BABY! it’s okay to sometimes be in those phases where we don’t like ourselves, and it’s okay to have those insecurities and never feel bad about them at all! We’re human at the end of the day! but we’re all so beautiful and worthy! Never ever feel bad about sharing your insecurities, I don’t see it as “fishing for compliments” sometimes we just need to rant:), love you beautiful
Oh girl. Depression hits you when you least expect it. Just because you have everything that "should" make you happy (great family, great friends, plenty of comforts), doesn't mean you can't be sad. Sometimes you have to take a day or two to yourself; do all the things you love to do, or do nothing and nurse yourself back to health. You don't have to pretend to be happy or pretend to feel happy. It's okay to tell your friends and family how you're feeling. If they love you, they will be there for you. Sending you lots of love. I'm so sorry your senior year is like this. I can't imagine what it is like for you at this time! You are so strong and are helping thousands of people everyday with their anxiety and depression and insomnia; remember that! You are important and better years are coming! Your 20s are going to be fantastic (mostly). Keep doing what you do and keep the people and friends you love close!
I’m so sorry Kota! Your senior year should be some of the best times ever!!! And I have been getting bad depression,anxiety, and stress as well!!! Your feelings are so so valid my love!!! I’m a college student in south Louisiana and girl we are going so fast and it’s like I’m not learning anything!!! I understand your pain sista!! You got this gorgeous ❤️❤️😍😍🙌🏼🙌🏼
I’m a senior this year and I feel the exact same way. I go 2 days a week with half of my class, the work is so hard, I’m so behind on it and so apathetic about it. I also feel like we’re going so fast and can’t learn anything! We postponed all our games and stuff so hopefully things get better :( and don’t even get me started on college applications and stuff, so behind on that. You’re definitely not the only one who feels like this!
Checklist: xoxo -Have you brushed your teeth? -Have you washed your face? -Are you warm/cold enough? -Are you comfy? -Have you finished any/all Homework? -Is your dog/cat (if you have one) comfy? -Have you eaten or drinken (if your thirsty) -Did you turn off autoplay? -Have you showered? -Have you feed your pet (if you have one) -Are your lights oof? -Is your alarm set? -Is your bag packed for school (if you go) FOR ANYONE WHO NEEDS THIS: YOU ARE LOVED YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE AMAZING YOU ARE A WONDERFUL PERSON YOU ARE STUNNING AND YOU ARE WONDERFUL I LOVE YOU AND GOODNIGHT!
aww i’m sorry about school love! i’m a senior as well, just keep your head up and know there’s a light at the end of the tunnel! God bless and stay safe
I’m in first year of college and I feel the same way as you do. I really feel like I am not learning all I need to be learning and it’s stressing me out more. I honestly feel that professors think we understand more than we do. It’s amazing that you are opening about this kind of stuff because it’s so important✨ Ps: I recommend that you watch Haikyuu ✨ so many cute and adorable guys💕
Girl I completely get what you're saying about the mental health! I've been feeling the same way, so honestly thank you for making this video. You're brave for talking about it because I know it's not an easy thing to talk about, especially on such a public platform. But I know so many of us can relate. It's exhausting to be fake happy alllllllll the time!! Thank you for this video fr!!
By far, my favorite video you’ve made so far🥺 The realness, the rawness! I love how you talked about certain things that most people would be sensitive or afraid to talk about! I’m with you 100% as well as thousands of other people. More videos like this please♥️ I think we all need the realness and the reality of it all, and not hide it away and put on an act just for the sake of your audience. DO YOU, STAY TRUE TO YOIRSELF!
my tip is delete social media apps if you feel self conscious. it's hard but it's worth it! even just for a week. it shows you who your true friends are and who cares about you. or if there's someone that makes you feel insecure unfollow them. a follow on social media isn't important in a relationship with someone. every time i do it i feel so much better! and it helps me realize what is important and what isn't in my life.
