Brutally Honest Advice For Musicians Without A Band

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Комментарии • 455

  • @DrumBeatsOnline
    @DrumBeatsOnline  23 дня назад +38

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    • @williamriboulet5798
      @williamriboulet5798 22 дня назад +5

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    • @ch-yq5yn
      @ch-yq5yn 21 день назад +3

      I'd have to argue being good looking helps.

    • @MrDragonWrrg
      @MrDragonWrrg 20 дней назад

      I've applied

    • @joetroutt7425
      @joetroutt7425 10 дней назад

      Is this a re-upload? I have seen this video before.

    • @ProcrastinationsandInterruptio
      @ProcrastinationsandInterruptio 18 часов назад

      I clicked on the link, but its not functioning properly. The page that clicking 'apply' sends me to does not open. I would like to sign up. Is there another way.

  • @yellownoiseclub
    @yellownoiseclub 23 дня назад +406

    this isnt only for drummers

    • @Brandon_Renegade
      @Brandon_Renegade 12 дней назад +24

      Agreed, I'm a 30 year old independent artist that sings, plays guitar and puts out their own music, and I found some value in this, and speaking of him telling us to let others know who we are, my name is Brandon Renegade and I have a new single coming May 31st! 🤘🏻

    • @commodore6430
      @commodore6430 11 дней назад +2

      ​​@@Brandon_RenegadeI hope that your music doesn't go by Your name cause if so forget about it😂

    • @kas36spires
      @kas36spires 10 дней назад +11

      @@commodore6430pretty fun to make fun of other people right?? 😄

    • @commodore6430
      @commodore6430 10 дней назад +4

      @kas36spires I'm not making fun of him but if his music goes by his name, 0 people are gonna be checking it out

    • @lacyshitstane
      @lacyshitstane 10 дней назад +3

      ​@commodore6430 at least hes doing somthing with his life?

  • @alexandreguirous8035
    @alexandreguirous8035 23 дня назад +401

    Your video is about to make me cry because as a 20-year-old drummer, I struggle to break into the "pro" environment. This video is one of the most reassuring things and such a great way to explain how it actually happened. Thank you men.

    • @DrumBeatsOnline
      @DrumBeatsOnline  23 дня назад +40

      it's truly my pleasure 🙏🏽

    • @halowaffles
      @halowaffles 22 дня назад +35

      You're only 20. You have literally the entire world in front of you. Don't worry about where you're currently at - at all - just worry about where you want to go.

    • @boozalm3715
      @boozalm3715 19 дней назад +3

      No tears please. It's a waste of good suffering!

    • @alexandreguirous8035
      @alexandreguirous8035 18 дней назад +3

      ​@@DrumBeatsOnlineThanks a lot for your video and comment ! I'm gearing up to implement your advice on stage this weekend! :)

    • @woody4269
      @woody4269 17 дней назад +4

      ​@alexandreguirous8035 good on ya dude. U got this!! 👊

  • @StoicContrarian
    @StoicContrarian 9 дней назад +57

    11:49 “Failure is not something to avoid it’s something to expect”. Hell yeah Gabe. So true.

    • @eschdaddy
      @eschdaddy 5 дней назад

      Exactly. You learn SSSOOOOoooooo much more from your failures.

  • @metalrock2112
    @metalrock2112 15 дней назад +105

    I love being a hobby drummer, all the fun and non of the downside.

    • @TheDarkside282
      @TheDarkside282 10 дней назад +14

      Damn I'm glad somebody mentioned this☝🏻 Definitely nothing

    • @rockdanger
      @rockdanger 9 дней назад +14

      Being a professional musician is a life of misery... so glad I avoided it.

    • @mikesteelheart
      @mikesteelheart 9 дней назад +16

      Even if you're the best drummer it's not like you'll get paid 5 grand for a show and a bunch of hot girls will chase you. Since the 90's and 00's any kind of measurable rewards for being a pro musician beyond personal satisfaction just aren't there anymore... People just care about the latest trendy music video on their phone or discussing the classics like The Beatles.

    • @trophyscene5015
      @trophyscene5015 9 дней назад +8

      My reason for becoming a drummer is probably the most wack out of everyone here lol. I used to play the video game Guitar Hero and Rock Band and eventually they stopped releasing ROCK music for the games - go figure right?... so in order to play the genre I wanted on the drums, I actually had to learn the songs myself on a real drumset (which I already purchased, but never played - maybe once a month, if that..). I'm actually glad those weirdos at Harmonix started putting nothing but pop and rap music in the game permanently, otherwise I would have continued to put off learning the real thing. Now I can play lots of rock and metal songs IRL, and haven't returned to that particular video game in over 7 years.

    • @walterdeminicis737
      @walterdeminicis737 7 дней назад +2

      I can't think of being able to dedicate only spare time to music, considering spare time get smaller over time until retirement, where you finally get it back.

