I'm glad to hear you confirm what depression can do. In the past six months, while trying to find help, I keep being told that the things I have, bipolars, severe anxiety and insomnia, ptst, ocd, are not real illnesses. I keep having my heart broken being told I'm fine, when I have doctor's who are telling me you are not fine, you need special care in certain circumstances, it's people like you who give me hope, it's hard enough dealing with what I'm dealing with, but to have the world around me look at me and say but you look fine, it's breaking my heart each time I hear it. I cry out for help because I don't want to be a statistic, but it's amazing how many people just throw you and what your telling them away. It's been a hard 30 years, an even harder 6 months now that as an adult I'm trying to find help on my own and feel like I need someone to hold my hand, I just have to keep hoping I'll get it.
Jill Seufert my love, you have a beautiful and strong soul you have courage and I am SURE you are going to get out of this make you life and others life a better place. Remember nothing is impossible and you are here for a reason just try and try to be happy until you feel like happiness is your comfort zone. I believe in you and I know you will make it out and be so fulfilled that everyone will envy you and your personality. Take care. And I love you sis.
Kita Kal yes gratitude from someone is the greatest payment you will ever have. Nothing will make you feel happier then seeing someone else happy from your own actions.
@@greenkitty82 "Has any one's burden's been lighten today? Because I was willing to share?" Yes, i totally agree with you. I know doing good for someone else is a joy beyond measure. A blessing of love. 💝💯 Merry Christmas! 🎄
Kita Kal thank you! Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones too! 🎄🎅🎁 yes if you want to be happy think about the happiness of others, if you want to be unhappy then remain selfish and think only of yourself. Spread the light and love to all and best wishes for 2020. 🎉
Do what you love, and love what you do!! This hairstylist is clearly in the right profession! ❤️ May she have a happy and successful career!! And I hope the young lady she helped feels better and her depression lifts. 👍😁
Springa13 well you're just stupid. Depression can lead to suicide and this hero used 13 hours of her life to make her feel better and show her that she's not useless and not kill herself. Use your brain if you have one.
Springa13 I think you are a spoiled brat for thinking that some girls have died because they were being bullied and not by killing themselves by the bullies killing them some have dealt with loses of family members some have had incurable diseases and you here talking about how spoiled they are wtf is wrong with you she couldn’t even get out of bed because she felt like she wasn’t worth living and your hear calling her spoiled grow up you self centered ass
Yep depression can do this. I would go days without brushing my hair brushing my teeth and bathing its rough. No one ever talks about this side of depression
This is depression. You don't even care about your hygiene anymore, it's not important. It takes a lot of energy, which you don't even have sometimes. Depression is different depending on the person. People experiment different kind of symptoms and feelings. Please don't say they're being lazy, you're not in their body. I've been depressed for over 12 years, I'm a student, about to graduate and become a teacher, so I don't think I'm lazy :)
Very true. U get so overwhelmed and have no energy to function. And this shows how bad u really feel, because no way would u do that if u felt better. I almost never went a day in my whole life without a shower until i got very sick with a tumor and I am also very depressed. It is a terrible feeling and a horrible way to live. God bless all of us
@@MisterKzzt Unfortunately, that can happen. The same way you stop feeding yourself. Those are basics needs, but your brain is clearly not in the mood to do that. Sometimes you simply forget, it feels unimportant. It's very sad.
@@huna5923 I'm sorry, I just need to stop you right there. (Btw I'm not trying to be condescending, even though it may come off that way. I just want to educate you. I truly just want you to understand.) I don't know if you've been through depression but based on this comment, I believe you haven't, but when you're depressed, you feel so worthless to the world that you think that taking care of yourself isn't worth it. That you, as a human being, are so extremely insignificant that changing your appearance doesn't matter, because you still mean nothing and are completely worthless. I hope that helps, and I hope you understand where I'm coming from.
i HATE that some people think 13 year olds can't have depression because one of my best friends killed herself so please, take that into consideration. Absolutely anyone can have depression.
I've been depressed for as long as I can remember and I have real reasons too. I agree that some kids my age think shit like watching sad spongebob edits and remembering your "boyfriend" who dumped you when you were 8 makes you depressed but a lot of us have genuine illnesses and we just get shunned because of our age.
I’m dealing with this with my 12year old daughter right now. She told me to just shave it. I refused and now I’m working to comb out the Matt’s and save her long hair.
As a kid that's hair is about to this extreme and my own depression is getting awful this is some advice that I really hope u take bc I've been wishing for someone to do this for years. If u get her a therapist please dont ever make her feel like it's a chore bringing her there, dont talk about gas money or how ur tired of driving there bc ir will make her not want to go any more and feel even more like a burden. If she has a breakdown and screams at u please dont yell back, usually its from holding in emotions for days and something as simple as spilling a drink will trigger it. And finally please give them their space but when they leave their room or want to be around family again be kind and act as nothing happened. Also if they are staying in their room for days find something they like (fav chips, ect) and give it to them, it shows u love then and think about them and want her to know shes not alons
@@finnleyfrankie299 wow you know more about helping people with depression and mental illnesses than most adults! Keep your head up, I was very depressed growing up coz I had really bad self esteem but it gets better trust me. Never give up ❤️
Take a few months off, go travel in a new place, that’ll help.. and never ever complain about how much you have to do for her coz it’ll make her feel worse. Support her all the time, while yourself being strong.
ValeriAdventures depression is waking up in the morning wishing you didnt. Depression is not planning ahead in life because you think "ill kill myself anyway why even try"
ValeriAdventures Mmmhmm close but not really. I seem like a really happy person but I severe from severe depression. Been on many different SSRIs and yet struggle with dark thoughts. Not all depression looks like this.
Vien Sawfish how are you supposed to learn when you can’t even function? Students need to be taught how to deal with life before they’re thrown into their futures
See honey, life is worth living. If she is watching this honey I was addicted to crack and meth thinking life was worthless as well. I was homeless on the street with no where to go in the winter living outside during blizzards here in Buffalo NY. I got clean and found new motivation for my life. I hope you do as well young lady and get the help you need. I literally was a scum bag who robbed anyone I saw. Now my dad trusts me with his credit card, I take the car, and am financially responsible. Everyone can find hope! Keto going girl!!!!
I'm so so proud of you. I'm trying to get clean from addiction and it can bring you down some dark places. The fact you've picked yourself up from a strong disease and live so amazingly is so wonderful. This comment for real made my whole week. Thanks for commenting it!
@@hamnashariqqq no not all of us are the same and sometimes you gotta care for yourself and love yourself sometimes. But I do agree with what you're TRYING to say is that it's kinda selfish to call out a fan when the situation is serious. But go off I guess
I don't know why but something's tells me that she had also faced depression in her life....because unless u experience that u don't know the intensity of it
I hope people realize she (in an instant ) gave up her days pay, and worked her forearms to burning. That is such kindness. And you can hear it in her voice.
You can save the heart of the person left behind by treating the deceased with respect and trying to make that person look as presentable as possible for their loved ones. Depression hits those left behind. Having a smooth transition is important. Although I believe you do that each time and maybe don't realize the impact it can have on one's heart and emotions at a difficult time.
Just reminding people that depression can range from mild to severe, since so many comments are trying to invalidate those people. Just because someone can function in life it doesn't mean they're not depressed and don't have the joy sucked out of every little thing in life.
I hate how depression is so often romanticized as something tragic but beautiful. Depressed isn’t beautiful. It’s so incredibly painful. And it’s so hard to feel happiness or any emotion at all and it’s so painful. The hairdresser is truly a hero.