I find the "show who your true friends are" train really toxic. Your friends got stuff going on too probably more than they let on. Also, sometimes my friends "disappear" because they need a break and you interrupting their time and process isnt particularly helpful. Give people their space, they don't owe you anything. Check on them once a week maybe twice if you have a bad feeling but dont push them too much
@@nick_434 it’s a hard pill to swallow, but definitely true! I did that I deleted all social media years ago after college and never regretted it -best decision, guys watch social dilemma on Netflix !!
I totally feel you about the school stuff. I’m a senior too and it’s a horrible way to finish high school. I only go to school two days a week with my half of the alphabet and all our seats are assigned-even study hall :( I feel completely socially isolated bc I can’t really talk to anyone
I don't even get to go to school so try to cherish the moments you have cause it's my last year too and let's be honest something is better than nothing right? (BTW I'm not hating you or anything just saying haha try finding the good things)
Ok my school is completely online, and if you want the perspective of someone who is completely online, it does take a lot of organization, but I’m sure for a queen like you, it is more then mangeable. It does take more focus to really get something out of it. I understand it’s sad that the social part of you senior year isn’t going how you wanted, but online school can take away a lot of stress(not all of it tho lol it’s been a struggle for me as well) it’s nice to sleep in, get up whenever you want to get a snack, or simply go hug your mom. With everything going in rn, it’s never going to be perfect. Praying for you girlie, I knows it’s hard sometimes!❤️
This was so refreshing. Most RUclipsrs are so afraid of people’s comments that they never really get to say how they are really feeling. I cant really blame the RUclipsr because I see the comments like “ wow you’re so privileged to thing like that” or “ stop being so dramatic”. That can be scary to always get these comments but If we constantly repress what we want to say out of fear of negative feedback that significantly effects mental health. Also, people need to understand that influencers only show the highlights of their lives and they are human so of course they have negative thoughts and feelings they need to share. So anyways- THANK YOU. You’re strong and just like you tell us we’re not alone, neither are you!
HAPPY 18th BDAYYY KOTA💗💗💗💗 THANK YOU FOR BEING A SINCERE CREATOR!! WE LOVE YOUU. MAY ALL YOUR WISHES COME TRUE AND THAT YOU MAY CONTINUE TO BE BLESSED WITH MANY MORE YEARS💕🥺
Your not fishing for compliments! Your beautiful just the way you are! You inspire so many people and your so amazing. I was super stressed today, and guess who fixed it?? You would never guess.. YOU!!! Thank you sweet Kota
Don’t worry girly, you’re human. Your allowed to have down periods. It’s normal. Feel your emotions, notice them, talk about them. Even from the comments here you can see how normal this is. Hang in there girl. You’ll get through this and be able to help someone some day get though something similar. So much love X
for my school situation there are two options 1st is full remote, is full online school. 2nd is hybrid, which is you go to school 2 days a week then the three rest of the days is online.
AWE! Thank you so much Kota 🥺. Melted my whole heart. All the sweet things you said are so kind 😭. I appreciate everything you have said and done to/for me 🤧❤️
I feel you sis :( My first year of university has been strictly online with no choice of going in person. I'm not even allowed to see a single family member or friend. I haven't seen my boyfriend since June because of a 5km radius rule. COVID is awful.
@@christybee8959 she used to film mostly in English,but not anymore 🙂🙂🙂🙂 She is my Dear Friend and I love her content but I don't understand the language
my son is also a senior this year it’s so sad 😞 this whole distance learning is so stressful and it’s not fair that he can’t live this last year of memories !! 😭 I’m really hoping school will start here after november. I especially felt for the kids that didn’t even get to walk last year your right about seniors this year 💔
Weebsvideo please I NEED it!!! Also Death Note is one of the best Anime I've ever watched. And Maid-Sama! Too. Totally different from each other, but both are totally worth it! :)) I also will watch Fruits Basket now, I've heard a lot of good things about it, so no doubt I'm going to watch it ;)) Thanks for the video Dakota xx
Charlee Clancy high school students meet at maid cafe (the girl works there) and when they meet the guy (usui is his name) always visits and is protective they grow a stronger relationship. I don’t know how to explain but it’s a good romance anime
I’ve never dealt with breakouts to this degree too! Thanks to covid I have the most problematic skin ever. But protection is everything so I encourage myself by remembering this will come to an end someday 😭 hopefully 🙏
love you and your videos!! omg yes I feel like this whole semester is wack as fuck im not deeply learning either :((( I hope school gets better for you girl!!!