  • @JasonMcLemore
    @JasonMcLemore 23 дня назад +76

    If I can give some advice here to the younger musicians. Decide what you TRULY want: a pro music career or a family. There is nothing wrong with either choice. But If you try to do both, you best have a partner who fully supports your goals as a musician and the sacrifices/time/work it will take. Because I can guarantee that if they're not fully onboard and encourage you with support... your goals will be derailed. I am living this and so have other friends of mine. Now I'm divorced, 45 y/o with 3 kids and my time between my job and my kids activities is extremely limited. I still play in church and have for years, but I tried starting up a band recently and the time commitment was burning me out and I had to step away. My responsibilities and priorities have shifted. To those of you who managed to make it work by being a pro musician AND a family man, congrats. Thankfully, I have my own home and my kit is set up in my living room and I can play whenever I want.

    • @mallagallabumbum8209
      @mallagallabumbum8209 21 день назад +2

      You don't have to do everything at once. As a guy, you can concentrate on your music career until your 35. If it worked out, awesome. If it didn't work out, you can still shift careers and start a familt either waty. As a girl its a kittle more difficult, but not impossible.

    • @mallagallabumbum8209
      @mallagallabumbum8209 21 день назад +5

      Also, finding a partner who is equally invested in their career, what ever it is, is a good idea anyways. Driven people fit well together

    • @trophyscene5015
      @trophyscene5015 9 дней назад

      @@mallagallabumbum8209 exactly. The majority of bands I like have done both with no problems. As long as you start playing in a band as a teenager, you'll have plenty of time for the whole "famous band" experience AND becoming a family man when hitting the mid 30s. In fact Ben of Asking Alexandria just left this year to do exactly that, and they have had a wonderful and fulfilling career up to this point. Benjamin of Breaking Benjamin even brings his son to his shows and has him come out on stage these days, there's PLENTY of ways to make it work.
      It's usually the women musicians who retire for good or at least for much longer since a mother can't leave her newborn AT ALL. It took nearly 10 years for Evanescence to start going on tour again after she raised her kid/s.

    • @YUNAsLoveT
      @YUNAsLoveT 9 дней назад +2

      Well, I guess Kory and John from Skillet did it - I guess it work when both are musicians in the same band. Though their guitarist is married also

  • @Potatoes730
    @Potatoes730 9 дней назад +81

    I did some version of these steps from 2015-2020. Moved to Boston from my hometown because I was drinking myself to death while following a ‘normal’ career path. In Boston became a street musician (guitar, electric bass) and essentially ‘got paid to practice.’ Bought an upright bass and learned it on the street. Made friends with local musicians, found a mentor, formed a few bands, played gigs, and finally got to the point where I didn’t have to work rideshare or Amazon flex. Just 2-3 gigs a week and a handful of lessons covered my rent and discretionary spending.
    That was February 2020.
    Then it all ended during lockdowns. Some bandmates moved out of state, others had children, a few others sold their instruments and gave up. I haven’t really gigged more than 3-4 times since covid. Sad.
    But this video really inspired me. To get back on the horse. I’m 34 years old, I ain’t dead yet lol.
    Thanks so much for sharing your experiences 🙏

    • @eduardoaugusto1549
      @eduardoaugusto1549 8 дней назад +2

      man, your story is inspiring. i really hope you pick it up again

    • @Potatoes730
      @Potatoes730 8 дней назад +1

      @@eduardoaugusto1549 thanks for the kind words, brother. I intend to.

    • @nickhall_music
      @nickhall_music 7 дней назад +1

      I play music in the Boston area what type of stuff are into?

    • @matao33
      @matao33 6 дней назад +1

      Man, you inspired ME! I'm also 34 y/o.

    • @Potatoes730
      @Potatoes730 6 дней назад +1

      @@matao33 keep hope alive!

  • @matthewwolf2054
    @matthewwolf2054 12 дней назад +99

    Retired military, now actively pursuing music. There are nuggets of truth in your video. Thank you.

    • @walidelaref881
      @walidelaref881 9 дней назад +2

      Goodluck 👍🏻

    • @SmokeWithMeInCT
      @SmokeWithMeInCT 8 дней назад +1

      So you mean the entire video .

    • @juanmoralesvideo
      @juanmoralesvideo 8 дней назад

      I don't know man, but y guess that what you have learned in your military career will get you there. Please come back to this comment and tell me 'you where right' when you are in your first tour with your band (I'm sure you will make it happen). My ego with be happy.

  • @krypttt
    @krypttt 22 дня назад +144

    thankyou so much gabe, im 16, have ADHD and Autism and ive been a drummer for 4 years. my teacher quit after covid and i recently picked the sticks back up, then i realised i have to become a professional drummer because i have failed my exams in school and drumming is the only thing i can do without losing interest or becoming distracted. i wanted to just join a band straight away but this video seriously made me realise i need to focus on mastering every part of the kit before i try to do anything else. im going to become a professional drummer, i promise, and when i do, i will come back to this video.

