This guy is a Simp for tolerating this open marriage. If it were me, as soon as she brought up the idea, I would have left the house or told her to leave.
@cardinalchiropractic7439 true it's a story but this happens in real life and men and women have done just this as soon as the words are said the relationship is over if you don't want it leave don't put up with any disrespect from your husband or wife and don't be manipulated into something you don't want
I know what you are saying but this is not an open relationship because 1 she was cheating beforehand 2 she broke the rules that were set in the beginning 3 in an open marriage both partners must always prioritise their family and partner 4 you should never see the same sexual partner more than once this rule alone stops any emotional being formed she broke every rule get rid of her
Satan told them. Plus a basic misunderstanding of reality, marriage, and real love. They have not been taught right. I was taught very sternly about sex and it’s proper place. Second thing. Sex has been placed on the altar of ultimate fulfillment, when it is not! Is just a few moments pleasure worth your immortal soul? Liars like Ruth Westheimer and others have promoted sex to be the ultimate thing while It is Not.
“After that, we didn’t talk for 2 days.” Why does he word it like that’s a BAD thing? I’d be enjoying the silence. Plus his comment of: “Not wanting the kids to grow up in a broken home”!? Too late, the home was broken since she cheated (1 month before the marriage “opened”), but OP was too dumb to admit/realize that fact!
Talk about screwing up your kids, you two have done a fine job of it. You agree for your wife (their mom) to have a BF while married. Then you decide to start dating while still playing husband. Those poor kids have no clue what a marriage or family even means. Yes she moved out to live with another man but you allowed it without any repercussions. Divorce should have been the very next day at a minimum.
I agree 100%. The kids are the ones that will be messed up in the long run. Imagine what their adult relationships will be like because of the examples of their 304 mother who abandoned them for a year. And their weak, spineless father who was a willing passenger on that train wreck of a marriage. Perfect example of what an open marriage does for a family. And what happens in a family when the husband/father relinquishes his role as family head. And when there is no love or respect shown for the feelings of one or both spouses.
He should have agreed with her and tell her that you want to do her mother and let's call her right away and while you are calling her mother ask her when she is ready your daughter said it was ok because she wants to spice things up in our marriage lol
Some minor corrections. He would not have to pay alimony as he has custody. Any alimony would be offset by child support for THREE children. You could actually calculate the amount by going to your local family court website. And abandonment means there is no support he has no alimony to pay as well.
what are some of the take aways? do not give away any information to a person you are about divorce. If you are a monogamous person do not agree to an open relationship.
What is it with these women that want open marriage then get carried away with it and end up with nothing they should listen to some of these story's before they go down that road 👍👍
one of my favorite stories is when the wife gets a contract done about an open marriage since he was a lawyer and he got the better deal. He had a lot of sex while the wife had little
This story is ridiculous. OP, as a supposed lawyer, should have consulted with a divorce lawyer the moment his wife brought up the open marriage bs. Once he found out that she lied about her relationship with the 1st AP, he should have gotten a PI to get evidence then filed. Just plain stupid story for effs sake rather than dragging this out.
With the husband getting full custody, shouldn't the ex-wife have been ordered to pay child support? Three kids and he was still paying $1k a month alimony for two years? I guess if that's what he had to do to make it all end.
This is more of a wife abandoning her family than an open marriage. Still, once the husband wanted a divorce, that's when Victoria realized her lifestyle was going to change. She was using her SIMP husband for his resources, and didn't bring any new s-word knowledge back to the marriage. As if that would really happen. She only went into marriage-salvage mode because she was going to lose her ATM of a husband. Had her husband let her know that he was dating someone, she would have come home right then and there. The only thing she would be thinking is this: He possibly found my replacement. She'd demand to close the marriage and be a monogamous couple again. This is how ALL these open marriage stories end up: The gal sees guys right away, and the open marriage is "working" until her hubby finds his first gal. Once he has his chance to "indulge", she's demanding to close the relationship. Unfortunately for the wife, it's too late... and her hubby's found her replacement.
