Korean multifandom // Abusive parents
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
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0:00-0:11 Strong woman Do Bong Soon
0:13-0:34 Cheese in the trap
0:35-0:45 Doctors
2:13-2:55 Weightlifting fairy Kim Bok joo
Thank you for watching this video💙
~I don't own anything except the editing.
“I’m dead inside” that was a very realistic line. After all the abuse, you truly do become dead.
The only phrase I could describe myself
It was like, i was talking to my family. It was so real.
2:59 whats the drama name and which ep?
@@chanslaptop7522 check description
@@rockzie0 found it, thanks buddy
PARENTS DONT EVEN CARE ABOUT OUR MENTAL HEALTH ANYMORE. NO MATTER HOW IN PRESSURE WE ARE UNTIL OUR GRADES ARE GOOD WE ARE A GOOD CHILD....... THIS IS A HARSH TRUTH .
Absolutely.
I don’t think we should generalize ALL parents. it’s a sad thing that good parents are rarely talked about, under appreciated too. it’s only the abusive ones that hit the headlines. I hope that who are suffering from mentally or physically abusive parents find a way to get out of that situation though.
@@oaknotes exactly.
@@oaknotes So true
Ain’t that the truth! And when we tell them we feel a certain way they always say we’re overreacting or being dramatic….. and HOW would they know what WE feel in our hearts?!
I think our next generation children will be lucky because we have gone through a lot and We don't want our kids to suffer that and we will encourage them to do what they want and accept them however they are ❤️
Yessss 🙂🙂
Yes.. when we have gone through so much pain and we will never let our own kids to feel horrible, like they want to die, dead inside, hurting so much, hating themselves, worthless. We will treat them like they are beautiful/handsome in their own way, they are amazing, talented, great, not worthless, not that everyone else is better than them.
Yes.. K am always thinking this fact... My fathereven hit me even the look and the way i walk.. He has no needmore other reasons to hit me and make more abusive words
I will never treat my kids the way my parents treated me
Unfortunately, abuse will never stop. It’s possible that the next generation won’t be as abusive, but this type of behavior passes on from generation to generation. Usually, parents like these suffered this kind of treatment from their parents as well. So we really don’t know for sure if things will change that much. Of course, there are people who have had abusive parents, and have never treated their own children like their parents treated them.
Why does this look so similiar to what's happening to me and most of the other children,comparing with our schoolmates or other children, scolding,saying mean/rude things to your kids, abusing,crying all night long, having really bad thoughts etc....
I hope everything will get better soon 💜you can try to speak up maybe words, good conversation will help, but don't put your energy on people who don't wanna listen to u ✨(sorry for my English🙌)
My mom likes to do these things and still says that its out of love
Yeah that's true we get beated by our parents school teachers and then tution teachers they all really dont care
Really physically and mentally
everyone's asking drama but i want to appreciate your creation it's literally amazing ✨✨
Thank you so much🙌 u made my day💜
@@its.arcane3196 your most Welcome ♥♥♥♥♡♡
@@its.arcane3196 u did our too
"Why don't you even cry?"
"I'm dead inside "
I felt it
People don't understand how we feel when they abuse us when you realize that no one loves you and you are just trash they are not just beating us physically but also torturing us mentally 🥺😭😭
Surround yourself with kind people and be kind for yourself✨
Imagine getting hit with belt for celebrating b day with friends , forced to do all the chores , forced to dress up like they said , forced to cut all friends in the name of discipline 🥺🥺 imagine being all alone and handle everything on Ur own
Has it happened to you?
@@jefrreyjeffery2192 yes , few years ago ...
Now im fine 🙂
@@serendipity6708 I hope you've moved out. Please never feel guilty about this, it was never your fault. It was always fault of your ruthless monster parents. Take care and you deserve happiness!💓
@@jefrreyjeffery2192 😊thank you for ur concern i hope the same to you
@@serendipity6708 :)
"every children deserve their parents, but not every parents deserve their children"
I was rewatching strong woman and I hated her mother even more and how she treats her husband is just plain abuse, It's really sad that it's portrayed as a funny thing in the drama. Physical and emotional abuse shouldn't be laughed upon just bcz the abuser is a woman.
