid or small textured shirts (Both dress and casual). I find the stand-up collar to look simple and stylish. Also known as the Maderine Coller, I wish to get your impression of that look for older guys in my age bracket.
Hey, i'm one of the guys that you trend on comparing to, a poorly dressed up man. Yes, this biped is guilty of wearing some of the most unapealing combos, from a bit off to way in off in left field. I do appreciate your help these days.
I agree with a lot of opinions stated here but breaking down what "bad style" is into some bullet points kinda gentrifies personal style; not to mention dressing well is super subjective. I feel like these tips definitely help the average person get a baseline of what traditionally looks good together, in terms of garments, silhouettes, materials, footware, etc. but making choices outside of the norm while in front of the mirror is what actually develops personal style. When everyone just wears slim fit chinos, white leather sneakers and a well fitting top it just takes the personal out of personal style. If you want to dress well, first find what you are comfortable wearing and don't be afraid to experiment as being confident and enjoying what you put on everyday goes a long way into dressing well. I think the last point about being international and showing effort is what personal style is really about.
What you say is so true and like good taste, never gets old. What I always ask myself and say is that you have to know what you can get away with in your fashion choices based on age, body type, situation, etc. thanks
There's nothing wrong with emphasizing comfort. I disagree that dressing well is good manners. Doing anything to please complete strangers is compromising who you are as a person. I am very polite and well-mannered. What I wear has nothing to do with that.
I should add that I really enjoyed this video and I am trying to improve my style. This was informative and I did subscribe. I'm an old guy (62 ) and I tend to stay with neutral colors. They look best on me.
We do things to please strangers all the time. Holding the door. Saying please and thank you. Standing in line. It’s the courtesy and respect that makes civilized society pleasant. Purchasing well fitting and setting appropriate clothes is part of that polite presentation.
Idk man I’m only 5’5 and I’ve always liked fitted clothing. But lately I feel corny as hella wearing tapered denim and fitted shirts and jackets. The boxy silhouettes work as long as you get your proportions correct
I saw a talk show a while ago, and rather classy lady said she recently visited Europe, and the biggest culture shock was that the men actually dressed like gown up men, and not like scruffy little children.
I get it and you are right ofc but Im way to lazy for all these rules and always go for my polo shirt, jeans and white sneakers, only time I switch it up is if I reeeaally have to because of a wedding or something.😆
I’am guilty of mixing dress shirts in with my casual outfits because I can get better fitting shirts and I don’t have the issue of the pockets being to big or two low with me being short .
Superb video and spot on. All these celebrities wearing all black with the black dress shirt and tie look ridiculous. All of us could learn a great deal from looking at photos of how Cary Grant dressed all the time. During his career he would not go above 180 pounds. And he always dressed extremely well even on casual outings. When he retired, the 180 pound rule went out the window. But you will be hard-pressed to find any male Hollywood star that dresses like Cary Grant today. Your videos are done very well. Thank you.
Love your channel. I'm in the ski industry and almost everyone dresses like a child. Like you say, it's not hard to stand out and it's OK to try, people notice the effort.
However, there are still plenty of casual comfortable clothes that both adults and children are entitled to wear in casual places so there’s no age discrimination
My wife says I dress more stylishly than she does, and I take that as a compliment because she understands fashion and I generally don't pay attention to fashion or trends. Personal style is a thing.
Remember guys: - use shirt garters, the best way to have a shirt properly tucked in all day - a pair of dirty shoes can ruin the entire suit - learn the correct amount of cologne your skin needs - accessories are fantastic statement pieces because they are subtle - dress your body shape. Doesn’t matter how much I like Chelsea boots, they’ll never fit my rectangular torso. - even when you have to dress formally, remember: Sprezzatura is the answer. Enjoy.
Use garters? 😅 Hope that’s a joke! 🙈 Don’t spread such bad advice please ahaha And what’s that thing with the shape of your torso and Chelsea boots, you think too much man 😂
@@LuisMercadoorg It’s an ugly accessory that makes you look like a clown in my opinion. I strongly believe that investing in better quality shirts and taking them to the tailor if needed is a much better advice than wearing these anti-sexy things. Plus, if your shirt is not PERFECTLY tucked in, it is FINE. A suit is made to be worn and move with you, it will always have tiny imperfections, that’s also part of what makes it charming.
Guys who wear lots of logos at once or dress really trendy tend to be some combination of oblivious and arrogant, and that means they'll never take your advice. To them, fashion is all about showing off, and you'll never change them.
I love the way you put clothing as a form of respect. But as someone with unconventional style, is it a problem to wear what I like as long as I put effort?
I don’t think it’s ever a problem to wear what you like *as long* as you’re not ignoring context. In other words, be aware of and respect the setting/event. Prioritize that over self expression.
