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  • Опубликовано: 7 янв 2025

Комментарии • 548

  • @capricorn6753
    @capricorn6753 15 часов назад +18

    That's the result of the green card. If she's not yet resident in America, she don't have a guts to separate even if they fight. Hope Tom finds a woman he deserves. Unsubscribe!

  • @BisdakPinayFlorida
    @BisdakPinayFlorida 13 часов назад +10

    Kaning uban dinhe pataka lang ug accuse ug pang bash maski wala kabalo sa whole story!!! Divorce is a deeply personal and difficult journey, especially when children are involved. It’s important to remember that we, as viewers, don’t know the full story of their relationship or the reasons behind their decisions. Both parents seem to be doing their best to prioritize their children’s well-being, even during this challenging time, by co-parenting and staying nearby for the kids’ sake.
    Instead of passing judgment or making assumptions, perhaps we can offer understanding and kindness. Children need love, stability, and support from both parents, and it’s clear they’re trying to make that happen despite the circumstances. Let’s be compassionate and let them navigate this as a family without unnecessary criticism, God bless and stay strong, we love you William Whesley and Waylon!!!

    • @LelibethDiegas
      @LelibethDiegas 4 часа назад

      Bitaw pero strong ka ching Basta para sa mga bata gogo lang

  • @mjpuffy6285
    @mjpuffy6285 23 часа назад +50

    Tom is a responsible father at mabait naman sya kay William. Ching praying ma maayos nyo ang problema nyo ni Tom. Kelangan kayo ng mga bata hindi mabuti sa mga bata ang broken family.🙏

    • @jinkyleonardo1022
      @jinkyleonardo1022 20 часов назад +1

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @misseswilliams
      @misseswilliams 17 часов назад +6

      @@mjpuffy6285
      Sometimes, it’s better to come from a broken family than to be broken within one. Take Isabella, for example-she seems to be thriving despite it. Staying together for the sake of the children isn’t always the best reason to remain in a relationship. In some cases, it can do more harm than good.

  • @luzmonterde1177
    @luzmonterde1177 20 часов назад +27

    I admire Tom for staying in one house with you even you’re not a couple anymore. In reality pag hindi na kayo couple husband will leave and you’ll be by yourself with your kids. Marami dito mga bata ang affected sa hiwalayan.
    Tom is so nice to give you a house for you and kids. Maybe you had post partum depression when you made a decision na maghiwalay kayo. Hopefully magkaayos kayo.

  • @Hiraya_amaya
    @Hiraya_amaya День назад +39

    Tip ko lng syo ching di lahat ng mga nag msges syo tru fb mo ay totoo concern sila sayo. Kukuha lng yan ng update for marites. Wag ka basta basta maniniwla sa kanila toxic lng yan syo. Tama yan naging desisyon nyo ni Tom, Co parenting kayo sa mga bata lalo ang babata pa nila alam ko yan dhil isa din ako single mom. Also kami mga old subscriber mo since frm the beginning in florida days pa maliit pa si westly nun new born pa lng still we support you. You are smart and brave mommy. God bless ching laban lng pra sa mga kids. ✨💪🙏♥️💕

    • @lourdesamosco993
      @lourdesamosco993 День назад +1

      Oo naman will support you , ignore your bashers

    • @eleanortanutan6300
      @eleanortanutan6300 День назад +5

      Is Tom cooking his own food? Hindi mo binibigyan si Tom ng food mo? Like ung luto mong ulam Di mo sya sinishare?

    • @HelenLegaspi-d9c
      @HelenLegaspi-d9c День назад +2

      Tama yan etching co parenting kayo ni papa tom..makasanayan nyo din ganyan...wag ngalang umabot sa kung magkkaroon na ng ibang partner ang isa sa inyo. ..need na yun magkabukudan na kayo ng house then palipatlipat nalang mga kids ..darating ang araw na yan wagka magsalita ng tapos

    • @samanthajane6196
      @samanthajane6196 20 часов назад

      @@eleanortanutan6300 iba mga pgkain ng afam ayaw nla ganyan

  • @jazzyAcademia-eb3sg
    @jazzyAcademia-eb3sg 20 часов назад +10

    Etching you are a good mom to kids i can see how dedicated and patient you are with them. Tom also is a good provider. You guys is a perfect match, try to communicate and love each other.

  • @jackibagbaga7638
    @jackibagbaga7638 14 часов назад +7

    I'm 72 and coming to our 50 th anniversary; so many hearthaches and arguments for different reasons. Often times one has stress maybe at work, friends, family members; sometimes overworked, health issues will develop anxiety, stress and tired but one side has to sense their partner's state of being. know each other well so one will know what to do. You are in social media and it's open open that it's hard to solve problems because of social media backlash. Maybe be closer to the Almighty or any faith because a lot of times that's where you find the answer. Goodluck!

    • @Tongkel
      @Tongkel 10 часов назад

      True! Without Talking or Arguing is not a Normal Relationship

    • @OssoLily-ix5vz
      @OssoLily-ix5vz 56 минут назад

      Amen.

  • @majahopper7158
    @majahopper7158 22 часа назад +14

    Whatever you and Tom going through in life, i understand. Be strong and put your children first.