Its okay to feel sad once in a while. U should feel bad about it cause everyone has these moments. You should share even the littlest things that bother you, cause theyre going to accumulate and make a big bunch of things that worry you. Just let it go and talk to the ppl u r comfortable with
your whispering is so calming! also, girl your so lucky you can go to school. i live in california and i have school full time online. it’s so annoying and you have no motivation to do work.
BABY! it’s okay to sometimes be in those phases where we don’t like ourselves, and it’s okay to have those insecurities and never feel bad about them at all! We’re human at the end of the day! but we’re all so beautiful and worthy! Never ever feel bad about sharing your insecurities, I don’t see it as “fishing for compliments” sometimes we just need to rant:), love you beautiful
Oh girl. Depression hits you when you least expect it. Just because you have everything that "should" make you happy (great family, great friends, plenty of comforts), doesn't mean you can't be sad. Sometimes you have to take a day or two to yourself; do all the things you love to do, or do nothing and nurse yourself back to health. You don't have to pretend to be happy or pretend to feel happy. It's okay to tell your friends and family how you're feeling. If they love you, they will be there for you. Sending you lots of love.
I'm so sorry your senior year is like this. I can't imagine what it is like for you at this time! You are so strong and are helping thousands of people everyday with their anxiety and depression and insomnia; remember that! You are important and better years are coming! Your 20s are going to be fantastic (mostly). Keep doing what you do and keep the people and friends you love close!
I’m so sorry Kota! Your senior year should be some of the best times ever!!! And I have been getting bad depression,anxiety, and stress as well!!! Your feelings are so so valid my love!!! I’m a college student in south Louisiana and girl we are going so fast and it’s like I’m not learning anything!!! I understand your pain sista!! You got this gorgeous ❤️❤️😍😍🙌🏼🙌🏼
Over an hour of rambles? You’re too kind 🥰
i hope it’s not too much :(
kota asmr it was amazing !!
@@KotaAsmr it’s never to much with you! ❤️
We love a good rant every once and a while 😂
yess very much a rant 😀😀💓
Miss Kota you are spoiling us with this over hour long upload 😫✨❤️ thank u queen
MISS KAYLEE I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 💞💗💘💓
I’m a senior this year and I feel the exact same way. I go 2 days a week with half of my class, the work is so hard, I’m so behind on it and so apathetic about it. I also feel like we’re going so fast and can’t learn anything! We postponed all our games and stuff so hopefully things get better :( and don’t even get me started on college applications and stuff, so behind on that. You’re definitely not the only one who feels like this!
Ok queen with the hour and 21 minute long video
yes miss gabby ofc ✨💖
So far I'm 3 minutes in, i am going to watch the entire asmr video
And 5 seconds
Checklist: xoxo
-Have you brushed your teeth?
-Have you washed your face?
-Are you warm/cold enough?
-Are you comfy?
-Have you finished any/all Homework?
-Is your dog/cat (if you have one) comfy?
-Have you eaten or drinken (if your thirsty)
-Did you turn off autoplay?
-Have you showered?
-Have you feed your pet (if you have one)
-Are your lights oof?
-Is your alarm set?
-Is your bag packed for school (if you go)
FOR ANYONE WHO NEEDS THIS:
YOU ARE LOVED YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE AMAZING YOU ARE A WONDERFUL PERSON YOU ARE STUNNING AND YOU ARE WONDERFUL I LOVE YOU AND GOODNIGHT!