@@BrockMcGoff that’s spot on, the most important piece of fashion advice is dress for the occasion. Yes it’s a tired old trope but it bears repeating. I think about my clothing as two separate wardrobes. Traditional and non-traditional. I’m someone who enjoys fashion experimentation and I’m still young enough to do so without sticking out in the right context. So I have my more experimental, ephemeral wardrobe, but I know to clean up and I have my traditional wardrobe for everyday wear, which will last much longer. I think this approach works for a young guy with unconventional style who is looking for a way to continue expressing themselves using fashion as an art form, while at the same time building a longer lasting, more subdued wardrobe as you mature.
I'm retired now, but spent the better part of 25 years working at international airports. Suffice to say that I've seen my share of "well dressed", "smart casual", and "who cares". We all know people who are caught up in negativity. They don't see it, but we do. The same can be said, I believe, for people who wear lounge pants, shower slippers, hoodies, tank tops, cheap jeans, shirts hanging out from under a bomber jacket, Jack Hanna "outback" hats, etc, etc. I think they get stuck in a pattern of sloppy comfortable, and never get out. These are the same people who show up for a funeral, looking like they're going to a cocktail party. Totally lost. To each his own, I guess.
@@Saru-yr3qk You've obviously never had to sit next to a guy wearing a tank top. athletic shorts, and flip flops with feet that look like ROADKILL! Making a little bit of an effort is a sign of respect for others. Ideally, we want to be somewhere between pretentious, and a self absorbed slob!
@@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 Remember when your parents told you to "make your bed"?. This is no different. It's about "making the effort", which builds the foundation for your whole day.
If someone male or female goes out to popular places especially at night to eat and or drink wearing regular t shirts, shorts, etc.! Good dress habits: Matching your environment both night and day and purpose. At least look like you care.
I have changed over the 5 years depending on my mental health. I like smart clothing and where I live ( Spain) men usually wear comfy not too smart. I wear suit jackets quite often, chelsea boots in winter or loafers in summer. People usually compliment me or say I’m too smart since most guys wear t-ahir ya, Jeans and shorts and flip-flops in summer.
I think there’s some truth and values in this video, but I also think that dressing conservative and basic is fine, but you shouldn’t push your beliefs into others, some sees clothing as a form of self expression and if they want to break the stigma about how a pants and a shirt should fit I have no issues with that. Fashion is more than just a white t-shirt / navy pants / Ralph Lauren shoe and carrying a suit case. But again that just my opinion
The examples I use from Ethan Wong, Brian Sacawa and the FW22 J.Crew lookbook sort of prove your point: you can play with colors, silhouette, bolder pieces, etc. and look great. The "signs" I'm talking about in this video are usually seen on guys who aren't trying at all. Sometimes guys who are into fashion make these mistakes as they figure things out, but like I said in point #6, trying too hard is better than not trying at all. I've made plenty of mistakes along the way!
Sign of a well dressed guy is proper fit , well ironed clothing and using minimal colour combinations at one time ( I hate logo show ) . Excellent video dear ! Me a ent surgeon from India
I'm from NYC recently moved to Perryville Maryland and I stand out in this most people here don't care how they look. Wearing flip flops in a casino with jeans that don't fit and because it's a small town they don't care. I was told I over dress when I go out. Smh
There are also functional , rational reasons for certain clothing choices. Carrying a shoulder or back pack with a suit will be guaranteed to cause dark marks to be left on the cloth of the suit that can ruin it and be permanent . I’ve found that being well dressed is often the mix of material , form and function being correct and purposeful .
Only time I have to deal with logos is when I'm playing soccer. You just can't escape it. So instead I find as plain and simple designs I can and match the brand on all clothing.
I hear ya. I deal with the same thing in BJJ. It's almost impossible to find a gi or rashguard without loud branding. But hey, function over form when it comes to sports!
Everyone is down on cargo shorts but they have their place, like during the weekend while working in the yard or around the house, and even a weekend visit to Home Depot for supplies. Maybe it's a suburb thing? Anyway, just discovered your channel and subscribed.
The first time I went to Europe, it suddenly struck me how poorly most Americans (including myself) dress. People dress much more consciously there, and even for a simple night out or running errands, they are smartly and appropriately dressed.
China, on the other hand, loves logos. It's so important to show that you have money that everything has to be adorned with logos. And it's not all just knock-off stuff. There is a ton of money there in places like Shanghai, and all the luxury brands have their biggest stores there because the market for logoed or easily recognized brands is huge.
Yes we are complete slobs... I've seen people dress in t-shirts & jeans going to Theater ...
Great video. As i age, I'm having issues with staying current without looking to youthful in my athletic wear outside the workplace.
I think (and it's not a sign but rather a reason) that many men are actually not confident enough to try dressing well, they're afraid of going out of their comfort zone, away from style they knew from early teenage years on or from their main influences that didn't dress well either.
I used to be afraid to try new styles because I immediately thought "this wouldn't suit me, I look ridiculously, I can't wear this" when, in fact, not trying had this effect.