Same thing with true beauty. Tho I think both of them change when they learn abt the struggles of their daughters (at least in true beauty, it’s been a while since I last saw strong woman do bong soon)
Strong women do bong soon mother changed but at first I hated her mother also
I don't even care to remember what her name was and who she was🙂
She was not abusive but just more of ignorance. No one is making fun of abuse but she didn't abused her husband is anyway rather it was more of her husband is not very responsible one and now she has to handle everything so it's keeping him in check and having some arguments. Now with time it had become her habit to talk like that. Just because everyone is not talking sweetly doesn't mean it's abusive. You have to understand the context, situation and all that.
I guess I’m thankful that my mom was never physically abusive, though her words can really kill a person
i was thinking the same thing
@Rutuja Kolkur true
i triend my best to take good grades but due to covid the kids of principle got really good grade than me
i was mentally devastated but my family didnt support me not even once
even same goes with my best freind who litteraly have sucidal thoughs on the cherry on all problem was the indian education system but yeah now i get somewhat stable
now my mother abuse me mentally
pain never goes
So this is what happened with me today-
I have a physically abusive dad and because of that I always seem so nervous and as a result I bite my nails but few days ago I thought of growing my nails as other girls but today my father literally beated me up for that and they were not even that big because it had only past few days that I decided to grow them. And as a 17 y/o I too like doing stuff like growing my nails, putting light makeup etc but anyways I ended up cutting my nails because of my dad. I am so fed up with my family I feel like running away or take away my life but being a weak hearted I can't do that anyways...
Hope it will get better and you will find strength to separate from your parents💜
Dont end youre Life Open Up a Bank Account without telling you dumb dad and Work somewhere Like : McDonald's burger King somewhere we're you dont News a school dagree and Something easy so you can atleast have some Money until youre 18 when are you going to be 18?
I feel this so much, my dad is the same.
Pls stay strong. I hope one day you'll find your true happiness
No no ..just endure it for sometime at least after getting 20..I am sure ur dad will regret this..Stay strong,healthy and Work so hard that Ur Dad is impressed from ur success
Imagine being beaten for putting your favourite bands picture as your display image on your laptop
Imagine being dressed as he wants
Imagine never even thinking of going out alone without school
Imagine being not even having permission for going to any friends party or house
Imagine hearing curse worlds and hearing to die for having a guy friend(not boyfriend I can't even imagine what will happen if I have a boyfriend)
Imagine getting all the curse words and getting beaten for not going to sleep before 11 O clock
Imagine being not appreciated
Imagine having no friends
Imagine having no cooperative cousins
Imagine being all alone in a dark room
Imagine being controlled in every step of your life
Imagine hearing slut for being with a guy cousin
Imagine your brother is treated differently
Imagine after every good work still being hated
And imagine after all of this still smiling and pretending to be a happy and a comedian who makes everyone except me myself
And after all financial problems never left you.
And most importantly you are there for them in their dark days but still they what the f you are gonna do. And give every love which you deserve to your younger sibling.
A lot is going on in my life. I am dying slowly. Everything seems slow, bad. This is the half of incident which are happening to me. If I explain the whole the comment section will be only filled with mine. I am tired. This struggle is too much for me when I am just 15.
This is me
I dont have to imagine…..
That's me tooo
I don't need to imagine this because I am living like this
This is totally meee...
Can relate to “Dad you have never been satisfied with me” bc I do everything you tell me to do but it’s always never enough for you 😔
"I'm dead inside"
Hope it's just a phrase from drama and u r ok💕
Me too😭😭😔
I can relate
Felt it with my soul
Feel it
“I’m dead inside” so relatable, not cuz of my parents but others. Dad and mom is my safe place.
I have an abusive and toxic father , I can relate to this very much 😔 especially the part where children got beatings from parents , in my case my skin is very sensitive and whenever my father beats me up I got a marking and sometimes that pain take alot of time to recover let's say 3 months or even more than that if my father beats up ... This video is really relatable and for those who also have abusive parents then I am so sorry for you that you are bearing this problem all alone by yourself.. 🥺😔
Don't worry I am here idk who are u but I gone through this for 5 years and still going through I know how u feel don't worry love yourself....
