🤦🏻♀️. The children don’t even say thank you.?! This is absurd for a birthday. Stop just trying to give your kids a bunch of stuff and teach them how to be grateful human beings in this world….
Wait.... so the kids got floor seats for WWE....and then a THIRD tv for their room to dedicate it for the PS5?! I just cant even form thoughts with how absurd this is.
@matthewphelan9288 lol ummm well when it's viewing for the PUBLIC yes. You get a jury of your peers. Soooo. Yep I can then post my opinion on a PUBLIC forum.
That was an uncomfortable watch when they were opening their gifts,never heard a thank you and one of the boys was just tossing his gifts to the side.Ungrateful behaviour. 🤯
Does Josh know how much Alisha will spend? I mean, do they have an agreed budget?! I think Alisha either has a shopping addiction or severe anxiety that the kids don’t like her and she has to buy their love 😢. They were great presents but she didn’t need to buy so many.
This makes perfect sense! I always thought she was buying so much because as some of the kids didn't have the best start in life so she wanted to treat them. However, although to some degree I do think that is a part of it, I really do think you’re right in saying she wants them to like her. I’m not sure if she’s also going extremely over the top because she wants a great viral video that will help her future content and increased exposure to gain more followers, likes and comments. I do wonder what their birthday's were like before RUclips/TikTok etc. Would be interesting to see they’ve always been this OTT.
That's way way more I'd spend in a year...I just really feel sorry for the children...when they are older what will they expect???...I'd so rather enjoy just being with my babies and tellingly them stories about their life journeys...
Not once have i ever heard them say thank you the problem is they will be to used to being spoiked they expect it.Not everybody has financial stability.They need financial guidance,I have also never heard you cant have that in a sentence.Not even a thank you when they opened there ps5.I think I would have a few choice words to say off camera/Irresponsible spending social media wont last forever
Alisha, stop this madness. The twins were unimpressed. In the very near future I think this overshopping insanity is going to backfire on you and your kids.
She does it for views . Also these kids never get a private moment to open gifts they always seem uncomfortable with the camera . Like. They expression when they realized the tickets weren’t just for them. Like she can’t even take them out with just her for they birthday she has to get it for everyone who probably don’t even like wwe. But because she needs to film it for content and views she going to bring everyone and you know these twin’s definitely know this isn’t a gift thought out for them because now they have to share that experience
Were the twins just overwhemed with all the expensive gifts? Or were they underwhelmed? I can’t decide. Most kids would be smiling from ear to ear and exhuberant when opening those type of gifts. The twins were very low key and didn’t seem all that excited.
@@kezru1581 I have a right to speak my opinion, as do you. I wasn’t being negative, simply asking a question. You are being negative towards me, but I couldn’t care less about you or what you think of me. Buh bye
I just don’t understand how as a parent, she’s not completely hurt that after spending THOUSANDS of dollars for all the gifts which is mind boggling in itself, there’s not one thank you. EVER. I feel like this is all just for the video and she could care less about the thank you, which is so wrong.
It doesn’t matter if it’s for content and money they still could have said thank you some kids are so ungrateful I believe she really tries but no one seems to appreciate her now some do but some just think she supposed to just keep putting out seems to me they really didn’t enjoy none of the nothing except for the PS5 - priorities messed up
Honestly the amount of gifts isn’t the issue to me…but it’s basic manners to say “thank you” when getting a gift. Hopefully they’ll eventually be taught please and thank you. 😳😬
I'm all for getting my kids stuff they enjoy but you just overspend and get all of them stuff they don't even want for every birthday, holiday, etc and it's all just for content. Do yourself and kids a favor and teach them its not about materialistic things and how to earn things and be grateful. They're going to grow up thinking everything is going to be handed to them and that's not the case. Being a good parent doesn't mean just making them happy by buying them stuff. It's showing them how to work for things, what being grateful means, how to do work. You need to do more for them, especially for kids you brought in that were in the system. This is just disgusting.
seriously stop doing this to your kids. It's not their fault they don't say thank you TEACH THEM!! Do they really need to be showered with soooo many gifts?? What do you do with their old toys? It would be nice to see you take your children and their unwanted toys and donate them to families in need. I guarantee needy children would appreciate it and it would show to your own kids that there are less unfortunate (and less spoiled) kids than yours. Do better.
@@anastasyaasionn exactly . I was so disappointed in this video. These kids need to go to a food pantry and donate time to feed the poor folks and learn to give gifts to toys for tots and learn that every single thing in life is not just handed to them . This behavior is completely unacceptable
I would be embarrassed if I were you posting this. I thoroughly enjoy watching your videos, but this is just disgraceful. Not a single thank you. These kids need to learn manners, it all starts at home.
we don’t even know if they say thank you. when i open gifts i say thank you at the end of opening all gifts, she kept cutting parts out, we don’t know what’s actually said or done y’all are seeing clips and calling them ungrateful. IM SURE they said thank you especially when they are so attached to her.
@@yesie8375 no not always, other kids do say thank you right after. y’all are forgetting these are 9 year olds children who are overwhelmed you can tell on their faces they are. people did the same thing for bodhis birthday party video saying he was ungrateful because he wasn’t jumping up and down and overly excited like other kids, bodhi said ty the whole time and said he loved it he’s just calm. it’s the same with the twins, kids aren’t even allowed to be calm without adults saying they’re ungrateful and odd, these are the same adults that judge kids for being kids and say that they’re doing too much. every child in that family is calm and mannered.
Pffft if you think this is failed parenting then you need to open your eyes. There’s kids in much much worse households you could direct that energy towards.
