When Cussing Out Black Men Gets You Fired SMH🤦🏽♀️| Ep.309
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- She said 90% of her clients are black men, that may be a exaggeration but even if it 1% that's too many for this woman. It's the attitudes of a lot of black women that gets us messed up in life. This woman, like many women like this are validated in this world, that's why she thinks it's okay. Tell us your thoughts on this one.
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She said 90% of her clients were black men, watching her reminds me of when you see a video of some racist and you find out they are a teacher/cop/judge…She has a true disdain for the people she’s supposed to be helping
This is so true. She's using her sessions to belittle men. Then she passes it off as "helping" them.
@deli$seo -
There is no proof of what she said. This is the internet, and anyone can say anything. She is the typical woman who attempted to use her job title and claimed client base to validate a point, and like many employees have come to learn, everyone has the right to free speech here in the U.S., but that does not mean your employer must tolerate your behavior as a representative of their company/business.
Now she has all the time in the world to post inspiring uploads.
Facts. Great observations. It's like when Harvey Weinstien said he employed and helped a lot of women, which he used as a pass to assault ladies.
@@eon001 True. Didn't think of it that way. Her mission was not to help but to destroy black men.
I’m happy to see women like y’all speaking on this topic
Thank you and thanks for watching.
Thanks for breaking this down so eloquently. Good to see classy, articulate, Level-headed black women.
Much appreciated 🙏🏽
I couldn't agree more.
The fact that yall acknowledged that men and women process feelings and thoughts differently got me instantly subscribed. Didn't need to hear anything else.
Thank you...it drives us crazy that so many women can't understand this. They are trying to overpower men. This is what masculinity in women has done. Smh
It's getting out of hand??? No. Feminism is completely out of control!
Good job ladies, you two are real examples of black queens unlike these rachet loud mouth jezebels out here calling each other & themselves queens when they are far from it .
Thank you and don't get us started on the casual use of the word queen these days lol.
@@convoswithkaradanielle4375 lol your welcome
Being a educated black man in America and travel to many different countries, Kara and Danielle you guys have been a breath of fresh air, I love you and keep up the good work!.. I just subscribed✊🏾
Thank you so much. This attitude going on with some women is disturbing to us. It seems wrong to sit back and not say anything.
If I could give this video a hundred thumbs up, I would. "Breath of fresh air" , exactly.
3 things that I have a problem with.. 1) I notices her change of clothes between her videos…. 2) Her use of the words “black woman”…. 3) her tone and using curse words now that she was terminated…… Side note: more and more corporations are cutting down on their employees posting their unprofessional opinions on social media. Employers are disguising their codes of conduct as annual “need to know”. When employees sign the training electronically, employees are unknowingly agreeing to company’s new rules/code of conduct. Which is making it easier for corporate to terminate them.
💯👍🏽 We are in a time where this attitude is glorified. It give women like this the ok to be, act, speak and do things like this....until it interrupts your personal life and job.
@@convoswithkaradanielle4375 We need more women like you to speak out on this attitude towards us black men.Its really getting out of hand.
@@convoswithkaradanielle4375 @Robert Gamble BROTHER IT'S WAY BEYOND OUT OF HAND!
I have Latina female friends, one specifically that her birthday is the day after mine, and EVERYTIME SHE SEES ME, I GET A HUG, ETC. I AM TOLD BY WOMEN THAT I AM HANDSOME, SO WHY DON'T BLACK WOMEN WANT TO SPEAK OR AT LEAST BE CORDIAL? DO YOU KNOW THE FEELING OF SPEAKING TO A BLACK WOMAN AND NOT GETTING A RESPONSE?
I don't even think I heard her say "black woman".
Never heard anything from these two women before .THANK YOU so much for being real representatives of black women who are in reality. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Did that woman think all black men refer to their women as b's. It's crazy, way to see through the bull crap
Thanks for the support.
@@convoswithkaradanielle4375 no problem the world needs to get rid of this narrative that the black man and woman aren't still in love with each other. "Time to put the kids to bed"
Who were her clients? I mean maybe she is dealing stereotypes that the media and social media promote.