@@Harwindersingh-hq7qe Same goes to you as well buddy. I can feel your pain
@@Harwindersingh-hq7qe Yes we will ❤️
Why I don't know but I feel so bad for you . Why does he best you 🥺
You should live your own life independently
@@keeplearning4877 Thank you so much that's so sweet of you , and yeah I started living my own life and right now my life seems to be very simple and easy going , I know life will always have ups and downs sometimes but hum manage kar lenge yaar ❤️
My mom is verbally abusive and now I hate being home so I stay with my grandma most of time
I am sorry, hope you are in good relationship with ur gradma🙌
The same
Parents say they take away our phone so that it doesn't destroy our mental health but what they do to us, their never gonna see it as emotional abuse
Honestly , when we get external pressure from parents and relatives we tend to feel demotivated and our grades deteriorate. My mother and father never forced to me to get high grades, they kept on motivating me and praising my hardwork, that helped me to develop "I can do it , I am the best " mindset . Now it's ingrained in my mind that my parents would never scold me because of my grades as I am a good student. This belief compels me to work hard and get high grades. I am only 14 , When I grow up I want to be like my parents .
Thanks
I wish it was the case for me but they tend to compare me with others, call me useless and it hurts
And then I ask myself am I over reacting or am I dreaming this stuffs
Did your parents beated you 😢 ?
"im dead inside"
that sentence hit too close to home
i've always been the child that my mother hates the most for no reason, I thought i could get over it, but I realized that I will never, never get over it, there will always be this hate that only hurts with me
"Why don't you ever cry?"
" Cause I'm dead inside"
🥺
Don't compare your child with other children your child is precious💖💖 than any other ☺
It's not always abt physical abuse . I'm stressed and anxious ABT everything 24/7 . My mom nd dad have cursed me and used abusive words on me for god knows how long and whenever I speak up its always my friend's who are telling me to insult them . They want me to tell them everything . If I'm not dressing up according to them I'm shameless the list goes on . I can Never make them proud
"I also want to be comforted " that line hit me ❤
watching these type of videos makes me feel less alone even if its all scripted
This comment section is full of young adults who were abused by their parents (including me) 💔💔 This is really depressing. What supposed to be our safest place in the world and a strong support turned out to be verbally, physically and emotionally abusive families. 😢😢😕😕😓😓😓😓 I hope everyone of you move forward in your lives, find a good job to support yourself and have your own little space to stay away from toxic family. And I pray that everyone finds an understanding and supportive life partner who will always be there for them. Life is and was already hard for us to deal with. 😇☺😊
Next generation will have good parents 💗 because we know how it feels 😔
They always did
I almost cried after watching this. My father always say I'm a failure, I always get 100% but my father always says Why don't you get 101%,why your writing is not like your friends,always compares me with my cousins, friends. Shouting at me even it's not my fault, always say I'm a shame . Today I make tea instead of praising me he said I'm a failure just I can't make the tea the way he likes.It hurts me so much but nobody cares for it I cried in my room but they don't give attention. They always insults me and when I say something in my favour they said I am being disrespectful I tried my best to impress them so that they can praise my but no . Even in childhood when I make cards for them they said it's just waste of time and colour . Always insults my dreams I hope one day they understand me and care for me
It hurts when u have to let go of everything u loved just so u can make your parents proud but it still doesn’t work out
I know that there are some parents who abusive and hurt us physically and mentally. Those who have parents like that just ignore them and move on. But be a parents that understands every child equally and they will treasure u forever.
IK THIS PAIN BCOZ I HAVE GONE THROUGH IT. I'm not that good in studies but i always try to give my best, but they always compare me with other child but they never thought what I'm interested in i love singing jazz but they always force me to sing classic in which I'm not interested they hit me everytime even sometimes without any reason, it hurts it hurts so much i never show them my tears otherwise they will beat me more, they hate this much that i hate myself now, i hurt myself by stabing sharp pencil in my hands but like they care.