I know *adults* that NEVER say "thank you" or even "please". It is a result of bad parenting. Turning out entitled and piggish. Teach your kids some basic manners. Not one grain of gratitude was displayed here on this whole video. But its NOT their fault. Nice going, Alicia and Josh.
and was going to instacart candles, and spend $40 on $5 candles. ... cause she can't plan ahead and shop before their literal birthday. She's gross and so out of touch
These kids have so much that they are not excited for their gifts. It's such a shame. Alicia, how about you sponsore a less fortunate child for each of your kids' birthdays so that you can bless them with gifts like these. Your kids have so much already that they don't need more.
@@jordiflower Yes, I have. I see parents with 4 natural born and at least 6 adopted kids. They are doing a great job and then there are people like you....
Can someone please explain WHY these kids would need THREE TVs in one room? They already have two and need a third dedicated just to PlayStation?! This is absurd. What am I missing?
Well I think since the PlayStation is for both of them I think the idea is that they have a dedicated tv for the PlayStation so it doesn’t go to one or the other probably to avoid fighting. Though personally since they share a room I don’t know why they can’t just share a tv but to each is own.
These children do not say thank you because they are so acclimated to this insane amount of THINGS for every single occasion. Nothing is special, sentimental, or personal. It’s just THINGS thrown at them for every possible occasion. She is raising entitled, coddled, not CAPABLE children!!
My opinion may get red flagged but i dont care... where are these boys manners...not a thank you once... but she made some of the others say thank you.. what is wrong with them. I know they may not enjoy their presents because its a never ending thing with them.. she will go overboard at christmas again.. maybe what she needs to do is give every single one of her kids that are unappreciative..manner classes or etiquette classes.
This is all just too much for a child esp with Christmas being a couple months away! This is more than what most folks get for a birthday and Christmas combined. They also just don’t seem to appreciate the things they get.
I've never seen kids opening presents with such a lack of enthusiasm and not a shred of gratitude. Are the words thank you like a curse word that is forbidden in that home? Maybe they will be punished if thank you is said because every kid that gets gifts never says it.
Come on Alicia comment on the people that show concern,and speak the truth. They are wonderful kids , but a couple of kids need to repsect, and say thank you. Josh justs sits around while you run ragged. What do you think if you show them to wash dishes ,sweep, do beds , basically do chores,but i think you dont want to tell them because they might hate you. They dont clean up there lockers, because they know you will do it for them. One thing go check if these kids are diabetic,with all that sugar. Because its scary,they can go in to diabetic shock one day. Give them all blood work for there A1C. Also check your self too. I almost lost my husband , because he went in to shock. He drank so much sunny D ,Soda, and donuts everyday. Me as a wife i should have realized it. But i didnt. . And it finally caught up with him. Im saying this because im concerned for those kids. Please check there A1C Now. Thats why the kids are sluggish ,and sleep all day😢😢😢😢 its the sugar. Please Harlee drinks so much juice every day or chocolate milk. It could happen now or later by the time shes ten. She will be diabetic. All of this will lead to heart problems to. Pay attention please.
Props to grandma for trying to make them acknowledge their gifts, she knows the vibes and cant say to much except try to encourage them to be happy about their gifts or to be a little appreciative, good job grams🙌
The grandma ruined it for them, they shoulda got to be happy open their gifts it was their day not hers she could of waited until after they opened their gifts Im sure they would of looked and been more grateful but her mouth ruined their excitement shame on her
Why dont you save money for bigger house and each kid would have own room instead of 3 TV's in one small bedroom. Absolute there is no parenting there its just teaching your kids sitting infront of tv and do nothing.
You think you’re a good mom but three tvs in a CHILDS bedroom is crazy. And you clearly do not teach them gratitude or respect for the things they have/get. They will grow up and not be grateful or respect what they have because of you. Great job
How can the kids appreciate anything if they have everything. Instead of giving material things, if you love them , help them saving up to college no!?
They are. It even excited or grateful- not on e did they say thank you. They only smiled when they got the ps5 but never thanked you or Josh & they threw everything else aside. How ungrateful can they be. They are old enough to have manners - so very spoiled. The big gift meant nothing to them - they didn’t even react or care. What horrible behavior.
@@kristy7879That’s what happens when you are given everything you want when you want it. Not having to earn anything, not having to wait. Nothing to be thankful for.
I wish the boys a happy birthday, they both seem lovely lads but don’t have an appreciation of how lucky they are, and how little others of their age have. Why don’t you try some videos showing your children others low income budgets, going without, it might help them adapt some better awareness and life skills for when they are adults themselves.
The kids will have a lifetime of overspending and debt if they are not taught the value of money. Dosnt seem that this particular household is efficient for learning. No consideration for the children whatsoever.
I actually don’t think that it was so much that they were not grateful but more that they were completely overwhelmed with so much that they didn’t know what to do. Less is more!
They don’t look grateful but I guess it is what it is. For the future, I think they should take turns opening presents, as well as everyone at Christmas so that way everyone gets attention while opening their gifts
So they not aloud to say that in private off camera. Like when the guests are leaving. Why does it need to be filmed. We weren't invited to the party. We got edited parts.
They seem to be so used to being bought WHATEVER THEY WANT, they are ungrateful. I would have taken the gifts back to the store. Why not even 1 thank you??
I feel bad because so much effort was put into their party, and the twins hardly cracked a smile. I know kids can get swept up in everything but a simple smile and a thank you would have been nice.
My Mum is a single mother of 3 we're all adults now, we knew she didn't have a lot of money, but we did know she tried her best and went without so she could give us a little extra especially on special occasions. I once got a pencil case with some cool pens, pencils and erasers and thought it was the best gift ever! This is not on the parents but maybe next year the twins get 1 gift to share not overly expensive and then spend time with those a lot less fortunate. They can see how it could have been if they hadn't have been adopted by two very loving and giving parents.@@TheKimmie713
The boys definitely would have preferred to go to WWE with just their parents and not a squad of siblings too! Quality time is what would have mattered to them regardless of what the experience is! You could tell they were gutted that everyone was going and wasn’t just something special for themselves ☹️🥺 Shame!
