The Breakdown of Transactional Friendships
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
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You outgrow some people. Some people outgrow you. That's life.
The government has made it so expensive to live that people don’t have time to waste respectfully. When life wasn’t so tight moneywise for everyone, people can relax and chill and hang out without any benefits, but with money being tight for everyone, you have to make money every second or opportunity you can and not waste any time.
Sounds like Satan's perfect world.
100% wages haven't increased since the 70's.
Exactly
There’s friends that your loyal to, and then there’s people that have changed your life that you have to be loyal to. It’s a balance.
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Joe so wild how he spins things to not sound wrong - Flip called you out masterfully… and of course Parks slides in to cap for Joe
that is how the show works 😹
I enjoyed this segment…I think you guys should continue this one.
In my 20s I realized that I was the beneficial friend. Always the strong friend or that person you can borrow from. I stopped that shit going into my 30s and 😮💨 ppl started changing and distancing once I stopped being the one they always come to when you need a loan. I kept distant from getting close with ppl for years but now in my mid 30s I do open up to meeting new ppl and giving a chance but I am not the same.
This entire Segment was geared towards "Flip"! In essence everyone is saying... 🗣️YO.... "FLIP STOP GETTING CAUGHT UP IN STUPID SH!T"! 👊💯😎
Joe Budden butt ass naked outside his neighbors house is beyond stupid
Along the lines of predatory. Keep that same energy for Joe.
I enjoy how concise your explanations are. Awesome job!
Dead internet
Family, you alway have great content. This is one of the best discussions you guys had on here. This is something a lot of viewers need to hear more of. God bless one love.
every serial killers family always say they could never have imagined them doing it, you'll never fully know someone
To say u don’t like friendships to be transactional then say u don’t have time to just hang out is obliviously hypocritical
I enjoy how you explained the topic so clearly. Great job!
When are people gonna learn Joe isnt to be trusted? Loyalty is overrated? That joe budden ruining his podcast for 20 mins straight video just flashed before my eyes when i heard that.
Loyalty is totally overrated. Unless you think of loyalty like an 11 year old. Loyalty is a tool used by the strong to control the weak.
I agree with flip. I’m too grown to have different tiers of friends. Either we’re friends or not lol. Idk why people are making this topic difficult. If you feel the person isn’t genuine, cut them off lol. That simple 😊
Yea this is some super weirdo sht, Melissa- slowly distance yourself (SNAKE)
Joe- just put them in a certain box (FAKE) bro just be friends or don’t you’re all users
You can out grow friendships but some friends grow with you. That’s how you know who are the best friends of your life because your best friends will grow in life but also make time for you and be in your best interest, likewise for you as well. Your best friends will also challenge you to be better. Friendships can have different levels as well. You may have ppl you hoop with, and that’s all you do. It doesn’t go any further than that. So you can have ppl that you share activities with and that’s all it is. People need to stop calling everyone they hang with or share interest with their “best friends”, let people work towards that title.
Right at the "No you don't" shout out, I was thinking poor Flip! 😢
There's a difference in "being cool" with someone and "loyal". Not everyone deserves past the "oh we cool" level. Loyalty is no questions asked. It takes a lot more than helping me in that HS freshmen fight we were in, lol.
Mel tried to asked if it’s a male Perspective when women are the GOATS at this💀💀..those talks when they go to the salon and are getting their hair done and are talking shit about the same girl that bought them drinks at the club last night 💀🤣
Too much of anything will kill you you can’t hang out for too long. You can’t work for too long. It’s a balance. As you get older, you respect peoples time and your time and you can’t hang out with certain people for certain reason it doesn’t mean you don’t like them. You just have to move different when you’re older. Your friends will be doing the same thing to you so you have to respect it.
That's not friends at all, that's placeholders for your boredom.
What happened to the “it’s Parks,” and all the other drops? Or am I off track?
This is only a clip
I have anime friends
I have business friends
I have sports friends
I have film friends
I have music friends
I have only call or text when I need to ask a question friend
Now some times those friends crossover but talking one subject 24/7 is draining……
Yes!
Coworker friends can be tricky when the coworkers wanna talk to you for 2 hours after you've already spent a whole day with them.
like boxes? what's it like to be put in a box?