    • @user-ff3bl7bg4k
      @user-ff3bl7bg4k 22 дня назад +6

      you got it mate. We are both in the same boat

    • @boozalm3715
      @boozalm3715 19 дней назад

      There is literally no point adding that you have ADHD and Autism to your comment

    • @jag-stang29
      @jag-stang29 15 дней назад +1

      are we the same person?

    • @AFRoSHEENT3ARCMICHAEL69
      @AFRoSHEENT3ARCMICHAEL69 13 дней назад +2

      Man you better stay in school. Unless you're on the level of Aric Improta or Mario from Gojira. Then I would sacrifice everything and go for drumming. Truth is is no a days you got people becoming producers and are great at at least 2 or 3 instruments and can put entire songs together. To at least demo form.

    • @smuella
      @smuella 13 дней назад +5

      Better start gigging locally at the same time, there's so much to learn. Don't wait until you're perfect but push the different aspects at the same time, otherwise you'll never really get started. Good luck!

  • @matthewsilva8617
    @matthewsilva8617 9 дней назад +16

    As a sewer worker with a music degree..this is great advice. I see many bands who aren’t necessarily the most talented, they just never stopped.

  • @broncoxy
    @broncoxy 10 дней назад +37

    I'm not a drummer (for the benefit of everyone involved lmao) but a guitarist (sometimes try myself at bass aswell) and I resonated _a lot_ with this video.
    I've been playing guitar more or less forever, but my actual _life_ never was really built towards the goal of playing music, being a musician. Now, after years of uni, doing something I don't like at all and just somewhat passing seemingly easy exams by forcing myself to do it and feeling myself die inside every single day I spend on this, I realized that I will probably never be happy in my life with anything else than playing music.
    It's hard to get started, I feel like I wasted so much time and potential already, but videos like yours make me not give up and fill me with renewed energy and motivation. Thank you!

    • @Hilaire_Balrog
      @Hilaire_Balrog 8 дней назад +4

      "I will probably never be happy in my life with anything else than playing music. " Dude, I am 54 and just now realizing this. Props to you and keep heart!

    • @kormendymatyas8667
      @kormendymatyas8667 8 дней назад +2

      we are the same person

    • @broncoxy
      @broncoxy 8 дней назад

      @@Hilaire_Balrog 30 years younger and I'll try my best ^^

  • @henkemusic3674
    @henkemusic3674 23 дня назад +33

    What a great day to post it, Gabe. I'm having a shit day, I was not thinking of giving up but dude... sometimes it is so frustrating that it makes me question why I have to like such a difficult profession to pursue.

    • @DrumBeatsOnline
      @DrumBeatsOnline  23 дня назад +1

      I've been there my friend. Keep pushing forward

  • @deanrobertnoble138
    @deanrobertnoble138 9 дней назад +8

    There are many ways to be successful in music. It’s not always possible for us all to be playing to 50,000 people in stadiums. As a guitarist, i have played in bands, done sessions, played in orchestra pits for shows, lots of teaching etc. Thing is, i have not done anything else for 35 years. Music is my profession and my life. There are ways to be in and around music that diverse and varied.
    I found that acquiring a wealth of skils was the key to working constantly. Learn to read…..helps a lot for depping, shows, sessions. Be reliable and easy to work with; no ego. Skills around teaching and imparting knowledge help for day to day earning.
    Great video; thanks.

  • @BMTH-FAN
    @BMTH-FAN 23 дня назад +39

    Finally I see a video the day it drops

  • @iamtheiconoclast3
    @iamtheiconoclast3 9 дней назад +6

    As an entrepreneur, not a musician, I assure you that everything in this video has application outside of music as well. This is just all around great advice for unorthodox careers, and it's exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thanks!

  • @mopeygoff
    @mopeygoff 21 день назад +11

    Man, this is just straight up good life advice, not just for pro musicians. Put yourself out there. Get outside your comfort zone. Look at failure as learning experiences, not failures. Stuff like that. And it applies to all musicians, not just drummers.
    I went to an "arts" school for high school and of course had the shitty garage band experience as a vocalist and guitar player. Some of my classmates went on to form a couple huge 90s/early 00s stadium bands I am sure people have heard of (and I won't mention). I admit 30 years later I sometimes daydream of what would happen if I didn't hang up my mic and guitars for the relative safety and security of a well paying, comfortable career that doesn't involve music. Now that my kids are grown and mostly off on their own, my wife has been encouraging me to explore getting back into the scene again. I admit it's tempting but at the same time I feel like it's a young man's game. So I don't know...

    • @dav2145
      @dav2145 19 дней назад

      Go for it if that is what inspires you to be creative and it is healthy for you. Enjoying and being a part of music is for all ages.