You know you've fail as a parent when there are more comments calling you out for your bad parentings versus comments saying "great job mom". Maybe its worth actually reflecting on versus detroying your childrens long term successes of life just for views and money. Hope you're setting aside money for all the therapy they will need. 🤦♀️
All of her kids are so over spoiled and ungrateful. You will never hear any of them thanking or appreciating the gifts they get. Every thing is accessible to them so easily that it has no value 😕
The lack of appreciation from these kids is actually painful to watch. I almost feel embarrassed for them. I actually enjoyed these videos in the past, but I almost feel wrong watching this kind of ridiculousness.
Also, I happen to think, as the twins were tossing gift cards and cash like it was nothing, they are naming who the gifts are from and (probably) these kid's parents are going to see this video and the lack of appreciation.
I really don’t want this to sound harsh. I really love you and your family, Alicia. The kids seem so happy and well-adjusted. You look joyful with Josh and vice-versa. I waited till the very end of the video to see if I heard 1 ‘thank you’ from either of the twins. I waited in vain. No thank-yous offered. Parental intervention needed.
@@heathermacdonald5986 well that’s funny when the whole video is about the kids not the adults!! And you act as if that makes it better!! 🤦♀️ like an excuse to hate when you could simply just not watch!! Sooo yeah 🥴
I think the boys needed you to take them wrestling alone with mom and dad, i would reconsider if i was you, one on one time is crucial especially when you have so many kids
None of the children are grateful except for Patrick, Bree, Dayshawn, and James. The twins are especially prone to snatching things and never saying thank you.
i thought it was just me seeing this videos where there was no thank you unless i was wrong. but then im reading the comments so i wasn't wrong. although ive been following this family for some time i still enjoy the contents made especially the shopping haul etc. a simple thank you goes a long way - just saying.
Last year we bought gifts for a little boy who had a broken plastic hanger pretending it was an airplane What you do for your kids is so wrong. What’s missing in your life ???
The dollar store sells party decorations. You could save a lot of money going there especially since you buy new party decorations for every kids birthday
She doesn't give a crap about saving money she's addicted to spending money that's why the kids are "ungrateful" because they get anything and everything they want.
wait a minute first of all they was happy none of the others was happy and you guys didnt say anything now jordan and jason get something and your in the comments saying their ungrateful. if they are its not theit fault your taught from a parent to say thank you. i have never seen so many negative comments in none of her videos like i seen now.
I know those kids are from bad situations, but over doing it doesn't make up for more Love and less junk .Cloths ,food and love is all most kids need . I have grandbabies with special needs and they can learn and be a predictive human not intilted.
I do whatcha her videos, give the kids responsibility for thing and trust they learn . It gives them some control over their lifestyle. I understand the need to update phones ,clothes ,shoes . Have a big party dont over do it.
@@georgiarollins916 just because she shares tiny bits about their lives that doesn't make you entitled to judge her decisions. Find a better hobby and care about your life
You gotta educate them better they are not thankful not even grateful they were like meh and then a little happy maybe you spoil them so much but i hate their attitude . A thanyyou is the least 😅
Shocked at how much they got. I could not tell if the boys liked their gifts. They opened each gift and just threw it down. Did they like their gifts or not? Did they appreciate their gifts?
I’m sure it’s great having grown strangers judge you for how you open your birthday gifts at 9 years old. If anything, maybe they feel weird being filmed.
@@kittykatz3518 even a 2 yo knows how to say thank you when someone gives them something. My son thanks me every single night just for handing him his dinner
Funny out of this whole video that’s all you could comment!! If she bought some new and recycled some y’all would holler why? That’s not fair!! You are showing favoritism so she can’t win with y’all haters and it’s Ridiculous y’all need to grow up or go else where 🙄
That’s what I do. We save all our Christmas and birthday bags and reuse them now that my children are married and live on their own and they do the same thing to me. It’s silly to waste money like that what people got to realize you’re not always gonna make money off RUclips and TikTok how many people thought they would, and then all of their views went down and then nobody was sponsoring them anymore not like they used to. They may get a few sponsors, but not as much as they were, so tell me it’s just have a brain and think hey I don’t want to blow this money. I should save when I can but then again she doesn’t shop at Costco or Sam’s Club. Honestly I would think we’re having a big family that was gonna be the one places you’d want to shop with because you’re buying bulk but that’s just my opinion
I’m surprised that you haven’t got a gift wrapping room (Or closet). Imagine the fun you’d have shopping to fill it with supplies! Perhaps it could be in a recently vacated bedroom?!?!
Very grateful children . They don't even say thank you... I wish i had a mother and aunts uncle grand parents like this. My twin and i never had a birthday party nor a cake it was just another day..Your both were so lucky..And showa like you both don't care..
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🤦🏻♀️. The children don’t even say thank you.?! This is absurd for a birthday. Stop just trying to give your kids a bunch of stuff and teach them how to be grateful human beings in this world….
Stop trying to tell other people how to raise their children. Not your business what she buys her kids and how much she spends. Calm down, Karen
Such rudeness, ungratefulness, extravagance, and ridiculousness all wrapped up in one video. Unbelievable.
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Wait.... so the kids got floor seats for WWE....and then a THIRD tv for their room to dedicate it for the PS5?! I just cant even form thoughts with how absurd this is.
And it did not look like the twins appreciated any of the gifts.