Im scared because everything I like is a no-no lol I have a friend who is a fashion guy and everytime I pick out clothes he always says it’s wrong 😑
@@tasjourney7778 What's right are these lads' sponsors. Imagine taking seriously the opinions of an advertiser. At least your friend isn't on the take.
I also think a lot of it has to do with the way you’re raised. A lot of people who’ve always been in more formal situations, corporate jobs, grew up with rich business parents, etc you’re gonna have an easier time figuring out certain situations as you’re trained for it.
@@tasjourney7778always go with what you genuinely like and feel comfortable in. If you want to get “better” at dressing yourself, focus on that first and then move on to finding good/higher quality versions, good fitting stuff, etc
Also bad when there are youre parents who say it would be strange to wear a blazer, to formal. I could do it if i would want to, I am 18, but it is demotivating.
"It's OK to care. It's OK to try." Great advice and wise words.
Its ok to also not care
If someones clothing brings you discomfort or even makes you feel bad for them then lol, you got issues
Yeah, lets not care about anything, that is great
@@BonyArt6 Yeah, let's make fashion the most important thing in life. I'm sure that will work out well for you.
@@jimbojimbo6873 this was me for most of my life, I am starting to care more, but I really used to just see no point in wearing clothes that are more expensive and slightly less comfortable just to impress strangers.
It's based on the flawed assumption that some people are pretending not to care. Bullshit. I genuinely didn't care about dressing up all proper like two years ago. He's pretending like dressing up is as natural an instinct as eating. It's an egoistical and selfish statement refusing to acknowledge that not all people share his thought process.
The funny thing is every time you pop up the guy in the cargo shorts, I’m thinking “I see nothing wrong there.” The guy is comfortable, the shorts are not overly baggy and clearly it is intentional. There are definitely times, particularly during summer months, where a tee and cargo shorts is exactly right.
Ask a woman about cargo shorts. 10 times out of 10 they will tell you they hate them. Men shouldn’t be wearing cargo shorts at all. I read about this and I’ve asked a few women in my life, including my wife, if that’s true and everyone of them said they could not stand cargo shorts. I had to admit I was very surprised. I had a few pairs as well and got rid of them.
I don’t expect women to dress for my pleasure at all times, why should I dress for theirs?
Woohoo! Thanks for the shout out, Brock. Great to see you.
Cheers, Brian!
@@BrockMcGoffhey man, I love your content and I have a question: how to dress correctly in hot weather? I mean, I live in Brazil and down here it’s almost always hot. November, December, January, February and march are insane hot. I know that flip flops are a big no no for you but how not to use it in places like Brazil?
@@Brandon_letsgo Wear canvas sneakers or suede loafers.
11:21 Thanks for the shoutout. I'd say the number one sign of a poorly dressed man is a mauve t-shirt.
I see what you did there...
As someone who didnt give a crap for a solid 15 years. Looking back it's kind of sad to see. I'd have T-shirts with the collar streched out and the T-shirt being worn to crap so it just didnt sit properly. Bunch of extra fabric around the stomach for example.
Just a tiny bit of effort makes a big difference.
I'm glad I'm not an offender in any of these style mishaps. That being said, I'm pretty much abhorrently against the white sneakers trend today. Unless you stay on top of them by cleaning every time you have a moment, they can ruin a clean-looking outfit with scuffs, stains, yellowing, etc. A white trim or laces is fine but fir longevity's sake, I'll stick to darker shoes.
Fair enough! I actually like an off white for that reason, but I also prefer the slightly dirty look over the bright white (totally clean) look.
I clean my white AirForce1 Sneakers every other time I wear them. I have made it a habit. I use a simple toothbrush and a small amount of detergent-water solution for the shoe. As for the laces, I have 2 pairs of white laces. I use one for 2-3 wear, then I exchange it and the dirty one is put to wash the same day.
I love my white sneakers, and I clean them after every wear simply with Costco baby wipe. It literally took a couple of minutes ever time. It’s not hard. I just cannot stand dirty shoes
I'm glad I'm not the only one who dislikes wearing white sneakers!
same, darker sneakers a bit easier to match, also dont have to worry about stains as much. Though lighter sneakers bring different styles in I do admit.
I'm an American guy born in USA. Most of my brethren seem like they should walk around in a T-shirt that says I DRINK BEER.
Same, unfortunately.
‘merica
Going out for drinks with friends or lunch with my wife vs panic rush to the grocery store at 11pm... two completely different levels of caring what I look like. I don't judge anyone at 11pm in the grocery store, or 7am for that matter. Night shifters, I got you fam.
true, but having a lot of basic clothes helps
The trick is to only own clothes that make you look great. My rushed 11pm grocery store outfit is still much dressier than the outfit most people where to the office
Indeed. I can't imagine getting on a 17 hour flight and caring what I look like. Comfort all the way.
The idea that looking good equates somehow to less comfortable is one of the more tragic misunderstandings of dressing well.
@@ahwhite2022 Agreed
i think its ok to dress for comfort at the airport.. loungepants and slides sounds nice when im suffering on an airplane
i dress for comfort everywhere
@@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 As do I. The Fashion Police haven't come knocking yet.