PARENTS SHOULD UNDERSTAND WE R THERE CHILD THAT DOESN'T MEAN WE R THERE PUPPETS!!!
Please don't hurt yourself, love your body, you are the only one who can truly understand your feelings🥺
My covid year was like this only scolding ,fighting with parents I was just fed up with my life I don't wanna live anymore it became very difficult for me to spend whole day peacefully. I just wanna say be strong in your life, love yourself ,whenever you feel sad write something that will make u feel better ❤
I choose not to have a family that I once dreamed as a child. After I achieve my goal I will cut all ties with my family and live alone. I choose not to have a marriage life. I don't want another family.
I think, Your family was the problem, not you. There is something wrong with your family, not you. Give relationship a chance. Who knows that might work out for you and your partner. And seeing you treated right from your partner can tell them that they did so wrong with you.
”only i was excited to see her, i feel so embarrassed” crying in the club fr!
When we try to tell something to our parents, they either yell at us, hit us or ground us, they make it look like we cant trust them..... and our parents still get mad because we dont trust them
HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO TRUST THEM WHEN THEY CANT EVEN SHOW *US* TRUST?!??!?!?!
My parents separated when I was 4 years old. I’ve always believed that parents are more focused on separating or divorce . The kids are the ones who suffer and pay the consequences my parents didn’t really care
Why don't you even cry?
: I'm already dead inside.
This hits soo hard!
This Video is the reality of Most of us here. Thank you Editor for bringing out such a topic that people often hesitate to speak on. Thank you for being the voice of so many people and what a lovely edit. 💜❤️💜
Thank you for kind words!💟 Hope everyone will stay strong and feel better🙌
Name pls
@@its.arcane3196name
Imagine having a stabile mind with a healthy family. Can’t.fucking.relate.
I just want to say that just because you had a hard time does not mean your child has less of a hard time and should just put up with it because it’s “not even close to what you went through”
"Just kill me" I think our generation thinks this is the only way to end pain...
abusive parents is really common and normalized in korean dramas. in every kdrama i've watched there's always a parent hitting and nagging their child for something so shallow or for no apparent reason at all. what's making it worse is they add funny background music to depict it as quirky and comedic which enrages me even more everytime a witness such scenes.
I have abusive family watching these dramas may help me
Didn't expect this video will resonate with many people, hope everyone will heal and find peace💟
Ugh I'm so glad you included bong soon's mom. Yes they had love for each other but I feel like everyone just ignores the blatant abuse that the mother inflicts on both bong soon and her own husband(bong soon's father)
Anyone else started tearing up and cry while watching this? Just me?😃😀
Me too gurl. I really don't understand why they get there anger out on us. I can relate to every single line in this fmv. I really started sobbing
I'm with u
I get terrified of myself when I close the door and cry and laugh at the same time I feel like I have my dads dirty blood in mine
I get terrified when I fake smile everyday
I get terrified when i hold back my tears saying to my myself that hold it back just a little bit more
I get terrified from myself when you say I’m a Buffalo and witch,slut,bitch,and a worthless girl
I get terrified when you the same person who verbally abused me tells me I’m everything to you and I’m not worthless and I’m beautiful and cheer me up
I get terrified when you hitted me cuz you never hitted me
I get terrified when I got to know that you never wanted me to study and never cared for me and never loved me and always wanted me to die
I always get terrified when I scream and get panick attacks and you slap me and tell me that you need to be abusive towards me so that I won’t scream
I get terrified when you call me a mental abnormal person
I get terrified when you manipulate me into thinking I hurted you when infact you hurted me
I get terrified when I feel I need to go home even if I am at home
I get terrified when I am sad 24/7 at home cuz that’s the hing I know and that’s what makes me feel home
I got terrified when I asked myself why do I like rain so much and I got the answer from myself that I love rain cuz it’s more easier to cry in rain because no one can distinguish the difference between rain water and your tears,I love rain because I’m not crying alone
I get terrified when I asked myself why I love thunderstorms and lighting so much and I got the answer from myself that I love it cuz ut shows that nature also needs to scream it heart out