@matthewphelan9288 lol ummm well when it's viewing for the PUBLIC yes. You get a jury of your peers. Soooo. Yep I can then post my opinion on a PUBLIC forum.
@@matthewphelan9288I mean it is when she makes it public and puts it all out there just saying…..
And they were completely ungrateful for the clothes, cards, cash and gift cards.
You are NOT doing them any favors with the excessive amounts of monetary itemsl These children are very selfish and unappreciative.
I agree
weel because she raise them that why not their fault
She didn't raise them, and it shows.@@dylanmoore7187
That was an uncomfortable watch when they were opening their gifts,never heard a thank you and one of the boys was just tossing his gifts to the side.Ungrateful behaviour. 🤯
time stamp of one of them saying thank you is 1:00:09
Does Josh know how much Alisha will spend? I mean, do they have an agreed budget?! I think Alisha either has a shopping addiction or severe anxiety that the kids don’t like her and she has to buy their love 😢. They were great presents but she didn’t need to buy so many.
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This makes perfect sense! I always thought she was buying so much because as some of the kids didn't have the best start in life so she wanted to treat them. However, although to some degree I do think that is a part of it, I really do think you’re right in saying she wants them to like her. I’m not sure if she’s also going extremely over the top because she wants a great viral video that will help her future content and increased exposure to gain more followers, likes and comments.
I do wonder what their birthday's were like before RUclips/TikTok etc. Would be interesting to see they’ve always been this OTT.
That's way way more I'd spend in a year...I just really feel sorry for the children...when they are older what will they expect???...I'd so rather enjoy just being with my babies and tellingly them stories about their life journeys...
Wow how spoiled and ungrateful are these kids . Don’t shoot me it’s just my opinion
Not once have i ever heard them say thank you the problem is they will be to used to being spoiked they expect it.Not everybody has financial stability.They need financial guidance,I have also never heard you cant have that in a sentence.Not even a thank you when they opened there ps5.I think I would have a few choice words to say off camera/Irresponsible spending social media wont last forever
Alisha, stop this madness. The twins were unimpressed. In the very near future I think this overshopping insanity is going to backfire on you and your kids.
She does it for views . Also these kids never get a private moment to open gifts they always seem uncomfortable with the camera . Like. They expression when they realized the tickets weren’t just for them. Like she can’t even take them out with just her for they birthday she has to get it for everyone who probably don’t even like wwe. But because she needs to film it for content and views she going to bring everyone and you know these twin’s definitely know this isn’t a gift thought out for them because now they have to share that experience
agree
Jordon needs to be reigned in a bit, especially now, before he gets older. The way he threw aside the money and general ungratefulness
Just wait until Christmas. Her kids don't appreciate gifts and it's not entirely their fault.
They get so much things that it can be overwhelming.
Were the twins just overwhemed with all the expensive gifts? Or were they underwhelmed? I can’t decide. Most kids would be smiling from ear to ear and exhuberant when opening those type of gifts. The twins were very low key and didn’t seem all that excited.
Pam looks like you always have a negative thing to say...maybe don't watch and then you can be a kind person and not spread unkind comments.
@@Duckkisomg hush
@@kezru1581you need to just RELAX! She only made a comment. It was not mean, it was just her point of view!!
@@kezru1581 I have a right to speak my opinion, as do you. I wasn’t being negative, simply asking a question. You are being negative towards me, but I couldn’t care less about you or what you think of me. Buh bye
Y’all are really negative 🤣
Wow 9 years old and still haven’t learned to say thank you.
They haven’t been taught any lif skills, let alone being great full and kind
Well your an adult I’m guessing and haven’t learnt manners either so who are you to judge.
@@rekebahlakes7993you’re allowed to judge the parents who don’t teach their kids basic manners tho
She puts it on the internet - we can judge. @@rekebahlakes7993
Exactly my 2 year old knows how to say thank you
I just don’t understand how as a parent, she’s not completely hurt that after spending THOUSANDS of dollars for all the gifts which is mind boggling in itself, there’s not one thank you. EVER. I feel like this is all just for the video and she could care less about the thank you, which is so wrong.
Everything she does is for content and money.
It doesn’t matter if it’s for content and money they still could have said thank you some kids are so ungrateful I believe she really tries but no one seems to appreciate her now some do but some just think she supposed to just keep putting out seems to me they really didn’t enjoy none of the nothing except for the PS5 - priorities messed up
Not one of them said thank you. Why ?
So not one thank you, to anyone? Where are the manners? They just open a gift and discard it on the floor without a thought? Really?
You're obviously new here.
Ngl, this is sadly not the worst thing about this channel.
They're kid's 😮 WOW
You need to Grow Up.
@@MelMel-bo5kt they are 9 years old. They are beyond old enough to say "thank you."
@@KB-nr3lsAMEN!
so out of touch to think 2 children under 10 need THREE TELEVISION SCREENS in their room.
@@matthewphelan9288 i'm screaming you think its normal?
But she “only gives 1 hours of screen time a day” lmaooooo i feel you girl
Honestly the amount of gifts isn’t the issue to me…but it’s basic manners to say “thank you” when getting a gift. Hopefully they’ll eventually be taught please and thank you. 😳😬
💯 agree!
Got them all those gifts and no thank you, geez put some manners in these kids.
I'm all for getting my kids stuff they enjoy but you just overspend and get all of them stuff they don't even want for every birthday, holiday, etc and it's all just for content. Do yourself and kids a favor and teach them its not about materialistic things and how to earn things and be grateful. They're going to grow up thinking everything is going to be handed to them and that's not the case. Being a good parent doesn't mean just making them happy by buying them stuff. It's showing them how to work for things, what being grateful means, how to do work. You need to do more for them, especially for kids you brought in that were in the system. This is just disgusting.
seriously stop doing this to your kids. It's not their fault they don't say thank you TEACH THEM!! Do they really need to be showered with soooo many gifts?? What do you do with their old toys? It would be nice to see you take your children and their unwanted toys and donate them to families in need. I guarantee needy children would appreciate it and it would show to your own kids that there are less unfortunate (and less spoiled) kids than yours. Do better.