What, did they sell two kids? First, they had 7 kids. Then Charlotte got pregnant for twins. Then they were fixin' to have 7 kids...again??? The math don't work here for some reason, HUH?
I know big families, lol. I have 8 siblings. My dad had like around 12 -13 brothers and 1 sister. I have twin daughters and a younger daughter. I quit,lol. Thank goodness he has a good job 😁. I know it's fiction, but, I'm sure it's happened in real life.
Me wife & me met each other at a swingers party, (not proud of that), we stayed in a monogamous relationship after that. 7 months later we married. And we're still together after 30 years.
A great and patient husband. It takes abandonment for him to get full custody of the kids. When a wife asks for open marriage she has been cheating already. If he starts divorcing her right away he may loses the kids.
He can say whatever he likes but agreed to an open marriage. The minute she went out with the guy should have been enough to drop the divorce papers. Then he talks to her about her overnight sessions. No dude, you divorce her. You don't engage her in conversation about her not using a condom. I'm so done with this video and dumping it that the 17 minute mark.
Should have divorced the moment she said anything about an open relationship especially since it doesn’t line up with what you wanted. You signed up to be monogamous not this experiment crap both are at fault but the dude isn’t smart for letting it persist and not deading it from the start. Also I never understood the “to learn more” thing aside from a few positions that might be different because said partner can’t do them or can’t keep up with them ya really just getting plowed by someone else in the same positions n shit this why open relationships are always an excuse.
Everyone listening to this needs to remember something: This *STORY* is just an exaggerated example of why you divorce once the words 'open marriage' are spoken. By that time, the person who mentions it has already picked someone to sleep with, or is already sleeping with them. The marriage has been over for a long time, but one of them is just now finding out. I know division of assets differs by country / state, but when it's total BS when abandonment or infidelity is the cause. The cheating spouse should get less than nothing. As in, there should be a penalty (financial or otherwise) involved. Oh, and mandatory paternality testing whan a child is born. But that would only increase in people going around that. And I'm tired of hearing about 'OMG, the sex with the AP is *SO* much better...' But I do like the snapshots of everyone's life X months or years after the divorce.
Bullshit story left used wife for another person's ex-wife with additional baggage, at least ur present wife dint had kids with Henry, but ur ready to rise someone else kids ??
This guy is a Simp for tolerating this open marriage. If it were me, as soon as she brought up the idea, I would have left the house or told her to leave.
Dude it’s a STORY
@@cardinalchiropractic7439 The dude in the story is an excellent example of a SIMP!
@@cardinalchiropractic7439A SIMP story.
@cardinalchiropractic7439 true it's a story but this happens in real life and men and women have done just this as soon as the words are said the relationship is over if you don't want it leave don't put up with any disrespect from your husband or wife and don't be manipulated into something you don't want
I know how this sounds but I like this story. It serves as an excellent tell of how open relationships DON'T WORK
I know what you are saying but this is not an open relationship because 1 she was cheating beforehand 2 she broke the rules that were set in the beginning 3 in an open marriage both partners must always prioritise their family and partner 4 you should never see the same sexual partner more than once this rule alone stops any emotional being formed she broke every rule get rid of her
Who told women that it’s not cheating if they tell husband beforehand or there’s a difference between sex and love and just sex is ok smh
Satan told them. Plus a basic misunderstanding of reality, marriage, and real love. They have not been taught right. I was taught very sternly about sex and it’s proper place. Second thing. Sex has been placed on the altar of ultimate fulfillment, when it is not! Is just a few moments pleasure worth your immortal soul? Liars like Ruth Westheimer and others have promoted sex to be the ultimate thing while It is Not.
True, open marriage violates the original marriage contract that states forsake all others. There is no point in marriage if you are not exclusive.
Satan told them and they are buying it in droves.
Cheaters will do / say anything to justify their affairs.
Lead paint lickers
“After that, we didn’t talk for 2 days.”