Depression sucks at any age...I'm 59, and know first hand what depression is like...giving up on friends, family, and my business...what a wonderful thing she did for that girl..we all need something or someone in our life
My Opinion yeah. The thing is sometimes life doesn't get as good as you want it to. It might get better and it might not, that's the gamble of life. Good luck my friend and i hope ur situation improves
Random fact: Even 8 year olds can be depressed. And some people think they fake it. Edit: hello :D if you think you’re depressed or even have suicidal thoughts, please feel free to get help from a therapist or anyone you trust. Second Edit: Im sorry i cant respond to your replies , but just remember for now that crying is okay. Ive let out my pain multiple times by crying. If you could, shout your pain out. I dont want anyone to have the pain of guilt, stress, or whatever thing that is in your heart.
Akash Iyer No it isn’t, you just hear about the bad more because it’s a better money maker. Promise there’s so much good out there. Make it if you aren’t finding it
Naido I mean if the world ends n the only ones that get saved are those who believed in heaven then cool but if the world ends and heaven ain't real we all finna die anyway so might as well believe, fool.
This hairdresser literally took 13 hours to make her hair look pretty because she didn’t want this girl to feel this hopeless in life. She’s the best hairdresser ever. 🌹❤️💕
For all of you "calling out teenagers for faking depression": I went through puberty extremely depressed. The only reason I could get out of bed was I was so intensely terrified of being yelled at that it was enough fear to drive me out of bed. Everyone told me I didn't have depression, it's just my age, to man up, etc. So there I was, a young teenage boy, self harming, suicidal, exhausted and sick all the time, unable to bathe consistently or get frequent enough haircuts, feeling all the more pathetic and worthless because of this attitude. I still have depression. Now that I'm older and my self harm and suicidal tendencies became too obvious to ignore, I'm finally believed. But if I'd seen a mental health professional earlier instead of being told it was just normal teenagehood and I was faking it, perhaps it never would've gotten this far. Perhaps I would've kept up with school, perhaps I'd have friends in person. So please don't attack young people for expressing their feelings. Yes it can be annoying when someone's all like "UwU I'm so depressed" when their experience seems mild. You don't know what they're going through deep down, you don't know their lives. Seeking attention online by faking mental illnesses is itself a sign of neglect in the home, is a sign of other disorders aside from the ones they're claiming. If you're a teen- or anyone, really- who feels like you need help and no one is listening, please reach out. Feel free to respond to this comment, too, I can't do much but maybe I can make you feel heard, and if that helps at all? Then I'll be very glad to have done something rather than sitting back claiming other people's problems aren't real simply because on a surface level they're not as bad as my own or as bad as they could be.
Please understand the difference between “I am depressed.” and “I have depression.” Everyone can feel depressed, it’s natural to feel down sometime in life. Depression, on the other hand, is not a single emotion, it’s a whole, complicated state of mind. Either way, depressed people and people diagnosed with depression can both have an internet hug from me❤️ the amount or seriousness of someone’s sadness doesn’t really determine the fact that they all deserve some kind of consolation
• feigh • thank you. i have been personally diagnosed and im going through a lot right now so to 1. have someone agree with me and 2. be supported helps. 💕
I hope the girl she helped is doing better emotionally and mentally. The hairdresser has a heart of gold. For 13 hours, she worked and worked to help ease this girl's depression and boost her confidence. There should be more people like this hairdresser in this world.
That's what John Lennon was trying to say but sadly, the people who call for peace are usually ones with agendas and not genuine love for humanity and thus, our society today. There will be lesser and lesser of such good people that even a simple task as picking up a banana peel and putting it in the trash can will be received with such applause like it was an extraordinary thing to do.
This lady was so awesome for helping that girl, BUT nobody took time to congratulate the girl who actually was depressed. Nobody took the time to talk about the girl who was going through the hours of pain of yanking. Nobody took the time to call the depressed girl a hero. I wanted to hear them talk about the girl with the knots. How she felt then and how she feels now that her hair is healthy.
EXACTLY!!!! And the fact the hairdresser is doing the job of family and friends. It makes me angry. People generally make depression about everyone except the depressed person. Good on you for pointing that out.
I'm sure they were very careful though and talked to her during the procedure. I'm not saying she wasn't a hero or very brave, but I'm fairly sure they talked to her and were very careful and calm about brushing her hair and using conditioner.
Some heroes don't wear capes. They put a salon cape on the ones they rescue. This beautiful woman is heaven sent and deserves the world and all the happiness in it.
Ded Ender 072 This person could of died because she felt like she didn't matter,it's not about her hair it's about her confidence of actually considering herself a person with purpose.
Kavya there is a lot of people like that and the hairdressing business they really do care when you make someone look good you could see it in their eyes and face they get a gleam in their eye and the hairdresser automatically knows that they have police someone you can totally see a difference when they get out of your chair you could find one you can also call a beauty school they will help you if your hair is matted if your hair is matted fill it with some hair conditioner and let it set in there and start with the bottom of it with a brush and work work your way up through the tangles or pull it apart with your hands like you would a piece of mesh or something but do it gently to it on dry hair with the conditioner
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Sha Johnson that is so kind of you to take your time and help someone like that with matted hair I had a sick lady in cosmetology school she was in the hospital for months and months her hair was up on top of her head like a bun ion mad at it for her with climatress and a rat tail comb it taken me maybe an hour or so but she was very appreciative but the climate Russ straight on the hair and it really does work
Kavya: There are A LOT of good people in the world, but we are conditioned to not look for it. Look at a terrorist attack: Thousands of people line up to help strangers, with people risking their own life in the process. Look for the good in people: It's there. 😊
River SF it is far from a "real problem" jfc what is a real problem however is depressed people not seeking for helpp because they think they don't have it bad enough and they just need to suck it up.
How can anyone not feel emotional hearing a young girl say that she feels worthless is heartbreaking. I hope that she left the salon with a boosted self esteem. She was worth those 13 hours.
I have depression too, I slept for months to the point where I got bed sores. But my mother kept getting me up to shower and she would bring me food and tell me how much she loved me. I only wish more parents could do that for their children, to understand and still take care of them no matter how much they have given up on themselves. Edit. Its been three years, I went to a therapist every Friday for a year and I am off all my medications. I told my father to his face the damage he caused by abusing me, and he apologized. I didn't just blame him, I told him I knew about his childhood abuse and that it wasn't right to continue it with me. He broke down and that was the first time I saw him cry, we still have a strained friendship but its getting better. I met someone at a place I was working and we are now engaged, we have been together for a year now. I'm still at home repaying my mother for all her kindness and compassion. And I haven't felt depressed in a whole year. I know it's still looming in the back of my head but its quiet now. I can say honestly that I am content with my life. Thank you all for your concerns and care for my wellbeing.
My father used to beat me black and blue and believed that my depression and anxiety was just a child being rude. I left when I was 16, I have had depression all my life. Being 6 years old and trying to kill myself wasnt ideal specially if your father hates you for it. I am grateful for my mother, I am still working on recovery and getting my life back together, but its a long road and its hard not to jump off of it. Keep moving despite the ignorance, wont bs you saying life will get better but I will say it might get easier.
It becomes worse when they actually know something about you and depression. They start to irritate you, bit by bit, to the extend of making you go berserk. ..and aha, when you do THAT, everything that you've strived for will fall apart.
I know I remember back in 6th grade one of my friends made up this story about how she talked me through it and she ended up getting so much praise and she only did that to get attention and that’s what I realy don’t understand about people these days and how the think so obliviously
Please everyone just remember: Noone can tell you that you're 'not sad enough' to get a little attention. Whenever you feel the need to talk about something, do it.
Louder for the people in the back!! This comment section is filled with "this is what REAL depression looks like" etc etc, but no hun. Just because someone has it worse than you doesn't make your problems and the way you feel invalid.
What? I CAN .... "Youre just Not SAD enough to get attention....sorry.....put a little more effort into it....a little more gusto". SEE?....I just did. Thank You.