Well said.
She does donate toys and unused food from the pantry.
@@vickyCA1643 sadly no one cares about that they just want to hate on her and the kids
I'd love to see it! Saying she does and actually showing that she does are two different things@@vickyCA1643
@@vickyCA1643she only did it once after getting so much criticism to make herself look better. Everything else goes to the trash.
They way they threw all the gifts to the side and no thank yous😂
It was disgusting to see how ungrateful they are
right in front of the gift givers too
@@anastasyaasionn exactly . I was so disappointed in this video. These kids need to go to a food pantry and donate time to feed the poor folks and learn to give gifts to toys for tots and learn that every single thing in life is not just handed to them . This behavior is completely unacceptable
@@OurFunFam5 exactly…. All about those views
The way they threw that money they got on the floor resembles how Alicia is with money. Spend spend spend all the time without a care in the world
I would be embarrassed if I were you posting this. I thoroughly enjoy watching your videos, but this is just disgraceful. Not a single thank you. These kids need to learn manners, it all starts at home.
Wait.... Did you say the twins have 2 tv's in their bedroom already, and you bought another one? I'm so confused
Yep they now have 3 TVs in their room
When your kids dont even say thankyou once you know you failed at parenting. Its not their fault at all. Manners cost nothing
Good ear buds would have saved u this comment.
we don’t even know if they say thank you. when i open gifts i say thank you at the end of opening all gifts, she kept cutting parts out, we don’t know what’s actually said or done y’all are seeing clips and calling them ungrateful. IM SURE they said thank you especially when they are so attached to her.
@@yesie8375 no not always, other kids do say thank you right after. y’all are forgetting these are 9 year olds children who are overwhelmed you can tell on their faces they are. people did the same thing for bodhis birthday party video saying he was ungrateful because he wasn’t jumping up and down and overly excited like other kids, bodhi said ty the whole time and said he loved it he’s just calm. it’s the same with the twins, kids aren’t even allowed to be calm without adults saying they’re ungrateful and odd, these are the same adults that judge kids for being kids and say that they’re doing too much. every child in that family is calm and mannered.
@@slienthills thank u u said everything I've been thinking but didn't know how to say
Pffft if you think this is failed parenting then you need to open your eyes. There’s kids in much much worse households you could direct that energy towards.
I know *adults* that NEVER say "thank you" or even "please".
It is a result of bad parenting. Turning out entitled and piggish.
Teach your kids some basic manners. Not one grain of gratitude was displayed here on this whole video. But its NOT their fault. Nice going, Alicia and Josh.
How many kids have you raised? What have you accomplished in your life so far?. Tell me!
@tomik88 weird thing to ask
Alicia Forgot candles
Me " But you didn't forget to spend thousands of dollars on ungrateful kids"
and was going to instacart candles, and spend $40 on $5 candles. ... cause she can't plan ahead and shop before their literal birthday. She's gross and so out of touch
Wow I don’t even think they said thank you and they weren’t excited. They’re just over it.
Can't blame them really
Yeah, blame her for not teaching them.@@kellyprice2582
These kids have so much that they are not excited for their gifts. It's such a shame.
Alicia, how about you sponsore a less fortunate child for each of your kids' birthdays so that you can bless them with gifts like these. Your kids have so much already that they don't need more.
How is your life looking right now? Have you helped anyone other than yourself?
@@tijrusmaybe they can’t afford to. But do you know who can? Alicia
@@jordiflower You are very ignorant to take a 1-minute shot of kids opening presents and making a judgement on their state of mind.
@@tijrus 1 minute shot? Have you seen their thousands of videos?
@@jordiflower Yes, I have. I see parents with 4 natural born and at least 6 adopted kids. They are doing a great job and then there are people like you....
Can someone please explain WHY these kids would need THREE TVs in one room? They already have two and need a third dedicated just to PlayStation?! This is absurd. What am I missing?
Well I think since the PlayStation is for both of them I think the idea is that they have a dedicated tv for the PlayStation so it doesn’t go to one or the other probably to avoid fighting. Though personally since they share a room I don’t know why they can’t just share a tv but to each is own.
Im a bit more surprised they both didn’t get their own PS5’s
@@samanthamartinez2087three TVs in one room is just insane. Especially at this young age. Seems so overstimulating.
@@pinkylee8321really. who has that much space?
Why are people so judgmental it doesn’t concern you, if you don’t like it don’t watch the video
These children do not say thank you because they are so acclimated to this insane amount of THINGS for every single occasion. Nothing is special, sentimental, or personal. It’s just THINGS thrown at them for every possible occasion. She is raising entitled, coddled, not CAPABLE children!!
Amen! I agree 100% This was a hard video for me to watch. The show of no excitement was embarrassing.
My opinion may get red flagged but i dont care... where are these boys manners...not a thank you once... but she made some of the others say thank you.. what is wrong with them. I know they may not enjoy their presents because its a never ending thing with them.. she will go overboard at christmas again.. maybe what she needs to do is give every single one of her kids that are unappreciative..manner classes or etiquette classes.
First of all she needs to stop exploding her children on social media.
This is all just too much for a child esp with Christmas being a couple months away! This is more than what most folks get for a birthday and Christmas combined. They also just don’t seem to appreciate the things they get.
I've never seen kids opening presents with such a lack of enthusiasm and not a shred of gratitude. Are the words thank you like a curse word that is forbidden in that home? Maybe they will be punished if thank you is said because every kid that gets gifts never says it.