People put themselves at a disadvantage when they underestimate other people's intelligence.
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Bars
Loving the twins, wish there were more women like you two out here!!! Be safe these women are evil out here they don’t like you going against the grain
Thank you lol we know, they already come for us on here. But we feel it's negligent to sit back and pretend like we don't see what's going on.
@@convoswithkaradanielle4375 it’s good to hear!! Because it’s seem like black women hate black men, and hate the women that show love to us!! It’s refreshing to see!! Keep pushing that line, with women as yourselves speaking on it eventually they will have to listen!!
Man, the way you always analyzed it is really interesting. Women understand women better than men. The camera angles, the clothes, etc.
Lol We noticed it immediately before she started talking smh. Thank you for watching BTW
No professional uses that amount of curse words.
I know right lol
You're absolutely right,,,, unless she's from the streets,,,,,(from whence she came) 💯🤷❗🧐
Exactly. I would suggest therapy (if I thought it would help). There is no helping this type of unstable/angry female. We love the hosts, though. Classy, kind, easy to respect.
This is healing this is what our community needs from both sides accountability.
Thank you for saying this...well said 👍🏽
Amen to that.
I can tell you this. It is refreshing seeing other Black Women holding someone in that space accountable. My wife and I agree that we should be holding each other accountable. Men holding Men accountable and Women holding Women accountable and we come together to figure out what we really need for our community. When you want someone to speak like you and say the things that you say, you often feel like that person does not have the "vocabulary" to express yourself. I have NEVER had an issue with talking to a myriad of people and understanding them. That is an issue that woman has. They are saying what they need to say.....she is just not listening.
Very true. We have women often times say to us 'Why aren't you criticizing men, why is it just women?!" And our answer to that doubles down on your point. It's more productive when ppl call out there on "party" so to speak.
Since she has the degree or certificate to practice in this field she should know how to help people articulate their emotions/feelings/desires ect.
She can't understand why 90% of black men don't think like her? I find that delusional. This is the gender disconnect that fuels today's manosphere. Many western women shoot themselves in the foot. Smh
I absolutely love to see two beautiful sophisticated sisters who carry themselves with class and dignity. As a black man i try to improve as many black men's image I come intact with. You ladies seem like you hold everyone accountable and fair and reasonable. You got a new subscriber:). Waiting to hear more from you two and definitely share this videos to my friends. :)
Thank you very much 🙏🏽. As women in our 40's we feel a sense of responsibility to call out these behaviors with women these days. Thank you for doing your part as a man to carry on a respectable image for black men.
Facts they're the truth 💯. I love this channel.
I really like what these women are doing on this show
I absolutely agree! It's like a breath of fresh air in a world full of smoke. Bring these types of women back pls.
Absolutely agree, also a new subscriber today! Thank You so much for holding this woman accountable it really is sad to see how many BW support what she said smh.
Good job on your analysis of the feminine manipulations. Thanks for speaking on what's right rather than taking the position of the of the gender war sisterhood. We all have to do our part to bring about accountability and reset the culture. I'm doing my part with my channel as well.
Thank you accountability is key. We will definitely check out your channel.
Agree they analysis her to the tee
The race and gender in this conversation, in and of themselves isnt what's important in this situation. She is a therapist. Its unprofessional and unethical to speak about your patients in that manner. The fact that are black men, makes it worse. Every man she's ever treated should be reviewed.
Totally agree with you 👍🏽
She didn't mention any patients. Otherwise we would see her with a HIPPA violation. Let's not lie here. Was she ghetto? Yes. But I personally wouldn't have fired her, just told her to remove the video and reminded her of professional conduct outside of the workplace in reference to what you do.
This popped up in my recommendations. Im glad to see black women with such critique of this viral video.
Thank you very much. Lol we had to rewind the videos she made twice to make sure we were hearing her right 🤦🏽♀️
I just started following both of you ladies. I find it refreshing hearing the real women in the community are getting their voices out on these issues and the topic of discussion on female nature and practices. Many young people can learn.