  • @glenavillanueva9399
    @glenavillanueva9399 День назад +11

    I've been your follower since i was still living in UK and 4 years na akong retired dito sa Pinas. I watched your vlogs but seldom comments. Nasubaybayan ko yung life mo with Tom and the kids. So sad to hear that you ended up this way. Anyway, hoping and praying that someday you patch up whatever problem you have now. You have beautiful kids and hopefully ended up happily. You did the right thing to keep silent and not to tell every details whatever problem you have with Tom now. Sending hugs and prayers for you and your family. God bless.

  • @aghassi3739
    @aghassi3739 12 часов назад +4

    Remember that marriage is not all sunshine and rainbows. There will be trials and tribulations but you need each other to get through it. Learn to communicate, forgive, and work on your marriage. Dont make decisions when you’re emotional because you’ll regret later. Try spending time one on one without the kids and remind each other why you fell in love in the first place. All the best. God will see you through it.

  • @vinacandido5928
    @vinacandido5928 23 часа назад +7

    The best thing you did you never leave your children and went back to US for their future, so sad to hear but God only knows and time will tell baka magka balikan kayo, and salute to you both you remain civil with each other in one roof, even if separated already for 2 years. Be strong always. God bless you and your family. Pray always.

  • @rachelpadilla1028
    @rachelpadilla1028 19 часов назад +32

    If you are over, why are you in the same house? He’s such a good guy don’t use him for money.

    • @lynarcaya3341
      @lynarcaya3341 17 часов назад +2

      That's their agreement for d sake of kids, if etching is working her ex wil be the one to take care of the kids n vice versa, remember renting house in US are very expensive, and all the necessities needs are also very expensive,

    • @julieaguigui3837
      @julieaguigui3837 14 часов назад

      I agree 💯 she all of a sudden ending her relationship but why we all wonder for as such a good guy as Tom is her reason for the separation…..hmmm

    • @ginaruto3193
      @ginaruto3193 10 часов назад +1

      Common yan sa America. Until one of them will decide to be separated completely. Rason either maliit pa mga anak or ari-arian.

    • @CristinaBarcelona-ui7cz
      @CristinaBarcelona-ui7cz 5 часов назад +1

      Hangat Maaga ayusin nyo ni tom Ang problema nyo. Ipagdasal nyo Ang relasyon nyo 2. Gayahin mo si pinsan mo Hindi man perfect pero maayos Sila nag sasama Ng husband nya kahit lagi sya dyan sa US at lagi nyo pa nkkasama.AHERN FAM

    • @sunitawati3271
      @sunitawati3271 3 часа назад

      True that's why some woman merry older man for money there is no love it's sad

  • @DebbieC2023
    @DebbieC2023 9 часов назад +5

    This is a mess and the victims here are the innocent very young children. I don’t know what both your age difference is but a lot could be a maturity level and high expectations. How can you have 2 babies together with an adopted son and a daughter from another divorce to end up like this! You have no choice but to live under one roof and tolerate each other for the kids sake and for economics. Hope 2025 gets this sorted out.

  • @nessm.9759
    @nessm.9759 День назад +27

    Dito sa America kailangan mo talaga mag trabaho,. My Suggestion You need to go back to school and take some courses you can take any kind of courses but medical courses are best choice that way you can work in the hospital or facility. This is what i did i went back to school for medical assistant thank God i finished it and passed the test to get certified now im a certified medical assistant at the Memory Care good paying job and i love my job working for 3 years now.

    • @serenaweasel
      @serenaweasel День назад +3

      Good advice. Dapat tulong sa pag ipon sa family at future.

    • @Leny-px9ul
      @Leny-px9ul 17 часов назад +1

      Correct. yan din sasabihin ko. Calm, ipon, study and not every one is your friend when you share your private life story at magpadala ng pera unahin future dahil sila ok sa pinas di tulad nag iisa sa US. Ok pag needed but unahin future. And Ang mga bata sa US me student loan at independent at di magugutom. Important shelter at maintain the good credit ( can do plan anything as long you have good credit sa US at join ka ng 401k) at future investment pag me sobra pera.
      Focus ka sa self Mo at kung eto Ang way to move forward. Pray ka lang God is with you.
      At kung divorce matutuloy...try to talk to Tom to make easy para no lawyer at wag ma involved Ang mga bata. Makita nila you both are doing the best to be the parents for your kids.

    • @nessm.9759
      @nessm.9759 17 часов назад +2

      @@Leny-px9ulI agree focus siya talaga sa mga kids nya kasi mga bata pa tska spend money wisely mag work and save money. Wag unahin ang mga materials things… if I’m her i go back to school she’s young and once she’s done school it’s worth it.

  • @annettepurtle3757
    @annettepurtle3757 20 часов назад +24

    Etching why did you split up with Tom? He’s nothing but a hard working man! He worked his butt off for you and those kids! You should appreciate that! 😮 I noticed that you didn’t say this in English! Why?😮

    • @o.u.t_t.h.e_g.a.t.e_21
      @o.u.t_t.h.e_g.a.t.e_21 18 часов назад +7

      That’s because she doesn’t want all the hate,so she’s going to speak in her language and be rude she uses broken English

    • @annettepurtle3757
      @annettepurtle3757 18 часов назад +4

      @ I’m sure she knows how to read English! And if it wasn’t true why is she afraid of? 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @patriciaaddison7686
      @patriciaaddison7686 16 часов назад +9

      There is no reason to follow someone who speaks a foreign language . The American audience should follow Tom. I gave up on her awhile back and saw this post thinking her explanation would be in English. Foolish of me to think that

    • @annettepurtle3757
      @annettepurtle3757 16 часов назад

      @ yes you are so right! 😉

    • @timelessharmonie3243
      @timelessharmonie3243 15 часов назад +9

      I don't hardly watch because she never talks in enough English to know what's going on which is fine but why would I watch if I can't understand.. I came to see if she would explain in English and nope,, only reason I even kind know what's going on is because of the comments anyway bye bye

  • @elsacm6361
    @elsacm6361 21 час назад +8

    Just do whatever is good for you and Tom. The boys need both parents. I commend you and Tom for putting your children first. You and Tom are better as friends than as husband and wife. Just stay cool and don’t bash Tom in social media. Maintain the respect since he is the father of your children and once the love of your life.