I only wear slides to walk my dogs or around the house. Under no circumstances would I wear them to go anywhere
@@robd7934 Slides (if they're what I think they are ) are a debate on Scout Camp at the moment. Convenient if you need to pop out of your tent in the night (as long as the ground is dry), but is there increased risk of ticks if you're walking around with partially uncovered feet?
Here in the Uk there seems to be a trend of wearing sweat pants and sliders, absolutely everywhere, and where I live, there is a guy in his 70's who always wears sports shorts all year round. I think people should wear what they like, but not to the point of looking ridiculous.
Steve .... Ridiculous? To the kids, that's how you look.
The 70 + year old guy may have feet that hurt if he does wear sports shoes.
I agree with this video honestly, I use clothing as a way to project not only my current image but the image of who I want to be, it’s essentially wearing my life goal on my sleeve, showing that I don’t just want to be the man I am, I chase the man I could be.
As an editor, watching your content. Its so clean and easy to watch, almost like soothing. So carry on! :)
Thank you!
i felt that way too!
"Improperly" dressed men are only ever actively communicating a need to be perceived as indifferent to public opinion...? That is 1000% false. Men might dress "poorly" for all sorts of reasons. Financial reasons, higher priorities, or true, healthy self-forgetfulness to name a few.
@luke5100 it’s laugh-out-loud hilarious to attribute a man’s lack of fashion to their intentional commitment to an image of indifference. It justifies narcissism, turning it in to a heroic act.
I totally agree that there’s a lot of guys out there that don’t really care that much for fashion, and have different hobbies. Doesn’t mean they’re trying to project an image of indifference 🤣
@luke5100 yes, I got that 👍
I used to follow your blog when you were transitioning from your day job as a graphic designer (i think) it’s great to see that you have a massed such a following, turns out clothing for modestly sized men was a topic worth discussing. Cheers Brock!!
Wow thank you! My last job was in digital marketing and SEO. That feels like ages ago haha!
I totally agree. Showing no effort is a reflection of the self. Especially in more specific things like skin care and hair. Dry lips are not cute my guys. The rest is subjective and debatable. You can mix match and add different texture to a fit that adds a dimensional element of couture, you can use a monogram which a lot of designers to make a look stand out. Not everyone is a midwesterner who where’s neutrals color theory is different from one person to the next. Fashion itself is multi lingual and dialectic, but I do appreciate those who put in the effort.
When u are in hard labor jobs u dont have time to look stylish 🤦♂️ and in no way does should it offend anyone; this dude is delusional
Never said I was offended by anything. This has nothing to do with work wear. Read the name of the video.
This made me chuckle, I've searched for a video looking for the answer to why I should care about clothing, and the guy in the video and you convinced me that I have no reason to.
The reason is this, men past the age 30 who dedicate half an hour every day to style their hair, and plan out what to wear for the day are feminine men, they are nothing to look up to.
And how about leaving yourselves out of the story of someone else's poor looks? If I, a stranger would want to offend you I would need to give a s hit about you first.
Keep styling your hair and beard, people will not care about you the same amount.
You mention the risks of being "too colorful" but whenever I put on wildly colored batik shirt or Hawaiian shirt, I'm told I look totally normal... and I was the kind of kid that was invisible in high school.
This an amazing guideline and I think it is great advice in general. It is important to remember that every rule has an exception. If you love that t-shirt that’s a size to big, don’t be scared to wear it! Fashion is all about self expression, its ok to go outside the norm. I love this guide on how to look like you care about what you wear, after all you have to know the rules before you can break them!
Your soft spoken & masterful videos are a godsend for us Brock. Keep being awesome & we appreciate what you're doing to help us be more stylish :)
When I started to listen to this video, I thought that I would be guilty of all of them but no...
I feel that dressing well also has to do with your lifestyle and your occupation. If I was asked the way I like to dress, I would look like a "vintage Dapper Dan", dressed like a "mob boss". And yes, I happen to do so, feel comfortable and very much feel like myself.
However, I can't dress like that every day because I have two jobs, one of them being a cleaning agent. Some times in a month, I would also do some outdoor job. But I haven't found any way to look more formal, with an outfit which would fit my two occupations.
I dress like an ordinary guy in his early 20s (I am 10 years older) and lucky me, I look like that age with my small high (158cm) and my baby face, though I never dressed with sweat pants, clothes with shouting logos and never liked bright colors. But deep inside me, I wish I could dress better.
Any ideas or suggestions for people in my case?
Try. Don't try too hard. It's okay to try. If you try, you'll need to replace this stuff in 2 months anyways. Replace what you're using with my sponsored product. Good fit is important. What fits you best is comfortable, it works for you. Your clothes shouldn't be too comfortable, they work against you.
Some people sit on the fence, but you manage to jump with somersaults around it.