I do so thoroughly and wholeheartedly agree with your content,,,, you ladies I'm speaking total facts,,,,💯,,, intelligent and beautiful, and with the intent of grace,,,, I hope that your channel will flourish,,,, keep spreading the love to the brothers we need more sisters like you 🙏,, be blessed 👍👍
Thank you for this. As women we feel a sense of responsibility to other women. Calling out bad behavior in the community is important.
This is one of the most comprehensive analyzations I've seen. And I do want to point out that I'm glad that you're 2 black women. As a black man it's not about control but understanding the dynamics and holding us both accountable. These are the women we fight and die for...thanks.
We appreciate this.
Thank you for mentioning the psychology behind the camera angle, tone of voice and attire. Total attempted manipulation.
Finally I found two beautiful black women with different positive realistic perspectives
Thank you ladies for giving me that female side perspective of what she's doing because I clearly didn't see the extra details that you saw. Thank you and I'll be using your video in mine a little. Thank you again
Feel free to use it if it help your perspective...and thank you.
New African subscriber from Philadelphia 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 keep up the good work 👌🏿 we need more women like you
Thank you!
As a man So glad to see women holding other women accountable because as black man we our getting dog some deserved and alot of it undeserved attacks
Thank you. To not call some obvious things out is irresponsible to us.
For your integrity, YOU HAVE GAINED A NEW SUBSCRIBER! THANK YOU FOR YOUR AUTHENTICITY! I LOVE YOU TWO, AND IT IS SO REFRESHING TO SEE MY SISTERS TO SPEAK THIS WAY! LOVELY MENTALITY!
We appreciate this, thank you kindly 🙏🏽
This is my first time checking out your channel. You ladies are truly a breath of fresh air. Women exposing and breaking down other women's bullshit is absolutely needed. If men say the same thing, we are easily dismissed as being disgruntled, vindictive, etc. Please keep up the good work!!!
Thank you so much. Lol as you can imagine we aren't exactly popular with the ladies. Some get it A LOT don't. If we see it, we call it out.
She mad at how them tata's of hers set up🤣🤣🤣. And she's hitting the wall. This is a common reaction.
Young beautiful ladies...
You are the light of this generation
We want a better world for our kids and you are the ones building it
You're right, ladies. The so-called "therapist" is not qualified to be helping anyone.
The commentary of these women is accurate to my life experiences.
Thank you for providing insight to this therapist's video. Even down to the camera angle...I never thought about that. The men I know pay very little attention to the nuance some women use to communicate with men.
"...didn't you notice the way I looked at you?" No.
"...you should have known I'm feeling sad today. I'm wearing all black." How am I supposed to know why you're wearing all black.
My friends and I try to avoid getting involved in women's emotions and need to talk.
Hey Vernon, thank you. Women are still not getting that men don't communicate like us. Women like this are trying to feminize men and it needs to be called out.
Right. As a man, I didn't take note of her use of camera angles and wardrobe changes. Very interesting...
Thank You Lovely Ladies for your kindness, and effort! You have an Army of Men supporting you in both prayer and actions for all that is good. Your words are reaching the right audience in the right season!
Such kind words, thank you 🙏🏽
New subscriber.. Just found you two women. You both broke it down with intelligence and class. Nice to hear. I will spreading the word about your channel.
Thank you very much 🙏🏽.
Thank you for all that you do ladies! Loved your commentary!
We appreciate it thank you.
Yup! We are always hearing from Black Women who are celebrities, actresses, and athletes, I rather hear from positive, constructive, and orthodox stay at home moms. Good work my Queens. Very refreshing to see impressive looking sisters making sense.
Kara and Danielle:
I absolutely appreciate your courage, clarity and efforts to be a catalyst for healing and positive change in the Black community and in families.
Thank you!
Ladies like y’all give me hope
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As it is said " first impressions are lasting impressions". If undesirable was an image this woman is the poster child.