  • @jisal6530
    @jisal6530 13 часов назад +2

    Tom is a good father he is a good provider guve him a chance for your family. Love forgives and willing to meet or agree on somthing that will heal the brokenness and also for you to make it work again.

  • @charmaineprado1117
    @charmaineprado1117 22 часа назад +45

    I dont want to spread negativity but eversince I been watching ur vlogs. I never see u are sweet to Tom. Tom is very responsible father not only to his 2 boys but also to Bella and William. If naa kapay konsyensya u are nothing without Tom. Always think before u post. Godbless u

    • @remykloepping6621
      @remykloepping6621 18 часов назад +8

      Maybe you found somebody in the Philippines because you were having fun with out Tom. Right now you are working you are saving money so that when you enough you will definitely stay away from Tom

    • @ginadurkin8973
      @ginadurkin8973 14 часов назад

      I'm with you@charmaineprado1117 I've been watching her vlogs too and seems like she don't care her husband at all, I mean think about when she lived in the Philippines with the kids and leave Tom alone here in the U.S. And working his ass off Para ipadala ang kwarta sa iyang asawa sa pinas? and what kind of wife she is? Why would you lived in Pinas without your complete family? Oh well, that's their life's but I feel sorry for their kids. To etching if you really love Tom you guys can work it out just for the sake of your Young kidos,

    • @Tongkel
      @Tongkel 10 часов назад +2

      Yeah! She is more focus to the Boys

    • @s981mhp4
      @s981mhp4 7 часов назад +1

      Judgemental much

    • @luisadorado8386
      @luisadorado8386 Час назад

      ❤❤❤💥🥰

  • @fraulinemadchen7945
    @fraulinemadchen7945 День назад +16

    Ang dami ko ng nadaanan na vdeos na gaya nito pero sila pa rin. Ano to para sa views lang? Kaya tingin ng westerners sa mga Filipina ay naghahabol lang ng green card. Di rin natin makakaila na parang ganun na nga, hindi naman lahat pero karamihan.

  • @mariaovlogs
    @mariaovlogs 17 часов назад +4

    No need for explanations, Etching. Yang boys mo ang inspiration mo to go on this life. Prayers 🙏🏻❤️

  • @nelphamalwatta2221
    @nelphamalwatta2221 23 часа назад +9

    Yes for the sake of the children be strong..seek God's help always... without Him we are nothing. 🙏

  • @AaronAlbert07
    @AaronAlbert07 14 часов назад +11

    As a person who has been divorced, my suggestion is to stay in the marriage for the sake of your children. The age difference between you two is a number factor; he thinks and you think differently, but you need to meet halfway. Your choice now is a big decision you will regret later on. If you want consistency, then put your kids needs first, before yours. You both are good parents, and also it makes it look like you marry for a green card. Your kids will thank you someday that you put them first before yours. You want to be single that’s a selfish act. Western and Philippine culture are huge factors as well. She needs to grow up.

    • @myraferrer8737
      @myraferrer8737 8 часов назад

      ..stay in marriage ano yan magpaka marter?..where is the justice lol

    • @AaronAlbert07
      @AaronAlbert07 7 часов назад

      To be a mother, you become a martyr for the sake of who they become as adult. A brokenhome will is never easy for children. Western and Philippine culture are huge factors as well.

  • @panchang810
    @panchang810 14 часов назад +1

    Were you already "separated" before you and Tom and the kids left Florida? Or before you and the boys went for a long vacation in your province?

  • @dixiegirl3959
    @dixiegirl3959 7 часов назад +5

    Diba second Filipino wife na si Etching? Wonder why….Tom seems to be a really good provider. He seems kind. Etching went back to the Phil a few times without him. Maybe she never adjusted here in the US. But the boys need stability and a mom and dad. If Tom is not a horrible abuser, sana magbalikan kayo. Sisirain mo isip ng 3 bata. Si William, no bio dad, tapos Tom became his father figure, then wala nanaman. A broken home is very hard on children. Ayusin nyo yan.

    • @kdramalover9818
      @kdramalover9818 6 часов назад +1

      I wonder why Tom and his first filipina wife divorced. Maybe, may something din sa ugali ni Tom..

  • @marianemenzo8570
    @marianemenzo8570 22 часа назад +14

    I could not imagine living still in the same house with your husband that you claimed is now an ex. Hope it will still be worked out. Tom seems responsible and a good father. I don’t want to judge but majority will assume you are just using him to get your green card. Hope the assumptions are wrong.