THIS!!!!!! People need to sit down and stop gaslighting people with depression. I'm in my 30s and people have done this to me since my teens, is why I couldn't admit I had depression for so long & was ashamed. Remember you are loved & supported!
When I was an ICU nurse, I had an elderly lady that had been neglected by family and her hair was matted like a football helmet. She also told me to shave it. It took me over 4 hours to comb the knots out. I then washed it and gave her a trim. She felt like a new woman.
Bad Ash Did you do it after your shift? Or was the ICU empty except her? How did you possibly find 4 hours to come one woman's hair in an Intensive Care Unit? Let alone cut it for her.. Didn't you have other patients/rounds to make? I'm not trying to be rude, but that's really remarkable that you even found the time to do that.. ICU patients are very fragile and require 24/7 monitoring and care, not to mention how understaffed and busy most hospitals are in general.. Bless your heart for being so devoted to your patients.
Princess Sparkle Pixie since the patients in ICU are high acuity, the normal assignment is 2 patients. It was a night shift and my other patient was decently stable. Also helpful when you have good coworkers :)
The matting actually happened to me last year, I did shave it, I had no choice, I shaved it all last April, it’s slowly growing back, I wish I was as courageous as that girl to go to a salon and try and get help
Kyle Downing you know what you just said it's threatening and you can get in trouble with the police... You need to stop like that's not cute. God bless you, you need Jesus(not trying to be funny)
Who else thinks the school System is broken? Most kids get stressed and depressed from school Omg 16k likes I have the most likes on all of the comments thanks so much🧡🧡🧡
NWAZ flatEarther you can be happy and lucky again, you should have motivation, go to some communities make good friends ask for help, that’s better than any meds, exercise is a key so you should help yourself that’s what I always do, hope you will be happy again everything is possible never give up
WHY THE FUCK DO YOU CARE?? THIS IS WHY PEOPLE ARE DEPRESSED WRECKS, BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE SO FIXATED ON LIKES. MAYBE THE PERSON THAT DISLIKED THIS VIDEO GENUINELY DID NOT LIKE THIS VIDEO?? I WOULD EXPECT A QUESTION LIKE THAT FROM DONALD TRUMP, BUT NOT FROM SOME RANDOM COMMENTOR ON A VIDEO ABOUT DEPRESSION.
GALAXY GAMING: The best helpers are those who don't brag about it. So I like to think a lot of people are inspired by this video--and are helping...without reporting back to us here.
I'm so confused, why is everyone so mad at this video? Literally the video is about how the depressed girl got her life turned around because of an amazing hair stylist. I really don't see what is there to be triggered about...
i mean some schools are understanding. i didn’t go to school for three months and nobody questioned. her parents probably talked to the school, because if they didn’t she surely would’ve been labeled as a chronic truant
learning greek summer school! and some classes i will make up later since i only have to make up the second semester of four classes. i was a freshman so i guess i have time since this happened last year.
That hairstylist saved that girl’s life, she made her feel that she mattered...sometimes, it takes just a little ray of light in someones life...bless her soul 💕
Queen Niaja Did you not even WATCH the video? it said and i quote; “She was so depressed that she refused to get out of bed for months” and learn grammar lmao.
You don't need to be a psychologist specifically to help someone with depression.Anyone, in any capacity, can help others . Just the desire to help somebody should be there.A big salute to the lady.
I have borderline personality disorder and my dad calls me worthless all of the time. This story really broke my heart because even though my hair wasn't almost shaved off, I know what it's like to not want to take care of yourself. Sometimes I don't wanna get up and eat, sometimes I don't. I lost my mom when I was 16, so there's nobody to tell him he's wrong. Having things like BPD really kills you inside, and the way people treat you because of it is even worse.
Hey beautiful keep your head up please. Find things that nake you happy. Surround yourself with positive people. Tell yourseld you love yourself. Youll be okay
Night Interludes I have BPD from an abusive father.. Thankfully he's no longer in my life.. I'm sorry you're still going through that though. I'm praying for you.
See what oh I see u being ignorant These "kids" u call edgy could be kill them selves,or cutting. depression comes in many different shapes, sizes, and forms. No body ever said depression is funny or cute, and u should never invalid there feelings.
@@djbruh8726 "i havent so..." is the most retarded argument ive ever seen. (Yeah a lot of "edgy" people arent doing it for attention but some ppl are legit depressed.)
I'm going to point out that parents from different cultures don't believe in depression or being depressed, it's nonexistent, and they'll just laugh at you for telling them about the way you're feeling. I know from experience, but I want to point out that this video has encouraged me to go to a salon. My hair is pretty dead and matted so it hurts when I try to brush it because I let go of taking care of myself. Just thinking about going to the salon gives me anxiety because what if they laugh at me too.
Ingrid Rodri feel better my love. If that is you in your profile pic then what a pretty face! (it doesnt matter anyway as long as you are a happy person) feel better! my mom is the same way its very hard to deal with but please take care of yourself.
I would say if they’re professional they will not laugh at you I’m in cosmetology school and I would never want to laugh at a client it’s just wrong in the first place so I would say to go and if they make you feel bad try another salon but one of the reasons I’m doing it is because I love to make others feel good about themselves😊
What a sweet and beautiful young woman. God bless her for doing such a wonderful thing for someone else. We need more people like her in this world. Such a big ❤️. 🙏🙏😊
My hairdresser did the same for me ! I was depressed for months and went in and she took so much time & fixed me up & without judgement now I don't go to anyone else cause I know she will work with me every time she's the best !
Its hard to explain depression to a person who has never had it. Everyone's been sad but everyone hasn't experienced perpetual misery accommodated with small bouts of hope that get extinguished what seems like aggressively and maliciously. Lightly salted with bad luck. It doesn't only alter your mood. It influences your decision making, physiology, relationships, and work ethics....sometimes permanently
TXejas19 ❤️ It makes me so sad how depression rates and anxiety rates and all these horrible issues are becoming more common. Something has to be done about it. It makes my life and others lives so much harder.
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I'm glad to hear you confirm what depression can do. In the past six months, while trying to find help, I keep being told that the things I have, bipolars, severe anxiety and insomnia, ptst, ocd, are not real illnesses. I keep having my heart broken being told I'm fine, when I have doctor's who are telling me you are not fine, you need special care in certain circumstances, it's people like you who give me hope, it's hard enough dealing with what I'm dealing with, but to have the world around me look at me and say but you look fine, it's breaking my heart each time I hear it. I cry out for help because I don't want to be a statistic, but it's amazing how many people just throw you and what your telling them away. It's been a hard 30 years, an even harder 6 months now that as an adult I'm trying to find help on my own and feel like I need someone to hold my hand, I just have to keep hoping I'll get it.
Jill Seufert my love, you have a beautiful and strong soul you have courage and I am SURE you are going to get out of this make you life and others life a better place. Remember nothing is impossible and you are here for a reason just try and try to be happy until you feel like happiness is your comfort zone. I believe in you and I know you will make it out and be so fulfilled that everyone will envy you and your personality. Take care. And I love you sis.
The Doctors nice video
The Doctors :(...
"in whatever profession you choose, you can literally save a life and give someone hope"
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Im an Ant breeder....I save Ant everyday. ANT LIVES MATTER (Fist Pump) !!!!!!
Right
I literally read this at the same time he said that wtf
Actually hitmen and mercenaries do the opposite...
"She thanked me and that was my BIGGEST tip."
- hairdresser 2019
Kita Kal yes gratitude from someone is the greatest payment you will ever have. Nothing will make you feel happier then seeing someone else happy from your own actions.