Lol. Sometimes I used to look stupid because I'd have clothes that were functional but didn't look good. Like I'd wear a Trench coat with a cowboy hat because it was raining. And people used to think I was trying hard to show people I din't care, when I just didn't wanna get rained on...
Just read a couple of your blogs, well said. I find that a couple of things are always left out. For instance color palettes are often regional, I remember early in my career was a recognition that color east vs middle vs west are different in color, weight, shade and tone. Then I read success which amplified some of my beliefs.
I was influenced by my father who dressed well, as musician as well as business person (always planning for future events). He wore bespoke clothes down to his Pendletons which he handed down to me and I got many extra years of stylish wear out of. This was a guy who wore Zoot suits in 40's for gig's and a natty double breasted for after hours.A fan of wools, wool/silk wool/cotton in different weights depending where he was East Coast was different then West and St. Louis famous the acceptance of naturals and browns as well as the type of overcoat one might wear as well as shoes. It said you are a local.
Sometimes I think that "you can wear anything" is part of a individual local aura with cut and paste on the side. People in years pass always made fun of Western wear (yes suits) but it was a nod to regional history. Just as historically in the middle ages French clothing and style was different from English or German. Anyway your thoughts struck a chord with me. To repeat well said please continue.
A lot of guys seem to think that just because they are in good shape, that they look good regardless of what they wear.
I do spend time and effort on dressing “properly “ but I really don’t want to get along with ppl by dressing well , don’t have a reason to do so. I am just so done with the social aspect of it, I don’t dress to please anyone else. I don’t care and really no one should.
i just wear what i find comfortable. also done with the social aspect
Bro I’ve been watching for years and you’re aging soooooo well. Loving the touch of salt and pepper hair
Much appreciated, sir!
Great video! Wearing shorts all the time is a tell for me. For a bit of context, I live in the UK so it’s not a hot country, relatively speaking. This October has been unseasonably warm but it isn’t shorts weather! I think it speaks to the comfort over everything else attitude you mentioned in the video.
Oh man, don't get me started on the shorts situation!
In the Southern US it's triple digits for 3 months so I wear shorts and button down shirts.
As always Mr Modest-great and relevant advice.
You've really put this into perspective for me. I've been dressing in badly fitting outfits and clothes that are way too old for as long as I can remember
there’s no wrong way to do fashion as long as you like what your wearing!
What if you love wearing shorts and flip flops to a funeral?
True if you want to look sloppy, lazy and overall not appealling. Freedooom!!!
@@BrockMcGoffi don't think that's wrong. i don't think funerals should be formal anyway
I'm starting very late (I blame autism) but finally learning about style going into my 40s. Videos like this are very helpful! I love the idea of getting timeless basics right and not chasing trends.
Don’t worry , I also started late in my appreciation of dressing well . I was a part of the punk generation X and while we had some style it was usually a it of a jarring style . It’s never too late to appreciate beautiful clothes that are well made , well suited and well worn and it needn’t cost a fortune either . Just a well considered suit , blazer , shirt, trousers , coat and shoes that might cost a little more at first but will last a lifetime , seems worth it in contrast to buying the latest fashion that is usually not appropriate for us , is cheaply and hurriedly made and having to throw it out every year or so.
I learnt that fashion and style are very different things .it might just take us a while to learn how to appreciate our own style without chasing the superficialities of fashion . When I see old footage from the 20s up to the 1950s I’m envious of how easily people seem to look,so elegant and stylish almost without trying .which is perhaps the perfect example of style .
It’s als9 so much nicer and rewarding to be confident in one’s own classic style and clothing and it perhaps allows us more time to be concerned about what is important in life , which being well dressed seems to also help us recognize ! It’s a win win .!
I started to put in effort when I hit 30. I used to have worn out T-shirts where the collar is all loose and looks terrible. I'd legit have the same t-shirts I used to wear when I was 10 years younger.
Great video. I was at style con in 2016 I and I saw you there. Very well dressed and very polite. I love your work.
Oh man, I miss Stylecon! Hope you've been doing well!
There are literally men who don't care what they wear and let their wives pick all of their clothes for them, and they wear discounted tennis shoes for comfort -- my dad being one of them. We've desperately tried to get him to care over the years, but he has this innocent aloof reaction that gets us to stop pushing the issue, lmao.
“For you or against you”…love it! Great points. Enjoyed, laughed, 🤙🏻
You got my attention on this and frankly speaking you've helped lots of guys who luck skills in this department....and thanks for an insight into the weekend bag. I'll get me one in a nice colour
My advice on trends is similar to what you said in the video, to use them as opportunities to try stuff out. For instance, I recently started wearing relaxed pants due to the trend. They work well on my long and slim frame, but it's probably never something I would have just tried instinctually. It's good to be plugged in a bit to these things so you can try switching up your look every now and then, and even find long-term favorites.
Fit is up there. I think a lot of guys choose weird colour pairings as well. I think my biggest blind spot has been not being aware of the "rules" between certain clothing items and where they can fall between the casual-formal scale. I've learned a lot from videos like these. Thank you!