Wow the way you caught her changing her dress in each video flew over my head. Women really understand women on a level men will never get.
Lol she had some costume changes for us 🤣
@@convoswithkaradanielle4375 😆
All I know is, I thank God for you two.
I got a lot of things to say about her. But non of them is good. So I digress.
Lol I was hard for us to bite our tongue on this one.
I am beyond happy to see and hear y'all, two seriously classy eloquent women address this issue of these "always running their mouths" embarrassing BROADS!!! Even their way of dressing is dishonorable. Thank you🥰
She is NOT US, she’s a ethiopian woman, (a transplant) having said that, she has NO BUSINESS speaking on the Men that ARE Remnant’s of Government Sanctioned Chattel Slavery. We are NOT monolithic, ALL “Black” is NOT the same, nor have they all done the same thing. Go to a foreign land and impart what’s WRONG with them and what they NEED to do, and SEE what they tell you.
Ethiopian? She has Caribbean roots.
Either way she not us. Carribeans are not us either. You get the drift
@@mikejones-wn1sw Got it Mike. 👍💯
Great commentary. Thanks!
Thank you
We have to really , really keep in mind that because a person looks normal means nothing….
we need not to discount the fact that many people are literally delusional !!
many people are suffering from multiple personalities dysfunction and they actually believe what they are saying but are totally disconnected. We have to do better at really recognizing those people.
This woman clearly has psychoses coupled with gender studies woke ideology, she's crafted a disordered world view that includes delusions of grandeur, or grandiose self-importance; while taking on a victim complex and a God complex at the same time. She's the daughter of some of the women I've recently profiled on my channel who are grannies looking for young men to bust them down and commit. Attractive younger dudes with foreign travel money. This is their retirement plan, and they delusionally think a man will commit to granny sex monogamously when he has all other options out there. That's her future as well. She's doomed.
don't try and excuse peoples behaviour with multiple personality disorder. that is a very rare disorder, less than 1.5% globally and only 2% in US. it is not common at all. these people just truly believe this, its not from an illness or disorder.
@@justarandomuser8434 I determined in a video I posted last night why she's like this. It's a trauma response to stuff she tells about in previous videos of hers. She's emotionally stunted at the time of her trauma in my view. Checkout the vid.
@@justarandomuser8434
2% is only what reported.
Due to health restrictions lack of insurance and red lining in the insurance industry, the other 29% goes unreported so statistics out of the window regarding this matter; people around you everyday suffer from this but, they just look normal to you.
And by far no one is excusing it..
Good observation ladies I notice the camera angle too.
That camera angle was driving us crazy lol.
@@convoswithkaradanielle4375 yes it was annoying me too. Sad thing being 42 watching these gen z I wish I could go back and change the outcome lol
Her: Black men need therapy.
Black men: Yeah. That's why I came to you....?
🤣 Right
You are a breath of fresh air! Because it was literally women taking up for her backing her up feeling sorry for her and blaming the man for getting her fired no man got fired it's actually a woman that reported her to her job and got her fire
Ladies I applaud you in your efforts to correct the bad behavior of modern-day women stay vigilant it is an uphill battle that men have been fighting for years love the content and it's women like you who give Us Men hope
Just caught this posting, and its easy on the ears to hear sensible conversation and reasoning. New sub here! 🙏🏽
Thank you!
all I can say is cocoa for Cocoa Puff that girl is Hollywood she deserve and Oscar award
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My sisters broke it down so cool, not even a need to add anything.
Thank you lol she was something else.
I'm so glad you ladies pointed out this behavior like true loving mothers. That's what many of these women need, real mothers. Not Tiktok twerking partners. Whether or not you ladies have natural children in this lifetime, and I pray you get ALL the desires of your heart, but I believe you ladies have children you don't even know. This young soul is one of them.
Well said ladies. Thank you for highlighting these issues.
Thanks for watching. Calling out this kind of behavior is important to us. There are young women that think this is ok.
I think a large portion of feminist have P envy.
This is the first time checking out your podcast. Very different perspective and will checkout your other content.