    • @malthevinther2029
      @malthevinther2029 9 дней назад +1

      Go for it man, age shouldn't be the thing stopping you. There is music for all ages, all kinds of people and so many different genres. You've even got your wife's encouragement and not everybody has that.
      Get as clear as possible on what YOU would like to do with music, and then see what feasible steps you can take towards that in your current environment and life situation. And then build from there.
      The above video has all the information you need, and you don't need to go full-on pro and dedicate your entire life to it if you don't want to. I do it part-time myself, with no intention of ever going full-time, and I'm happy with it.

  • @JoeyRam.
    @JoeyRam. 22 дня назад +18

    #2 hits me in the liver. I'm going to be lethargic for a few days, reorganizing my self. In this video you were like my conscience giving the one follow up or falling off advice to success. Can't be more thankful 🙏 to you Gabe, million thanks for always be.
    🤘🏻🥁🤘🏻

  • @davecooper360
    @davecooper360 9 дней назад +5

    As a guitarist I feel I've been really lucky. I started playing at age 12 and by age 20 I was playing out in cover bands every weekend and have been ever since. I think I did well because I could sing harmonies really and I learned 100s and 100s of songs... rock, metal, 70s, 80s, country... all the hits. I've found audiences usually respond well to the tired old classics "Mustang Sally" "Old Time Rock n Roll" "Keep Your Hands to Yourself" A lot of musicians would hate it but I don't mind. I just feel lucky to earn money playing. Basically I went the cover band weekend warrior route and it's been great. Not for everyone though.

  • @daleoz6439
    @daleoz6439 22 дня назад +15

    If only I saw this video when I was 20yrs old I might have stuck at it and kept drumming! Now I’m in my 40s, relearning on DBO academy and hoping I can still achieve a small goal of playing in a band one day. Great video and gives me a lot to think about!

    • @MarinheirodeSegundaViagem
      @MarinheirodeSegundaViagem 21 день назад +1

      dont give up!

    • @BalezinD
      @BalezinD 12 дней назад +1

      Same here

    • @ananda_miaoyin
      @ananda_miaoyin 9 дней назад +1

      Same here but with the guitar. Now that I am retired and in my 40's, I find my self playing Rocksmith and remembering the old stuff I did when I was a teenager. Always wanted to front a metal band.
      After a lifetime of military, family and businesses....all I want to do now is front a metal band!

    • @breakthroughpropertymanagement
      @breakthroughpropertymanagement 9 дней назад +1

      I'm 43, and this just makes me want to start a band right now. I think I'm going to actually reach out. Thank you buddy!

    • @ananda_miaoyin
      @ananda_miaoyin 8 дней назад

      @@breakthroughpropertymanagement Hell, yeah!

  • @RobCartwright
    @RobCartwright Час назад

    Though I'm semi-retired as a drummer now, like Gabe, I toured for around 12 years. To go along with Step 4 in Gabe's plan, the best piece of advice I ever got when starting out was from legendary country drummer, Chris McHugh. He said "Play with everyone and never turned down a gig."

  • @86AMac
    @86AMac 22 дня назад +5

    this was exactly what I needed to hear! very much appreciate the SOLID advice in your videos. 🤘🏼

  • @youknodavibes9601
    @youknodavibes9601 16 дней назад +4

    wow, love this side of Gabe. truly authentic and clearly resonated with so many people. thanks dude

  • @chadhiggins9944
    @chadhiggins9944 12 дней назад +8

    This is some of the best wisdom and advice for musicians on the Internet.
    Thanks Gabe!

  • @ShiprockedDave
    @ShiprockedDave 23 дня назад +9

    Man this hits close to home. I started out drumming at the age of 10 in beginner band, marched druimline in high school, drummed on scholarship in college, and got undergrad and graduate degrees in business. I am basically the "insurance guy" you talk about. I have a great VP level job and am able to go do fun things like go on Shiprocked every year. What I love to do most, as I recently realized, is get behind my kit and work on songs, go to shows, and watch videos like you produce. Glad you stuck with it and are living your dream. You did it the right way. Keep these vids coming. They are awesome. Will see you guys from the pit in ATL on 7/31.

  • @jaimeortizrocks
    @jaimeortizrocks 8 дней назад

    Thank you! I needed this video. I keep telling myself not to give up. But it feels like an endless journey of getting nowhere no matter how much I try. This gives me reassurance that I’m on the right path.

  • @Zionist_Eternal
    @Zionist_Eternal 6 дней назад +1

    This is so true. I did everything exactly as you have laid out except...
    I quit and walked away, but only after success. The reason was simple:
    The party became the focus, the priority. The choice became, "Quit or Die."
    I'm still around and do not regret moving on.

  • @lobbyrobby
    @lobbyrobby 22 дня назад +7

    I've been learning for about 6 months now. I'm in my 40's and have no plan on being in a band or anything like that. I just started playing for the fun of it. Now 2 things have happened. 1. I have a desire to become an amazing drummer. 2. I now realize to become that person takes a whole lot of practice and dedication. It's hard to find the time to put the work in on the kit when I'm super busy in life itself. I might not become that amazing drummer I want but everyday I get better. That's a win in life for me

    • @ananda_miaoyin
      @ananda_miaoyin 9 дней назад +2

      Even if it never really goes anywhere, you are writing the karma for your next life.
      This is how people seem to be born with talent...you can be one too if you want to come back.