    • @jermanerandle2731
      @jermanerandle2731 17 часов назад +2

      It sucks when a woman uses men for the money Tom good guy and that's his own fault but it happens to every guys also so have be careful when you're the forerunner I see it a lot on these vlogs

    • @s981mhp4
      @s981mhp4 7 часов назад

      We don’t them or what their relationship is like in private, dont judge.

    • @joan8976
      @joan8976 6 часов назад +1

      😂😂😂😂 ito pa ang isa na masyadong perfect. You don't want to judge but with your comment judgemental ka na. Makitid ang utak 😂😂

  • @Bhel1991
    @Bhel1991 День назад +15

    Proud ako sayo itcheng,kaya mo mag smile smile at kasama parin kayo sa isang bahay na hindi pala kayo ok na, nakakasad lang din.

  • @julieaguigui3837
    @julieaguigui3837 14 часов назад +9

    Tom is such a good and loving father to his three young boys…. think about the pain on your children leaving their dad behind so heartbreaking for them

  • @greenap98
    @greenap98 День назад +66

    i don't think she seriously in love with Tom.i think she has her own interest of marrying a foreigner,true intention and interest.

    • @officiallyheytina
      @officiallyheytina День назад +9

      Stop that,instead of saying negative to someone be nice okay.

    • @marilyncoish9117
      @marilyncoish9117 23 часа назад +8

      I totally agree you can see it in the vidios with Tom.

    • @jazzyAcademia-eb3sg
      @jazzyAcademia-eb3sg 20 часов назад +5

      Having two kids with tom no love? Wow judgemental

    • @glendabrasda-cj5dt
      @glendabrasda-cj5dt 20 часов назад +2

      I think that’s a rude assumption because she’s a young Filipina

    • @SuperCraftaholic
      @SuperCraftaholic 19 часов назад +5

      Already knew this would happen 😆

  • @NilaSarmiento-s1h
    @NilaSarmiento-s1h 18 часов назад +19

    If you don't like negative comments better stop your vlog or don't vlog at all. . Don't make the public your shock absorbers. Only you can solve your marital problems not them. Don't make your marital life a public spectacle. Misery loves company. Only you are responsible for it.

  • @JollyG-v2z
    @JollyG-v2z 4 часа назад +3

    Bkit fanyan lagi na lang hiwalayan ang mga topic ang hirap.ng set up.nyo pano kung makahanap na c tom.ng iba pano na yon mag kakapisan pa rin kau , hindi mo maiwasan na mag comment sa u kc open book un buhay mo.got it

  • @mommyj6982
    @mommyj6982 День назад +7

    Wag mo na pansinin ang bashers. Move on ka na lang ng agad agad para sa mga bata. Always pray, at sure na dadating ang grasya. Magaling kang Nanay, at mabuti kang babae ❤

  • @eva717
    @eva717 22 часа назад +4

    You are young, you can do more enroll online get some medical courses, take a FAFSA loan for your education, until you’re done. Always pray ask God’s provision for you and the kids. Just be civil and friend to the father of your children, for the sake of them

  • @dmcebu
    @dmcebu День назад +7

    Just get closer to God and everything will be ok. Pray...pray lang permi sis.

  • @MaizelaWoodinUKVlog
    @MaizelaWoodinUKVlog Час назад

    😢😢😢 I am a silent viewer but sometimes separation is the best for healthy relationships 😊😊😊 keep on fighting.

  • @marialindamabutas2622
    @marialindamabutas2622 21 час назад +11

    Etching just an advice please avoid sugar to your kids diet. Avoid sweet drinks, sweet foods, etc. what you feed them now will tell their future health!!!!

  • @Ahlou65
    @Ahlou65 День назад +5

    SANA MAGKABALIKAN KAYO, KAWAWA NAMAN MGA BATA ANG LILIIT PA NILA... ALWAYS PRAY TO GOD🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 SANA MAGING OK KAYO!!!

  • @marilyncoish9117
    @marilyncoish9117 23 часа назад +23

    Another green card story..

  • @MsRos860
    @MsRos860 День назад +8

    Deserve mo yan ching na keep your privacy huwag mong ikuwento dito dahil yong ibang basher grabe maka lait parang walang silang problema sa buhay nila

  • @MaggiesYT
    @MaggiesYT 17 часов назад +2

    You are very blessed with all handsome boys especially William, he is such a good Kuya! He reminds me of my 6 yr old son. Bu the way Etching how old is William?

  • @Bhel1991
    @Bhel1991 День назад +4

    Manood parin ako cheng naka follow ako sayo maliit pa si william pumopunta kapa kila ahern sa bohol,ganon ang tunay na nanay cheng wag mo talaga iwan ang mga bata.pag malaki na sila at nag start kana naka work.keep it up lalo sa small business mo.

  • @shadownclown2291
    @shadownclown2291 День назад +6

    tama jud na imong gi buhat day ayaw jud bayai imong mga anak ❤pray lang jud day... God bless you tom & kids 🙏

  • @daddybob6096
    @daddybob6096 11 часов назад +1

    If you take those kids away from Tom, that is absolutely cruel, both to the kids and to Tom who obviously loves them all, William included and Bella, and i bet Tom loves you very much too Etching. My Filipina and i have been married almost 30 years. We couldn't have any children, much as we would have liked to, but we have a beautiful God daughter, we regard like our own and she loves us as a second Mom and Dad. My wife and i love each other dearly and would sacrifice ourselves to save each other. Think seriously what you and Tom have got between you Etching before you make any rash decisions which may end in disaster, maybe not right now, but later in the future. Separations affect the kids big time later on. Regards to you all including the Aherns, whom we feel like we know you all personally. Bob n Lina. NZ. (Cebu)

  • @susangaringalao1461
    @susangaringalao1461 12 часов назад +1

    Whatever the reasons why you're relationship gone that way,its none of our business..just move on and be strong for your children.