3 TVs in one room! Madness!
Tvs are not as expensive as they used to be…
My room has 2 Tvs and 2 Computer monitors.
Come on Alicia comment on the people that show concern,and speak the truth. They are wonderful kids , but a couple of kids need to repsect, and say thank you. Josh justs sits around while you run ragged. What do you think if you show them to wash dishes ,sweep, do beds , basically do chores,but i think you dont want to tell them because they might hate you. They dont clean up there lockers, because they know you will do it for them. One thing go check if these kids are diabetic,with all that sugar. Because its scary,they can go in to diabetic shock one day. Give them all blood work for there A1C. Also check your self too. I almost lost my husband , because he went in to shock. He drank so much sunny D ,Soda, and donuts everyday. Me as a wife i should have realized it. But i didnt. . And it finally caught up with him. Im saying this because im concerned for those kids. Please check there A1C Now. Thats why the kids are sluggish ,and sleep all day😢😢😢😢 its the sugar. Please Harlee drinks so much juice every day or chocolate milk. It could happen now or later by the time shes ten. She will be diabetic. All of this will lead to heart problems to. Pay attention please.
My heart broke when they found out everyone was going too. Maybe they'd like a day that's just about them? They seemed bummed about that
Yeah cause she's a bad parent.
Props to grandma for trying to make them acknowledge their gifts, she knows the vibes and cant say to much except try to encourage them to be happy about their gifts or to be a little appreciative, good job grams🙌
The grandma ruined it for them, they shoulda got to be happy open their gifts it was their day not hers she could of waited until after they opened their gifts Im sure they would of looked and been more grateful but her mouth ruined their excitement shame on her
MentallyillMama2
~ they ruin the moment each and every gift giving holiday! It's starts with Mom and trickles on down
@@JustMeeee2 your kids don’t have manners either do they?
@@JustMeeee2they have been like this for years. Every single time they get gifts they are super ungrateful. They never ever thank her.
@@susangartman5252 Who hurt you as a child?
Happy birthday
But teaching children they don’t always get what they ask for because of cost too is surely important ???
How big are their bedrooms? Do they have space to walk around with all that stuff? And 3 TVs for one room is crazy.
Why dont you save money for bigger house and each kid would have own room instead of 3 TV's in one small bedroom. Absolute there is no parenting there its just teaching your kids sitting infront of tv and do nothing.
You think you’re a good mom but three tvs in a CHILDS bedroom is crazy. And you clearly do not teach them gratitude or respect for the things they have/get. They will grow up and not be grateful or respect what they have because of you. Great job
How can the kids appreciate anything if they have everything. Instead of giving material things, if you love them , help them saving up to college no!?
I'm already excited for the twins 15th birthday where she gifts them each a villa 🤩
😂😂
😂😂😂 I'm crying 😂😂😂
Why wait to 15. Give it as a Christmas present. Each kid already has 5 of everything. Ridiculous
Nah just do it for their Halloween bags or whatever she's gonna do for Halloween.@@denise52170
Yes, and then 18 they get a country each!
This was like Christmas not a birthday. I didn’t hear 1 thank you at all. They don’t show any appreciation.
Shelley doesn’t mean it didn’t happen plenty of cuts in this video. They might want it as a private conversation SHELLY 🤡🤡
@@PineAdollies and they said thank u multiple times
All that just for a birthday!!! Thats more than Christmas!! Outrageous!!
So true...what are these children learning???...
They are. It even excited or grateful- not on e did they say thank you. They only smiled when they got the ps5 but never thanked you or Josh & they threw everything else aside. How ungrateful can they be. They are old enough to have manners - so very spoiled. The big gift meant nothing to them - they didn’t even react or care. What horrible behavior.
Has anyone even seen Day-Shawn with that puppy??? I feel terribly sorry for that doggie.
That one twin was disappointed, he wanted a Porsche.
Haha that’s for Christmas
@@tracy_b1-q2k 😂😂😂. She’ll get two ……
The twins never say thank you they seem so ungrateful
They both have autism. Kids with autism can be extremely grateful but show it atypically.
@@csaba2797
No, they don't 😂
None of her kids do
bad parenting, teach those kids how to say thank you right from the start.
@destinyfrazier7391 bodhi does. Not sure if some of the other kids do or have some form of it.
They hardly ever say thank you the only ones I’ve heard say thank you are James, Dayshawn,Patrick and Bree
patrick and bree are always the most grateful ones, not just on birthdays but in general (atleast on vlogs)
The best present she could give them to appreciate what they have and maybe spend time with them not just money
I never heard one thank you!!!! 😮
😔
why is that？There are sooooo many gifts but they don’t seem to be excited or appreciating. I just quite understand…..
And you probably never will 😂
I love Nana!
@@kristy7879That’s what happens when you are given everything you want when you
want it. Not having to earn anything, not having to wait. Nothing to be thankful for.
I wish the boys a happy birthday, they both seem lovely lads but don’t have an appreciation of how lucky they are, and how little others of their age have. Why don’t you try some videos showing your children others low income budgets, going without, it might help them adapt some better awareness and life skills for when they are adults themselves.
The kids will have a lifetime of overspending and debt if they are not taught the value of money. Dosnt seem that this particular household is efficient for learning. No consideration for the children whatsoever.
I actually don’t think that it was so much that they were not grateful but more that they were completely overwhelmed with so much that they didn’t know what to do. Less is more!
They don’t look grateful but I guess it is what it is. For the future, I think they should take turns opening presents, as well as everyone at Christmas so that way everyone gets attention while opening their gifts
Bree opened her presents in an almost empty room 😢
My son is special needs but that was never an excuse not to say ' Thank You'.