Why does he word it like that’s a BAD thing? I’d be enjoying the silence. Plus his comment of: “Not wanting the kids to grow up in a broken home”!?
Too late, the home was broken since she cheated (1 month before the marriage “opened”), but OP was too dumb to admit/realize that fact!
Talk about screwing up your kids, you two have done a fine job of it. You agree for your wife (their mom) to have a BF while married. Then you decide to start dating while still playing husband.
Those poor kids have no clue what a marriage or family even means. Yes she moved out to live with another man but you allowed it without any repercussions. Divorce should have been the very next day at a minimum.
I agree 100%. The kids are the ones that will be messed up in the long run. Imagine what their adult relationships will be like because of the examples of their 304 mother who abandoned them for a year. And their weak, spineless father who was a willing passenger on that train wreck of a marriage. Perfect example of what an open marriage does for a family. And what happens in a family when the husband/father relinquishes his role as family head. And when there is no love or respect shown for the feelings of one or both spouses.
He should have agreed with her and tell her that you want to do her mother and let's call her right away and while you are calling her mother ask her when she is ready your daughter said it was ok because she wants to spice things up in our marriage lol
Some minor corrections. He would not have to pay alimony as he has custody. Any alimony would be offset by child support for THREE children. You could actually calculate the amount by going to your local family court website. And abandonment means there is no support he has no alimony to pay as well.
He should have said NO from the start, making it clear if she did the marriage is over. simple as that.
She didn't hang the horns on him. He volunteered.
Exactly! Best to just split up as soon as those words leave her lips!
Exactly. He's not a victim.
what are some of the take aways? do not give away any information to a person you are about divorce. If you are a monogamous person do not agree to an open relationship.
Exactly. When she asked for an open marriage, he should have said no and quietly started his exit plan.
@@draconisdragonheart4248 Exactly. By the time those words are spoken, the marriage is already over.
I can't even believe he still tolerated their situation after he found out the truth from ian.
What is it with these women that want open marriage then get carried away with it and end up with nothing they should listen to some of these story's before they go down that road 👍👍
Wife: Honey, let's have an open marriage!
Me: **Chris Benoit's theme song plays in my head**
That was wicked!!!
Yes sir
That’s terrible lol
There's no holding me back... 🎶
I wish I didn't understand this reference.
How is he, the custodial parent of 3 kids, paying her any money?
This guy gets on my nerve. He triggers the worst side of me.
A SIMP playing the victim.
Tolerating destructive behavior is folly
The moment she wanted an open marriage was the time to start Divorce proceedings!!! 😂
People that suggest open relationships are just too effing lazy to hide it.
Nope.. The second she pushes the issue the marriage is over. Done. Don't be a door mat.
This man is what you call a doormate man. She will walk all over him. I am now cheering for the cheating witch.
one of my favorite stories is when the wife gets a contract done about an open marriage since he was a lawyer and he got the better deal. He had a lot of sex while the wife had little
24:21 hes a fool. Should have blindside her with divorce n child custody.
Get rid of her - NOW !!
Just skip to 20:00
Thats where the doormat action end.
God bless you and wish you much happiness🤗😃
What a SUPER SIMP OP was!!!
Bad girl Victoria.
Victoria is a bad mom and a terrible wife.
This story is ridiculous. OP, as a supposed lawyer, should have consulted with a divorce lawyer the moment his wife brought up the open marriage bs. Once he found out that she lied about her relationship with the 1st AP, he should have gotten a PI to get evidence then filed. Just plain stupid story for effs sake rather than dragging this out.
With the husband getting full custody, shouldn't the ex-wife have been ordered to pay child support? Three kids and he was still paying $1k a month alimony for two years? I guess if that's what he had to do to make it all end.
That must’ve been a liberal Lib tard judge that made that stupid decision
Well I'm only at the 8:56 mark and started to read some comments about the husband agreeing and also dating and that's all I needed to here I'm done.
He should have divorced her the moment open marriage was brought up
There is no such thing as an open marriage. Once opened, the marriage is over.