  • @tessieshipp2432
    @tessieshipp2432 16 часов назад +1

    Praying for both of you and the kids🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 everything will
    Be fine no matter how hard is your trials. Life must go on and be strong 💪 God is there to guide to both of you🙏🏻

  • @marleneabano366
    @marleneabano366 21 час назад +2

    Tight hug , you’re right your so good to stay with him , sana maayos pa diba , Pero I understand kase I went through things like that sana my ex wants to stay with me and kids para sana mapalaki muna sila , Pero he decides to leave us instead . Pray lang Kaya mo yan .

    • @tomlove6413
      @tomlove6413 17 часов назад

      Hi sorry to hear that I subcrib to your RUclips do you have Facebook

  • @nidafelicidario8866
    @nidafelicidario8866 День назад +9

    Siguro miron kanang bagong boyfriend? Kadalasan kc sa mga nag hihiwalay may bagong lalaki...

    • @marilynbuluran4834
      @marilynbuluran4834 День назад +4

      Obvious, di ba kagagaling nila sa Pilipinas, ang tagal nila doon. Then after ilang months lang, hiwalay na agad.

  • @emilycervantes2734
    @emilycervantes2734 10 часов назад +1

    Pakatatag ka dai Etching para sa mga anak mo, sana kahit hiwalay na kayo ni Tom, maging maganda pa din ang samahan nyo sa isa't isa kahit bilang magkaibigan na lang kayo alang alang sa mga bata..
    God bless 🙏♥️

  • @anastasiabalonosyau3700
    @anastasiabalonosyau3700 23 часа назад +11

    It's time to unsubscribe.

  • @caridadangeles2726
    @caridadangeles2726 18 часов назад +2

    Just PRAY Etching God bless you❤

  • @JoSalay-w1r
    @JoSalay-w1r 20 часов назад +1

    Always remember the first time you and mr tom met. How you grow in love with him..you need to talked to mr tom.. for the sake of your children.. always put God at the center of your marriage.. its difficult however you are the wife you handle whatever situation you are going thru

  • @ma.fatimaninon4374
    @ma.fatimaninon4374 День назад +12

    Palagi ka lang mag pray🙏 for peace of mind & guidance.

  • @angelitaoperario3868
    @angelitaoperario3868 День назад +7

    Etching keep God sa center ng family mo as nice wife to your hubby and nice mom to your kids love your husband and kids just pray Kaya MO Yan 🙏🙏🙏❤️

  • @noneofyourbusiness1683
    @noneofyourbusiness1683 13 часов назад +24

    If I was Tom I would kick you out of the house. You want to be single then you can find out what it’s like to pay bills on your own as a single.

    • @normaalcantar3024
      @normaalcantar3024 13 часов назад +8

      Correct!!

    • @maryrose9654
      @maryrose9654 11 часов назад +5

      True! User za after all nakipag hiwalay, hindi inisip mga bata kaliliit pa.

    • @cristinasilvestrebaysinger809
      @cristinasilvestrebaysinger809 8 часов назад +2

      None of ur business,ang galing mung mag comment one sided k hindi ninyo alam kung ano talaga ang ugali ni tom,alam ni etching hing n wala nman niyang siyang mapupunrahan bkit siya makikipag hiwalay ke tom,hindi puweding kick out si etching dahil sa mga bata child support,at pag nag divorce sila alimony kailangan niyang i bigay batas yan mga day

    • @cristinasilvestrebaysinger809
      @cristinasilvestrebaysinger809 7 часов назад +1

      Child support alimony pag n kick out si etching sa bahay mas malaki ang mawawala ke tom

    • @s981mhp4
      @s981mhp4 7 часов назад

      @@cristinasilvestrebaysinger809judgemental people are so toxic

  • @normabitangcor
    @normabitangcor 17 часов назад +1

    DIVORCE AND GOING BACK TO PHILIPPINES !! not the SOLUTION! PRAY! stay where you are for children's sake! Keep yourself busy with kids and go back to school. Short courses! Tiis ang kailangan. Be patient! Keep going, youre still young to learn more about relationship. Ma realize mo later gaano ka important ang mga kids. Don't let time na mag rebelde sila because of your decision. PRAY TO GOD for guidance and make the right decision. Divorce is not the solution.

  • @american-filipinacouple2632
    @american-filipinacouple2632 22 часа назад +9

    When I first came here in America ,I was humiliated my husband,he's 26 years old sya nun and I was 25 years old ,graveh nya pang lait saakin ,hindi pa ako Maka pag drive nun ,ang hirap talaga .. I was immigrants at the time,masakit then sya mag salita .. until nabuntis ako ,I'm never have plan to become American citizen at the time ,pero I decided kasi buntis ako nun ..😊and now I'm American citizen .. sometimes kun mag salita sya nang masakit saakin nilabanan ko sya .. now he scared f he humiliated me again and also I'm not worried f he kicked me out of his house..I'm so glad 8 years of our marriage he changes a little bit for not humiliated me..