  • @LevWaxScreams
    @LevWaxScreams 6 дней назад +1

    I thought how cool it was to get insight without him selling anything and then bam the sales pitch at the end lol. Well done I listened to the whole thing.

  • @julianandreaswiggins5756
    @julianandreaswiggins5756 22 дня назад +3

    When I was 19 just graduated from high school and I never did any of this stuff, I didn’t have anyone in my corner to help me out. Now that I’m 34 years old, I play for my church in Newport News, Virginia and I am loving it. I do want to play in stage band still. Trying to get there now. I’m still learning alot about myself on drums.

  • @lucaswedderburn4789
    @lucaswedderburn4789 22 дня назад +2

    This is awesome! Was talking to my co worker who is a fellow musician, I’m going to be writing drums for a couple songs she’s working on. She’s been in the music scene way longer than me, she knows a list of musicians and friends along the road. She motivates me to keep going and get out of my comfort zone and vice versa. Gotta stay focused guys, be hard on yourself but don’t get down on yourself. I told myself I’d never quit, everyone who’s close to me knows how much this means to me ever since I picked up the sticks. Nothing is impossible, I can’t get down on myself for starting at 20 when others have been playing their whole life. That’s just motivation to keep pushing harder and work long hours(still got to be quality hours though lol)

  • @johnnynot2x481
    @johnnynot2x481 9 дней назад

    I love that I have been following these steps without even realizing it. Keeping an open mind has opened some doors to just play. All I want to do is play play play and I wont stop. I really needed to watch this video and I am glad I did.

  • @BusinessEngineered
    @BusinessEngineered 12 дней назад +6

    Digging the Alex Hormozi-esque title man! Fantastic video! Much love from an Inner Circle Lifetime member 🤘🏻

  • @trvpsquad5585
    @trvpsquad5585 22 дня назад +3

    These have become my favorite videos on the internet! 🙏 thank you!

  • @KrispyKrome
    @KrispyKrome 21 день назад +3

    I’m 14 years old, been playing for 3 years, and I want to start showing my talent into the world, so thank you Gabe for this advice

  • @tripldigitz
    @tripldigitz 23 дня назад +2

    thank you for this video, I'm glad you emphasize that living a fulfilling life is far more important than money

  • @KrystofDreamJourney
    @KrystofDreamJourney 9 дней назад +1

    I am an established pianist/organist/composer with 25 years of career on stage and in media.
    EVERYTHING you say here applies pretty much to ALL instruments, all starting musicians. Similarity is striking, and a path to professionalism is almost identical to not only mine, but pretty much every musician I know (including famously recognized ones).
    You explain a brutal truth to all aspiring artists, relevant anytime, but especially these days - 2024…
    Bravo !

  • @renotorrisi6025
    @renotorrisi6025 22 дня назад +2

    Last night I had a graceful, hypothetical punch right in the face, rather, a wake up call. Playing live is well and good, but that is a portion of what is required to endeavour the journey of a pro drummer. This caused me to look up and research what I need to do other than perform. This video popped up on my RUclips feed this morning.
    Thanks Gabe 🙌

  • @brianwhite6600
    @brianwhite6600 9 дней назад

    Man, this just happened across my feed. I remember jamming/serving with you in my Kensington days. Cool to see how far you’ve come. Well done, sir! 🤙🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻

  • @tangyspice5352
    @tangyspice5352 3 дня назад +1

    I just said yes to an offer that is pretty difficult to handle right now, I hope it's worth it.

  • @TimHausteinDrums
    @TimHausteinDrums 18 дней назад +1

    Thank you for this video 🙏This was a huge Inspiration. Thank you for sharing your experiences in that way this is very valuable.

  • @woot1404
    @woot1404 8 дней назад

    The amount of profound TRUTH in this video, NOT TO MENTION how succinctly it was phrased, is GOLD. Thank you for sharing this. And for the motivation.

  • @snarecat3441
    @snarecat3441 8 дней назад

    I enjoyed hearing about your journey & the real story ..
    the undeniable hard work and the refusal to “ quit” makes you worthy of big success congratulations on your success !🥁 if those close to you are still there after their sacrifices congrats to them as well!