Hello, thank you very much.
New sub.... Refreshing to see things from a woman perspective that's non bias.... I specifically like how you broke down the message she was sending based on her choice of clothing... I never would have known that had you not pointed that out... I believe more content like this really helps us as men understand our women more and the message some try to send.... Much respect ladies...
Thank you lol she's in the running for the "hot mess of the year" award. We appreciate the kind words.
not the fact that these women holding the fired therapist accountable, its the fact I see modest feminine beautiful black Queens right here, not loud and obnoxious 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 its refreshing to see these type women
We appreciate this, thank you.
I praise God for you two women. I have been saying the things you ladies are talking about and I get a lot of push back from men and women and even in the church. Keep it up 😊.
Thank you. Anytime a person calls out ridiculous, toxic, self-righteous behavior with BW, the push back begins. Keep speaking truth.
Love yall
Keep telling the truth.
We need women like you.
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you ladies, it is very important to shed light on unladylike behavior. Too many non adults refuse to focus on their personal growth and development. Been there!
I was raised by a narcissistic woman and was subjected to and watched her depravity daily. I swore my life would be different, yet found after leaving home (age17) that I was truly conditioned to behave similarly. Dating was rough, expecting more from men than I was willing to contribute etc. Engaged 3 times, gave birth to two children out of wedlock (14yrs apart lol), single parenting for 2+ decades, then at age 40 - I finally got married to my highschool sweetie, the one I believe God approved. Over the course of our 14yr still going strong marriage, he helped me accept so much and I learned how to be a wife and became a more emotionally available mother. Though it took a while and thanks to the blood of Jesus, I no longer behave like a wretch. 🙏🏽
I salute you sisters 💯👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you!
You ladies give me hope for the black community... You are going to help raise great men
These ladies seem professional an probably have degrees, an they act completely different than that therapist. The degree ain't the issue. It's the mindset
On Point.
Thank you, actually we didn't go to college at all. We were brought up with basic manners and having respect for ourselves and others. We agree it goes beyond the degree. What is lacking today is how parents are raising their kids. This young lady is lacking manners.
Preach
@@convoswithkaradanielle4375 I didn’t go to college either. And I make $250k per year and most Black Women ignore me because I let them know 1st I don’t have a degree. I wish I could meet a Woman/Lady like one of you two because I’d bless someone like you.
I am a black woman and you guys are telling the TRUTH!!!!!
Lol a lot of black women got mad at us for this video. I'm glad to know you have common sense.
Kara, I love the way you express your words, you keep that same facial expression. I can't take my eyes off you. Love the Typics!!
Thank you sisters for represent the true so call black women's with class
You two are a breath of fresh air .....Thank you . Beautiful , feminine , and reasonable . Thank you . I am officially a fan.
The two of you are refreshingly eloquent and intelligent!
Thank you for the kind words ☺️
It's so weird and disturbing that so many women supported her point of view with their comments on her videos. Those women often say they don't want or need a man. So, why are they so concerned with men?
These 2 women got it going on. Love their videos.
Thank you!
absolutely love and appreciate the breakdown ❤️
😮 So refreshing to hear from the both of you. Women able to acknowledge logic and rationale over feelings. The switch she did is too common. You have a new subscriber!👍🏾👏🏾💣🔥
Uplifting 2 c yall beautiful women Stand in da face of dis haywire-ness out here n speak Truth 2 da matter.... Bless up
This chick jiggling all over the place....actually she actually sounds bitter like she was involved with one of her patients.
I said this to my sister. You may be on to something there.
Thank you for shedding a lite on this matter from a professional female perspective. I feel that all of us need to be accountable to ourselves, especially if you’re a so called professional. It’s time to eliminate excuses of blaming others as a viable reason as to why you choose to act as you do initially and as a response to…. The Bible says that we are responsible for the choices that we make in life. No one is perfect but even imperfections are no option of escaping willful choices.
Wow, PLEASE CONTINUE TO SPIT THOSE FACTS AND TRUTH. YOU TWO REMIND ME OF THE ONE TWO PUNCH!!!