Teach children to be grateful and humble for everything they receive and work for!
The have disabilities read up on her family on Google and her own instagram and her social
Media. Cut them some slack ok.
Yet they play those games, no they can say thank you
@@jujujj63 I’ve got two children with disabilities it does not give them the excuse to not use manners
@@jujujj63disabilities is no excuse at all. My brother has ASD and he knows to say thank you and be grateful for what he receives.
Wow such ungrateful kids
I didn't hear any thank yous
So they not aloud to say that in private off camera. Like when the guests are leaving. Why does it need to be filmed. We weren't invited to the party. We got edited parts.
Yes getting a 3rd tv is the solution to the ps5 😂, YOU KNOW THEY CAN JUST SWITCH THE TV MODE . so dumb
Stop sharing these kids personal information about their biological family members know body asking for that
They really look sooooo excited about the show... HAHAHAHAHA disgusting
Not even a Thank you, outrageous. Way way to much stuff
They seem to be so used to being bought WHATEVER THEY WANT, they are ungrateful. I would have taken the gifts back to the store. Why not even 1 thank you??
I feel bad because so much effort was put into their party, and the twins hardly cracked a smile. I know kids can get swept up in everything but a simple smile and a thank you would have been nice.
If my mom & dad had given me all this stuff at any age I’d have been hugging necks & saying thank you over & over. We appreciated what we got
My Mum is a single mother of 3 we're all adults now, we knew she didn't have a lot of money, but we did know she tried her best and went without so she could give us a little extra especially on special occasions. I once got a pencil case with some cool pens, pencils and erasers and thought it was the best gift ever! This is not on the parents but maybe next year the twins get 1 gift to share not overly expensive and then spend time with those a lot less fortunate. They can see how it could have been if they hadn't have been adopted by two very loving and giving parents.@@TheKimmie713
why dont you reuse the non themed gift bags... you have like 60 a year or so lol.
1:02:51 says it all. Throwing the present aside. So so ungrateful. Wow.
Disgusting waste of money 3 tvs in one room way to many gifts
I think it's time to start teaching them manners.
Some of them have disabilities you really should learn her history before you judge.
Not even one thank you from the boys.
Always a negative comment from you! Maybe time to get a new hobby. Be kind
@@kezru1581 Unfortunately it is a negative comment but it’s the truth. The comment wasn’t meant to be unkind, it was meant to bring awareness.
Do you personally know them? Making wild assumptions about kids you don't know is super weird
@506Anna u don't have to know them personally, she puts her whole life on display for the world
Why do y'all need to hear them say thank u. When they keep that private y'all still complain.
The boys definitely would have preferred to go to WWE with just their parents and not a squad of siblings too! Quality time is what would have mattered to them regardless of what the experience is! You could tell they were gutted that everyone was going and wasn’t just something special for themselves ☹️🥺 Shame!
They said not all the kids are going
You know you've fail as a parent when there are more comments calling you out for your bad parentings versus comments saying "great job mom". Maybe its worth actually reflecting on versus detroying your childrens long term successes of life just for views and money. Hope you're setting aside money for all the therapy they will need. 🤦♀️
buying a third tv for their bedroom, when they alredy have two in there is wild and very unnecesary...
You can say that again
And correct me but I don't think i heard a thank you from either child.
2 tvs is for gaming. 1 for watching tv
All of her kids are so over spoiled and ungrateful. You will never hear any of them thanking or appreciating the gifts they get. Every thing is accessible to them so easily that it has no value 😕
@@nichelledemille2856 that no make it any better lmao, still an unnecessary overconsumption
The lack of appreciation from these kids is actually painful to watch. I almost feel embarrassed for them. I actually enjoyed these videos in the past, but I almost feel wrong watching this kind of ridiculousness.
Also, I happen to think, as the twins were tossing gift cards and cash like it was nothing, they are naming who the gifts are from and (probably) these kid's parents are going to see this video and the lack of appreciation.
It's called bad parenting.
I really don’t want this to sound harsh. I really love you and your family, Alicia. The kids seem so happy and well-adjusted. You look joyful with Josh and vice-versa.
I waited till the very end of the video to see if I heard 1 ‘thank you’ from either of the twins.
I waited in vain. No thank-yous offered. Parental intervention needed.
Jason needs to have a chance to blow out the candle!! How mean!
That's absurd, they turn nine, NINE
What should they get when they turn ten, their own SUV?
Hater
Maybe and you are ridiculous hating on kids at their birthday! Grow up
@@bridgettescott7196..I think all comments are directed at the adult not the children!
@@sally_686
@@heathermacdonald5986 well that’s funny when the whole video is about the kids not the adults!! And you act as if that makes it better!! 🤦♀️ like an excuse to hate when you could simply just not watch!! Sooo yeah 🥴
Really the ice truck
Is getting old. They have zero Interest in what is going on
I think the boys needed you to take them wrestling alone with mom and dad, i would reconsider if i was you, one on one time is crucial especially when you have so many kids
It would have been nice if they said Thank you!
They did! Better get hearing aids
Get some Bluetooth ear buds. You can hear
None of the children are grateful except for Patrick, Bree, Dayshawn, and James. The twins are especially prone to snatching things and never saying thank you.
@@Slappyhappy-c8nthey’re 9 years old. Give them a break 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@rekebahlakes7993 thank u for being logical
They don’t even say thankyou
To who? To you watching? Or is their smiling and excitement not enough for you
Hardly excitement when they get these gifts all the time is it. The kids don’t have manners end of
They don't seem like they appreciate their gifts they should be happy
All the work you did and the kids are just like ok. i appreciate you for bringing them an awesome birthday. I see your love. 💗
I love watching your channel , but please , where was a thank you , or genuine smile from your boys , for all the wonderful gifts you both bought them
Teach these kids to say thank you.
i thought it was just me seeing this videos where there was no thank you unless i was wrong. but then im reading the comments so i wasn't wrong. although ive been following this family for some time i still enjoy the contents made especially the shopping haul etc. a simple thank you goes a long way - just saying.