@@greenkitty82 "Has any one's burden's been lighten today? Because I was willing to share?" Yes, i totally agree with you. I know doing good for someone else is a joy beyond measure. A blessing of love. 💝💯 Merry Christmas! 🎄
Kita Kal thank you! Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones too! 🎄🎅🎁 yes if you want to be happy think about the happiness of others, if you want to be unhappy then remain selfish and think only of yourself. Spread the light and love to all and best wishes for 2020. 🎉
Do what you love, and love what you do!! This hairstylist is clearly in the right profession! ❤️ May she have a happy and successful career!! And I hope the young lady she helped feels better and her depression lifts. 👍😁
@@greenkitty82 2020 is not the best year
That hairstylist is so pure just wow.
Very.
So true. ❤
yes 🥺 she almost made me cry
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What a lovely, giving soul the hairdresser has! She's a shining light in our dark world.
I bet her parents are so proud. They raised a decent , loving person.
“Having depression is like having a body fighting a war to survive with a mind wanting to die”
Tanha U Hii 😄 Just wanted to say if you're suffering from depression, please reach out to someone, including me.
Take care
Right
Totally I have depression I understand this
It's really hard to go on
This is so true.
Depression is the cancer of the soul.
No it's not you have no idea what mental illness is all about
Brittany Rozenberg Hollander she’s right depression is the cancer of the soul
That was well said kudos 👏
Brittany Rozenberg Hollander r/wooooooooooooooooooooosh
No you're thinking of a brain tumour
The fact that she used 13 hours of her life to untangle the hair of a 16-year old girl she’s never met makes her a true hero.
Twenty Juan Pilots no a true hero is someone who saves someone from getting shot. Not by making her hair better
Springa13 You really believe that lol does it matter how you save someones life
Springa13 well you're just stupid. Depression can lead to suicide and this hero used 13 hours of her life to make her feel better and show her that she's not useless and not kill herself. Use your brain if you have one.
Springa13 seriously?!
Springa13 I think you are a spoiled brat for thinking that some girls have died because they were being bullied and not by killing themselves by the bullies killing them some have dealt with loses of family members some have had incurable diseases and you here talking about how spoiled they are wtf is wrong with you she couldn’t even get out of bed because she felt like she wasn’t worth living and your hear calling her spoiled grow up you self centered ass
Yep depression can do this. I would go days without brushing my hair brushing my teeth and bathing its rough. No one ever talks about this side of depression
Is it depression or lazyness
This is depression. You don't even care about your hygiene anymore, it's not important. It takes a lot of energy, which you don't even have sometimes. Depression is different depending on the person. People experiment different kind of symptoms and feelings. Please don't say they're being lazy, you're not in their body. I've been depressed for over 12 years, I'm a student, about to graduate and become a teacher, so I don't think I'm lazy :)
Very true. U get so overwhelmed and have no energy to function. And this shows how bad u really feel, because no way would u do that if u felt better. I almost never went a day in my whole life without a shower until i got very sick with a tumor and I am also very depressed. It is a terrible feeling and a horrible way to live. God bless all of us
@@MisterKzzt Unfortunately, that can happen. The same way you stop feeding yourself. Those are basics needs, but your brain is clearly not in the mood to do that. Sometimes you simply forget, it feels unimportant. It's very sad.
@@huna5923 I'm sorry, I just need to stop you right there. (Btw I'm not trying to be condescending, even though it may come off that way. I just want to educate you. I truly just want you to understand.) I don't know if you've been through depression but based on this comment, I believe you haven't, but when you're depressed, you feel so worthless to the world that you think that taking care of yourself isn't worth it. That you, as a human being, are so extremely insignificant that changing your appearance doesn't matter, because you still mean nothing and are completely worthless. I hope that helps, and I hope you understand where I'm coming from.
God bless this woman who is so sentimental about a stranger's feeling...
AMEN!
Ummm this came off weird but sure
AMEN!
It's called empathy, which is much more deeply felt than sentiment.
made me cry 🥺
You can tell that hair stylist has thee sweetest most pure heart.
i just see hair
@Gabriel Ledesma wtf
Gabriel Ledesma bro she spent 13hours to do her hair, instead of shaving it because she wanted to make her feel better! That’s amazing 💜
@@lunchroombologna9617 13 hours isn't that long trust me.
Lil-Millie l well that doesn’t matter, she didn’t just shave it off which is the amazing part! Most people wouldn’t do that
i HATE that some people think 13 year olds can't have depression because one of my best friends killed herself so please, take that into consideration. Absolutely anyone can have depression.
my little sister was diagnosed with depression at 6 ,depression has no age
We're not saying that. We're talking about the people who fake depression for attention
@@jrw2319 i agree with you. Like they think they can make it into a trend and be popular for it.
I've been depressed for as long as I can remember and I have real reasons too. I agree that some kids my age think shit like watching sad spongebob edits and remembering your "boyfriend" who dumped you when you were 8 makes you depressed but a lot of us have genuine illnesses and we just get shunned because of our age.
your right there is no age limit. It has been recorded in medical books as young as 2.
"This is a reminder that no matter what career you choose you can still save somebody's life". TRUTH!
Enz Di Cristofaro Im a serial killer. True. I kill people but I could have killed someone that was going to kill someone else!
*works at McDonalds*
'hello i am mega depress giv me a burger
*gives all of the food*
Masonry
Create a fancy outdoor oven so pizza can be cooked outdoors
good words 🙏
wise*
I’m dealing with this with my 12year old daughter right now. She told me to just shave it. I refused and now I’m working to comb out the Matt’s and save her long hair.
As a kid that's hair is about to this extreme and my own depression is getting awful this is some advice that I really hope u take bc I've been wishing for someone to do this for years. If u get her a therapist please dont ever make her feel like it's a chore bringing her there, dont talk about gas money or how ur tired of driving there bc ir will make her not want to go any more and feel even more like a burden. If she has a breakdown and screams at u please dont yell back, usually its from holding in emotions for days and something as simple as spilling a drink will trigger it. And finally please give them their space but when they leave their room or want to be around family again be kind and act as nothing happened. Also if they are staying in their room for days find something they like (fav chips, ect) and give it to them, it shows u love then and think about them and want her to know shes not alons
@@finnleyfrankie299 wow you know more about helping people with depression and mental illnesses than most adults! Keep your head up, I was very depressed growing up coz I had really bad self esteem but it gets better trust me. Never give up ❤️
Research Morgellon's Hair symptoms/matting at the root!
@@finnleyfrankie299 Along with that, make sure to not pressure her to clean her room, it's very stressful if you can't even get up out of bed
Take a few months off, go travel in a new place, that’ll help.. and never ever complain about how much you have to do for her coz it’ll make her feel worse. Support her all the time, while yourself being strong.
Not all heroes wear capes.
Agree
Don't you have to wear a cape to get your hair cut ?
Yes the flash doesn't
Some are Barbers.
Kennygaming20 yeah the person that gets their hair cut do, sorry to break it to you but the barber doesn’t wear a cape
THIS. THIS is what depression is. I wish people would stop romanticizing it, depression is not a pretty thing.
well i kinda agree, but there are different levels. not every person with depression has it this badly.
No, no it is not 😧
ValeriAdventures depression is waking up in the morning wishing you didnt. Depression is not planning ahead in life because you think "ill kill myself anyway why even try"
ValeriAdventures Mmmhmm close but not really. I seem like a really happy person but I severe from severe depression. Been on many different SSRIs and yet struggle with dark thoughts. Not all depression looks like this.
thatsillywanker i've been diagnosed with
chronic depression and ptsd so I think I know what i'm talking about k thanks.
Schools need to focus on helping kids mental health rather then stressful pointless subjects
Jessica Lawless it’s life nigga. Get used to it.
@@happygofishing7590 true
TriztPringl nigga how the fuck is religion stressful and how would learning about why people get depressed make anything better? It doesn’t.