Emanny hooked Off on buddy 😅 can't show me grace 🥷🏾
Out of all of these years of watching the JBP, this is the first time that Parks reaalllyyy showed ignorance lol
It’s okay to love people from afar
8:36 ‼️‼️ Absolutely ‼️‼️ they never as loyal as they want you to be. They will be on the stand as soon as anything happens! I remember when my moms "friend" wore a wire to get her jammed up. Almost lost her for years but God 🙏🏾
Joe got time to throw hundreds of thousands at strippers at downtown but 0 time for friends. Makes sense
Right cause as a broke bozo typing in the YT comments you know Joe so well 😂😂😂
Didn't you say lost a fan peace? And you still here with your 80+ comments. This is why ppl like you will never be anything in life 😂😂😂
@@hitthisloudgbeforeichangem5749 glazing , Joe doesn’t know you and stop flexing others wealth
I love when Yal get in this bag
Who tf hangs out in there forty’s u got to work , hustle , do mad family stuff maybe like the Super Bowl
Says the guy who just beat a case lol
I used to dislike Joe Budden a lot but now I’m a big fan of his work and of this podcast in particular!
I wonder if this means that overtime he’s changed or I’ve changed?
Loyalty has to come wt 2 way requirements
I used to have the same view as Parks until a very good friend started an acting erratically. To be fair he developed PTSD and changed behavior. This is something that happens a lot though and people never get diagnosed with anything and the person does something out of character because they have in fact changed. Sometimes no one ever knows what happened, and the friends separate due to this.
On another note, Notice how Joe got real quiet at the end 😂😂😂
And also, why yall letting Ian stir up all this bullshit got yall questioning loyalty and friendship and all that loool
40s the new 20!💯💯
Our generation runs the nation.💯💯
With the way things are going is that something to really be proud of? Running the nation poorly evidently.
No yall don’t , the boomers still own yall and everyone else unfortunately, your wages and prices are all dictated by boomers. Your life is determined by boomers
Joe budden just told all yall in so many words, “ he ain’t loyal to 💩!”
The fear of taking risks will always keep people divided. Not to condone recklessness but promote faith. People are brave versus the branches but not the root. For example sex, some of the world's greatest risks come from it yet people still have it knowing those risks but have the audacity to be afraid of heights?
Yes all relationships are transactional even if it’s just those friends you use for talks and laughs in some way it’s a transactional thing because if we can’t even share thoughts between eachother that one side or the other gains something from it what’s the point of the relationship the conversation even a stranger your not talking to unless you are doing so to say hello that in it’s self is a transaction of words and give me a reason to speak to or entertain you
Is it only me who figured out every friendshio is transactional?
But money is the lowest form. A high transaction is positive emotional and care exchange.
I was less than 12 yo when i figured that out. You have no good excuse.
Ish being the designated gender antagonist is crazy 😂
@12:55 Flip got ya Joe… and i think you’ll think in that specific context moving forward! Dope show! D.o.p.e Display of positive energy!
I believe relations need to be transactional to a point. If your on the side of GIVING and PROVIDING more or less EVERYTHING to a person, and you know that your own resources of provision are NOT infinite, and the person you are giving to is not recripocating that provision back to you.... eventually you WILL realise the importance of TRANSACTION. IM ONLY FOR TRANSACTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS NOW. I need stuff back in return.
Agreed. It may sound harsh, but time is valuable as you get older and become more successful. So, any time outside spent with my girl or family has to be transactional. Either it’s fellowship with the close bros, motivating each other at the gym/exercising, or work/business-related. Otherwise, I’m good on hanging out.
I was told be careful what you give because takers gonna take
That’s not transaction that’s love and respect lmfao, transaction means the emphasis is on the transaction. You have a transactional relationship with your barber not your friend. And if your friend makes it transactional you’re now business partners not friends. If it’s one way now it’s just bad business 😹
A person that doesn't want "good" for you can't be your friend
My bro got out of jail last week didn't call me. Didnt even call his own brothers.
Some people will never understand this code am ralking about
7:27
Flip needs to grow up! Simple
He shouldn’t be getting arrested, and def not often!! He sounds so immature. It’s ridiculous. And it’s sad he can comprehend what they are saying. He too old and fat for that.
Flip basically called them out on their hypocritical bs
No he didn't
Yes, he did
Parks is dead wrong
Sorry not sorry Flip has one of the worst/childish mindsets ever to be 100% honest Joe, Flip brings down the quality of the show, it’s always a lot about nothing when he talks…just look at everything he’s involved in 👎🏾
Old ppl talk
Ayy 1st
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A friend who is able to challenge you on occasion on the stupid shit you do, and encourage you on the good stuff you do, is a friend worth keeping. That goes both ways 🥷🏼