  • @nicolelabarca2312
    @nicolelabarca2312 17 дней назад +1

    This was really helpful, I realized Im much closer to the goal than I realized I just have to keep pushing and not give up

  • @AF99499
    @AF99499 12 дней назад +1

    Watching this has made me even more stoked and excited that come August I'll be able to play my drums for the first time in like 3-4 years

  • @josephneilhimself
    @josephneilhimself 9 дней назад

    This is spot on! Thanks for the video

  • @weltenschmerz
    @weltenschmerz 17 дней назад +2

    4:52 The will to do everything for a goal, especially longer then its comfortable is the hardest thing to learn, but the most important

  • @guitarwalljams
    @guitarwalljams 7 дней назад

    Man this video is so good! And applies not only drummers but all musicians. Thanks

  • @Twiggy_D
    @Twiggy_D 23 дня назад +36

    The title of the video seems very targeted due to the fact I was just talking to my friend about starting a band 😂😂😂

    • @infernas
      @infernas 23 дня назад +1

      Shhh... Your phone is listening... 😂

    • @Twiggy_D
      @Twiggy_D 23 дня назад

      @@infernas 😂

    • @musicsucks5843
      @musicsucks5843 22 дня назад +2

      He’s in your walls

    • @johnbrown1851
      @johnbrown1851 5 дней назад +1

      Your phone is spying on you maybe??? 🧐😂

  • @woody4269
    @woody4269 17 дней назад +2

    This is definitely one of, if not , the best vid youve done Gabe. Thank u 🍻

  • @booyamuthafukaahs
    @booyamuthafukaahs 23 дня назад +3

    Thanks Gabe. I am incredibley grateful for your videos.

  • @ShawnKepner_YouTube
    @ShawnKepner_YouTube 10 дней назад +6

    Most great musicians don’t “make it” because of situational factors beyond one’s control - being at the right place at the right time. I’ve been a pro level drummer for decades but never was at the right time or place for the breakthrough moment. You play music for the love of it, not to make it big.

  • @kermitdafrogisback
    @kermitdafrogisback 23 дня назад +5

    Another informative video. That takes us into your life as a drummer. And giving us all the best information to help us all do better in life. Make sure you all get on the list everyone. Gabe is an amazing teacher. And you have lots of help when needed. From the others in the program. And can make tons of cool friends. Hope to see you all there. DBO FOR LIFE.

  • @Rockin.Bakken
    @Rockin.Bakken 5 дней назад

    The quality & advice of your videos are astounding 🌟

  • @iancaster6971
    @iancaster6971 День назад

    This is a great advice, thanks for sharing.

  • @rodrigocampo9014
    @rodrigocampo9014 10 дней назад +2

    This is amazing, thanks a lot 🙏

  • @stevenfederico2594
    @stevenfederico2594 21 день назад +4

    Thank you. I find it truly amazing that musicians with your skill level. Actually take time out of their life to produce content such as this and try to give back so much you could easily go about your life. Be a rockstar continue to progress make money teaching, but you don’t you genuinely seem to care and try to help other people and to me that is more admirable than anything you could achieve professionally, so thank you. This was one of the most helpful videos I have ever seen.

    • @rockdanger
      @rockdanger 9 дней назад +1

      Lol, he's try to make money off youtube cuz being a pro musician ain't all it is cracked up to be.

  • @jamescalvey5273
    @jamescalvey5273 13 дней назад +1

    You deserve all of your success well done dude 👏

  • @NotGoodEnoughTheory
    @NotGoodEnoughTheory 9 дней назад +3

    As a in home recording artist…
    Even if you dedicate your life from the age of seven to music and becoming a musician by definition alone without the success even when you’re doing it all by yourself, it revolves against you….
    The writing process is more important than anything you’re ever going to learn…
    Story Boarding the entire auditorial illustration by hand and premeditating how the song will be constructed from beginning to end with everything you want in it so that all of the music caters to the theme and illustration is key…
    When I first started…
    My instrumentals were all over the place in different worlds and there was no sense of direction or a one way to do this every time deal….
    It was easier for me to write a five page essay on a book report than to write a song.
    But, book reports were a strong point for me.
    So,
    I created a writing process centered around college papers.
    The idea came from Danny Elfman who composed many scores for Tim Burton films and as I watched his performance with these major motion pictures I had this idea.
    Why not write a motion picture to illustrate with audio and center all of the focus on illustrating an auditorial Painting meant to cater to the visual of it all…
    Every note, bend, hook, and sound would then cater to the theoretical music video….
    Nothing would be out of place or out of key…
    Or out of time signature, bpm, etc.
    It would all fit the mood of the vision…
    And then create mumble tracks for the vocals that I would then replace with lyrics and vocals that too would cater to the story boards….
    It took me 15 years to pull my head out of my butt to realize that…
    Even then….
    Economy stands in my way, oral health problems stand in my way, social justice stands in my way, Americas baggage and personal problems stand in my way….
    And it’s like…
    I have to wait until the stars to align for everything to get out of my way….
    From a lymph node issue due to wisdom tooth removal…
    To arrogant people refusing me employment opportunities to fund my home studio…
    Luck seems to be a thing for those given permission from a higher power….
    Luck seems to have a personal problem with me.

    • @sidalientv
      @sidalientv 9 дней назад

      ..
      Not only for you. I posted one comment above resuming my experience. Talent, loads of creativity, enthusiasm, etc are very important but along the way there are myriads of sharp stones waiting for us. And like I use to say, it is not really difficult to "get there". The difficulty is "stay there".