Jessica Lawless dumbass
Vien Sawfish how are you supposed to learn when you can’t even function? Students need to be taught how to deal with life before they’re thrown into their futures
See honey, life is worth living. If she is watching this honey I was addicted to crack and meth thinking life was worthless as well. I was homeless on the street with no where to go in the winter living outside during blizzards here in Buffalo NY. I got clean and found new motivation for my life. I hope you do as well young lady and get the help you need. I literally was a scum bag who robbed anyone I saw. Now my dad trusts me with his credit card, I take the car, and am financially responsible. Everyone can find hope! Keto going girl!!!!
I am proud of you. You probably know by now what your triggers are, try to avoid that please...I don't want you to fall again. Good job! 🤗
I'm so so proud of you. I'm trying to get clean from addiction and it can bring you down some dark places. The fact you've picked yourself up from a strong disease and live so amazingly is so wonderful. This comment for real made my whole week. Thanks for commenting it!
I’ve never met you but I’m so proud of you!! Keep up the good work, man!
💜💜💜💜💜
congratulations! this is an amazing story
The hairdresser deserves a reward for her kindness( thanks for all the likes)
She got $1,000 from Paul Mitchell products
Dude she got on tv, i think that’s enough
@@AmazingRebel23 Dude, I think that's enough from you... 🙄
They gave her 1k
Sisilea Chan wow
*_that hair dresser has such a big heart, God bless her_* 💜💜✨
Kim NamJams 💜💜💜
Army 💜
@@spxd_er1 wtf, all you bts fans care about is yourself.
@@hamnashariqqq i love how you think i care about myself, thank you
@@hamnashariqqq no not all of us are the same and sometimes you gotta care for yourself and love yourself sometimes. But I do agree with what you're TRYING to say is that it's kinda selfish to call out a fan when the situation is serious. But go off I guess
I don't know why but something's tells me that she had also faced depression in her life....because unless u experience that u don't know the intensity of it
Kavya yes, i can see it in her eyes.
bububaba yeah same
Very true my friend
Yes i think that too cuz she wouldent have cried that much
Kavya right, the willingness to help this girl didn’t come out of nowhere.
The fact that she literally cried for someone whom she barely knows shows how kind hearted she is. Respect for this queen ❤
Talk about a woman with a heart of gold! God bless her!
I like you
Because you have a big heart for another person
Just like Meli yah bc shes from the best state ever.. How cuz Iowa is amazing
God isn't real
Bumpty Likes Blumpkins why does some miserable dipshit always feel the need to make this worthless comment. just watch the video and go
Honestly, it's just nice to see good and wholesome people still exist in this world.
CloudySkies17695 yeah
And in Iowa too most people would never be that nice
CloudySkies17695 sister ,,,,,,,,,,,, Amen! 🙏
I know right? This is the next generation of our race and if they want it to last, they need to make sure we are taken care of..
So true :/
I hope people realize she (in an instant ) gave up her days pay, and worked her forearms to burning. That is such kindness. And you can hear it in her voice.
Ikr it’s beautiful!
"In whatever career you choose, you can literally save a life."
Me as a Mortician 🤔
Tricky one 😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
keep making sure those people r dead we dont want no zombie apocolypse 😭😭 (side note: your goddamn brave, i honestly could never)
You can save the heart of the person left behind by treating the deceased with respect and trying to make that person look as presentable as possible for their loved ones. Depression hits those left behind. Having a smooth transition is important. Although I believe you do that each time and maybe don't realize the impact it can have on one's heart and emotions at a difficult time.
😅
Just reminding people that depression can range from mild to severe, since so many comments are trying to invalidate those people.
Just because someone can function in life it doesn't mean they're not depressed and don't have the joy sucked out of every little thing in life.
Oh yeah yeah
@@redazure9683 _Oh yeah yeah_
Anrei thank you
Oh yea yea
Anrei take this in mind
omg she is so caring and kind, she needs to be protected
Who else thougth the hairstylist was the girl? (Because of the same hair)
Yep
deoxys mewtwo lol
🙋
*me*
Aquila Galendez 🤣
The fact that she used 13 hours of her life to untangle the hair of a 16-year old girl ... not all heroes wear capes
Yeah some of them put “capes” on their clients!
@@colleenaustin3292 😂 👌
@@colleenaustin3292 nice one 😂😂
I cringed at that over used quote.
she's not fake at all. what a wonderful lady. God bless her💕
She’s a beautiful lady
13 hours! That's dedication
Your total is coming up to $749.99
@@harusami5249 lmao
Harusami 😂😂😂
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When i was depressed i also stopped brushing my hair and teeth, i was showering like once in a week.
If that is you in the pic you are so beautiful, but I know that depression can hit anyone. Hope everything keeps going good with you.
@@KaRiNa-pj9sb thank you! Yes it can Hit everyone sadly. I'm glad i got help and Do better now
Ninamyte Same 😕
I was here right this moment for long years but I fight for it and I know I will win through powerful prayer...
Ninamyte you are a beautiful girl always remember that 😍😊☺️😌😘
I hate how depression is so often romanticized as something tragic but beautiful. Depressed isn’t beautiful. It’s so incredibly painful. And it’s so hard to feel happiness or any emotion at all and it’s so painful. The hairdresser is truly a hero.
What an amazing stylist. I hope her career soars. 💕💐
Agreed
Why did I read that as "I hope her cancer soars"
Carla Greig 😂
Or his
Nvm
Depression sucks at any age...I'm 59, and know first hand what depression is like...giving up on friends, family, and my business...what a wonderful thing she did for that girl..we all need something or someone in our life
Type 99 Why? Are u going to tell me u care or life gets better, or don't give up...
Type 99 I've heard all of the words of wisdom...some of us are just wired differently...some of us are just biding our time...
My Opinion yeah. The thing is sometimes life doesn't get as good as you want it to. It might get better and it might not, that's the gamble of life. Good luck my friend and i hope ur situation improves
sgt.pepper lonelyhearts Recently I heard someone say "have no expectations"💝The more you expect, the more disappointed you are if it doesn't happen💝💝💝
My Opinion hello
My Name is Sarah. Im from germany. But if you need someone to talk i would take time for you. Greetings
What a wonderful kind young lady! She has a bright future! 😊
Delilah Christian ur profile pic scared me
Shelby Shels lol
England is My city it's like a doll or something I think. And if that's a real child.... I'm TRIGGERED.
Shelby Shels that is definitely a doll.. look at its eyes 👀
Random fact:
Even 8 year olds can be depressed. And some people think they fake it.
Edit: hello :D if you think you’re depressed or even have suicidal thoughts, please feel free to get help from a therapist or anyone you trust.
Second Edit: Im sorry i cant respond to your replies , but just remember for now that crying is okay. Ive let out my pain multiple times by crying. If you could, shout your pain out. I dont want anyone to have the pain of guilt, stress, or whatever thing that is in your heart.
thank you. Some people really don’t understand such a simple concept. They might not be boomers but they sure act like it.
ArTNErD -Nutella 🙏🏻
My mom says kids can't be stressed and that just makes me even more anxious like-
I know a 6-week old with severe depression...Ugh!!!! He'd get me so mad!!!!A real faker....
@Margarita Mendez I can't tell if you're joking or not wtf lmao
The stylist 's hair looks like the after picture
Oscar Saldivar haha i thought that too
Ye it does I knew too
Oscar Saldivar DUDE I THOUGHT THAT TOO!
200th like
Oscar Saldivar IKR
Wow, that hairstylist faintly restored my faith in humanity.
I'm afraid it's not gonna be long before I lose it.
Akash Iyer calm down people do way nicer things than that.
ayoku barringer In today's world, that is very uncommon my friend.
+ayoku barringer ctfu Debbie downer
Akash Iyer No it isn’t, you just hear about the bad more because it’s a better money maker. Promise there’s so much good out there. Make it if you aren’t finding it
This is so true...
A heaven sent hair stylist. Depression is an illness!