Great video! Everything that was said was spot on. I'm a young teen trying to dress well and your video really helped me fix up some of my mistakes. Thank you!
Hi Brock, Love your presentation. My only divergence is in the wearing of what I call a copy of a high end wrist watch. I have a small collection of what I call tasteful interpretation of a high end watch. To me they are jewelry or accessories. Being of Millionaire status , I can easily afford most of the watches on the market aside from the jewelled ones worth millions. I see money as energy and there are so many other experiences and substances I would rather spend my money on. I have been able to buy beautifully designed copies here in Asia over the past three decades. Being retired and secure in myself how people see me is there problem. Keep up the great advice, a lot of which is common sense and minimalist which is my style.
A well dressed man, takes good care of his shoes. Clean ,fresh laces a good shine and matched to level of dress.😇
your cloths are either working for you or against you.
what a great line
Nice jeans and a neutral shirt, a warm vest if it is cool outside looks nice. Boots of the right style always set you off nicely.
Life is too short to let some guy on the internet tell me what I shouldn't wear.
That said, I love the shade, and do appreciate your style.
Finally someone said about wearing logos. Ultimately, the logo is just a brand controlled by a board of directors. Nothing cool about it.
Made the mistake working graveyard shift in lounge trousers, no interaction with outside people so no harm no foul but still got laughed at by coworkers. Touche
Well done. Informative. Well-paced. You have a great understated delivery. Great job.
I tell people who work for me that I really only want them to present themselves in outfits that are clean, that are tidy, and that fit. Messages you convey well. I really enjoy your channel and how you edit, design, and present great content. Thank you.
Much appreciated!
Even the ad is somehow not conspicuous and blends well with the rest of the video.
Agreed. At 5'8, a tailor was and still is an essential for me. Thank you for your valued advice. # fit is king
One must take culture into consideration. Some cultures traditionally wear lots of colors. Japanese Americana and Ivy League use many colors, patterns and fabrics.
Are we not going to talk about how GQ was trying so hard to push a blazer with boardshorts? Style is dumb.
One sign of a well-dressed guy is going a little beyond the standard safe colour combinations of grey pants, light blue or white shirts, and for the Fall season doing those little bit more interesting colours together, like grey and brown, camel and navy, taupe and charcoal.
Good points!
I think some colour is good, otherwise your outfit can be seen as a bit boring. I wear fewer colours than I used to (rightly) but it’s about what the colour is, what context you’re wearing it in, and what the rest of your outfit is like.
If I do wear something brighter, the rest of my outfit will be plain so as not to be OTT. Brighter colours are more acceptable in the summer, I feel.
Shades of colours is a good way to add more colour but not go too extreme. Blue is a great colour for that and you can pair shades of blue if you do it right!
Combining colors in a tasteful way is what motivates me to get dressed.
This is a great segment. I strongly share many of your views. You have reinforced some of my basic beliefs on mens style. Much appreciated!
Great job, Brock, as usual!
Thanks, Scott!
People have greater things to worry about 😂
Great video, as usual. Loved the nod to Shakespeare with "protest too much". There's a great quote in Hamlet too, when Polonius says "The apparel oft proclaims the man." This is why clothes matter.
Several years ago, say around 75 years old, I became drawn into the Celtic/Viking/Galic look. I went so far as to pierce one ear, high sides in my haircut style. So I ran with this for a year and a half now. By now I have drawn back from the very high sides and trimmed down on "flash jewelry" to a more conservative. older gent appearance. Changes in my wardrobe have also been a work in progress. First, it was crash-looking "T"s and colored jeans. Now my trend is more solid or small textured shirts (Both dress and casual). I find the stand-up collar to look simple and stylish. Also known as the Maderine Coller, I wish to get your impression of that look for older guys in my age bracket.
Trying to break out of the basic shorts and t shirt. I kinda dig button ups especially red kap shirts on account of automotive background
Hey, i'm one of the guys that you trend on comparing to, a poorly dressed up man. Yes, this biped is guilty of wearing some of the most unapealing combos, from a bit off to way in off in left field. I do appreciate your help these days.
I agree with a lot of opinions stated here but breaking down what "bad style" is into some bullet points kinda gentrifies personal style; not to mention dressing well is super subjective. I feel like these tips definitely help the average person get a baseline of what traditionally looks good together, in terms of garments, silhouettes, materials, footware, etc. but making choices outside of the norm while in front of the mirror is what actually develops personal style. When everyone just wears slim fit chinos, white leather sneakers and a well fitting top it just takes the personal out of personal style. If you want to dress well, first find what you are comfortable wearing and don't be afraid to experiment as being confident and enjoying what you put on everyday goes a long way into dressing well. I think the last point about being international and showing effort is what personal style is really about.
What you say is so true and like good taste, never gets old. What I always ask myself and say is that you have to know what you can get away with in your fashion choices based on age, body type, situation, etc. thanks
Do not agree on colors. The point is to be able to mix them tastefully.