  • @unclerhombus
    @unclerhombus 12 дней назад +11

    This entire video is a commercial for his program.

    • @davidlong6575
      @davidlong6575 4 дня назад +1

      People gotta make money
      Good for him

    • @markdaniels7174
      @markdaniels7174 4 дня назад

      Thanks. I’m 4 minutes in, but I’ll stop now, before his sales pitch.

    • @itoshisae9323
      @itoshisae9323 День назад

      You are wrong bro.

  • @anthonylabarbera5906
    @anthonylabarbera5906 9 дней назад

    Solid advice that I think applies to any up and coming musician drummer or not. I am a bassist and found great value in your words. Thank you

  • @matthewleos71
    @matthewleos71 День назад

    Thank you I NEEDED this

  • @spenceman62
    @spenceman62 5 дней назад

    Nobody talks about this!!!!!! Thanks dude fellow drummer graduated musician’s institute!

  • @IroquoisPliskin2000
    @IroquoisPliskin2000 9 дней назад

    It's fun to notice that literally everything you said applies to every other career. I have a pretty solid IT career and after 17 years coding, highs and lows here and there, I relate to every single step you mentioned at some point of my life. This is true gold career advice

  • @jobidrumkenobi
    @jobidrumkenobi 13 дней назад +1

    A worthwhile video for young players. Cheers.

  • @iam5k2
    @iam5k2 23 дня назад +8

    Do a history about I Prevail. I'd watch

  • @Blottski
    @Blottski 9 дней назад

    So thankful for this video. This can be applicable to any goal in life I feel. I’m currently stuck between that path of wanting to become a great guitar player and have a band and pursuing a marketing career path. Sometimes I wonder why I don’t combine both passions and follow the music career path more but I have put up obstacles in my mind and life and whatnot but this video makes me want to try again.

  • @KeithRobTV
    @KeithRobTV 9 дней назад

    This is very interesting to watch, because I’m a vocalist/guitarist in a band looking for a metal drummer as serious as me…..sometimes I feel like giving up and going solo, but being a solo artist will never replace that feeling of playing in a band. When I drop new covers and songs I’m going to spend the rest of this year finding this drummer!

  • @reggtop
    @reggtop 10 дней назад

    GREAT ADVICE YOUNG MAN YOU GIF TO PLAY THSTS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING

  • @Brandon_Renegade
    @Brandon_Renegade 12 дней назад +1

    These lessons apply not only to Drummers but even Independent singer-songwriter musicians like myself, my go to will always be rock & Metal, but I am influenced by so much more.

  • @hbvfalcons
    @hbvfalcons 22 дня назад +1

    Looking forward to see you and the band seeing live at Afas on the 19th.

  • @Rebel-zw5hv
    @Rebel-zw5hv 8 дней назад

    I’m a guitarist and this video is so helpful and applicable to all musicians trying to move forward down a professional career path

  • @yentldoggendrums
    @yentldoggendrums 22 дня назад +2

    Great video!

  • @stefancolberg2966
    @stefancolberg2966 23 дня назад +3

    Thanks Gabe. Been watching you since you played in a closet and its honestly wild how far you've come. Needed the inspiration✊️

  • @michaeljoedeal8686
    @michaeljoedeal8686 8 дней назад

    Excellent advice!

  • @tishcortez3716
    @tishcortez3716 8 дней назад

    Thank you so much for this video.

  • @zamyers
    @zamyers 12 дней назад +1

    Killer advice and great content bro!

  • @mattkraig
    @mattkraig 12 дней назад +1

    Side note as a fellow content creator, the previews before each ad break is chefs kiss, haha

  • @zippyplaysdrums2756
    @zippyplaysdrums2756 22 дня назад +1

    One of the things you mentioned about the internet is so funny to me. Cos a fb group is exactly how I found my bands current bassist and one of the guitarists, I got tagged in a post they were looking for a band. And at the time I didn’t need them to join my band but I was happy to play music with a second group and get myself out there. Eventually, we had to part ways with two instrumentalists in my band, so I suggested a merger, and now they’re in a band with me and the remaining members of my other band. All about networking no matter what

  • @benditimar
    @benditimar 15 дней назад

    Very useful and motivating video bro.

  • @tattoobillyband7725
    @tattoobillyband7725 4 дня назад +1

    Great video subbed

  • @nikol7951
    @nikol7951 8 дней назад

    Wow, awesome advice not just for musicians, but for anyone who has passions in life that they want to succeed in. Thank you.

  • @TyrannyStudios
    @TyrannyStudios 8 дней назад

    What a killer video. Thank you.

  • @akimbo.1887
    @akimbo.1887 21 день назад +1

    Thanks for the reminder to build a noise isolation platform. My Roland kit has been staring at me for months.