Jasmine Ubah mental illness
Heaven ain’t real fool
Its a mental illness fam
Naido I mean if the world ends n the only ones that get saved are those who believed in heaven then cool but if the world ends and heaven ain't real we all finna die anyway so might as well believe, fool.
Jasmine Ubah dumbass it's a mental illness
This hairdresser literally took 13 hours to make her hair look pretty because she didn’t want this girl to feel this hopeless in life. She’s the best hairdresser ever. 🌹❤️💕
Not “literally”
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 what’s wrong with that? 😅
Some heroes place a salon cape around those in need.
so nicely worded
Lol truuuuuuuuuuu do
There was once a person who went around giving homeless people in need new haircuts
Wow. My first comment to go 1K+ Much thanks to all who made this possible. I’m king of the world, Wooooohooo!
For all of you "calling out teenagers for faking depression":
I went through puberty extremely depressed. The only reason I could get out of bed was I was so intensely terrified of being yelled at that it was enough fear to drive me out of bed. Everyone told me I didn't have depression, it's just my age, to man up, etc. So there I was, a young teenage boy, self harming, suicidal, exhausted and sick all the time, unable to bathe consistently or get frequent enough haircuts, feeling all the more pathetic and worthless because of this attitude.
I still have depression. Now that I'm older and my self harm and suicidal tendencies became too obvious to ignore, I'm finally believed. But if I'd seen a mental health professional earlier instead of being told it was just normal teenagehood and I was faking it, perhaps it never would've gotten this far. Perhaps I would've kept up with school, perhaps I'd have friends in person.
So please don't attack young people for expressing their feelings. Yes it can be annoying when someone's all like "UwU I'm so depressed" when their experience seems mild. You don't know what they're going through deep down, you don't know their lives. Seeking attention online by faking mental illnesses is itself a sign of neglect in the home, is a sign of other disorders aside from the ones they're claiming.
If you're a teen- or anyone, really- who feels like you need help and no one is listening, please reach out. Feel free to respond to this comment, too, I can't do much but maybe I can make you feel heard, and if that helps at all? Then I'll be very glad to have done something rather than sitting back claiming other people's problems aren't real simply because on a surface level they're not as bad as my own or as bad as they could be.
you are amazing.
@@gasstation3837 Thank you
Wow. Go beat that shit man, 👌👏👏👏
Don't give up, people love you
@@mitt1459 Thanks bro, although no one I know in person does haha, I've got my career to work towards
What a sweet lady. This made me cry. 😭💕
How tf did this shit make u cry
+Clorox Bleach well some people have emotions, ever heard of it?
Shaina Coleman awww
This is unrelated to the video, but I just wanted to say you're very beautiful (no homo)
Shaina Coleman I would cry if I was that little girl
Do you feel that? *Thats the wholesomeness seeping into your soul and reviving your faith in humanity.*
Not really, my brain is too smart and know something is wrong here.
Cynwale Wyl E Rium - Don't fight it, it's okay to let positivity in. ❤️
Amen ❤️
@@ahill4642 Maybe.
Please understand the difference between
“I am depressed.” and “I have depression.” Everyone can feel depressed, it’s natural to feel down sometime in life. Depression, on the other hand, is not a single emotion, it’s a whole, complicated state of mind.
Either way, depressed people and people diagnosed with depression can both have an internet hug from me❤️ the amount or seriousness of someone’s sadness doesn’t really determine the fact that they all deserve some kind of consolation
• feigh • thank you. i have been personally diagnosed and im going through a lot right now so to 1. have someone agree with me and 2. be supported helps. 💕
But what is I do have depression lol
I wasn’t diagnosed by a professional or anything but just me lol
ItsCrazyLaffle then you don’t have depression. you may think you do, but you don’t medically have it until you’re diagnosed.
こんにちはTM but I thought of death :/ idk
ItsCrazyLaffle yes, but that doesn’t mean you have depression.
I hope the girl she helped is doing better emotionally and mentally. The hairdresser has a heart of gold. For 13 hours, she worked and worked to help ease this girl's depression and boost her confidence. There should be more people like this hairdresser in this world.
Imagine if everyone on this planet had the compassion that this hairdresser has!
The world would be a better place and no one would have to worry about running into cruel people. If only it was like that in real life........ 😔
That's what John Lennon was trying to say but sadly, the people who call for peace are usually ones with agendas and not genuine love for humanity and thus, our society today.
There will be lesser and lesser of such good people that even a simple task as picking up a banana peel and putting it in the trash can will be received with such applause like it was an extraordinary thing to do.
God will come to stay here
This lady was so awesome for helping that girl, BUT nobody took time to congratulate the girl who actually was depressed. Nobody took the time to talk about the girl who was going through the hours of pain of yanking. Nobody took the time to call the depressed girl a hero. I wanted to hear them talk about the girl with the knots. How she felt then and how she feels now that her hair is healthy.
I don't think anyone wants to be on TV as depressed, even if it's true. I am glad they didn't mention her name.
No...she probably didn't want to be featured in the discussion. If that had been me I would have said do NOT bring me into this.
EXACTLY!!!! And the fact the hairdresser is doing the job of family and friends. It makes me angry. People generally make depression about everyone except the depressed person. Good on you for pointing that out.
I'm sure they were very careful though and talked to her during the procedure.
I'm not saying she wasn't a hero or very brave, but I'm fairly sure they talked to her and were very careful and calm about brushing her hair and using conditioner.
Thank you!! this is important
And I cry when I get home from the hair dresser when the style is just remotely different from how I expected...
Ravioli Ravioli, give me a reason to live that's totally normal
Mhm
happend to me I was crying sm like bish if I say I want my hair like that make it like that lmao
Same
Mine is different than I expected, it was better! But then the next day it is back to a weird state. Man, those hair dressers are magical
Some heroes don't wear capes. They put a salon cape on the ones they rescue.
This beautiful woman is heaven sent and deserves the world and all the happiness in it.
Osephinejay
Do incest is ok then?
Teal Rose It's not ok, but you can be whoever you are, it's your choice. You can do incest shit, be a robber, etc.
Osephinejay omg I thought of that Wattpad story no capesm
Bless this lovely lady she is a true angel
k Dickens lol
Momp
She really spent 13 hours on hair..
Wow..
That makes me happy.
Such a sweetheart, God bless her💕
HAHAHHA are yall serious
Ded Ender 072 _yes_
no...what have we all come to...are we all caring about this....seriously
DailyVlogs yes ur right!! God bless u too!!!
Ded Ender 072 This person could of died because she felt like she didn't matter,it's not about her hair it's about her confidence of actually considering herself a person with purpose.
I WISH THERE WERE MORE PEOPLE LIKE THIS...THEY COULD SAVE MANY LIVES ... (I'm not crying...😭😭😭)
Kavya there is a lot of people like that and the hairdressing business they really do care when you make someone look good you could see it in their eyes and face they get a gleam in their eye and the hairdresser automatically knows that they have police someone you can totally see a difference when they get out of your chair you could find one you can also call a beauty school they will help you if your hair is matted if your hair is matted fill it with some hair conditioner and let it set in there and start with the bottom of it with a brush and work work your way up through the tangles or pull it apart with your hands like you would a piece of mesh or something but do it gently to it on dry hair with the conditioner
Kavya 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 me too
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Sha Johnson that is so kind of you to take your time and help someone like that with matted hair I had a sick lady in cosmetology school she was in the hospital for months and months her hair was up on top of her head like a bun ion mad at it for her with climatress and a rat tail comb it taken me maybe an hour or so but she was very appreciative but the climate Russ straight on the hair and it really does work
Kavya: There are A LOT of good people in the world, but we are conditioned to not look for it. Look at a terrorist attack: Thousands of people line up to help strangers, with people risking their own life in the process. Look for the good in people: It's there. 😊
All these people calling out "fake depressed teenagers"...
Well dude this is a real problem
Depression is an illness, not a feeling.