    • @AryanMaryan-d8g
      @AryanMaryan-d8g 8 часов назад

      Ako at husband ko mag 10 years we argue yelling saying bad words I think he understand me that I ma having a postpartum my mood change so I came to pinas for 19 months and I realize how I act to him my mali Pala ako at siya din.. but we're still together. Need ng mag asawa magkiantindihan.. green card holder ako.. masaskait din siya mgsalita pero take note magkaiba cuture namin kaya need open sa isat isa, babalik na po ako sa march seattle with my 3 kids. And he support me with everything.. Kung my mga d man ako nagostohan s akanya hinahayaan ko na lang .. Para my peace of mind, good luck po sa inyo

  • @elizabethang8164
    @elizabethang8164 День назад +7

    Oky lang naman po, time will tell,kung mgkabalikan kayo ang importante magkakasama kayong lahat.

  • @virginiatalavera3340
    @virginiatalavera3340 День назад +32

    Nkta ko naman na si Tom is a loving father to his children ksi ikaw dpat always take care of your children pasalamat ka si Tom nagdala sa yo dyan

    • @aayinyin5083
      @aayinyin5083 День назад +14

      loving father nmn tlga c papa Tom,pero hnd natin alam kung anu tlga mga tunay na ugali nila kaya wala tayo karapatan mag judge,hnd natin alam ang araw2 na ganap sa buhay nila,,remember second wife na c eching.

    • @marilynbuluran4834
      @marilynbuluran4834 День назад +1

      ​Tamad tamadran lang ang peg

    • @MailaSolis
      @MailaSolis 22 часа назад +1

      Naka dalawang Asawa ka n kaagad

    • @christinecruz3073
      @christinecruz3073 22 часа назад +2

      @@MailaSolissame lang sila ni tom si eching pangalawang asawa din niya …

    • @christinecruz3073
      @christinecruz3073 22 часа назад +6

      Saan mo nakita sa mga vlog pero nakasama mo ba siya personal? Nag hiwalay nga din sila ng unang asawa niya di natin alam bakit laging nagihiwalay si tom kahit si tom pa nag dala sa kanya di monpa din alam tunay niyang ugali,,,

  • @julieaguigui3837
    @julieaguigui3837 14 часов назад +9

    They’re not negative comments they’re truthful thoughts

  • @ritocuevas3471
    @ritocuevas3471 5 часов назад

    I’m shocked. I didn’t expect this to happen. I thought you were a perfect couple. I’m worried about the kids. What happened Ching. Can’t it be fixed. Hopefully.

  • @Garrido-u2p
    @Garrido-u2p День назад +14

    Need English to understand what happen Etching bc we watch your channel … Bc you are married to Tom & we watch bc he speak English bc he’s white & that’s their language …

    • @pikakehawaii3763
      @pikakehawaii3763 День назад +1

      Exactly 😊
      thank you💕

    • @arlenejones1085
      @arlenejones1085 День назад +4

      English please.

    • @perlitamills4118
      @perlitamills4118 21 час назад +2

      Ok basically her and her husband not together anymore but they both still living together for the kids which really nice and they show the love for there kids and tom and etching still have good communication and become friends for the reason she really didn't say so for that we have to respect her wish . .

  • @pacydrinkwater2224
    @pacydrinkwater2224 4 часа назад +1

    I think your personal drama between youself and Tom is only for the views. Tom seems a good and responsible husband.

  • @clarindaluna959
    @clarindaluna959 День назад +10

    1Peter 5:8
    ****
    Pg c Jesus Christ center ng life nyo walang mawa2sak...❤😊🙏

  • @Untamedlove
    @Untamedlove 19 часов назад +1

    This is not a situation for people to pick sides because you both have the same love for the boys. We don't need any details about your personal life because that just creates too much Hate

  • @mnas4611
    @mnas4611 День назад +5

    I salute to both of you….. God almighty bless both you and the children…. Keep the love and respect….. thanks for sharing your situation….its ok life has to go on…. May the light of Heaven” reach you all when you needed …. Mabuti ka gyud na Nanay ayy…hug and 💋 kisses…..keep going no need to explain …. ❤

  • @jazzyAcademia-eb3sg
    @jazzyAcademia-eb3sg 20 часов назад +3

    I still have high hopes you two will get back together.❤🎉❤❤❤❤ continue to be loving parents to the kids esp the boys. ❤❤❤

  • @Srts875
    @Srts875 День назад +16

    what happen,third party? or you have new bf for 2 years already.

  • @rayray_x2
    @rayray_x2 16 часов назад +3

    Stop vlogging na lng dai mg trabaho na lng gyud keep safe god bless u will be the best mom for ur boys yun na lng stay private and happy

  • @tatskyleanodim6483
    @tatskyleanodim6483 День назад +4

    It looks like Papa Tom wants to taste the yummy sabaw!.. i do also cook that boiled veggies with fish. Why not ask Papa Tom to taste your cooking…

  • @emilynmanuel6026
    @emilynmanuel6026 21 час назад +3

    Okay lang etching as long na hnd kayo nag-aaway sa harapan ng mga bata. Civil lang at maging friend kayo para s mga bata. Respect lang kayo s isat-isa ni tom. Tsaka last one etching hwag kna mag basa ng mga message lalo n kung hnd maganda or negative yun lang. love you etching at ingat kayo ng mga bata and tom ❤