I got terrified when I asked myself that why I love darkness so much and I got the answer from myself that I love it cuz its the only thing that hugs me and stays with me at my worst and understands me and my pain
I got terrified when I asked my self why do I love moon so much and I got the answer from myself that I love it cuz it knows all my pain
I got terrified when I asked myself why do I love night so much and got the answer from myself that I love it cuz it’s the only thing I’m comfortable in being open and telling all what suffocates me
I got terrified when I asked myself that why do I love the fall and autumn season so much and I got the answer from myself that I love it cuz it feels like even the nature is sad and depressed
I get terrified when I cry and laugh at the same time
I get terrified of myself cuz I’m never enough and never meets your expectations and I’m worthless
I get terrified of myself when I Stand at the rooftop thinking of committing suicide and then it comes to my mind that I don’t want to leave you all and if I’ll die you’ll will cry even if I know you’ll move on easily
I get terrified of myself when I realise even after all this I still love you the same but you hate me and make me feel that I hated you
I get terrified when you deny my weakness and call me weak minded cuz you are afraid that you played part in breaking me down
I get terrified of myself when I say the truth and you shut me up saying I’m doing insolence with you
I get terrified of myself when I realise that you’re a kind of orthodox but a different one and I still love you
I get terrified when I realise that age equality doesn’t exist
I get terrified of myself when I realise that you are taking wrong benefits of you being elder to me and I still love you
I get terrified of myself when I realise you’ll don’t even know what monster I’ve become
I get terrified of myself when I realise that you’ll think you’ll are being nice friends to me and treating me better than how your parents treated to you
I get terrified when I realise that you’ll will never understand me
I get terrified of myself when I realise that you’ll never understand that you’ll are being toxic and it’s being unbearable for me and not better that how your parents treated you cuz it’s hurting me as I haven’t faced what your parents did to you so ofc what you’ll are doing is toxic to me but you’ll think it’s not and you’ll think you’ll are treating me better than what you’ll have faced
I get terrified when I realise that you’ll never accept that I’m broken emotionally and mentally and I get traumatic attacks cuz you’ll know that you’ll played a part in it
I get terrified when I realise that you’ll think you’ll know everything about me when in reality you’ll don’t even know me
I get terrified when I realise that I still love you dad and mom
"I Put So much effort. No matter how much I try...Dad, you have never been satisfied with me." This hurts so bad...cause this is EXACTLY what I told my parents a week ago...
They don't know what we are ging throw ;)
And they also gives us much more pain I could ever imagine........ 🥀
Everything will be ok. Believe me, it will get better eventually. I too have suffered physical abuse and still suffering. There were days when i was beaten untill my clothes ripped off, there were also days when i was sick and was dragged to cook and got beaten untill i couldn't utter a word but cry. I mean...everyone,here, in this country, has normalised it a lot but I'm traumatized, everyone is!
Nothing is fair in this world. I'll keep enduring for now. But gonna work my ass off and leave this house behind. I love my parents and i kind of feel sorry for them since they don't really know how to raise a kid with care and love. Well, we'll be thriving in the chaos. We will be the best. We will be fine,if not now, very soon! ALSO, IF ANYONE WANNA TALK, WE CAN TALK.
I am literally crying understand others pain pls......
I agree this a really realistic line, how no matter what we do we won’t be good enough for them.
I have actually been dead inside from a long time , but my parents always cared abt grades that's it , if the grades are great , we are great child , they never know what we feel , I hate living in this world , I feel my life is worthless , I was told a lot of time by my parent that if I wasn't her child it would have been so much better , and it just hits hardd.......
same, I've heard this a lot too, I hope you are feeling better and just remember grades are not a definition of your intelligence no matter what anyone else says, you are talented as well but just in a different way, feel free to reach out to me whenever you are sad or not feeling well
@@hobaringgg thns to u for comforting me 💗 , even I'm here for u whenever u want to reach out ❤️✨
@@vedankshanevgi379 Thanks and we need to stay strong no matter what 💖
You never know what a person is going through....be kind....always..