Last year we bought gifts for a little boy who had a broken plastic hanger pretending it was an airplane What you do for your kids is so wrong.
What’s missing in your life ???
why weren't they happy when they opened the WWE tickets !!!!!!!!!!!!?????
they weren't happy with opening any of the gifts other then the PS5.
I think it’s because they wanted to go without all the siblings? They looked bummed when they asked if everyone was coming
@@rebeccak5227 i don't think they really wanted to go. I think Mom and dad wanted to go but had to put it with a blog for them.
they probably would appreciate some individual attention @@geridabooyens5910
I think Alicia had more excitement shopping than the boys had opening all these unnecessary gifts. It’s like she’s trying to buy their Love
The dollar store sells party decorations. You could save a lot of money going there especially since you buy new party decorations for every kids birthday
She doesn't give a crap about saving money she's addicted to spending money that's why the kids are "ungrateful" because they get anything and everything they want.
@@DianeMario-ct9tf bro your not wrong tho lol
wait a minute first of all they was happy none of the others was happy and you guys didnt say anything now jordan and jason get something and your in the comments saying their ungrateful. if they are its not theit fault your taught from a parent to say thank you. i have never seen so many negative comments in none of her videos like i seen now.
I know those kids are from bad situations, but over doing it doesn't make up for more Love and less junk .Cloths ,food and love is all most kids need . I have grandbabies with special needs and they can learn and be a predictive human not intilted.
If you watch their videos You'll see they are far from entitled....all these kids take care of each other and they are in a very loving home!!
I do whatcha her videos, give the kids responsibility for thing and trust they learn . It gives them some control over their lifestyle. I understand the need to update phones ,clothes ,shoes . Have a big party dont over do it.
Mind your own business
@@Indomita506 bump you learn to spell it's mind not ,my. She put out there it free game .!!!! I liked her at first but it's the same stuff every day
@@georgiarollins916 just because she shares tiny bits about their lives that doesn't make you entitled to judge her decisions. Find a better hobby and care about your life
You gotta educate them better they are not thankful not even grateful they were like meh and then a little happy maybe you spoil them so much but i hate their attitude . A thanyyou is the least 😅
Shocked at how much they got. I could not tell if the boys liked their gifts. They opened each gift and just threw it down. Did they like their gifts or not? Did they appreciate their gifts?
These are foster kids. I’m sure they are overwhelmed. It’s a different life then what they are used to. Give them a break
@@katemiller7874they’ve been adopted for years now actually.
I’m sure it’s great having grown strangers judge you for how you open your birthday gifts at 9 years old. If anything, maybe they feel weird being filmed.
Quiet
Happy birthday to the boys though they didn’t seem that excited with all the lovely presents they got xx
They are 9 year old boys.
I agree they didn’t appreciate anything
@@kittykatz3518that’s no excuse at all. At 9 you know to be thankful and appreciative
@@kittykatz3518 even a 2 yo knows how to say thank you when someone gives them something. My son thanks me every single night just for handing him his dinner
@@terriprobst46809yr olds are all so different. So yes being young can be an excuse.
Don’t you have a lot of bag that are left over from other birthday parties just saying
Who cares
Planet earth cares
I recycle all my bags. Even if I go to someone else's party, I ask if they're not gonna save them can I have them lol
Funny out of this whole video that’s all you could comment!! If she bought some new and recycled some y’all would holler why? That’s not fair!! You are showing favoritism so she can’t win with y’all haters and it’s Ridiculous y’all need to grow up or go else where 🙄
@@donnalaplante6589bahahahhaaha 🤦♀️go make a difference in Planet Earth then! So much more to be worried about than these kids birthday bags 🤣
Not appreciative at all
Looks like just the PS5 and accessories is all they wanted truly and were happy with. Goes to show! Dont need to wow factor your kids for views.
You could save all the gift bags you buy for everyone’s birthdays and then reuse them & you wouldn’t have to buy more & save money!
She doesn’t care!
Well that is what I do but then again I am an oldster!!
She could but she looks like she has more money then she knows what to do with so why would she
That’s what I do. We save all our Christmas and birthday bags and reuse them now that my children are married and live on their own and they do the same thing to me. It’s silly to waste money like that what people got to realize you’re not always gonna make money off RUclips and TikTok how many people thought they would, and then all of their views went down and then nobody was sponsoring them anymore not like they used to. They may get a few sponsors, but not as much as they were, so tell me it’s just have a brain and think hey I don’t want to blow this money. I should save when I can but then again she doesn’t shop at Costco or Sam’s Club. Honestly I would think we’re having a big family that was gonna be the one places you’d want to shop with because you’re buying bulk but that’s just my opinion
I’m surprised that you haven’t got a gift wrapping room (Or closet). Imagine the fun you’d have shopping to fill it with supplies!
Perhaps it could be in a recently vacated bedroom?!?!
Very grateful children . They don't even say thank you... I wish i had a mother and aunts uncle grand parents like this. My twin and i never had a birthday party nor a cake it was just another day..Your both were so lucky..And showa like you both don't care..
How much wrapping paper do you need? With all the kids and all the birthdays, what a waste
Ikr she just bought some last week and then again in this video
@@lugv5500it’s almost like she has things to wrap! Wow what a concept
@@lugv5500 she recycles the wrapping paper after it's used just like all the other boxes and paper