I love that you are supporting smaller ASMR channels, excited to check out the recommended links 😊💞
Gurlll perfect timing. I love a good ramble.
aww i’m sorry about school love! i’m a senior as well, just keep your head up and know there’s a light at the end of the tunnel! God bless and stay safe
right as i’m about to go to sleep. right on time
i hope you sleep well my love
The sound is most definitely crisp!
girl this is the most relatable video ever, thank you so much for being open and vulnerable
Girl your so pretty!!
thank you 🥺❤️
I’m in first year of college and I feel the same way as you do. I really feel like I am not learning all I need to be learning and it’s stressing me out more. I honestly feel that professors think we understand more than we do. It’s amazing that you are opening about this kind of stuff because it’s so important✨
Ps: I recommend that you watch Haikyuu ✨ so many cute and adorable guys💕
I agree I’m also in my first year of college and I feel like I’m learning nothing
I was searching for asmr videos tonight to watch and saw this pop up! Like you read my mind❤️
i hope i don’t disappoint 🥺
kota asmr you never disappoint! It’s nice to have someone struggle with similar things like I’m not alone! It’s very reassuring 💕
you’re never alone
your videos are soooo soothing!! I love them sooo much!!!
ahhhh, she’s an anime fan!! i didn’t think i could love her more 🤩
If a girl watches anime she’s a keeper fr
xavier aguirre YUPPP
I love being called luvbug 🥰
Im from Europe and Im straight on my way to school listening to you NOW.... This makes me Zzz... ❤️✨
Girl I completely get what you're saying about the mental health! I've been feeling the same way, so honestly thank you for making this video. You're brave for talking about it because I know it's not an easy thing to talk about, especially on such a public platform. But I know so many of us can relate. It's exhausting to be fake happy alllllllll the time!! Thank you for this video fr!!
By far, my favorite video you’ve made so far🥺 The realness, the rawness! I love how you talked about certain things that most people would be sensitive or afraid to talk about! I’m with you 100% as well as thousands of other people. More videos like this please♥️ I think we all need the realness and the reality of it all, and not hide it away and put on an act just for the sake of your audience. DO YOU, STAY TRUE TO YOIRSELF!
miss kota coming in clutch w the hour long vid ilysm and ty for being so open ❤️
Awe!! Lovebugs 😍 Your nails look so cute
Literally so underrated 😍😍
🥺❤️❤️❤️
Oooo just in time for sleep😴 your whisper is always amazing!
my tip is delete social media apps if you feel self conscious. it's hard but it's worth it! even just for a week. it shows you who your true friends are and who cares about you. or if there's someone that makes you feel insecure unfollow them. a follow on social media isn't important in a relationship with someone. every time i do it i feel so much better! and it helps me realize what is important and what isn't in my life.
I find the "show who your true friends are" train really toxic. Your friends got stuff going on too probably more than they let on. Also, sometimes my friends "disappear" because they need a break and you interrupting their time and process isnt particularly helpful. Give people their space, they don't owe you anything. Check on them once a week maybe twice if you have a bad feeling but dont push them too much
@@nick_434 it’s a hard pill to swallow, but definitely true! I did that I deleted all social media years ago after college and never regretted it -best decision, guys watch social dilemma on Netflix !!
I always come back to this video, the sound the whispering are perfect and very tingly to me ♡
I totally feel you about the school stuff. I’m a senior too and it’s a horrible way to finish high school. I only go to school two days a week with my half of the alphabet and all our seats are assigned-even study hall :( I feel completely socially isolated bc I can’t really talk to anyone
I don't even get to go to school so try to cherish the moments you have cause it's my last year too and let's be honest something is better than nothing right? (BTW I'm not hating you or anything just saying haha try finding the good things)
You’re such an angel fr ♥️ sorry to hear you’re going through a rough time. I hope it will get better soon!
hey! I wanted to tell you that your videos are soooo good and that you are by far my favorite asmrtist
Omfg the queen. it’s an hour long I’m soooo happy and this is my favorite type of video 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️
I luv your asmr thx queen for the Hour and 21min long vid glad to be a luvbug💖
Her voice is so amazing. Like do tingley ugh it’s perfect for asmr
Awww same. Every once and a while I will just start crying and I don't even know why I am crying
Thank you, Kota...I needed this.