  • @user-ol6sz5dm7b
    @user-ol6sz5dm7b 15 дней назад +1

    Hey Gabe, huge fan of both yourself & i prevail! Love the videos mate! Wanting to pickup Drumming on and off for a few years, always enjoyed tapping along to drums in songs "air drumming" almost. Your POV videos have inspired me to want to actually learn. What drum set(s) would you recommend for beginners, looking to play seriously.

  • @rockboy360
    @rockboy360 10 дней назад +8

    The most important thing is don't wait on others, START YOUR OWN BAND AND WRITE YOUR OWN SONGS AND LEARN TO PRODUCE.

  • @jameslabriola8761
    @jameslabriola8761 23 дня назад +2

    amazing video!

  • @LedWolf7
    @LedWolf7 8 дней назад +1

    Another great place to start is an open mic, one day I was bored with just being at home and just packed up a small drum set and just offered to be a house drummer, after the first couple of songs, others were happy to keep me playing.
    Most of the songs I played I had never heard before so it helps you learn new music and pay attention to who you’re playing with. Be dynamic. Make room for vocals. Don’t be too flashy and everyone will want to play with you. I play multiple open mics with hundreds of different acts and 90% of them enjoyed playing with me or asked me to join their band or go in the studio. Have fun

    • @stevehartwell1861
      @stevehartwell1861 7 дней назад +1

      Have played open mic with a decent drummer. He made the show better....

  • @Michael-F4ul5kzbuck
    @Michael-F4ul5kzbuck 9 дней назад

    this advice is so true its making my heart beat faster....

  • @Nadav_Zaidman
    @Nadav_Zaidman 22 дня назад +2

    As a partially touring vocalist, i can also relate to those tips 🔥

  • @oldguy9078
    @oldguy9078 4 дня назад

    Just happen to come across your video clicked on it and watched. This is my story stated loving music at about 6 or 7 my Dad gave me a record player and listened to records each and every day. In 1964 saw the Beatles on Ed Sullivan and a light went off in my head that was what I wanted to be. Formed a band in high school played drums. Played for free at birthdays or anywhere we could play. As time went on we got better and being lucky living in a small college town started playing at frat houses for parties got better and played on many colleges campuses. Time changes everything members left for real jobs some got married. Stayed with the dream and formed another band played festivals and opened for a few big named acts. Managed to get into a studio and laid down six tracks on our first album. Suddenly got my draft notice others in the band graduated from college and that ended us. After getting out of the military I got married and started a family became a police officer for 30 years but never forgot my dream. I still have my drums and the dream is still strong but I have reached the age I realize the dream is just not going to come true. I would not give up what I have or my family for any fame or fortune but the thought is always in the back of my mind.

  • @immanuelcalunod8518
    @immanuelcalunod8518 9 дней назад

    Because of this channel, my path is clearer now. Still in step 1 (and 3) but at least I know what to work on. Hard for me since I'm also a full-time college teacher. 😅

  • @anthonywritesfantasy
    @anthonywritesfantasy 6 дней назад

    This is an awesome video!

  • @russellloganmusic5023
    @russellloganmusic5023 8 дней назад

    Such good advice for all musicians

  • @tommyron
    @tommyron 9 дней назад +1

    My goal in my teens was to compose and arrange music professionally. I can say with confidence that your advice/video is 100% applicable to success in that arena and probably most other instruments. You really summed it up in 15 minutes and I encourage any young player here to take your advice very seriously by adapting it to their own situation. Great job. PS: I am also a drummer.

  • @inber
    @inber 7 дней назад

    Great video! I think most musicians could benefit from these advice given here.

  • @witszk9300
    @witszk9300 6 дней назад

    This is the best material I have seen in a long time. I was drumming from 2003 to 2014. I was dreaming of drumming semi pro, and finally 40+ gigs but never made it huge. Thanks to playing music I have wonderful memories and met many fantastic people. I think I lacked skills to climb into next level and was too scared to make an audition to better bands even though I had some opportunities - or to elevate bands that I was playing with. I was not training regularly. Later I realized that and learned to play with metronome, worked on the arrangements, but damn, you really have to excercise everyday and you need to know what to do. The band is as good as its drummer. The key for me is also to be easygoing, likeable person, because some musicians are douches, and you really need to get along with some of them :) I had some issues, and it was also my fault, so hide your ego.

  • @nokia-gm8gv
    @nokia-gm8gv 21 день назад +1

    nice that you make videos like that cuz it is actually how it goes for musicians, and then there is lars instantly landing on metallica xd, anywyas drumming s fun

  • @mattkraig
    @mattkraig 12 дней назад +2

    Looking at this from a vocalists perspective 🖤

  • @Hillbillypunk
    @Hillbillypunk 7 дней назад

    I played drums in a band I didn't even like for about 6 years. They were my friends of mine, they needed a drummer, I play drums.
    As a drummer, doesn't matter what the song is, you just gotta be versatile.

  • @sleepyjack7433
    @sleepyjack7433 7 дней назад

    It’s too late for me, but I just wanted to thank you on behalf of future musicians for taking the time to put this together. I wish I had seen it when I was 15-25.