  • @s981mhp4
    @s981mhp4 7 часов назад

    Just be strong, girl! Keep on keeping on… focus on yourself and the kids. You can do it! 💪

  • @judithmano7794
    @judithmano7794 День назад +10

    Common guys let her explain sa language na comfortable siya

  • @MaddyLanes
    @MaddyLanes 19 часов назад +1

    Ang importante nagkaka intindihan kayo ni Tom kahit hiwalay na, mas ok yan kesa galit kayo sa isat isa. I noticed you’re more matured and very independent since lumipat kayo. C William nakakatuwa kasi nagmatured din sya. God job itching you’re a good mom kasi mas pinili mo tumira sa US for your kids❤️❤️ God bless

  • @emmalascano8905
    @emmalascano8905 8 часов назад +1

    Hay Filipina, ang ibang Filipina talaga mag- aasawa ng foreigner Para ma bago ang status ng buhay, ang problema si eching sobrang bata pa ng mapangasawa si Tom. Ang talagang desire niya noon magkaroon ng bubuhay sa kanila ni William. Kaya wala man talaga love. Ngayon dahil walang love syempre ang tendency makawala. Kung wala yan anak matagal na yang umalis.

  • @JanieO123
    @JanieO123 11 часов назад

    Etching, Just do what you have to do, to take care of you & your boys. Pray & ask God to help you. 🧡🙏

  • @AteMF888
    @AteMF888 22 часа назад +2

    MAY GOD ALWAYS BLESS, AND GUIDE YOU IN EVERY THING YOU DO.
    🙏🏻💖🙏🏻💖🙏🏻

  • @melroseowens8788
    @melroseowens8788 17 часов назад +2

    Natawa ako sabi mo my side wala ka naman kweninto. Iyong iba mag hiniwalay dahil nag cheat . Hindi hahantong sa divorce kong Hindi nag cheat .

  • @Braunkohle
    @Braunkohle 3 часа назад +1

    uso na yata ngayon content hiwalay pero magkasama sa bahay wag nyo gawing laro ang pagblog 😇😇😇

  • @iristimbal6031
    @iristimbal6031 10 часов назад

    It's okay Ching as long as okay kau for the seek of the kids. We can't force something that's already done. What's important you both care for the kids and both parenthing with the kids. Always pray Ching God is good all the time , you are strong woman, don't be affected to all negative comments just ignore and do your thing.❤

  • @Aheynoh
    @Aheynoh День назад +3

    Pagkulang sauce ng spag.pwedi mo dagdagan ng banana catsup or khit anong catsup😊 at sugar para mag red😊nag iiba kasi ang kulay pag condensed ang ilalagay

  • @GG-oe1im
    @GG-oe1im 7 часов назад

    I admire you etching for looking after the wellbeing of the kids first..you are a strong, patient and loving mother...just keep on going and never mind the bashers...sa mga bashers dyan hi di po natin alam Kong anong pinagdaanan ng tao....please be kind always...you don't want to be the reason a person is sad or crying...that's not nice..

  • @normabitangcor
    @normabitangcor 12 часов назад

    Which one to prioritise! Damdamin nyo or kapakanan at damdamin ng mga bata? Think million times! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @florabellanosa2562
    @florabellanosa2562 11 часов назад +1

    Ok lang Yan mommy etching kaya mo Yan ,ako me afam din ako d ko rin masasabing kami talaga kaya d ko binibigay Ang lahat Ng nasa loob ko mahirap kasi now lang na d pa kami magkikita parang feeling ko need lang nya ako pero ako parang d ko dapat ibigay lahat mahirap na need Kong mag lagay Ng wall sa pagitan namin , kaya mo Yan mommy wag mo lang biglain unti unti lang , God bless mommy mahirap talagang magmahal Ng ibang lahi at mahirap maghanap Ng tunay ung salita nila Hanggang salita lang un alam ko ,kaya lakasan mo loob mo makakaya mo Yan nandto lang kaming ,d ka namin iiwan love ka namin pati mga bata ❤❤❤

  • @support3950
    @support3950 14 часов назад

    Notice ko din sa mga vlogs mo, there is something wrong. Nice for being be true. Marami ding ganyan katulad sa yo, couple staying in one house just for the sake of their children. At least you are both civilized. Thanks also for Tom for being supportive to your kids. You don't have to revealed all your personal life to your viewers. It's so hard raising 3 kids. As of now just be thankful you are being bless and thanks also to Tom. Nice Christmas tree

  • @mae_journeyksa9665
    @mae_journeyksa9665 12 часов назад

    Pray and keep your faithfullness to your family.Make your house a home again with Tom.