Great shirt/jack and t-shirt combo.
i am happy to announce that i don't do any of these things. great advice!
There's nothing wrong with emphasizing comfort. I disagree that dressing well is good manners. Doing anything to please complete strangers is compromising who you are as a person. I am very polite and well-mannered. What I wear has nothing to do with that.
I should add that I really enjoyed this video and I am trying to improve my style. This was informative and I did subscribe. I'm an old guy (62 ) and I tend to stay with neutral colors. They look best on me.
We do things to please strangers all the time. Holding the door. Saying please and thank you. Standing in line. It’s the courtesy and respect that makes civilized society pleasant. Purchasing well fitting and setting appropriate clothes is part of that polite presentation.
Spot on, Brock! I hate to see teens wearing pijama pants outside. Even to school,... HORRIBLE!
Idk man I’m only 5’5 and I’ve always liked fitted clothing. But lately I feel corny as hella wearing tapered denim and fitted shirts and jackets. The boxy silhouettes work as long as you get your proportions correct
I saw a talk show a while ago, and rather classy lady said she recently visited Europe, and the biggest culture shock was that the men actually dressed like gown up men, and not like scruffy little children.
I do dress well but I’m not good looking. My skin , my hair , my body , ughhh can’t fix em all 🤦🏻…
I get it and you are right ofc but Im way to lazy for all these rules and always go for my polo shirt, jeans and white sneakers, only time I switch it up is if I reeeaally have to because of a wedding or something.😆
Polo/jeans/sneakers is a solid combo though, assuming the fit and colors are on point.
I’am guilty of mixing dress shirts in with my casual outfits because I can get better fitting shirts and I don’t have the issue of the pockets being to big or two low with me being short .
Great vid. Even your sponsor ad section was legit
I've been binge watching your RUclips channel. And I'm Taking so many ideas from it. And I'm going to subscribe because modesty is important to me.
Superb video and spot on. All these celebrities wearing all black with the black dress shirt and tie look ridiculous. All of us could learn a great deal from looking at photos of how Cary Grant dressed all the time. During his career he would not go above 180 pounds. And he always dressed extremely well even on casual outings. When he retired, the 180 pound rule went out the window. But you will be hard-pressed to find any male Hollywood star that dresses like Cary Grant today. Your videos are done very well. Thank you.
Nice. It feels good to dress well while taking care of the subjectivity of the human eye that informs the mind.
I love my punk rock friends who are in weddings and wear black Chuck Taylors with their tuxedo. Now thats really sticking it to the man!
Sticking it to the bride, more like it.
Love your channel. I'm in the ski industry and almost everyone dresses like a child. Like you say, it's not hard to stand out and it's OK to try, people notice the effort.
However, there are still plenty of casual comfortable clothes that both adults and children are entitled to wear in casual places so there’s no age discrimination
The best approach is to look stylish without trying,.. apparently
It really is. Like with any other skill, effortlessness is a result of years of effort.
My wife says I dress more stylishly than she does, and I take that as a compliment because she understands fashion and I generally don't pay attention to fashion or trends. Personal style is a thing.
thank you brock! great info as always
Remember guys:
- use shirt garters, the best way to have a shirt properly tucked in all day
- a pair of dirty shoes can ruin the entire suit
- learn the correct amount of cologne your skin needs
- accessories are fantastic statement pieces because they are subtle
- dress your body shape. Doesn’t matter how much I like Chelsea boots, they’ll never fit my rectangular torso.
- even when you have to dress formally, remember: Sprezzatura is the answer.
Enjoy.
Sprezzatura can be trying too hard though. In the sense that it can be seen as trying too hard to look like you’re not really trying. Difficult one.
Use garters? 😅 Hope that’s a joke! 🙈 Don’t spread such bad advice please ahaha
And what’s that thing with the shape of your torso and Chelsea boots, you think too much man 😂
@@mdm5891 ??? Why would it be a joke?
@@LuisMercadoorg It’s an ugly accessory that makes you look like a clown in my opinion. I strongly believe that investing in better quality shirts and taking them to the tailor if needed is a much better advice than wearing these anti-sexy things. Plus, if your shirt is not PERFECTLY tucked in, it is FINE. A suit is made to be worn and move with you, it will always have tiny imperfections, that’s also part of what makes it charming.
@@mdm5891 garters are invisible. Maybe you are mistaking shirt garters with pants garters?
Guys who wear lots of logos at once or dress really trendy tend to be some combination of oblivious and arrogant, and that means they'll never take your advice. To them, fashion is all about showing off, and you'll never change them.
I love the way you put clothing as a form of respect. But as someone with unconventional style, is it a problem to wear what I like as long as I put effort?
I don’t think it’s ever a problem to wear what you like *as long* as you’re not ignoring context. In other words, be aware of and respect the setting/event. Prioritize that over self expression.
@@BrockMcGoff that’s spot on, the most important piece of fashion advice is dress for the occasion. Yes it’s a tired old trope but it bears repeating.