Wife proposes "Open Marriage" = divorce
This is more of a wife abandoning her family than an open marriage. Still, once the husband wanted a divorce, that's when Victoria realized her lifestyle was going to change. She was using her SIMP husband for his resources, and didn't bring any new s-word knowledge back to the marriage. As if that would really happen. She only went into marriage-salvage mode because she was going to lose her ATM of a husband.
Had her husband let her know that he was dating someone, she would have come home right then and there. The only thing she would be thinking is this: He possibly found my replacement. She'd demand to close the marriage and be a monogamous couple again. This is how ALL these open marriage stories end up: The gal sees guys right away, and the open marriage is "working" until her hubby finds his first gal. Once he has his chance to "indulge", she's demanding to close the relationship. Unfortunately for the wife, it's too late... and her hubby's found her replacement.
What, did they sell two kids? First, they had 7 kids. Then Charlotte got pregnant for twins. Then they were fixin' to have 7 kids...again??? The math don't work here for some reason, HUH?
I know big families, lol. I have 8 siblings. My dad had like around 12 -13 brothers and 1 sister. I have twin daughters and a younger daughter. I quit,lol. Thank goodness he has a good job 😁. I know it's fiction, but, I'm sure it's happened in real life.
He should have just divorced her, The second she mentioned open marriage!
Did not finish this story because the man was such a simp and couldn't stomach it enough to finish !
So...... She's already cheating. Divorce time.
Me wife & me met each other at a swingers party, (not proud of that), we stayed in a monogamous relationship after that. 7 months later we married. And we're still together after 30 years.
A great and patient husband. It takes abandonment for him to get full custody of the kids. When a wife asks for open marriage she has been cheating already. If he starts divorcing her right away he may loses the kids.
Holy moly 7 kids....😮 At least from 2 moms....
Yeah, couldn’t imagine! 🙄🔫
He can say whatever he likes but agreed to an open marriage. The minute she went out with the guy should have been enough to drop the divorce papers. Then he talks to her about her overnight sessions. No dude, you divorce her. You don't engage her in conversation about her not using a condom. I'm so done with this video and dumping it that the 17 minute mark.
I like these stories, until the man is nothing but a Simp.
Should have divorced the moment she said anything about an open relationship especially since it doesn’t line up with what you wanted. You signed up to be monogamous not this experiment crap both are at fault but the dude isn’t smart for letting it persist and not deading it from the start. Also I never understood the “to learn more” thing aside from a few positions that might be different because said partner can’t do them or can’t keep up with them ya really just getting plowed by someone else in the same positions n shit this why open relationships are always an excuse.
Everyone listening to this needs to remember something: This *STORY* is just an exaggerated example of why you divorce once the words 'open marriage' are spoken.
By that time, the person who mentions it has already picked someone to sleep with, or is already sleeping with them.
The marriage has been over for a long time, but one of them is just now finding out.
I know division of assets differs by country / state, but when it's total BS when abandonment or infidelity is the cause.
The cheating spouse should get less than nothing. As in, there should be a penalty (financial or otherwise) involved.
Oh, and mandatory paternality testing whan a child is born. But that would only increase in people going around that.
And I'm tired of hearing about 'OMG, the sex with the AP is *SO* much better...'
But I do like the snapshots of everyone's life X months or years after the divorce.
What a Simp
Another good story from this channel. 😀
I blame him not his wife for marriage ending up in the garage.
They are both at fault.
@@simplyhuman3982I think he is blaming him only cause he didn’t dead the idea immediately and allowed it to persist but yea they both at fault
I dont understand why thks SIMP didnt grow a set on the spot amd simply say.......wait for it......NO......NO.......NO.....NO
The ending😅 is so nice 🥰
Super simp
MC is a simp
Nonsense story
NO SIMP
This guy is a wimp
Bullshit story left used wife for another person's ex-wife with additional baggage, at least ur present wife dint had kids with Henry, but ur ready to rise someone else kids ??
So what? She needs to raise his kids.
Do men actually believe that wamen actually tell the truth!? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