Thank you ladies you are a gem honesty is the best policy
Thank you
Beautiful black women 😍❤
🙏🏽 Thank you
The real sad part is that there are so many women out here like this to where men are willing to leave America, the worst part about it, is that it’s always the most raggedy broads that’s always the loudest
Exactly!
She only fake apology after people contacted her employers. Before that she made a video doubling down when people complained to her.
Exactly. She got some attention and was excited until the hammer came down on her.
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿Appreciate you'll! It's righteous to see you'll say it! Thank You!
Thank you for watching. It's going to take women to call out other women in order to change this kind of behavior.
Just found you both & couldn't have subscribed faster. We need more women of color like you both. #love&light
Thank you kindly 🙏🏽
Ladies don't get involved with this one, as you see she's her worst enemy, knows all but haven't learn anything!
# Ladies sometimes you have to leave one behind
She's lying about the 90%. It was an appeal to authority.
Yeah we agree. But even if she's counseling 1% it's too much lol.
You women are restoring my faith in women, thank you may God bless you on your mission
Hope we begin to have more women like you two,I love the corrections and very calm educated way you two are doing this .love you two .
I thought therapist was supposed to be neutral,
Thank you for speaking the truth!
We are trying.
Good morning ladies, just want to let you know I'm a new subscriber looking forward to hearing you guys material. Thank you
Thank you for supporting our channel 🙏🏽
Don't know how the algorithm brought me here, but SUBSCRIBED QUICKLY!
Thank you 🙏🏽
@@convoswithkaradanielle4375 nah, thank Y'ALL
Dear Black men I Imraz Ali an American Muslim man here to tell you if you don't want to express yourself don't, many women today get off on creating drama even lowkey are sociopaths if a woman doesn't respect your space or boundaries or doesn't contribute to helping your mood tell her to kick rocks
Thank you for your insight. I appreciate the both of you stepping up and saying what is on your mind
Shout out to these two gorgeous bw who GET it as it pertains to other bw's behavior. You ladies are the ones who deserve the ring! 💍Thank you and I love you both.
Your bm supporter.🌹🌹🌹
In my freshman year in college, I had a lot of female friends really for the first time in my life. And I remember as a dude how exhausting it was. I realized something then that that's therapist video reminded me of: women don't have a system to address conflicts of emotions/feelings, something men do have and thus take for granted. A lot of times when my female friends would have a conflict of feeling on something and expressed it, since they had no way of resolving it, it would escalate quickly. It rarely escalated into violence, but it would almost always escalate into passive aggression and mean spirited attacks on the other person's insecurities. To be fair, about a week or two later, once both of their feelings about the issue had faded away, they would reconcile usually because of other friends getting them to come back together. In other words, they could recover once they realized they really didn't care about the issue that they were fighting over, it was just at the time, they did.
Logic is the system that's lacking, since men often use logic when there's a conflict of feeling, emotions, opinion etc to resolve it. That helps prevent quarrels from escalating, because men are a lot less likely to attack each other on our insecurities than just resolve to straight up violence when disrespect is aimed at us, especially from friends. So since women don't have that and don't see the value in it, it becomes really hard to address conflicts when they come about. This leaves men in a dilemma: they could avoid the conflict altogether and let the woman win, but in the long run that leads to the man being a walkover and emasculation; he could on the other hand use logic to resolve the conflict, but he'll have to deal with the fact that in the beginning, the woman, unless she has experience with strong dudes in the past, is going to feel like you're being condescending and dismissing her feelings, and you're going to have to be patient for her to get used to it.
We absolutely love this breakdown!
I was a college educated, certified teacher but I did not work. I stayed home and raised 3 children. People couldn't understand why I didn't work. I couldn't understand why I would let someone else raise my children, while I went to work to teach other people's children?
I loved this conversation. You made a subscriber out of me for real. 😆 👏
Thank you for what y’all do ladies❤️ y’all have gained a subscriber💯✊🏾