I’ll never forget ever
let's try to give ourselves a good treat when we started to earn , be happy in what we do and live every moment ☘
I just hope for all u guys who r hurt and broken but cant cry nor express weakness to be LOVED and know SOME PPL DO CARE ABT U...u just gotta earn ur spirit back, take back what was lost and SHOW THEM U R HAPPY ON UR OWN and SUCCESSFUL IN UR OWN WAY! *SHOW THEM U R HAPPY AND ALIVE*
Some parents... Just really shouldn't be parents
To those who think this is parenting, it's seriously not
And if you're a parent and do this... You're just horrible
Nah.....this just broke my heart
As someone my bio parents didn't like and used for their own benefits so as my adoptive father, it's painful and i can totally relate to these clips.
I litteraly started crying so hard after watching this 😭😭😭😭😭cuzz of how many of them relatable to me
YOU SHOULD ADD SOOJIN's PARENTS ALSO FROM TRUE BEAUTY .
YES HER PARENTS ONLY CARED ABOUT HER GRADES AND BUSINESS
@@reisshop172 especially her Dad
The dead inside feels like me when I’m happy it feels like I’m watering a plant that’s been long dead I swear when I’m happy I get a surge of happiness even at the worst moments making me feel like a psychopath from how much I laugh and how happy I am for no reason it’s even become a habit to fake smile at home and I only realized this recently and since I’m a people pleaser since long ago I’m always changing myself to be what they want I swear there’s days I wonder what my true personality used to be even at school just to fit in I fake it at this point I’m faking it till I make it I can’t get them to care about a single thing and when I ask them am I better than before they always say no, there’s always something wrong with me no matter how much I try to change and I’m heartbroken don’t get me wrong they’re amazing parent and I love them so much but they way the teach us and their actions break and ruin the hell out of me I get they’re words are coming from a good place but they way they word it is just.
There are some people who should have hand cuffs on their hand
But destiny played fools of us..and gives child in their hand.... 🤧
My fav from this is weight lifting fairy
I am blessed to have kind parents...but I know many are not :( Sometimes children disappoint parents with their bad attitudes and criminal activities. Sometimes parents disappoint children with their misbehavior. Sometimes it's both. In the end, most humans wish for peace and love.
"For being physically stronger than others, my heart is that much weaker."🙂
Should have included the mom from “My Strange Hero” she was a real piece of work.
0:35 my dad hit me like this so i relate to her, they don't care about my mental health anymore
My mom beat me in my small mistake and give me curse words I am dead now I can't take this anymore
It hurts pretty much...🙂
Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child….
My father is very short tempred.........
at the age of just 5 I got beaten up for being stubborn and was not able to walk properly for few days as he kicked my leg very badly for crying after getting beaten up
At the age of 11 I got slapped cause I muted his phone's ringtone as I was having online class
I am 13 and basically I get beaten up by him 1 to 2 times badly in a month
I used to thought that teenage sucks. But nah. Having parents those who think that being strict to their kids is good for their future do sucks. I wish i had someone who will hug me n will love me.
Why our parents think that paying money for our food, health, studies is the way to love. Hell. They gave us birth. Isn't it their responsibility. If they have to show it why do they gave us birth even. Do they regret giving us birth. Why do they compare us with others instead of praising us for our improvement. Why they kill loads of our dreams. They think that the way they r behaving with us will help us to achieve our dreams? They do that just to kill our dreams n making their dreams. Why do i have to study medicine when I wanted to be a pilot. Why i have to be a pilot when I wanted to be engineer?