River SF it is far from a "real problem" jfc
what is a real problem however is depressed people not seeking for helpp because they think they don't have it bad enough and they just need to suck it up.
@@maivaiva1412 this.
maivaiva i read that wrong at first and I though you were telling depressed people to suck it up but I read it again and yeah you are 100% correct
How can anyone not feel emotional hearing a young girl say that she feels worthless is heartbreaking. I hope that she left the salon with a boosted self esteem. She was worth those 13 hours.
I thought that the hairdesser was the girl....
cmdnwjcjacuwj same ALOENSLDMD
same
Omg same until the caption came up
Same
rkwjnfnqro me tooo😭
I have depression too, I slept for months to the point where I got bed sores. But my mother kept getting me up to shower and she would bring me food and tell me how much she loved me. I only wish more parents could do that for their children, to understand and still take care of them no matter how much they have given up on themselves.
Edit. Its been three years, I went to a therapist every Friday for a year and I am off all my medications. I told my father to his face the damage he caused by abusing me, and he apologized. I didn't just blame him, I told him I knew about his childhood abuse and that it wasn't right to continue it with me. He broke down and that was the first time I saw him cry, we still have a strained friendship but its getting better.
I met someone at a place I was working and we are now engaged, we have been together for a year now. I'm still at home repaying my mother for all her kindness and compassion. And I haven't felt depressed in a whole year. I know it's still looming in the back of my head but its quiet now. I can say honestly that I am content with my life. Thank you all for your concerns and care for my wellbeing.
Alaina E. Are you out of bed yet?
you're lucky, my parents tell me to get over it.
My father used to beat me black and blue and believed that my depression and anxiety was just a child being rude. I left when I was 16, I have had depression all my life. Being 6 years old and trying to kill myself wasnt ideal specially if your father hates you for it. I am grateful for my mother, I am still working on recovery and getting my life back together, but its a long road and its hard not to jump off of it. Keep moving despite the ignorance, wont bs you saying life will get better but I will say it might get easier.
Alaina E. I'm very sorry to hear that
Alaina E. I'm very sorry to hear that. I'll support ya to get better :)
I suffer from chronic depression. The worst thing about it is when people use it to move ahead of you instead of helping you.
It becomes worse when they actually know something about you and depression. They start to irritate you, bit by bit, to the extend of making you go berserk. ..and aha, when you do THAT, everything that you've strived for will fall apart.
Steve Thorn I go through the same thing, stay strong though Steve! We love you.
Steve Thorn That's a demon you need deliverance
Very true!! That's truly relatable.
I know I remember back in 6th grade one of my friends made up this story about how she talked me through it and she ended up getting so much praise and she only did that to get attention and that’s what I realy don’t understand about people these days and how the think so obliviously
The hairdresser didn't untangle her hair.... She untangled her life♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Please everyone just remember: Noone can tell you that you're 'not sad enough' to get a little attention.
Whenever you feel the need to talk about something, do it.
Louder for the people in the back!! This comment section is filled with "this is what REAL depression looks like" etc etc, but no hun. Just because someone has it worse than you doesn't make your problems and the way you feel invalid.
True
I have tried to tell people and ask to talk to them but then they say I want attention..
What? I CAN .... "Youre just Not SAD enough to get attention....sorry.....put a little more effort into it....a little more gusto". SEE?....I just did. Thank You.
THIS!!!!!! People need to sit down and stop gaslighting people with depression. I'm in my 30s and people have done this to me since my teens, is why I couldn't admit I had depression for so long & was ashamed. Remember you are loved & supported!
13 hours?! That hairstylist is the real MVP!
It’s not that long my hair just tangles itself and it takes about 10-15 hours so I only brush my hair once a month(I know a month seems a lot)
lolo ikr 😂
Bruh try being black getting braids 😭
When I was an ICU nurse, I had an elderly lady that had been neglected by family and her hair was matted like a football helmet. She also told me to shave it. It took me over 4 hours to comb the knots out. I then washed it and gave her a trim. She felt like a new woman.
Bad Ash Did you do it after your shift? Or was the ICU empty except her? How did you possibly find 4 hours to come one woman's hair in an Intensive Care Unit? Let alone cut it for her.. Didn't you have other patients/rounds to make? I'm not trying to be rude, but that's really remarkable that you even found the time to do that.. ICU patients are very fragile and require 24/7 monitoring and care, not to mention how understaffed and busy most hospitals are in general.. Bless your heart for being so devoted to your patients.
Princess Sparkle Pixie since the patients in ICU are high acuity, the normal assignment is 2 patients. It was a night shift and my other patient was decently stable. Also helpful when you have good coworkers :)
That's sweet!
Bad Ash more like Great Ash
That one friend that genuinely enjoys Rick Astley i hope YOU rot in hell
Parents would say “you’re fine, you have nothing to be “sad” about, cheer up, smile more!”
Awww stylist has an amazing heart 💖God bless her.
She’s so kind!
The matting actually happened to me last year, I did shave it, I had no choice, I shaved it all last April, it’s slowly growing back, I wish I was as courageous as that girl to go to a salon and try and get help
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Kyle Downing what is wrong with you?
Kyle Downing
Treating other people like that is disgusting.
Kyle Downing you know what you just said it's threatening and you can get in trouble with the police... You need to stop like that's not cute. God bless you, you need Jesus(not trying to be funny)
Kyle Downing lol
Who else thinks the school System is broken? Most kids get stressed and depressed from school
Omg 16k likes I have the most likes on all of the comments thanks so much🧡🧡🧡
Death Aholics yeah. I got anxiety over school
I got my social anxiety from school and I sweat and get anxious every time I think about school...
JimmyTheLlama 47 I get anxiety over school and the kids in it
Only the weak do
youre name and comment are little edgy but you can get depression through the school of course.
I'm literally crying. I wish every helpless teenager fighting depression comes across a beautiful soul like this
such a sweet beautiful soul God bless her.
Annointed One teehee 666 Likes 😏 lol I’m so immature
1000th like
Annointed One and god
Bless you 😀😀😀
2400th like!
Yea boi Christian
God bless you. You may have saved her life and changed her family and friends life. It's like a ripple in a pond.
God isn’t real
Biased bet you feel special for that. 🙄
Biased god is real*
Biased bitch we ditent ask for you unless opinion
Biased neither are u HAHAHA GET IT FAKE BISH
That woman is an angel.
This is no little thing for a person with depression, this was all for her. This shows so so much love.
This woman is an angel on earth ❤️
Why do people always relate things to fairy tale stuff smh
@@Puppybarkk okay?
@@-kupkait8peaches-234 ?
@@Puppybarkk at least they're not a furry
Yes she is an angel😇
She's so sweet I'm crying 😭
minaxxx xx same
God bless to that hairstylist, and hope one day no one feel depressed and alone in this world 🙏🙏🙏
NWAZ flatEarther you can be happy and lucky again, you should have motivation, go to some communities make good friends ask for help, that’s better than any meds, exercise is a key so you should help yourself that’s what I always do, hope you will be happy again everything is possible never give up
nancy sayadian I like controversy in this world because without it there would be no fun
None of us can prevent tho...
Thank you for being so positive, I wish it could be like that someday too.
Mission failed.Imposible to be done.
This was in my recommended, I got told that no matter how bad my depression was I needed to get up and get on with my day, the world isn’t ending.
Carry on!
WHY WOULD ANYONE DISLIKE THIS?!
WHY THE FUCK DO YOU CARE?? THIS IS WHY PEOPLE ARE DEPRESSED WRECKS, BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE SO FIXATED ON LIKES. MAYBE THE PERSON THAT DISLIKED THIS VIDEO GENUINELY DID NOT LIKE THIS VIDEO?? I WOULD EXPECT A QUESTION LIKE THAT FROM DONALD TRUMP, BUT NOT FROM SOME RANDOM COMMENTOR ON A VIDEO ABOUT DEPRESSION.