Congrats you're almost to 50k!
I love how Kota is taking the time to try reply to most of her comments 🤩 ❤
You are my current favorite asmrtist and to get over an hour video, yes 🙌
This video made me fall asleep straight the way I had to finish it the next day 😴
Ok my school is completely online, and if you want the perspective of someone who is completely online, it does take a lot of organization, but I’m sure for a queen like you, it is more then mangeable. It does take more focus to really get something out of it. I understand it’s sad that the social part of you senior year isn’t going how you wanted, but online school can take away a lot of stress(not all of it tho lol it’s been a struggle for me as well) it’s nice to sleep in, get up whenever you want to get a snack, or simply go hug your mom. With everything going in rn, it’s never going to be perfect. Praying for you girlie, I knows it’s hard sometimes!❤️
This was so refreshing. Most RUclipsrs are so afraid of people’s comments that they never really get to say how they are really feeling. I cant really blame the RUclipsr because I see the comments like “ wow you’re so privileged to thing like that” or “ stop being so dramatic”. That can be scary to always get these comments but If we constantly repress what we want to say out of fear of negative feedback that significantly effects mental health. Also, people need to understand that influencers only show the highlights of their lives and they are human so of course they have negative thoughts and feelings they need to share. So anyways- THANK YOU. You’re strong and just like you tell us we’re not alone, neither are you!
ur so close to 50k! u deserve 1 mil subs 🥺 ly kota 💘
Kota’s my bear🐻🥺
🧸🧸
love your vids so much!! always put me to sleep💕🌼
Your audio is always on point its very clear 👌
Love this!!! Def prefer this lighting hahah
18 is a big year, especially now! Vote! Love your videos!
Girl I love you ! You’ve helped me so much with anxiety and sleep ! Plzzz do an anime video it would be soo good
Omg HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEEN !!! 👑 💗🥳✨🎉
omg I’m watching this on your bday, happy birthday queen!
OMG I FKN LOVED THIS VIDEO!! The anime section was EVERYTHING 😭 I'm so excited for AOT S4 like it's gonna be so good!!
our queen posting an 1hr + vid yess
Great video❤️👍🏻 and i loved your whispers too
NO WAY WE HAVE THE SAME BIRTHDAY!! 🥳
HAPPY 18th BDAYYY KOTA💗💗💗💗 THANK YOU FOR BEING A SINCERE CREATOR!! WE LOVE YOUU. MAY ALL YOUR WISHES COME TRUE AND THAT YOU MAY CONTINUE TO BE BLESSED WITH MANY MORE YEARS💕🥺
Your not fishing for compliments! Your beautiful just the way you are! You inspire so many people and your so amazing. I was super stressed today, and guess who fixed it??
You would never guess..
YOU!!! Thank you sweet Kota
Ok miss Kota let it out queen
miss loren 😔🙈 i had to let it out fr
Love this video Kota! 💓 your amazing 🥰✨ I feel the same way as you aswell xx could you do a day in the life? 🌈
Don’t worry girly, you’re human. Your allowed to have down periods. It’s normal. Feel your emotions, notice them, talk about them. Even from the comments here you can see how normal this is. Hang in there girl. You’ll get through this and be able to help someone some day get though something similar. So much love X
omigod i just woke up and had a dream about you last night! i was hoping that you would post and here we are 🥳🥳💜💜
Happy birthday queen! Sending u lots of love!💕💫🥳❣️
I was waiting for you 🥰 you’re videos are my everyday routine ❤️ I love to listen to you when I am on the walk 🥰 love u❤️
you’re so pretty!❤️✨
for my school situation there are two options 1st is full remote, is full online school. 2nd is hybrid, which is you go to school 2 days a week then the three rest of the days is online.