I think about my clothing as two separate wardrobes. Traditional and non-traditional. I’m someone who enjoys fashion experimentation and I’m still young enough to do so without sticking out in the right context. So I have my more experimental, ephemeral wardrobe, but I know to clean up and I have my traditional wardrobe for everyday wear, which will last much longer.
I think this approach works for a young guy with unconventional style who is looking for a way to continue expressing themselves using fashion as an art form, while at the same time building a longer lasting, more subdued wardrobe as you mature.
I'm retired now, but spent the better part of 25 years working at international airports. Suffice to say that I've seen my share of "well dressed", "smart casual", and "who cares". We all know people who are caught up in negativity. They don't see it, but we do. The same can be said, I believe, for people who wear lounge pants, shower slippers, hoodies, tank tops, cheap jeans, shirts hanging out from under a bomber jacket, Jack Hanna "outback" hats, etc, etc.
I think they get stuck in a pattern of sloppy comfortable, and never get out. These are the same people who show up for a funeral, looking like they're going to a cocktail party. Totally lost. To each his own, I guess.
I travel a lot for business and totally agree with you.
Who tf cares how others dress while commuting at an airport? The pretentious narcissism is real.
@@Saru-yr3qk You've obviously never had to sit next to a guy wearing a tank top. athletic shorts, and flip flops with feet that look like ROADKILL! Making a little bit of an effort is a sign of respect for others. Ideally, we want to be somewhere between pretentious, and a self absorbed slob!
@@markg.4246why do you care? i don't get it. on the plane i'm way too busy watching movies or playing a video game to care what anyone is wearing
@@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 Remember when your parents told you to "make your bed"?. This is no different. It's about "making the effort", which builds the foundation for your whole day.
Wearing shoes without socks is just VILE.
Fantastic video Brock. Always appreciate your videos a lot, some pof the most sensible and sustainable fashion advice on youtube.
Thank you!
I’ve said the same thing for years about branded clothes! Also car dealerships branding up your new vehicle!
Felt great to remove the dealer's license plate frame 😏
If someone male or female goes out to popular places especially at night to eat and or drink wearing regular t shirts, shorts, etc.! Good dress habits: Matching your environment both night and day and purpose. At least look like you care.
I have changed over the 5 years depending on my mental health. I like smart clothing and where I live ( Spain) men usually wear comfy not too smart. I wear suit jackets quite often, chelsea boots in winter or loafers in summer. People usually compliment me or say I’m too smart since most guys wear t-ahir ya, Jeans and shorts and flip-flops in summer.
I think there’s some truth and values in this video, but I also think that dressing conservative and basic is fine, but you shouldn’t push your beliefs into others, some sees clothing as a form of self expression and if they want to break the stigma about how a pants and a shirt should fit I have no issues with that. Fashion is more than just a white t-shirt / navy pants / Ralph Lauren shoe and carrying a suit case. But again that just my opinion
The examples I use from Ethan Wong, Brian Sacawa and the FW22 J.Crew lookbook sort of prove your point: you can play with colors, silhouette, bolder pieces, etc. and look great. The "signs" I'm talking about in this video are usually seen on guys who aren't trying at all. Sometimes guys who are into fashion make these mistakes as they figure things out, but like I said in point #6, trying too hard is better than not trying at all. I've made plenty of mistakes along the way!
0:12 "dont know that they are poorly dressed", shows the hardest fits ever
Sign of a well dressed guy is proper fit , well ironed clothing and using minimal colour combinations at one time ( I hate logo show ) . Excellent video dear ! Me a ent surgeon from India
I'm from NYC recently moved to Perryville Maryland and I stand out in this most people here don't care how they look. Wearing flip flops in a casino with jeans that don't fit and because it's a small town they don't care. I was told I over dress when I go out. Smh
@Don K that's a fact I would never but clothes from Costco, Walmart and places like that.
I agree with the "good manners" quote completely. Look like you a give a $hit, or don't... either way, like it or not, you're sending a message.
There are also functional , rational reasons for certain clothing choices. Carrying a shoulder or back pack with a suit will be guaranteed to cause dark marks to be left on the cloth of the suit that can ruin it and be permanent . I’ve found that being well dressed is often the mix of material , form and function being correct and purposeful .
I think 'to much colours' is no problem. To much bright colours is the issue 😎
Just found this channel. Love this guy and his videos.
Only time I have to deal with logos is when I'm playing soccer. You just can't escape it. So instead I find as plain and simple designs I can and match the brand on all clothing.
I hear ya. I deal with the same thing in BJJ. It's almost impossible to find a gi or rashguard without loud branding. But hey, function over form when it comes to sports!
Totally impressed. All the best. Thank you.
Everyone is down on cargo shorts but they have their place, like during the weekend while working in the yard or around the house, and even a weekend visit to Home Depot for supplies. Maybe it's a suburb thing? Anyway, just discovered your channel and subscribed.