MrTommyknocker You got problems go under your bed and never come out please
Ash because their phone was upside down
ITS FUCKING NASTY
Gerald Rosamond best answer ever- Albert Einstein 2.0
WE NEED MORE PEOPLE LIKE THIS😍
Romie M. agreed
I'm Deformed Exactly Right..
Alice Sebastain right
GALAXY GAMING: The best helpers are those who don't brag about it. So I like to think a lot of people are inspired by this video--and are helping...without reporting back to us here.
I thought the hair stylist was the depressed teen
Me too
Same
Plot twist the hairstylist was the teen🤔
Sadly same
Me too
This hairstylist has a good soul, she literally spent 13 hours just to make her hair good again, I'm really proud of her.
what a sweet heart
+Matt Smith no
Laura yes
I'm so confused, why is everyone so mad at this video? Literally the video is about how the depressed girl got her life turned around because of an amazing hair stylist. I really don't see what is there to be triggered about...
H!psterSmurf ikr! does everyone want her to be more depressed?
@Maliah x maybe not you
@Maliah x Look I've seen it, and I don't feel like debating with some random stranger
They are the haters with no talent I think...
Exactly!
She's 16. Shouldn't they question her guardian? And school? I miss school for a day and the world questions me?
i mean some schools are understanding. i didn’t go to school for three months and nobody questioned. her parents probably talked to the school, because if they didn’t she surely would’ve been labeled as a chronic truant
@@andthebanshees wait actually? How did you make it up?
learning greek summer school! and some classes i will make up later since i only have to make up the second semester of four classes. i was a freshman so i guess i have time since this happened last year.
Bharti Harkawat i had depression at 10. Anyone can have it
@@icarus3172 Diagnosed?
That hairstylist saved that girl’s life, she made her feel that she mattered...sometimes, it takes just a little ray of light in someones life...bless her soul 💕
We need more people like her in the world.
How did her hair get like that dumd bitch
Queen Niaja Did you not even WATCH the video? it said and i quote; “She was so depressed that she refused to get out of bed for months” and learn grammar lmao.
@@Jon-mv8je thanks!! I appreciate that❤❤
@@girljellyfish thanks!❤
@@girljellyfish you're literally so nice!❤
This reminds me, I need to take my depression medication. I pray that anyone else who has it has the strength to try and get better.
Kelly Taylor Hi! Are you getting better? I'm getting antidepressants soon, don't know if they'll even work.
Kaley Robinson hope they work for you! Best of luck!
Kaley Robinson im on antidepressants and they seem to be working for me.
I've been sober from antidepressants since late 2016 and much better than I was.
Devious MMA. You are a terrible person
From the back of that photo looks like the hairstylist
Cari Walker yeah! I was confused at first lol
Yea!
This whole thing is fake
None of it adds up
Cari Walker ya right..i thought the same 😁
You don't need to be a psychologist specifically to help someone with depression.Anyone, in any capacity, can help others . Just the desire to help somebody should be there.A big salute to the lady.
I have borderline personality disorder and my dad calls me worthless all of the time. This story really broke my heart because even though my hair wasn't almost shaved off, I know what it's like to not want to take care of yourself. Sometimes I don't wanna get up and eat, sometimes I don't. I lost my mom when I was 16, so there's nobody to tell him he's wrong. Having things like BPD really kills you inside, and the way people treat you because of it is even worse.
Bless your soul❤❤ I hope your dad stops telling you those things cuz you're not worthless and i wish you the best of luck
Hey beautiful keep your head up please. Find things that nake you happy. Surround yourself with positive people. Tell yourseld you love yourself. Youll be okay
Night Interludes I feel the same although I'm not diagnosed with anything yet my dad wants me to die and stuff so I can relate
Get a therapist
Night Interludes I have BPD from an abusive father.. Thankfully he's no longer in my life.. I'm sorry you're still going through that though. I'm praying for you.
Ya see kids this this is what depression is not a trend or to be "edgy"
See what oh I see u being ignorant
These "kids" u call edgy could be kill them selves,or cutting. depression comes in many different shapes, sizes, and forms. No body ever said depression is funny or cute, and u should never invalid there feelings.
Randomins t i see it everyday
Alot of those "edgy" people are infact severely depressed...
@@djbruh8726 "i havent so..." is the most retarded argument ive ever seen. (Yeah a lot of "edgy" people arent doing it for attention but some ppl are legit depressed.)
@@djbruh8726 idiot.
It’s called executive dysfunction, it literally becomes impossible to take care of yourself
Could you elaborate.
@@sairanikhatimam you can't do anything..any task becomes an extreme difficult thing to do
Deepa Hariharan I think I have that.... no I’m serious like I actually think I do
Tealquoise arts hope you get better
@@futuristiccat5636 please hold on.. time and self talk /talking to a reliable therapist can help
These kinds of pure and beautiful gestures make me believe in humanity.
I'm going to point out that parents from different cultures don't believe in depression or being depressed, it's nonexistent, and they'll just laugh at you for telling them about the way you're feeling. I know from experience, but I want to point out that this video has encouraged me to go to a salon. My hair is pretty dead and matted so it hurts when I try to brush it because I let go of taking care of myself. Just thinking about going to the salon gives me anxiety because what if they laugh at me too.
Ingrid Rodri feel better my love. If that is you in your profile pic then what a pretty face! (it doesnt matter anyway as long as you are a happy person) feel better! my mom is the same way its very hard to deal with but please take care of yourself.
I would say if they’re professional they will not laugh at you I’m in cosmetology school and I would never want to laugh at a client it’s just wrong in the first place so I would say to go and if they make you feel bad try another salon but one of the reasons I’m doing it is because I love to make others feel good about themselves😊
If the hairstylist laughs then they're a shtty person.
Update: I finally got my haircut and my experience wasn't bad like it was 7 years ago, I love it and thank you guys for the awesome comments :)
@@ingridr3094
Omg that's so good to hear!! Congratulations on your new haircut!!
What a sweet and beautiful young woman. God bless her for doing such a wonderful thing for someone else. We need more people like her in this world. Such a big ❤️. 🙏🙏😊
My hairdresser did the same for me ! I was depressed for months and went in and she took so much time & fixed me up & without judgement now I don't go to anyone else cause I know she will work with me every time she's the best !
Same
@@epicfromepicgames8222 sAmE
Sounds like true love, you two should go on a date!
That’s amazing I hope you are doing well now♥️
Jonathan Turbide lmao she might not be lesbian tho
This is the happiest most hopeful and the purest thing i have ever seen in my entire life.
THAT STYLIST IS A BEAUTIFUL PERSON I WOULD HUG HER IF I EVER MET HER😭❤
Its hard to explain depression to a person who has never had it. Everyone's been sad but everyone hasn't experienced perpetual misery accommodated with small bouts of hope that get extinguished what seems like aggressively and maliciously. Lightly salted with bad luck. It doesn't only alter your mood. It influences your decision making, physiology, relationships, and work ethics....sometimes permanently
TXejas19 ❤️ It makes me so sad how depression rates and anxiety rates and all these horrible issues are becoming more common. Something has to be done about it. It makes my life and others lives so much harder.
You described that perfectly. I remember those lovely days
Nayeonnie what can be done? Not just for the first world but everywhere? Its an enormous undertaking
couldn’t describe it better if i tried ❤️
CocoChanelContessa I'm soooo sorry to hear that. I hope that you can gain peace
She's so sweet throwing away 13 hours, A WHOLE DAY , just to help a girl with depression
I mean half a day but still nice
Ella Van Zuylen no a whole day. the other 11 hours is the night
Avery Lawson what's wrong with you?
Avery Lawson she didnt throw the hours away
Avery Lawson that's not a whole day, but still that was amazing, what she did.