my father wouldnt allow us to speak unless he wanted to lol
idk if this is abusive or not but not always but sometimes my mom says really bad things to me like "we will not give you your own phone otherwise you will run away with some random guy(by the way i am 18)" or like "you are doing college because you are dumb and can't prepare for doctors".But the truth is i want to be a cabin crew which my mom don't like.sometime her words hurt more than anything, even when she beats me it doesn't hurt that much.My dad is in bsf so he usually stay away from us,he never said something like this to me directly but my mom says that he said all these things to her so that she can tell me all these things.I am really confused now because i always thought that atleast my dad is open minded but now things are not the same.As i am from a countryside people are really narrow minded here and its making things even more difficult for me
I hope you are doing better now, I know how it feels and you are really brave for going through this, you can reach out to me whenever you are sad, I hope I'll be able to help you
@@hobaringgg thanks for your words and i am gonna be fine even if I am not fine right now cause I am gonna leave for college in 5 days☺
@@jaishree5308 Ohh glad to hear that, hoping that you can have more freedom in college ❤
Slowly this is making me cry
When I was little my mom always hurt me emotionally and physically she beated me with charger all the time and now then i am in 10 grade I have lot of pressure of studies I couldn't even properly get rest also and one day I decided to get just one day holiday my were not allowing me but I still take a holiday and both my parents beated me so badly my mom literally pull my hair and my dad give me so many slaps I didn't eat anything on that day I have so many scars on my body and I am not ashamed of hating my parents for it they always say it's better to have a boy at least he good understand us and lot of hateful things
i feel bad that there are parents like this i hope parents change to understand their children
Parents are like we gave you birth we have every right on you but we're also human that have wishes dreams just becoz it's not SAFE JOB but it's someone's dream they can't break it like a glass..... They're words hurts they're little little discrimination hurts, it hurts when they say you're useless as a rock becoz we can't get they're expected grades or anytype of achievement...... We're not disrespecting them but that doesn't mean they'll abuse and give it a name of *love* or *for our sake*
my society is begging me to be cold hearted 🙂🙂
& i dont want i want to help others
I actually found these normal when I was watching it
I decide to be a cool mom...like...when my child want something or wants to share something..they will be not scared to say....and allow my child to do everything they...want..like when they will make a bf/gf...I want to be the first one..to listen to his/her bf/gf name...for me I think when we will make our children free to talk to us ...they will share everything with us..there happiness,sadness,pain everything... like I will be there bestfriend...the one they share EVERYTHING with..I feel like when children get to talk to someone... specially to there parents they feel relieved...I am going to be a mother who is always in her children's side...I want my children to be free with me....if u don't comfort Ur child..they will stay with u but will be very far from u...u will be in 9th cloud when Ur child will say he/she is proud to have a mother/father like u..and are lucky that they are Ur kids..
My mom loves me (I always comfort myself with this sentence, though she never said that she loves).
i wish i could just run away somewhere or take my life the way i try to take it every night but i dont have that courage in me anymore ..evn when i am quite i am at fault even when i talk i am at fault ..i wish i could just telll them how much pain i digest everyday ..
Only physical abuse is not a abuse parents mentally abuse too
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My father abandoned us and my mom just takes out her anger towards my dad by beating and saying harsh and abusive things to me and I'm slowly giving up on living like this. I have many dreams but I don't know if I'll be there to achieve them.
they only care and be sweet to us when we act like a good child get good grades!
Godd how I wish to have a home which I want to return everyday
I have one question to those who are getting divorced for losing interest between them after giving birth to the child... Have you ever thought about the child's mindset .. or how they feel ...or How they are going to handle that.. I'm sure that is really horrible... My one request to everyone.... If you are not sure about your relationship please don't give birth to child please it is so hard to live like that.... please.............
the first clip i thing it should not have been included in the abusive topic because i watched the movie and her mother was not abusive she just treated her brother better because he didn't have super strength like her she scolded her because she was trying to protected her and her mother the apologized and treated her better you can watch the movie the name is strong woman do bong soon
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3:09 I know this feeling so well 😢
Thank you ♥️
"im dead inside" yeah.
Lord Jesus Christ our God, please help those who are suffering and save them 🥺💔🤲🏼☦️
I get bad grades from even trying and my parents say that you dont even try, my family keeps secrets from me, they all just make me sad because they all have to talk about things they think im comfortable with, they think just bc there family they can say whatever they want to u and u wont get hurt.
"do you even know how hard youre making it for everyone??"
do you even know how hard it is for me.
What to tell I feel a lot of pain. I really pity myself . I can't stand to see people in pain .