  • @LumieSoucek-r2t
    @LumieSoucek-r2t 17 часов назад +3

    Your husband did everything for you. All the expenses of yours going back and port to the Philippines is not a joke. Money is not easy to find. I think Toms credit cards are max out by you. I'm a Filipino and I'm ashamed of this. May gaba ang pangloloko at magabaan ka. Believe me or not, there's karma and it's right around the corner. Lumie Digman Sarabosing

  • @tylermorrise
    @tylermorrise 10 часов назад +2

    Shes a scammer she had intentions all along

  • @belendelacruz6302
    @belendelacruz6302 23 часа назад +2

    Tama un ginawa mo, for the sake sa mga kids, at dahil sa pag mamahal, mo sa mga sa kanila kya, ok lang na maging manatili ka sa tabi nila na kasama ang kanilang daddy. Hwag mo iparamdam sa mga anak mo kung anu ang tunay na nangyayari sa relasyon nu ng mister mo, kc maliit pa cla di pa nila ma intindihan. Bka maka affect sa kanilang behavior. Basta ipag patuloy m lang muna habang maliit pa cla. Please dedma lang sa mga negative comments. Think always positive okay!!! God bless you all🙏❤

  • @asilabacolod5326
    @asilabacolod5326 12 часов назад

    The only way u have peace in life
    Always Pray To God
    Be strong in Jesus Name
    Good Faith n Trust To God Always
    Opinion lang Ms Ching
    Ayo ayo lang Dai

  • @LelibethDiegas
    @LelibethDiegas 4 часа назад

    Wagkana umiyak ching ganun talaga Ang Buhay di natin alam anu Ang darating Basta Ang mga bata alagaan mo lang darating Ang araw maintindihan nila support ko nimo ig Kay tom Kay permi ko molantaw sa mga vlog nyo

  • @mamitajm5884
    @mamitajm5884 День назад +18

    Una pa MN halata na sa yo na parang napilitan ka ,,mahilig ka gumala "sorry lang din Yun Ang tingin ko sa yo,

  • @enenallen6982
    @enenallen6982 12 часов назад

    Praying for you and your family 🙏❤️ hoping your marriage will be okay. Please you and Tom don’t give up your marriage!

  • @foodahmix9805
    @foodahmix9805 День назад +2

    Nag ipon japon mo sa imo ex kay dri sa america kung wala kaya ang inahan ang bata ma punta jd sa amahan unless naa kay kaya makabuhi sa bata. Mao nay naka sad ana og wala pod na gi adopt ni Tom si william anha jd na si william sa imoha maong dli jd ang 3 ka magsuon. Ug usa dli pod ka ka afford to live on your own dri sa america dai puerte mahala bsag unsaon lisud jd gawas kung professional ka kung ultimo dli jd mabuhi dri. Ipon lang sa puyo then pag save og maayo incase needed na jd ka mo lakaw naa nakay kuwarta magamit pag wise dri sa america ching.. once palayason ka wala naa sila paki nmo tawagan paka pulis ana para mahawa ka

  • @perlitahenares5546
    @perlitahenares5546 День назад +5

    Settle nyo lang po ang isyu para back to husband and wife po

  • @sofiatolentino4451
    @sofiatolentino4451 18 часов назад

    Let God be the center of your life/ your family… Keep on praying & always keep the faith… Teach your children to pray always coz no matter how you live your life, God will never abandon you & your family 🙏🙏

  • @eleanortanutan6300
    @eleanortanutan6300 День назад +15

    Ano ba ung dahilan bakit kau naghiwalay ni Tom? Meron ka bang boyfriend doon sa province nong magbakasyon kau? Naabutan ba ni Tom ung bf mo doon sa apartment na inupahan mo? Wala pala kau pinagkaiba kay Mrs.Ahern?

    • @Juliet.BandaAtop
      @Juliet.BandaAtop День назад +1

      Wow grabi sya kung makapagsalita dakilang chismusa mind your own life none of your business ano klasing nilalang ka

    • @marilynbuluran4834
      @marilynbuluran4834 День назад +1

      Sabi, tomboy daw

    • @eleanortanutan6300
      @eleanortanutan6300 День назад +4

      @@Juliet.BandaAtop quismosa online? May reklamo ka? Gusto lang malaman ung totoo sa hiwalayan? Bakit nagpabuntis pa sa pangalawa kung hihiwalay din lang..Mabait naman ung lalake? Ibigay mo sa akin?

    • @Juliet.BandaAtop
      @Juliet.BandaAtop 23 часа назад

      @@eleanortanutan6300 what the heck

    • @jazzyAcademia-eb3sg
      @jazzyAcademia-eb3sg 20 часов назад

      Hahahahaha 24/7 marites 😅

  • @mariloulustre3689
    @mariloulustre3689 22 часа назад +1

    Ako nga cheng 25 yrs na nag tiis na makasama.asawa ko..lht mnsan sukong suko na ako.pero pag naiicp ko mga ank ko..ayw ko lumaki mga ank ko na broken family kc pag nag hwalay kami ng asawa ko mga ank ko ang n# 1 na msaktan..kht ngaun malaki na cla d ko parn cla kaya iwan o iwalay sa ama nila..

  • @felicitasbauzon7387
    @felicitasbauzon7387 16 часов назад +2

    Huwag kang kaya mayabang
    Magpasslsmat ka may nagbiga y ng visa sa iyo mga pilipino
    Akala mo kung sino nakarating sa usa. You have to
    Value it and be thankful .para kang mayabang pa lagi

  • @pattygolez987
    @pattygolez987 День назад +2

    That's sad.....do what rights for you ....ok lang yan. Just be strong lang u can do it. GOD BLESS YOU❤

  • @cecillegonzales4743
    @cecillegonzales4743 22 часа назад +1

    i like your being so soft spoken etching.. God bless you and i hope you are ok and sana magka ayos pa kayo in behalf of your kids

  • @micheledelgado6866
    @micheledelgado6866 23 часа назад +3

    Always Stay Strong for the kids Etching. LABAN LANG Ano man mamgyari