Watched to the end, loved every second of it!! Can’t wait to check out all the people you recommended
AWE! Thank you so much Kota 🥺. Melted my whole heart. All the sweet things you said are so kind 😭. I appreciate everything you have said and done to/for me 🤧❤️
Beautiful! 💖
thank you so much 💗💗
I feel you sis :( My first year of university has been strictly online with no choice of going in person. I'm not even allowed to see a single family member or friend. I haven't seen my boyfriend since June because of a 5km radius rule. COVID is awful.
Same ! My exams are starting but I feel like I didn’t learn anything plus my teachers are extremely fast and inconsiderate
I loved this rant!
the prettiest 🥺💕
Hello Kota 🤗🤗I wanted to recommend Junebear ASMR, I really enjoy watching her videos, very relaxing tapping and whispering 😊
I checked out Junebear but it looks like almost all videos are in German. Kind of disappointed. 🥴
@@christybee8959 she used to film mostly in English,but not anymore 🙂🙂🙂🙂 She is my Dear Friend and I love her content but I don't understand the language
Love your videos Kota 💓 hope things get better for you we are all struggling ❤️
Girrlll your makeup looks good! Could you do an asmr video on this look! Thanksss girly
Love you Kota-bug! 🌸🍂🌙
Ur genuinely one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen i wish I looked like u🥺💕
my son is also a senior this year
it’s so sad 😞 this whole distance learning is so stressful and it’s not fair that he can’t live this last year of memories !! 😭
I’m really hoping school will start here after november.
I especially felt for the kids that didn’t even get to walk last year
your right about seniors this year 💔
Kyo and Toruh for the win!!! Love them!
Hii ur the best same ever
🥺❤️
@@KotaAsmr omgg thank u so much for commuting and liking my video I haven’t been on here but ur are the best RUclips ever in the world ❤️❤️❤️
not me binging your videos again because i can’t sleep 🙈✌️🏻
So pretty, besides the talented ❤
Omg yay I get so excited when you uploaddddd
HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEEN
Weebsvideo please I NEED it!!! Also Death Note is one of the best Anime I've ever watched. And Maid-Sama! Too. Totally different from each other, but both are totally worth it! :)) I also will watch Fruits Basket now, I've heard a lot of good things about it, so no doubt I'm going to watch it ;)) Thanks for the video Dakota xx
what is maid sama abt
Charlee Clancy high school students meet at maid cafe (the girl works there) and when they meet the guy (usui is his name) always visits and is protective they grow a stronger relationship. I don’t know how to explain but it’s a good romance anime
I totally thought she’d bring DN up especially when she said short anime’s !
@@melseha3449 me too, but nw she mentioned both maid sama an DN in another video :)
Where did you get your vanity mirror ?!😍
I’ve never dealt with breakouts to this degree too! Thanks to covid I have the most problematic skin ever. But protection is everything so I encourage myself by remembering this will come to an end someday 😭 hopefully 🙏
Aww we have the same birthday ❤️❤️ wishing you the best 😘
AAAA I’m so happy I’m not the only one that uses schoology!!!
love you and your videos!! omg yes I feel like this whole semester is wack as fuck im not deeply learning either :((( I hope school gets better for you girl!!!
ily Kota this was great as always!!💖✨
Its okay to feel sad once in a while. U should feel bad about it cause everyone has these moments. You should share even the littlest things that bother you, cause theyre going to accumulate and make a big bunch of things that worry you.
Just let it go and talk to the ppl u r comfortable with
your whispering is so calming! also, girl your so lucky you can go to school. i live in california and i have school full time online. it’s so annoying and you have no motivation to do work.
Awww Dakota you made me sad because you’re sad and feeling the way you’re feeling 😭😭🥺 I hope you feel better and find something that helps you
I looove when she says the word "Blue"😊
Girl I wanna give you a hug 😔
💜
Happy early birthday hunni we love you
time for me to go to sleep :) 💗
You’re so cute!!!! I love that you love anime and you seem like a super cute person to be friends with!